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My Husband Doesn’t Engage When We Hang Out
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@fornx8574 Год назад

I would get my act together overnight if I discovered my wife called a national show about my behavior within the family. I can't think of a bigger wake up call. This is a dedicated woman and very family oriented, hoping her husband is brave enough to meet the challenge she is requesting from the other adults in the home.

@Jeremy-wp4yh 8 месяцев назад

@@jonsmith8746sounds like you're an absent father. You know your own kind.

@87alock 7 месяцев назад

That would piss me off more than anything

@HollyTheTwisterSister 6 месяцев назад

Mine would be furious if I put our issues out on the internet for everyone to know. It would be unforgivable to him

@fornx8574 6 месяцев назад

I think the show uses alias names and locations but I could be wrong. I know this is not the focus of your argument but there is same level of anonymity to help maintain privacy, I suppose lol @@HollyTheTwisterSister

@DudePlays Год назад

We don’t enjoy doing the same things… Let’s get married!

@joannahepworth2230 Год назад

😂

@emmarose6590 Год назад

My parents don’t enjoy the same things and they’ve had a happy and healthy marriage.

@pnwpariah8691 Год назад

@@emmarose6590 this! Couples don’t need to enjoy all of the same things, they need to be a team and build a life together. Give space when space is needed and support when support is needed. It’s healthy!

@todd2324 Год назад

@@pnwpariah8691You don't need to enjoy all of the same things, but you should enjoy doing some things together.

@pnwpariah8691 Год назад

@@todd2324 completely agree!

@giantfatberg 4 месяца назад

My wife was pulling away from me and practically dating a coworker. I went to Jewel, Kenny Chesney, Zac Brown, and others just to be with her. I went to midnight showings of Twilight movies. I desperately hung on. She ditched me in multiple cities where I stayed in quiet, lonely hotels. I went to 5 concerts all alone. In our 22 years together she has never watched The Shawshank Redemption, my favorite movie. Is that love or what? It sticks with you and hurts forever This stuff is so important. Even if you are not interested in the activity, take part in it and watch your partner’s response. Their happiness can be enough to pull you into their world of interests.

@brittneydavis8662 3 месяца назад

I’m really sorry. You deserve to be valued and have someone invest interest into you as well

@ludwigvonsowell5347 3 месяца назад

She outright ditched you in cities?

@giantfatberg 3 месяца назад

@@ludwigvonsowell5347 yes she didn’t bother to travel there with me even though we had two tickets. I went to the shows alone

@user-pt4xx4wu2i 2 месяца назад

Why are you with her? It’s a genuine question. You need to let her go.

@joesillamanrs7189 Год назад

The dude is checked out

@dbtech4562 Год назад

Probably wants out of marriage but trapped. It is a terrible experience but in a few years, it will eventually end and mutually accepted.

@c.edales740 Год назад

Infortunately he has. Not being negative its not going to get better.

@thejakelegion Год назад

Some of you don't know what it's like to have little kids, work 80 hours a week and feel so stressed you can't connect with your wife. It can pass and it can be hard to do, but to say he's checked out and wants out of his marriage is unproven.

@GardenerEarthGuy Год назад

It happens, she sounds real passive aggressive, with a heavy dash of controlling confrontational- not sure the John map list is the right approach. I kinda feel like she'll have a pad and pen with her...

@c.edales740 Год назад

@@thejakelegion I know too Well and to have a kid with delays does not help.

@tristamarie7115 Год назад

This is good insight into how to approach a man.....I'm a woman with workaholic tendencies and if my husband approached it that way, I would be extremely overwhelmed. For me, it's another thing on a to-do list and I would do it just to appease him vs. asking him the best way to approach the situation. For example, 'I miss you and feel like we don't spend enough time together, any ideas on how we could fix it?' and giving him the time to formulate a solution that he can maintain/provide him some solutions if he asks vs. telling him.

@jennteal5265 Год назад

Not to mention there's nothing wrong with having different interests. The best point in marriage is when you both can be in the same room together doing different things and just enjoying being near each other with no expectations. She's got a _lot_ of expectations. He may be exhausted with her expectations of him.

