Jordan Peterson ~ Different Types Of Depressed People 

Same

Yea so now you know you aren't depressed but your life simply sucks. good to know, right?

Same

SaltyDVa. I was wishing to meet him too.

@@danielross51086 I don't live in Canada and I'm from Europe

The combative interviews he's had were strange, but other than that, I have not seen much hatred for him. I guess some far-right, fascist, religious, and racist groups don't like him because he's not fascist, racist, or extremely religious, and they see him as competition? Some intellectual/scientific experts don't like that he draws upon their fields in a kind of unnuanced, pop-sci kind of way to construct his narrative/beliefs. Also, he went on a crusade about being forced to use peoples' pronouns of choice, which transgender people and their allies didn't like. He has a strange obsession with communism. I've only seen him speak of the "left" with disdain - This is probably where he gets most of the "hate" from, but I think that's too strong of a word. Personally, I'm pretty far left (I think most countries should add more socialism to their mixed economies), but I like Jordan Peterson. I just don't agree with pretty much any of his political beliefs.

Ludik if you speak enough truth regardless of what people are going to think, you will find out.

Well they knew once, but now it's just automated.

Because most philosophers or psychologists are frowned upon. It shows threw out history.

Insecure people

:((

FW the point is that he is just pedding pop psychology and no shit Sherlock obvious stuff, but taking hours to say it and dressing up with big words to make everybody feel smart before realizing the fucking obvious LOL Then he makes people feel bad for not being perfect according to his standards, and tells them that he can provide it with his 10 easy rules. He just can't give a straight answer, because then everybody would realize he is just a fraud.

@@SovereignStatesman Lol

@@SovereignStatesman He puts into proper words many things that are being disconstructed by society nowadays and making people feel confused and lost, since they're actually far from what a human being naturally wants (friends, family, work, meaning in life). He helps normal non pretentious people understand things they couldn't understand before without simplifying them. He helps people understand themselves. What makes you think psychology is much deeper than this? Hopefully a healthy person won't go much deeper than this. It isn't pleasant to think too much to the point of considering yourself a philosopher. I think his work is legit, because he explains things that are probably going to be useful for someone who feels lost in life, and many people do. Me as a young person, it made me feel better that somethings he (a proper adult) explains make sense, since I'm so used to the world being crazy at this point, and seeing adults behaving like kids.

sounds like a perfect life, except i wanna be really passionate about my job too, my creative brain turned into bipolar brain after trauma happened and i didnt even knew i had been through trauma

Psychologists are not sane at all, he just has amazing analysing properties.

@@SpookyWatcher care to elaborate on the insanity of psychologists?

Voidhowl they have to deal with a lot of mental cases, also analyse what is going inside their heads. That being said it’s a noble sacrifice.

How exactly does that make the practitioner insane?

@@SpookyWatcher I think it's more that hes educated and has 30+ years experience in his field - psychology and sociology and the like

The sweetest mouth has the sharpest teeth

Amen! The “nicest” men ended up being the most abusive.

Covert narcissists are highly dangerous.My theory is they are probably the number one cause of a spectrum of illnesses that end in madness.

@@welderella Its also possible to be legitimately nice and still hurt you without them being abusive, for example if they feed into your bad habits.

@@welderella getting in here to also say the "nicest" women can also be the most ungrateful and/or abusive with a dash of toxicity

lol you're in the right path fam

Humans are very predictable to the higher intellects.

Was just about to write that, are we related? :)

predictable maybe yes, but still can't get along as much as one should tbh.

No, we humans just do not differ much. Especially the less educated ones act more on emotions and there you have predictabke patterns. You will not be able to predict a future but you will be able to constraint possible futures with some level of accuracy.

Woah, it's very sad that you should feel that.

@@dinok7630 How could that possibly be described as a real friendship?

@@dinok7630 There is good criticism and bad criticism. If they criticize you for bad habits and bad decisions and they are trying to help thats positive. But if its all to put you down thats negative.

@Ronaldo Hyde Same, man

Yep. Mother loved me "more than anything" but I wasn't good enough even when I was getting straight A's. She also spent my college fund on a new car shortly before I graduated high school. Motherly love. There's nothing quite like it.

criticizing is absolutely necessary but it has to be on the actions of kids, not themselves. It also must be productive and not coming from a place of hate to one's self or any other form of influence, you will see yourself in your kids.

