Hypergamy and the Modern Cuckold 

What? Against the law to aquire a paternity test without her permission? And 38 states force you to pay for another sperm donor's child? This makes me nauseated.

Wow. Compared to some of these horror stories, i got off easy.... i found my wife screwing around. I guess she felt guilty because we did the do it yourself 400$ divorce without lawyers and she asked for nothing..... i played nice until the divorce was finalized. I kept my house. My 401k and my pension. But i learned a valuable lesson and will never marry again......

it's cruel what men go through in this country but thanks to people like you we are waking up

This is the most underrated channel on RU-vid. Every male should be subscribed to this

This guy is worth the donation. Please consider supporting him. His content is totally worth it!

Mandatory DNA testing for newborns!

all you married guys that think " my wife will never cheat on me" guess again..anyone can be blindsided.

To my ex-wife's horror soon after I left she found out the man she was cheating on me with had a serious drinking problem & was a financial train wreck.

this is exactly why I contribute because you make good quality videos that I can put up on social media and attract other men to mgtow or whatever cause they want. I take a portion of the money that I would have spent every month on a woman and I donate it

Most women are not even sexually attracted to men in the way men are to women, visually aesthetic men are only eye candy to women, women always look beyond the physical whereas a man will put all of the onus on how a woman looks and this is where he fails miserably. Remember women have there pick when it comes to choosing men whereas men dont because with social media and the smart phone women are being constantly bombarded by men from every angle and they feel like a kid in a candy shop which feeds their entitlement mindset even more, compare that to even the most handsome looking man and he still wont get anywhere near the attention as even an average looking woman will get. If you as a man think your looks or person hood matter to women then you are sorely mistaken. Men are romanticists pretending to be realists, women are realists pretending to be romanticists. Food for thought anyone?

So this explains why a woman married to a well off guy would dump him for a thug. If she has financial security, she opts for a "Warrior" If she has a warrior, she opts for financial security.

My molecular biology professor (when teaching us about DNA screening) told us that when the tests first came out, large hospitals in the UK started using them as routine in the maternity wards. Unfortunately the tests showed a staggeringly high number of non-related births. And the number increased as did the rank of the birth. So first born babies were about 17% not-the-fathers and second born were about 20% and so on. The procedure caused so much trauma in the families that the hospitals had t stop doing it. I can't help feel that the *Birth* certificate should come in two levels; a legal document that contains a graphic DNA fingerprint of the mother, father and baby. And a decorative wall hanging (the one we have now) where you nominate who you want in each slot.

As a student of English, your oratory skills are extremely delightful to listen to. Rarely do I smile while listening to speakers, and you Sir are one of the very few that make me chuckle in every single video with your sharp satire.

I'm 30,I wish the MGTOW red pill movement was introduced to me by age 17

I was with a girl for 5 years she cheated and left me for another man..... The same week she got pregnant she rang me all night to cheat on him and now she's a single mother Ps I didn't answer the phone ! It's not mine.

I'm supporting this guy and his efforts. He's doing something worthy of praise & respect. ♥️🌹

As a boy I would hear quotes/statements from older men. Fathers/Uncles/Friends of family etc say things like (every woman has a inner whore ) or (any woman can be gotten at the right time) or ( A woman is never really loyal to ANYONE not even herself). Now these were always times with there absolutely no women around like hunting trips, duck blinds etc. The irony of it all is once you grow into manhood these quotes slam to the front of your mind after a divorce and or several relationships dealing with women. The shame is as men we dont really clarify to well........in til we step in it.

I didn't tell my first wife I was sterile,she said she didn't want children.Imagine my surprise when she got pregnant.After checking I was sperm free I had a vasectomy just in case a "miracle" should present itself in the future.Women have mistaken my smile as joy at being a father.Over time at my discretion, time and place they have had thier lies exposed.KNOWLEGE IS POWER.

"It's not like I 'planned' it. It just sort of 'happened.'"

