Someone You Know ADDICTED To Porn?? HERE’S WHY 

RU-vid keeps on unsubscribing me

Thank you for this video....and for saying so many of the things that have needed to be said for a long time now. You're brilliant. Sincerely. 💖💖💖

Like second exodus status? Beam me up Christ!

truely..what is porn? i can see someone in "real life", get home and create images in my mind in order to feel a sense of eroticism.

Coming around to Christianity? You'd be welcome

It’s okay dad I’ll wear a patch and risk one eye.

Yeah unfortunately that's not the blind he was referring too.

That one is on the team . Good'un

Lmfao!!!!

So I said back, "can I do it until I need glasses?"

Woah

What about pirating it? What about the amateurs who only seek exposure?

@@RUBBER_BULLET these fuckers dont know how to pirate, they probably just watch free trials lol.. i remember my friend was asking my friend how much he pays for porn sites back in the day.. hes like oh i pay 25 bucks a month.. and my friend is like.. yeah youre suposed to cancel before your trial ends, then you get it for 3 dollars.. and my friend is like IVE BEEN PAYING 25 BUCKS A MONTH FOR YEARS..

Exactly. Due to the US companies cancelling people I cancelled most of them. The worst is Google, which I am moving my emails for paid Protonmail.

Your email address, your phone number, your mailing address, etc are data points that marketing agencies want to use to target advertising to you. Marketing executives always want to target advertisements to those most likely to buy the product.

I like reading comments like yours

How do you fight those intense urges?

@@tolloromassi99 it was tricky for me to discover this but it’s all about the attitude. If you tell yourself you can’t do something because reason xyz mental health etc. and keep telling yourself that and use the words “I can’t” then your brain will rewire. Worked the same for smoking. I was fighting intense cravings but as soon as I drew the line in the sand for myself and I told myself “I can’t” the urges greatly diminished and subsequently vanished very quickly

Good work! Congratulations!

9 😢💔

Natural remedies: you mean like massage or crystals or reflexology?

@@drmeam406 what's being referred to as unnatural has to do with the alienation of the self from oneself and the fear of confronting oneself, since our spiritual pillars in the west have been left completely in shambles. So natural remedies would be, I'd say getting away from materialism and that can be done by scientifically tested methods like psychotherapy.

@@bepishombre8999 I’ve been watching porn since what feels like forever ? sometimes I’m mad at myself, sometimes I just stay the fuck out of my way! I’m a human and finding balance is apart of our experience , just imagine when there wasn’t any porn! #aComedybyec Dating app

@@bepishombre8999 not unreasonable. thank you

@@bepishombre8999 Gee, sorry that people realized finally that a magical Hebrew dude nailed to a tree was BULL SH1T. If being without that leaves a culture in shambles, then it was a garbage culture to start with.

IEC...well put,that is so simple but so true..

There is no future from abrupt & irreversible climate change.

Love this 😀 ❤

By watching this video you are saying you have a future in porn

I expect to spend the rest of my life with my right hand 🤚

Also, an ex porn user and I completely agree. I used to have so much social anxiety when I used porn... and weird fetishes. Man, I'm never going back there again.

Even Pam Anderson speaks against it now and talks about how it is harmful.

Haven't watched porn in almost a month Im glad I gave it up I hope the porn industry falls

I agree 100%

Porn is also a sin. Ask God to wash your sins away with the blood of Jesus Christ. Your soul will then be pure and qualified for heaven. Not only for porn but any sins you deliberate into.

Definitely agree.

Porn isn't doing any more harm than video games or any other form of mindless consumption IMO. I feel it's wrong to single it out when the same critiques can be applied to video games as well as social media, television, Netflix, youtube, etc. Ends up sucking you in via hyperstimulation, and you end up sinking hours upon hours of your life into an activity without any constructive outcome. If you have any ambitions in life, directionless time sinks like porn are probably a bad idea unless you can keep a tight handle on them.

100% agree, just bust a nut and move on with the day.

@@Pellagrah watch a few videos about the reality behind the porn industry. A lot of the women are sex traffic victims and are forced to preform. Research the statistics of how many porn stars commit suicide and how the others live a life of regret, rejection and depression. Research the effect porn has on the brain and it’s extremely negative effect on real relationships. It’s not the same thing as video games or Netflix.