Yeah same, the type of family that thinks treating you harshly in person and singing your praises while you're not there is a healthy way to educate somebody. I know that all too well.

stay hungry for success and on the right way! big up ! ;)

Be proud of yourself and don’t take personally others weakness. He probably is envious and doesn’t have the strength or wisdom to manage it properly. Best, friend.

@@user-mw4kg8cx8t All the best in life.

It's highly effective

@Shutbyotch its okay he's part lobster

Shutbyotch but I’ve got lobster friends

Lobsters lives matter

Perhaps the fonts of serotonin issuing forth from the Raphe, which lies deepest within ourselves, are not always at a steady stream. And maybe that's how it's supposed to be. I've heard we can help heal this area if we choose, but I am not sure how. I just accept my depression as me being humbled to the lowest.

Forget being an employee. Be your own boss. Even if you get a job as an employee, the mentality of an entrepreneur keeps you fresh. Gets you out of bed and staves off stagnation. Being employed might pay the bills, provide structure etc. and that is all necessary, but the mentality needs to be 24/7 that it feeds into your purpose. Either skills, experience or plain work ethic. And a good starting place is voluntary work because you help others and regain routine and impetus.

I’m 20 years old and I’m all of what you said, however I do work :/

Keep at it. You can do it. Godspeed.

Don't blame it on the weed. Take some accountability. I, along with thousands of others smoke weed every day and handle our business. Saying stuff like this is what gives marijuana users a bad name.

@@angryhoneybadger4189 when did I blame the weed?

yes. they made their choice.

thats exactly what my ex did, she just one time flirting with someone, later she dont want to talk about it and call me jealous," dont be jealous", "the problem is because u are jealous", but she kept doing that, and chatting with others and just making lame excuses. thats fucked up brain damaged people who are doing this kind of bs and not just trying but already convinced themselves that its normal. wow thats crazy when u think about it.

This is interesting, a person I loved cheated on me and I knew it but I was in such denial, I lied to myself and emotionally I became unstable (this lasted 10 years!). I am finally now able to think through it and stop victimizing myself, sucks though because I developed and alochol addiction and ny career is no where near where I'd like it to be...but my point is I knew and I chose to lie to myself (and it realllyyyy fucked me over, smh).

I think it’s because they’ve aware they have the problems. They know the difference between right and wrong but don’t want to expend the energy of going against their natural tendencies. That’s everybody. But if you have major issues, it’s even worse. I think people with mental illnesses/ disorders, depending on the severity of them don’t have a choice but must work harder on themselves than people who don’t own these type of problems. For an example, say you’re an alcoholic. You quit drinking. But you’re at a wedding and everyone’s loose from alcohol. It’s a trigger for you. You don’t want to have to fight the urge and be miserable. Nobody else has to worry about that. They’re all having fun but your disposition requires you to refrain. That does suck but that’s just the way it is. If I have an anger problem and I wanna punch a hole in the wall, I have to refrain and maybe do something less destructive.

@@maisetas bro you're insecurity is a problem. let her talk to who she wants, what are you worried about?

My mother always treated me that way, and now that her dementia has lowered her inhibitions, she openly admits how little daughters were valued in her family. She only had one child, me, a female. She wanted a son. Stay strong. She is her problem, NOT YOU.

Integrated Crazy no such thing as lazy

I decided to honestly tell all my family about how I feel, and it seems I was wrong about how she treats me. She do get angry with my other siblings, I just didn't see it. I was too trapped and too observant in my perspective and I got so negative about the situation but its not, when she gets angry it just mean she is in a bad mood, its not a planned action. I suggest if others is in this situation, talking to the other person is the best way to solve and understand the problem.

@Integrated Crazy I used "perfect" in my previous comment, if you want a kid that do all your housework, might as well hire a maid, everyone need their own time, you can't priorities your housework over your studies or work so of course you won't be able to do the housework perfectly. I might have used my words wrongly on saying I'm lazy, but you don't even know the whole story and situation, calling me lazy for just knowing the one sentence I said is so useless in accusing me or making me think I'm lazy.