Watching and listening to your videos is like listening to my dad, when we spoke on so many subjects. He has past now, at the age of 97, and I miss his advice and presence in my life, every day, and always will !!! And by the way, I am going on 77 myself.

Women should be treated as utilities. Smart men need to take control of their life's and look at what they can get out of a women and what they risk emotionally and financially and then act according. That could mean not cohabiting. Women have been doing this all along. I even know some that keep lists of available men and rate their utility before entering a relationship. Men need to consider what assets and income a women has. Does she have children, how does she relate to her family and friends. Men need to stop stumbling into relationships thinking that it's all about love and then ending up as emotional wrecks and financially ruined forever.

Hypergamy at its best. The role model should be masculinity, not the job of the father. My father had a hot dog cart and we were four children, three of us have PhD's and the other one is a mathematician. We support our old man nowadays. I was late to understand the situation but I am currently a proud MGTOW.

In my ideal world, women who fucked up would not get money for their mistakes.

Our biological drive to be with women is strong, but women do not have the same reciprocal desire. Therefore men are always deprived. I wish I was asexual.

Marriage ads getting displayed for this video. Google is funny. Found your channel a week ago. Reality had been conflicting with the social narrative for as long as I can remember and your videos made sense of it all. Many profound moments. Thank you.

Once I understood hypergamy, it allowed me to have better sexual relationships with women. Hard to hate someone for doing what comes naturally. Hard to blame them when you allow yourself to be played for a simp too. Use the knowledge to get what you want, definitely working for me.

I learned many years ago that it is way better to live with a harsh bitter truth than a beautiful nice looking lie!

Hospital and Health Insurance should support and cover paternity test to be done when the child is born, free of charge. About 10% of us are not fathered by the one we call dad.

That is a GREAT saying! "Women don't just marry up...they F_ck up!" Brilliantly said!

Just found your channel today I'm 60 yrs old I've been divorced 25 yrs Wish I would have met you 40 yrs ago I will be sending you some money!!! PS I sent a link to my grandson

single in the womb single till the tomb

Great video. So 30% of the time, the men that suspected that they weren't the father actually proved to be correct. But- that does not guarantee that the broad was not getting F'd by some other guy/guys in the meantime as well, even if it IS ur kid. Chances are, if you suspect she's cheating, she probably is. And, from my experience, even if you DON'T suspect it, she probably either is cheating or WILL cheat if she hasn't yet. Sad world...

I feel sorry for the kids, imagine your own mum lying to you....lying to the father and ruining their lives before they die and also ruining their newborns as soon as they start life - women really are an incredible gender

I remember going to a wedding of my wife's friend. Most of the Women there were with rich, tall and older men with high positions. My wife became furious when I called these Russian women gold diggers. What pisses me off the most is that there are plenty of great guys out there that women turn down because they're not "good enough". I heard some of her hot single friends go: Uh, I can't date a warehouseworker.. he doesn't have a degree..I can't tell my friends that I'm dating a postman. What kind of rolemodel would a postman be for my kids. Ladies: There are so many great guys out there who are not necessarily rich with fancy work titles who would be great dads. and you're turning em down.

Mr Elam: Thank you for what you do. Your videos and the musing contained therein are a highlight of my week. Best regards.

Man these short films are solid GOLD! Thankyou Paul!

My dad and Tom Leykis introduced me to this thought process 10 years ago. I had gotten a vasectomy 8 years ago and I say a little "thank you" every time I hear news (which seems like once a month these days) involving hypergamy or cuckoldry.

Well said, sir. Well said. You must take great pride and solace in seeing that you are no longer part of a lonely vanguard on the internet about men's rights. I watched a speech on RU-vid today given by a young man that must be less than half my age, running forward waving the flag high with the same message, but tailored to those of his generation. He used a phrase that struck me, he said that red pills are everywhere now, like candies scattered on the ground.

This is one of the finest video you have ever produced Paul.