There is MUCH good about the good stuff

I’ve been watching porn since what feels like forever ? sometimes I’m mad at myself, sometimes I just stay the fuck out of my way! I’m a human and finding balance is apart of our experience , just imagine when there wasn’t any porn! #aComedybyec Dating app

How is porn attacking or harming anyone?

@@jonathanhenderson9422 it’s creating an obsession within men who will later go out to commit rapes and sexual assaults on women. It’s changing the way women are viewed and treated. A lot of women do like the attention but there are women who have been sexually assaulted since childhood and that kind of attention from men can be traumatizing and make it where they no longer want to be out in public.

@@jonathanhenderson9422 there would still be rapes and sexual assault without porn being so huge and available but I think it would be reduced. All serial rapists that have been caught had huge porn addictions. I think people who commit those crimes were assaulted as children and instead of get help they found porn and used it as a way to escape, like drugs. It can create a sickness within people.

@@dopeybrew7006 Pretty much everything you said is the opposite of the truth. Rapes and sexual assault consistently go down in countries when porn is legalized. Rape has declined as P has become more readily available online. Rapists watch LESS P than the average guy (I have no idea where you got the "serial rapists have huge P addictions," that's a complete lie). I also have no idea where you're getting that most of them were assaulted as children, or use P or drugs to escape. You seem to have a complete myth circulating in your head about this topic. I'd advise you get more educated and stop spreading misinformation. Also, please realize that the vast majority of people watch P, yet the vast majority of people are not rapists. That right there is a clue that P has nothing to do with it. Likewise, drug problems can happen to pretty much anyone in any part of society, which is why we're in the midst of an opioid epidemic.

Lol you just admitted to watching porn... Have fun in hell

@@diandirk3423 ah I get it, that was supposed to be funny, very nice sense of humor, you should be comedian you dry fuck lol

@@xujprsmgibsonlopez2395 😂

@@xujprsmgibsonlopez2395 it made me laugh 😂

@@diandirk3423 you sound like a child

Loneliness, procrastination and other things can contribute to porn addiction.

Damn you hit the nail on the head.

Loneiness is one of the many forms of suffering caused by us being a swxually dimorphous mammalian species. The best cure for many is the combination of tulpas, dolls and tech. In the future immersive VR and companion bots will be even better.

@@someonesomeone25 unless the bot is indistinguishable from a human, it will have the exact same result: a temporary placeholder and filler, which eventually leaves you lonelier at the realization of what it is substituting.

@@kencur9690 What makes you believe that?

Sorry to hear that brother that is awful what you have been through, you have my up most respect for having the strength to soldier on in the world, massive respect man.

You are not alone. Hugs from AA😀

Sorry to hear that

I’ve been watching porn since what feels like forever ? sometimes I’m mad at myself, sometimes I just stay the fuck out of my way! I’m a human and finding balance is apart of our experience , just imagine when there wasn’t any porn! #aComedybyec Dating app

Sex and human identity are a natural component of porn you know? We are treated very coldly by society and our identity is naturally going to suffer some at least Sex and your identity are totally normal making porn just evil is just not so for me Unless at the opposite end of it where the not so nice are you know?

How about neither

Excellent. Put that in my diary with a few others I view regularly. Apply it to one of my biggest shortcomings, distraction.Thank-you.

I see you in the comments on many videos I watch 👀 like 👍

@@PeachesCourage except we are the only animal with “morals”

me too............................................................................................................

Same here

Amazing things happen when you get off drugs. I think he's on the path of becoming a Christian.

@@alaricpalaiologos665 Judging on what he has revealed about his personal beliefs so far, I'd put him into the Christian Socialism camp.

I second that. I used to think he was a doof. But Ive listened to some of his more recent stuff, and though I disagree with some of his ideas, he's rather intelligent and insightful.

Probing, you say?!

I've watched it since I was in my teens and I'm 33. Just recently realized it's not normal and was a struggle for me to quit. My life has become so much better in so many ways since I have quit consuming porn. I feel sad when I look back and realize how much time and energy has been wasted. I wont get that time and energy back. Start working towards quitting and better things will appear in life.

What was the fetish? I won't judge

@@NifDbzAvatarSpartan donkey show

@@skidllybopyeahhshdd1219 what's that bud?

Diapers? Strap ons? Donkey show?

Are you still clean Calum?

@@isanna6075 Yes, now on week 15!