My mother treated me like the maid, was harder on me than my brothers. I resented it when I was younger. I've squared in my head now that she was from a generation that didn't value women but now my house is spotless and I run a tight ship and I can cook from scratch and make a meal out of nothing really and my bills are on time and I can make a penny strechI appreciate it now as most of peers live like pigs. Plus I don't have to worry after a hard day's graft that I don't go home to a shit pit. As this man said "clean your room" so I'm glad now my mum taught me how to take care of myself, my living space and now my family

you're last sentence is wrong!!!!! I struggled with chronic depression as a player. I'm in an amazing relationship of 5 years, I still struggle with it. that's why i'm on this video. also the only reason you're saying it's VERY difficult to focus on self improvment is beacause you're making conclusions based on the past projected to future. i have fucking terrible focus issues, took me 6 years to finish my undergrad degree, so I feel you. BUT can I tell you something that's been working for me lately? when you are aware and have the energy to say "ugh I'm fucking up again, I got shit to do but I'm wasting time" just focus on self improvement for 5 minutes. that's it. clean for 5 minutes. or study for 5 minutes. or wash your face and comb your hair for 5 minutes. forget what you been doing all day, forget the last month of procrastinating, forget that deadline in the future, "I was supposed to do this 3 weeks ago but fuck it I'll just do 5 minutes. When the 5 minutes timer goes off, that's it, you don't need to focus for 5 hours, you're done. One step at a time.

Sounds like you are co dependent.

I've had some pretty good relationships and depression has been a constant in my life since being a teenager. People have cared about me even though I've been dreadful at times. So don't let it stop you. depression is something I've learnt to treat like a bad knee or something.

@@gcg8187 i like your strategy a lot.

@Stella Aster No. Just NO. Stop the b's saying that you can just "choose" not to be depressed. That is betarded and in many cases deadly. There's plenty of us people with wonky brain chemistry that already feel bad enough without a-holes like you and your "pretty sure you should just get over it". Really... Stop it. Those words cause deaths and further depression.

Same here

Ditto

Hes as manipulative as any, he does have his agenda.

@@haidengeary8277 Having an agenda doesn't make you manipulative. Having an agenda against others does.

He’s manipulative, but as long as people don’t idolise him (leading to stronger subliminal influence) then I don’t think it matters. Time to turn the tables on that type. Take their info, look into it and leave them in the dust. Watch them fall as we rise. Teal Swan is a similar intelligent type that comes to mind. Having said that I don’t think Peterson is anywhere near as manipulative or sociopathic as her, he just has his complex biases and motivations.

Just go see a psychiatrist

@@varolussalsanclar1163 not all psychiatrist like JP, most of them might prescribed unnecessary anti depressant pills

The Voice of Reason Why not a psychologist? As long as it’s a therapist it doesn’t really matter.

Jp is not a psychiatrist either.

@@ElizabethSiregar I'll try and help...what's going on?

Go see a psychologist none of us are able to answer that kinds of questions alone (at least not after many donwfalls and time lost)

Lobster

Clean up your room

you work hard at avoiding negative people....places...circumstances and have faith beyond this world....believe in your intuition.....believe in your self.

Integrated Crazy only if you come with me, friend

must suck to be you

Yep! Curious. You’re not alone.

Yes

alex bez yep lol

yup turns out I don't have depression, I have a PROBLEM (with my family)

Thank you

Your mistake was forgiving your nana

Bless you. Thank you for sharing.

@@PoleHaus Maybe read it again?

Your story reminds me very much of my relationship with my mother. She does not allow me to communicate with her as an adult. She never has. My entire adulthood, and as a child, she forced me to parent her. Yes she worked up until she retired. Yes she loves me. But we do not have a steady relationship because she will not allow me to speak my mind to her, she won't let me be the mid-20-something adult I am. Every so often she gets upset about not "being my mom" because I have a good relationship with my aunt, her sister. She resents us both for it. But I did not choose for her to be emotionally unavailable and emotionally neglectful. She is emotionally manipulative. I try to help her. Tell her how to help herself. But she and my dad both are miserable people determined to destroy their health and manipulate loved ones through sympathy. I know they made that choice once, and noe they don't even know they're doing it. It'll be a sad day when they need in-home care because they chose not to help themselves, because I will not help them turn my adulthood into the hell my dad's parents turned his into. Thank you for sharing your story, because it helped me see the similarities in my own.

