OH MY GOODNESS GRACIOUS ME For those of you wondering which bloody bronzer dina is using. It's this shitty one: bit.ly/2176UjM ***EDIT... No it's not shit Sid... Plonka!
If he's asking for nude pics why are you still going ahead with the marriage? That's the biggest red flag! Its the sign of a major character flaw. I know it's hard to see it as a red flag because you are caught up in the emotions..... but from a an outsider's perspective he's not loyal husband material. And hes not treating you with dignity and respect. If I was you sis, I would show him the door. Pray istikharah and make lots of dua.
Yeah I agree with you. And plus the guy should respect the girl and he knows that he is gonna marry her so therefore there is no reason why he should be asking for nude pics. Surely the guy can wait.. 😏
Yea I wish Dina and Sid would straight out say to the girl to end her relationship. The audacity of the dude to ask for a nude picture... says a lot about him. No hayaa at all. There's no way this guy is a good person.
+br br not all but most men seem to be.. Yeah I guess in some situations girls tend to give chances to the bad guys.. And then we wonder where the good guys are at 😌
+Shahida Bieber but normally she uses the bobbie brown one so that's why I said it. ... And plus her frequent makeup she had been wearing bobbie brown just a bit of background info..... If that makes sense 😊 Thank you for correcting me 😊
Exactly! I would wonder who else he has asked in the past. I would wonder why he has so little respect for the engagement and for me. Perfect reason to call it all off. If he really wants to see that kind of thing he should be able to wait
inalah waina alyahi rajoon. May Allah ( swt ) give your brother the highest rank in jannah 😊 Inshallah I will pray for him and keep him In my dua's ..... Inshallah
An advice for the girl. When guys really love "especially in Islam" they will NEVER EVER ask their girl for nudes. In a nutshell a guy supposed to be the protector who saves his girl's beauty n treasure not only from people but from himself as well because he knows pretty well that he's not your halal yet and by asking you for smth like that means that he's promoting you to do smth haram which means he doesn't really care about you or even wishes you the best. If you still getting the same questions even after saying no, you should know by then that he's not the best for you.
+Ray Khai nope its called someone can't stfu cz they only hear themselves aka lack of something in her childhood hence she couldn't have a voice heard growing up so she is big bossy in life
+Fabulous ugh I love them both but it bothers me how much she cuts him off. He patiently waits and let's her answer her question and when it's his turn she keeps cutting him off again. He didn't even get his turn this time around, because she just answered her question.
I always see a Sid n Dina notification and go make myself a cup of tea. I then sit down to watch the video and can never have my tea until its finished as i may choke on it with all the laughing I'm doing. I need to remember to wait till after the video to make my tea.
Sharing your personal views as a couple to many subjects and doing it very openly is mind-blowing to me, i can't thank enough, can muslim brothers and sisters ask Allah to give a good wife, i know I'm not a good person but Allah forgives right ? :'(
"Send him a picture of your nude lipstick." Lol! I love you two, masha Allah. This videos are great because these are real issues, and it's often hard to talk about them, so as a Muslimah who has undergone similar situations, I really appreciate you addressing them and giving your advice. May Allah reward you both, Sid and Dina.
Honestly if a man wants a halal relationship and really wants to marry you he would respect you as a Muslim woman and never ask you anything close to what this guy is asking. Tbh its just disrespectful for him to try to invade you privacy like that and I know women who are not Muslim or are more open to showing their bodies might not agree but I personally would feel so disrespected if a guy asked me that. Like is that all hes attracted to, my body? And if he's that needy to see a picture then what else would he ask if that picture was sent. Red flag like Dina said. For all my hijabis out there just know that no man deserves to see you without your hijab/naked until he is married to you because why give him the pleasure of it when you dont even know if you will end up marrying him, you know? Idk there's just something special about having so much control over who you choose to show yourself to and I would hate to see this girl do something she regrets just so her fiance is "pleased"
Exactly why we wear the hijab. This is what people don't get. They think we are forced to wear it. But really it's a way to be modest and have a man marry you for personality instead of beauty. Your husband is the only man who should see you without hijab. Your beauty isn't for other men to see.
+Najmah A. Thanks and the other thing is some females that wear the hijab are no good either no disrespect or anything. Once girls do something like this, men expect it over and over.
i agree with dina that it is a big red flag for me! nudes?! what the hell? if a guy would ask me for one i would be so done with him. God knows what he wants next. that's such a no-go.
Reverse it on him, pester him for a nudes, ask him for nudes constantly like he's asking you and see what he says. Chances are he will hesitate and change the subject. Then after ask him how he felt being in your position, having the pressure of sending something so intimate. He will then be educated on how weird and uncomfortable it feels for somebody to ask that question and hopefully if he has any respect or love for you he will apologize, not ask again and wait until after marriage to have a nude you in person!
Great advice Dina and Sid I remember back in my high school days this girl in my class sent a naked picture of herself to this guy who she thought loved her well guess what followed? after he got sick of playing her bf he send the whole school pictures of her the girl couldn't even show her face in town cos everyone had the pictures now, I felt so sorry for her, her family and her had the move to another town. Any girl out there who wants to send naked pictures please think about it carefully cos it could destroy your life.
you guys are the modern day answers to every muslima who needs real, straight up answers to questions that are taboo. thanks for the advice. literally. you both are my youtube parents lol
You guys are amazing!!💕😭 Love you so much, you guys are just GOALSSSS!🙌💖 You guys are hilarious and so perfect!👏💗 Keep up the perfect work and love you loads!💜
personally i dont understand how a person could even consider staying with a man after he has asked for nudes lol.... he obviously doesnt give u the respect u deserve.
Are the people that ask these questions idiots? I'm sorry, call me judgmental or whatever, but these questions all have obvious answers. If the girl that asked the question is a good Muslim, she will easily know what she needs to do without asking a youtuber.. Obviously tell the guy it's haram for him to even be asking such things and if asks again, the relationship will end! If he can't stop asking for something like nudes, it says a lot about his character. And who's to say he hasn't asked other girls for the same thing? ugh
I think they ask because they need assurance and support for their decision. They probably feel weak confronting the problem themselves. So in real life you cant really speak to someone about these issues. You are on your own. So having someone supporting your decision and argument not to do the wrong thing is very reassuring!
Sherifa Omerspahich Yes, I understand, but I just hope the people asking the questions aren't really waiting for Sid and Dina's answers. I would hope they have enough common sense (as Muslims, especially) to figure out their problems on their own!
Asking once is a bit disappointing, but can be forgiven I suppose. What is disrespectful is ignoring your refusal and continue to push and pressure. Agreed, definitely a red flag.
Very good advice. Once they send out these kinds of pictures it stay on the internet forever. You never know what's going to happen years from now. You most certainly don't want that hanging over your head.
Never notice just how much you look like your twin until now! I think your turban style is really similar in this video so you guys even more alike. That colour looks so good on you!
Dina, I tell my kids this all the time!! The internet is forever!! That and keep your damn pants on!! A guy will always ask, but it's your job to say NO!
Salam alaikum Sid and Dina... I loveeeeeeee your vlogs you guys crack me up.... I pray that my husband and I can mess around with each other and talk to each other the way you both do inshallah :) God bless
You know what? The guy doesn't respect you girl! Is this the kind of man you want your future daughters to look up upon? And plus, even when he already marry you, he might ask other women out there for nude pics in the sake of "wanting to have a polygamous marriage" etc.
