When I would worry about my son driving, my therapist told me "whether you worry or not will have no impact on what you are worrying about" haven't worried since, and I was a chronic worrier. I am not in charge.
Be careful how you think. Your life is shaped by your thoughts. Only you can change what comes into your mind. Replace any negative with forcefully positive thoughts. ☮️♥️
I'm 49 years old and I have found out through my own journey that there are some experiences from the past that even we may not be conscious of it they are traumatic and it is not as easy as the expression says:: "just let go & move on" In my own experience I have learned that I need to go through a long & painful process in order to first of all understand what happened and eventually understand how my past experiences had effected my emotional/mental health. I tried many times to just reason and say : "i NEED JUST TO LET GO" but the pain came back again, over and over again affecting my new relationships. It takes more than just reason and be willing to let go. In my case it been taking years of psychotherapy & medication.
I completely agree. Everyone journey is different but it does take time, going through the pain, the emotions, to face them until they start going away…. We cannot suppress them cause we will continuously have them in the back burner…
I have been for single for 25 years.I live a lonely life.I have never bothered again.i don't trust.To many men getting ripped off.Thats why we stay single.My car is my woman.more faithful.
@15:00 to 17:00, it’s so deep. Anyone who’s faced their inner child and done shadow work, knows how pivotal this is to not only understanding yourself, but the beginning of understanding others, and brings on a new found richness to life.
Sometimes I like Jordan Peterson he's just so much vocabulary it's hard for me to even understand what he's saying and it ruins it for me I doubt everybody understands me the same I don't think everybody has this kind of vocabulary intelligence....
That's true how do we remain grounded. I can just go get drunk but I don't want to. I can also call off but I need to work. I wish I could scream but it won't take away this feeling.
I didn't know that there was a word for how I have been feeling for the last 3 years! I've been in an almost, constant, state of "languishing"... Lol😅😮😣
23:36 "What irritates you or triggers you? Bureaucrats, rigidity - which is the opposite of playfulness. Not flexibility. Arbitrariness - rules for the sake of rules. Rigidity which means that you don't listen to others.... What's the opposite of curiosity? Fixed, certainty but certainty is the enemy of change."
I have worried about my daughter my entire life.. and she is a grown well educated happy married adult woman of 35… but I still find myself lying awake worrying about her. This is my issue and it comes across to her as overbearing.. bring too involved in her life. Need to let go!
in my experience, when you tell your story, people use it against you at some point and if it is something more extreme than they can handle, you just lost a whole bunch of potential friends...
how would Ester help someone that lives with dread ? hmmm?? Job 3:25 for the thing which i greatly feared is come upon me, and that which i was afraid of is come unto me. it happens. i feared my husband dying before me, and he did. i tried not to fear it or to live with that fear , but i did and it happened.
.... Really like all yr work but triggers might be a poor word choice given that it suggests we react to the environment. When its clear from the principles of neural design we preact.
I can watch these female gurus all day they sound so wise but I never and really never what to do exactly as they say let go and all the million advices, but how to do it? 🤷🤷🤷😮
Why have a companion .You are going to get ripped off.Everytime you get with someone.I got hurt once.Never got over It.Single 25 years.I dont trust.never will.Stay single.better off.
To avoid relationships and past.Be like me. Stay single.I rather play my drums .Or drive my car.To many problems.All causes heartbreak.No one wins except lawlers.Money is creed.Stay single.Better off lonely than sorry.
More NEGATING. WHY are you hear if all you want to do is trash women & tell other people to be ALONE? Try therapy. You sound deeply UNHAPPY. Everone deserves love, connection and a happy ife.
Thank you, your timing again is beautiful. 🤍 I did that too with a photo of myself at 5. So helpful. I am getting so much better at asking for help. 💚🇨🇦💎
@@GreatnessClips Thank You for showing moments of vulnerability 🤗❣🤗 Especially the parts about reconciliation with your inner child. I've also been doing work on these things and find this extremely important and transformation. You are a Real man. Thank you🙏🤗🙏
How to heal from a past relationship.Dont get into in first place..Stay single.Be a loner.That way you won't get ripped off.Relationships are doomed.To many problems.Have a good car instead.
You posted TOTALLY NEGATING comments repeatedly. It's sad. YOU may have protected yourself from hurt or disapontment--but, you MISS OUT on great JOY, too
