I get everything you're struggling with if I ever get a job I'd be the opposite I would be lacking enthusiasm I would just keep my head down my mouth shut do my job get paid and go home so I understand completely everything you're battling with
@@vegandollsunitedwhat you are writing is very insensitive. This young woman has a disorder, she isnt just upset. And if you would listen to her you would understand that she could get "laid" anytime if she wanted to. She wants a meaningful relationship with someone who really cares about her. Instead of just training your muscles you should start to train your mind.
@@OmamonsOfficial she should see a hormone specialist if she's a 23 year old girl and not climbing the walls in there looking for sex. it's not normal for a girl that age to not be looking to get laid
i hate it when people don't understand you don't want or need to talk, and when they think something is wrong because you're silent you're doing good, ignore the drama 💜
I remember working in retail to help pay for college. It is the most intense, back-breaking, exhausting job I've ever done. My boss, Sherri, made me do all of the manual labor while she "supervised" and sipped her latte, lol!
Your experience remind of my big sister , she used to work in retail and many jobs until now.She suffered a lot peoole misbehavior and people straight abusing her like that bipolar supervisor who hated her gut and msnaged to get her fired due that he and other people hated her.
Can agree there. Nowadays, you are expected to dedicate your entire life to a job which sees you as nothing but a number on a spreadsheet. Although I work full-time, I don't make my job my entire personality and realise that I can be let go at any time.
I worked retail for a very short time. It really wasn’t for me. It wasn’t really that I didn’t like working with public, but I had to act outside of my normal when it came to customers I couldn’t do it. It was mentally exhausting! I ended up working for a wholesale distribution co and it is so different!
Any person who treats animals nicely is a kind person. Working in retail is very difficult, I worked in retail for over 10 years. The customers 'Suck"! Try not to take it personally. If it a union it is worse! Can you change departments? Your as beautiful as ever!
Honestly though all customer service based roles can suck. I don't work in retail but have been in office environments for 3+ years (all whilst having autism/social anxiety) and one thing I can say (pertaining to my previous role mainly) is that people can be very abusive when you're just trying to deal with queries to the best of your ability. One thing I hate about customer facing roles is how people expect you to know everything when you don't, I've had experiences where I've dealt with verbal abuse and sometimes I need to internally calm myself and remind myself that I am not doing anything wrong. I do feel for retail workers though, people think their job is easy but they have to try to keep it together as they're berated.
Sending nothing but positive vibes your way. I can totally relate to your experience of being socially exhausted and drained. Believe me, I have those kinds of days far more than I care to admit. I'm sure others do too. Your description of being bullied and picked on really resonated with me. I've been bullied for my looks my entire life, and trust me when I say that it has scarred me deeply. Being a fellow retail worker myself, even though it's not always pleasant, I'm forcing myself to see the brighter side of my job. I get to help people and make their day a little bit better, and I'm 100% positive that you are doing the same exact thing at your job. So keep your head up and love yourself. I know it's hard to not give in to negative self-talk, but what helps me snap out of it is the fact that even though work and life suck so bad, I'm constantly reminding myself that everything is going to be okay. I'm really glad that you took the time to make this video. P.S. - It may be hard for you to believe it as I'm a stranger to you, but everyone in this comment section, including myself, believes that you're an absolute angel, not just physically, but as a person. You'll go real far. I mean it. :)
Yes I prefer working ALONE or with a good coworker i vibe with. But that's rare. So I looked for Jobs were I am alone most of the time. People can ruin everything including your workplace.