Mainstream invites us to look up to dead men of intellect and wisdom but you sir will never be one of those men. The truth tellers of today must be buried and forgotten. Thank you for your work. I will be donating, this is a great cause.

I've seen times when money and status can even arouse a woman sexually as well, thats part of female nature too.

What a horrible failed "society" we have to live in. What an awful hand of cards we have been dealt. Don't be a sucker. Don't be taken to the cleaners. Live the truth no matter how much it hurts.

Awesome Video and Channel. Subscribed. Keep up the good work and message, Brother!!

Thought this was a high point post among many great ones. Sent a little support. Keep it up!

Smash her self esteem.Never let her know your all in when it comes to the relationship.Always keep her guessing.Keep yourself in shape,come home late and seem more concerned with your career than her.She will keep you.

Thank you for your brilliant analysis and the time and energy required .Thank you sir

If a women wants to stand any chance with me she needs to make at least 80k a year. Below that I'm not even interested for she would be a burden.

This is probably the best explanation on hypergamy I have heard.

What's the justification for criminalizing a paternity test?

God bless you. You are a good breath of fresh air for man victims of this society. I hope your knowledge and teaching will influence at least the young generation, because we, are already lost. (I'm sorry for the misspelling, English is my 5th language)

Guys, just don't get married, do not live with a woman and don't get one pregnant. Men need to move on.. to other things that they enjoy, hobbies, friends, family... Just stay away from women. I must admit, I do enjoy toying with women, flirting, collect phone numbers, with no intent at all. Who cares if they reject me now, Im not serous.

When I share links to your videos with my white knight 30 percenter brother, he stops speaking to me for a few days.

I hope someday people will start to think anything can happen to them instead of nothing can happen to them.

Here 2018, wish I knew about this 18 years ago.

Man...that is depressing.

Great videos been telling other men about your videos they are all hooked liked me

Coach Greg Adams has a great point. Whoever can afford the kid should get custody.

My brother married a woman who was pregnant after one of her boyfriends showed up at his house and beat my brother up, “it’s your kid!” It’s not, the second child which is his looks completely different. The woman chose the “tag you’ve it” method because my brother had a house and a good job, she still has affairs, by the way...

1st Take: "My advice to women is date all of them: the bad boys, the cool boys, the commitment-phobic boys, the crazy boys. But do not marry them. The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands. When it comes time to settle down, find someone who wants an equal partner. Someone who thinks women should be smart, opinionated and ambitious. Someone who values fairness and expects or, even better, wants to do his share in the home. These men exist and, trust me, over time, nothing is sexier." Yours sincerely, Sheryl Sandberg, chief operating officer of Facebook 2nd Take: “My music is always going to make a woman feel like a bad bitch. When you make a woman feel like she’s the baddest bitch in the room, to me, that’s female empowerment.” Decently yours, Cardi B. My Humble Take: What most simps, feminist fe/males, white-knights, betas and conservative guys fail to realize: bad boys provide excitement, novelty, unpredictability and fun (fear, roller-coaster drama) to a new level. In other words, stability and commitment (no longer) won't cut it for today's 🦄. Why is that? Before she was your girlfriend, wife or lover, she already had been "run through" so many guys. And each time she slept with someone (both wo/men), she lost a part of her soul. In other words, she is no longer able to have emotional attachment in a healthy or committed way. *The Manipulated Man* by Esther Vilar *Anatomy of Female Power* by Chinweizu Ibekwe *Silent Weapons for Quiet Wars: An Introductory Programing Manual* by Anonymous Isaiah 3:12 Childish leaders oppress my people, and women rule over them. O my people, your leaders mislead you; they send you down the wrong road. Proverbs 31:3 Don't give your strength (attention, resources, mental point origen) to women, nor your ways to that which destroys kings.

I think Islam has it correct when it comes to women. I truely believe this. Thank you again for the video.

Bless you for spending what you do. I will donate.

Elam, you are a God's sent!! Never has this been part of education, you are a "light" in the obscure marriage relationships

Great video I appreciate your channel.

