Is Your Ex-Narcissist Evil? - (Narcissism Channels) 

I just turned 70. Narcissists are not human. Pediod! My empathy was spent to the point of almost complete annihilation. Whatever time I have left will be to treat them as evil predators. How God can still preserve a semblance of a person in me is nothing short of a miracle. Pray and educate dear friends!

This may sound strange but I am grateful I had the experience with the Narc. It taught me that evil exists and what it looks like. And I know that I made it out by the grace of God .

"Practicing a dark art", spot on! Yes, they absolutely know what they are doing is wrong.

They are aware, it's that they don't care. The only time they care at all is when they are exposed or caught, even then, they will double down on the lies and gaslighting. Get away from them! Nothing good is going to come from that evil.

I just thought people were mentally ill and we, as a society, should have compassion for them. After my last relationship with a serious narcissist which ended via discard by text from him, I feel like there actually is evil among us. You are exactly right. Their planned hurtful (deliberate) actions against you, when you are doing nothing but giving and loving to them, is pure evil. Who does these things?!

The Narc suddenly asked me how my wife died because i met the Narc soon after..( too soon ) I was telling the Narc how I had nursed my wife at home for five years 24/7 and that she was paralysed from the neck down and she went into hospital and developed complications and I was told by the doctors that I had to decide when to turn the life support machine off because there was nothing else that they could do for her...My wife wasn`t in a coma she was awake and talking but kept drifting of to sleep, so when I made that decision I knew that it would be the last time that i would speak to my wife and that my wife was not going to wake up...as I was telling this to the Narc...a small grin/smerk came over her face and she suddenly said in a sarcastic way....she actually said "Oh dear...blah blah blah blah blah" because she was fed up of hearing me talk of something that actually mattered to me and it wasn`t about the Narc and she wasn`t really interested......is that evil...? I would say so..!!

You have done more for me than the therapist I've paid 150 an hour to. Thank you so very much!!

She looked like a nice person when I first met her. She is actually one of the most evil people I have ever met here for only destruction.

I SURVIVED A TERRIBLE CHILDHOOD!!! MY PARENTS are Pure Evil MY SISTER is Pure Evil I was the Scapegoat, beaten daily, deprived of human needs They are not human and I Totally BELIEVE THEY ARE THE DEVILS CHILDREN!!!!! HELL AWAITS 👹

These people are like haunted houses full of ghosts. Ghosts of themselves mirroring responses back to you. They are morally insane. Went from making mistakes to practicing evil as a way of being. They know the difference between people in the light and those that live for darkness, it's how they determine yours and everyone else's suitable purpose.

They are aware, if they weren't, their evil behavior would appear to others. Instead , its only to their near and dear. That's manipulative and pure Evil.

The Bible says "They are without excuse" Ironic, cause they have an excuse for everything. And "The devil is the Father of ALL lies!"

It's very difficult for me now to trust anyone. It is a long road to recovery. What they did to me was horrific and unbelievable, I lost myself. I do believe its very dark, it made me feel dark, unworthy of love and appreciation. Your videos do help me so much! Thank you...

There is a veil that is worn. Human mistakes occur, but their behavior is beyond the explanation of human errors. Personality disorder can be suggested. Without a doubt, there is an element of evil. I have been in a murder trial because of one. There is an evil lurking behind that mans face. The game of evil is to conform you to this world. May God protect us all.

The only people who can understand the evil these people perpetuate on others are those of us who have been through this pure hell. They damage your psyche and take delight in tearing you down. It has been almost 7 months and the SOB hoovered me through my cousin! I took the bait and contacted me and told him to focus on his new supply and not me. I have been sick to my stomach since I heard from him.

It’s like waking up from a bad dream!

A Narcissist teaches us humility and to appreciate our soul. I am free again because of the grace of God. I admitted I was powerless over the Narcissist’s dilemma of lacking a soul and I let go and let God

They'll always be evil for sure. They've made a choice beforehand to do something that leads down the path of evil.

Living in the last days there is way too much blood shed our Heavenly Father will make things right in his own due time 😔

They delight in suffering.

Your so right they are Demons ! But when you walk away and get over them . They are so upset they lost you . Oh boy that really shows you can beat the Devil!

