Dayna Terry I've been heart broken twice and it really sucks, I know the feelings of a sore tummy lol you get so many emotions but regret, sadness and constant pain in your heart are the main ones, or that's what it was for me it will be different for others. My first ex was the worst ever, she left me broken, alone and confused but I got better in the end so it all turned out ok :)
Which is exactly why I ended things with a friend of mine lol. She always made me feel alone, weird, and stupid as hell. Even after talking to her about it many times, she never did change. People can suck ass sometimes haha.
3rd of December, we were still together, in your room, laying in your bed, just admiring the love we had, staring into each others eyes, realizing how happy we were, realizing how at peace we were. But you changed over time, and I knew you weren’t good for me anymore. It was for the better. But the love we had, I won’t forget. I thank you for the good times, destroying people is who you are, loving hard is who I am. It hurt a lot when we left each other, but I’m finally loving myself, which is the best feeling in the world.
*“If you are lonely rn, just don’t find some friends, maybe they can make you feel better, but they will be just a waste of time, they can probably make you lonelier than you are now.”* -someone you don’t know but someone who will always be proud of you.
LYRICS: I still remember the third of December, me in your sweater You said it looked better on me than it did you Only if you knew how much I liked you But I watch your eyes as she Walks by What a sight for sore eyes Brighter than the blue sky She's got you mesmerised while I die Why would you ever kiss me? I'm not even half as pretty You gave her your sweater, it's just polyester But you like her better Wish I were Heather Watch as she stands with her, holding your hand Put your arm 'round her shoulder, now I'm getting colder But how could I hate her, she's such an angel But then again, kinda wish she were dead as she Walks by What a sight for sore eyes Brighter than the blue sky She's got you mesmerised while I die Why would you ever kiss me? I'm not even half as pretty You gave her your sweater, it's just polyester But you like her better I wish I were Heather Oh, I wish I were Heather Oh, oh, wish I were Heather Why would you ever kiss me? I'm not even half as pretty You gave her your sweater, it's just polyester But you like her better Wish I were
i’m the heather here. the saddest part here is that we never did any of that, he never kissed me, never gave me his sweater. we’re just best friends but i know that the girl who likes him, who’s one of my friends thinks that he has. we’re not really that close but i hate that my friendship hurts her. even with all that my my best friend likes her too but she never believed it just because she thinks she doesn’t deserve him because ha has me and she thinks i’m prettier (she’s gorgeous)
hey , you are so valid but you dont have to apologize for being friends with someone just because their crush likes the other person, you dont owe anyone any kind of apology for being happy, and you just need to tell her that she matters and is just as beautiful as you. i know nothing about her but she deserves love. no matter what, you just need to assure that you guys are just friends and nothing more. hope this helps in some way ❤️
surprising how much i can relate to this, so many of my friends introduce me to their crush, and i want to be friends with them to make sure they aren't going to hurt my friend's feelings, and most of the time, they end up liking me and it's so frustrating and confusing because i don't show any signs of interest or even a hint that they might have a chance, nothing at all but yet, they like me. it's so frustrating because i don't want them to like me, i want my friends to be happy. it sucks. :/
when you’re in your final year of high school with no one interested in u, not getting invited to parties and not living the high school dream everyone speaks of :’) but hey that’s life right
you have your whole life ahead of u ! there are sooo many things to do after highschool and im sure you’re gonna live your best life. the popular ones usually always peak in highschool and thats pretty sad
College student here! High school does NOT have to be the best time of your life. I felt a lot like you, but college has been 100 times better for me. Hold on, your time is coming 💕 Everyone else's story doesn't have to be yours
Samee haha fun times am I rightt lol and to top things off she's really religious so when I told her I like girls she was obviously uncomfortable... She's my best friend of eight years and I feel like we're drifting apart but I really think that I'm in love with her. I have to cheer her on with other guys and whenever I do it makes me want to cry. She's all I think about in the day, and in the night. Thoughts of her fill my head when I'm doing basically anything. I love everything about her inside and out and I just hope we can stay friends because honestly nothing else is gonna come out of it so might as well be happy with what I have
I'll explain how your feeling right now: 1. You feel alone 2. You feel sad and upset 3. You feel like you can tell them how you feel but you just don't have the confidence 4. You feel like they are hiding something for you 5. You don't feel pretty 6. You feel like ALL of this should end but you have no way to end it 7. You feel like your dreaming and you are trying your best to wake up but you just can't 8. You feel no confidence 9. You feel like no one listens to you 10. You feel like you have no one to talk to 11. You feel like nothing If you feel any of these please don't be afraid to talk to me or someone you trust. You are worth it, you are beautiful, you are gorgeous, you are smart, you are brave, you are capable. I love you and it doesn't matter if nobody says it straight to your face because deep down inside they do. Please do not think about harming yourself, you are so worth living in this world for ME for YOU for your loved ones. I love you.
