Hey Spuds! Hope you’re not too fed up with this by now. I don’t think theres any point in chucking a barrage of hate over this tbh, there’s obviously something going on (trans or not - it’s not up to us to say), and even if there isn’t, it’s a waste of time to just shout without being constructive. What did need to happen though is calling out damaging wording and misinformation. Hope you liked the video xx
I'm just wondering if maybe she's confused between being trans and gender fluid? Edit: Also, I think that this might be an attention thing because it seems like she did very little research. I think if you're really trans, you'd do a whole lot of research before coming out to family/friends/the public. 🤷♀️
Jammidodger It's complete bullshit. Don't fall for it, she is genuinely confused. She is struggling with her identity as a Bisexual woman most likely. These could be reall feelings, I mean, no wonder, her naked ass is on camera frequently, has gotten so many womanly enhancement surgeries. This is why the LGBT movement is harmful to society, it's completely flipped it's agenda from quiet acceptance, to complete demands to use outlandish pronouns for identities that do not biologically exist, or will EVER exist. You cannot be both, or neither gender--it's just impossible. After seeing this video being reacted to for the 5th time today, I am certain she is not trolling, she actually believes this shit because she's hit the point in her life where her hormones are affecting her body a lot more in her growing age. I've also seen a trend of middle-aged women who are going through menopause, identifying as trans. She is possibly experiencing extreme body dysmorphia or disassociation due to the issues from being constantly heavily specialized because of her content. She needs help Jamie, she should not be taken seriously.
“Straight guys turn me off. I never liked that over masculine energy” Ahem Not 👏🏻 all 👏🏻 gay 👏🏻 guys 👏🏻 are 👏🏻 feminine 👏🏻 please 👏🏻 stop 👏🏻 stereotyping 👏🏻 gay 👏🏻 men 👏🏻
if you are twenty rabbits in a trench coat then *give me a damn hug i need the floofy embrace right now-* if your not still give me a hug i need a virtual one right now
"I like gay men because they're masculine, give off masculine energy, but are also sensitive" My boyfriend is bi and he cries when I tell him I can't wait to marry him. Like... Dudes can be sensitive regardless of sexuality.
Watch the frenemies podcast with Dr. drew. It is interesting how Trisha tries to convey this topic. Trisha does identify as non Binary now, Also made an apology and donated to trans charity.
If you see how she fetishizes and yet speaks over Jews and attacks them and antisemitic It may be classic Trisha fetishizing and being discriminatory and staying at very least purposefully ignorant
I am a girl. I have a ‘boy’ haircut, I have male friends, I don’t wear make up, I never wear dresses or skirts, I am a complete tomboy. But that does not make me trans. You don’t need to be really feminine to be a woman
Same with me, I felt more comfortable with myself after I cut my hair and I loved it when I acted mor masculine but I hate being called a boy or a sir because I am still a girl.
Hey Jammie, first I want to say that I like your videos. I'm a 65 yo straight woman from the U.S. I can understand the information that you give. I have wondered for a while now how trans people felt. I'm sorry that society is so hard on you. You and Shabba looks so happy together. Congratulations on getting your PhD. I enjoy your videos because they are informative. I hope I can react the proper way if I were to ever meet a trans man or woman. I think you a courageous for putting yourself out there. I think Trisha is a very confused human being. After watching this video I'm not sure what to call her/him. She definitely needs to do research before she goes on about things, she was very confusing. Hope I didn't rant and hope you understand what I am saying. I really do enjoy your videos. More people need to understand before they make any judgements. I hope you answer me. The best of luck to you and Shabba. Marjorie.
i can say definitively that what trisha identifies as is an attention whore. she always pulls some stunt like this when it's been too many weeks/months without her name trending on twitter.
same then, actually I'm currently sitting on the couch after brushing my hair once and putting it in a ponytail because i don't want to deal with it. (I'd cut it short but for whatever reason my mum won't let me) Update: my mum let me cut my hair
Fun fact: "They" has been used as a singular pronoun for a person of unknown/unstated gender dating all the way back to middle English, which includes all of modern English :))
Not transgender, but nonbinary. And not using they/them pronouns is a personal choice. Although when she mentioned they/them being used by plural people I assume she meant people like me who have dissociative identity disorder or multiple personality disorder, because that's the only "plural" I can think of.
