I think it would be more accurate to describe the work as the ranting of a narcissist who hasn't been able to trap a victim in the role of metaphorical (possibly literal) punching bag
@@justinwatson1510yeah, that sounds way more accurate. Every dude I know who thinks like this is just a self absorbed, manipulative piece of shit who's fortunately never found a woman who's vulnerable and malleable enough for his abuse tactics to work.
@@Gchildwarrior What She Says: "It's Lactaid." Translation: "I'm definitely cheating and this is a symbolic loophole." Why She Says This: Women who drink lactaid are trying to have their cake and eat it too - the removal of the lactose does not mean she's not still drinking milk. Likewise, the lack of sex she's having does not mean she's not cheating on you.
@@moxiemaxie3543 Well obviously, because that is what lactose does to lactose intolerant people. I know it from my brother who becamse lactose intolerant in his late 20s. It is noit lethal or dangerous but very unpleasant. She probably also does not want ot be unconfortable and gassy all on her own.
If you think about it, that’s a pretty sneaky way for her to divert your attention away from the cheating. All you can think of is the cops handcuffing you, and you don’t even notice she’s wearing frilly underwear.
When she tells the 911 dispatcher “send help my boyfriend has a gun” what she’s really saying is “Hey Tyrone yea my beta bf is going cray cray can you come beat him up and fuck me”.
"Women will spin the truth to sidestep accountability, make themselves the victim, and shift blame onto others." Rest of book: Here's why every problem in a relationship is her fault
To be fair the first statement isn't always false, except for the fact that is a HUMAN BEING thing and not a woman thing. Both Men and Women will psychologically flip their view point to make themselves the victims all the time, specially when talking about relationships Then the rest of the book is just bullshit
As a woman I have to say it's an outrage. We will review this book at our Women council and will immediately start some countermeasures. The thruth cannot be let out! Our language was lost for a reason. Thank you Gunnar for bringing it to our attention.
Man could've used Helvetica . . .but I see the atrocities now for sure mom's a graphic artist and this is Petrifying 💀 Man's could've used papyrus and somehow made it cheap design but salvaged it ^
Ong could he not be bother to hire someone to design this shit? Or look up any examples of what a book actually look like before pulling this out of his ass? Plus he probably stole those images from iStock or Pixabay with his cheap ass
I can help. If a woman says x it means she's cheating. If a woman says y it means she wants to be worshipped and she's cheating. If a woman says z it means she's doing a cock marathon 😂
@m lesbians AREN'T real they're fictional beings created for porn, that's Straight Bro 101 man. and if a woman says she's a lesbian, she's a liar 🤷🏻♂️
When she says “I do” at the altar. What she really means is: “I would cheat on you with Ramon for the rest of your life, leaving you miserable and penniless, grasping for leftovers of my love in the form of the 2 kids that I was carrying from my previous marriage and that you’re eventually gonna have to raise after I escape to Spain with Hugo.”
Also possibly - she's says 'I do' means "I fucked your best man last night and I fully intend to do the officent after the ceremony. I also reserve the right to pull a train at the reception." 😂 Oh my god that writer has so many issues. What worries me is the risk of Incels reading that bit about anything illegal is a turn on and literally thinking that any form of domestic abuse, stalking etc is a turn on. That's a horrifc thought.
@@gpercreeper9413 you can say the same thing for men who lie, manipulate,cheat,and abuse there partners as well then not just women right? just like how you guys always say it's "not all men" but then turn around and say women are at fault for everything and they all suck💀
I may be only watching this on RU-vid, but your chat stream comments I can read just add to the whole enjoyment - love the dark humour you guys write, I think it's the only way we can handle this insane 'book'.
Here's some Manese: When he says: "every woman cheats, lies, and avoids accountability" Translation: "I'm really bad in relationships, but I'm going to lie and avoid accountability"
@@SuspiriaX Ah yes, making fun of one misogynistic loser is definitely the same level as making insulting sweeping generalizations about every single woman in the world. Every time I encounter a fragile man my thesis that you're all just terrible at logic gets confirmed.
If a woman says "im calling the cops, please leave my apartment" what she really means is "please stay the night, im cooking you breakfast in the morning" never give up guys!
There’s a crazy amount of people who think like that, not exclusive to men either. We’re way way better at recognizing the faults of other groups of people than our own lol
As a lesbian, this is very entertaining and informative to watch. I now know that every move I make is to attain more dick. Thank you for bringing this to light lollll
I think the problem with talking like this is that they aren't describing "women" they're just describing shit people, but sort of scapegoating an entire gender
@m this isn't tiktok. Books like this and people like this existed before tiktok. They just were on websites and forums you wouldn't go to because you're not one of them
They're exclusively describing hoes. Hoes are hoes. 90% of women aren't hoes. So communicating with all women as if they are hoes yields happy and fulfilling relationships exactly as often as you think it would. Which is to say- putting out all this rancid energy will only summon the UltraHoe. A creature so conniving and manipulative that all people, even women, leave her presence feeling slightly more misogynistic. A shame, because extreme misogyny is what created her in the first place. She is a feedback loop of patriarchal hatred.