@@rmxlabs that is fantastic, well done. You give all the rest of us hope👍

@@rmxlabs congrats, you’ve inspired me. Day one

I’m on day 3 I don’t ever want to watch it again

So true! Sexual connection with my gf has faded so much smh horrible

@@Smacks1 smack 2 then🤣

@@StelinaJustice I’m done🤦🏽‍♂️😂😂

@@StelinaJustice it could keep going lol

Look at it the other way. Maybe your partner can't for whatever reason connect with you, maybe they don't flirt with you maybe after years of no sex you feel empty & need to watch others enjoying themselves so you are at least happy for them, happy that someone is having fun. As we grow up we see everything we see people eating drinking sleeping we see fighting we see people being born people dieing people killing each other we see people do everything except the one act that actually makes people SEX! We hide it away & don't want to talk about it. Try living in England where most people still think like it's 1945 you cannot have a conversation that involves sex, madness.

Where are your parents or siblings ?

i hear you dude. things will change for the better. always stay positive. ur not alone man we all feel the same things. just be true to u

@Egor Pretty girls whisper sweet things, and if you have good headphones, it feels like they’re whispering right in your ear and it sends good shivers down your back.

@Egor think of the school nurse checking your hair for knits. that good feeling

@Egor not only females, though, you can see a lot of man doing this as well.

He's fine, 'just quietly sits there in the hutch eating a carrot or lettuce leaf...oops my mistake

People are creatures of habit. It's only when your habits have a negative impact on your life or the lives of others, that's when addiction/obbsesion/habit becomes a problem.

@@tracypointon123 I don't think I've ever met a single healthy porn addict. The only people who seem to have a healthy relationship with porn are those who watch it with their partner and/or discuss it with their partner so as to spice up their sex life. As the video said, lack of intimacy is the underlying ailment and porn is a terrible way of temporarily filling that hole.

Habit, with 1 B. This is what porn does to people. BUSTED!!!🤣

@@sm.9599 Onanism you mean? Apparently it's very healthy, preventing several types of cancer and so on.

How did you get over it ?

Nah bro it fills my void just fine

@@eldenfindley186 give it five years till you’re empty

All its taught me is that I should have got a job in porn.

Wrong. It just makes the horny feeling go away and I can attend more important matters with full focus which is great.

@@Mikamichae that’s not how biology works.

"..."particularly live cam"?..... I completely disagree. Most of the porn consumed is NOT live cam interaction, but browsing free databases like pornhub, xnxx etc. But the rest of what you said is correct. ALL PORN is a superficial temporary "fix".

@@aloha_ohana I wasn't implying that live cams are the most consumed form of porn. I'm implying that live porn cams can be the most deceiving in terms of emotional investment because it is in real-time and the interaction between models and viewers who will likely never connect authentically face to face.

Loneliness epidemic? Is loneliness a state of mind or something else?

@@_VISION. I think it mostly implies a lack of authentic connection and understanding of one another.

@@TruthQuest4700 if you could pick a single source of loneliness what do you think it would be? I know it's not possible to only name one but I'm curious anyway and could be a thought experiment.

Good on you stopping. Studies have shown it causes partners to have lower interest in their partner and a host of other issues. Really unhealthy habit like with other drug abuse.

good for you honestly. porn is now one of the leading causes of divorces, absolutely shatters peoples partners and their self-esteem to the point they need therapy post divorce/breakup. good for you, honestly it will do wonders for your relationship.

@@surfxkitty wow, this is such a deep story. I know, it's a bit crazy how something 'so insignificant' can create such intense issues. Im glad you guys worked it up. Best of my wishes! :)

@@immyanon2891 You're right, porn vids were a big factor in my divorce...she wouldn't stop making them!

Congrates Adrian!! I'm in recovery too and am grateful

I’ve been watching porn since what feels like forever ? sometimes I’m mad at myself, sometimes I just stay the fuck out of my way! I’m a human and finding balance is apart of our experience , just imagine when there wasn’t any porn! #aComedybyec Dating app

Aloha.. I'm 57 too

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Respect mate. That’s pretty inspirational.

🤣 I was too. I usually look at how well his ivy is doing!!

Itll be nicer if that wood would still be in trees, dont u think?

He chose this spot to sit exactly so he could show it off!!

@@the.communist ya kidding right?

Hahaha me too!

