Go to surfshark.deals/JammiDodger - Enter promo code JammiDodger for 83% off and 1 extra month free! My partner Shaaba reacts to some of the anti-trans comments people leave on my videos!
Jammi will never be a woman. He is a man. Nothing will ever change that. Facts don't care about your feelings. No, but seriously, trans rights. You're all valid!
"if you still have dysphoria it proves you mutilated your body for no reason" is pretty much the same as "if you still have depression it proves you're taking medication and going to therapy for no reason" Just because something isn't an exact cure, doesn't mean it's not immensely helpful
Amanda Stinnett people saying that tend not to believe that mental illness is real. An analogy that might hit closer to home for them is “if you still have diabetes it proves you’re taking insulin for no reason”
If you still have a broken leg/broken arm/broken neck then the crutches/sling/wheelchair are for no reason. Why not hit em where it hurts the most, huh?
AReallyCoolRat Actually, I think it was fine the first time. “You’ll never be a woman if you’re a man” seems pretty accurate to me. Trans women aren’t men so it doesn’t make sense to say “an exception for trans women”, lmao
Does the second comment not know that cis women also have testosterone in their bodies? It’s the reason why some cis women grow facial hair. I’m not even a biology expert and I knew that.
Everyone got testosterone AND estrogen, and the people who get disrespected for wanting more of the one they have less of really need a boost in dopamine or serotonin I think, that’s just my understanding of hormones and shit don’t @ me ฅ^•ﻌ•^ฅ So yeah trans rights
@@doomsins Yeah. There's also hormonal conditions. For example: "Polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS) is a hormonal disorder common among women of reproductive age." My mom has it and she has a little more testosterone. I may have it too (Which is good for me lol)
I love it so much when transphobes confuse trans guys for trans women, and accidently confirm how masculine and male the trans guys are Edit: look I love y'all and I love to have a civil debate in comment sections, but I don't really like getting hate comments and having to constantly defend myself against transphobes who don't even want to listen to what I have to say. And my notifs are going crazy so if y'all could stop arguing it'd be great.
I think it is because they believe whole heartedly that they can always "tell" when a person is trans. So the idea of a really truly masculine trans guy or a really truly feminine trans woman that doesn't immediately read as trans doesn't even occur to them.
"You could only ever be a guy pretending to be a woman!" - Actually yeah. Had he not transitioned, he'd have remained a guy pretending to be a woman. That sort of sums up the pre-transition experience pretty well. Kudos transphobe, you managed to be accidentally correct.
A woman is a woman, a man is a man, A non-binary person is a non-binary person, a trans woman is a woman, a trans man is a man, And why can’t everyone love Each other? 🖤🤎❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🤍
I don't understand the "God didn't made you a man" argument. Like, maybe God made him to be trans in the same way that God makes caterpillars to be butterflies. I don't believe in God, I just wanted to find a way to say "baby caterpillar Jammi".
@Abigail Fite yeah, but I don't get their logic. I mean, the bible said to treat your neighbours (aka everyone) equally and transphobic Christian (not all Christians) are using the Bible to justify hate. Also, the bible said that God makes no mistakes and that people were created in God's image, and trans people are still people, so their logic don't make sense lol
Everytime people bring up reproduction to justify their transphobia or homophobia I think of the bo burnham song from gods perspective, particularly the line where he says "I sent gays to fix overpopulation and boy, did that go well"
YESSS there is literally no risk of there not being enough humans being born, because of LGBTQ+ people or any other reason. 1) gay couples can still have kids, 2) not all straight couples have kids, and 3) overpopulation is a serious problem, anything that brings down the rate of new humans on this planet is a *good thing*
Potato Laine here, take a moment to appreciate that Jamie has 0% toxic masculinity and 100% healthy masculinity. Wish more guys where like you Jammidodger.
Jamie has the most adorable and wholesome and healthy masculinity. Then there are white cishets who have masculinities more fragile than my mental health. xD
Teresa Unger No it is more of a “I am not in the right body” culture. My body allows me to move, taste, hear and see. I love it for that. It just is for the wrong gender and makes me hurt inside.
To all of you who says "god made you this way. Stay that way." Remember that god made caterpillars and they change at some point in their life. Jammi was a caterpillar before he transitioned and now he is a butterfly and he feels happy as a butterfly.
