Women Who Are Losing An Argument Always Do THIS 

Her: Men commit self-deletion because they don't talk about their feelings Also her: Men are trash and don't have any problems

I feel like my IQ dropped 10 points watching this young woman operate.

"Never argue with a stupid person. They will drag you down to their level and beat you with experience." - Mark Twain

This brought a thought. Women accusing us of misogyny is their reflection of the hate they have for men. Men normally don’t hate women. To find an actual misogynist is so hard because men tempt to want to be with women. Women tempt to hate men based on their choice of men. Weird stuff.

Insult a women in the same way she insulted him, and it's called abuse. If your female it's called empowerment. Actually it's called BS.

yes deflection is a big thing with them. i'm 8 years older than my sister and when we were younger and she did something bad, there was no way she would admit her wrongs and always deflected. she taught me evrything i know about women

I watched this interesting interview. The interviewee was talking about an experiment that was done to a group of women, those women had scars artificially put on them and they were told to go to a few job interviews and report back the discrimination they encountered because of the scarring. Before the women left for the job interviews the makeup artist said they needed to just do a little touchups to the scars. Unbeknownst to the women the artist removed the scars completely and these women went on to these interviews thinking they had these fake scars on their face. They came back reporting all kinds of discrimination they were faced with. The point of the experiment was to show that when you are (just like a placebo) told you are facing a certain discrimination because of 'something' you will look at anything to fulfill that thing that you just were told...like a self fulfilling prophecy. If you go around daily thinking you're a victim, you will look at everything you encounter through the eyes of that victim

I once asked my mom why most women get with bad men. She said "Because nice guys are boring." Problem is, they crave drama and see creeps that get in bar fights as exciting. Then, when they outlive their biological use, they are left as single mothers that devolve to cat ladies.

Super impressed with the young guy, he was keeping his cool & made a lot of sense. She knew that she was wrong, but she didn’t want to lose face so she kept going with her nonsense.

She literally said "I hate men" that is by definition "misandry". You cant have a logical intelligent conversation with this type of human. She has an infantile consciousness likely fueled by emotional trauma that she hasn't been able to process. I really wish this was uncommon but unfortunately, this attitude is almost becoming the norm and in some cases even considered fashionable :(

When i have a discussion with woman and she gets emotional i always say "that's why men are always ceos of the company, they don't get emotional" which actually triggers them more

I've experienced this for over 30 years. Anyone who has debated a Democrat knows exactly this kind of woman.

This is exactly what an argument looks like between a mother and a son.

Being a woman in the current year, especially in the Western world, is like having all the settings on "easy" mode. And then still complain because they can't beat the 1st boss.

I was talking to my mother , she is 97. She agreed with me when I said "most women dont listen to eachother , they just talk at the women they are talking to" , she agreed

"She is a female, and the tendency of females to be unable to distinguish between right and wrong is notorious." Bertrand Wooster - The Code of the Woosters

She had no real opinions. She mimics her surroundings.

Arguing with a woman like this is completely POINTLESS. It never works. You can use all of these strategies that Alex is laying out... and good luck to you. Ive done them all. In my experience having arguments/discussions with women that would require these tactics NEVER learn or listen. It is an effort in futility. You will be banging your head against the wall. The best thing you can do for your own sanity is.. walk away. Just do not engage at all. Trust me.. your mental state will thank you for it.

Remember that it isn't conscious deflection. It is the inability to think clearly and rationally.

Something like this JUST happened to me only a few days ago. a potential female tenant came for an interview and took stance on something she was DEAD wrong on ( As I know my field and that specific law I have researched as it has comes up often ) so she started doing what you see in this video to a point that she RIPPED up the application and stormed out of the office like a spoiled teenager !!! She was 32 she said! (I actually have part of it on video -The part where she storms out). There was a witness there too ( luckily as who knows what she might of concocted up ). And she claimed to have a government job! The witness I had say - "She was a super control freak type of woman and a danger to any man who does not have a witness around them" - which is why she got so angry and lost it! Violence is an attempt to gain control and not an inability to retain it!

"Men commit suicide more because they don't open up about their feelings" Has she considered the part where men that *do* open up are, on average, taken far less serious and being told to just deal with it? I mean, obviously not but shhhht.