@mariahconklin4150 Год назад

I'm the opposite of my ex. He is a workaholic and I hate working because of the gossip, back stabbing, unnecessary drama. I find staying home working on myself is better or watching a documentary online is more appealing who wants to be around drama all day that's what I grew up in with my family no thank you. I'm finding out now thats a trauma response but I just find all of that annoying I have better things to do.

@mariahconklin4150 Год назад

Oh this is good advice I need to start doing this!

@donnaallgaier-lamberti3933 Год назад

I question that "doing the same things" is not the real issue. I have been married to my husband for 27 years and he no longer emotionally engages with me. The only things we engage about now is our rescue dog. Your speaking on "not having the tools" resonated to me. He is age 78 and I believe he does not have the tools and honestly, he does not care to get them. I realize that we both have health issues and our energy is limited and I try to empathethetic and understand his needs too but it ends u always being about his needs. I tried suggesting weekly weekend meetings, he agrees with them but they never happen routinely for a variety of reasons. All we get is coordinating our calendars. when we met we camped, fished, danced and bird watched etc. He just wants to sit on the couch and play with his phone or laptop and I like to do fun and social things from time to time. He would rather stay at home and take care of the dog because there are no demands on him that way.. I tell him exactly what I need. He agrees but then does not follow through. Honestly, my patience is gone after 27 years of his not following through. Now I just give up and go to our local senior center for socialization and lunch and let him sit on the couch and veg.

@BrendaBaBoom Год назад

He’s strongly utilizes PASSIVE AGGRESSIVE strategy to buy time and remain unaccountable while ignoring your needs …. him, the dog and couch are what really matters. Take good care🌸

@mariahconklin4150 Год назад

That's how my ex boyfriend is and he's 40 years old. But staying home all the time isn't healthy it can lead to alzheimers. Why not go on a vacation with your dog? lol! That may work for him! I know down here in CA they have resturaunts you can take your dog to. I"m also noticing that my ex dad is older in his 70's and he does nothing he doesn't want to go out ever it's really scary to see that that could be my future. He is single though.

@KatieLHall-fy1hw Год назад

My husband is like this and we are 36 and 38. It is hard. Granted, my family is a LOT to handle sometimes (all in each other’s business but always there to help and provide love and support. And I am the oldest of 5, with an extended family of more). My husband is the oldest of 2, being the prized boy (though his mom is hesitant to admit it, but she has before), so he gets upset if things don’t go his way. He is unable to see how truly blessed we are with our friends and family

@crystalduque7559 Год назад

My brother does this to his wife , and around my family. It’s quite odd to watch. I haven’t seen him in nearly 2.5 years and he barely had a reaction to my existence during Christmas… like no reaction . Don’t know what is going there

@anneshirley9560 Год назад

My husband started doing this to me after I gave birth. He's also made eveyone at work mad and his family. All of a sudden he's becoming self destructive. I wonder if your brother and my husband might be depressed? It's hard, because he won't even talk to me, so I can't help if he won't tell me what's going on or try himself. It's been hard. I hope your sister in law and brothers marriage heals.

@zlol_ssbm Год назад

They are depressed because he wants to be left alone and she demands 100% of his attention

@blueseptember2174 2 месяца назад

P@rn addiction zombies

@aimeerebecca1 Год назад

John is missing the boat on this one. The husband isn’t just clueless, he’s CHECKED OUT, he’s disconnected. And she KNOWS it!! She feels it!!! Sure she could communicate more directly and bravely, like he said in the end. But it sounds like he is completely tapped out and is dissociating.

@SaystheTruth3 Год назад

💯 Agree!

@aprilchow-chee5281 Год назад

Been there done that. He was cheating

@brown_eyed_girl Год назад

I think John is suggesting this bc it is either going to reconnect the relationship OR identify to the wife that her hi and no longer wishes to work on it. Either way, it will help the husband and wife identify things more clearly with one another

@mariahconklin4150 Год назад

Wow that makes sense my own father did that I think and it led to him cheating. Not a very healthy coping mechanism. He basically fell out of love with my mom cause he was cheating. Hopefully that's not her case though. Yikes. I've noticed to that I also check out and dessociate and I have to snap out of it.

@kcourtney6826 Год назад

Yeah, and she probably feels vulnerable even more so because she’s pregnant.

