Heart Break and Falling In Love for Dummies 

I learned from a Russian woman that you give a man love, but your heart belongs to you. That thumbnail took me out btw😂

“Words have no value coming from a liar.” Period

My Uncle Romero always told me that only poor people and fools fall in love.

She said “ You want to know if youre the ugly friend??? Ask a child!!!!” I can’t! 💀🤣💀😂💀😂💀😂💀😂

THIS IS HILARIOUS 😂😂 omg most women dont realize how foolish they look when theyre in love.

James constantly proves himself to you because you are constantly leveling up and changing. He’s trying to keep up with you because you keep up with yourself and you don’t worry about him. James knows you can do better and attract another James lol.

A dry purse and a wet "kitty" don't match😎

If u are early in ya 20's LISTEN TO SHERA 🗣🗣🗣& get rid of ya dusty today!

Unfortunately I had to fall in love soo many times and learn the hard way that MEN DO NOT FALL IN LOVE

How can someone be so wise & funny at the same time? Lol amazing!

If you’re feeling heart broken just watch her videos and level up. They are so empowering.

I do not recommend long distance relationship unless they sending you long distance cash. -Sheraseven

It’s always a total disappointment when u fall in love 😩

For the lady with the child support question....My friend’s colleague has a kid with a lady and he told her that he doesn’t have a job. The guys make 100-120 K per year as an oil and gas field tech and only give her $200 here and there and she is so grateful thinking “omg he doesn’t even have a job but still tries to provide”... He comes back, tells his colleagues and they all laugh. Open your eyes, some of these men are scamming women really hard.

I been called selfish my whole life I suppose to be!!

No point in crying when you are the prize🤷🏾‍♀️

"When you fell in love, you are mentally impaired... you have been programed backwards." so true. You need to not be emotionally attached or emotional with a man. Your emotions get you messed up. Stay logical and intuitive.

"Karma doesn't play a role if your later plan is for the greater GOOD"

just turned 30 last week & im heartbroken. Not anymore. Never falling in love again! i'm done being broke and sad !!

When you fall in love, you are mentally impaired! 😮👍🏽✨

Just came from the auto parts store and was sweet and put on my baby voice and the older man behind the counter was like oh let me give you my discount. He says it pays to be nice and if your pretty at the same time it's even better. He said some pretty women have some of the worst attitudes but he was so mesmerized I got that discount. 😛

Keep reiterating the fact that we women are the prize. I am tired of some these male You Tubers talk about how they are the prize. The man will pursue me and prove that he is worth my time.

Honestly if we think about the Asian culture does this a lot. They aren't handing there daughter over to a broke man simply. I live in the UK and most Asian brides parents make sure that the husband family can pay for that wedding and can look after there daughter and also a house to live in. We are the only ones that thinks what we doing is hold digging but simply truth, woman are always the prize.

just don't get emotionally attached to men period big mistake i learned let them be more emotionally attached to you more than them you always want the man to be more into you than you are into them

If you have a man around, he should serve some kind of purpose. Not just sex. Lover, friends, homies, whatever. And, please keep your man away from your children unless you are getting married. Facts SheRaSeven1 🙌 🙏

This used to be me😂😂 Falling in love for a nigga who never took me shopping or paying my bills.. danmmm Wtf was wrong with me ? 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ Well I blame it on age.. I was on my early 20's

If you can get this to work for you it makes a lot of sense . Agree make them prove themselves . Don’t give your heart away . Xxx I loved my babies the day first second I saw them , maternal love is different . It’s the love we expect from a partner but we all try to get an adult to love us like a parent , that’s where we go wrong .

Lesson learned.

All these married men want to control us 😀

Everyone has experience heartbreak, the problem is some of us learn from it, some don't and others victimize themselves because of it (which is so annoying!) The whole point is to learn "You're not supposed to fall you're supposed to grow" #facts 🙌🏻

I’m 19 and I’m glad that I found your channel at this age. Btw, you’re gorgeous. :)

Rather be single than be with some broke dude. Facts!!

One time, I used a town car service and the broke 28-year-old dusty driver asked me if I would go on a hike with him...

You lighten my day with these ancient truths. You’re going to have millions of followers. This community could change the world 🌎 💯

The movie A Thin Line Between Love and Hate says the same. He chased the girl who didn't give it up. All his easy gurl (including a single mom) was dumped

Shera I have watched so many of your videos and I'm starting to get annoyed with some of these questions in the live feed because you have given so much free game that these women should be able to answer their own questions. I have learned so much from you and I have leveled up and will continue to do so forever. I am the Prize🏆

you are a very smart lady. i am learning so much from you. be smart ladies; listen to Shera or you will end up old, used up, broke and treated like disposable garbage. it is only self love.

Lmfaooo🤣🤣I always laugh like a villan when i watch you troll

Shera you are looking more gorgeous everyday day!