Brotha I just wanted to say I appreciate you efforts. You Mgtow guys are healing men and women. This is bringing balanced to mens lives and for women to balance their personal masculine princiles within. I want to start giving back to about 8- 10 Mgtow guys on youtubb. You are one of them. Peace.

You sir are a Genius. Keep up the amazing work.

Excellent work ( French guy here ) It seems MGTOW goes viral. Sound quality and light is perfect.

France has recently made paternity testing illegal without a court order. A man is not allowed to even find out if the child he is paying for is his. Hearing people defend this because "the child comes first and men would stop providing for the child if he found out it wasnt his." No shit, and that's totally justified, why not make the actual father support the kid instead of the poor bastard being forced to raise a child that isn't his and is no doubt the product of adulterly. They've legislated hypergamy in favor of the mom, insane.

Dig the Guinness and double shot of Bourbon on the bar behind Paul... men need more of that!!

I don't know why this channel has only 105,000 subscribers.

Hypergamy is as old as the 'worlds oldest profession.' And yes, AWALT.

Look, that's not what it means. Polygamy means having multiple wives. Hypergamy means having hundreds, as with a Bronze Age dictator. Polygamy means you have to limit the number of wives because you are servicing their financial and emotional demands. An emperor doesn't have to concern himself with that, as he simply keeps the wives in line through terror and the physical guardsmanship of palace eunuchs. That is what hypergamy actually means -- it already has an assigned meaning!

I decided to cancel my cable after Alex Jones was banned for CNN's role in it. I am now supporting a few good men on Patreon, you included, Paul!

Respect for every one man show!

Thanks for the knowledge.

Good video. Subscribed. 👍👍👍

Completely off topic ol' bean, but what sort of kit are you shooting this on? That's a really nice chroma screen - particularly if you're running this live.

Thanks. Very good video.

Well sir it seems your just speaking on the facts the truth hurts that’s why it’s so hard to listen to it just saying if I get any woman pregnant the Worse thing to me is not knowing if your child is actually yours that just so evil thank you so much Mr. Elam keep the videos coming

Well done Sir. Best wishes, *A.

Damn this is eye opening

Tried making a one-time donation using CC from Canada. The state and zip code don't apply to me thus it wouldn't work.

Wait.....hold up.....If its illegal to get a test without the moms permission so if she says no is the "father" supposed to just deal with it? Can he be ordered to pay cs without the test? Im asking because I dont have kids.

No truer words spoken!

New sub. Blessed

Pretty depressing really, but also very true.

Another reason prostitution should be legalized......

I don't know what it means. Hmmm, now I have to watch the whole video.

Dammm that's fire my brotha......!!!!!!!

🤯🤯🤯 Subscribed!

How can the law possibly stop a dad from demanding a DNA test to prove that the hospital didn't make a mistake and is giving him his own child to take home?

Nevermind my question about your signoff on your previous video :D

He is such an amazing speaker ❤

Great channel

Good to see Paul has got Guinness sponsorship.

men all my respect you helpted me get the red pill thx !!!!!

it's excellent content, and intelligent.

next time anyone is out with his wife/ girlfriend and you see an old man with a younger wife , turn and ask your wife what do you think of that couple? chances are she will look in disgust and say she is only with him for the money and he would never get a woman like that if he was poor. 1 notice how she turns it on the mans fault for being rich and not the gold digging bitch . 2 ask her is she jealous of the other woman? she will say No but watch how uncomfortable she becomes with the question.

Maybe it comes down to animal instinct controlled by character first and foremost, followed by the cultural 'container' of what is accepted and sanctioned by the state. Thus, the most important aspect of any human being is their character, and how well they keep their animal impulses in check. This holds true for both men and women.

Black folks have a saying: "Mama's baby Daddy's maybe."

I'm a woman and I'm watching these videos to see another point of view. I watched a few videos already. Interesting info. Thanks