I just don’t understand how anyone, secure or insecure can learn to love being a relationship that consists of stonewalling, breadcrumbing and little to no reciprocity.
I just want to commend you on how you blend the psychological and spiritual elements of these somewhat complicated attachment styles and how to work on them internally 🙏🏼
Thank you for your generous share. Your videos have insightful and spiritual depth which make them outstand. This is so inspiring and I can relate. Thank you for your wisdom 😊
OMG!! This video is PERFECT for me!! It’s EXACTLY what I needed to hear now!! It’s like you made it for me!! Thank you so much Briana! I’m saving this! ❤
Great video! I was just contemplating a similar thought of avoiding things that bring up pain, versus sitting and thinking about why. Sit with the discomfort and then decide what to do when you know where the pain is coming from. Could be a memory, a person, or something physical in my case.
In this case, I’m describing an interdependent relationship. I think you might find this video helpful. Thank you for watching: Unlock True Love: 4 Steps to Secure Attachment in Dating ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-vQluwOOM18A.html
This explains me & my relationship circle during last 10 years. Tried to avoid avoidant partners, resulting in compromising & being hurt. Thank you for your great work ❤❤❤
I am an avoidant, and the work on myself and realization of my behaviour and difficulties in a relationship exhaust and make me lose hope, i feel like seeing things, but not being able to change them...losing a relationship once again...cant save it, is it all my fault? Is it not the right time and person yet? I cant go on right now...
@@ralucamera6574 that is what i have been clinging to...now having lost, thrown away, this actual relationship inspite of all the work and effort...its hard to maintain hope... But i appreciate your encouraging comment...thank you!
Thank you so much! Your videos are awesome. I have so many issues to fix I don't even know where to start I'm terrified of abandonment I'm terrified of being rejected I'm terrified of a loneliness. I have terrible self-esteem. Where do you suggest I start? ❤️🩹
Thank you for watching and for sharing a bit of your experience. When we experience a lot of fear, it usually means we have become disconnected from our core, spiritual self and the younger parts of us are in a state of confusion. In my eco system, my attachment 101 courses are a good place to start. Which you can access through this link: onlinecourses.brianamacwilliam.com/attachment-styles-assessment Otherwise I recommend watching this playlist on healing the inner child: ru-vid.com/group/PLrMVDDz2c7DMyzTjSNsqNUN-b3hTBapTQ