@@wildtooth1 no they absolutely have begun to consider women somehow subhuman. Book literally starts by telling you it's gonna teach you to understand the "female species". Like Jesus Christ
My mother actually is like what he describes, so when I was younger I thought that's just how women were. But then I actually met women and realized that, nah, my mom is just a manipulative narcissist.
Honestly, same. Having a narcissist mother shaped my view of women through my teens and some of my early twenties, and the idea that they could just act like normal people was something I had to learn through... you know, actually interacting with women.
I had two shitty fathers and didn’t think men were shitty, maybe that’s because I had a brother so I couldn’t think men were shitty so maybe if you had a sister it would be have different.
I dunno, man. My dad (and step-dad unfortunately) turned out to like this (and worse) and it didn’t affect my view of men. Probably because when I looked at men I didn’t think “this is a man” I just thought “that’s a person” and I know people are different from each other. I could only hold a demographic responsible for the evil of one member if I viewed said demographic as a sub-human monolith in the first place, which is just sexism/racism on my part.
At this point I'm not even sure this guy was actually cheated on, he could have just been a controlling, misogynist, asshole and instead of seeing fault in himself, he came up with this narrative that she cheated on him and every word she says is a lie. Another banger video, Gunnar. Looking forward to seeing what you have in store for us in the next one! 🙌
@@longstachkaido240 shit I've been caught. You're right, I should have said "I was actually the one who cheated on him but am lying about it so I don't look like a slut." Damn can't believe he broke our code 😔
"Women do NOT like looking bad in any situation." That's not "women" that's just human beings in general. Looking bad sucks, no matter who you are. "In fact, they avoid it at all costs. They do this with misleading phrases, convoluting the truth, or just flat out lying." This sounds like a general description of politicians and influencers, of both the *male* and female variety. Just look at pretty much any "apology" video ever recorded.
You do realise women and men can both be equally crappy towards each other and just because you criticise a woman, that doesn’t instantly make you a misogynist.
I'm sorry but this whole video was Gunnar saying "not all women are like this" when the book just says "women". That's literally the same thing as saying "not all men" lol
5:04 Except here, the book states 'Every woman has two sides: One that knows the truth, and one that wants to spin the truth in whatever way suits them'. So yeah, the author DOES think that all women are like this.
thank you.. im at a stalemate arguing with my british ex.. my american insults dont really effect her so im hoping to learn how to really disrespect her while im here.. thanks to the both of you.
@@Deadman7600.holy shit I thought nonce was just a word for a dumbass basically like dunce or something. Apparently it’s for pedos? Y’all drop that shit pretty casually sometimes lmao
It’s pretty equal men vs women stuff. No one side is the whole problem. Women play games, men play games, and it fucks up most adult relationships. Not a minority, but most relationships
@@seakermac5800 Oh yeah, for sure women do it too. If they didn’t there’d be less men that act like this. I’ve seen women saying stuff like “I’m glad men are suffering” while discussing how men tend to be very lonely in the modern world. It’s just as pathetic as the womanese book. Just clarifying, because your reply made me realize that it might seem like I’m playing a side in the niche weirdo man vs woman “debate” you might occasionally run across. Which I don’t both sides of that whole thing are impressively ignorant.
@@Heretic_realI think women do it too, but it comes from a really different place. If you apply a “both sides” lens over it all, it becomes way too one-dimensional. I’ve found that the genuine nuance can be found if you attribute all issues with gender to patriarchal bullshit.
@@dragonbread1790 no, I'm replying to someone saying something accidentally contradictory because I thought it was kinda funny. If anything I'd be trying to get a lesbians attention lol but sure I'm up for a man's attention
Time for some armchair psychologist action. This man has been in a grand total of ONE relationship. She was terrified to just break up with his controlling, misogynistic a$$ because she was certain he would stalk her for eternity. So she stepped out to make him break up with her. His entire worldview is based on that one relationship & whatever dark sewer subreddit he hangs out in. We WILL see his name in the news someday & not for anything good
I feel like I should return my degree in behavioral therapy... If i would have known this was a book freely available to me, I would have never devoted my adult life to caring about others. Why is this book not required reading for every 6 year old? It took me 5 attempts to write that with out breaking out in laughter.
this is interesting to me because when women ARE honest, straightforward, and blunt about their feelings and intentions they’re labeled a bitch, cunt, or any derogatory term you can think of … make it make sense. This guy just needs to admit he wants a compliant woman that he can control and take advantage of
I think he should just look for male partners from here on out. How could you have a meaningful long-lasting relationship with a member of a group you have so much prejudice against and constantly dehumanize?
