Both the mother and daughter are beautiful well spoken black women. I do not understand what she sees in that idiot fiance. There are many mothers who would love to have a daughter like that.
Cory Modzeleski I know, but she seems so intelligent and together. Maybe she is codependent. If so, I hope she gets some help and not let the codependency destroy her relationship with her daughter.
this guy serious? he's complaining about what the daughter does with her money, SHE HAS A JOB AND CAN TAKE CARE OF HERSELF. he is living off her. Jesus Christ
That mother needs to dump him. Any mom who could listen to someone talk to her daughter like that is messed up. Respect is earned, not given for sleeping with a person's parent.
i couldn't be with a guy who talks to my kid like that. he is acting arrogant, and he is trying to tell her how to live her life while he can't even keep a place of his own! she can buy designer stuff if she wants because it doesn't seem like she is having financial difficulties. and also, if she's old enough to have a place of her own, then she doesn't have to accept or like him. she doesn't have to treat him like he's her father. and he doesn't need to try to get her to respect him. how can she when he isn't even trying to take care of her mother? i hope she doesn't let a man get between her and her daughter, because it sickens me when moms do that. nothing should be more important than your kids.
Yep I am with you 100%! As long as she is paying her bills (which she obviously is or she wouldn't have her own place), she can spend her money on whatever she pleases! If she wants to buy designer clothes and accessories, she has every right to! She can afford to buy her boyfriend a car so she's clearly doing just fine financially. This guy is a bum and can't even afford his own place so he has no right to comment on her spending habits. Can't believe how blind the mom is to all of his crap.
I agree totally...he claims she's not respecting him, but all he does is criticize her, smash up her car & hide a bunch of tickets...HE IS THE ONE who needs to learn some damn respect ! Then he says, "a woman should know her place", while he's living in her home rent free! And he actually has the nerve to DICTATE to her, what type of clothes & shoes she should be wearing but he can't even afford to keep a roof over his woman's head and I bet the mother wears cast off clothes from a 2nd hand store, because he's too frigging BROKE to buy her nice things due to the fact he's busy drinking & gambling all their money. Plus I'm DISGUSTED with the mother...she should be protecting her daughter, but she doesn't say one word, while the jackass hurls accusations & insults at her daughter...sheesh!
For everyone who is saying that Judge Pirro is biased/sexist in this case. Let's take a moment and analyze it. You have a guy literally disrespecting his fiancé's daughter who has been trying to help them. He blatantly said that "she needs to know her place" and "needs to show him respect" when clearly he has done NOTHING to deserve it aside from (in his opinion) being male and going to marry her mother. I'm pretty sure that most judges (regardless of gender) will not take kindly to that. Now you tie in the fact that he said it in front of a female judge who works with domestic violence shelters. Mix it all together and you now have a plate of "the male defendant is screwed." And that is because of his OWN actions and words. It's sad when people are taking this bum's side and say the Judge is biased all because she mentioned not saying something "in front of a female judge." The bum made his decision to state those words about an educated, financially stable adult woman. He intentionally continued to belittle her in front of the judge, even after she told him don't try to mess with the mother's and daughter's relationship. He has done NOTHING to show that he deserves any type of respect. And yet it is Judge Pirro who is sexist.
+enigma1326 Yep. This piece of garbage can't even find a stable home for him and his woman, yet he has the nerve to "demand" respect. The daughter was being disrespected, and the mom did not defend her at all. Daughter needs to cut her loses and move on because it's obvious she will never have a good relationship with her mom as long as this bum is involved.
+blulicious2 I was just thinking the same thing my reply to him would have been "I need to learn my place yet you about to be homeless, broke and a dumbass. Mom, Your out. as long as he is in our family and life, you will NEVER see me again."
This court case is so cringy, yet inspirational. It gives me the goal of working so damn hard I never have to deal with any bullshit like this in the future.
This, my friends, is what I believe TLC has referred to as a "scrub." There are Sugga Mommas, there are pimps and sell outs. But relying on your soon to be step daughter and not even admitting it is an all time low.
Its hard. I know what its like. A man who takes your mother from you and your mother says she loves you but she will leave you and follow him to the dark path.
I love and respect both genders. But this one convinces me that when a woman knows her place, no man can tell her what to do! And no woman should ever have to put up with that kind of scrap.
My grandfather is like a less "out there" version of this man. We've cut him out of our lives because that type of character is toxic in relationships. Our lives are much happier without him in it. I'm very sorry that the plaintiff has to have a man like that in her life.
I don't normally leave comments, but really, that brother was a BUM!!!!! Why was she with him??..That's the kind of brother that makes REAL Black Men look bad...Sad, really sad....You can do a whole lot better sister...
When Judge Pirro stood up to tell Lonnie(who I think is an alcoholic, because he is loud like my stepbrother was when he was drunk) off, I even thought about applauding. This is the first time I ever saw a judge stand.
An adult who is marring another adult with children who countless times belittled disrespected and showed childish behavior towards one of the children. Saying that that adult should know thier place and commenting about thier clothing choice and demanding respect. That same adult who is way older living with thier fiance's child and is not working at the time and using thier car getting tickets and causing damages and refuse to own up to it and pay for it. And also doing all this woth the knowledge that your fiance' children ( because both of them dont like him) dont want you around. That adult is demanding respect from an adult when that adult is not giving respect and saying sexist and unnecessary commments. This case isnt about gender but facts and since most of you have a hard time seeing that i did not mention what parties were male or female but it is in the case. If roles were reversed facts would remain. The fiance was wrong on many many accounts and had to pay for the tickets and damages that person caused. The judge said nothing wrong and was not sexist or picking sides based on gender. The situation and facts did. You cause damages and tickets to a car in your possession you pay for it.
That man is an absolute fool who acts and talks in a petulant manner. Why is the women with him if he cannot uphold his end of any bargain, it's a mystery to me.
I wish my grandma's new husband would see Judge Pirro's speech to Lani. That man has the same attitude toward my mother, and he kicked us out of the home we both grew up in to sell it.
I have a situation almost exactly like this, only with my son. Unbelievable what these people come up with! HE'S living at HER house, but SHE doesn't know HER place?!
he claims she's not respecting him, but all he does is criticize her, smash up her car & hide a bunch of tickets...HE IS THE ONE who needs to learn some damn respect ! Then he says, "a woman should know her place", while he's living in her home rent free! And he actually has the nerve to DICTATE to her, what type of clothes & shoes she should be wearing but he can't even afford to keep a roof over his woman's head and I bet the mother wears cast off clothes from a 2nd hand store, because he's too frigging BROKE to buy her nice things due to the fact he's busy drinking & gambling all their money. Plus I'm DISGUSTED with the mother...she should be protecting her daughter, but she doesn't say one word, while the jackass hurls accusations & insults at her daughter...sheesh!
Your Honour, I love your justice. People need to understand the rules of life. RESPECT for everyone. Respect for the law, RESPECT for each other, RESPECT for our parents, RESPECT for privacy, RESPECT, RESPECT, RESPECT. That's it, no excuses.
I love it when the guy said u need to know your place and the judge never talk about a women knowing her place the look on the guy face when she said that was funny
I'm really happy for the mother that her daughter doesn't hate her because she's dating a guy she doesn't like, but just hates the guy. My parents are divorced and my sister is mad at my mom for moving out and moving in with another guy (which I already accepted and I really like the guy), and that's probably more uncomfortable than their situation because there's just 0 communication whatsoever