Never, ever argue with an idiot. They'll drag you down to their level and win.

I quit dating because of this. It was over 10 years ago. Thanks for reiterating, my decision was right. I will show this video, whenever someone asks me about why I don't wanna have anything to do with modern women since I have no more energy to explain it myself to brainwashed people in my surroundings.

This explained how to deal with my mother in less then 20 minutes. As you as you said the word deflection I almost wanted to cry.

I had two girls that I had these intense emotional fights with and I always kept my calm. As soon as I realized them freaking out over the cycle of emotions I backed off and said we'll talk when we cool down because this leads to nowhere. You know what happened in both cases? The kept following me and demanded to continue arguing and because I refused they actually became physically aggressive. In both cases exactly. My next thing was then to push them away and leave the house as I'd never hit a woman in my life. And in both cases I of course heard an ultimatum, if I step through the door we're done for. Relationships like that = waste of time.

Yeah, I disagree on the emotional thing. Managed hundreds of women in my career. They are tough talking with there peers till they sit in front of me for a poor work performance discussion. The water works spring forth, when i start tackling what they are not doing, when they see me sitting there silent and emotionless waiting for the crying to finish, they 100% of the time drop the crying and finish the discussion. I've observed plenty of other male managers falk for that crap and never discipline their female staff and then complain about their work performance in management meetings. Wtf did you expect...

-Facts don't care about your feelings. -My feelings don't care about facts.

Never argue with someone who is committed to misunderstanding you.

Several times in my life, when having a conversation with women, either political or about men/women relations, it happened that at some point in the discussion they started to cry. I am not kidding, it has happened several times. And I was like, what, what happens? And they were like, "you are yelling at me", which it wasn't true. I wasn't even angry or anything, I just brought facts and solid arguments. Instead of admitting that I had a point, they manipulated me so I was some kind of bully, and I saw myself apologizing for something that I didn't do. I did nothing wrong and I ended up apologizing. You know those times when you are at home, alone, thinking about it and you are like, WTF? NO! Many of them use that tactic to "win" arguments. You can see many videos of men asking questions to feminists, and the moment he brings a statistic, they say things like, "you are being sexist and you are harassing me because of your condescending tone". The whole "micro aggressions" BS, like the "mansplaining" is just this tactic to an extreme level, for them to win, ALWAYS, even before the conversation has started.

When you live with a victim mentality, it's hard to have empathy for anyone else.

You hit the nail on the head with one word: HUMILITY A concept women CANNOT grasp.

It is all about deflection with women. So many years ago I caught one my exes in the act of cheating. I confronted her, and her response was what about all the bad things you do. I asked for examples, she couldn’t state even one, yet she kept saying there were so many, I asked her to tell me one thing I had done that would justify her cheating, again she said there were many, so out of “many” she could not state one example. So I just decided to leave, cut my loses and move on right then and there. She later tried to apologize and tell me how much she loved me and that she wanted to work it out, but I responded with, “since i do so many bad things to you, then I wont put you through it anymore. Better we just both move on.” She said she was wrong, that I really didn’t do any bad things, just that she was feeling so lonely because I worked so much and spent almost no time with her. Bear in mind that I worked about 45 hours per week at the time, and I would take her out after work about 4 times per week, once home from work, I spent all of that time with her, doing things with her, talking to her, showing her affection. So minus 45 hours per week, and minus sleeping times, the rest of the time I was taking her places she wanted to go, doing activities with her that she wanted to do, and showing her affection, but she now blames me for her cheating because she felt lonely. So even now when she was trying to convince me not to leave her she still deflects and blamed me for her wrongful act. The real truth was that when I caught her she was ready to leave me for the other guy, he didn’t know she was engaged, didn’t know about me at all, and he dumped her immediately. So now she had neither of us, and so she was going to try to get me to forgive and forget and just continue forward as if nothing happened. I told her that she needed to own what she did, and simply learn from it and move on because I was done.

Never argue with a woman, the same way you never argue with a child. Make your point, tell her how it is, then end the conversation. If she keeps arguing, which she will, just tell her "I'm not arguing with you," and walk away. It's your attention that she wants most of all. If you just make your point then end the argument and walk away, you'll literally blow her mind. She won't know how to react. Either she'll come around to your side, or you'll have one less problem in your life. Do everything on your terms, not hers. You be the sturdy rock, let her be the turbulent ocean that breaks on the rock. The minute you play her game, the chaotic waves and undertow that is women's "logic" will drag you down into the abyss. Hold your ground and you'll have tranquil seas for the rest of your days.

