How To Forgive Yourself - Stop Feeling Guilty Right Away 

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.r

Me too

fire editer I can relate in so many levels

I’m right there with you. I’ve burned so many bridges, pushed away so many loved ones, I’m lost and alone and it’s my own fault.

fire editer same

sometimes I just wanna crawl into a ball in a black hole and die

You're not alone ,I guess everyone feels the same way to a point in our life ..So don't worry.Nothing lasts forever.

My life in a comment, I lied a lot and I mean A LOT I've argued with my mother and dad and its probably the reason why they're so distant..

I want to hide in a hole/fall in a pit and die

I feel you im the same its unbearable

I didnt go out from the house for 5 month. I had to lie to everyone and couldnt tell anyone the real reason why.

You okay?

@@MoonstruckVR hey thanks. a little weight is off my shoulder after time has passed :)

@@newtzyy hug?

@@MoonstruckVR hug. :)

@@newtzyy You gots Discord?

Fun fact: Anyone who’s never made mistakes in their life has never done anything in their life, and they still make one of the biggest mistakes, and that’s missing out. If you did something wrong, it’s not cool that you did that, but it’s not like you started WW3. You can’t change the past, and even if you used a time machine, that’s a bad idea, because you could end up doing something worse. The best thing you can do is to not do it again. I feel that way, too, but that Billy Joel song “you’re only human,” makes me feel better about myself.

Also, if you were truly evil, you would most likely not feel bad for what you did, even if it turned the world Orwellian.

@@newyorkrat2546 And if we are in immature we can do bad things we can believe bad things are good but when we reached maturity we might think what we did wrong in past and thats also will irritate our whole life because guilty arise again and again when we also reached matured. May be sometimes we think like this God will not forgive because what we did in past but thats not true if we change God will forgive us. I realized as same.

Yes

Me every time I look back at my mistakes I hate my whole being

11th chapter of Matthew, verses 28-30, the Savior says: “Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.

I hear you. Same

I am feeling the same....

Rose Miller I feel u brother

Rose Miller this shits hurts my chest

Same

makes me feel less bad ;_;

I know the steps of forgiving myself, and I know that there is redemption for actions such as the one that I did, but I can't forgive myself for it. Even though I know it'll never be done again, that I've learned from my mistakes and I want to do better. It's so frustrating, knowing I would easily say forgiveness is granted upon someone who's done what I've done, but I can't do it for myself.

@@omnomnom2678 I'm with you. But I've never hurt anyone in my life. It's just that I'm trying to forget the past and try to forgive myself for how it has affected my future now.

Sunshine Hobi 1310 today same happened with me...!

Same

Same

Yeah

Me too.

Same i stopped listening to the video because the comments worked better 😂

You should feel guilty for finding joy in people's pain lol

@@imaneh3958 i didn't mean it in a sadistic way

Ok i think i get it now you don't feel so lonely now that you know a lot of people are having a hard time just like you. I understand

@@imaneh3958 yep

I'm glad too. All people make mistakes😊. This mistake I'm suffering from right now may be the worst one yet but reading this comment section makes me feel better.

good dude (y)

i feel like ive done something so attrocious that i dont want to tell literally anyone, it brings great shame to myself and others. i feel i have brought pain both to myself and others emotionally.. worst thing is it was deliberate... at least for the time... all i feel is that deep down everyone sees me as a dissapointment. even when they seem happy on the outside, i know i can tell on the inside its like they dont know me, or something... i wish more than anything i could have prevented it... but now i just feel like impending doom for the rest of my life...

Its okay. God loves you no matter what. And I encourage you, if you dont know jesus christ, to at least try. You WILL find peace, and love. People that are willing to listen to your hurt, and anger, and people that are willing to help you no matter what.

AIDS LOL IKR

YESSSSSSS! THANKS EVERYONE.....

Same it's so bad :(

I made a huge mistake now l can't even let it go. I feel so ashamed..

Me too. I felt so ashamed i dont deserved to live.

Sad Girl exactly how I feel💔

Same It gets even worse when I talk to family and friends who treat me the same becuase they don't know I want to tare my heart out and crush it

God bless your soul ❤️👼

Thank you for this 💕

Thank you so much, I'm feeling a lot better. ❤️

Thanks for this comment ❤️

Thanks means a lot.

for me it was the other way round. people i hurt were good, i know they're upset, but they still forgive me. that's what making it hard for me to forgive myself, i feel like i don't deserve their kindness.