@@minimariaandthecrew8811 No, she meant "plural" as more than one person. As in, using the pronoun "they" to talk about more than one person in the third person. Back then she hadn't even started with the DID crap she made up (not saying DID is made up, but she obviously made up that she has it), probably she didn't even know it was a real disorder.
@@minimariaandthecrew8811 No, she meant "plural" as more than one person. As in, using the pronoun "they" to talk about more than one person in the third person. Back then she hadn't even started with the DID crap she made up (not saying DID is made up, but she obviously made up that she has it), probably she didn't even know it was a real disorder.
Hehe, bigender gang 💗💛🤍💜💙 💙💙💜🤍💜💗💗 💙💙🤍💜🤍💗💗 Sorry, couldn't help myself, we don't get mentioned much, and yes, there are a bunch of different hearts because us bigender peeps can't decide on a flag. For those who don't know, the second set of hearts is considered the official flag, while the first is newly made and less controversial, and the third is a slightly altered version of the official flag to be less controversial but still carries the original colours... So there we go, all three sets are my flag. Sorry for the lesson 😂
i also hate when people use the word “choose” like that when referring to the LGBTQ+ community. it’s a really uncomfortable word since sexuality and gender aren’t choices :/
I'm cis straight but when people use that term "choose" like that I ask if they chose to be straight. Often they are confused so I explain it like this. Suppose you lived in a society where it was most normal to be gay and only 10% of the population was straight. Could you just choose to be gay to fit in with the majority of the population. Some refuse to engage but I often get at least uncomfortable squirms.
I think she's nonbinary, but hasn't done any of the necessary research to not sound like an uneducated troll. I'm nonbinary and I can choose how I present, but I can't choose how I feel inside. It would be hella convenient to not have to wake up with dysphoria...
The "not being able to satisfy a gay partner" part pissed me off so much, I'm a gay trans man in a relationship with a gay cis man and the implication that our relationship is less legitimate or satisfying is honestly kind of offensive.
Honestly that's one of my biggest fears as someone who's attracted to men and is transmasc... I feel like a cis gay man would never be happy with me because I don't have what he wants. It's nice to hear that that's not the reality and im glad you and your partner are happy together 💜
@@JJ-jw9ec There's always gonna be men who will love and appreciate you for who you are no matter what, whether they be cis or trans. Keep fighting on, brother.
im a very young gay trans boy and hearing her say that being trans and never being able to satisfy a partner in the future honestly just made me lose all my self confidence. i already struggle with depression and anxiety and seeing that honestly just made me so offended and depressed.
Trish: They/them is plural Trish, a few minutes later: I wouldn't be able to satisfy them She literally used a singular them in the same video where she said it's plural
@@letterborneVods I picked up plural as meaning DID too. If she WERE to have it then it's not transgender or nonbinary it's your alters identifying as themselves. That said, a male alter in a female body (and vice versa) can have dysphoria about the body. It's the main reason my two male alters, that I know of, don't come out unless absolutely necessary. They usually step back and let female alters handle what needs to be done.
is it bad that i want an uncut version of him going off on her? probably? oops. in all seriousness though, i think she needs to be educated on what gender actually is. it’s not a choosing thing. this ain’t the supermarket, that’s down the street. gender is what you are, it’s a know. as said in the video, even gender fluid people don’t choose, they just know. i’m honestly wondering how this is gonna turn out in the end.
Me around my close friends who I am out to: do I identity with non binary 1000% Me around my other friends and family: do I identify with my natural born gender 1000%
I just find it sus that *specifically* she says she is attracted to gay men. Like, hunny, that's an attraction to a sexuality- aka it's a fetishism, as opposed to saying you're attracted to men, which is a gender- so an orientation.
As a woman, I noticed that I felt attracted to gay guys at a certain point in life. I realized that's because I was raped by my first boyfriend and gay guys aren't interested sexually in me, thus they feel very safe. I like feeling safe ☺️. Still the best feeling ever 😊.