“You don’t even need to have discussions with women.” Very valid point. 🤣

My wife is humble and noble af, and even she deflects and confuses emotions with logic. For 8 years I've kept trying and believing this can change, that there is a way to appeal to her logic. THERE IS NOT. Now, for the entire past year, whenever she starts to argue with her emotions I tell her I will not debate on a woman's level, period.

It's pretty clear that there is not a single fact or tactic that could break through the walls this woman has put up around herself. She's the walking example of the "Who hurt you meme" that women use to silence and shame men. Just deep, deep hurt pure rage. Some of these women are social workers, police officers and lawyers. Women like this want men to be scared and in the world we live in today, you should be.

I'm glad that women make videos on social media spewing vitriolic nonsense about men and open misandry. It let's me understand them and what they really think of men in general. Tread carefully gentlemen.

This is what it is like talking to the majority of women. I feel like some woman have this logic barrier. This barrier keeps any logic from entering and only allows stupidity to be regurgitated. THEN I go back to my logical point into a circular argument. @Alexander Grace What I found hilarious is the comparison to a high quality woman and low quality woman... I think you meant most woman and unicorns XD. I have tried handling the deflection tactics in the same way (such as resolving the issue at hand 1st), but they ALWAYS go into another discussion and continue to deflect into a circular argument. At this point in my life, I tell woman, "I will not listen to your deflections and insults, we are talking about A NOT B NOT C... A. Now if you can not talk about A then you are not mentally mature enough to have this conversation. By not being able to even have the conversation you lost not only the argument but my respect."

Never heard of you before.. but man, you make a lot, a lot of sense. Thank you for the good work… greetings from Italy.

Disturbing increase of male su.cide. Women most affected lol!?

If they're switching between emotions like that, it's called borderline personality disorder

Might be your best video. So useful!

Yet another Excellent & Insightful video from Alexander Grace.

The most important thing is to never, EVER let the woman get you to feel guilty for being a man. I feel like when people want to point out how bad some men are, they just cut straight to the point and they say like yeah these men/behaviors of men are toxic etc. and on the other hand, when people want to say the same about some women or their behaviors, they need to first say all this BS mantra like: "yeah I do not mean to offend any woman, I mean, of course, not all of women are like that, and please understand, blah blah blah". Don't do it, do not ever apologize for speaking out your honest opinion only because some women might not like it. I always discuss the same way as if you were discussing with a man. Do you apologise every time before saying your opinion when speaking to men? No. So don't feel guilty only because women might not like your opinion. Well, who cares, it's time to grow up.

The term"man-up" has never applied to women. They don't own their mistakes, they don't rise to the occasion, they don't take responsibility.

Wow this video was a real eye opener, my ex girlfriend used these tactics constantly against me in any conversation we had where we disagreed. Everyone one of these tactics were used in our last conversation we had about breaking up. I stayed calm and collected and gathered everything she said and used her words verbatim towards her to show her how much she hated me and only was using me for me money and didn’t respect me in the slightest. After I pointed that out to her and she seen she had no hold over me she physically attacked me. 😂 so glad I am done with that.

I like this guy. Sheds light on the darkness but isnt polarized or disrespectful. I've been watching other stuff on RU-vid and it feels like misandry and misogyny thinly veiled and feels like I drank poison of the mind. This dude might be what is needed. Cheers mate

"You twisted my words" translated into womanspeak means "stop quoting me accurately."

Deflecting and changing a topic, I’ve watched women do that my whole life.

My sisters are like this. All they do is play victim, deflect, and manipulate. There's nothing you can do with people like that.

Well said!!

You just have to accept as a man, she will never admit she's wrong. Best case scenario she moves on, worst case she blames you for her own ignorance.

That guy: Statistically men are more likely to commit suicide that wumen: Women too That is not how that works lmao

Man I am so greatful for you. Stumbled upon a video of yours, instant like and subscription. Honestly, it makes me cry. I've shut off for a decade. I hurts. A whole f in lot. But I believe (not in god, but still)

Injecting poison and carrying hate in your heart is what so many do these days. That doesn't make any society more loving and humane. Getting out of your victimhood doesn't mean you have to be toxic, young lady.