Less than 10 years. America will have a reckoning by the time of the 2028 elections when family life has been completely and utterly decimated. Unless they legislate and regulate porn before then.

@@JeffCaplan313 here in the UK I remember seeing headlines about the government making it less accessible. Meaning you'd have to ring your broadband provider and tell them you want to have access to the sites. But nothing ever came of it. I hope most wake up to the disease that is pornography sooner rather than later because millions of lives are being ruined by it.

My husband is addicted and it ruined our marriage

@@star_ruby_ Sorry to hear that. As a man, I can only say that I really didn't ask to be addicted to it. I feel a lot of shame and I have to be responsible for my actions but it has felt like something I just can't control. I struggle even now but I am trying. I am sure your husband feels the same. Just know that it is not your fault and he never wanted to be addicted to it.

As an old man, I wonder if you may simply be young and experiencing the addiction of attraction to women, as addiction to porn. The majority of men were in essence born addicted to sexual desire for women. This is natural, it is part of what it is to be a human male heterosexual. It gets real strong in your teens and early twenties, and was probably the primary motivation behind damn near everything I did in a social sense as a teen. If you aren't obsessed with this one, you will be obsessed with that. I think young men may have filled the hole in their heart cut out for women, with porn. But that hole in your heart is natural, the porn didn't do that to you.

The problem isn't porn, it's the idea of monogamy which isn't natural and makes more people miserable than truly happy. There is nothing wrong with looking at porn. Forcing an intimate partner to only think of you sexually and only have sex with you and not look at anyone else is abusive and not realistic at all. Married sex is awful btw. I used to be married. Worst sex ever.

I didn't even know porn addiction was a thing

@@nevilleabbott2330 It's not a thing. It's just another way to shit on sex work.

@@Tracydot3 lmao it just sounds like you’re in a crappy marriage

Look up Barry Long Tantra master to the west, one of the best souls that taught on woman and love also Tolle's mentor. He often speaks about man and his phantom lover.

Read the easy peasy method

Exactly.

Basically

After you're rejected for a certain amount of time in life, where do you expect ppl to go to? Drugs, alcohol and porn. This is definitely more for men than it is for women.

@@keith8421 i got rejected alot bro i still get it takes time to get over it but im now on almost 2 weeks porn free and now girls text me first and i can keep conversations going for ever if there wasn't a lock down in my country i would have already lost my v card Rejection is part of the game Learn from rejections know your worth know what league u are and stop chasing that girl that belong on the streets some girls are hard wired and wont change now im the one rejecting girls im not saying give up on pmo completely the key is moderation but my goal is to break my record of 51 days i know you have it in you too i have ups and downs too bro please dont give up dont matter how many times u failed i know one day u find some one only if you realy want it u gotta put some work in

@@HonderdtachtigCC I'm not gonna sit here and complain because I'm trying to learn to become more of an alpha male, but 28 straight years of rejection is very tough on the psyche, it drove me to where I almost signed up for a porn audition in Kentucky a couple months ago. Being alone is just the hardest life battle I'm facing, not my bills, not work, myself.

Or in my case is I can't get a sexual partner so I'm basically stuck with this

@@futavadumnezo ha ha ha..was that meant to be funny?

True.

@@futavadumnezo porn is actually inhibiting you from getting a sexual partner. It changes your whole demeanor with women and if you actually manage to get a partner it may cause you to have difficulty being intimate with them. That's my experience anyway and from some of my own research I'm not alone.

@@acomedybyec1437 I'm married my guy but I was just giving my take whenever it was I posted this!

nice man! have you felt any mental benefits?

@@TheHarisBotic I havent dwelled on it much but I suppose I've been less complacent to my laziness and shallow thinking. Plus a healthier view of women overall.

Thanks for sharing

@@Edrumachine same with me...

So happy for you!!! Learn to play guitar or something rewarding. Join a jambae group....look for healthy joys

It usually takes me 2 hours just to find a video I haven't seen.