I'm a Christian woman and I find that religious comment horrible. Jesus commanded us to "Love Thy Neighbor". That includes all humans. Also the Bibles tells us to not judge people or we will also be judged in the same manner. Also you can be born gay or in the wrong body. I just found your channel and I love it. My sister is gay and my nephew just started transitioning. He started T about a month ago.
Actually you can say non-binary mom because some people use she/her or he/him pronouns even tho they are non-binary. Especially in countries that have gendered language. English is way better here
@@ravenhayden2394 Yeah! that's what happened here, I forgot that in english we have the option of a neutral word. And also, it was a way of saying 'you can give birth, but not be a woman' ;)
Saying “love yourself the way you were born” to someone who suffers from gender dysphoria is the same thing as telling a depressed person “don’t be sad” like it will somehow cure them.
Okay so I’m just gonna say this real fast... I WISH YOU WERE MY FATHER. My dad calls me greedy, a manipulator, and purposely says stuff like “hey ma- I mean girl!”. He has toxic masculinity, and believes that I owe him for using his electricity, water, and for eating any food he’s provided me with, so basically when he gets mad he takes away my food, water, and roof over my head. But you have the good type of masculinity, like “this is my manly power tool, want to help me fix this thing?” Not the, “Get me the ladder, hand me this, Don’t touch that!” That most men do. I feel like I missed a large part of what masculinity is. It was to the point where I didn’t know what men did other than yell and wear plaid shirts, so that’s what I did. I still wear the shirts, over printed shirts, but after I saw Jamie, and some other trans men, I realized I could be *me* and trans at the same time. So I’m getting a shorter haircut soon, I’ve had an undercut man bun for a while now, and I feel like an actual men, not some fat cis guy that yells at his kids and is unaccepting. So like, thanks and stuff please come build a shelf or watch a sport or something obnoxiously manly with me cause you were more of a dad through a screen than my father was. (I prefer building, but if you like manly football (?) we can do that too) *parties under rainbow lights*
I'm so, so sorry for all the hatred your sperm-donor has hurled at you. I don't even want to refer to him as your father, because he has not been one to you at all. His behaviors are so, so wrong and so abusive, and you /absolutely did not and do not deserve any of it/. I hope you're able to get out of that toxic cesspit of an environment, and I'm happy that people like Jamie are giving you the tools and life lessons you need. Sending virtual hugs if you want them.
Shaaba: These haters are so wrong! Jammie: Awww thanks Shaaba: They really should be hating on your clothes, your nose, and your sense of rhythm! Jammie: ಠ_ಠ
If you're gonna argue that you must "love yourself the way God made you and not change your body", then you better also be against: Braces Vaccination Piercings Tattoos Cutting your hair Plucking/waxing/ etc. eyebrows or other facial hair Contacts/ glasses Cis-centric plastic surgery Hair transplants Prosthetic limbs and so many more
There must be, somewhere in this world, a suburban mom named Karen that is not only against all of this, but also against religion because you know... circumcision is mostly a religious thing
I mean, considering most transitioning surgeries are life saving (at least in my opinion), it'd be more like them being against someone getting their appendix or tonsils removed, or having heart surgery or a lung transplant. Like, oh well, God didn't give me functioning lungs! Guess I'll die!
Antihate? They just took a dump on half the people who will pay for her cosmetic surgery for a lifetime. She's young. They can't have children, so the people you are hating on will have to pass the cost of your drugs onto their children as well.
Me and my bf love your videos and he went "he used to be a girl right?" And I said yeah why? And he goes "that's a good ass beard wtf, I was born as a man and I still cant grow a beard like that"
I just love how people bring their religion into it. It's like, have they considered that not everyone believes in their god? If you don't follow a certain religion, you are not bound to the rules of it.
I just want to say to all the transphobes who use religion: You are no longer allowed to sit on a table or a pillow. You must consider your hair as sacred, and must not cut it during the night. Why? Because that's my religion and you must follow it even if you do not believe in it, apparently.
"Terrible" might have just been referring to your disgraceful treatment of your former favourite jumper. That jumper loved you and you abandoned it for a newer jumper, breaking it's tiny woollen heart.
