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How to Make Your EX Obsess Over You After a Breakup 

Coach Blac - Blacademic
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This is how you make your EX obsess over you after a breakup without chasing them or being needy. #breakups #exback #nocontact #avoidantattachment #datingadvice #datingtips
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@user-uc6oe1cy6m
@user-uc6oe1cy6m Год назад
If you want to keep em when they come back.....never and never and never be the same person that u use to be with em
@adelante3938
@adelante3938 Год назад
Yes ..... want that chance
@HolyRollerTV
@HolyRollerTV 5 месяцев назад
@@adelante3938 they ex for a reason..say no to oneitis
@Maudrick7
@Maudrick7 Год назад
I think the purpose of no contact is to focus and bring back the love again towards yourself and if your ex come back and you still want them then it's up to you but don't let your door close and give an opportunity to someone better come into your life.
@checkabagchad961
@checkabagchad961 Год назад
I'm out here turning up with other females acting like she never existed. Either she's gonna come back and act right or I'm gonna find a female who will. We are the stars of our own shows. Fuck these people who try to play games and act like you're supposed to chase them. Focus on you and keep bettering who tf you are. You will attract who is meant to be with you and they will stay
@HolyRollerTV
@HolyRollerTV 5 месяцев назад
thats right
@user-xx2fq3ff8c
@user-xx2fq3ff8c Год назад
Hi coach, you don't understand how timely this video is, I was disconnected from him for two months, complete silence on my part. And just 20 days ago he sent you a WhatsApp message "Happy Holidays" with two blue hearts. I waited so long and expected to see it work and you were right!!! I still haven't answered him back, I have to be careful with my steps now. Thank you for the video, hope it will be good. You are a champion
@joeperez2061
@joeperez2061 Год назад
They will obsess more when they do come back and yo say NO point blank period ....cause yes no contact they will come back but even if u make them earn u again ....when they finally do earn u ....game over again ...my opinion
@roser8911
@roser8911 Год назад
Why it always has to be games? 😢
@joeperez2061
@joeperez2061 Год назад
@@roser8911 u have to admit that most games are played by women
@roser8911
@roser8911 Год назад
@@joeperez2061 not really, my ex bf is 62 and I’m 32. Guess what? He still playing games….
@joeperez2061
@joeperez2061 Год назад
@@roser8911 Damn so if he's ur ex ? Who broke up with who ? Because from my exp ....even if the man breaks up first...the women usually is already mentally checked out
@roser8911
@roser8911 Год назад
@@joeperez2061 he broke up with me last years and I pleaded, begged to keep the relationship for months and he blocked me. Now he won’t stop texting me, showing up in places where I am. He’s hurting my feelings so much. I don’t want to know him… I just don’t want to think about him.
@azellesavage7155
@azellesavage7155 Год назад
Thank you... Very insightful.
@CatwalkPurz
@CatwalkPurz 4 месяца назад
Thank you so so so much! Great content! The best!
@goddess_Kate
@goddess_Kate Год назад
Golden advice 🍯
@oluwadamilolaoriade5426
@oluwadamilolaoriade5426 Год назад
From tiktok 🙏✌
@christopherdriver9369
@christopherdriver9369 Год назад
I found out last night that my ex is onto a new relationship and has been dating this guy for a month or more. They seem to be about to be official. She broke up with me on September 6th. I went NC on October 8th. She reached out to me about her bill that she was freaking out about on December 15th. At first, I thought she was reaching out because she was thinking about me. I was nothing but polite and kept it strictly on business. Now I feel like an idiot knowing that she's been dating some other dude while I've been entertaining thoughts of us back together. When I found that out, it almost sent me back to the despair I felt right after the breakup. Barely ate today and only slept an hour and a half last night. Maybe these are the last gasps of life for the hope I had for reconciliation.
@dampnickers
@dampnickers Год назад
Hey man! Similar experience to you. Three years ago. I really dislike videos of coaches saying how to make your ex obsessive over you. The only thing anyone should be doing is focusing on themselves. Getting to know themselves again. You've got this dude. Do a little bit every day. Be kind to yourself.
@christopherdriver9369
@christopherdriver9369 Год назад
@Nick Henderson for sure, man. Just focused on developing myself into who I want to be. The initial blow from that realization caused me to lose 10 lbs in a week as I processed the information. I just let go. Had to. Tried to post some positive messages on Social Media about the new year and posted a progress pic from my fitness progress. Apparently, her new bf was enraged by this and she adamantly declared that she had moved on (heard from a mutual friend). My only response was "good". I also clarified that my progress was for me, not for her or anyone else. Now, the new bf keeps popping up on the top of my suggested friends because he is likely stalking me. I'm just chilling, living my best life, and chasing those gains.
@tiphanydevilliers480
@tiphanydevilliers480 Год назад
You'll get better a little bit everyday. Take it as a blessing something better Is on the way. Be patient with yourself.
