I Don't Do That (ANYMORE) 

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She's probably seen more action in a month than I have in decades.

No man wants a woman who says "I don't do that anymore", every man wants a woman who says "I never did that".

When You’re Accustomed to Privilege, Equality Feels Like Oppression

That's exactly how I feel as a man. If I find out a girl I'm dating was promiscous when she was younger, I lose interest immediately.

Years of sleeping around isn't a mistake. It's a lifestyle. It's a repeated, prolonged set of identical choices under similar circumstances. No woman spends years hooking up and can call it a "mistake". Sorry. People don't change. They just get desperate as walls close in and doors are slammed. Let someone else take that infidelity risk and help her try to whitewash her past.

This is the biggest issue that I have with these new modern day “empowered women,” they feel that they’re entitled to the benefits of having a traditional man without being a traditional woman themselves

Basically what she's saying is "I could never control myself around all those other guys, but I CAN control myself around YOU." Just the kinda thing you want to hear as a guy, huh? Who wants to serve as proof that she is actually capable of living a moral life? Isn't that what priests are for?

Her: I'm not a garden tool anymore. Him: I'm not a serial killer anymore. Yes, your past defines you.

Guys, don’t ignore your gut feelings. Your intuition is always right.

the irony is that when she finally gets a good guy who's unaware of her past or somehow just decides to ignore it, she will find him boring and cheat on him modern woman cannot receive real love and affection, only validation

There is always a beta who will do what she wants. Her self esteem is low. She wants Chad to do these things, which he won't, and will cheat on him with Chad. This exact same thing happened to me in college. I was dating this girl for three months no sex, yes I know. Found out from her roommates bf that he had a threesome with my gf and his gf. The humiliating effect crushed me. I found out that everything I had been taught how to treat women was wrong. I thanked the other guy, better to know.

This is facts. Most women have been ran through by age 21 these days and expect to be treated like they're special. If you gave it up so much and so freely, you're not that special.

"I want, I want, I want, I want, I want, I want" If she talks like this: Run away fast!

She is missing the entire point of dating. It's finding someone to enter into a relationship, not to use them for attention, cash and prizes

There are four steps to redemption 1. You must understand that you have done something wrong 2. You must openly acknowledge your wrongdoing 3. You must atone for your wrongful behaviour through penance 4. You must never repeat the wrongful behaviour. It’s entirely up to you.

"I want to put myself out there." Oh, she's most def been "putting out". But at the ripe old age of 25, she's slowly starting to realize that her milk isn't as fresh anymore and isn't getting the shoppers she used to get. She's begun her "Epiphany Stage" sooner than most modern womyn- but it's still too little, too late.

She’ll hide her past from the boyfriend and pretend to be a 1 or 2 body count woman, then 5 or 10 years into the relationship the man will meet some of her college friends/acquaintances and he’ll learn the truth. That, or he’ll find a pron tape of her getting a train run on her. He’ll likely choose to divorce her, and she’ll say he’s horrible for not accepting her past, even though she lied about it and it’s HER fault for the divorce. Shift blame, never take responsibility

I like how she said she's only had casual hookups but got butt hurt about it and wanted more effort lmao

Something interesting about the "access to sex" versus "access to commitment" economics is that it can work out badly - for exactly the same reasons - for men who price commitment too low.

I worked with a woman a few years back who's actions confused the HELL out of me. She was chubby, didnt have the best grooming, tended to smell like sour milk... yet she was always getting in trouble for wearing inappropriate clothing and was consonantly complaining abut the tinder smashes that wouldnt call her back. Finally figured it out when she showed me a pic of her in college. At 20 she was super cute. Her current reality at 30 had NOT changed her expectations whatsoever. She blamed men for not still treating her like that 20 year old she used to be.

At the end of the day, even if she finds a guy that gives her what she wants in comparison to the men who came before him, she won't be satisfied. It always boils down to, he's boring or to nice.

Likely she's hoping to find a guy who knows nothing about her past, and in attempts to appear as a diamond in the rough, she'll claim that the men in her past possessed some negative trait and that she was a victim of this. Moreover, It is also worth noting that this tactic, in stating that she is done with the bad boys/hooking up, is ultimately an admission of how her attraction to men functions, and to state otherwise is disingenuous. Essentially this is foreshadowing regarding what the man may expect in the future.

She can "hang out" with me and "whatever", but if she thinks she'll get more from me than a coffee for high quality throat she's more delusional than the looks.

I always get a chuckle when a woman says " I’ve decided ". It’s comical.