Realistically there are certain types of people that are overwhelmingly more likely to be gay/lesbian/etc. If you like only butch women, you're going to mostly like lesbians. If you like lispy effeminate flamboyant bottoms, realistically that's mostly gay men, even if it's bc society quashes those traits in others. Don't front like there's no different between the populations, and like the chemistry isn't different when someone's perceiving you as their own sex vs another sex. She says "attracted to", but it could be bc she vibes with them bc there's lowkey that energy there, you know?
@@Tijggie82 when I still identified as female as a teenager & thought I was ace, instead of, say, wanting a relationship with another ace person, I wanted a relationship with a gay man who could get his sexual needs met outside our relationship. The thought of being touched sexually absolutely repulsed me. Maybe it was because I didn't know any ace men to know it was an option. But I find that "he's not attracted to me and thus won't touch me but I still get emotional validation from the relationship" thing extremely relatable.
“I’m not like other boys, therefore I’m a trans girl.” True, but correlation isn’t causation. Idk what led Trisha to say what they said, but for me, while I never fit in in an all guys schooling set-up, as soon as girls were added in, I found it 1000x easier to relate to them, despite being neurodivergent, and therefore most likely to struggle with relating to anyone. I always had a deep-seated envy of the girls I was friends with, I wished I could be one of them rather than the token guy among them, because I felt like inside that’d feel better for me.
My mother is a radical feminist and I’m a FTM,,, this is how i think she sees how I feel. She is a scary woman and I don’t know how to argue with her other than just give up on what I’m gonna say and agree with her. My mind always goes blank when I try to explain to her “why I feel this way”
I dont like how trisha said they/them pronouns were "confusing " Like nonbinary people are constantly told theyre asking for too much when they just want decent respect.
Someone: “They/them is plural, idiot!” Enby: “Well, when you’re on the phone with a telemarketer, and can’t tell THEIR gender by THEIR voice, what do you call THEM?” Someone: “ .__. ......”
like, i dont think its confusing. its their pronouns. its like if i told you that i dont want to be called Anna, i want to be called Anna Jane, because that is the name that I was given at birth, and you said "well thats too confusing". like, its my name. whats so difficult to understand about that.
@@teefsart yeah, it's just that people think that once you have short hair, it is impossible to be anything but a transgender or lesbian. While in reality, it is highly possible to be just a straight cis female, or anything else.
You have made me a lot more open to trans people, just so you know you’re doing great work. I never thought being gay/lesbian/bi was odd because I new what it was from an early age, and at time myself have felt attraction towards other women. But i didn’t know what trans was until i was like 14, and so its taken longer for me to stop thinking of it as weird. I now see it as normal as cis, just a longer journey. Thanks :)
I’m a cis woman who is bi, but when I was questioning my gender identity and sexuality, I have had similar thoughts to Trisha, especially going through a phase where I was only attracted to gay men (very confusing for me). I know now that these thoughts don’t make me trans, but I understand where Trisha is coming from trying to sort it all out. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
I'm here because Trisha just disrespected DissociaDID and the whole DID community in her new video. So sad to see how much harm she's done to other communities as well. I hope she can find chill one day and stop spread misinformation for attention.
I came here from that video to. The fact that she is so uneducated makes me sad. Like if you are going to claim something at least understand what it is first.
Me too, although I've been here before. When it was just trans, I was just like, "I hate this, this is a lot of misinformation, it's dangerous, but okay. It's just one really underinformed person. It's fine." But now its DID too, and... ... I'm really concerned. Especially now the DissociaDID system got hurt in part because of this.
Ofc they did 🙄 people who are so obsessed with mental health to the point they fake having these things and talk over those of us who actually have these things are so annoying. DID, OCD, tourettes, etc are not fun or quirky. They are disabling and cause a lot of distress. And the fakers are the biggest reason that non-fakers get told we're lying and have to jump through a ton of hoops to prove we aren't lying, only to still not be believed.