I tried to “mirror “ his behaviour to him. It didn’t end well. A lot of shame for even going there. I’ve come out of it seriously damaged. There is only one way out and it’s “ exit stage right “ run and keep running. Working hard at my recovery. Prayer, taking responsibility for my own actions, actively working to recover my light and joy. Made it out by the skin of my own teeth. Rejecting the evil in all its manifestations of them and around you is paramount to survival and recovery! It is an incredibly dangerous thing!! Surround yourself with ONLY good people. Not even one “iffy” person allowed. It’s the only way. Seriously it is true!

Powerful message ! It's a spirituele warfare . I believe no contact is the best you can do . dark energie wil flow away . it hurts when it's family .

Unintentionally being hurtful or rude happens to all of us. I believe most people try hard not to hurt others and try to be sensitive to other's feelings. People who know the things that hurt other people and continue to do them, are doing them deliberately. Most narcs can control their hatefulness in situations where civil behavior benefits them, or is necessary. That in itself is revealing: if you are capable of controlling your behavior, but you systematically abuse certain people, despite the pain you know you are causing them, then you are doing it on purpose. Period. I don't consider these creatures totally human.

Your channel has helped me so much. I absolutely believe they are demonic.

Paula your message is crystal clear. That must have been a very difficult topic to research and then talk about. I believe your beautiful cross was a shield of protection for you. I also believe in evil energy. How can a person who says they love you and promises to not hurt you anymore but then actually hurts you even worse. Apologies without a change in behavior and then has to justify everything they do. Please stay strong everyone and keep listening to these messages. It’s the only thing that kept me going. 💕🦋🐕

The air around them is poisonous. Good line!

Such a good summary. You are so right in saying that those who have been subjected to the full torture and dehumanisation that comes from being with a narcissist or psychopath will get every word of this. To others, it sounds as insane as it was.

This is so thought out and I agree.... many of us, empaths as well were harmed in childhood but chose, CHOSE not to do evil to other unlike the narcissist who CHOSE, chooses to do evil all their lives and never learn nor care to. Plain evil.....

This is a great video. You sound completely sane. Thank you for discussing this topic. Evil within narcissism needs to be discussed more often.

I am a believer in Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior. I had an experience with my NEX. He was standing over me, scolding and spitting in my face one night. I was under severe distress at this moment. I then said in a rather loud manner “ the Lord rebuke thee Satan. “. If you are not a believer perhaps this may not work. I am not sure. That being said, his head went backwards like he had been punched! His eyes were startled and he responded in a childlike voice “I am not Satan!” He seemed to be afraid of me. I did not rebuke in my name but that of Jesus. I experienced another narc a few years later that was losing control. He stopped in his tracks but his reaction was not as severe. This may save someone someday but I would not test this unless you are in real danger.

I definitely believe my narcissist had some evil entity, in addition to any psychological impairment he has. I saw his blue eyes with pupils far too overly wide open in daylight, with a dark shadow over his face from no material source. ... Once, he sat grinning real wide in a darkening room, and said in an eerie voice, "HE'S HERE NOW." "Who's here?" I asked. But he just sat, staring and grinning. "Go look at your father, " I said to our teenage kids in the next room, but they wouldn't. He eventually turned them against me. Lots of paranormal effects around him. Every day was Halloween with him. I began praying spiritual warfare prayers because of it.

I had an ex-covert-narc friend who discarded me after almost 40 yrs of friendship. Toward the end her mask began to slip and one day while she was manipulating me on the phone her voice went down really low for no reason-like a man's voice. I believe a demon was manifesting itself. She is possessed. Unless these people pursue healing and deliverance through intensive prayer, demons will manipulate and control them their entire lives! I'm so glad the Lord ended this demonic soul tie! I am finally free!

Throwing a person in your face is pure evil bacially saying they are better than you is something I can't rap my mind around. They try to extort your love

My whole family had gaslighted me for years …I always dismissed it and excused them as being immature. I didn’t realize it went so far as they couldn’t wait until my ex discarded me as they discarded me along with him. They all wanted me alone and wanting to take my own life. This validates how evil I suspect they actually are. Thank you 🙏

I am still finding it hard it is over 2 years I got away after 40 years all you say is spot on thank you.