@@thatrandomyoutubechannel hahahahah

Those are rookie numbers Unless you're more of a .gif person, and you're only counting file length. Then 2 hours would be a big boye move

@@thatrandomyoutubechannel Everyone says that 😂 what has porn done to people Dayum

@@jim7576 I’ve been watching porn since what feels like forever ? sometimes I’m mad at myself, sometimes I just stay the fuck out of my way! I’m a human and finding balance is apart of our experience , just imagine when there wasn’t any porn! #aComedybyec Dating app

Good for you!! Each day of filling your life with something else positive is a step in building a new life! :)

Great stuff. Keep going brother. Like you, for me this last year has really been one for introspection and change. But there is still so much work for me to do

@@jordanonyschuk3809 for me keeping my mind busy by working extra hours and other activities

@@jordanonyschuk3809 just get a partner

U don't really want to "drop dead", do u?🤚🏼😲

Hey I’m sorry you’ve had trauma that resulted in what your going through. I really hope your still around. I believe Jesus cares and loves you . Your not alone and it’s going to be okay.

That's terrible dude. You should go see someone man. I too have had really bad childhood trauma and sometimes watch a bit. That shame is a demon dude. Let it go man. Find someone and love them. It's the best medicine for a bleeding soul. Promise

I tried to kill myself ... 3 times. I can tell you, in the microsecond where you are ready to pass, you will find that meaning in your life. Suicide survivor ... to someone I pray never does what I did, and sometimes still think about ... You got this my brother.

@@aaronpanesar Idk you Aaron but I’m glad your still here! God bless

Soul crushing to say the least.

It's why I'm divorced

@@taradevine6026 - Humans aren’t really wired for monogamy.

@@kingtrance6826 There is zero scientific evidence for this, that's an emotional statement, not a logical one. There IS empirical evidence for longer life spans, and better physiological and neurobiological health when we have ONE primary attachment that is safe and secure from "thirds". It's called Attachment Theory based on the work of John Bowlby, Stan Tatkin, Susan Johnson and more. Sure, you can choose non-monogomy, but facts are facts. We do better as individuals and a society when monogamous.

@@PamBlizzard pretty sure this person is some sort of MRA

Look up 'epistemic humility' and 'the psychology of dogmatism'

Nah too simplistic.

Yeah wayyy to simplistic .... we have built a society that doesn’t allow most men to follow their natural, hard wired instincts so porn ends up being their only outlet to waylay their urges that have kept humanity going all along while we continue to live in an increasingly sterile environment that is loosing its connection to our animal baseline.

You're making people feel guilty about their sexuality and then blame porn. You are the problem.

@@MichaelForde521 That's not society unless gorillas have the same society.

Bloody amen to this... it’s ridiculous these days.

It's like not even possible it seems

@@Reservist1695 perhaps, because many men will do anything but, do they find lasting relationships? I think women are beginning to find the ability to bag a man dosen't necessarily mean they will keep him.

@@stevenwilliams1805 the growing use of Instagram, dating apps, and materialistic values/thinking certainly seems to have nurtured such a mentality in women, most often those with past relationship luggage, insecurities, or narcissistic patterns of behaviour and philosophy. I think Steve Bartlett said it best when most relationships nowadays are started for the wrong reasons! It's seems like once things get difficult or one partner becomes bored or unsatisfied (having not entered the relationship with a 100% commitment and conceptual understanding of what it constitutes) they dispose of it. Essentially good men have become expendable assets who have been reduced to a simple swipe on a phone by women seeking the validity of a relationship but unwilling, as you quite rightly pointed out, to commit to it!

@@Reservist1695 nah it applies to both sexes because females are held to the standard of being beautiful which as we all know, beauty fades... so this need for perfection is toxic to both genders. The "grass is greener" syndrome is hurting our society... people no longer want to work on themselves or their relationships 🙄.

I’ve been watching porn since what feels like forever ? sometimes I’m mad at myself, sometimes I just stay the fuck out of my way! I’m a human and finding balance is apart of our experience , just imagine when there wasn’t any porn! #aComedybyec Dating app

There are a lot of people addicted to porn that have difficulty meeting others and get their intimate needs through porn. Speaking for a friend...

Relationships take a lot of effort though long-term and the stats are not good. Most relationships fizzle out over time. Until we advance our perspective on relationships I don't see the quick fix of porn going anywhere. Humans are not monogamous. May sound crazy today - but the future will regard monogamy as cruel on both parties. Marriages should be contractually renewed yearly and should allow three, four or more people to enter into contract. See you have to ask yourselves the key question - why is porn so popular?