@@ruetistic you're fine ! enbies or more commonly known as non binary people are people that feel like they don't quite fit under the male or female label. it's an umbrella term that includes genderfluid , agender and demigender ( and more ! ) . you could look it up for more info. hope this helped ^^
Yay! Enby pals! Just want everyone to know that no matter what anyone says...you’re always valid! I also like the term thude sksks Imma use that in my day to day life now!
she said she identified as everything. Like, all the labels. You cannot be a guy that likes guys and a woman that likes women at the same time. There is a contradicting thing.
@Fenris Wolf Yeah, like, just because you say you’re something, doesn’t mean that you ARE that thing. Kind of like how Weeaboos say and think that they’re an anime character, but they’re not (obviously). But maybe Weeaboos aren’t a great example, because being trans is completely natural, whilst believing that you live in an anime is not. She also said that she has D.I.D (Dissociative Identity Disorder), and clearly, she doesn’t. I think she just sees other people who are trans, or have D.I.D and immediately tries to “fit in”. Can’t wait to see which community she spits on next. (Btw, this is unrelated, but pls stream “Dynamite” by BTS. We’re trying to get them to 100mil, and we’re so frickin close! ^^)
@@strawberryboy9045 the comments section is basically school for me bc im not super educated and i had no clue what intersex was. thanks for telling me.
@@tea_addict2453 hey, im always down to learn more about the different sexualities and genders, and anything else like that. i know the basics, but i hate offending people, it gives me literal anxiety, and learning more about this stuff makes me feel more confident that im not going to offend someone.
I am always really admirative of how much you stick to educating people, even when it's clear people are not looking to understand... (Might not be Trisha's case but felt like the right video to mention it) So maaaaaaassive respect on that and maybe an idea for a future video, how to manage that frustration and focus on education ?
logic: *exists * This woman: "I am transgender 1000%!" logic: "okay, nice." Also this woman: "I identify as the gender I was born as." logic: * *has left the chat* *
i just watched sam collins reaction to this same video and omg ur so nice, ur like trying so hard not to be disrespectful while sam was out there roasting the shit outta her i cant- 😂💖
How does one identify as a black woman when they are not black 🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️ she probably said i feel black because i like " insert stereotypical things here"
Im late to your reaction to their video but thank you ❤ I almost forgot it existed, and I needed a good cringe 😂 Thank you for clarifying for viewers who may not know better as well, because many people don’t understand is but think they do, and spread misinformation (often unknowingly)
I personally am very glad you mentioned it several times these things are not something anyone can choose. Thank you for that and for being kind and such a lovely ray of sunshine! The world needs people like you!
@@leavemealoneha8042 Cis=your gender identity matches the gender you were assigned at birth. Trans=Your gender identity does not match the gender you were assigned at birth. In short cis just means not trans. Your comment is not stupid, it's always good to learn. (As long as you're not sealioning people)
I am happy that you made this video, because I have a lot of the same thoughts that she does. Listening to her and her thoughts gives me the chance to see where our differences lie and helps me understand better what I really feel.
She sounds like she's just fed up with societal expectations on women's appearances and that she's attracted to feminine/androgynous men. She needs to see a good counselor to talk through her feelings.
Jesse Houston thats the thing! in the “apology” she said she was seeing a gender therapist for m o n t h s. idk how tf that therapist didnt shut her down immediately or teach her any terms and actual imformation
Sarah L well say youre going to therapy for being depressed. if youre not depressed the therapist is not going to encourage you to go on anti depressants and will or should tell you youre not depressed. same for a gender therapist. if youre not trans, they should encourage you to see a therapist for maybe split personality disorder or not to go on testosterone and would stop encouraging her to say shes trans when shes not
Ok, just like random thing since Trish said “Signs from childhood”, did anyone else the other day just realize how many signs they missed?? I used to dress up in my brother’s clothing and act like his friend so that I could feel like a guy. And not once did I consider, hey maybe your trans. Years later I’m realizing how obvious it was 🌻😩
Yeah she's just really confused because she doesn't know what any of these things mean. It seems that she just never stopped being a middle schooler, which is where people generally find out their identity.