Most men are instead hardwired to protect women and children, not harming them. Even the scumbags, the lowest kind of men, the criminals, in prisons, have "special treatment" for those sexual offenders. Moreso if the victims are minors. That's how bad men judge and punish their fellows who do such despicable things. It's utterly unacceptable. So don't come to tell us that most of us are.

NEVER argue with a woman outside of business related issues. NEVER!

3:19 🤣 he even does the face lmao... "she feels right" i cant stop laughing lmao!! 🤣

brilliant, love it

My last wife and I rarely argued. I once called a family meeting with my wife and my step- daughter over a house cleaning issue. Once the wife got emotional, all her hearing was turned off. I offered multiple solutions to the problem, and I know until this day, she never heard a single one of them. Once the emotions start, the conversation is over. In my case, she started blaming me for everything that came to her mind over the last dozen years. Neither the wife or step daughter ever cared to address the issue that was important to me. Best thing to do is to record the discussion, so you can play it back at a later time when they calm down….even they will be able to see how irrational they were.

I debated the so called wage gap with a female coworker that complained about it, she got employed 1 year after me, we have the same job and the same hours but she earned more then me so i asked her to explain that, man the cogs in her head where working in overdrive 🤣

And when the deflections and insults don't work they run away.

Women will NEVER admit that they are wrong!!!

Trying to have a rational and balanced "argument" or debate with a woman is nearly always a waste of time. The broader the topic, the more time you will waste with them. It rarely achieves anything other than frustration, exasperation and resentment.

a lot of men have adopted the same way of dealing with facts. a lot of people these days think their opinion about something is a fact. because a lot of people have the same opinion.

Brilliant!

All I can think is: "Man what happened to this girl to make her so bitter and hateful?" I feel empathy and compassion towards her despite the fact that she just hates mer for being a man.

The immaturity, hatred, lack of critical thinking, and lack of any respect is completely astounding in these young people. I've had relationships where my girl had this attitude and it's extremely exhausting to dispel constantly. When you're a man who has to focus on making money and facing all your other problems it really makes you not want to engage with women.

I figured this out when dealing with a narcissist. She’s trying to gaslight (make him get emotional) and that’s exactly what narcissists do. If you stay calm and keep steering the conversation on course they flip out because it’s closing in on them being accountable.

The first person that turns a debate into an argument has already admitted their loss.

They young guy was so well composed. Knew what was happening and wasn’t going to let it get to him.

"I'm still continually terrified by how little empathy women show for men and men's struggles." ... Damn. I am sorry to hear this. I am a woman and I have learned so much from your videos. This channel and the Stephen Speaks channel are really good ones. I know you are frustrated with women but continue doing this work for yourself and your audience. It's very helpful. Although focused for men, as a woman, I really appreciate your candidness. Thank you. .... Edit : I think women in general can't compute the fact that men have feelings and are actually human because society has conditioned us women to think they are automatic a-holes, dudes without feelings or just basically strong in general. I am still searching for an answer for this myself. What leads women to automatically think that men are not worthy of empathy? We need to address this. What is the root cause of this?

Thirty six years with an ex-wife who could NOT admit she was wrong! The woman in the video is an amateur at "word salad" compared to my ex.

The longer I remain single, the more glad I am about that decision. There is no way I would voluntarily have that sort of exhausting personality and energy around me. I have enough to deal with, I don't want that BS on top of it thankyouverymuch.

“You’re twisting my words.” Is womanese for, “Stop unwinding my bullshit with reason.” 😂

Exactly my wife, not having an argument: Changes topics, gets emotional, starts accusations against me. No logic based conversation possible.

this is why I don't talk to women unless I get paid

Honestly thats something I have have to work on, I should stop when people get emotional about discussing a topic I think in their mind it feels like im attacking them personally when im just trying to address the problems at hand 😅 thanks for making this video I learned some things

Always Respond, in conversation. Never REACT in conversation. There is a HUGE difference between the two.

