Reasons Why You're Single 

Very good storytelling and explaining skills

I love free therapy

Rather than directly giving us advice, swoozie tried to understand the lonely feeling that singles face and then tried to help us. Swoozie is truly underrated nowadays

I'm single. Why? Life is expensive. My work is already making me lose my mind. Barely have any free time. So it will have to stay this way.

I’m single because I don’t leave my house🫣

Single days were fun -- full of exploring and trying new things. But my current relationship/marriage days have similar experiences and then more. I've previously dated extremely controlling and rigid people, but my husband is the best friend and perfect partner for me. He's sweet, attentive, emotionally intelligent, comforting, and the most fun I've EVER had. So to conclude... being single is fun and exciting, but finding the very specific right person to be with is the best part of a relationship. Also congrats on just....everything awesome happening to you Swoozie!! I've followed your videos for years and it's so cool seeing you find all these opportunities and recognition!

What do y’all enjoy most about being single and being in a relationship. Top thing for both…go!

Swoozie went from giving reasons why we're single to telling us a story about his life LOL

Being single is legit so underrated, I enjoty doing stuff without the worry of another person

I love the way of thinking that emphasizes self-improvement, it makes happiness feel like it is in OUR control, not contingent on other people... love yourself foo

The end hit different for me. I should never have been with someone so controlling with a "my way or the highway" mindset. Compromise is such an important yet ignored thing in relationships sometimes, among other things like listening to and respecting your partner. It was an eye-opening experience for me, and it showed me how a relationship should never be. I'm happy to be single and free!!! I'm currently grinding in my first semester of law school. Thank you Swoozie for the banger video as always 👏🏻💯🧡

I have been single for a long time. I have my good days in being single, but I also have my bad days. That statement swoozie said about getting happy being single first before seeking a relationship means I lot to me. The last three years have been very rough for me, but I am slowly turning things around. I just have to faith that there is someone out there for me, I just haven't found her yet. Thanks for this video Swoozie, it means I lot to someone like me.

Adande, you're humors on point lol. I love seeing all your videos and stories.

I'm so happy I came across this video. I really needed some validation. Both of my siblings are in relationships and plan to bring their partners to family holiday events. I couldn't help but feel left out. But, when I really thought about it, I was like, "Who am I fooling? Being in a relationship requires effort I am not ready to give."

Reason why I'm single: I freakin' love it. I have books, a sweet dog, nuff said. I'm basically a hermit and proud of it thank y'all very much!

You foreal are such a good dude wit a great way of communicating with others. Over the years i learned a lot from the videos and advice you put out there. Great vid bro

Thanks for the video, Swoozie, the validation I’m feeling right now has made me feel so happy. I’m single, and I am happy to be single, to a point. But I do have times where I just wish I had someone I could cuddle up with at night. Even worse, my family loves to bring up the fact that I’m still single, that there’s clearly something I’m doing wrong to still be single in my 20s, but as much as I do want to find someone, I need to be ready for it. And even if I feel ready for it, it’s a whole new playing field for me, and I need to find someone I feel is right for me. And I’m willing to wait for that.

I haven't had a significant other long enough to realize that I am far too selfish with my time to realistically devote a large amount of it to someone else. Its not that I don't want to find "the one" but I like everything about being single, and it would take something absolutely special for me to be willing to sacrifice my time.

reasons why i’m single nobody i want want me 😅

Congratulations omggggggg !!! You deserve it so badddd been good watching u for years and i really been such a huge fan from the beginning!🎉

I’m over 30 and single because I’ve made a very complete life for myself and a girl would probably ruin it if she came into the relationship with a lot of her own ideas. Kind of sad, because the companionship would be awesome but it’s difficult to seriously think about a relationship where I’m at. Love your videos so much sWooZie.

"Everybody is madely in love when you're not in love" is something I never knew I needed to hear 💔

The reason I’m single is literally me. I am genuinely “too me” for my own good

You deserve many blessings. Always entertaining and yet still gives valuable lessons about life

being single is honestly so nice. I've always been an extremely independent person (my parents told me when I was a baby I would run away repeatedly and not look back lol) so giving up that extreme independence would mean the other person would have to be REALLY special. haven't met anyone I felt that strongly about yet, might never happen, and that's ok I'll be chilling with the other single grannies in the retirement home one day drinking our .05 oz cosmos getting lit the fuck up

I'm single because I need to learn to love myself. The four guys I've dated in the past took advantage of me. I've been told that I'm too nice. Right now, I enjoy being single and I wish the people around me would understand that.

