I was bullied for being a gay boy for the longest time, and I wasn't and it was the most frustrating thing to disprove. Because I was more feminine than other boys...and yeah.
I feel that :/ I remember being so confused that I wasn't a gay boy. It felt entirely like I was supposed to be attracted to guys, and that's why I feel like the childhood experience of a trans lesbian often is not very different than that of a cis lesbian.
Yeah I really hate that when they see a 'feminine' boy the first thing that comes out of their mind is an 'effeminate' gay. Same thing for girls who're 'tomboys' or 'boyish', the first thing they come up is butch lesbian. And even for those who accept the idea of being 'trans' which is fortunately increasing as more and more trans ppl are becoming visible, nobody would picture a trans homosexual, i.e. a trans woman who's into women, or a trans man who's into men. For example on YT, most trans women I follow (a vast, vast majority, like at least 4 out of 5) have boyfriends/husbands instead of girlfriends. Even while data shows that trans ppl have a much diverse sexuality than our cis counterparts. Also, even for 'crossdressers' or people who still identify as cis but choose to have a 'gender presentation' that's more like the opposite of their gender (which is the same both biologically and their personal identification) it's common for those people to be 'straight'. A lot of crossdresser men are into women. Some even started it because of their girlfriend/wife enjoy it. I recalled that a couple years back I found out that I was into women's underwear as a guy (didn't realize I might be trans though, now looking back that's probably a sign that I missed being trans), I researched and found out numerous stories about cis, STRAIGHT guys enjoying it, and found stories regarding how their WIVES or girlfriends enjoyed it. One of the companies that now I enjoy buy panty from even publicly stated that from their research the majority of their male customers are straight, and cis. Same thing for other things like men who enjoy make up, who hates having body hair, has long hair or loves wearing dresses or skirts, etc. And same thing vice versa for straight, cis women who enjoy presenting a little 'masculine' (or even just traditional things 'related' to masculinity or femininity. Fun fact: Scottish/Irish men wear skirts, while certain ultra orthodox sects have their WOMEN shave off all their hair after marriage, so so much about seeing skirts and long hair as femininity).
@@boonewilliams5338 I have this same exact experience! I always felt this feeling that I was “supposed to like men”, and even though I’ve been confident in my gender and orientation for a while, I still struggle with that unwanted, compulsory attraction to men that was forced upon me.
@@boonewilliams5338 Males can't be lesbians though. There isn't really any difference between what you're arguing and the openly homophobic men who say they're lesbians trapped in men's bodies
The statement that you wished girls accepted you as one of them kills me, because I so feel the same way! I also am trans and attracted to girls, but my parents and sister are absolutely and actively against it. It feels good to hear someone else who feels the same way I do!! Thanks!
That's so tough, and I'm wishing you the very best. I really hope your family is able to come around and show you the support that you deserve. I am so so glad that this video meant something to you and was able to show ya that there are others out there dealing with very similar things.
Right? It was a really hard label to claim. I didn't really feel as though I had the right, even though on a logical level, I knew that I did. I could talk for hours about this honestly.
@@FloorFloor1604 you're right, it is unnecessary for white straight males to compare themselves to female people who have faced persecution throughout history for their sexual orientation.
I always assumed that since I was attracted to girls I could only be a straight dude despite wanting to be a girl for as long as I can remember, videos like these are really important because this could help some trans girls find themselves at an earlier age. I'm 17 and although I'm aware that's not very late to transition, it certainly would have been better to realize this earlier. Soon enough I'll have to come out to everyone in my life so they don't just randomly wonder why I start presenting female, but none the less I'm still excited to not be seen as a dude anymore, pray for me lol.
