r/Bestofupdates I Sent My Insane Anti-Vax Wife to Prison 

Last story: OP is a pre-med student. RSlash: "All she had to do was be patient" I see what you did there.

Amy's friends aren't real friends, if they are going to be more concerned about a boy touching her, over the fact that she has a serious injury. And like Amy said, they didn't do jack when she needed help.

Second story update: Amy’s freaking SAVAGE. Good on her for shutting those jerks down both quickly and mercilessly.

With the last story, I thought she was jealous that OP got into med school, and was doing so well. I was not expecting the actual reason at all

Story 2: Sarah's out here talking shit, but we didn't hear about her rushing to her friend's side to give her aid, nor did she come in to check on said friend to make sure she was okay after going inside with a supposed "creep" so she really has no leg to stand on in terms of "us GiRlS could have handled it you CrEeP" 🤷🏻

*First OP:* OP and his daughter barely dodged a m155le that is OP’s ex-wife. I’m glad OP and his daughter are doing well. *Second OP:* I wish I’d been there when Amy cussed out Sarah in the group chat, lol. Anywho, OP is NTA; he was helping Amy respectfully. *Third OP:* Of all the possible theories as to why OP’s fiancée flipped out on OP, I was _not_ expecting that! I’m glad OP dumped her so he can focus on his dream. Shoutouts to his friends for their success.

Story 1: "If I had vaccinated our daughter she'd be _dead_ by now!" She's already in the hospital after almost dying because you _didn't_ vaccinate her, so your argument doesn't hold water.

She wanted... and would have, a rich boyfriend. But chose to be a drunk single loser instead.

First story-The ex is guilty of child abuse, along with multiple other felonies. She is an evil person.

So, this Karen did the following: - Lying to OP about getting daughter vaccinated - Child neglect - Forcing daughter to lie - Forging medical documents - Attempted forced entry - Lying to the judge - Violating protective order - Hurling threats and insults at OP Me thinks the essential oils really did a number to her brain.

I'm worried about the last OPs textbook. I hope he got it back okay. Shits expensive.

second story: AMY IS A BOSS!!! Its so good to see a woman standing for a guy who did nothing wrong. reminds of the story of the girl who sued a man that saved her life while doing CPR

The guy in that last story has a good head on his shoulders and seems like a good dude. He'll no doubt find someone who isn't so selfish that she prefers he give up his dream for money

Another update on the pool party. Copy and pasted from OPs page Greg followed through on not inviting Sarah to the next party. she was upset about it but accepted it. then two days after that party she called me and asked if we could meet in person and talk. i said okay and we met at a starbucks. She looked really sad and apologized to me profusely. she said that she doesnt know why she said those things about me. she thinks she was ashamed of being frozen in fear when Amy got hurt and she just took out that shame on me by insulting me. but that it was incredibly fucked up to do because accusations like the ones she threw at me, even if they were "jokes", could ruin my entire career and it was so wrong of her to do that just because she was ashamed of herself. she seemed genuinely remorseful so i forgave her and we are friends again. i told her i would talk to greg about letting her back into the parties but she said not to. what she did was "super fucked" and she doesnt want to come back until Amy forgives her too. i said okay. we hugged and i went on my merry way. a couple of days after that im hanging out with Amy at my house and we talk about the Sarah situation.. i showed Amy the previous post and asked her if we should show the others. she said yeah. so i showed everyone including sarah and she was a little upset at first but quickly accepted it. Amy forgave sarah a few days after that and she was invited to the 4th of july party two days ago (on the 3rd) and we had a great time. sarah was a little awkward at first at this party but quickly cheered up once we assured her that the "drama" was behind us and we accepted her apology and quickly moved on to joking about it. including sarah pretending to slice open her boob with the dull side of a butter knife, saying "Hark! mine tender breast! it doth been sliced open like a ripe melon! whoms't ever will save me?", ripping off her bikini top and leaping into my lap. which, to be really honest here, firmly put the issue to bed because everyone at the party was laughing for a good hour about that. So yeah. everything worked out in the end really. i just wanted to put a cork in this story because when i saw it on tiktok i realized how much people enjoyed it and thought it would be prudent to let people know that it had a definitive ending TL;DR: things worked out, we are all friends again. they might be in the comments of this post

Sarah from the second story gives off the same energy as that woman who tried to sue the guy who saved her after she slipped on a dock and fell into the water, unconscious. She screamed about sexual assault and tried to demand he be arrested, and it was something like 20 different lawyers who she went to that flat out refused to even hear anymore after she told them what had happened.