December 3rd was our anniversary. You broke me. It's been almost 2 years since we went our separate ways. You were no good for me. But I still think about you everyday. I don't miss you, I don't want you back. I miss the feeling I had. I miss the moment I knew I was in love. I miss the laughs and love we had. I've moved on and I am with someone new. I really do hate you and everything you put me through. But the reality is, I still love you. I will always love you.
My story: I don’t have a story as bad as the ones in the comments. But I just feel sad all of a sudden. I have a boyfriend who I love. I don’t let people in easily, and I have been listening to this sing on repeat. I’m scared that I am going to lose him to someone who is better than me. I’m scared that he is going to fall out of love with me. But every time I ask him, he says that he will only love me. But I’m still terrified, and it makes me sad all of the time. And this quarantine stuff isn’t helping. Thanks for coming to my TEDtalk.
Hey. Its gonna be okay. I promise you he loves you endlessly. And if he will ever leave you, you will get through it and get out stronger and better than you were ever before. I promise you that with my whole heart. Believe me, it happened to me and everything is just going to be alright. If you ever feel unsafe or unsure or you need validation or need someone to rant or talk to, im here for you. Believe me, I really am.
i have a boyfriend who i love so much right now and he always says that he'll love me forever but everytime he asks me back i just couldnt promise that the future me will love him as much as i do right now and it scares me everytime he brings this up. he will think that i might cheat on him if i ever meet someone better even though i know that i wont cheat on him or leave him i just couldnt give him the reassurance he needed because im scared of what the future might hold.
i wish i was her. everyone likes her. all my crushes like her and when she likes someone they always like her back. It so easy for her. She has everything. She’s skinnier and prettier. She beats me at everything without trying. She’s my bsf and i’m not sure why anymore.
I’m so sorry Idk know you but I understand that how my friends feel about me and I hate it I’m so sorry people especially your bsf makes you feel this way if I could change how people feel about others I would but I’m so sorry I understand where you’re coming from I’ve been in that situation and sometimes I am “that” girl the one you’re talking about most of the time I am and it sucks im so sorry I wish I could change the world to help I hope you get better and you realize that you are enough and you are beautiful and you are amazing and you probably are that girl to certain people trust me we all are I hope you have a good day or night or afternoon or dawn or dusk and great life just remember you are loved and amazing and even though I don’t know you I hope you have a good life and sorry if none of this helped
Typhon no this helped :) i love her so much but at the same time i’m so jealous of her, i could never be that girl but maybe one day when i feel confident in myself maybe someone would look up to me maybe. Thank you. i love her and would never treat her like anything she’s not but it just gets me sad sometimes
linda car there’s a wise lesson I learned once, I used to be very self conscious of how I looked and I used to think that no one would ever like me, it wasn’t until one day where I began to tell my self that I was beautiful over and over and I started to believe it which made me happy, the next week someone asked me on a date, I realised that it wasn’t my looks holding me back it was the fact that I needed to believe in my self x I hope you can realise that too soon
Ur perfect the way u are she is something else u are so beautiful and u dont have to cry because someone loves u so much that u dont deseve to sad lysm and dont be sadd
This song hits different when ur crying all alone in the night thinking bout ur bestfriend who is getting married in 3 weeks with someone that couldn't be you... But u love her so much that u let her go and it's too late to confess