I totally understand this. I spent so long convinced that I couldn't be a girl, even though I always knew deep down it's who I was. My sexuality was such a barrier to my transition, but I'm really glad I had enough exposure to come out fairly early. I'm really glad you appreciated this video, and I wish you the absolute best on your journey 💖:)
This is exactly my situation, although I’m 18 (almost 19 sadly) not 17. This video is what made me realize that this was truly a possibility for me, because I had convinced myself I was crazy
@@opiatecords I experience something known as gender dysphoria, meaning that essentially my brain is female but my body is male, and I've spoken with professionals in this area and we've concluded that transitioning is the right move for me, I'm not even very feminine tbh. I'd recommend researching gender dysphoria so you can get a better idea of everything, obviously there's nothing wrong with being a feminine guy, but that's not my situation.
Actually hearing your story brings so much more clarity. Like when I met you, you were open and said you were a girl and I was just like “okay, that’s cool” but I never even like thought to ask your story because I thought it would be weird to ask. But I’m glad I got to hear it. Also I’m really sorry we’ve lost touch, but you’re a cool chick and I’m proud to have met you! -Tessa
For the longest time I thought I couldn't be trans if I liked girls. I was pretty feminine so people thought I was gay. I tried being a gay guy when I tried started coming to terms with being trans. None of my relationships worked while I was living as a guy. Thanks for sharing your experience!
This video helped a lot! I'm questioning mtf right now and recently learned trans lesbians are a thing and feel that I identify with it. Ive never felt 'manly' or ever wanted to be 'manly' in fact the idea always repulsed me but I am terrified to take steps to help realise my gender identity mostly because I'm scared of what other people with think of me or if it's the wrong choice for me despite not being able to say *I'm not transgender*
This means a lot to me. I really wanna make content where people can see their experiences reflected or just see something that doesn't get discussed often. Thank you for this! I will definitely make more :)
I remember that happening in Soap. That whole show was actually pretty cool for it's time. It was certainly way ahead of the times on a lot of points. I think one of the best things for young people having the courage to come out is that they do not have so many years of memories and worries built up in them when they start transitioning. Young people speaking about their experience of being transgender, such as yourself, are not just influencing other young people. Multiple generations of repressed or uncertain people are finding confidence too. 💜
Thank you so so much for saying this. If I'm able to help even one person feel less alone with their feelings and experiences, it gives me so much joy and gratitude 💛
As a trans lesbian that didn't find herself until well out of her teenage years, I find myself just a bit envious of you, but my god can I relate to feeling trepidation in claiming the label. I had a similar experience in high school, getting questioned about being gay because of my temperament or my choices in accessories, but it wouldn't be for nearly ten years that I'd be pondering my life developments and suddenly realizing, "Oh yeah, I am gay." It feels so weird to take that label when for the larger portion of your life, your sexuality defined you as "straight."
It's a truly unique experience, which is why I felt so inclined to make this video! I've been so blessed to hear stories like yours and to realize that I'm absolutely not alone in having had these feelings throughout my life. Best wishes! 💛 ~B
Another great video and can relate to what you're saying, really don't like labels for everything, took me really long time to come to terms with being Transgender and even though i know it's true just really hard to accept, im into women and have never imagined being with a man sexually was thinking if being on the hormones would change that but it hasn't. Best wishes to you and your girlfriend. ❤
Lol I typed "trans lesbian" in the search bar and this came up.... you're one of the prettiest most passable trans women I've ever seen! I'm sure your channel will grow big if you keep uploading!
I've been listening to your experiences and you come off as a well-spoken, erudite, self-possessed young woman. I was surprised when you said that you were 16. It is a miracle to discover who we are attracted to and far be it from me to deny any possible combination, but simply to applaud a kind and caring individual. May you find much joy and life, and share that joy with others around you.
Your story is very inspiring, but first of all I need to thank you for this video which inspired me to come out. You took a great decission at age 16 but I am 17 still did not tell anybody about myself, And I knew that I am not a guy but 3 days ago I realised that I am a lesbian too and which is soo excited and more satisfying.I wish that we could be friends and finally we shall meet oneday.