Its sad even teenagers will understand that it is a raw deal for men to pay for dates and spoil a promiscuous woman, but some educated woman with all her titles will argue that men should just forget a woman's past and accept her as she is what a joke.

The problem is, that lifestyle is already engrained into her at this point. She can pretend to be a good woman now, but chances are, at some point in her future, she's going to long for that fast life again. She knows what she's truly attracted to. She'll never be content with a good guy in a healthy relationship. It's not how she's wired.

I'm glad that the collective understanding of women has improved so much over the last few years. I wish these resources were available to me 15 years ago when I was completely bluepilled about women and thought being endlessly nice and giving to them was the right way to go. My dad did not give me good advice regarding women when I was younger. He'd just say, "They just want someone to love them."

Men are mistrustful of the “formerly” promiscuous woman in the same way that women are mistrustful of the “nice guy” because it is almost always not genuine. All of the negative connotations that Alexander discussed in this video are correct and given how difficult it can be to make a relationship work and last a lifetime under normal circumstances, why the hell would we make that even more difficult by entering into one with someone with a dubious past? That is basically the equivalent to being at the casino making bets and one of the bets is far less likely to pay off for you whilst also offering the same reward as all the others if you were lucky enough to win. Who in their right mind would put their money on the table for that? No one.

"I haven't put myself out there enough" Lol, I think you have.

In other words: "I am done with the male chicken carousel, so I DESERVE to be treated like it never happened."

All the hook ups, one night stands, 3 ways, or whatever kind of perversions she’s engaged in are just like an elicit drug. The more you do, the more it takes to get the same high. Her dopamine receptors are burned out, she is unable to pair bond and will likely destroy any relationships in her future. The world is drowning in women like this.

Anytime a woman says "I haven't really dated and mostly just hungout with guys and whatever" means that she's been completely ran through. I'm willing to bet she's got a body count in the high double digits.

Wants cake. And wants to eat it. You can't have it all ladies. There is always a price to pay somewhere

My biggest fear in entering this market is being lied to. So far my best defence was to not participate. I've watched so many male friends get burnt from my spectator seat.

“If you weren’t interested in me when you where young, I don’t see why I should be interested in you now” is a understandable feeling.

She went to college. Because of that her body count is likely 15+ (being generous). And now she expects to be taken seriously? Too late for that chick, more than minimal effort is reserved for good women. Not impulsive, non-virgin harlots.

The overuse of the word ‘like’ and the upward inflection on the end of her sentences tells me everything I need to know

I have seen several times when a woman was chasing a guy who is unfortunate for me to say, genetically blessed in a way that I am not. She offered sex and even allowed herself to get pregnant in hopes that he would settle down with her for a happy marriage. He did not. And she is still waiting for him!!! Now when you see that, you will have some questions such as: "Why am I supposed to chase girls, when I can see right here, a woman chasing a man?". That kind of experience, my fellow men, makes you question the system that forces men to chase women. Also it changed how you see how much society has evolved.

Never believe what a woman says, trust her actions.

Womanese translation: "I'm getting old and losing my looks so now I want someone to commit to me" Stay tuned for the upcoming "where are all the good men?"

How real is the ''alpha widowing'' affect on a woman's ability to be happy in her future relationships? Alpha widow is when she gets emotionally imprinted by a man to such an extent it ruins her ability to be happy in future relationships as those guys can't provide her the emotional intensity that previous man did. Two main points to determine if your relationship will last is if she has the ability to pair bond , and are you her best option (compared to her past). Its not just body count but alpha count. If she had few partners but one of them was her best (alpha) and you come along, she will resent you for settling with you and eventually leave or if she does stay its a conscious choice for security but she will not be as satisfied as she could have been if she didn't have a alpha ex to compare you too. If a woman has a high body count but your her best she's ever experienced she could be happy, but the high body count could set a precedence for seeking novelty or neutering her biochemical response to you as its desensitised by many bodies. How are we supposed to know if we are her best? As women can lie and be deceptive. If we haven't grown up with a girl we don't know her past and what really happened in her life / how she was in her relationships etc. Even if you are her best, if she doesn't have the ability to bond because her reward circuitry has been biochemically dampened by sleeping around a lot or through substance abuse / high dopamine lifestyle then she'll get bored quickly, she's conditioned her self to get addicted to infatuation or the honeymoon period and dopamine from novelty. Or, FOMO kicks in due to the internet/big cities and the illusion of access that theres something else better out there always tickling her hypergamy. Ironically, the more this knowledge is out there it is good for men to be aware of but the flip side is if women come to know of it, the more they can be deceptive and know what to hide from men and how to behave accordingly to secure us.