@janestephens7062 Год назад

Wow ,I was city girl growing up husband of 49 years a country boy 100%thought ride horses, hunting, fishing, mudding was 100% Was totally gross. As he saw it going to the opera, museumsThings like that are stupid. We had to come to a compromise. And I do find riding horses, Fishing kind of relaxing. Not So much on the hunting, Or the other country stuff. He also learned to like some things I like to do. Marriage is a give and take every moment of the day. This girl needs understand people grow and change everyday. I sure if he was the one on show he be saying he doesn't know were girl he married went also. Yes children changes things alot but you need to make space for each other. Are after children are grown up they look at each other like they two strangers. Then they'll end up getting a divorce. In my 67 years I've seen it many times. People who live in their life like robots Go to work 5 days a week I'm home clean house hall weekend go shopping for groceries. Then go back to work for 5 days a week. I have very short quality of time together what if you put the kids to bed 1 or 2 hours together. The Warriors one of them either playing video games or watching TV. I have 3 son in laws And believe me I've seen this happen. My daughters busting their asses cleaning up get kids off to bed a were are their husband's play video games are watching TV. Not cleaning or helping with kids. I've never been a troublemaker but I did get ahold of their mom's until their mom's the way their sons were acting Believe me that got them motivated. But I'm not a doctor I'm not a psychiatrist I'm just a woman who's lived my life married for 49 years have 3 daughters and 6 grandchildren .

@sarahalderman3126 Год назад

Couldn’t agree more with you here, especially on the quality time together during those “little kid years”. As a mother of 9, 22-10 years old, soon to be grandmother and wife of 23 year’s all I can say is the husbands ability and effort to take part in the “hustle” can make or break a marriage and family. ❤

@patriciaalbertson5183 5 месяцев назад

Wow, way to go!

@Whatorwellsaid21 Год назад

There is no way these phone calls happen without any prior red flags long before. They had to know they were different and the desire to commit emotionally wasn’t there.

@vickimerritt2832 Год назад

People do not have imbeded crystal balls in their brains. Should they have had a trial run baby then sent it back to the " stork" if it didn't work out for him? One expects a reasonably evolved and mature partner that can adapt and improvise as the situation warrants, not run away from it. Geeze.

@CaToRi- 10 месяцев назад

@orwell you will be surprised of how many people hide their true personality before marriage (consciously or not) and after a couple of years they can’t continue faking and then take his/her real personality, putting their partners in a difficult situation.

@iomis2001 Год назад

This is my parents. They love each other, but they never do anything together. Somehow it works for them though. So I guess it depends on what you want.

@tokelomphahlele1544 6 месяцев назад

Same here 😂😂😂

@patriciaalbertson5183 5 месяцев назад

OR, they just pretends it works

@patriciaalbertson5183 5 месяцев назад

As, in they settled.

@chiiix33 5 месяцев назад

No they don't. They might appreciate, even respect, each other but they don't love each other

@iomis2001 5 месяцев назад

@@chiiix33 You can love someone and not get along. People are complicated.

@strawberykiri Год назад

Underoath is my favorite band I'm so happy to hear that you like them too!

@BassBwoy3 Год назад

Wow...I love this marriage/relationship advice. I used to think the best couples liked doing a lot of the same things, but a couple can like very different things and still be very intentional to do what the other is passionate about, whether they themselves like it or not. Guess opposites/different people can still attract.

@mariahconklin4150 Год назад

huh. That's how me an my ex are but we are so stubborn. lol! We like different music, different movies, different everything now. Then people will say odd things I've heard, "You look like brother and sister" or "Oh you two are so cute" and we aren't even together. lol!

@Matt-cr4vv 11 месяцев назад

It’s a challenge I think. For me when we dated we both did whatever the other wanted and didn’t really object because that’s kinda how dating can be. When we got married and communicated it we learned how many things we didn’t enjoy the same. But that doesn’t doom you it just means working to find some common interests but still carving time for each other to do the things you like doing but the other doesn’t. For example, for a time in my younger 20s I was at the bar all the time. She enjoyed that for maybe an hour. So the solution there was if usually carve thsh time for evenings she was working so that was time to get my “fix”. Or we’d compromise on that and have dinner and drinks for a short time period and it worked for both. But other things we either go along or let them enjoy it with a friend. She enjoys Broadway so she takes a friend to tnah. I enjoy football I take a friend to that. But we also developed things we both like. For example we both love concerts so we go to a ton of them together because it’s something we both love so she’s mh concert buddy. Or we find stuff at home to do like play a game etc. Whag people often ignore us that it takes some intentionality to find commonalities over just saying we don’t have a common interests and giving ups

@diggernash1 Год назад

He's thinking about all the other stuff he would rather be doing...so do the things he wants to do.