Sarah: “We KnOw FiRsT aId, We CoUlD hAvE hElPeD tOo” Then why didn’t you? Why did you choose to belittle the one person helping your friend and call them a creep rather than helping your friend? If I had a choice between letting a man touch my boobs to treat a wound and bleeding to death, I’d accept the help. Normally I’d chalk it up to a potential knee jerk reaction, there are some pretty creepy men and women...and some non binary folk...out there in the world......but this isn’t that. She’s crafted this internal narrative where she has to be the heroine jumping in to smack down the creepy man who wanted alone time with her friend, doubling down when the friend explained what actually happened

Dabney, thank you for putting your family firsts and reminding us of what's really important. rSlash has helped me and my husband so much over the pandemic and some other tough times. Take care!

I was expecting the Amy Story to be like “Amy accuses OP of sexual harassment and gets found out” but this is even better; Amy straight up shutting down toxic af people.

The biggest mistake op made was trusting that woman to vaccinate after she'd been so vocal about the opposite. It's not even that his fault though, as a parent he should have been absolutely right to believe that his daughter was safest with her mother, and she violated that trust

the last story "she wasn't cheating or pregnant" I was thinking she was jealous of OP for getting into a good college.

Story 3: It's funny how someone having a glamorous ring just causes other people to go insane. Like, yeah it's a nice ring, but it won't make anyone else's ring look like garbage. I wonder if this was an instance of dodging a bullet

I love knowing the outcomes to these ridiculous stories so I vote for more of these. I would have said that these stories have to be made up, BUT about 3 years ago 2 of my brothers accused me of trying to murder my dad so that I could take the house from them. My actual brothers thought that I was capable of that, and my father didn’t speak to me for a good 6 months because they had convinced him of that too. My parents moved 5 hours away from us and surprise surprise those assholes didn’t lift a finger to help them like they swore they would. My other brother and I would drive 5 hours to take them grocery shopping, we bought a car for our dad because they made him sell his old one and then wouldn’t take them grocery shopping. So yeah, I’m a believer in these stories now, some people are seriously just fucking evil, and this why I prefer animals over humans because people are literally the worst!

This is the main reason I’m actually scared of Anti vax parents and I’m glad that’s OPs ex is in jail because she’s crazy not just because of the forging documents but because she literally herassed op and his daughter

3 stories with all happy endings is a nice change if pace - Op won full custody rights from a wilful insane monster and his daughter has recovered, happy, and healthy - Friends that actually got OP's back after Op helped his friend. - Op Escaped from a toxic gold digger and continue to pursuit his dream. Best of luck of all OPs in today's episode and those who is close to them.

Story 1: THIS! This is exactly why my husband won full custody of his daughter. His exgf is anti-science to the point of faking drs appts & forms too. & she's stupid to boot! Texting or posting shit that helped us in court. Sadly, my stepdaughter is special needs so that made it so much scarier. Just like this story, consequences for fake beliefs. Thankfully my stepdaughter is safe with us now.

I'm guessing these are the same party guests who would let her die rather than let OP perform CPR hypothetically

First story: The moment I heard that she wanted to take her I immediately thought "how OP didn't see that one coming?“ I knew that was to fake the vaccination. She deserves to be in jail.

Story #1: Never take proof of anything court ordered directly from your ex. Always get it from the person/organization providing the information.

Second story:Yeah, op isn’t the asshole. Not every situation that involves breasts and a dude is said dude only getting involved just to see some boobs. If Amy hadn’t stepped in, there’s a good chance Sarah was going to destroy him 3rd story: I heard this story through SSM, he did the right thing dropping this psycho.

Here I thought the last one was going to go down the route of 'wait, as a doctor you will see naked women? thats cheating!', but nope, I was wrong. How in the world did she thing that would work? bullet dodged. obviously did not care about op if she wanted him to give up on his dream (and potential big $$ for the rest of their lives) in order to go into a soul crushing desk job to get $150k a year NOW.