I feel you, but for me whenever I have a fight with my family they always bring the topic which I did wrong and it happens like in every fight we have and I just feel like they have still not forgiven me for what I did because it's been more than 5 yrs and I deeply regret what I did and I just cannot take it, and my brother told me in my face that he will never forgive me ever for what I did and I don't think I will ever be able to forgive myself ever

luthfi badr you have to accept that love of you don’t no one else will for you. 🥺🙏

ria vinod To be forgiven you must forgive your self. And I know it could be hard sometimes but the only person that forgave you before you forgiven yourself is the lord it self. He know what you did wrong and you not the only one who sinned the people who didn’t forgive you is just a s guilty because we are all sons and daughters and we have to forgive each other no matter how hard it is so just keep that in mine The path god give you is how much god believes in you he know you can get through this HE KNOWS

J O K E R you are right 🙏

Who you were then isn't who you are now. Be gentle with yourself...Today is a brand new day. New day. New you. Sorry if this sounds cheesy....

I've felt like that.you beat yourself up,senseless. Realise you are like everyone else,we all make mistakes.move on. It's not your fault, you tried your best. Be happy and you have the power to make others happy. What a great life that will be :)

If you're happy you have the power to make others happy. We have all made mistakes in the past. The fact that we acknowledge them shows that we aren't the same person we were at that moment. We are very much attached to our sense of self, but who we were 15 minutes ago isn't who we are right now. As a species with our awareness we are constantly learning and growing. It's never too late to be the person you want to be. :) If you feel bad about something you did in the past you can always find a solution to make up for it. Realising our mistakes allows growth. Once you've realised it acknowledge it, you purified yourself. Who do you think you would've been if you never made mistakes? You wouldn't have grown into a better you.

Celine Nicole if you think you can't forgive and move on now think how you will feel in ten yrs when you still haven't forgiven and moved on... 10x worse. Now get going

I feel you I'm a teenager to

Yesss

Same ...

It really is

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.s

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried deep feelings of guilt with me. Which have shifted again and again, as soon as I apologized to a person, for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself, for many years. Until I realized that the One I really needed to apologize to was myself. I tortured myself the most. So I apologize to myself for what I did to myself. And the intention to apologize is everything. So I find my innocence; which I had once lost. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And thus I do no harm to others. Because I am at peace with myself and thereby with the world. Therefore, apologize to yourself if you carry feelings of guilt with you. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts suffering and apologizing takes away suffering. "Anyway" and "yes" are the words that enable me to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses to get back into the hamster wheel of apologizing or torturing myself for certain things. But I say, "Yes, I'm apologizing to myself anyway." And I apologize to others when it's my free choice. And I use these two methods to do that. By either apologizing to people personally or apologizing to people within myself, if I don't want to make it personal. Because the honest intention is enough.

Lmao, relatable but yeah, I'm here for a recent emotional trauma too, aye!

I’m feeling guilty for not eating dinner with my family ;v;

proffesionalSimp I’m literally here cuz I scammed someone in a game

I’m here cause I ate a box of donuts and feel bad

I wish I had problems like yours guys :(

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.s

Hope you feel better now

And? Did it work?

Winnie The Duck i have it too. 😔

Oh, Im obsessive-compulsive about my past guilt. Its HELL.

So true

@@allenbinion1575 me too...

Same it’s terrible every night i just think about what I did and what I have to regret and every day I tell myself don’t do anything you’ll regret or you’ll regret it

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.s

Same here. I want to get rid of those bad memories.

It hurts my stomach

sry about the joke but u feel guilt for hurting ur enemy mentally for playing teemo?(sry for the joke, I hope that guilt goes away friend)

If I make a simple mistake... *I feel guilty*

When I feel guilty, my stomach hurts and blushes a lot

Yesterday night I smoked hookah infront of little kids and they tried it too. I'm so scared What if they tell their parents....

I feel u 🥺 I feel so bad

It hurts me , feel so down

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.s

aripockily If you blame yourself, then you are getting angry at yourself and not forgiving yourself. If you blame yourself, you are more likely to be unhappy, which leads to more selfish and hurtful actions. On top of that, you will blame others for their actions, which causes anger. And, you never addressed the reason why you committed the "bad" action in the first place.

Noah Elkrief The concept of nobody being to blame is illogical though. When a person willing acts on a specific negative behavior, knowing what their actions are, they are responsible for this behavior as they chose this. Certain actions such as harming other people, without a logical reason such as self-defense, are inherently wrong, and trying to distance oneself from responsibility over time only results in the individual feeling no incentive to stop acting selfishly in the future if they've developed this behavior over time. Instead of pushing away responsibility, one should be willing to accept that they have acted in a selfish manner. In doing so, one can begin to cope with their feelings regarding their actions, and come to develop themselves further as a person emotionally.