I'm older and only recently realized myself. Imagine being 46 and realizing you are a girl. What you said about trying to be gay I can relate to SO much! Everyone always told me I was feminine so I was like, Okay, maybe I'm gay. But...yeah, I don't like men....at...ALL! lol
Looking at your more up to date video,s your voice is really going in the right direction this gives me hope for my own voice . I have been having lessons for the last six months it is the hardest part of transition by a million miles .
I appreciate that! And yeah, it's very difficult and can be incredibly frustrating at times, but voices ARE malleable. They're not stuck one way forever. I've been working on mine for four years now lol
The thing is we are where we are and we will have a unique voice that tells of our journey along the road less taken and where ever we end up we will learn to love our voice
I'm currently questioning if I'm trans, and it's really nice to hear a trans story that I can relate to. I've dismissed the potentiality of being trans a few times over the past 6 years, because my life doesn't really match the "traditional" story I used to think every trans person had to follow. I didn't really have moments as a young kid where I wished I was a girl, since I was told at a early age about the struggles many women go through. I played with toys meant for girls with my sister for a little while, but that quickly got replaced with videogames. In fact, I used to shame myself whenever I did something feminine or thought a part of my body didn't look masculine (still trying to figure if that's due to internalized transphobia or just social anxiety). I feel like hearing your story is helping me move away from those misconceptions, and realize that there isn't a checklist I have to fully satisfy. Thank you!
I'm so so glad to hear about how this is helping, and thank you so much for sharing your story! The kind of trans representation we see in the media is very limited and definitely tends to follow a specific prototype. I've known so many trans people with all kinds of wildly different experiences. Ultimately, only you can know who you are and what's best. I'm wishing you all the very best! 🥳❤️ Thank you for watching!!
TY for being brave and using this medium. This to relate too many that are refining ourselves,finding specifically that we are trans lesbian. Im going in this journey myself and am landing in the finish line " welcome to trans lesbian club! Party time!... who took my purple lipstick!??" lol
Thank you so much!! I've been really debating on whether I should transition or not because I have a peculiar gait and a voice that's definitely gonna take some work. But , I think with some practice, I'll be able to to overcome these things ! However, two issues that I'm really sure what to do with are 1. I REALLY DON'T WANT TO DEAL WITH CIS GUYS, and 2. If and when I get to the place of actually being "passable", how do lesbians flirt with each other ?
Not even lesbians know how to flirt with each other, don't worry about that too much. It's actually a massive running joke among sapphic people, no one can tell if they're being flirted with.
Your so amazing for what you've been through although my experiences are different they run along the same path when i was little i loved wearing 👗 my mother thought it was fun to let me put on dresses but my father put an end to that real quick and the church told me i would go to hell if i kept wearing 👗 so i was brainwashed into thinking that it was wrong and i should stop myself from thinking such things. I also knew i liked girls at a young age i even told one of my oldest friends that i feel like a girl in boys body and she kinda laughed and said okay but i could tell it weirded her out cause our friendship drifted apart but still friends to this day i spent alot of years feeling jealous of leabian couples because i wanted that connection Your video is so affirming that i cried 2-3 times "I'm not the only one " so thank you for posting this it will help me figure who i am this is just the first step
Wow, I can't tell you how much this means to me. I can't imagine going through what you've gone through, and I know that there are unfortunately many similar stories of people being convinced that their totally normal feelings are somehow immoral. You inspire me for getting through that and opening up to your friend. I can tell that you have a lot of personal insight, care, and courage. You are going to continue to grow and learn more about yourself and feel more and more comfortable as you do (they're always bumps in the road. Nothing is linear, but it will absolutely get better). I am so grateful for this comment, and I really appreciate you sharing your story with me. Wishing you all the very very best ❤️ With love ~Boone
First of all: I think your voice still sounds great (definitely better than mine) despite the cold and I wish I could pass as well as you do…. Secondly: thank you very much for the video. It was soooo relatable for me in so many ways and it definitely made my week quite a bit better
I am so so glad this video was helpful for you. These are all feelings I had growing up that I never knew how to express. Turns out a whole bunch of us shared them. I appreciate your kind words. I understand the desire to pass. I didn't for a long time. It feels impossible in the beginning, but the more comfortable you begin to feel internally, the more comfortable you begin to feel externally. It's a nonlinear journey. 💛 I'm wishing you all the very, very best, and thank you :)
You are so gorgeous and your voice most cis girls will envy! I just had ffs and also a trans lesbian myself not easy 😔 I started my transition knowing good and well that I may never be in a relationship again loneliness is such a horrible feeling thank you so much fof sharing uour story!!! Any videos on how to get your beutiful voice?