@rebeccaoprea9917 Год назад

He can just be a busy dad and she’s a hormonal pregnant women . No fire here , just real life .

@em77775 Год назад

No, she's being neglected. This is how it started for me. Over the years it got worse and worse. He cheated, got super abusive and completely abandoned me. I started off trying to say hey, let's spend time together and he just said no.

@anneshirley9560 Год назад

@@em77775 oh that's awful! I'm so sorry that you went through that! I hope that you'll find or have found somebody who loves you.

@em77775 Год назад

@Anne Shirley95 HI and thanks 😊. I'm happily divorced. Met an amazing man at church and we're getting to know each other 🥰

@anneshirley9560 Год назад

@@em77775 that's awesome! I'm so happy for you!! 😁😁

@Spaceman99966 2 месяца назад

@em77775 things are usually simpler than they seem. And your protecting your experience onto that situation

@Deans-jm3uf Год назад

Excellent advice

@documentariesbycategory1483 Год назад

UNDEROATH!!! Yesssss

@tacooflove6175 Год назад

I wanna see that DO NOT ASK LIST sounds like a good laugh especially for obgyn doctors

@kahrhoshe Год назад

i freakin love john. hes my music spirit animal. love metal AND folk.

@sharonamadi8656 Год назад

I'll never understand people who can't bring themselves to open their mouths and actually say what they mean or want to say. It's mind boggling to me.

@ireefree2024 5 месяцев назад

It's a thing which some people need to learn. I'm end thirtys and learned it a few years ago. Today, I'm totally on your side. Growing up, I learned to keep my needs down and just hoping my environment will do things I like without asking for it. In a relationship it's catastrophic. I have to learn telling exactly what I want to my husband. Still once in a while I "forget " it.

@spursfan5742 28 дней назад

Usually it's because whatever you say is turned against you.

@maddiec.3061 18 дней назад

Sounds like you grew up in a functional household lol

@sharonamadi8656 18 дней назад

@@maddiec.3061 actually I did. I worked to improve myself. I don't see the point in blaming your childhood for things you can easily fix

@sneakerfreak2002 Год назад

Time 2 power up the baloney slicer! I sense there’s a giant delivery 2 process real soon!

@luminous6969 Год назад

2:11 "Have you told him that?" *Long pause "Um, I feel like I've tried." That means she sat in the corner and sent smoke signals for him to interpret.

@maybug88 Год назад

Oooor, she explained every way she could think of and he still didn't get, so it made her question if any of those atempts event count. Ask me how I know.

@dbtech4562 Год назад

Wow, two different prospectives.

@nicolcacola Год назад

She communicates in a way he doesn't understand. Obviously its the same way on his end. Calling them "smoke signals" is dismissing delivery issues.

@dabd8175 Год назад

@@nicolcacola I wonder if using words would work 😂😂😂🤡

@luminous6969 Год назад

@@nicolcacola It was a pretty obvious metaphor tbh 🙄

@emmanuelale4868 6 месяцев назад

To be honest with you, this is the reason why I'm not going to get married because I'll probably end up doing the same thing

@athenag745 4 месяца назад

I've been married twice. I find it a bit suffocating tbh. I am very independent love my own company, sometimes men need to feel needed and I'm not that. I'm not a nut 😂 and open to love, but he would need to have his own stuff going on.

@somethinggood-sy1ed 3 месяца назад

Thank you for staying single

@emmanuelale4868 3 месяца назад

@@somethinggood-sy1ed lol 😆. Is that meant to be a caring response or is that meant to be a snark response?

@athenag745 3 месяца назад

@@somethinggood-sy1ed thank you for taking the time to watch a generic advice giving expert 👍

@GoKU-xx2vg 3 месяца назад

@@athenag745at least your honest. The best marriage for you is where both of you agree to be like roommates.

@danilaroche1156 18 дней назад

My ex-husband completely checked out. Never spoke. Never was home. Turned out he was sleeping with other men. For REAL.