@@poland1230 porn makes it more difficult to meet people, as it lowers you're confidence wastes valuable energy and minerals you're body could use to make you're skin nicer for instance. It also lowers you're sex hormones and pheromones which give you the drive to go out and meet people and that. It also makes you loose muscle mass to if you do it to much . And it gives you're brain an easy option which it will keep doing as meeting a girl or guy takes effort and usually gives you anxiety. Because it's a new thing and new things scare us sometimes but that's where growth takes place 🙏

@@Weird-City With respect, your comment makes it sound a bit like humans don’t have a free will of their own. Yes, for many people it’s difficult to be monogamous-for some it’s not as much. But I don’t think there’s quite an argument there that our species is simply “not monotonous.” The reason why is that something sets us apart from apes, dogs, cats, etc-the ability to choose what kind of life we want to live and the ability to *master our own basic impulses.* Making peace with these impulses is one of the things Russell deals most with on this channel, and it’s the reason why, thank goodness, humans can be what and who they want to be, whether it be monogamous or not.

Just to say when I've been addicted to porn or struggling with it. I've always found it extremely hard to find love or meaningful connections. Most my relationships/romantic encounters, like kissing someone or dating have always mostly happened when I've avoided porn and masterbation for a while 1 month to 2 months. I feel like people subconsciously pick up on more then we think. I feel like if I watched loads of porn a girl would pick up on my lack of hormones and lack of confidence, where as if I'm of that stuff everything feels easier, it's almost like there's an invisible energy that girls or guys can pick up on/tap into and the more you have the more meaningful interactions are/can be, just a little example I avoided porn for 2 months and masterbation, and usually I wouldn't have the confidence to go up to a girl and ask for her number. But after doing that and resetting, I was on the bus one afternoon loads of people on there to, and this girl was sitting a seat away from me she was beautiful alluring and looked really sweet, so I just made eye contact with her and when she did the same back, I just said we always seem to catch the same bus and I always find myself looking at you tbh. You have a such a gorgeous smile and I'd love to take you out sometime 🧡 then she got her phone out to give me her number :o we got the digits 😁 but what I'm staying is that process felt alot easier, while off porn 🧡

Congratulations my friend! I wish you lasting success in this endeavour. I currently suffer from cigarette addiction, but I hope one day to get to where you are now. Cheers!

@@jappojappy it has now been nearly 2 months cigarette free and 6 weeks nicotine free (I used the patch for the first 2 weeks) I am starting to notice more energy, things smell better and taste better and I have more spending money. I am super happy I have done it finally!

@@cherylklassen7500 good for you I'm trying to stop my porn addiction I was about to polish my one eyed gofer then I watched this video caught off guard and now I'm not going to master bait this is going to be hard hopefully I can pull through

@@cherylklassen7500 that's really awesomeatw good on you! I quit for about 5 weeks (not cold Turkey, was having a couple smokes at socials). Used patches and came so close but then fell back in the hole.

you made me realize I was much better off with a blackberry.

@@teejehoda9749 Thanks 😊

Jeez dude. Balance out the risk of the rona with your mental health man. Stay safe brother.

@@patmccall4647 the risk of the flu? Sounds like you live in fear and that’s a problem on it’s own.

Wow Baumer, so true. I hadn't thought of that.

@@ThirdCoastNative I bet youre fun at parties

good call :)

Why the concern then?

TheConversation ?

Not true if you're an entrepreneur, the people making it easy for the base of the pyramid to consume are focusing very much on the algorithms and demands of the consumers, thoughts etc. They're bringing in the cash and that creates ease.

@@_NightoftheComet Not all of us have relationships to conduct

@@Thommaci not all make it out.

@@Thommaci Yep, but you'd have to want it

@@Thommaci clearly doesn't know how addiction works

@@Thommaci are you not aware that to have an addiction is to be a slave to it?

@@Thommaci But whilst a slave, the slave is not free. You’re talking about something you clearly don’t understand. Are you addicted to porn?

Well played sir, well played.

Lol I literally said the same thing to a mate the other day too

He’s now a married man 👨 with children 👶 and that lifestyle will make him a responsible person.

Hahaha, indeed sire.

Holy shit. His north node is in the sign of the sage, Sagittarius, and his south node is in the sign of the wanker, Gemini. His destiny is literally to go from wanker to sage.

Good for u. It ruined my relationship. He chose porn for 12 years then escalated to live girls. But its manly right?

@@jamieyoho2310 yes, this is the path for most. I am sorry.

@@jamieyoho2310 how would that be ‚manly’?