Second story: Amy trusted OP. The other girls are just jerks and the guy who agree with them is jealous. They deserved what Amy said 100%.

That first story made me so upset. I was not vaccinated for chicken pox when I was a baby, and I ended up catching it a few months later. I was in the hospital for days, barely able to breathe. Years later when I was 16, it came back to bite me and I got shingles. It was the most agonizing pain I’ve ever felt in my life. It felt like I was burning.

Hey Dabney just watched the video on your other channel and while I'll admit I'm bummed your not gonna upload to both every day, like a lot of people have already said, concentrate on your family and this channel, please don't get burned out, millions of people count on you every day, not just granny stoner love ya

Hey Dabney! Sorry to hear about the other channel but I'm so happy you realized your time and energy are best spent with your family! We'll always support you here!

I love these kind of updates. Some of these stories and with prime time worthy cliffhangers

There was just a story in the local paper where a family had a prayer vigil and let their type 1 diabetic kid die while they prayed instead of taking her to hospital . Or giving her insulin . The whole family was charged with murder , torture, withholding medical care and a bunch of other shit I can't remember .

Third story: OP was walking Out in the rain He was going towards tracks And stepped on a drain Then he almost got shot And saw the whole thing But he didn't dodge a bullet He dodged a fucking train

One thing that got me in the original post is how the father says he doesn't understand how she could get chicken pox because she was vaccinated (even though she wasnt), but you can still get chicken pox EVEN IF you're vaccinated. A vaccine doesn't stop the infection from entering your system, but it does make it easier for your body to get rid of it SHOULD it enter your system. I hope a doctor or a nurse let him know that, because honestly, A LOT of antivaxxers start when they vaccinate their kids and the kids still contract the virus from a carrier, like how we can still catch COVID even though a majority of us are vaccinated.

lets see crimes ex made: -child endangerment -ignoring a court order -forging a signature -forging documents -using forge documents for own gain -likely presenting forged documents to the court -harassment -making threats -attemoted forced entry -violating protective order (I guess like restraining order) after being ant vaxxed and doing what she did....remind me....how is she not mother of the year or lost custody?

"He sprung into action when he saw a chance to play with a boob!" No, he sprung into action when he saw a woman BLEEDING PROFUSELY

I'm so glad the daughter of the first guy was able to get away from that psycho mom

Story 2: If they thought he was a predator, someone should have gone along as a witness.

5:20 -- I'm impressed that it took only five months for OP's emergency custody order to be altered to full-time, permanent custody. Dang -- OP's ex must have done some insane stuff to get a domestic court to move that quickly. That can pretty much only happen with the full cooperation of the opposing ex-spouse. It's gotta be an interesting tale. Edit: Yep, the dumb ex might as well have just stood up in court and said, "Here you go. Full custody, court-ordered support, the works. It's yours." Oh, and I know it's probably due to auto-correct or something, but "January 6th intersection" drew me up short as I read it. I'm weird about finding unintentionally funny auto-fill artifacts like that. I think they're a hoot.

Man, Amy is a real one! OP should definitely stick with her, she’s a good friend.

That last one. Everything OP knew about her was a lie. She's a textbook manipulator

Being an antivaxer parent should be legally considered child endangerment

The last story: Jesus that woman is absolutely psychotic lmao "why won't you get a job you hate so you can give me money?!"

This is one of your best videos in a while, I know it's about the quality of the posts rather than what you do, all control you have is picking the posts, but this reddit was really enjoyable to listen to. Sadly this is likely not a very common reddit to get new posts so videos like this are more special than others.

Third story: I haven't heard the udate and I know OP must break up with that crazy, jealous woman. She is jealous of OP's success in school and used that picture as an excuse to begin to sabotage OP. In the update: Well, I knew it was jealousy, but not the exact source of it. Good on OP for dumping that jealous, golddigger witch who looks like just wanted some easy money.

How did the man in the first story trust his anti-vax girlfriend to vaccinate their daughter? When she said that she would go with her to "minimize stress", he should've said that he wanted to go with them to do it as a family, in order to make sure. Like, this is some basic "Trust, but verify" stuff.

about the first case, an interesting fact about Brazil: All children are vaccinated regardless of their parents' beliefs. Between the "right to freedom of belief" and the "right to health", the right to health stands out.