@aliparker3 Год назад

What you're asking her to do is what women are craving in terms of leadership from men.

@chez0788 3 месяца назад

Saw Underoath Live in Calgary two different times! Oddly enough, I live in just outside of San Antonio now 🤣I know this has nothing to do with the video just that he mentioned Underoath lol

@RespekfulFungus Год назад

No phones until they are driving to work. No compromises , ever.

@umiluv Год назад

My husband is like the Dr. He loves loud music and going to live shows. I’m the opposite. I actually prefer to read and do things in the quiet, like embroidering while listening to audiobooks. We do things together like watching movies/shows and eating dinner together. We have kids now so he finds friends to go to shows with while I stay at home with the kids. He leaves me alone and plays with the kids while I enjoy my quiet time. As a family, we go out hiking or to the museum or to the playground together. The kids need dates from the both of us too. =)

@ritamerringer2173 Год назад

Playlist is a mixed tape 😂

@saraojala6283 11 месяцев назад

Being a parent of a special needs child is mentally and physically draining. 80% of marriages with handicapped kids end in divorce. I think this couple needs to get in counseling ASAP or they won't make it.

@christywilson2177 7 месяцев назад

I think she means he is checked out which is a whole other level other than “putting a 60 day calendar “ together. There’s a lot bigger issues here. Superficial answers on this one. 😢

@gmoney0987 Год назад

Stressing this hard with 1 kid. Oh boy. Life is going to be hard for these people.

@louklein3916 Год назад

Kid with special needs. Maybe they care more about their one child than you do your many.

@carylhalfwassen8555 Год назад

Developmentally delayed kiddo and pregnant.

@KennedyIvy Год назад

I dont know about other men. But the last thing i want to do is "sit down and be vulnerable", lol

@David-wo9un Год назад

It’s a safe bet that most men feel the same way you do; I don’t believe women actually want to see their man being vulnerable.

@thaneros Год назад

@@David-wo9un There noting wrong with being vulnerable, its not weakness. Weakness and vulnerability aren't the same thing.

@davidjonburke2729 Год назад

Agreed..i can, but..Anytime I do it ends badly lol

@CoffeeSA96 Год назад

The woke mob is trying to make men feminine, watch out and don’t fall for it

@erismana2105 Год назад

Big ego hides weak men

@janicajohnson9727 Год назад

My daughters husband wants her to always watch sports with him. She wants to crochet too. He won’t allow her to do that, so they don’t share that.

@Jane5720 Год назад

Wow

@rejectionisprotection4448 Год назад

@@Jane5720 .....just wow.

@starlingswallow Год назад

He doesn't _allow her_ to do that?!?! Mom, please get your daughter to get OUT of that marriage! QUICK. That is controlling and abusive. She is an adult and is allowed to do what she wants!!!!

@pnwpariah8691 Год назад

@@starlingswallow or maybe recommend therapy/couples counseling instead??? Tearing apart a marriage is the last thing that should happen.

@CrystalM1917 Год назад

Wth?

@flyandshy00 Год назад

Working so much? He has an affair 100%. She served him only as a sex machine, now she cannot give him that, so he goes elsewhere, I bet he was never engage emotionally with her from the beginning, just settled for her. Women, observe red flags and do't settle, or will end up like this.

@Mudpaws 3 месяца назад

Should go on Drumeo one day

@Aloha4Maui 4 месяца назад

Dr. John missed the boat on that one. This marriage is already in trouble, she is already alone and overwhelmed with the care of their older child.

@GoKU-xx2vg 3 месяца назад

Thanks professor!

@mikesalas2683 4 месяца назад

What happens John if the other spouse does not participate in planning activities

@mikesalas2683 4 месяца назад

ESP when the kids are grown out of the house and even when they where home I hit a wall and we have been married 26 yrs and we are young 57

@vickimerritt2832 Год назад

no fun to be tied to little kids needs and find out you married an escape artist

@lissettementado8744 2 месяца назад

John listens to underoarh??? Yoooooo DOPE

@user-ky8je2qj3z 10 месяцев назад

His name is Pacey

@sherryd3299 26 дней назад

Do people not look at their partner honestly while they are dating or do the pretend while dating they are one way and once they are married their real they meet the real person? Or once they are married one of them think they don't have to try any longer?