I may get flack for this, but my take is if people do evil, and are aware that their actions are evil, that awareness is proof of the rot inside. If they do evil, and allow themselves to be used for that purpose, they are complicit in allowing themselves to be used, even if they are not aware of the evil intent. In the latter instance, an evil heart is not a requirement, but the willingness to be used by others without question when they DO know the stakes are high is proof of their willingness to abdicate collective responsibility. There are two kinds of responsibilities: personal and collective. I think in today's world this notion has been lost.

Yes! It is evil! These predators are evil.

Yes, as i,ve healed over the last year the thought of his name makes my whole body go cold, covert narcs (higher level) dangerous !!🤢🤮

My sister literally chose the path of narcissism. Same upbringing as me, but she wanted always to have the upperhand, not me. The path I chose, is more painful, but I can't bring myself to be any different. I must, at least, try to take better care of myself.

On our very first date, he told me he was going to love me. I looked at him and asked “are you the devil?” I always knew. I really did.

Machiavellian!

I agree with Free Spirit; I'm grateful for my growth and maturity I had to reach in order to come to terms with what I experienced for seven years knowing a narcissist intimately. He tried to destroy me. He drugged me, raped me, lied to me, and tried to take half my home while not legally being a partner nor did he contribute financially! The list of things he did to me, including triangulation, hoovering incessantly and many other calamities made for a very long and scary journey that I endured because I kept forgiving him out of compassion. The end result was that I compromised and lost my sense of self. I'm free now and I so appreciate your (Narc Con) videos--you say what many people are afraid to say, and that is that when dealing with this type of personality disorder--you are dealing with Darkness that is beyond the ability to endure. I also recommend to leave the narcissist behind and leave the debris up to God. I'm not deeply religious, but I do believe in a higher benevolent power!

It is the silence of the so called good people that made evil to triumph.

This could not have been more accurate. My ex narcissist took everything from me. He was a heroin addict. I was the scapegoat in a narcissistic family so became dependent on a lot of substances, myself, in order to keep functioning and stay productive, despite my depression, anxiety and attention deficits. These eventually stopped working for me and I broke free of them with a lot of work. Shortly thereafter, I came into contact with a truly evil covert narcissist who seduced me with wanting to be saved from his addiction. In my new sobriety, I felt very confident, empowered and motivated to save others and put all of my love, energy, time and resources into saving this man for almost 4 years. There were many indications along the way that he had no intentions of getting clean and staying clean but he was extremely manipulative and gaslighting. He abandoned me during the pandemic and I was suicidal for quite some time. He kept coming back around whenever i would start to get my power back. It was at this time that all of my best friends began to die suddenly. They were young, between the ages of 36 and 50. I was falling apart and he would use this as an opportunity to hoover me. I was so dissociated that I allowed it to happen. He had convinced me we were soul mates and that he had to protect me. Every time I was finished with him, another friend would die and I would seek comfort from him as he had me very isolated. After the funeral of a mutual friend, I got arrested for possession of marijuana and Xanax in another state and went to jail for a couple of weeks during the height of the pandemic. No one knew what had happened to me except for him. He used this opportunity to start a giant smear campaign and went into my apartment and stole my safe with all of the money that I had left. He framed someone else so I was very confused upon my release. I allowed him to gaslight me for another month before I put all of the clues together. When I questioned him, he evaporated and blocked me. Most of our mutual friends had blocked me as well. I was relieved to have all of the toxic people fall away from my life. It cost me everything and I have nothing left but it was worth it to finally see and know when to set boundaries. Im six months out and still very much struggling. I spend most of my days listening to videos like this and seeking answers and solace. Thank you so much for your wisdom.

Paula thank you for this🙏🏻 A key red flag for me was when his Mom called me and begged me to take him back after I kicked him out for the 4th and final time as he was calling her and needing a place to live and wanted to go back and live with her. He is 53 years old and she's in her 80s. She finally admitted to me at that time that he had been disordered since he was a child and her and her husband had taken him to several psychologists to try to determine what could he done. As you mentioned in the video, up to that time her and the rest of his family said absolutely nothing to me about his issues that go way, way back before he even met me. He likely made the same "deal with the Devil" as others with similar disorders as a child. Prayers and positive energy to all on the channel and to you!🙏🏻✝️

Pure evil is demonic so yes they are demonic

"Together We Stand Divided We Fall"

Mine was so good at deceit she fooled most of the pastors...but not all of them, there was 1 wise enough to see what was going on, tbh- it makes me question the discernment of the other 2 who would teach I am Partly to blame for her lying, cheating, and stealing.