about a year ago, i met this boy. We talked a whole night by a campfire, and i felt the damn strongest connection ever. We talked the whole summer vacation, and after those 8 weeks finally went on a date. It was so great. I could talk to him for hours and would never feel uncomfortable around him in any way. Some weeks later we got together. It were the best times I had in years. He gave me confidence, hugs, happiness and kisses and i had always someone to talk to. If there was a problem we could always talk about it and it would be okay. 8 months later it was my birthday and i was just so in love and so was he. So i thought. Three weeks ago today, we went canoeing together. I noticed that he was a little irritated or something was on his mind, but i didnt question it. When we got home, we vibed for a bit but after some time he said that he needed to tell me something. He wasnt in love anymore. He told me how much it hurt him to break up with me because he saw how much energy and positivity i got out of this relationship. He still loved me and really liked me as a person, but just as a friend. Apperantly over the past two weeks he started questioning if he still really loved me or if that feeling was over. Some days before that he drew the line and decided that he wanted to break up. I was devistated. In no way i had ever seen this coming. How can you be sure that something of over 8 months, can just vanish in two simple weeks? The worst part is that in those two weeks, we still did things that i only could do with someone i loved. Even the day after he decided to break up with me, we did. Yes, he appolegised for that time,but i just felt used. Played. I already have the worst trust issues and more ever, and just in those last 6 weeks i completely opened up. I finally trusted him that much that i was completely vulnerable, because i finally fully believed that he would not hurt or leave me. That took more than 7 months for me to do. And than he did it. He still wants to be really good friends but just looking in his eyes and only be able to think about kissing him, hurts so much and im not sure if i can do that, atleast for the following weeks. The worst part is that he isnt feeling anything about it. Hes just happy the way it is now, while im thinking about him and the past atleast 100 times a day. Everyone says that its probably better this way, but thats the thing. It really was only positive. There were no red flags whatsoever, nothing he did that hurted me and it just gave me the stability, as someone with mental health problems, to go through every day as a happy and positive person. But now thats all over. I know time will heal things but im just so afraid that i will never find someone that i can communicate with at that level. Im just so afraid. To move on. Thanku for letting me rant. I love you all.
If you come across this comment I just want to tell you that I don’t know you but no matter who you are I love you and you’re perfect and you’re needed and don’t let anybody convince you otherwise, those people don’t win, you are worth so much and you deserve everything this world has to offer ❤️❤️❤️
some of these comments are absolutely heartbreaking. i dont know who any of you are, but i love you all endlessly. you're all appreciated and adored here. these comments are a safe place, rant away if you need to, let this be a place of support. give advice to one another and share whatever has made you feel better before with someone. never forget your worth - stay safe my lovelys 💘 edit- if any of you wanna talk or rant, feel free to message me on insta!!! my @ is alex.jpek
:)thank you for the message,but it won’t fix the heart break that happened to me 3 days ago.. But thanks for the positive all i can do now is act or at least try to be positive 🔅❤️
I’ve had friends tell me “I don’t ever wanna become one of those people that are too numb to feel anything”. It hurts because I am numb to the point where I can’t feel anything.
já eu tô parecendo uma palhaça esperando o meninokkkj e ele ta todo feliz pq ta solteiro:)aiai n sei pq choro tanto por ele:(n consigo acreditar q aquilo q passei cm ele era tudo mentira...
Is it that bad.. ? One of my old friends had a crush on this guy and I didn't even know, he became my best friend and he flirts a lot to me.. turns out she got jealous and got mad at me- he gave me his hoodie and we're really close...a lot of boys like me and I have a lot of friends so I figured that ur comment were my traits but..I didn't know how much pain that could cause a person...