@MariNic8 Год назад

As someone who LOVES Dr. John, this is HORRIBLE advice. I’ve seen this with some of his other videos, where he essentially gives women the training seminar to “teach” their husbands. You’re teaching wives to be moms…. Recipe for resentment and men continuing to not be better. 🤷🏻‍♀️

@kristinrichmond8185 Год назад

Wives shouldn’t EVER see their husband as another child. When she has to “teach” him something about their relationship, that’s what begins to happen.

@elfascisto6549 2 месяца назад

@@kristinrichmond8185 he should just be expected to know ? And if he doesn't then resentment grows anyway

@dominickmoura165 Год назад

👍🏽👍🏽

@nunyabusyness762 Год назад

My husband and I have completely different interests. I wanna hang outside all the time, he's a ginger that wants to play video games all day and bursts into flame when exposed to sunlight. I like hunting and fishing, he sometimes passes out when he sees blood. But there's one interest we always connect on. Sex. I enjoy the space, I don't like discussing feelings in general so I guess it's easier for me. I hope y'all figure out something in common that interest you both. Sometimes I'll ask about his video game and his progress and he willingly talks about that in detail. But in general we both do our own thing, I enjoy that space. I don't like going out to eat or shopping, but if I had any inclination, that's where I would try to connect. Or the bedroom.😉

@Hiddenplace414 Год назад

Lol u said he's a ginger

@exceedinglyaverage1179 Год назад

Beej goes a long way

@user-rr3yw9dn1l 11 месяцев назад

Is this guy an actual doctor or just some guy that likes to hear himself talk like dr phil?

@Hatbox948 5 месяцев назад

Not sure!

@user-qg6rf5ec3n Месяц назад

Delony spent two decades working in crisis management and higher education, and has earned two Ph.Ds.

@carylhalfwassen8555 Год назад

Mapping out the next 60 days includes child birth and poor sleep.

@Nah-ah Год назад

Eh that’s what my girlfriends are for if I need emotional support.

@mariahconklin4150 Год назад

Sounds like her husband has ADHD if not maybe he's just not intersted in what she likes I don't think my boyfriend's were into what I was into that's when you just go find a lady to hang out with.

@AtlasZero13 Год назад

My wife goes to my metal shows and football games and i dress up and go to taylor swift concerts with her. Give a little take a little

@colindavidson6483 6 месяцев назад

Underoath… how old is this guy?

@wonka4 9 дней назад

45ish

@michaelhutchings6602 Год назад

Why doesn't my husband want to behave like my women friends?!

@erismana2105 Год назад

They have a special needs kid If he cant be there for her he is a dead beat. Hope you didnt reproduce

@sarahalderman3126 Год назад

Why would you want him to? Screw that, my friends don’t do crap for me. My husband on the other hand is always there and willing.

@blueseptember2174 Год назад

No one wants their man to act like a girl friend. Just communicate is all all. Not hard. That is literally it. People overcomplicate it.

@Spaceman99966 2 месяца назад

The comment section is always just full of women projecting their cheating stories to every women that calls in with a problem with their man. Yall are sad , problems can happen in a marriage without cheating or demonizing the man

@jaqueitch Год назад

Poor baby husband can't deal with his emotions.... What an f-ing baby. Man up

@djpuplex Год назад

Be happy he's providing for you and not abusive or cheating. Amazing how so many people are just never satisified especially women.

@axmaciel7 Год назад

So be happy he’s doing the bare minimum ??? Lol not being abusive or cheating should be the min expectation

@appgirl25 Год назад

Be happy he's not physically kicking her ass? The bar is in hell.

@Chet_24 Год назад

Yeah. It's almost like the husband is working more because the wife won't have an income for a while, and they'll have an extra person to provide for. Apparently, the wife lives in fantasy land where none of that is being taken into account.

@dabd8175 Год назад

Yea these women been watching to many rom coms and Disney. Time to be a grown up.

@dabd8175 Год назад

@@appgirl25 you guys put it there 😮

@SaystheTruth3 Год назад

Typical story.... Mom is at home sad with the kids yet wanting more... while dad is working mad hours to provide for his family. Give the guy a break when he comes home... I think she needs to get her own hobbys and stop dragging her husband to things he doesn't want to do... I think she depends on him too much for her own happiness.

@dabd8175 Год назад

Man these females 😂😂😂