Frank From what I recall his stance on situations like this is antidepressants, preferably in conjunction with therapy. There’s a certain point where if the pillars of a stable life (intimate relationships, financial stability etc.) aren’t in place it can be incredibly difficult to escape the cycle on willpower alone.

Then a daily dose of jordan peterson is recommended.

Fix your life and quit worrying about the depression.

@@flaco5581 you don't get to worry about depression. it takes over your psyche

That's the beauty of it

This hit the nail on the head for me, too. When I was 14 I found a letter, not carefully concealed mind you, from my mother to my father explaining that she was going to abort me. She was not married to my dad & wanted to get rid of me, as they had broken up & she was in college. This literally tore my 'world' apart & I had NOONE to tell. I had been told that my parents were happily married & had me after. I found out in my adult years that my dad was actually engaged to someone else & had to drop that woman & my mom dropped out of college. All of a sudden all the bitterness in their marriage made sense and I felt responsible. (I think if they had managed to work things out to a happy situation, it probably would not have affected me like that) I am 42 now, & my parents have continued the lies. My husband came from a similar situation - mom claimed that she didn't know she was pregnant with him until she was 7 months along. Really I think she was afraid to tell her evil husband that she was accidentally pregnant again & that he would make her get rid of him. Everything in his family is lie. Everything. The way that families try to fabricate the truth amazes me & they have no idea the devastation it does on your psyche. After that info, I have never trusted my parents' perceptions on anything and I am not too dedicated to being truthful with them. I really have a hard time trusting people in general. My husband is the same way, in some regards although it manifests itself in a different way.

Ha that's gold

Even when they're he's still bloody brilliant and amazing human being.

@timwins31 umm..you understand that adults were once children, correct? It is nearly universally accepted that childhood abuse, neglect, and trauma are overwhelmingly linked to behavioral, personality, and psychological issues in adulthood, not to mention drug abuse. Let me say I am a huge fan of JP. I would clarify that I wouldn't reccomend any adult simply succumb to their childhood issues, they should get professional help. This is a lot different than "stop choosing to suck at life."

thanks for the pointless comment

@@breh4141 just as pointless as answering to the comment if to do so has no point

@@loginadress898 very intelligent thanks for another pointless comment

Sharing once opinion/experience is not even half as pointless as taking effort on recommenting something you find pointless Also, if you are searching for meaningful things, maybe reading youtube comments isn't the cleverest place to look.

@@loginadress898 pointless of you to say that

Antidepressants made me suicidal because I knew I never needed them. I was having a PROBLEM.

@@SuspiriaX hope you get better my dude

@@akheelnazimpc sorry I must've mistaken the two types now. I have the family knockdown thing and not the mental illness. Maybe I responded to the wrong comment.

@@SuspiriaX no problem dude. We're all strangers here. Tc

There's always tomorrow. Hard times are character building. Trust me, I know. Chin up, mate.

it does matter for you since you made an effort to write this comment.

Hey, you're not alone. I'm almost certain that I'm going to end up becoming some crazy, homeless guy one day due to my personality defects. I hope you get better and find that thing that gives you purpose.

Thanks so much for the positive replies guys. I think I got the situation taken care of. I’m definitely not 100% but knowing there’s hope definitely helps. Sometimes I feel like I’ll never be able to overcome the way my brain was trained by my circumstances growing up. But I’m still gonna try. Ik I’m not done w this life quite yet

Life is suffering.So it’s okay if you suffering with depression now.There is nothing wrong with you.So lift up some part from the suffering and keep it, order to make life at least a meaningful and worthy.And yes, when you do that, we will walk with you. :)

@@frenne_dilley would you like me, as a total n00b, to do complicated brain surgery on you? Don't worry, I'll learn from my mistakes...