So she acted like a 304 till she’s 25 Now she’s going to turn on some magical switch and change there’s no logic there life does not work that way there’s always consequences to every action.

"I would encourage women in this position to step outside of themselves, to stop being so self-absorbed and actually consider what this experience must be like for the man." Oh Alexander. You beautiful cinnamon bun; too good, too pure for this world.

Truth to the social aspect. I was my wifes first and none of our friends ever voiced or gave off negative vibes when we finally got married. My boys never saw red flags and gave me props for finding a good one, while her friends basically saw it as some romantic disney soul mates thing. I had a friend that was getting serious with a girl that had a reputation and all of us tried to warn him. Too bad he didnt listen 😔

"Like, whatever, like, whatever, trauma, like". What a catch

Pair bonding in women is everything. Once gone she can never ever be depended on or trusted.

The way you flipped the script with that vacation example was brilliant. Great way to make the point relatable to women.

Before I would ever consider reentering the dating market, I would need these bare minimum requirements: 1. The entire legal structure needs to be changed. Equal prison times for the same crimes. The perp of domestic abuse is the one arrested, not the male. A father needs guaranteed rights to spend time with his children except if he is convinced of battery or abuse. 2. Women need to start speaking out on our behalf when it is appropriate. 3. No more censorship of antifeminist content. 4. Some men care, some men don’t: I have the right to know her history. Not in great detail. But I need the broad strokes. How many men has she dated? Was she a party animal? Did she “travel,” and where? What are her politics, and what has she said openly about men in the past? Did she date significantly older men? If you don’t care, fine. But a lot of us do care.

Here's a tip: If an attractive woman says she has been with three guys, the real number is probably closer to 3 digits (100+)

Translation: “I’m 25 and already blown out, and now I want some sucker to pamper me”, 😂🤷‍♂️

you go about this content in a very respectful manner. Brutally honest yet no bad-mouthing. I appreciate that.

Just wanted to say thank you for your input! Even though you make content for men, I as a woman (don't get confused by the account name) get really inspired by it. You show me a completely different view and make me reflect my behavior and aspire something more valuable. Keep up the good work!

If men got the milk for free in the past, why buy the whole cow

Louis Vuitton advertises their bags for $5 each. You wait in line and watch 500 people pay $5 and get their bag, but when you get to the counter they try to charge you $5000. Would you buy that bag knowing you are paying 1000x the price and everyone and their brother now has a Louis Vuitton bag?

All I hear is I WANT, I WANT, I WANT. Has anyone ever considered that someone might not WANT YOU. This goes for both men and women, but I hear it from women a lot.

I already feel sorry for my baby boy! I will try to prepare him, but I also know that he has to go through these experiences himself. 🥺

First! Women will never understand these things. But I think you're projecting some Alexander.. men will absolutely take her she won't hit the wall.for.a.while.and men will cater to her There's ten simps.for every self respecting man.

Regarding the women change, I don't agree. Once they lived the hook up game, they will be bored by the regular relationship and will keep this desire hidden fron you, being false and unsincer, taking the chance anytime they have, becouse they know the only payment they have to offer to her boyfriend is to give him sex. Not authenticity. .

It is hilarious how they like tell on themselves for like the whole world to see. Her insta must be a hoot. Also wanted to comment on the last points Alexander made. I look at a woman with a promiscuous past the same way I look at an alcoholic. I always wonder when the alcoholic is going to fall off the wagon. With the promiscuous woman I always wonder when they are going to fall onto some strange D.

5:15 That's a good point; it's like having put 200,000km on your cheap car since you bought it, now trying to sell it for more than you paid.

A.G. it does not matter one bit if she genuinely feels bad about her past or doesn't. It is still there. If i go buy a car and the person selling that car says, well i put a lot of miles on it, and its got a lot of damage, but i feel bad about that, why should i care ? It is still just as damaged whether she feels bad about it or not. Nice guys get leftovers and used cars.

An excellent video. There are decisions in life that have irreversible consequences. 'Nuff said.

Thank you, for your deep understanding about this issue.

Sadly a lot of girls act like that nowdays. So messed up :/ Great video ! ❤️❤️

Even if these type of women find someone, they will still be thinking in the back of the minds that they can do better because nothing was ever good enough for them and it became a habit. Also, a choice isn’t really a mistake, especially with casual hookups and using others for attention and validation just to build their egos. I’m a Christian, I made a mistake of trusting a girl who once used me for attention and validation years ago because we got on in the moment and everything felt right. Little did I know that she was using me, but I’ve become wiser ever since and only date Christian women because I have no time for causal hookups.