Oh my goodness thank you so much!! Transitioning can be so daunting and is such a uniquely personal journey, and I'm wishing you all the best with yours 💛 (And, yes! I have a video all about voice from early this year)
I realised i was translesbian tooo....i felt the exact same way like u......ur video gave me a reference to come out.....i even tried it with guys but i couldnt and then i realised that im translesbian......im on 3 months hrt.....thx for helping me conform my gender identity
I am so so honored to have been able to help you through your journey!! I'm really happy you are feeling more comfortable with your identity. :) All the best 💛 ~B
I started watching your video "My Sexual Identity Crisis" and followed your advice to return to your premiere video which I have listened to at least four or five times (3 just now!) and commented on earlier, but not having sufficient information to respond. First, let me say that I liked this video as you can see, but it goes beyond that. Please don't take umbrage at my comment, but I see you, as I've seen many other children, as an "old soul". I was "labeled" as the same over 60 years ago by a good friend of my father. It refers to many things, but one of them is self-assurance with who you are, questioning of even the most difficult of statements and generally living a life that, first and foremost, respects the opinions of others. It is the method by which we become good people. So, how do I "label myself"? First, as I've said before, I'm old, 72 years of holding some of my "rules of life" inviolate, but always reviewing those "rules" to first, checking to see if I'm following them and second, to see if I have to change them in the light of new information. I wasn't the best of friends to some of my friends and have changed my rules because of them. Your parents named you Boone and you have questioned keeping that "masculine" name. I know of three "Lynns", two "Carols" (with a different sp3elling!) and my Uncle Edward was nicknamed "Sally" at the age of four when he was sent to the story to get some sal hepatica for his mother. He asked the store owner for "Sally, sally, sally so0mething or other" and the name stuck. Even at this funeral many of the people attending didn't know that was nickname until it was used in his obit. To me, it now indicates a person that I consider as a valued friend. Stay safe and enjoy life. namaste, Roger Marlow Clemons (yes, my middle name sounds like a girls name; sometime I will tell you about the wonderful way that I got it!)
Thank you so much, Roger! I've been called an old soul a few times throughout my life as well haha. I only think of it as a compliment. :) I always really enjoy reading bits and pieces of your story and how they relate to what I've put on here. Best, Boone 💛
For me I’am finding more late and feel one of the same feeling trans lesbian and recently coming out as questioning to a few people . I think once it got me really thinking more when I saw the movie The Danish Girl I never knew what being transgender was or didn’t know it was a thing . When my cousin came out as gay I remember even then I was questioning then maybe I thought I was gay or then after a while bisexual. Being transgender and lesbian makes sense to me and remember I would have crushes in high school on someone who was no or lesbian thinking about it to .
I understand you so much cause I'm primarily attracted to girls yet since childhood I've wanted desperately to be a girl and I don't see that changing. I know it'll probably only make it harder to find someone once I come out but I can't help my orientation and feminine personality that I literally try hard to cover up to fit in.
I actually believe it will become easier to find someone after you come out. The transition process is almost always very gradual, and it will most likely take time to feel really comfortable with yourself, but once you do, you'll be so much more comfortable in interpersonal relationships, because you'll be you. Unapologetically. (This is only my two cents, but I really believe in it) people will be attracted to your truth, and you'll be more accessible and able to feel free and happy in a relationship. ❤️
I don't know what exactly it is about this video, but the vibes I'm getting are sort of "cool aunt"-ish? Might just be the fact that you remind me of a few aunts of mine. Anyway, I can't wait to see (or hear, I guess) you in TDP!!