I love that you are open about not always being as smart as you are now w men & dating & that there is an age & stage for the mess to happen. And that this is a learned skill. It makes the prospect of improvement so much more in reach than the “if you got it you got it if you don’t you don’t” narrative 💗

9:20 do I really believe that...as time goes on and they get to know you they grow in love as you do with them 18:54 oh my aunt just died I can’t meet you at the hotel. 28:20 29:20 if you are actively sleeping with a man you should never be broke 36:08 why am I teaching to be narcissistic? Cause y’all arent teaching to be providers 42:33 You don’t fall in love you grow. Falling causes issues. Growing is constantly expecting and being validated. 47:50 Ask him to bid on you, not vice versa 49:50 Free styling tips. Not on Friday it’s couples night. Be classy. 52:30 Start looking around. Act like you don’t believe him. 56:40 Don’t ask him to come to you. Ask if he will be in town. 1:03:40 Why should he be loved? What has he done? 1:04:40 Oh you have to get my cab home like a gentleman 1:07:40 If you can make someone smile who is mean, you feel accomplished. 1:11:00 Asking for an Uber in the first date. Say you don’t like to drink and drive 1:13:00 Cohabitaron before marriage

A non family man would never make me cry unless it's for my kids.

Shera i love you so much. You teach me to keep my standards high. You’re literally my pep talk before i go out. I do my makeup and listen to you and you inspire me to be my best me. My bday is today and I’m using this info while at dinner and trying to catch me a few new bags 💰

SheRa your advice makes women have to detox from the Pickmesha attitude. It’s a struggle mentally because you’re mind has to adjust to this new way of thinking but I’m getting there. Currently not dating but taking in all the game.

😂😅 you are so funny...that was me once upon a time but I found your channel...I can laugh at myself now cause I know better

SheRa, could you please do a video on dusty men who purposely wait until a woman graduates, set in her career or financially secure to marry her.

My Sugar Daddy pulled the "you only love me for the money" card....so I switched it up and love-bombed his ass. He couldn't stand it!😂 "Love" to men means admiration, not the googly eyes and hearts, us women like. So pretend you admire his "intelligence ", "strength ", "ambition "... compliment him frequently on his work... grow to admire how easy he makes life for you. Then you would genuinely "grow in love" with him. It's the same type of love we have for our fathers... for taking care of home, putting a roof over our heads, food in the fridge, nice clothes, vacations, cars, etc. (if you had a father, if not imagine what it would've felt like) . Remember girls these men are called Sugar "Daddies" , it's a fatherly type of love they give us and we should respect and admire them for it. (Yeah it's a little twisted, but who cares!) 🤑🤑

"I think you're using me for money" a guy I asked to pay for internet and groceries when we lived together since he makes double my income, the little weasel lmaooo. He did but was resentful the whole time. Complained his sister didn't offer half the gas when they went on a family vacation. wtfff my brother would never ask me such a thing. Same dude who lied and led me on when I asked when we were gonna get married after 2 years. I wasn't even attracted to him in the beginning. Turning 27 btw 🙃

thank you shera for your videos. i'm not all the way leveled up but i had one guy take me to the casino, gave me money to play at the casino. fed me and gave me some cash before i went home.

Can we add Desperetta (Desperate) to the vocab?! We got Bonetta 😂

I once sat in the rain outside a pizza resturante for two hours in the rain with a boyfriend...we were traveling..while the other friend was invited for a meal buy this rich guy..he invited me too...but said he wouldnt pay for my boyfriend. He said dont worry we got eachother..carol came out laughing about how good the pizza was... i stuck with the fella..jazz musician busked for pennies...left as i was freezing n hungry.... traveling hippy days

Lord knows I needed to hear this message today before I made a mistake. Love you Shera you are so wise girl! Always keep me focused

DON'T GIVE UP, YOU ARE NOT ALONE. There is always going to be others that will extend their hand out to you & will listen to understand your story. Do not be afraid to interact with others and have faith that someday it will all be OK because it will. Remember, every heartbreak has its resolution. You are BEAUTIFUL & AMAZING. KEEP LOVING YOURSELF and NEVER STOP LOVING OTHERS. Remember, Love is limitless, and should not be put in chains because bitterness is set in your heart. Love is never wasted, but given in return with the same affection as it was received. Your love should never be underestimated, but only acknowledge by the power it has within your connection to others.

I LOVE YOUR WISDOM & HUMOR. YOU ARE LIFE ! 💕

Shera, keep on schoolin! You preach everything mama and grandma have been telling me since I was 15 and I used to look at them like they were crazy😄😄😄 I smartened up real quick at 21 and been trying to lead my friends in the right direction as well ever since. But, some people like suffering....i guess

Shera please do a video on how to pretend to be in love with these men. I notice that they can tell that I'm not really into them, but I smile and do the baby voice but they can still tell I dont really like them.

Heartbroken but you made my day, first time I smile and laugh, you’re right about everything 💯

Right. A man today said he has no expectations for people just go with flow. No expectations of people is an associate not anything else. What will keep me invested is meeting my expectations.