@@nickjancha6979 l think had the last step to find forgiveness for ourselves and how to stop feeling guilty..'prayers'..who ever read this,please have a nice day..love from Sabah.

aripockily 👏

@@nickjancha6979 accepting u r human. And human does mistakes. Dont thing urself God to do all the good thing

Why would you be here if you weren't important? You are wonderful.

I guess I just have to find out what my purpose is in life. And thanks.

I feel the same way right now. I don't know what to do with my life and my head is all over the place and I let my emotions and laziness and anxiety control me.

Girl I can totally relate. Are you by any chance a Pisces? (I'm talking about zodiac signs)

+Missy I'm not but I feel like one sometimes. I'm actually a capricorn with a virgo moon sign

me too, but we're humans we make mistakes..he'll get over it ,my friend

Tiger EXO ah my situation is kinda like that but his not my boyfriend- like people were teasing him about me to say hi to me and I was running away 😳🤦🏻‍♀️ now I wish that I just stood there and said hi 🤦🏻‍♀️

Same here but with my ex-girlfriend. Some days my guilt and shame are debilitating.

that's why my boyfriend is a stuffed animal lmao

I treated my girlfriend as an object more than as a person. I used her for my pleasure without caring for her emotions. My problems became the main problem in the relationship. I know what I did wrong and I am the only one to blame, but I am just a human after all; we make mistakes. But these mistakes don't define you as a person. What we do to fix those mistakes is what actually define us as a person. We all make mistakes, but we are still human beings.

same with me

Try nofap

@@kirubelkibralem5022 hidden hero giving great advice to people in out time.

I feel the same :( I hope we both start to feel better one day

We are here for you

@AnimeHero BetaI'm i the same spot. how do you deal with it?

Tell the truth then.

@@joey_diaz_clips honestly dont worry dude. you can always text her about it.

I never thought a joke could turn to something more once dragged on for months, I did this I dragged on a lie for months taking it as a joke and I never thought how it could really affect the person, turns out I made a big mistake and I feel REALLY guilty about it, every day it's making me hate myself I just feel like crying all the time. can anyone give me some advice on what to do, I've been feeling so alone I feel like all my friends hate me for what I did even though they say they don't I just feel like they do.

Me too, even if I admit that I was wrong and apologize to people on social media, they still won't forgive. So here I am waiting for the humiliation to end and be a better person in real life. I really my family won't see the post.

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.t

@@ryu7408 thanks for your reply

It's been two years after I posted this and honestly, I've grown. I decided to trust myself in never hurting those around me through healing. Thing is that this healing thing is like peeling an onion.

You are welcome. And I understand you. I hope you heal on. Healing is a gradual process I believe. I wish you all the best on your journey. Blessings to you. ❤️☯️🙂

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.ab

I know what you did , i did the same and we deserve to die

I feel like I should burn in hell for what I did 😢

Feeling the same

Same i did think something very very bad about my one of my parent. It was due to overthinking, depression, loneliness and then now my brother knows all this because a message i wrote to him but didn't send and he recently read it and now he hates me. I wish i was dead.

@@thomasshelby1255 no

I almost went to jail for something i did and i feel so guilty and ashamed

I will someday for what I did I understand you on a personal level

@@tesouik5836 Exactly the same for me!!!!!

I’m feeling you right now man

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.v

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.t

" I simply need to accept it" You said. It was a great reply, and all was encouraging. 🙏 But.. It is NOT THAT SIMPLE .!!! ( when everything you've had and worked for.... because of what YOU did., is gone.! Gone.. no wife you totally loved, no career job you enjoyed and the structure, purpose, security it gave, no house to live in, no joy in life anymore, the decline in mental/physical health.... I would like to find a way to forgive the person who's fault it was for totally ruining my life.. its me.

Wasn't your fault.

How could you possibly have known. It wasn't your fault in any way. If we had time machines none of us would have guilt. We would have peace

I am so sorry, Kane. You did not know. It was not your fault.

See, U cant control everything... May be that's God's plan..Many time people couldn't save their life doing everything possible.. so dont worry..if u think its ur mistake. Its ok. U r not God

You were only a child and you didn't know what was happening

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.t

same

Same, I badly want to undo everything since September 21, 2020

Relatable

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.s

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.s

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.w

Don't mix up your regret with guilt. What was the result of not telling him?