That story about Amy, OP did everything right! He asked for permission, he made sure she wasn't uncomfortable & he was the one to help someone who was hurt! I think he is going to be great in the hospital!

im glad this channel will still be up sorry u had to stop posting on the other channel also good luck with the kid heard they are troublesome

stories like the 1st 1 saddens and angers me considering the antiscience and antimedicine ideologies are tragically not only growing but are becoming far far more vocal than ever to the point that the communities they stigmatize with their beliefs like us autistics are becoming more worried about our future due to their views negatively hurting our community

Second Story: I don't know how this works in OP's country but in mine it's literally illegal for a medical proffesional or somebody who goes to medical school and has the knowladge required to help to not help. You can literally get a year in prison for this at least.

This subreddit is quickly becoming one of my favorites

I'm not going to lie on that first story I'm so happy for Op and the daughter on the fact that he won the case to have full custody of her and the you know the ex-wife showed her true colors of what she is and who she is but I think the part that's so sad for me in the story is how people like this are willing to literally put their own beliefs before their children and I'm talking about like the Op's daughter got lucky to be born with at at least one parent in their life that actually cared enough to make sure they didn't die cuz imagine all the other people are technically couples that have had children and they keep blaming the idea oh I wasn't strong enough with the treatment I was giving my daughter or son for them to see alive instead those stupid vaccines and viruses took them and it's like you just want to get a hold of these people and like wish you can beat the crap out of them until they have the common sense within them to understand that their way is so wrong and they really should stop judging the idea that they're above a doctor but at the same time it will never work because of the fact of how crazy these people are I mean the fact that like when Biden was first elected as the president they were willing to storm ability and kill a bunch of other people and risk their lives and careers over stupid beliefs that made no sense and you know being validated up by our ex-president who was an utter a complete moron shows how terribly stupid these people are

Story 2: NTA so fun fact out there if I remember right from my health class when learning CPR and First Aid. Guys are often saved more than girls are when it comes to resuscitation because when using an AED (automated external defibrillator) it needs to make contact with the skin. Because of this the shirt needs to be ripped in the chest area so that the pads can be placed. With the shirt ripped a girls breasts are exposed. Story 3: So in other words the wife is in it for the short term versus long term. Because doctors make bank.

OP 1: I have a feeling OP's ex can warn her new beau about what the inside is like. OP 2: How was anyone supposed to know WHERE the cut was before Amy showed it? There's blood and someone's screaming - that's a signal something is wrong! And that's beside the bigger point - OP was the only one who jumped into action at all! OP 3: Wait until she makes it with techbro and then pulls the same scheme over on him because she covets a tech CEO who makes 7 figures. The world needs more doctors doing real shit and fewer tech CEOs doing jack shit.

1st story: I saw it coming the moment she insisted on being the one to take her. Knowing that the woman has crazy beliefs, OP should have insisted on also being present. Then again, OP didn't check to see if the woman was crazy/stupid before impregnating her; so maybe he's not the sharpest bulb in the shed...

Story 3 sounds like the textbook case of dodging a bullet.

Please more of these! It’s all the juicy stories in one sweet video. I swear listening to rslash makes my lunch taste better

I wouldn’t want Sarah at a pool party either. I’d be too worried that if someone go knocked out they’d end up dying because Sarah thought it would be “too inappropriate” to give them CPR.

First story lawyer is like "oh wow! Is it my birthday?!"

Nah, that last one was definitely cheating. If listening to these videos have taught me anything it's that extreme jealousy is always a result of deflecting their own insecurities about cheating onto others. That or the girlfriend is an extreme narcissist who wanted to manipulate OP, which I feel like they would have noticed sooner.