@@frenne_dilley I know it's been a few months but I believe he went to the extreme because you also went to the extreme with your emphasis on the word 'NEVER'. He has a valid point, with certain skilled jobs, lack of training and qualification should disqualify you from that role, especially taking into consideration points such as personal safety and that of others. This applies to many fields and not even just for safety, roles that require driving for example, it isn't practical or cost effective to hire someone who isn't licensed to drive and train then when there is someone already licensed who is available. In the service and hospitality industry, restaurants for example, you generally wouldn't hire a chef with no training or experience because you would run the risk of losing customers through bad food and facing a downturn in business or even health threats such as food poisoning from either poor preparation or incorrect storage of ingredients. For a lot of menial, blue collar jobs, sure training shouldn't disqualify you but the same doesn't hold true to every job, requirements of a role are there for a reason. I could go on and list the various fields of science, engineering, teaching etc. You simply couldn't perform these jobs without adequate prior training and qualification. I appreciate your point and where you're coming from but it's unfortunately not realistic

Astute comment. I enjoyed it.🤔😁👍

Go clean your room 😂🤣😂😂😂

Clean your room 🦀

It's like you took the words right out of my mouth because that is precisely the kind of depression I've been dealing with the last six years and I'll never be able to get those six years back because I'm so far and away removed from where I should have been and would have been if my life hadn't been completely held up and consequently derailed as result of living under tyranical dictatorship landlord and his belligerent son who acts like he is above the law and deems it entirely appropriate to go around bullying people without impunity, and then people wonder why we become disenfranchised when the legal system neglects to hold the abusers to account. So is it any wonder why I am left festering and brooding up a way that I can release the shadows that Jung writes about despite the fact that I know better than to allow such course of behavior. Justice must be served one way or another, and you know you have a problem when you are weighing the consequences of ones actions against the satisfaction of finally having that long overdue justice finally served. At what price justice if the consequences of ones pursuit of justice ends up denying oneself the freedom from tyranny that was originally entitled to them being that Iwas the victim and not the abuser. How much abuse can a person take before they wite off any concern for consequence and take up a determined pursuit of justice being served one way or another. It's like that expression of which man do you fear most? The man who stands to lose everything? Or the man who has nothing to lose? Well I've been left feeling so destitute that I've already lost everything that Ishould have had if none of this happened. And so I'm at that tipping point of feeling like I have nothing more left to lose that could inhibit me from pursuit of maximum justice. Judge not lest ye be judged, and I don't go out of my way to shit on other people, and I'm tired of being shitted on, so now I will pass judgement unto those who must learn the hard way that to judge others is to do so at their own peril.

Adrian Howard - For me it’s being stuck in employment that I loathe but I am financially unable to make any kind of change, so trapped in job with the most dismal environment you can imagine. STILL screwed over from 16 months of unemployment in 2009-2010 and then went back to old job as last resort for 30% less than before I lost job, back there for almost ten years there now. Never have been able to rise above financially. Cycling and guitar are an outlet but I still often feel like shooting myself.

seems like you have BPD(Borderline Personality Disorder). Research it.

So clearly at school you were never taught about "semi permeable membranes"?

@@ArchTrout I think I slept through it, but it didn't matter in this case because my school was russian

@@skylimitua As a fellow Europian, your comment made me laught and educated me, nice.

You have never heard that word before?

@ObzPotato ObzPotato thank you for your lucid elaboration of what you believe to be heaven and hell. However, my observation was of the dynamic between the perceptions of heaven and hell, and not specific imagined instances of either. Perhaps I should've clarified that by referring to heaven and hell as each and everyone's own subjective perception of both. An objective observation of the nature of subjective experience. To perceive good, one must perceive bad. They serve as benchmarks for one another. Thank you for prompting me to elaborate on that - I wasn't exactly in-depth with my prior comment. From what I understand - and correct me if I'm wrong - you're discussing a collective idea of heaven and hell here. Or is it your own personal interpretation? I can't quite tell. Having said that, I don't see how anyone can generally claim that either heaven or hell is more incomprehensible than the other, considering the absolute subjective nature of our imagination. It likely comes down to individual relatability. Even then, eternal bliss is just as unfathomable as eternal suffering, but personal experience (both inner and outer) may predispose us to more relatability of one over the other. Aside from the fact that we're mortal, no matter how privileged or deprived one's earthly life has been, there are intershifting elements of both beauty and horror, and so the mere concept of eternity is unimaginable in itself. Especially since you bring ideas, entities, and material into your interpretation of what hell is, heaven is a similar construct with different, pleasant associations. In this sense, both states/places are a complex couldron of material and inner perceptions, one which the believer yearns (heaven) and one which they do not (hell). If you want to go to heaven, you likely don't want to go to hell. I don't know enough about the original conceptualisations of heaven and hell -- were they created aside one another? Did one come first? I'm dead wood in relation to this matter. However, to know what you want, you need to know what you don't want. And what you don't want may be what you have, in which instance we are living in what we chose to represent hell. Then again, we like elements of what we have, so we likewise chose parts of what we have to constitute heaven. As to the ratio of how much our ideas of heaven and hell are an intermix of inner and outer experience, I don't know. I can't even answer that for my own perceptions of the two, let alone an entire species'. Thanks for pressing my brain in this one.. Thoughts?