I’m single cuz I don’t go out too much, but I have been using the time to work on myself and secure my bag. Plus I want to be able to pull my weight in a relationship so the dynamic between us isn’t off balance in any way.

"pop out babies" CAUGHT ME SO OFFGUARD 🤣🤣

I’m single because I’m in a season of learning to be in a healthy loving relationship with myself 🥰

Hey Swooz. Long time subscriber here. Just watched that documentary, and bro. That moment around 5:05 where you talk about having your life planned ahead of you and it just getting erased... that hit me, man. I've never seen you get emotional like that, and I felt that. I felt that so hard. Even after all the success you've had, for that to still sting you like it does. I've spent the last thirteen years of my life doing everything I could to be either a priest or a friar. For as far back as I could remember, that's what I knew I was supposed to be. I put everything on it. Things kept going wrong, but I still pushed. Like you said, living by faith, not by sight. Finally, just over a year ago, I got so close. I was just a few days before the finish line, the happiest I had ever been in my life, and then out of nowhere, everything, everything just got pulled out from under me. All that time, all that work, just... gone. Totally believing in myself, and being the only one. It's like you said, though. No one has my voice. I've got stories to tell. I've got a lot to share. I think RU-vid really is the place to do that. I might not have a whole lot going for me, but I am a storyteller. That's something I love. That's something I hope I can do. Thank you for being out here and sharing yourself with us, Adande. You really are a beautiful soul, and it has been an honor to follow you all these years and be a part of your journey.

I'm single because i just wanna be left alone. I don't have the mental capacity to deal with someone else on top of dealing with myself. Watching this video made me think of all my friends who are in relationships tho, lol superrrr well done! :)

YOU DESERVE THE RECOGNITION, SWOOZIE!! been watching you since 2010 and you've grown tremendously!

Congratulations! I'm really looking forward to your documentary. I didn't even know that the narrated illustrated stories on RU-vid came from you. Thank you for inspiring others and sharing your stories! Keep going! 💖😊

Never expected Swoozie to get a documentary. It's cool to see how far he's come

1. I only find women that have boyfriends. 2. I need to focus on work. 3. Playing Videogames all day everyday when not working or hanging out with friends. 4. I don't smoke I don't drink I don't vape I don't take no drugs and I use Android.

I gave her princess treatment for 8 whole months. I mean words cant describe how well i treated this woman. And she left me while I was going through a rough patch because my new roommates were extremely abusive to the point where I had to keep my door locked to my room 24/7. She didnt even try to communicate. She instead told her horrible "friends" about us instead of talking to me about our issues like a normal human being. Not even a break up text. Wake up blocked on everything. Still radio silence 2 weeks later and I honestly don't care, I'm over her. I was devastated. 2 weeks later, I secured a new job that is my dream job. And I'm learning to love myself. Something I've struggled with for years. Maybe everything happens for a reason 😅

I'm glad you're getting your flowers! You deserve it! Been watching your videos for years

Hard to find a partner who doesn’t want kids too. I feel truly sorry for those out in the dating world having to find a partner without kids. It’s a mess out there.

This was in my recommended thank you RU-vid (I am incredibly Lonely)

I remember looking up to you for years, especially when i learned you were from TNT like my mother. I still remember when I messaged you on XBox asking if you like CoD and you actually messaged me back. You inspired me to want to be a youtuber. While it didnt work out for me, I was able to take your lessons of tenacity and apply it to my work and my education. I'll graduate in May and attained a high position at my office and I thank you for those subtle, and not so subtle lessons.

You are right. Love takes work. You know when you’ve found your soulmate because you want to be a better person for them, and they do too.

Reason I’m single is because it’s cheaper, no drama, it’s better mentally and physically but most of all no one is constantly up your rear end 24/7. I’ve seen how unhappy my cousin is in a toxic relationship and it’s changed him completely. And for that I’m proud to be single and I love the single life 😁😎💯

Swoozie out here PREACHING. Too many people out here trying to date someone else to help them with their own baggage

The flowers video touched my heart. ❤ you are so treasured and we are all so proud of you and proud to support you.

Baby, you know this kiss is very soft, you know that's why you mention me every single day for the last 4 months..🫦

“Im just weighing in as a unbiased third party not attached to this situation with no bested interest” is my new go to

Swoozie hittin us with the REMIX! Relationships be hard. Trust be a big thing these days and not many people worth it - don't gotta change your positivity for nobody.

