@@abdullahisani4766 kai waya ce maka burin kowace mace a duniya ta sabawa ubangijin tane? Sai ku dinga making ‘mata suyi abun da suka ga dama’ kamar wani mummunan Abu
Am against malam zeeta dayace yaran yan boko sunfi tarbiya masu zuwa office,am sighting this example from myself,mamana tayi makaranta full house wife CE,amma matan uncles dina suna zuwa office, amma gaskiya a halin da ake ciki yanzu ba yabonkai ba munfi cousin'sdina tarbiya kuma tun muna yra cewa suke su full house wife zasu zama
Tarbiyya have nothing to with working women. Ke dai kawai ki gode ma Allah cewa kina da ita. Kuma bai ce yaran masu zuwa aiki sunfi tarbiyya ba, cewa yayi akwai full housewives din da yaran su basu da tarbiyya, which is true. I grew up with a working Mom and she travelled a lot and I am proud to say that to a decent extent tarbiyya na is not in anyway questionable, and neither is that of any of my siblings. And Alhamdulillah for that.
Masha Allahu madina Allah yakara basira Amma dai a gaskiya ni bazan yarda matata tayi aikin office ba wllh saboda yadda naga malaman mata na gudanar da rayuwar su a cikin compose
This episode is very interesting, hilarious and educative. They both make their points, which should be considered and be addressed. The man in blue just need some lectures about how to treat his wives/wife. I am a very big fan of my wife to be independent 100%. I like his confidence, courage but he's very rude in his decision making.
Asss innn very rudeeeeeeeee! He doesn’t even what he is saying!!!!!!! LIKE!!!! What the hell!!!!! Mallam Abubakar Bello needs to be educated I swear cause he don’t even know what he is saying!!!! This one is illiteracy!!! Abeg him too should not work please, let all of them be staying at home and be staring at each other. Because him too women be looking at him!!!
@@Amrahisa_ If woman will be looking at him, what's the probability of women seducing him forcefully or anyhow compared to how men will do in other to get a women seduced.
@@samailatankomahuta2491 mallam samaila you know men have the chance/rate of seducing woman or they must get her at any point so far as the like her or sometimes you men just want to you with her emotions.
@@Amrahisa_ sure, that's why it's safer for women to be at home and be only answerable to her husband other that any boss in office that can threat her in my ways in other to get her on bed. But women bosses doesn't have such threat compared to their counterpart. And you and i all know that it's easy for woman to ignore there desire when they crush on a man than for men to do so. Wani dan Duniya bawai matar aure ba, ko ma wacece idan yaji shawarta he can go any length to get her.
@@samailatankomahuta2491 I like your point, wallahi yanzu yadda nake ganin matan mutane suna maamala da maza a asibiti abin zai baka haushi, I am a siwees student and have a plan to marry soon, but lokachin danaje naji banason macem dake aiki ko kadan , and know in this life bad people are everywhere, how can I have a wife and still have another boss
Madina Allah ya saka.. Haƙiƙa wannan shiri yana matuƙar nishaɗantarwa da ilimantarwa. Allah ya ƙara mana fahimtar zamani da ikon guje ma musifun dake ciki.
هي احدى القضايا المثيرة للاهتمام في العالم الاسلامي بصفة خاصة في الحقيقة حوار مهم وهادف ولكل منهم نقاط التبرير كل القضايا تحل بالحوار والنقاش مع الادلة والبراهين
Firstly Hajiya Madina, Ina son in shawarta cewar wannan program dinki, kiyi allowing phone in so that there could be contribution from listeners. having said that, shi wannan malamin da ke tsakiya, ban san sunan shi ba; should know that individual differences exist so he should not enforce his opinion on somebody. The fact remains that there are one thousand alternatives to contributing to societal progress and development other than office work.
They are both entitled to their opinions. Kuma sai da ya fada cewa shi baice in mace bata aiki abu me mara kyau ba. I feel like it’s all about keeping an open mind to everyone’s opinion and he had a more opened mind about blue shadda’s opinion than the blue shadda have about the middle man’s opinion.