Watching this from south africa...while nirsing my brokem heart...after this video im unloving him and writting down all the things i need him to pay for...from now on its just gonna be business ...love weakens

Yep.. that was me 🤦‍♀️ Shera makes it feel better.. Thank you for the help 👍⛄🌲

Your advice transformed me still spinning!!!💝

Word! I learnt something new on the difference between falling in love and growing in love. You’re so full of wisdom. Trust me you’re making a positive difference to the young and the mature. God bless more and more Shera🙏💕

Words don’t matter, action does

This is very true when it comes to looking for a soulmate, people be hurting themselves.💜💖💜💖💜💖

Smart advice my grandmother (RIP) would say this to me all the time..I needed to hear this it finally resonated

It was me this year sis 😂😂 but I’m over it now leveling up!!!

This is some real food for thoughts. I fell in love once at nineteen and didn’t realized I was until the ish came crashin dwn. All my friends were tellin gal, u’re in love and I was like na, na bc I’m not even the lovey, lovey want a relationship type but I did. Glad I did early on bc ur gal has never let herself go since smh

Shera reminds me of a line in the movie BAPS - Black American Princesses with Halle Berry as a ghetto girl, "How many cinos we talking about here?" Cinos = cash, money. Ha!

U are really really smart girl, good for me having found you❤️

Love your wisdom - so glad I found you ❤️

😂😂😂😂😂 From the start of the video… Shera’s so humorous and intelligent💗

Shera is funny as hell!😂

Thank u for this video!! I caught me a potential sugar daddy! Am 35 and hes 49 and has business! I swear he gives me what i want am making u and mikki a big donation!💃😂💰👌

😭I DATED A PRISONER, WHO SPOKE BEAUTIFUL WORDS THAT MELTED MY HEART, I BELIEVED HE WAS ALL IN, AND WANTED ME FOREVER.. WR WERE SO INTENSE AND for months talking about forever love, and so on. And he dumped me flat on my face. Trauma taught me to be careful and tread lightly and grow in love. And I shall never trust again

I love her earrings they are nice!!! 😊

iam to cold hearted to fall in love, this comes with age in maturity, dont date guys you like because you're gonna be heartbroken, you are your natural self when you date men don't like...your somebody else when you date the fine dude that you think is the shit..is the one you need to stay away from

Had me cracking up in bed at 12:50am yet this is some good advice how do you do it shera 😂😩

Everything that she said is FACTS!!

I needed this today ❤️

Can you please post the link for the dress. I need a white long sleeve dress for an event and that one is gorgeous! Also thank you for everything you teach us! Blessings to you.

Grow-in-love ❤ thank you 🙏🏼 🎉

Omg Shera has me rolling in the first 30 seconds🤣🤣🤣

Thank you!! Wish I would have seen this video long ago.

"Woe is me..."

Can anyone provide a link to the blouse she’s wearing? It’s so pretty and festive!

“How do you know if you’re the ugly friend?” Ask a child

I haven’t gotten played once and NEVER again😂 I have learned my lesson.

Men do cry and shed tears when they get their hearts broken. I know this for a fact because my ex husband cried his eyes out when we decide to get a divorce. UNDERSTAND LADIES, MEN HAVE FEELS TOO, BUT THEY DON'T SHOW THEIR EMOTIONAL SIDE AROUND THE WOMAN THEY DON'T LOVE.

Yes. I remember that person. NO more!

Can you do more videos on how to play seductive mind games on men? And how to be seductive for shy and classy girls? Would love to hear your view 💗💗💗💗💗💗

Girl I had to laugh at the thumb nail haha ❤️❤️😆😆

Noone has fallen in luv like I have falling in luv..it's too much!

I’ve been there. Ugh... Never again!

i really need this video not gonna lie

The thumbnail of your face it's hilarious a classic of you.😂 I cant imagine you ever crying

25:10 "the ones that are eager to please me are the ones for me and usually that was the older ones" "It takes years to grow in love. It takes weeks to fall in love like an idiot." i wish i knew this at 22. I knew love wasn't enough but all the dust bunnys around me and white feminism got me off track.......

This was a good vlog that I needed to hear 👍👍👍

U make me laugh! When I’m feeling sad 😂😂😂

Sheraseven reminds me of Vanity.😊

*SHERA PLEASE DO YOU THINK YOU COULD MAKE A BOOKS REVIEW FOR SELF CONTROL, HOW TO BECOME A SMART PERSON , CONTROL OF EMOTIONS IN ANY SITUATION AND HOW TO INFLUENCE PEOPLE??* COULD YOU PLEASE INCORPORATE SOME EXERCICES FOR US TO PRACTICE. ANOTHER SUGGESTION IS HOW TO RAISE KIDS ESPECIALLY GIRLS FOR THEM TO AVOID ALL THOSE MISTAKES. THANK YOU SO MUCH.