@christopherdriver9369
@christopherdriver9369 Год назад
@Tiphany Devilliers already finding that to be true. I feel like I have finally let go. 5 months after the breakup and I hardly really think about my ex anymore or the loss that occurred. In fact, I have a date set with a new girl this Sunday. I'm pretty excited to connect with someone new to see if they are a better fit.
@tiphanydevilliers480
@tiphanydevilliers480 Год назад
@Christopher Driver awesome. Best of luck for the future. Enjoy your date!
@Aracelitapiaaa
@Aracelitapiaaa Год назад
What’s crazy is that my dad used to tell me to do this when i was younger & i would say no contact didn’t work it’ll make them forget me 🤣🤣
@gilbertarellano4079
@gilbertarellano4079 Год назад
I love your content on TikTok, your account has helped me tremendously 🙏🏼 keep up the good work!
@christoffervik9997
@christoffervik9997 Год назад
Thank you so much, told my ex to leave my sisters Key at the door when she went out to meet her friends. She got FURIOUS!! And asked; "Why Chris, why can't we Just be friend's and share all the good things?" Made me feel like at fool for a moment, but it is so true, dont give them all the comfort they had around the realationship when they leave. Planning on going quiet from sunday and turn of my phone. HARD since we have a Son together, but I Just want to family back together.
@bl1zzard69
@bl1zzard69 Год назад
I broke up with her, she doesn't seem to value/respect my time and all I do for her and her daughter. So when you break up with them and do no contact apparently it goes both ways she doesn't contact me either. We made another slow attempt at hanging out I gave her 2 days notice told her do not be late, put your clothes out figure out what your wearing no excuses ,but she still has no respect for time hers or anybody else be it work, leisure ect. she claims it's not that serious and she told me she was going to be late.. I just stopped everything back into no contact...period! I have yet to see topics/tools on from relationship/dating coaches on when you break up with the woman and do no contact (it's not always the woman leaving a man).
@HolyRollerTV
@HolyRollerTV 5 месяцев назад
dude..never be a wallet for a baby mother, or mind another mans crumb snatchers..serious simp behaviour .
@june922
@june922 Год назад
How about if you have a child with that person, and they want to make excuses to say they want to see their child but the truth is to see what you up too.
@randybaca6132
@randybaca6132 Год назад
I'm believe your ex is just that walk away
@ciarabee6159
@ciarabee6159 6 месяцев назад
Dumpees want dumpers to obsess over them as this is how the dumpee feels: obsessed...and wanting them back What theyre really saying is "How do I get my ex to feels the same as me?" Chill. Calm down. Be objective. Be secure. Thats mote attractive. Let them be the same as THAT instead. You can do this.
@yarddawgs3105
@yarddawgs3105 Год назад
I really hope she comes back
@ChavisFlagg
@ChavisFlagg Месяц назад
Did she come back?
@eyeswideopen6356
@eyeswideopen6356 Год назад
I have broken no contact about 4 times with my ex. I dont call him but he calls me. He cheated on me and is still with the chic BUT he keeps telling me he loves me and wants to marry me. I wanted the reassurance so its why I kept answering. I spoke to him last Friday and told him to just be with the chic and be happy with her and that Im removing myself from the equation because as long as he can keep me as an option, keep bread crumbing me and having his cake then theres NO reason to do anything different on his end. Apparently, Im on his mind 1st thing in the mornings because he’s been calling5:30a before and since I last spoke to him last week. I AM NOT answering because I’m now following common sense and logic vs my heart. Theres a lot of other things that I said as well and because of it, HE’s on PANIC mode and I want him to stay there for awhile. I KNOW who I am and my self worth…if Im NOT the PRIORITY and the ONLY one, then I CANNOT be an OPTION…Period!
@crystalclontz
@crystalclontz Год назад
I'm curious what else did u say to him that's put him in panick mode? I think u made the rite decision. I am in a very similar situation, only I've got whiplash from him being hot and cold, constantly!! I am now in no contact and plan to stay that way!
@tiphanydevilliers480
@tiphanydevilliers480 Год назад
I thought I was the only one dealing with this shit. My story is genuinely similar to yours. Stay strong.
@nova12332
@nova12332 Год назад
Jesus why would u want him after all that
@kentmoore9641
@kentmoore9641 Год назад
Coach the no contact works now she is missing me I would like set up a appointment please my is Kent Moore
@moniqueg2012
@moniqueg2012 Год назад
Can you do a video on baby mothers/baby fathers
@monicacollier5916
@monicacollier5916 Год назад
Hi can I book a appointment with you
@elialswager3880
@elialswager3880 Год назад
Will this also make them change a lot of their bull shit and obvious reasons for the relationship problems?
@angelamorris1359
@angelamorris1359 Год назад
How can I book a one on one with you??
@MarieBeex0
@MarieBeex0 Год назад
What if your ex just stop communicating with you when you reachout they make it seem like they are just working busy with life basically ghosted you m. What do you do with that still no contact ??