This video is the latest in a long line of greats. Swoozie knows how to tell a story with great supporting animation! The documentary by/with RU-vid is very well done.

Swoozie keeping 💯 with us. Giving life advice and also exposing the single ppl in the process 😂. Great video and I’m Fs gonna send it my friends that are taken asking why I’m single. Love u bro keeping that what u doing brother 🙏.

Swoozie is one of those people you can look up to from nearly every perspective. He's a successful guy with a stable career and mental health who can pull. We need more people like Swooze in life.

The reason I'm single is cos I'm heavily disabled and literally no one wants to/has to/should have to deal with that. But you do you.

This is easily the most relatable video I have ever seen IN MY LIFE. 🫶🏽🫡

Long time no see! Me and my girl have been together for almost 15 years. During the pandemic while we were living separately, we did have a brief breakup given she thought I had my family trying to manipulate everything. I had a nervous breakdown and we ended up rekindling our relationship then. It was rough, but I learned a huge lesson. We have forgiven each other on that behalf too. I can admit I had some issues then. Nowadays, I wouldn't know for sure how I would feel if I was still single. I hardly go out much because I never find much time to do so. Interesting that you threw out the term "in an isolationship". I think during the pandemic, and rebuilding my mentality back up after me and the girlfriend rekindled albeit while living separately, I had to regroup and focus a lot on myself. I can admit even before the pandemic, I was used to isolating myself, even around family and other friends. I've gotten a lot of help by then. -Kid Thunder

THIS VIDEO WAS SO PERSONAL AND SO RELATABLE TO ME, THIS MADE ME THINK WHY I WANT TO BE SINGLE. THANK YOU SWOOZIE, YOU’RE A REAL HERO

The reason why i stay single is because i simply dont hang around people like that, and besides im a drama-free person so honestly im not going for it 😂

You deserve the very best Swoozie. A Legend

Ooo I'm hyped to see what those character designs are about!

Reason why I'm single? Im picky, and I'm also afraid that men who I talk to will turn out to be jerks. (Also I'm not putting myself out there, I still live with my parents, etc etc)

You brought up a lot of valid points in relationships and being single. Also congrats on the documentary!!!

I needed this thanks Swooze

Wow perfect timing. Literally just became single a week ago. And for sure it’s like all the other relationships around me are magnified. Somehow this video brought some great peace to the situation. Thanks Swoozie!

Seeing the end about the RU-vid documentary really made me realize you influenced RU-vid animation creators. I’ve been watching you since 7th grade (2016-2017)and besides the fact that you’re entertaining and a great story teller I really loved your style of animation. I’m not 19 and still watch your videos lol and it barely feels like any time went by. You’re the longest I’ve been subscribed to someone.

The way he presents information is dope. Very good storytelling and explaining skillz....

Yo this so true man, and Swoozie congrats on the documentary thingy my man

I'm single because I spent my highschool years being socially inept, and I was too shy to talk to people. That coupled with my senior year being taken away by Covid, and moving after getting my GED, im not stuck with the few people I made friends with and two of them are my Exes. I'm single because I screwed myself and was too shy to meet people, and now ive moved away from all of my friends and I'm in a small town with no natural way to meet new people. I like to draw 👍

3:21 HARD AGREE . Work on yourself first: your mental health, your academics, your finances, your happiness THEN get into a relationship 💜🔮.

You’re amazing! I loved watching your stuff when I was younger ❤

Bro I needed you to drop this earlier!!!😂😭✨ Love your vids bro you’re a lovely personality.

Needed this. Thank you ❤

Oml i just watched the documentary 😭😭😭you deserved this fucking break man I know what it feels like to be at the lowest point of your life and to keep striving through the pain and hardship is suffocating it is really tough man I understand because I'm at that point right now, but then here you're NOW being all no TEA NO SHADE 🐸😂😂 I love you so man you've inspired me a lot thank you for what you create you're truly the king of animation❤

The documentary was dope as hell, dude. Ain't no one that deserved it more than you, congrats!

I read a good quote. Everyones got baggage. You gotta find the person who will help you unpack.

The reason I’m single is because I want to work on myself before somebody else has to deal with me. I see a lot of my friends get into relationships and they never last, so I think I don’t want to deal with that until I am ready. And I enjoy it to be honest

It makes it so easy to plan your hobby like traveling without being concerned with another person.

On my life I broke up yesterday, this video couldn’t have been more perfectly timed that this. Thank you Swooz!