The fact that this book actually exists is mind-blowing. The sad part is, though we're laughing and making jokes about it, there will actually be some man somewhere who is unironically depending on this book and going off in his relationship thinking his girl is cheating on him exactly how this book describes. Sad that this book will be the go to for some young men too and it will fuck up all their future interactions. Sad man sad.
@wynn1587How did you watch a video with the message of "generalising an entire gender is bad" and then go to the comments to generalise an entire gender lol you're literally just doing what the alpha bros do
I hate books like this because when ever I'm being very direct and clear with my boyfriend he instantly assume there's a deeper meaning! No Paul! when I say "I want you to do the dishes" that is not code for "I'm cheating on you but am using dishes to distract you in the mean time"
Wow I can’t believe that when my dad cheated on my mom over and over again while he was deployed, my mom was actually cheating on him! This is life changing!
There are toxic fucked up women out there that do a lot of these things. There are also wonderful kind and honest women out there. There are also many women out there that don't intend to lie or do hurtful shit but don't fully understand themselves and what they want and end up hurting you accidently. All of these also apply to men. In general though, as people we often don't completely have our shit figured out because we are very complicated beings and many times when things don't work it between two people it is just part of the learning process for one or both of them.
Those Men: Women are not upfront, real, straightforward, or truthful. Me: I'm very straightforward. I am not interested in dating right now. You're not going to convince me that you're the reason I should start, so stop asking me for my name or number. I am sitting in this library for the silence. Those Men: BITCH!! *pulls gun, shoots me.* DATE ME RIGHT NOW.
So I just learned the mysterious language of Manese. The content of this whole book translates to just one sentence: "I've never had a mature adult relationship before"
I love how the book says that men only say what they mean and women speak in codes, yet the same type of guy who believes this also believes in pick up lines and the idea of having “game” and playing mind games with women and “betas” to get what they want. In my experience, men and women are equally shady, sketchy, and just plain bad at communicating
This is so not true because my husband engages in "typical female communication tactics" whereas Im very direct and blunt and say what I mean? Its almost like you cant confine 1 type of communication to man or woman
There needs to be a law where if you’re consuming “manosphere” content, half the time and money you spend on it needs to be spent on going to therapy. I feel like this would pull so many guys out of that incredibly bleak headspace and literally save them.
I was telling my ex that his conflict resolution is not working for me, he doesn't really take what I tell him to heart and to stop buying me overly expensive gifts when his personal finances are horrible. I basically broke up with him in November, but he smooth talked me back. When I broke up with him in February because none of the points have changed, he had the audacity to say it came out of nowhere. This guy has that energy to me.
So..Knowing about this, any woman attempting a relationship with him, would try to act, say and behave the opposite of what he expects, therefore, to him she would look even shadier. This man’s paranoias and preconceptions have locked him up on an eternal confirmation bias loop from hell. Ahahahha twat
On one hand I feel bad for this guy because he obviously went through a horrible and manipulative relationship. But on the other hand I don't feel bad, because he's trying to convince other young men their relationships are all ticking time bombs before their woman cheats and rips their heart out.
Did he? Or is that the narrative he came up in his head to excuse a failed relationship? Because he sounds too incel to actually have relationship experience under his belt. Probably wasn't even a gf but a crush he had and he thought it was "cheating" to not go for him. He's that pathetic sounding. And I wish people would stop feeling pity for these guys because they are hateful towards women -- he doesn't even consider women human and calls them a different "species". Never feel sorry for men like him.
Manese: “All women do is lie and cheat” Translation: “I don’t want to be held accountable for being an asshole to my ex spouse, so I take my experience and assume that every woman is like my ex spouse. Also I have a small wang.”
90% of this book is just "she wants to cheat on you." it just reeks of he was cheated on and now look at every word she ever said as a lie and hidden ways to say shes cheating and now projects that on all women.
His narrative is consistent to manipulative manspeak, my ex accused me of cheating when I asked for a separation, and then fucked my friend so- I can respect the predictability he's giving us a heads up
@@kzg_veritas12 he was very controlling, from social media to what I wore, and was just really mean, he'd say I was crazy if I said something made me uncomfortable or if I had a different opinion. I got married fast and young for religious reasons, and I asked for a separation as soon as I was no longer religious
@@kzg_veritas12 I didn't want to post on social media, he'd get angry if I didn't log in and like his stuff, or if I didn't post photos from stuff we did lol, I don't think that's normal. And I dressed really modestly because of my religion so it wasn't an issue of covering up, he just liked muted colors and like North Face kind of brands so I could only wear that. I think the only L was allowing someone to treat me like that for 6 years
Yes, I came across your channel recently. Yes, I'm consuming all of your content at a rapid and unsettling pace. Yes, I have problems. No, I will not fix them.
I do vaguely agree that SOME women will find another guy before breaking up with you but those are just broken people that have issues being alone it's not every woman
Wow this sounds pretty much exactly like my woman beating ex....controlling, abusive, piece of shit behavior and way of thinking. I think he'd love this video, maybe I'll send it to him lol