I saw another comment mention that you could work at an animal shelter.. maybe that’s something you would be open to? I can totally picture you enjoying that more than working retail because you seem great with animals! Considering it for myself, too
you are some of the prettiest people i encountered. and you have much kindness and you have many good qualities. respect yourself and do not commit offenses even if others chose to be abusers. you are not unlucky for your appearances, you were unlucky to be surrounded by bad people
Some folks are fake. Being yourself and treating others the way you want to be treated is key . On a brighter note, it's good to see you again and the cats. You're a good person and I respect and appreciate you. Until the next time,you take care.👍🙏
you know girl.... you are the type of woman that i end up falling... but i have never have locky i mean some times they are in a relationship, sometimes i'm too bussy, sometimes im not available, some times is hard to express emotions.... but i'm sure that there most be 1 or 2 guys there that are dying for you
One, I'm super happy to see a new post from You! And two, I worked at walgreens for four years, so I know exactly what You're talking about! A shift lead told on me for "not taking the old tags off the shelves!" As well as not stocking them! Which I did but, she made a HUE-BUNKUS deal about it! Even though the hiring manager and general manager were happy with it! Sometimes people are just gonna have problems with You no matter what, as ridiculous as that is! And I couldn't stand when people sucked up to managers or myself, and it happened! It just ticked me off, and I can see it coming from a mile away! If someone wants something, just ask! Kissing up to me will only earn You a fat no! It's just disingenuous and rude!
I have done the retail gig for quite a while and I totally see what you are talking about. Managers tend to shmooze with one another and find ways to hold down chairs while others are grinding through the day. I never got into management because like you I would not play the @ss kissing game. So its not just in the wonderful place you work in. The easiest thing to do with retail since I have been in it for a while, I just know what needs to be done and go after it and talk with mgmt as little as possible. You are a lovely woman. I am sure anyone would be proud to call you their girl. Hang in there! :)
why such an innocent and pure person was subjected to so much suffering? this is extremely unfair. people are so cruel. why such a lovely person was put to almost martyrically suffer?
I have worked in retail for a very long time now, I do know what you are going through right now. It goes in cycles good and bad times. I have to recharge like you do and have it quite for a few day to be fully charged again. You are doing great from listing to you a short time. I have been bullied a few times thought the years, I go with the fellow and don't let things bother you, I know that is easier said then done. I am sensitive too, I just had to learn in the long run it does not mater what they think, do your best, be proud of what you do and go home.
I would try to point your camera away from such a bright overhead light. In other words, set up where you are sitting in a different direction so its not glaring at the viewer. Just a little tip to make your videos a bit easier to view.
I am going to recommend your video to my supervisor. Maybe then she will learn to find it adorable when I make a noise outside her office when she is having an online meeting ...
Im nearly 23 an have worked retail for 4 years it is exhausting an painful but i started at a retail pet store 1 1/2 years ago an it was way better there an now im a dog groomer because of said job so id suggest doin it till yu find what you like at least you'll get money saved in meantime. Oh an again thx for yr vids they've helped me alot
The only thing ugly and wicked is people's hearts... By the way, what is your sweet cat's name? I have two girl cats that I cherish named Snickers and Belle ❤
All jobs have drama. I'm 70 years young and retired, and every job I've ever held had drama. Like you, I tried to stay out of it by doing my job to the best of my abilities, then leaving and not going out with my coworkers. That would be when the gossip would start. On the other hand, bullying (in the workplace or out) is never OK. If someone has a problem with you, then they need to take it up with your supervisors. Hold your head up and do your job as you know how. That will get you the farthest in life. Good luck!
Why does it have to be this way ? It's so fucking annoying. Navigating Drama is the actual Job Most of the time rather than doing the work. So annoying
@bigmac-ln8sm sadly it is because toxic behaviour is normalised in workplaces; it tends to start at the top (with upper management). With most workplaces, politics will always exist. It doesn't matter how well you can do your job, people will always find a way to pick you apart and use your weaknesses against you. That is why most nowadays either work in jobs with less people or go NEET/hiki (and tbh I can't blame them).