@ObzPotato neeeeeeeerd. I get you though. Good analysis.

True, heaven is known as complete perfection, but hell is not it's opposite, it's its alternative. So the world as we know it could very well be what hell essentially is. Though I hear it has noticeably more fire.

It isn't necessary though, you could just say "When you die you go to heaven to be with god", ascribe no criteria to it, and it would make just as much sense as a merit based afterlife system. This isn't some 'light cannot exist without dark' hypothetical scenario, it is "after life or no afterlife", and "how is that afterlife structured?".

Big words make you think you’re smart. You basically called heaven and hell ying and yang. Who woulda thought? Discount philosophy student

Muduler Derpz Here in Canada you can legally move out at 16.

@@FuturePsychNurse My god, canada really is americas best guess at the best society possible

Muduler Derpz but their healthcare sucks 🤷🏻‍♂️. And they can’t beat us in a war I’m happy in America

@@DarkVileScream at least Canadians don't die because they can't afford to save themselves from medical conditions.

@@XQQ-qm8ow The idea there are a bunch of Americans that cannot afford to pay for health care is moronic. These people you are talking about buy new shoes weekly and have flatscreens and the newest Iphones. And yes I know some do actually exist but they exist in literally every nation.

Same. Literally saved my life.

The last time I heard news about him he was dependent on antidepressants and alcohol because his wife is extremely sick and in critical condition.

He is addicted to benzos and alcohol and needs to clean his room before he can tell people how to live again. Lobster.

🤮

Got it! Clear as a bell.

horrifying fact

​@timwins31 holy shit that's a great summary of what is happening. There are so few therapists out there who truly understand these kinds of things. I have yet to find someone with who I can truly talk about this. And I've been looking for the last 8 years, to no avail.

A lot of people to that to a degree. Very few people lie about that (there are some, but it's really rare). The problem is, how people relate to other people they love can be incredibly unhealthy. Even proportionately to how much you like them. And that is not just a mental health issue, almost all people have some patterns of that form, albeit very differently pronounced.

Drained, no energy. Not sleeping the correct way. It’s really some shit when you have MORE energy waking up at 6 am everyday going to work compared to sleeping in at 10am-12pm everyday

Smoke dmt and you'll realize that it doesnt matter

DMT-a.k.a....Dimitri

Google it....

What kind of terrible things *do* you tell yourself? The question is why does it bother you or anyone else for that matter.

I struggled a lot with this, so I'll try to tell you my perspective. I think that when the horrible things you're telling yourself are really true, you should still try to acknowledge yourself as a person that has a right to exist and is worth something. you might be shitty, you might really make a lot of mistakes, be ugly, stupid, boring, all of it, but you are still human being, and even if no one else will, you should at lest try to treat yourself with respect and love. if you manage to do that, maybe you will be able to then try to improve the things that need improving in yourself, and in this i mean primarily your behavior, if that is the source of negative thoughts.

Let me kick this ball: Because of your (family) experiences, your reticular activating system is now filtering out all the people in society who are like that. So what you now see is a society full of people who intent to knock each other down any chance they get. But only because your filter doesn't allow you to see the bigger picture. I've discovered that most people actually really do want to help. As long as you don't project something threatening onto them, that is. ... works for me anyway

Bernhard Waldbrunner i like them it’s a reminder that we are still animals just with more complex thinking

​@@thighlover408 That's true!

Read his book. 1st chapter, he explains the seemingly odd connection. (Ps: a lot of evolutionary neuro-biology)

It is his shorthand for saying that there are a lot of human behaviors that predate the human species. We are the product of an evolutionary history that goes all the way back to some of the earliest creatures on the planet. This is a rebuttal of the schools of thought that state that human behavior is a social construct and that if we just change the society, human behavior will change. This is wrong because it is hard-wired in us from a time before we were even human so to say that we have any real control over it is factually incorrect.

susim Singh they book is amazing

And lobster

Roughly speaking

Youth donns no wot yer talknbout. Dorden ppderson tis sa greath maan. Coool gqmes though. Imma gonna hafe an an anotha dwink.