You make the choice, You have to live with the consequences.

"...hung out with guys, and, like...whatever..." Pay attention to the "whatever", because that's womanese for "every nasty act in the book, and also some stuff too nasty to include in the book"

She has already been “spoiled” for a lifetime by many guys lol. Spoiled, used, contaminated? Men stop paying for Chad’s leftovers that he got for free.

Well it’s simple, she’s going to lie to him about her body count.

hey great clips dude , well spoken and expressed in all your stuff.

i am grateful for your channel alexander, sometimes i am feel so low and your videos help me to keep my mental straight or at least feeling relatable with the other viewers. thank you

Great video Alex.

Saying "like" every third word. Up-speak (seemingly turning every statement into a question, as if she's not certain in her conviction about what she just said). This 25yo woman has an unserious mind.

I find it hilarious when a run through 304 thinks she’s a prize and men have to jump through hoops to amuse her! Future cat lady right here!

Once again a fantastic video. I am blown away how nicely you make everything make sense.

Alexander is a father we all did not have boys. Enjoy and learn while u can, cuz this is pure harmony. 🙏🏾 Thank you Grace!!

all what he says is SPOT ON! its 100% correct as a man i can confirm this. men are not stupid, we know how people are and how women are. we feel the cold hard truth early on

They want the whole social menu AFTER giving it up to everyone AND continuing to offer no commitment OR anything of substance in return.

Excellent analysis !

Honestly, the most brilliant part about this channel is that you'll never run out of content.

The look on Alex's face for the first bit, while he is watching, is what contempt looks like. Anyone ever looks at you like that, they really, really, super don't like you. Even so far as to say hate, or an enemy.

AG "she needs to step out of the situation and be less self absorbed...." That's so funny and optimistic on AG's part Self accountability is cryptonite for most women like her (most in general actually)

Very informative. Please keep up the content chief

Great video and insight. Love this. Great to get a public voice to my thought on modern dating culture.

Women just don’t get it. There is NO clean slate. If a women chooses to sleep around. Her choice. And when a man of value decides not to date or pursue a relationship with a her because of her past choices. His choice. Sorry ladies but you have to adapt to the needs of men in the dating market too. Men this is where you have a lot of power. Trust your gut. Hold the women you date to a high standard. It’s pretty black and white. Have strong boundaries. If they can’t meet them. Wipe them. Don’t invest. It works. Trust me. Men decide the relationship status.

She lost me 10 seconds in Cant even breathe without having to say “like” Ps, i was being generous with those 10 sec

You phrase these issues so well.

The frequency in which she uses the word 'like' after every other word is already a good indicator of her meager intellect.

I started liking girls at 4 yo. I grinded to get in shape in high school (dropped to 170 from 250), 6’1” with broad shoulders and big quads/hams from squads/deadlifts, developed excellent fashion sense, networked my way to a corporate job by 20, and this was all before “motivational speakers”/“life coaches” were on every corner. I’m 27 now, and have only ever had 1 date and am still a virgin (never had someone reciprocate mutual feelings towards me, and yes, I have high social intelligence, so that’s not the issue). Note: had one cheerleader I crushed on hard from HS reach out once she saw I was established, and I found out she had blown up after graduating. Basically gave concise responses to make sure she understood the tone of the present. The crazy thing is how much you learn about the dynamics of relationships, when you can never enter one. Essentially, there’s literal to no chance I’m interested in cultivating damaged goods for sacrificing time and youth for something less than top shelf. Advice: Aesthetics typically peak at 24, which means intelligent females should ideally be looking to lock something down by 23, sooner rather than later if they understand this.

Finally: I'm allowed to have concerns and preferences without being sexist :))

Very good points. 👍

Alexander I just wanted to tell you it takes guts to inquire so honestly as you do, and I for one appreciate the heck out of this effort

I want a holiday with cake, presents and a pony. If some strange can just give it to me for no reason that would be great.

Very traumatic trauma.

Alexander, this is one of your very best videos. It's beautifully explained. I thank you sir!

So many valid points in this video! 👍🏻

here's my point: all she has to say is that she has not done it. how can anyone verify? It's not like she's going to present her relationship history as if in an interview. all she needs to do is deny it and act cute like she doesn't know what a hook up is.

Everything Alexander said is true

This video is the best video/article in the internet explaining why once a woman decides to be promiscuous, there is no turning back from that decision and all the judgement and negative consequences that come with it.