I worked for Macys, liked it alot until they made me do on-line work also amongst everything else I did 😢. Macy's had a ton of drama. U remind of a Ukraine lady i worked with there, she switched positions from regular retail to cosmetics retail. My last job was retail related and sad to say a female thought i was bullying her. She got fired shortly after that, then i quit cuz they wanted even more work out of me. LoL i seen the female again like 2 moths later, and yes i said hi 2 different days and she flat out ignored me. At the end of the day im really debating going back to retail. I had a buddie pass away a few years back and ppl would be so mean to him at work. One of the last things he said to me is dont talk to anyone(workers) at work casually because me and him hav personality type. Anywayz i think ud be fine at work if just dont be a chatterbox at work which could keep u from possibly being bullied at work.😊
Not sure if you're 21 yet, but if you are, or whenever you are, I know a job you can do from the comfort of your own home, or even in a backyard, and you can make around 50k+ yearly, and only a pen and paper is needed for this, while repeatedly writing the same thing over and over. No resume needed, no hiring process needed, and no overstimulation from fellow humans is needed. Please keep making videos, we wanna see you do great. Even people who newly discovered your channel (like myself)
I worked at a grocery store for 5 plus years and there is a lot of favoritism and I now I work at a scrap yard and there's favoritism there and it's a very dirty job and also dangerous. Love the kittens
Youre almost a "literally me" person, but the female version 😂. I'd suggest like u said taking steps to work on yourself and the qualities u wanna improve. Thing is u already have a great foundation. You're very self aware almost to a fault, hard working not just with your job, Very compassionate, etc. 11:18 - 11:38 You need to work on your confidence. Consider assertiveness training when you see your therapist and DON'T avoid the things that you're afraid of. I know it's hard. They're gonna happen regardless. Build yourself so you're always equipped to handle bullying or confrontation rather than avoiding it. 13:14 - 13:38 This is what i mean. You acknowledged how hyper afraid at work you are, but people pleasing doesn't work and they'll still find shit to throw at you. This was a long comment. I would type more, but no need. I say this all from a place of care cuz you really do remind me of me when I was younger. People like us began 10ft behind the starting line and now we have to put in extra work just to catch up. I've watched several of your videos and you do have things you need to work on. I suffered bulimia for about 7 years and struggled with body dysmorphia too. Don't buy in to your therapist saying it's a life long thing. You CAN overcome it. ❤
Have you ever thought about starting up a Business of your own?, That way you can hire people that wont bully you. It was nice seeing you smile in this video though. You have a cute smile.
just try to be as much yourself if you can cause people can sense when you aren't being authentic too and that can make them dislike you, there's a whole thing about people who people please not actually pleasing anyone
In regards to our jobs. I've been at it for over twenty five years. It truly is what we perceive it to be. There are good days and bad. Why do you not like your job? 😮
u very very pretty. honest. am a guy am in love by your looks alone, looks are superficial things thou. But any other opinion other than not being beautiful is pure jealousy. Just have hope and work towards something you like make a checklist with 2 or 3 things you want in life and go for it, kisses
Yup I have graves disease PTSD and depression, sometimes I wonder why me? I don't get it I also live in NYC and people here are so mean and frigid, not a smile never a hello, people act like so cold.
@@EsmeraldaWolfsbane7777 damn the hard truth about life is people treat you based on how you look including jobs it’s not always your fault when you get tired jobs are basically hHS all over again if you aren’t social and loook hood they won’t want you around
With the drama in your work just fly over your head. My old job before the start of the day was like a kid's playground rest of the day was fine just my work bro & me. My job now im lucky if i see 5% of the rest well happy about it.
Maybe you can try working some kind of job relating to animals like an animal shelter, my opinion you would probably enjoy it more. Hope you're doing better and have a wonderful weekend. Your cat is so cute
Unfortunately in the workplace, you have to be fake to survive. It is saddening how workplaces operate like high-schools, if you are popular you get ahead.
we will die at some moment. what will happen in afterlife? what is important and what matters? avoid wasting yourself for what hurts and damages you. relaxing and resting. peacefully and calm far from any danger. people tired you and exhausted you. they could have lived and not harm others, but they chose to harm others. some people are so evil
I think to your fans you cant accept compliments but i think your mindset has to go to a pyschward for how you act, also if i was complimented i would be happy but all my life i had 0 compliments you atleast have 100 compliments a, day! U say you cant accept it but i have a disability you dont your making up your disability i also have no job im poor, im a high school dropout,no friends i have and i have no boyfriend or no gf either and i get no compliments anywhere i go nothing happens for me but, you have compliments every SINGLE DAY, that could make you happy to go to work, your older than me and you have a perfect face i thought your younger like 16 also think positive talk to a counselour or your parents or therapist like you already did could help goodluck in work.
Haha people who act fake get further in retail. Sorry to inform you but thats all jobs girl, all jobs. Welcome to this bs system that society runs on...