Omg yes... no one can listen to flaws about themselves. The level of maturity in people is frustrating sometimes. There some people that you cannot suggest a single bit of criticism too or they just go off. And I try very hard not to be those people. I have gone through hell and high water to better some of my awful emotional habbits. And I try really hard to listen if someone I trust tells me something I need to think about bettering.

Swoozie droppin’ this at the best time as always! 👏🏻🔥

Singleness is a gift

The reason why I’m single is because I’m not ready for a relationship yet, but when I’m ready I’m find someone.

I felt this to my core. Might have to watch once a week for the reminder.

Thank you I needed this

Swoozie always gotta expose his fans but that’s why he’s the goat

Swoozie, you just called me out in 15 ways. Biggest reason for me right now is my last person giving me trust issues bc I really thought he was my forever person. Regardless, being single can bring so much joy and opportunity for self reflection which I genuinely appreciate

Glad to have you back my friend! Keep up the clean fun!

I stopped studying to watch my man Swooz be relatable af. I’m staying focused on myself & my health.

hello all my single friends 😭

Ayo your dj hitting it hard By the way thanks for the advice 👍🏾(and the fun side stories)

swoozie really hit us with reality

I don't feel like dealing with relationship drama nowadays and after girls just use me for car rides and Money I'm enjoying my life by myself- peaceful and zero drama and do whatever I like

Been following you since like 2007. Keep up the great work, Swooz.

Can verify. Communication and accepting criticism is the key to a good romantic relationship. Everyone has arguments sometimes. No relationship is perfect, but the end goal should always be to improve your lives together.

My reason is that I hate physical contact. Can't do romantic stuff when the whole romance part is repulsive to one party. It wouldn't be fair to the other person in the relationship to only feel emotionally attracted.

Dude the amount of freedom, peace and sanity is just freaking awesome! No nagging, having to hear about messy ass female co-workers I don't give 2 sh*ts about. And most importantly NO MORE TAKING A DAMN SELFIE FOR SOCIAL MEDIA FOR EVERY DAMN THING WE DO!!

When you brought up the thing about the hermit I FELT THAT IN MY SOUL

Happiness is not a good goal, practicing gratitude so you can enjoy happiness when it happens is a better strategy. Happiness as a goal generally devolves into narcissistic hedonism.

All the singles line up here under this comment and pick a partner

The real reason why I'm single is because I pretty much need to learn how to catch people lying before I can even date. People nowadays can try to snake you. That and girl's standards (particularly in western society) are higher than gas prices, my car insurance and credit card bills. Owning multiple cars is much easier than dating.

THANK YOU FOR THIS!!!

Bro, I'm not even subscribed to you, and I got this video recommended to me by RU-vid as soon as you uploaded the video, which was almost on the same day I got dumped. Thanks, some things that were mentioned in this video did help me a bit, although the breakup is still fresh and painful.

Yeah, I think there's a good reason why criticism isn't handled well. It's because unwanted criticism by nature is toxic. As someone in a slavic family, it's a dysfunctional part of our culture. In their head's it's normal to do that and even tho the intention behind it might be good, it's still toxic when it's unwanted. Let me explain why it's toxic. The issue is we criticize when we ourselves are far from perfect. I too can criticize a person but I try not to because I know it doesn't feel good. Trust me, most people are painfully aware of their own flaws and shortcomings, and if they want to fix it or change it, they will. They don't want or need us to weigh in on it. Nor are we Mr. or Ms. perfect, so who are we to judge? Sometimes we as people are so wrapped up in our own trauma that we build those defense mechanisms that makes things worse for ourselves or others. But I really do believe criticism is not the way to fix or change people, it just more often than not has the opposite effect. Now Instead may I suggest what works far better? Give people genuine compliments about the good things about them and appreciate them for who they are. Everyone has at least a couple good things about them. If you give them love for those little things, naturally they will feel better and want to be better for you and around you knowing that you a person that appreciates them for those things. Positivity attracts more positivity, and similarly vice versa with negativity. They will naturally want to change for the better because of how good you are to them! Swoozie as a Christian man, (at least I think you still are? idk), remember what the bible says? “Life and death are in the power of the tongue” When you speak criticism over people they feel worse and weaker. That's not life we are speaking, it's death over people we are speaking with our criticism. It's a dysfunctional and nasty habit we as people have, isn't it? But it's so true, try speaking only life into others and watch the difference it makes in your life and the life of others.