POV: u are in your room, remember that u see your crush with him girlfriend and u think "why I am not she?" And crying because u are so imperfect and ugly for him
You are too perfect for him, he doesn't desserve your love and kindness, okay? stop saying you're ugly, because it's the biggest lie that I ever heard. I wish to be there with you just for give you a hug :)
my "heather" is my ex-bestfriend. she is gorgeous and she has so many friends who love and care for her which i am glad she has people who love her, but it hurts at the same time. she was my only friend that would cheer me up when i was sad and i would do the same, she got along with my family really well, she always would tell my parents things about people at our school too. i miss her very much but her new bestfriend doesnt like me for which reason? i do not know. she is in all my classes other than gym, which makes me really excited for this year. i texted her asking if she was doing online school and she replyed with yes and then i said me too. we had a short convo and she said she was looking forward to this year, but i think she only said that to be nice. we stopped being friends about 6 months ago yet, i've cried over her so many times in the past 6 months it hurts. i wish i were her, she makes friends quick unlike me because i hate talking to new people by my self. she is who i thought i was gonna be like when i grew up, "pretty, popular, and so many friends" ever since we started online school i lost so many friends while she got so many. i know this is non-sense but i haven't talked to anybody about it cause all my family says is "they are fake" which i hope they know doesn't make anything better, so i stopped talking to them and started writing things down but then my brother found it while i was out and told my whole family my problems which made me angry yet upset because i'm not quite the person to tell everybody my problems out of nowhere, so i stopped writing my problems down. but now i just comment on youtube videos for fun and to let everything out. i have no idea where this is going but im gonna end it here now bye!!
Lyrics- I still remember, 3rd of december me and your sweater you said it looked better on me than it did you only if you knew how much i liked you but i watched your eyes as she waaalkkkssss by what a sight for sore eyes brighter than a blue sky she’s got you mesmerised while i die.. Why would you ever kiss me? i’m not even half as pretty.. you gave her your sweater..! it’s just polyester- but you like her better.. I wish i were heather.. watch as she stands with her holding your hand. put your arm round her shoulder now i’m getting colder but how could i hate her? she’s such an angel. but then again kinda wish she were dead.. as she walks by what a sight for sore eyes brighter than a blue sky she’s got you mesmerised while i die.. Why would you ever kiss me? i’m not even half as pretty you gave her your sweater it’s just polyester but you like her better.. i wish i were heather!! (oh~) i wish i were heather.. why would you ever kiss me? i’m not even half as pretty.. you GAVE her your sweater.. it’s just polyester.. i wish i were..
Do you ever just want to turn back time and never talked to them? Yes the person that left you The one that you thought would stay forever The one that you loved so much you would do anything to make them happy. I don't think someone else will ever make me happy like before.
leaving someone who was made for you hurts the most when because you weren't made for them. you have such a life ahead of you, b. I dont want to hurt you. I loved you first.
There is this one guy, and i have fallen for him hard...we get along so well, and he always makes me smile. I've never felt this way about anyone else...i wouldn't physically be able to go on if he left...i gives me a reason to wake up in the morning. I could end it all, but i cant bring myself to do it as long as he's with me. I can always imagine our future together :)) marriage, kids, happiness . Ugh im sorry if i wasted your time i just needed to rant 😩
u r loved honey❤️ whenever u want u can text me my ig is @_chairespeanut_ if u need someone to talk to im here. if u want to have a friend, im here. srsly i want to help u❤️
This is the nicest comment section ever! Nice to see people are here for each other while we all have our own struggles and difficulties. If you read all this, have a fabulous life, and know that no matter what the heck happens to you, you are never as alone as you may feel.
We've talked for months. I thought we were like bestfriends. I trusted you so much. We shared so much with eachother but you still chose her. A girl you knew for 5 minutes. After all the memories we shared, you still choose her over me. I'm sorry I wasn't good enough for you. Now we're strangers. All the nights we talked, all the laughs we shared..wasted..
i feel like our lifes are like paper. they can be pretty hard to make, but so easy to destroy or burn. u can ruin them but simply touching them too hardly once, and they will never be healed fully. they will always have the mini scars on them. - me to my friend at 2am
this song reminds me of him, who broke my heart, left me with empty promises, made me feel loved and good enough but then left me, said “i love you forever baby girl” but it meant nothing, because you still left me with no explanation. but you wanna know the really fucked up part? i still love you, i still want you back, i miss you more than anyone in this world, i don’t even just love you... im in love with you. you knew how hard it was for me to open up to you, and trust you because of my past, you knew about my depression and made me feel like it would be okay. and i genuinely believed you because you made me feel like the most important person in the world and like i was the only girl you’d ever love. but you still left me like everyone else, but it’s okay i understand, i love you goodbye.....