These people writing these hate filled essays, what the hell do they think is gonna happen? Do they think you’re gonna read them and go “oh... maybe I made a mistake..” and detransition?? It’s ridiculous. You two are sickeningly adorable by the way!
Unrelated: can we take a moment to appreciate the fact that Jammi puts the word "AD" in the corner while he's talking about sponsors because he knows that some people don't want to watch it . Plus Shaaba and Jammi are the cutest
i love when people leave hate comments that bring religion in, as if everyone else follows their religion and theirs is more right than everyone else's.
I'm religious, and there's literally nothing about trans people being invalid, at all? In fact, my mom is a doctor, and during her medical studies, she was taught about transgender people, their brain structure, and how they are valid. Trans men are men, trans women are women, NB people are valid, and these assholes need to stop using religion as an excuse to be a dick. Doesn't the bible say to love your spiritual self, and not your inner-worldly possessions? Lmfao
It annoys me when some ''Christians'' write hate like ummmmm you're kinda going against what we're supposed to do - do not judge and love thy neighbor... SORRY on behalf of all these so-called ''Christians'' leaving you hate. Not all of us are small-minded transphobic and homophobic people.
*Thank you!* Everyone using religion to justify homophobia and transphobia don’t deserve to be calling themselves Christians. I don’t know about you, but I’ve seen a lot more stuff in the bible about “love one another no matter what” than “only love people who conform to society’s idea of who they can be and who they can love”
You are exactly the kind of person this world needs. Religion gets shamed so much because some of these close minded followers use some old, now updated text to try and validate a skewed and utterly confusing point
Why do so many ppl think we’re trans cause we like girls?? I’ve had people ask me “so, why can’t you just be a girl who likes girls??” It doesn’t work that way-
I can't really put myself into the shoes of trans people, as I've never been uncomfortable with my own gender. But like, even when I don't get it on an emotional level, it's not like it's hurting anyone to "change you gender"? So why do people (transphobes) care so much about something that doesn't affect them at all? Also, English isn't my first language, so sorry if anything I wrote sounded weird 🙈
I’m sorry but the “god made you the way you are for a reason” thing is so stupid. I am not trans myself but I do have chronic fatigue meaning I’m stuck in bed all day. If god really made me this way, why, what have I done in my 14 years of life to deserve this. I’m sorry I just wanted to vent my opinion, I believe that no matter what your gender identity is that you should be loved and whatever all those transphobes think.
why cis people are so sure, that all lgbt believe in their god? There are pagans, buddhists, etc. Also, even if their god really exist, I would love to upset him.
The live of my life is a trans guy. He's gotten a lot of hate as of late from my family. It's lovely to you and Shaaba turn hate into something funny. Keep on going guys you're both amazing.
Hope that you and your love have a long and lasting relationship! The fact that you two stick together through that type of stuff really shows that you two are truly good for each other!
@@emminet thank you very much, on February 27 of this year we celebrated 12 years together, we've been together since high school, before he came out as trans. We've had a long time together and we just keep slowly adding years.
I love the fact that besides I'm a lesbian, everytime I see Jamie and Shaaba I'm quite sure they're the true definition of bisexual panic. I mean, it couldn't be any different, they're just SO PERFECT!
Everytime someone (it always ends up being men saying this to me) tells me that "Transgender" or "Dysphoria" doesn't exist I like to say "Imagine going to the washroom this morning to shave your beard because you haven't in awhile and you look in the mirror to see that there's no beard to shave. Now you look a little lower and notice that you have breasts. But... You're a man. You were born a boy and grew up to be a man. Then why...? Now imagine that you went downstairs to get breakfast and your parent or spouse said "hello [insert obviously female name here]"...But that's not my name... That's a woman's name. I'm not a women." It usually shuts them up and in fact some people have even started crying because they didn't realize how painful it is to deal with that kind of thing.
This, and add on that for years you don't understand why you feel wrong. You know that you don't like the breasts. You know that you stare at square jawlines and beards and wish they were yours. Every so often you think of how it would "be funny" if the physical changes in girls just didn't happen to you. Your jaw drops at bass and tenor singers, not in awe, but in jealousy. You know you're different and know that your thoughts are "wrong" to some standard you don't remember making, but you just _don't know why_ until you discover what "transgender" is. Until you learn about their experiences and learn the terms and realize... just how similar their anecdotes and your old thoughts are. At least, that's how it was for me. And I'm "lucky," I guess? That I figured myself out just after turning 18. I can't begin to imagine what it would be like to only figure it out after 30, 40, 60 years with your feet on the ground.