Sounds like shes wanting to say she feels more nonbinary than anything else 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ not only that but it's not hard to tell shes also trying to 'embrace' a more "black look" since the whole "I'm black" video 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
Hi! Genderfluid here! It does kinda sound like she's genderfluid, but it almost sounds like she WANTS to be genderfluid rather than actually identifies as it. Genderfluid is a really cool identity, and it's also kinda comforting if you want to experiment with things, such as different pronouns, a different name/names, or different ways to look/gender expression. However. Being genderfluid doesn't mean you wake up and decide what you feel like identiying as that day. I guess it's more like you have to analyze how you actually feel that day, and analyze what expression (clothes, pronouns, name) will make you feel the most comfortable that day (this can change throughout the day.) Genderfluid doesn't equal having a wide range of style... It's not the same as "I feel like wearing a dress today" or "I feel like having short hair today" or even "I feel like wearing sweatpants today cuz they're comfy." It's not like that, as I tried to explain above. This is why you can't just say "short hair is more convenient, therefore I feel like a boy everyday" because that's not how it works. You don't "decide" what gender you are that day because it's not a decision. Gender expression is different from gender identity. Also, don't stereotype that short hair equals boy. Girls with short hair aren't men. The video annoys me because when I try to explain to someone what genderfluid means to me, they think of videos like hers, because they sound similar. I didn't wake up today and chose to be a boy because of the convenience of the hair. No, I woke up, analyzed how I felt, discovered that I felt more like a boy than anything else, so I chose to express myself as male and use he/him pronouns for the time while I identify as male. Also, there's a difference between "today in particular, I *feel like* identiying as a boy because that's how I feel today" and "I *feel like* identifying as a boy because it's more convenient." The first "I feel like" is referencing how your brain is telling you you feel that day, and the second "I feel like" is making a choice. It's like how "I feel happy today" and "I feel like buying _____today" use the term "I feel" differently. So the way she says "I feel like" really makes it sound like genderfluid is a choice, and you choose how you identify every day, when that's not what it's really like. It makes it harder for people to learn, understand, and accept the community. And it makes us look crazy. So please stop. I think Trisha should really experiment with different things, and decide how she feels most comfortable. Maybe she is genderfluid... But the way she phrased it made it sound like she's choosing to be something similar to genderfluid rather than actually being it. Maybe she just wants to be a masculine girl in a relationship with a more stereotypically feminine guy (straight/bi/pan/etc man can all be feminine, and it's ok to have a type, as long as she's not fetishizing.) In conclusion, • Although it's true that being genderfluid means different things to everyone when it comes to their personal identity, and everyone feels differently/has different experiences as a genderfluid person, what she's describing is just... Not what genderfluid MEANS. • It sounds like she's choosing to be genderfluid. • That's not how genderfluid works. • She's making us look bad/making it look like we choose everything. • Wanting to look a certain way doesn't determine your identity, and I don't think she understands that. • It's ok to experiment and want a certain type of relationship, but it's not ok to stereotype and fetishize. Hope this helps ♥️
This was the most explaining text about gender fluid I've ever seen, now I understand it better and hope to never be disrespectful to gender fluid people!!thank you so much for sharing your experience!! (If the comment sounds like mocking or trolling, it's because English is not my first language, so I'm not that good at it yet. Please don't read it like that)
This is such an excellent comment! Wow I wish I could pull this out of my pocket whenever someone is spouting misinformation about gender identity. Thanks so much for such a positive and thorough explanation!
as a genderfluid person (im way more enby leaning and its more like... I'm basically agender but with occasional flashes of Stronger Gender Feelings TM), ayup! like man oh man i wish i could just wake up and be like 'ohoho this is gonna be the gender for today' instead of having to analyze it :/
@@lances4801 they're the same and also different. Some of it is up to the person deciding what labels fit them but they have the same idea of not being in the typical male female thing.
It’s been said in other videos that she has fallen in love with her gay best friend, Cedric. She realizes he will never love her back romantically and so this has triggered this weird coming out identity crisis. She really needs to get off the internet and get some help.
@Whitney Gordon Yeah I agree, although on a side note, do think your parents would let you make a personal email account? You could give your personal account a gamertag-like username that doesn't give an actual name. This way you won't make your parents suspicious, and you won't have to worry as much about being misgendered online.
Whitney Gordon does your school not monitor your account, mine does that’s why I use a personal email. I just am concerned that they might try to get you in trouble.