You talking about how you "wanted to be gay" and how strange that was really helps. Early on in my life when I didn't have proper terms and didn't know how to express myself; I tried so hard to be a "femboy" and I wanted to be gay. Glad it wasn't just me~
I'm glad it wasn't just me, too. It's such a unique experience, but I think it's a lot more common than people realize. We just need to be more open about it. A transgender girl friend of mine said the same thing to me, and it was really cool to hear a different person go through exactly what I went through. I'm glad this was helpful :) Thank you so much for watching and taking the time to write this 💛
@@boonewilliams5338 I definitely didn't expect to get anything back on such an old video- old by internet standards at least. Thank you for putting yourself out there, I'm sure you've helped a lot of people~
@@zophialovins618 I'm just very grateful that this platform exists and that these videos have been able to reach people. Thank YOU for putting yourself out there 💛
I want to date, but I still present masc (not by choice of course) and I'm worried that if I dated a girl, she'd not want to be with me after the transition. Maybe I should actually go on a date before getting too anxious about this, but it's one of those annoying thoughts that wont go away.
I remember being in that situation 💛 it's difficult, and there is no one, correct path. I hope that you're able to do what feels right to you. Whether in the immediate future or a little down the road, I feel quite confident, you'll find something that works for you. :) I wish you the very best and am sending love! 💛
Hi idk why i ended up on ur video somehow but im grateful to know that im not alone. I was born as a guy but unlike some other guys, i have been very feminine since i was on primary school so ppl thought i was gay. I grew up believing i was gay cause i was too feminine and never interested on guy stuffs like sports etc. When i was on high school, i tried to date a guy cause thats what gay ppl do but i didnt catch any feeling, i didnt romantically and sexually attracted to them. Later in my college i realized that i was into girls but cant see myself as a guy either, its very confusing at that time cause i didnt know that i can be transwoman and like girls. Now i live a happy life with my girlfriend 🥰
I am so grateful to YOU for sharing your story. Life can be such a confusing thing and stereotypes can force us to feel like we need to satisfy all the boxes of a made-up checklist. It's anxiety-inducing, exhausting, and confusing. I relate so much to that, and I am so, SO happy you've found joy and comfort in your life today. ❤️ :)
I wish I had a video like yours in 2005, dismissing being trans because I liked girls and taking 17 more years to figure it out, even though the thought of being trans was there. I remember being lost and questioning, googling stuff like 'male lesbian' and just being confused for so long.
I feel very awkward about my sapphic feelings at times, being new in this process. Forgive me if this is a bit personal, I do not experience bottom dysphoria myself, it's just everywhere else that I am dysphoric about. That often makes me feel like I'm not a "real" lesbian, imposter syndrome is something that really gets to me a lot of the time. Otherwise I think I always understood that I liked girls in a way that... I guess didn't feel like other guys if that makes sense? I wanted to both be with them and be like them at the same time. My ex's parents would frequently describe me as "basically a girlfriend" to my ex, and I think it says something about me that I took that as a compliment above all else, despite the negative views they had. It's like I knew I was queer but couldn't identify HOW I was queer because I've never been particularly interested in men, and would only vaguely consider myself on the bi / pan side of things, I really only want to be with women even if my attraction is slightly broader.