I spent my time trying to please the Narcissist s. I was groomed, and now that l am 60, I am just figuring it out Thanks to your video.⛄️🎄⛄️🎄⛄️🎄

Well Paula, i have a sm. Victory against the narc. He said if i took him to child support i would only get $50 well the judge proof him wrong yesterday. He had to pay 6 Times that amount. He automatically received a narc injury. You could hear his deep breathing. Omg, karma came knocking hard.

Why can't we believe in light beings and dark beings on this earth. Manifest living evil. Empath vs Demons

I am still experiencing those dark coils wrapping my inner being paula, my mind, my emotion, my heart and soul. I am still trying to break free. It's very hard to pray.

Paula, I agree it is darkness and disordered both. You look so pretty today! 💃🌷😊I have prayed for humanity itself, asking God to take out the darkness from humanity, this evil. It is necessary for us to remember how dangerous these people are. Red flags must be seen, and we can have compassion, but at a distance only. I have begun my own Bible reading, prayer, and fasting to strengthen my relationship with God. I want to be the person my Creator made me to be, and only in the light.

And they will do it again,again,again and again and again, on and on it goes it NEVER stops WE ALL KNOW‼️ Count your blessings and go your own your way.....you are first,second and third with your wonderful self ✨️

Their eyes ......

Please Pray for me....I need to trust God to take me out of this situation with narc spouse of 15yrs. I have seen the demon in his eyes when he tried to strangle me. My spirit is telling me to trust God and that my deliverance is near for me and my young kids.

Thank you for very wise counsel. I've had a long life-time of this kind of abuse from two older sisters and thank Jesus I now understand what's been going on because of people like you. I need to be reminded regularly to move on without them. I got sick of being a doormat and non-existent until they needed something. Thank the Good Lord and Shepherd for these revelations of wolves in sheep's clothing. God bless you and protect you as you speak about all this wickedness.

If the world had only "narcissists" every moment would be like a nightmare come to life. Somewhere between The Purge and the most disgusting XXX you could imagine, would be life on earth.

A person without a conscience is evil

Two of the favorite movies of the narcissist who was very instrumental in getting me put on the organized stalking and harassment sh*t list from hell were "Heathers" and "Reservoir Dogs". The first is about inducing suicide and the second is aboug sophisticated criminal controllers hiding behind marked people.

Years ago my sister the narc openly said “I’m embracing my dark side , we all have one “

I’m totally addicted to this lady. What a wonderful human being. Perfect delivery on every single video

It must have been by a divine appointment that your channel popped on my screen! Just what I needed, at the perfect time! Thank You!

Every question I ask is answered with a lie to elevate him above me. I'm constantly told of scary, vindictive acts against people who stood up for themselves. Things that are criminal. These things are scary and I know there's nothing good in this. Heaven help us all.

You are a true light to all of us who have suffered at the hands of evil. I am grateful for your sharing and frankness. They are dangerous. Once out if the fog it is amazing to realize what weve been through. I need to listen to tjis iver and iver again. It is difficult to accept the evil we are dealung with. It is encouraging to realuze that we must ficus on our gid given ourpose. Makes it all so much easier. Be free everyone.

Excellent video, Paula! ❤ Thank you.

You are SOOOO right dear lady Oh my goodness!!!When I was in my late teens,and early twenties, I was the target of 3 evil women who wanted me destroyed ( I had no understanding whatsoever of th EVIL I was dealing with at the time) Looking back it is all perfectly clear. I KNEW something was terribly wrong, but that was about it. It came down to being drugged, being raped,several suicide attempts, and many hospital stays,recoveries that took months & even once over a year!! To say they are not a good person is an EXTREME understatement.....be thankful if you are not their target, but woe to those of us who have been “chosen” ....and the best thing you can do is put on the armor of GOD, pray and watch videos that can educate you to protect your spirit from these satanic creatures. They are never satisfied until they completely destroy you!! DON”T LET IT HAPPEN!! I have managed to get to age70 only w/ God’s help and my husband who is an angel and helps protect us. Been at death’ door many, many times because of Narcissits, evil ‘doings’,but by God’s grace managed to live!!!DO NOT TAKE THESE WICKED creatures lightly, Please believe this lady and me, they are unbelievably DANGEROUS>Read John 10;10 and many other Bible verses that warn us abou the devil’s plans for us ( He works thro narcissistic demonic “people”) MAKE no mistake about that ,,,,,Be vigilant and very aware. Blessings 💕

Not only they don't care to do evil, they enjoy that so much, they are proud of that, they own evil seems to them "to be powerfull" and beyond de law....