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.w

Jafar Ali Me too I feel awful for lying to her. I just wish to be forgiven for my hugr mistake

I forgive you

I forgive you bud :(

@@casi6930 i forgive you to

Jafar Ali please apologize to her

bruh I wasn't even her bf we were just talking and she was just super anoying and she called me dry trash, and I just said what was going trew my mind. we were texting and I feel like shit but she all crying n shit but we was talking for 5 days, the way I see it is u and me dint go together and stopping this before it starts is a lot better than letting a failed thing keep going, but she sees me like as if I was a monster cus she thought everything was going completely fine

How do you accidentally cheat on somebody?

Colbears.Babygirl I didn't reply to you in August because honestly, your comment was plain stupid. A friend of mine was raped when they had a boyfriend, does that count as accidentally cheating on them?

dude we're in same situation :(

Momentum HD i hurt my child its killing me

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.t

i love this message, thank you💗

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.v

what have you done ?

@Ryker rekyR that ain't true

Me too , just like when I have done something wrong but its just a little thing , I still feel guilty and I regret it doing and makes me feel depressed

I agree, or maybe I deserve worse.

Pretty late here but same

Same....

Jessa Rosario darn, we should start a support group

same. 3 years later and it still keeps me up on nights like this.

With you here. Two years later and every night I still wake up grieving. Over and over and over.

To all the girls who've ever broken my own heart: It's ok, I'm doing fine. Just focus on keeping your own heart in good repair, ok?

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.s

Thanks for this! But I just feel like my mistake is unforgivable.

its not your fault! everybody makes mistakes in there life. it's all about forgiveness and acceptance it will take time but you will get there

Same😂😂😂 I wanna die but this comment made me laugh

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.y

You are not the only one 😊 I've been feeling extremely guilty this whole week. From when I wake up until I go to sleep. 😥

I felt like I'm a bad person because someone said from my class that I'm fake, insensitive and have a strong personality. I think that they said hurtful things because I've also did too. Now, I'm feeling guilty

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.t

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.v

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.t

@@ryu7408 Thanks for telling me your story, I can understand how you feel. For me I am no longer thinking of the mistakes I made in the past, I already have gotten over it (but not exactly 100%). You can too if you just understand that u are not alone and u have friends to help and support u, and focus on positive things than negative things.

@@ninjapirate123 you are welcome. Thank you for your advice. I wish you all the best on your journey. ❤️☯️🙂

hi Ria, i did something really bad too that i can’t seem to forgive myself for. It’s almost been a year. feeling the judgement from my sister is one of the most difficult parts. after i told my family what I did, (roughly 3-4 months ago) the guilt never left, and now I just have intense shame. having my sister bring up the topic hurts, having my sister think she knows everything hurts. I understand where you’re coming from and i hope you can get through this, we can do this.

Dude me too

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.v

Chelsea Inglis The only reason why we would cause suffering for others is if we are suffering ourselves. If you believe you and your behavior is bad, that will perpetuate your behavior, not free you from it. This is not about convincing yourself that your behavior is good, it is about being really open and honest to discovering the truth. Which is always "I don't know". The only way you would use that as an excuse to hurt others is if you fully misunderstood the discovery.

^ True. I also found this inspiring quite from The Buddha: “Whoever has done harmful actions but later covers them up with good is like the moon which, freed from clouds, lights up the world.”

Noah Elkrief plz help me i cheated on my final exam and i feel so guilty what should i do?

Hi, Virginti Undecim. I would like to know where you found that quote. Let me know. If it's a book, I'd like to read it.

It's not about justifying... It's about moving on forward in life and learn to never repeat the past

I relate to that so hard

I guess we have to live with our mistakes. Humans are not perfect.

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.ad

killed why??

@@jeramy6122 he didn't kill, he almost did

@@nameless5053 how do you know ?

@@jeramy6122 he wrote it in the first sentence lol

@@nameless5053 lol XD

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.v

thats hiw i feel

Forgive yourself

I have two suggestions for you. 1) Imagine that he can hear you, and tell him how you now feel and think. 2) Help some other kids to appreciate their dads who love them.