@HolyRollerTV
@HolyRollerTV 5 месяцев назад
just leave them alone and crack on with your life
@lekshmipriyasanthosh7304
@lekshmipriyasanthosh7304 5 месяцев назад
Hi coach, actually he broke up with me almost a month ago i never giveup and always gone behind him and then my friends convinced me and i stopped it but later his mother called me (she doesn't know we were in a relationship she dont like that kind of stuff..) and asked me why no contacting him now while calling he was near her but i can't stop talking to her because she is very good to me but my doubt is during this no contact should i answer his mother's call or should i just ignore him only?
@fadwamollat3115
@fadwamollat3115 2 месяца назад
How can make this work if I have already texted called and begged him back
@nibhashukla3716
@nibhashukla3716 9 месяцев назад
How can I go in no contact we are in same team.. suggest me some tips plzz!
@oluwadamilolaoriade5426
@oluwadamilolaoriade5426 Год назад
How about if he blocked me WhatsApp, message and phone calls, this is only where we both used to communicate with each other and he blocked me 3 weeks ago. Within the 2 days of blocking I'm freaking out crying calling him but after 2 days I stopped calling or messages till now... but I remember him everyday and every time please any advice?
@crystalclontz
@crystalclontz Год назад
You should go no contact for sure!!
@emmanabuulejensen
@emmanabuulejensen Год назад
OMG. I do know how you feel. I am going through the same situation. He disreaspted me and we stoppet talking for a week. He contacted me by text then he called. He said that he was sorry for what he said. He called me six times the next day and i never answered. He texted me again n i texted back. I asked him wat he wanted. He said that he is going to leave me alone and he was going to block my number. He blocked me on watsapp and my number but not on messager. Today is day two but its still hard. I get pains. We two have to be strong n we will get throug it.
@klodt44
@klodt44 Год назад
the breakup hasnt been officially established but she moved back to her hometown after living together for 4 months. shes very push and pull. the last thing i said was i asked point blank, are you done with this relationship, is it over? i just...i need to know. so when should i go into no contact? before i get her resonse? its been 24 hrs since ive asked and no response. so do i need to just let her walk? and then let her come to me?
@crystalclontz
@crystalclontz Год назад
That's what I would do is go no contact. If she can't even give u an answer about if y'all are over or not, then I think it's pretty safe to assume, it's over and she just didn't want to tell you that. I'd say if u want any chance of having her back, you should go no contact. You were part of that relationship too!! Make her wonder whether or not you still want the relationship!! Worry about YOU for a change!! She will see how bad she messed up!!
@CatwalkPurz
@CatwalkPurz 6 месяцев назад
No answer, IS an answer. 🙏 update?
@mariaharo1268
@mariaharo1268 Год назад
If I go on in the NO CONTACT, BUT HE WOULD TEXT MY FRIEND AND ASK HOW AM I DOING. WHAT SHOULD MY FRIEND TELL HIM THEN? HE WILL PROBABLY I THINK THEN I DON'T CARE ABOUT HIM ANYMORE. PLEASE HELP ME!! THANK YOU FOR YOUR ADVICE.
@nino_94
@nino_94 11 месяцев назад
Hello Maria, how is it going on now?
@suliman7147
@suliman7147 Год назад
She keep block unblock! After 1 year she unblock then blocked me 🤣
@iwannabeloves
@iwannabeloves Год назад
My partner broke up with me a week before Christmas, 2 weeks before our son turns 1yr old from a 3yr relationship we were friends for a little over 30 yes before we dated I don't chase I don't call I don't text but he calls almost every day or skip a day or 2 and contact me how do I handle this and we still having sex weekly or biweekly, I've been thinking about completing no contact by stopping the sex too and I don't respond so quickly to not look desperate he said he didn't want to lose our friendship and wanted to keep that how do I handle this
@june922
@june922 Год назад
No sex with exes, cut it, you can have sex with someone else.
@francescopalazzi6700
@francescopalazzi6700 Год назад
Would "no contact" work on a narcissistic and avoidant ex as well?
@typicallytalya
@typicallytalya Год назад
Yup and don’t u dare break it
@Mew2Win
@Mew2Win 5 месяцев назад
It did, if she really is a narc that is
@Ericgodisgood
@Ericgodisgood Год назад
She blocked my number cuz I kept calling in texting a million times then I said harsh words then she started ignoring me so I change my number text her this my new number she blocked me told her it was best that we stop talking to each other for good then I just kept texting in calling after that then I was blocked
@ulramlao5698
@ulramlao5698 Год назад
Been divorced for 5 yrs. Still love my ex wife….we have 2 kids. Within the first yr of the breakup i tried many times to come back but she said no. No future for the 2 of us. After 5 yrs she still doesnt want to talk to me and if ever we talk she is still mad like mean mad. Anyone can tell me y she’s acting like that????
@nova12332
@nova12332 Год назад
Damm what happened between yall?
@timnelcin8717
@timnelcin8717 7 месяцев назад
I know you don't want to hear this, but it's time to move on
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