I can relate very much to most of this. Unfortunately, it's so easy in this world in which we live to feel pressured to tick every made-up box that's used to describe a particular label. We're really all just a bunch of unique humans with both unique and shared experiences, trying to understand ourselves and each other. I think the first step is acceptance of each individual thing you recognize in your own human experience, and from there you may choose a label that feels comfortable for you (or not!) I want to reassure you, though, that wanting bottom surgery is absolutely not a prerequisite for being a woman or lesbian. Genitals are genitals. And they're very personal. We all have different relationships to that, and it's okay to not want to change anything about what you have. I have a number of friends who feel the same way. :) I really appreciate you sharing your own experiences, and I wish you the absolute best in finding peace with yourself. Life is a neverending journey, but it's so worth it. 💛
I remember when I was like 9 I was in the bathroom, and idk if it's just my family, but if your eyelash falls of, put it on your finger and blow it off, then make a wish. But I remember a few times I would wish I was a girl, and then forget about the idea for a long time. But at 15 I starting thinking I might be trans, and now at 16 I still wanna be a girl but idk if actually am or what. I don't see myself being old as either gender, or Alive tbh
Hey. First of all, thank you so much for sharing this with me. It means so much. Secondly, I'm not going to claim to understand every detail of your particular situation, but what you've shared really resonates with me. I spent years not being able to imagine a future, and I understand that's a horrible experience. I PROMISE you (and I don't make promises lightly) that you will get to a better place. When I was your age, I couldn't imagine staying alive. A couple years later, I began to thank the universe every single day that I was still here. I still do. There will always be ups and downs, but I PROMISE you, it's going to get so much better, and you will recognize life as being something that is absolutely worth living. Please hang in there. The world needs you ❤️
And whether or not they're in your life right now or not, there will be people who can help you through the hard times. You will find (if you haven't already) people who will remind you of your worth. You don't have to go through this alone 💛 I'm sending you lots of love 💛💛
I resonate with this A LOT. I repressed hard and for longer... only thing that got me out was 🍃though lol I've only been out to myself and the world since December and I've gone through a lot of "Am I really a girl? Well I'm not a guy and I'm uncomfortable in this non-binary thing I've got going" as well as when I got my lesbian pin thinking "people are just going to think I'm so stupid"... even as I was already presenting fem. The LGBTQ center I went to for the pin didn't have a trans pin unfortunately so I don't have one of those yet lol but someday. Kinda figured "Lesbian" covers both the "I'm a girl" and the "I like girls" aspects xD
Thank you so much for sharing this!!! I relate to a lot of this. I definitely see some parallels in our stories. :) Congratulations on coming out and taking steps to live the life you want to live!!!! 🥳🥳❤️
@@boonewilliams5338dressing colorful don't mean gay because peacocks are colorful and it's the males that are so. So the you go. Guys can be straight and colorful in dressing. In Africa it's common to wear multicolor clothes for both males and females.
That is not lost on me, my friend. I mean it when I say I count my blessings every single day. I am so incredibly fortunate, and I do not take that for granted. I hope that generations after me have it even better. That's all I can ever hope for. I appreciate your comment and your presence. Much love to you too 💛
@@boonewilliams5338 Thank you for saying "granted" and not "granite". lol But seriously, thank you for your response. Your videos are helping me tremendously!
Have aways been into girls (1996) ..my transition had nothing to do with sex..it was about self..have had incredible relationships and mostly with straight/ Bi girls...folks tend to overthink things
Thank you for sharing you are lucky there is a term as trans these days but back then there are only straight and gay terms and people get labled either or and there is no middle
You're absolutely right. I'm incredibly grateful to have been able to transition at my age and for so many others to understand what the term "transgender" means and to be accepting of it. I hope things get only better from here, and I will do my best to help that progress
Idk if it's weird or not but I consider myself pansexual but when it comes to what's in a person's pants for me sexually I prefer female genitalia but prefer men in a relationship, basically heterosexual leaning romantic and a Homosexual sexuality. note I'm a mtf trans woman she/they
I feel fantastic. Thank you!! It was a much needed surgery, and I am so grateful that I was able to receive it. As for the second part of your question, I really haven't had any interest in dating this year
@@boonewilliams5338 Yeah, that would make sense. I could see how (I'm making an assumption here), how someone your age (18-20'ish?), who hasn't had multiple long lasting (like, 3x five year long consecutive relationships or whatnot), and essentially is producing no testosterone, would be a little on the "meh" side of relationships. In comparison, I'm a little on the "meh" side from very little testosterone production as well, but, I have more experience in terms of relationships, and the experiences are ingrained in me. People always go back to what they know. I was curious how relationships unfolded for you, as a lesbain. I feel Ike younger ppl are more LGBTQ2 accepting, and open minded, less hindered by stigma and shame. I'm a little ambiguous in my sexual orientation, but, I'm finding more and more that my attraction towards women is less pragmatic than I thought, and pragmatic as well. But then, there is all this stigma associated to that, including the internalised stuff. I was curious how it all worked out for you, and your opinions and experiences. It's less talked about than the straight experience of ppl who transition. Ppl make all these assumptions about ppl like us, which is logical, but they don't realize that we typically have very low libidos due to producing very little, to no testosterone. We even have to take a testosterone supplement in order to have any interest in things like relationships. We likely have even lower libidos than cisgendered women, pre and post op, alongside of things of things like social stigma, phobia, fear, and internalised hatred.