I can relate. Feel like I’ve done that with so many people when I was younger to. Even though I try my best to do better, it’s immensely hard in a corrupted world and my own corrupted mind that only seems to be getting worse every day. So many things stopping me… Every day I ask myself, “when is it going to end; just when”????!!!!😩😫

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.ac

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.ae

Throw the whole grandpa away

@@floffycow2649 he’s dead now so jobs done 😃🤚

@@amalileversha2735 oh lmao, as he should😌👍🏻

Wasn't your grandpas fault he responded like that. Forgive him.

@@KrisVic91 how is it not his fault. the words literally came out of his mouth

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.y

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.t

i feel the same way. so glad we can both relate.

I’m the same. I want to forgive myself but then realise I’m making up excuses and maybe I’m just scared of others finding out. I’ve really been struggling the past few years after my mistake I kept repeating.

Because you realise that those things are wrong and will never do them again

Facts man this is my exact problem. No matter how I decide to love forward my past actions contradict my current morals and I feel I owe a debt

@@Garenop maybe you should do some work in the community or help people like the ones you hurt if you can e.g volunteering if you have time I’m just pulling at strings but I hope for the best for both of u

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.z

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.t

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.t

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.w

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.w

yep ..

i feel this same exact way. i was so ignorant. why did i think that was okay. i feel like i don’t deserve forgiveness. i know i’m not like that anymore and have acknowledged my actions and grown past it, but it still hurts to know i did these things. it haunts me everyday

@@evilsillys omg what did you do? because so many comments seem like they did something serious but then say I cheated on a test and I’m like wtf that’s not serious at all. Also you don’t have to tell me obviously but I’m curious since it sounds like real bad.

@@Jennchannel24 i’m sorry, i don’t feel very comfortable saying it, but i’ve learned to forgive myself and move on. it’s not that bad, though i just felt really really bad about it

@@Jennchannel24 all these other people things are no we’re near as bad as what I did ..so lesson of the day your fine what I did is unforgivable

My video on how to deal with anger explains it further. You can try watching that. If you were in control over which thoughts you believed, then you would never experience any unwanted emotions. That doesn't mean you can't try to address your thoughts (beliefs), but you just don't control whether it works or not. If it works sometimes, that doesn't prove you are in control. It just means it happened to work this time. But you don't control when it works and when it doesn't.

the point is don't try to correct the course of your thoughts all day 24/7 you just take a decision and act you just have to let go and be connected with the NOW TRUST yourself and intuition , ive never regreted folowing my intuition and on the other hand i alwasy regreted not folowing it , i got lost in thoughts because of putting in my mind some wrong beliefs not everything in the internet can help or is helpfull it can be harmfull like the drugs and products around the market they can say all the goods about it but it can opposite result you want same thing with psychology tips around the internet and the beliefs that made feel pain is number 1 ''what you think you become " and as a result everytime i read or watch or hear something about self doubt fear and i think about it i freak out thinking that i will fearfull and such things , and then i found out is ""what you think is what you think"" its your actions our actions that define us and our decisions

I consider our brains like a computer program. When it receives more information, new pathways are created and it can make new decisions. We are only "in control" as far as the information we are given. Even thoughts about a thought simply arise in the mind beyond our will. So any evaluation of thought is just another thought that arises in our brain without any wilful intention required. We believe we are in control because we focus on what appears in consciousness - the essence of our perceived existence. But we ignore that decisions are in fact made PRE-consciously. We are only ever aware of the result of our brain's functioning once it becomes conscious and conceptualised. But by that time, the dominoes leading to our thoughts and actions have already fallen. Even as I am writing this comment, all the words are simply arising in my consciousness. I didn't have to will them. They just... appeared. Yes, I can consider and evaluate these thoughts as they arise, but the consideration is also just a flow of thought. I can only assess my thoughts based on the available information in my brain. Yes, behaviour can change, but that is not proof we are in control, at least not in the true sense of the word. It just means we have received new information that has changed our "programming" and therefore the sequence of chemical reactions that lead to our thoughts and actions. That's why remorse is important, because it reprograms the mind towards corrective behaviour and more self awareness. But we can't will these things into existence. They have to be awakened by events, and often those events will be unconscious for long periods before they manifest into what we see as conscious reality.

do you have an example about how we can't choose our actions?

K Lady You have to define what you mean by "we" or "I" first. By that I mean, what is the locus point of decision making in our brains that is responsible for turning inaction into action? According to neuroscientists, that locus point doesn't exist (at least we haven't yet identified it). Therefore there is apparently no singular entity in the brain that authors action from a state of inaction. Actions are the result of a domino effect of thoughts and impulses, and thoughts/impulses simply arise out of the millions of chemical reactions occurring in our brains at any given moment. Free choice may be as impotent as a small fish trying to swim upstream in a strong downstream current.

