How to Cut Toxic Cords & Find Happy Relationships// Conditional vs Unconditional Love 

Is this something you are currently struggling with? I'd love to hear your story below!

This is another brilliant video. I'm always impressed with your ability to articulate and summarise really complex and nuanced topics and present them in such an eloquent and digestible way. Really grateful for you and so glad you started this channel as i've learnt a lot here. Thank you 🙏🏼🙂

“A relationship is a system in which we agree to mutual exchanges of energy” ❤and when it feels good LONGTERM and does not damage our authentic spirit it’s healthy. Short term pleasure with long term annihilation or suppression of the spirit is a temporal addiction (to the person who is not allowing our spirit to flourish in proximity to theirs). Flourishing of spirit is the earthly manifestation of unconditional love: not because we must love anyone: we must love the other who loves the us.

The closing words about the feeling of relapse not meaning that I'm stuck, but instead still growing and moving forward made me feel relieved, because I was sometimes worried about that. Thank you for this!

I watched this twice and it blew my mind both times. I always resonate with what you put out but this one… 🤯🤯🤯. Thank you for providing the content that you do. I love your approach 🤍

Your videos always get me together in just the way I need 💕

It may be one is allready relieved and may fly away because one is behond such lessons mentioned

Having a hard time with this , I really love the guy I am with. I know that I must do something am 53 and worried I will never find real love again it's so hard for my age group. I am also bipolar so it's doesn't help me. But I look up to you so much 💖 I wish I was stronger 💪

Unconditional love is nontoxic parenting ❤

So good

Hello Brianna and thank you for this wonderful video. My story is I am an anxious attachment and my ex-boyfriend is a disorganized attachment. He is also a recovering sex addict. I am also a love addict. When we got together it was wonderful because we clicked on so many levels emotional spiritual intellectual. He was at a low point in his life no job porn addiction. He was not in recovery from porn. This was a relationship that was mixed with very wonderful inner changes and very painful betrayal by him towards me. Of course I jumped into the caretaker role trying to get him to change offering all kinds of help. He did admit to the addiction and started attending SAA meetings. However he balked on doing the emotional recovery of looking at porn addiction. He would make promises to change and to look at deeper issues but never did it. I also found out in 4 1/2 years into the relationship he lied about some slips while telling me everything was OK. Honestly don’t think he was purposefully gaslighting because he said he just forgot about this moment but it ended up being a type of gaslighting nonetheless. He’s a very gentle person I’m the one who was aggressive verbally and emotionally in the relationship.I did as you have described the Silent manipulations hoping he would get it. Sometimes aggressive confrontation about his dragging his feet going to therapy. He also was stubborn about not doing the things I asked him to do to build trust. I know my part in it was codependent as heck. I told him it was as if he had one toe in the addiction and the other in the relationship doing a lot of people pleasing with me. I always felt he was doing recovery just to keep the relationship and not to really do the work on himself for sheer self exploration and healthy change. After waiting five years for him to do some of the things i’ll ask him to do to build trust I told him I was leaving the relationship. This of course came after a stormy confrontation on my part. I’ve hated letting go of this relationship because they were certain aspects that were wonderful just like you said in the video about the woven tapestry. I just wish he had the spunk to do the work for himself. I’ve learned a lot about myself and that IM manipulative and have a deep-seated need to be desired. It’s like I wanted to be the center of attention from him not constantly but at least sexually the only one he wanted. That was so important to me because I have never felt desired. My father was also a sex addict and an alcoholic and pretty much emotionally abandoning me. I am grieving now for the loss of my relationship with my father in the loss of this relationship and boy is it hard as hell. I go through the what if‘s. If I do not been so silent. If I had not been so verbally aggressive. Maybe my ex would’ve sought further treatment. But I understand his own self motivation just wasn’t there for himself. That makes me sad. I’m going to continue your courses on how to correct my own energy learn to desire myself and learn how toHave a healthy relationship and create a healthy relationship. I stumbled upon your work soon after we broke up and I felt it came just at the right time. Thank you so much for your passionate involvement in this issue and your incredible knowledge base as it is further than me and will continue to further me and my own growth.

Didn't get this one nor did I agree with it.

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