Paula this was so beautiful and true!!!! Thanks

Paula you tell it so very well. Glad you included the family knowing. Of course they created this mess. That mother in law, so disgusting, would not let her son go.

Powerful stuff Paula... thanks to you again.... another brick out of the wall...

I'm so sorry that the mother in law instigated our separation but she passed away the next day. The whole thing I believe spiritual.

The best thing that has come from this (so far) is that I have seen true evil, and its not ME! Amen!

I agree 💯 ! Well stated, with strong summary and encouragement at the end. Bravo 👏

Its just so upsetting that I did nothing to her when I met her , I was nice, respectful, loving. In Return, she upfront Hated Me, Jealous of Me, and from Day 1, set Plans To Destroy and Divorce Me Intentionally!

Your videos are helping me heal. Thank you 🤍

Thank you for your courage in addressing the spiritual aspect of this. It is so critical.

Thank you Paula for the years of validation about these crime-tures

I just wanted to say, I love your opening music/song. Every time I hear it, it soothes me. Your videos are the best on this topic...the best there is. Thank you.

Paula! This is your best reveal! But I thought the same about the last one. Your well chosen words and guidance will benefit all who have or are presently enduring the agonizing grip of the evil forces of the demonic spirits. Thank you for shining your light in such a dark and evil world. May HIS blessings continue to mount you on the wings of eagles to transport you to your highest calling. May all the glory be to the Father in heaven above. Amen.

the bible tells us what narcissists do; Psalm 37:12 12The wicked plot against the righteous and gnash their teeth at them;

I have been thru it once ,once is enough for me ! I will say to you Paula you are beautiful ,you are awesome !

To use the terms and perspective of this video, the devil has been after me all my life. One year post Covert Narc "romantic relationship" I have a framework and vocabulary to acknowledge and describe what I have been through for the first time in my life. 51 years old. Knowing that I have been abused is actually validating and now I am consumed with sorting through it all and determined to become a thriver. My sleeves are rolled up and I'm in it like never before and day by day it SLOWLY gets better. I'm with you on the half and half, both perspectives resonate with me. I remember seeing auras sometimes as a child and I can feel energy especially with my hands. So currently looking into Somatic therapy to help with my healing. I also love the academic research. Will be pretty cool to actually think I have a purpose or anything good or useful to share with the world. Thanks for your bravery in making these posts, I absolutely relate.💖

There is something deeply spiritually wrong with the narcissist; when they have chosen to reject the Golden Rule: "Do unto others as you'd have done to you".

THANK YOU... THANK YOU... THANK YOU!!!! PAULA.. THIS VIDEO IS STELLAR!

At (13:40 --14.18) your every word is exact! Your knowledge is so empowering.

Thanks Paula for another video explained so accurately. Makes so much sense! 🙏🌼

Awesome video.. you hit the ball out of the park 💯..thank you 🙏

Great chat. It takes time to get to this point of view. WOW again wonderful chat thank you

Hi Paula. Thank you so much. You got this spot-on.

Whoa! I felt the bonds from the narcs breaking off me after listening to this!!! Watching again....

HI, This was the very best one I have seen so far of yours. Thanks

So true on so many levels. Thanks for this message. They are evil 👿

My heart would beat a lot harder as I listened to this message! TRUE! I'm blessed to have come across you, Paula. NPD experts just don't dare get ALSO into their spirituality. They explain this disorder very well but only at the psychological level.

Thank you for your videos. This one really helps me.

I have been watching this stuff for so long now. You are in the top 3 of them all. However you are number one in getting my heart to feel better. Love Love

Thank you I needed this completely,he nearly finished me again second time around x

One of the best videos on this subject matter very clear cut and encouraging, Thank you so much 🙏 Get free, Stay free and if you’re not free yet know you’re not alone God sees you and has a beautiful future for you!!!!!! 💕

I agree. Thank you Paula. ❤🙏💕