@@FarrFromPerfect Hah!

Alcohol will do you in, I'll have a rootbeer instead.

Ketamine treatments seem promising

Any kind of depression can be solved with prescriptions, it's just a matter if you follow the dosage rules or not.

hes wrong about the first thing he said though. Eternity in hell is just enforcing ones own culture and way of thinking which helped them survive. Typically it was meant for the outsiders and traitors.

@Tyler Hannahs I've never heard hell being explained as death anxiety, he probably misinterpreted whatever argument was being made. Smart guy but when it comes to spiritual/religious ideas he tends to lose me on people's motivations, coming from a religious background myself.

@Zachary Davidson I just meant that he made it seem like the making of hell is a mysterious, complicated topic, when it isn't, at all.

@Zachary Davidson just watch him being the weaker lobster vs Matt Dillahunty

He's one of the last paragons of our society today

I have more my fair share of the past. Am I evil ? No in fact I understand now how wrong it was. There is a reason people are told not to judge others because we all have imperfections and any man can change any man. That's the beauty of redemption.

michael montalvo That would depend on what you did. There’s a reason I said significant mental harm. Most things I would agree can be forgiven. However if you sexually abused or physically abused someone to the point where they now have mental health issues, there’s no real coming back from that. Somethings shouldn’t be forgiven.

I care, this is a sickness

Yes. I would automatically know that a perfect born child adopts defence mechanisms to survive. My "friends" don't understand my armour either. It's basic common sense. One time I was on a drug & my mother started her hate on me & I just growled at her (cause I had a cud/quid of it in my mouth). It was just MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM!!!!! lol. & she got the hint. Fuck what are they doing to us? She's passed & I've taken up more responsibility & things are better tg.

Hope you’re still ok. On my way out too. Can’t wait to be a year in like you.

Ha! I wouldn't attend a private session with JP even if YOU paid ME. I'm not even having a dig at his political and cultural rhetoric, nonsense as it is, no, I can safely tell you that you can get his analysis from literally ANY OTHER mental health professional. I've heard less articulate versions from social workers! Hell, you can learn this shit YOURSELF if only you had the guts to be super-analytical about your OWN processes while being as IMPARTIAL to emotional biases and be as objective as possible. It just takes a level of hypervigilant self-awareness and attention to detail to even your own subconscious coupled with a strong foundation of humility and acceptance.

@@francischimenti1374 And yet you didn't have enough of that to realize a simple "Not IMO" would have been a more than sufficient response...

@@TheRindy84 Oh boy, struck a nerve did I? Couldn't see past my simple dismissal of a standard celebrity and focus on my true intention to offer some advice? Advice obviously coming from a waaay more empathetic and relatable source? Ok, whatever dude. I apologize for demeaning your experience, it wasn't my intention, truly. Good luck in un-screwing your life and don't lose patience with it. This shit can take YEARS. Almost 2 decades for me and STILL not completely out of the woods. Take care.

@@francischimenti1374 You will find that certain types of rhetoric will often "strike a nerve" with a lot of people. You are not obligated to value the same things other people do but unless you actually find it objectively damaging there is no need to dismiss anything in the manner you did. A lot of people, some probably far more needing than myself have found him helpful and genuinely appreciate the work he does. If you want people to focus on your "true intention" maybe try not covering it in disdain and condescension. It also doesn't help that you then proceed to chide a natural reaction as a kind of oversensitivity to your lack of conscientiousness. Your inability to use rhetoric that allows your true intention/argument dominate the message does not make it my fault for missing it. Just because someone was unable to catch the ball doesn't automatically make it a "good throw". Hell, even your last message begins with chiding and then insists that you are "obviously empathetic and relatable"...forgive me if I'm inclined to disagree with the nature of your intentions. I will however give you the benefit of the doubt and say "Thank you for your kind words". I agree nothing happens overnight and I also wish you all the best in your endeavors.

This isnt jordan petersons video tho its not his channel