The man in blue is right..magana yake akan addini..shikuma dayan magana yake akan zamani..duk dai abinda zamuyi muji tsoron Allah..Allah yasa mugane..nice program
The middle man is not talking just about zamani, he also made point that is religious. Blue shadda, like a lot of Hausa men, have a mindset that doesn’t evolve or succumb to change. I’m sorry to say but it’s true.
Abinda na fahimta anan shine komi da ka sani Yana da advantages and disadvantages but Kawai it depends da yanayin da aikin mace zatayi ni Ina gani a nawa ra’ayin.
At least Mallam Abubakar was honest enough to admit cewa ra'ayinshi ne instead of using Islam as a cover for his insecurities. This is simple if you dont want your wife to work or further her career then don't marry one, look for the ones that wants to be housewife instead. Gasu nan cikin gari da kauye suna dayawa.
Ko mace tayi aikin ofis, ko kar tayi wannan sai dai muce taji tsoron Allah, ko kuma kowa yaji tsoron Allah. Fasadi yana yaɗuwa ako ina. Tsoron Allah shine kawai a gaba kuma lallai daga kin gaskiya sai bata.
Hmm amma da malam Abubakar Abu daya ya rasa amma da zai wa mai bawa aikin mata kari wanwar da hujjoji kuma bayyanan nu wanda da suke cikin society a zahiri ina ma ni na hadu shi I will give reasons behind this topic of not allowed Women to work
Araayina kowannensu nada gaskiya Mutane mun kasu kashi biyu suma matan haka su ukkuma Abinda ya kamata duk acikin wannan lamaryn shine fahimtar juna da kuma fahimtar miye aekin ance aekin office baae specifying ba wanne iry akwae aekn da har addini ya kawadaetar mata su nemi ilmn kuma sue qoqaryn yn aekn kmn radiography, irynsu gani,likitancn dakansa, teaching bussiness jaka da kowannensu nada asali a addini amma mace taje taeta zuwa aeki kmn nmj aje office to addini ya bada dama in ankiyaye dokokinsa. Sanan kuma yeah nayarda mutuwa nanan saanan kuma ya kmt mata suriqa qoqaryn ckn gurynsu hakane gaskiya to mufahimci cewa Allah yana nan inda muke ztnsa. Magana n tarbiyya na yara da kuma shiriya daban Kana iya ganin yaro da tarbiyya amma kuma yasamu matsaln tarniyya amma akwae ranan da zata masa amfani.Gaskiya duka abnn akomawa ga rayan mtm ni dukansu koww ya fafi abnd yake tunanin shine daedae Amma ya kakata amemata shirynnan da maz fa maTa
slm agaskiya wannan bawan allah na stakiya yananuna shime ilimine ammafa yanada kiau yasani cewa yadda yake magana da wannan bawan allah be kamataba kuma ai ance kowa yafadi ra ayinshine game da aikin mace ba wai ance dole se wani ya yarda da waniba kuma ai inhar zaka wadata mace da komai to menene bukatar aikin dama ai shi aikin mace taimakon kai da kaine ku bakuji yace zamata komai bane har dubai dinma zai kaita kuma kuma mata mafi jin dadi duniya ai sune wanda mazan su ke jidasu kuma suke musu komai to allah yasa mudace
To iKon allah wannan mutumin akwai taurin Kai wannan ba kishi yake ba hauka ne bayanin sa yayi tsauri da yawa gaskiya ni Ina bayan me goyan bayan Abar mace tai aiki gaskiya Dan yayi bayani na hankali
Hafsat,khadija babu wani abun tausayi game da mata irin na Abubakar domin su ne mazan da ya kamata mace ta samu yana nuna cewa responsible husband ne wanda zai kula da matarsa ba wanda zai dinga tura matarsa tana nema masa kudi ba shi bazai iya rikeki ba
Malam Zeeta we are Muslims here most of us,and those of you that are against Malam in blue,kawai kuna fada ne. A nan two diff mutane ne suke magana,Zeeta ya yarda da boko zalla,shi kuma blue malam yana mgn ne ta fuskar addini ne. Gaskiya ka burgeni malam mai blue,thou dai nima aikin nan matata tana zuwa. Tambayar Madina ta idan ya saka hula ya fita wata ta gani ba matsala kamar ba a kan daidai take ba,namiji mijin mace hudu ne ai.