I did the same thing... my bf was in indonesia, we hadn't been doing well, and I did the exact same thing... I felt awful and also called the moment i could. we managed for a while but the person I kissed was a mutual friend and he kept flirting with me and it just got to the point where I was unhappy and confused and somehow my bf and I broke up. I really regret how things went...

I know exactly how you feel. As a quick update I'll add that my ex invited me to his house after messaging me telling me he missed me etc. I expected to talk but he was all over me. I asked him what he wanted and he said he wanted to be with me, just not straight away. We ended up doing more than I was comfortable with, and immediately after he was very distant and saying things weren't the same. I ended up breaking up with him finally because essentially he lied about his feelings to take advantage of me. I had a reason to be angry with him which has helped me let go of him. As for your situation I can't help much but I can guarantee that things will be okay. Perhaps this happened for a reason. Ask yourself what led this to happen, there will be reasons. Forgive yourself and take time to reflect and focus on you. You'll be okay, it just takes time x

Thank you, honestly he's completely ignoring me, avoiding me as much as he can. We had our issues, communication was bad, he expected me to be more intimate than I was comfortable with, i'd feel ignored and lonely often, and like...I was just there. So stupid me went at grad campout and got waaaaay too intoxicated and made out with a friend. I fucked up big time because the mutual friend and I kept talking and stupid, sad me thought maybe I liked the friend. I wasn't reciprocating the flirting nor spending time with him alone but since he was part of our social circle it'd be more awkward to not talk. He kept flirting however, even when I went 'can you not'? After my bf and i broke up I thought I'd see if what I was feeling for this guy was real, nope...nope bad call, I am not in any way over my ex, and frankly I can't stand how things are. Idk what to do about it though...dunno if I CAN do anything about it...

Im a black out drinker. Iv been black out drunk and still pushed girls off me because i still have in my black out mind that i still have a girlfriend.. Even when she is mad at me and isn't talking to me for a few days because i embarrassed her because i blacked out and acted a fool in public around her family and friends.(keep in mind, this has happend 4 or 5 times) but even when im not sure if shes ever going to speak to me again, i have went to bar's with my buddies to try and get over her not speaking to me and iv been blind drunk and end up waking up the next morning to my friends asking me why i didnt talk to any girls, or why i was curbing each girl that tried to hit on me. Its because even when im blacked out i still know i need to remain loyal to the woman i love.

Congrats, you are better than the best of us. Not proud of anything I did but I get I can't go back and change it... just gotta learn and go forward.

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.ai

How are you now

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.v

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.ag

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.t

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.ah

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.t

@Nathan S it does

@@iamaweeb5103 no mate you can’t see the dislikes on a comment, only the Channel creator can see them I think

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.t

kamileishon You're welcome kamileishon. Make sure you are trying to discover that you're not to blame, rather than just understand it or believe it

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.t

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.w

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.v

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.w

Lol it was snowing when I lost it and it fell somewhere in the snow. And my dog found it and bringed it to me when we were taking walk after the snow melted. I am so lucky and so happy. The pendant is a bit damaged but no big deal. I am sooooo happy

Lol I found it after 2 weeks of guilt

Anđelija V. Hahahaha what a relief 😅

Anđelija V. Lol that’s good !

Yeah 😂😂

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.w

Stay strong ☀️

@@water6133 Thank you for the support 😊

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.aa

same i cru after i drink

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.ag

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.w

*"Everyone"* deserves to be forgiven? Yeah, you might wanna think again

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I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.z

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.v

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.ag

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.y

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.z

You can do this man, the best way I find to rid guilt is to confront it, and talk about it. Xoxo ❤️

Devin Arato thank you ❤️

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.y

+yasi ashrafi we're not perfect and we make mistakes sometimes

yasi ashrafi I have a similar experience and going through it right now. Mind if I ask; did you get over it and how'd you do that?

That's not even a big deal. You are young, it's ok to be a little wild sometimes. You didn't hurt anyone. Sexuality isn't something to be ashamed about; it's a gift. Society is SLOW in learning the truth about these things. You're fine. Acknowledge the thoughts of guilt or whatever, label them, and then focus on doing YOU!

Why was it inappropriate? Do you think it was immature? Are you more mature now? Guess what that's how maturity grows, you learn it from experience. Your fine :)

I did this last night, it was planned. How do I forgive myself? Have been crying since morning, silence has taken over me. I ruined my principles.

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.w