They do think it’s a mental thing often, a delusion that can be cured. As if surgically removing an integral part of a person can be considered a good thing
I know this is an older video and you probably wont see it, but yall give me hope. After an extremely abusive relationship, and being broken by people that I could never be "good enough" for, I've lost my faith that I will find my person. But you have shown me what a healthy relationship looks like, and I hope I get to have that one day 💙
people: "Stop hating your body!!! Love yourself as who u are!!" transgender ppl: "Yeah, I CHOSE to hate myself because - you know. HATE is awesome, it makes my life terrible but now that you said I have to love my body - u know what? Never thought of that :D"
My mom also says “it” which is terrible to hear because it affects me because I am a trans guy and know how all of that stuff works It’s really bad to hear because people are just trying to live their lives
I'm really sorry your mom does that to you and it's not fair, I'm sending you a virtual hug so you can know that I am here for you and so is the rest of the community! If you havent eaten something nutritious yet do it and make sure you drink water and go to bed on time and please please please stay safe in quarantine!
Ewwww... is it possible (from all factors, safety, effectiveness, etc) to discuss how inappropriate that is? If you have to go gender neutral, then "they" is acceptable. I am non-binary and pronoun indifferent. I actually joke that I have literally never been misgendered because I am cool with anything. But even I would gag at the idea of being called "it."
10:17 Jamie looking into her eyes as she’s dying laughing, smiling from ear to ear, and saying “I really like reacting with you.” in the sweetest voice absolutely made my day.
Because most of them don't care enough about education to be able to spell. Like, most people who hate this sort of stuff seems to have no knowledge of what grammar and spelling is. I think it comes from them being natural idiots.
No joke, there have literally been scientific studies that show a correlation between transphobia and low intelligence. You can Google it and it comes from (I believe) a fairly reputable source
11:24 "what is wrong with being a girl" is what i get from my family members which is annoying. LIKE THERE'S NOTHING WRONG *BUT I JUST DONT FEEL LIKE ONE-* And the "i dont get whats a big deal?" *W h a t*
@@codyh.7402 not to stereotype Logans, there are most definitely nice ones, but I've only had experiences with bad ones (Logan Paul not personal experience tho, a huge pervert who would hit on every girl he met, and one who threatened to stab me with a pencil. A p e n c i l)
My sister is randomly saying how I'll 'never be a real woman, I'm a man and there's nothing you can do to change that'. And then we have a good laugh. Highlight of my day. (Cause that's... The point. I'm a dude lmao)
My reaction as a Christian when I hear people say "Love yourself the way God made you" yet they seem to think that only applies to a person's genitals: 🤨😱😢🤬🤔🙄 💙💗🤍💗💙•💛🤍💜🖤•💗🤍💜🖤💙 I pray for the entire LGBTQ+ community but not because I think there is ANYTHING wrong with them. I pray that God holds them all in His loving arms and shield then from the ignorance and hate projected towards them on a daily basis. I pray that God sends loving, accepting, and supportive people into their lives. I also pray for the haters: that God will open their hearts and minds, bringing an end to their ignorance and hate. 💗💜💙•💗💛💙•🖤🤍💜•💗💚💙•💜🤍💚 I don't just pray though. I also make efforts to educate myself so I can address any ignorance on my part, have open conversations with my children about LGBTQ+ issues, and try to act as an ally when needed. ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜 Please know that not all hetero cis Christians are ignorant and hateful @$$holes!
@@english3082 As a Christian, how could you get offended by my praying for anyone? As a Christian, how could witnessing a sister in Christ offer prayers of love offend you? As a Christian, how could you think that it is okay to judge others when we were specifically told not to?
“God gave you what you have down there” yeah and he also gave me what I have UP HERE (I’m pointing at my head) so what is your point?? Why does the physical body get to dictate everything about us as people? I’m pretty sure God wants us to know that this life is temporary and our spirits are the most important part of us. Or have I been reading the wrong Bible my whole life?