I stopped arguing with women like that years ago, you're better off just leaving the data on the "table" and walking away. You cannot change a womans mind when she gets emotionally charged unless you plan on investing like 3hrs of time logically beating her down while she talks in circles, cries and accuses you of things. I've had that exact debate about sexual assault and mens responsibility towards it. I brought up the studies showing that less 5% of men account for nearly all the violent sexual assaults, the girl didn't really care about the info and didn't fully understand how bad it is for her to say that when I compared it to the race based crime statistics showing that a very very small proportion of black men account for 50% of the murders in the country but you still don't paint an entire race with that issue because that's morally reprehensible. Women are massively solipsistic even though they are generally much higher in agreeableness and compassion. They cannot see the world through any other view points than their own and when they feel they've been wronged then all logic goes out the window until they reach some sort of emotional satisfaction. It's the main reason why when they list what they have to offer to guys, it's just a reworded list of what they look for in men. Women today especially have little understanding of the risk factors and expectations placed on men in regards to sacrificing yourself physically for others. Women who were raised by single mothers are basically devoid of any understanding of the massive amounts of labor it takes for things like constructing a building, working on cars or replacing a roof on a house.

Most people don't enter a discussion to find a common understanding, they try to create a win - lose scenario to have a victory over. Because they aren't trying to find the truth they become an "advocate" for their own agenda or benefit. Their ego doesn't let them concede a point. Very few people are genuinely interested in being fair and truthful to others, they would rather their ego dictate that they achieve a win at the expense of everything.

A lot of them are not really aware at first, but when made aware they won't have it any other way.

These aren't woman. They are children.

Great video. Enjoyed it. A point I'd add. Is when "abusive men" are being described as a man that assumes ALL female emotion as manipulative. You are self diagnosing the root cause (or one of) that caused the man to become "abusive" in the first place. A woman can make or break a man/male/boy, especially during developmental years. And no where near enough is said about how corrosive and damaging and wicked a manipulative woman's impact is on her offspring.

Just wanna thank you that as a woman, I really love your videos. I get so much insight that is also scientifically based. Really helps with self reflecting on my past behaviour and I couldnt agree with your videos more. Thanks again for the great content!

I've found that in my arguments with women, I tend to argue from the facts and generally women attack my character.

I like the way he breaks down a woman’s thought process pattern like he’s a doctor trying to explain it to a incompetent patient 😂

I am a man and no one gave me anything. I worked hard, studied hard, fought my way in life so as to be able to provide for my future wife and family. What did she do?

I'm grateful for all the psychology courses I took in college. It's like having mind reading powers

The problem is the moment you challenge their ignorance you become an asshole.

We need more vids like this

Living the last 6 years with my mother and sister really just taught me to keep pushing your point home repeatedly and not letting them distract you. If you tell them the same argument over and over again ignoring what she's saying she'll have to agree at some point.

Woman has always been considered a natural victim (physically weaker, vulnerable, "oppressed" etc). Victim complex allows for a reason to deflect blame and not take accountability for bad actions. I don't think there's a cure ☺️

It’s a waste of one’s time even to engage this woman in conversation.

Makes me bring a whiteboard to a discussion like this and write down every statement of her's following a bold word "lie" or "false information".

She is better than most. Deflection, yes, arguing from feelings. Still watching. Still waiting for the ad hominem, man shaming etc. Assuming they don't know each other personally. So she is relatively 'constrained'.If she knows his fears, insecurities. It becomes ammunition to attack and avoid the point. That's why women want you to confide your feelings. Stored in her 'vault' for future use. The only real tears are the ones she sheds alone. Rest 'crocodile tears for manipulation. 🇦🇺🇬🇧🇨🇦🇺🇸🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

Don't argue with a fool or you are a fool yourself. A biblical quote.

Some of what Alexander is saying here aligns with something a therapist told me years ago. They're trying to get you to react. When you don't, it throws them off and they don't know how to follow that up. Also, the "female behavior" discussed here aligns with narcissistic behavior.

I've talked with a lot women and female friends. Deflection is the gold standard - the law I've eventually prepared for and have designed my language after. It can come aggressively or calm and cool which is the one I'm most used to. The exceptions mostly occur when the woman genuinely feels abandoned or out of touch with other women. She of course will have huge depression and/or anxiety problems.

"Atlas Shrug", that's what these women deserve.