I didn't have the terminology to fully understand that I am trans until I was 13, but I knew that I was a girl since I was 9 or maybe even younger. You are definitely okay. 💛 Everyone has a different journey of self discovery. Labels are okay to try on. Sometimes they fit and other times they don't. I know people who have discovered that they are trans at age 3 and others at age 53.
Okay yup I'm a trans lesbian I've kno6this for about a month but alot of my guy friends think I'm gay nope I'm just feminine and them coming out to friends it makes sense now thank u so much for this video girl
I'm so happy to have been able to help you gain more clarity, though it sounds like you already have a lot insight into yourself :) Thank you so much for sharing, and I wish you all the best in your future ❤️
I ended my 2 year relationship with my boyfriend because I realized I was not actually attracted to men. I thought I was pansexual but I couldn't ignore my feelings about it any longer.
What you need to say to your sis is what if normal was considered by society as not normal, crazy I know, just ask her how would she feel in that context. Would she feel comfortable feeling normal when all of society wasn’t normal. Here’s the crux of this issue, all humans are not normal as normality is merely an idea or perception pertaining to certain conditions in place. But the list not the name really exists, only in societal perception. So if it’s your life, then it’s you reality, You know who you are so love and embrace and own yourself, and have great faith in yourself as you know yourself and your direction in life. If your sister or family cannot come to terms with who you are, then to be honest is their problem not yours ok. This is about your life, not theres
I was mocked at primary school and secondary school, because I was not masculine in nature. My femininity was not too open yet and people just saw me as a boy, wearing boyish clothes. I had never been attracted to guys and I have always liked girls. When I came out as trans, some people expected me to like boys, but that was just so wrong. I was never really open about wanting to be a girl, untill I was 20. I knew people could change gender, but I did not know there was a name for it, or that it was natural being trans. After a while, I realised I could not deny it anymore and I just had to come out. So yea, I am a trans lesbian. I had never been in a relationship yet, but I will hopefully find a wonderful partner soon 🏳️🌈💖
I am a boy and I like girls but I feel I'm not a boy and I feel like a girl and I love lesbians too much , I wish sometime being girl love girl not feeling like a boy , and I am a lesbian.
Such a bright, mature young woman. I don't know you, but a 16 year old girl who has the emotional wherewithal to make this video must be going somewhere or the world truly is lost.
What an incredibly lovely, kind, and generous thing to say. And what a lovely message to wake up to. ❤️ You are so kind to take the time to deliver this message, and I can't tell you how much it means to me. I hope you have a wonderful day. Thank you 💛
Hello, I am a self id woman. I am assigned as male at birth. My sexuality is to be a stunningly beautiful woman. I have been on selfmed HRT for two years. I started selfmed hrt at the age of 19. I have been living full time in girlmod for two years. and I'm proud of myself. and I'm prettier than any terf I've ever seen XD. I'm even prettier than my mother, which kicked me out of the house before I started selfmed. I'm also a living doll and I destroyed my ID card, because in my country I couldn't change the id at my request. Did I say I'm proud of myself?