S/o to Rslash. You're awesome. Please do more of this category when you can. I love a good update on a juicy story

I do freelance at a law firm that does a lot of family law, I'm also Jewish, almost everyone I know is a lawyer, so I've grown up around this. The whole anti-vax story is one I've heard and personally dealt with A LOT. And it's rarely this simple. Honestly, it worked in his favor that she was this extreme. I have seen FAR WORSE cases go the other way though. Though, fun fact, you don't need both parents to get a child vaccinated. Unless there is an oder in place from a court, one parent can take the kid to get vaccinated, and they don't even have to inform the other parent. That doesn't always look great in a custody case, it may not be the right way to go during an intense custody battle as most of the time the court will agree with the vaccinating and it looks better to not be going around the other parent, but if need be, it is an option. But I've seen kids in far worse situation with horrible parents that end up with custody. Including children actually poisoned. On the other side, I've seen a mother have her infant, who was still nursing, taken away and an order of protection against her filed by the father (I use that term loosely), who had never met the baby, after being accused of "talking about murdering the baby." The "murder" was her talking to a friend about an abortion at the very, very early stages of the pregnancy. And why did she talk to a friend about it? Her oh so lovely boyfriend at the time told her he would leave her if she didn't have an abortion. She choose not to, he kept his word and left her. He came back after the baby was born just to mess with her. He lucked out with an anti-choice judge. It ended up getting dropped, and luckily the baby went to the mother's mom during the time of the emergency order of protection and not to the "father," but that was crucial bonding time they will never get back, and that mother suffered so much being continuously victimized by her ex and the courts.

R/ if you didn’t know, it is extremely common to take a gap year after college before medical school and is the majority of what students do because medical school is INSANELY selective. I am personally a competitive applicant so far and don’t put it past myself to need a year to gather medical experience first. So that freak out was already a red flag.

So, Annie basically lied to OP from the very beginning. All she really wanted was a rich sugar daddy, but couldn't be patient enough to wait for OP to become one. OP really dodged a bullet with this one.

the anti-science wife story is nutz!

..The most horrible thing is that the daughter wasn't the only one in danger but other children in that school too. I fully believe that not vaccinating your children when the can be vaccinated should be ground for CPS to be involved.

Last story, first thing to do after she took the textbook is kick in the door, yank the book back. Then later tell her she can sleep on the couch, I'm sleeping in my bed.

The only thing that could've made the amti-vax story better is if the wife died because from a disease she refused to get vaccinated.

I love that ending to the first story. I wish it hadn't involved that poor girl and her father going through hell though. I hate that innocent people have to suffer for their parents' stupidity.

First OP: Thank god he got full custody of his daughter! I'm so glad they're doing better than they were with his ex. He didn't doge a bullet. He dodged a MISSLE. edit: dodge*

If only this video had been longer. I loved hearing all of the updates from the OPs.

First story: I have had all my vaccines and I have lived this long and haven't almost died of chicken pox sooo ya I think vaccines generally work

Look. if you want to be anti-vax. thats fine. your body, your choice. but for the love of god....never force your child to this. any sane person would talk it over with their kid and ex. if there is a court order....dont do what the ex wife did. Im sure if the court had ruled in the ex's favor and had no order for daughter to vaxxed. OP wouldve obeyed and appealed

I try to not watch these too much because the negative stories have really weighed down on me, but every now and again, it's good to come back to these.

That last one is surprisingly crazy. She really just admitted to lying to him for the entire time they knew each other.... Bc he wanted to be a doctor?? She clearly was like "well he likes this a lot so I'll pretend so he'll like me too" which I suppose is the kind of unhinged that makes sense at 15, but like... By the time they're in college? Does she think people only romantically like others they have the same exact dream as??? The vagina textbook thing was clearly an insane manipulation play, but its built on a foundation of years of lies and manipulation. Like she was trying to manipulate him into liking her for years (which im sure he didn't need bc he probably didn't like her solely for her prospective future job lmao) and its all over something so stupid. Like usually when people manipulate others its over more than "what job I one day want". Evil scientist designs but like dollar store means

"Our daughter would be dead by now if she got vaccinated! My witch doctor told me so while I was getting the latest healing crystals!"

My dude... you never EVER apologise unless you are ABSOLUTELY in the wrong, especially to a nutcase like your bunny boiler former fiance

In story #3 I heard a LOT of reasons why it would be easy for OP to drop out of med school and create a startup. You know what I didn't hear? A single reason why she couldn't drop out of med school, get some tech classes, and do it herself.

first story: it's a really good thing OP kept, that document, with a lawyer/solicitor's help, they would take a look confirming it's forgery and say "you hit paydirt buddy"

To be fair not all children can handle getting all the vaccines at once. I mean the right thing to do is get one vaccine once a month.