Assalamu alaikum, BBC.ina duba wannan shirin naku tun da farko amma Ni tsokacin da nake yi anan shine wato rashin daidaito ta ɓangaren masu tattaunawa,kuma wannan karo na biyu kenan ina lura da hakan.abaya ma ku gayyato wata mace wadda tafi namijin wayewa da ilimin rayuwa,wanda hakan zai saɓa da manufar ku na waye kan al'uma.nagode
The choice of the discussants was deliberate to swing the debate in favour career women. The man in blue is right but he is not savvy enough to articulate and put his point across succinctly. Apart from the fundamental of Islam as a complete way of life, there are so many societal ills exacerbated by depriving children of motherly care at tender age. I agree that there are specific areas that requires women direct services but certainly not as wholly embraced in our society nowadays
There are women that cannot balance working, being wives to their husbands and mothers to their children, if that’s the case then they shouldn’t have to work, but there are also women that a capable of doing all three, sure the responsibility is much, amma in har taga zata iya then why not? I grew up with a working Mom and I think she did all three things successfully and Alhamdulillah for that, even though my father was significantly older than blue shadda, I’m glad he didn’t view marriage the same way most Hausa men do.
Gaskiya mai blue duk macen data aure shi tayi saa cos from his words he is a responsible man kuma yana bayani ne bisa ga koyarwar shariar musulunci amma wancan gaskiya boko ta riga tayi mishi rikon kazar kuku.Ya riga yayi nisa bai jin kira
Wato BBC hausa kun ƙware a munafurci, da kuka tashi ɗauko wanda zai kare muradunku na yahudanci sai kuka ɗauko mai baki, shi kuma wanda zai kare Addini sai kuka ɗauko wanda ko Hausa bata isheshi ba ballantana yayi amfani da hikimomi wajen kare Addinin da kuma nasa ra'ayin !
From Ziter to Malam Abubakar, they all have their selfish interest. Babban abinda za'a duba wurin barin Mace tayi aiki shi ne tana da kamun kai? Za ta iya kare mutuncin kanta? In har zata iya ba matsala bane don ta zama ko president bane. Amma indai baza ta iya ba zaman ta a gida shi yafi.
Madina, I have been your big fan. I like all your programs and presentations. My observations regarding this particular program is that the topic is a good one and timely just that the discussion is not balanced. You and the other guest gang up against the second guest, while you are suppose to maintain a neural ground and moderate the program. Equally, you seem not to have control over your guests especially in this particular episode. I hope you will find my observations useful. Thank you
Thank man, for this your observation. I equally observe that. And even when inviting the guest the Man in blue shadda can not match the other Man ideas. He has less points to prove his ideology.
@@samailatankomahuta2491maybe he less points because his opinion is somewhat narrow, and I do agree that she made it obvious that her opinion is more closer to that of the middle man. But if if you’re a woman that constantly hear things like how your human right expires once you get married and you know it’s not how things are suppose to be, then you’ll know that it’s hard to keep a neutral opinion. And she tried keeping it neutral, probably more than I could have in her shoes.
@@yasmintahir9822 but she's a journalist for that matter, she should have more neutral than this, coz being it obvious that she's taking side is not good for her as a professional. And again I don't believe women are deprived there human right when they get married, it only depends on what context you view what human right is. From the religious point of view i feel woman are supposed to rest and make homes not go out to quest for food to keep on the table.