As a medical practitioner I still think that both parents have issue in the vignetted story. :/ Immunecompromised children don’t respond well to conventional vaccines. Essential oils and salt may calm the body but there are other immune strengtheners or medications for those with no or part of their immune systems

I actually know a pretty famous livestreamer who is severely immune compromised, and she once told this story about how one of her mom's friends, who was strictly religious, suggested that her mom stopped using the medication that kept her alive and just "trust in God" or some such BS. The things people will try to impose on others for the sake of their own beliefs is really crazy. Although we don't tolerate it as much in our current day and age as we did only a few hundred years ago, we don't punish that kind of destructive behavior enough. As the recent years have shown, we need to have very strict laws and legal actions taken against people who intentionally exposes anyone to deadly diseases as harshly as any use of force. To maliciously or selfishly inflict anyone with a disease is no different than using biological weapons. We need to treat the medical field as the forefront of societal progress and be given the same authoritarian power as the Church had in ancient past, or else people will continue not taking it as seriously as they should.

As someone intending to become a doctor, the classroom side of medical school is split into two parts. In the first year, you learn about the body when it is functioning properly. Yes, that includes studying EVERYTHING from head to toe, including the reproductive system. In the second year, you learn about the body when it is not functioning correctly, why it is not functioning correctly, and how to fix it. Years 3 and 4 are mostly clinical where you are on several different rotations, including OB/GYN. In OB/GYN, you are expected to see these parts!!!

god i love these they are satifying

I wish essential oils didn’t get such a bad rap. I love them…. For making my room smell good. Vaccinate your children guys.

My Biology teacher was Immunol-compromised, she explained it to the class as an allergic reaction to the chemicals in the vaccine. She always wore a mask and encouraged others to do the same because she didn't want to risk getting sick, that's how we knew she wasn't lying. One day she told the class that we would have a substitute because she was gonna go to the hospital and do something pretty nuts and kind of badass, she was going to get the vaccine and then quickly be put under and given all of the anti-allergens that she would need so that she could be protected from the virus. She was gone for a couple weeks, but then one day, she showed up to class again, this time without a mask. She then informed us that the procedure was a success and she was now fully vaccinated. She was an awesome teacher. TLDR: My teacher was allergic to the vaccine, so she said "Screw it" and found a way to get vaccinated anyway.

*Story 1:* Let this be a warning to all Anti-Vaxxers. What you do to yourself is your business, but the moment you involve children, you should rot in jail in my opinion. *Story 2:* W Amy for not letting these women trash-talk on her friend who helped her out! OP did nothing wrong (he even offered to let her do it if him messing with her chest made her uncomfortable). Though it may just be from the way OP wrote it, but I do gotta give _some_ props to Sarah for appologizing without making a fuss. She didn't need to, but she did, so I think she deserves that if nothing else. *Story 3, pre-update:* Wow, what a b****. Honestly, she did you a favor by leaving you. I'm dying to find out the twist for why she suddenly acted that way. My guess is that she's cheating and is projecting (as insecure cheaters are want to do). *Story 3, post-update:* Damn. I was _not_ expecting that. So, basically the fiance was setting up her own gold rush, and pre-emptively wanted to score OP when she thought he'd get rich and then leech off of him. Honestly, screw her. Also, if OP was an "f***ing idiot" for not getting a job in a bank to get over 150k a year, why didn't _she_ do it?

Day ??? of telling him he's making everyone day

Hey man love your vids keep it up we all love it

My son WAS vaccinated from chicken pox and got it at 9 years. He was sick for fortnight with very high fever and horrible itching (especially at nights). Vaccination doesn't guarantee 100 percent that you won't catch the decease.

I know I've said this before but "OP posted an update" hits me like a crack rock. These multi-parters are always so juicy.

Keep going rslash!

Yeah, doctors salaries are nice, 20 years after graduating. Imagine paying for an ivy league school for 10 years. Even a state college would be pricey. Everyone thinks doctors are rolling in cash, but they pay out a LOT of money in malpractice insurance and other such things.

I need more of these stories cause I hate when stories just end on a cliffhanger when I know there’s more you know

First story, that lady just lost ALL custody, should be sued in civilian court - I would never let a crazy anti-vaxer 'vacinate' my child without me also being there. Also, it should also not take 5 months for a custody case so open and close.