@@moneymanflacko7206 men r pressured to watch porn bc to do otherwise would signal some malfunction of masculinity. Men r being brainwashed away from true masculinity.

@@jamieyoho2310 i disagree... tons of women watch po_rn. what does that say about couples who watch together?

🍟🍔 👈👀👉 🧠

So do you think men might have been made to feel disposable first? Most deaths at work are men not women, same with suicides, men die in war zones in greater numbers. Women initiate most divorces. Women are quicker to write off some men altogether, 80% of women aim at chasing the top 20% of men and a large percentage the top 5% along with many ad campaigns & films / TV series that point out men as being toxic, easy to replace etc.

Exactly...mind poison

Flying Carpet Exactly that , but despite western women being the most privileged group they are still so oppressed. 🙄

Christ any chance for incels to take their self loathing out on another woman, huh.

RAH...AMEN

Lol..... How do you fap tho?

i relapsed...and it was worth it

​@@diandirk3423 I'm a woman, I please myself sometimes, and I never look at porn. Do men not have imaginations?

@@anarcho-communist11 My imagination is too fucked up, so I use porn to reign it in.

Ok Saruman

YOU SHALL NOT PASS

@Vic Timms I thought it was buddhist.

@@bikinibandit2398 nop its a persian adage and People use it when they have problems that cannot be solved The root of this proverb goes back to the story of a king(Shah) who when he was sad read this sentence from his ring and thought about fluency and the passage of time.

That's the Bible, dude

So if P is easily available and harmful, then P is inherently wrong. Ok but lots of banal things satisfy this definition, and it doesn't factor in the concept of free will and responsibility for our actions. Heck, even sunlight is easily available and harmful, but I have free will and am responsible for not getting sunburn or skin cancer. I don't turn around and start blaming the sun. What I am trying to say is: take responsibility for your actions and stop trying to place the blame on other things for your own deficiencies. Yes, porn is dangerous, but life is dangerous so you better get used to dealing with danger.

Sunlight is a hormetic stressor tho. Porn is just harmful regardless lol

Porn is as old the human mind. It is not going to go away,. What is a problem is the industry which creates it and the way in which it may mold some young minds, thus deviating from the opportunity to form authentic sexual and romantic relationships. The lives of performers are in some cases negatively documented, but, as to whether their experiences are representative its hard to say for sure. The rise of consensual amateur porn refutes such concerns however. For informed, mature users of porn, who are not addicted, it serves a banal and necessary function.

Treat yourself

Yes to both. Is correct.

It's amazing he still hasn't figured out veganism is bullshit though.

I’ve been watching porn since what feels like forever ? sometimes I’m mad at myself, sometimes I just stay the fuck out of my way! I’m a human and finding balance is apart of our experience , just imagine when there wasn’t any porn! #aComedybyec Dating app

Distraction, amusement and entertainment is an extremely efficient way to control a large population.

@@winstonwins1096 I’ve been watching porn since what feels like forever ? sometimes I’m mad at myself, sometimes I just stay the fuck out of my way! I’m a human and finding balance is apart of our experience , just imagine when there wasn’t any porn! #aComedybyec Dating app

@@acomedybyec1437 I'm not saying that there shouldn't be porn. I am far from a holy roller. I'm just saying that our society is oversaturated and we're oversimulated. Instead of going out and doing things people are becoming more and more comfortable living in a fantasy world. Part of it is because the real world is that shitty. However, the more we become entranced and contented in a fantasy the less control we have over our reality. The more other people have control over our reality, thus the more shitty reality becomes. It's a trade off and I don't know that it's worth it in the end. Balance is important but many can not find that balance.

Or under the seat of my truck

I had the scrambled channel on basic cable, ironically it was channel 69, if you were lucky it would stay clear for half a minute.

Thank you for your service. Finding woods porn was a highlight of my formative years. Seconded by the gents who'd leave their newspaper at the bus stop, page 3 and all.

That’s who put them there. I’d always wondered. Thanks.

Porn in the woods was a right of passage. Same with a hairy bush. A good old fashioned panty escaping growler. Bring back the 80's!

It sucks but don't blame the TV, websites etc. Sure they are a part of the problem but the biggest problem is the individuals with the addiction and then the parents for not teaching values. Porn is horrible

You could try parenting.

the sites should most definitely not be held responsible for those kids having parents that don't know how to raise children. how does that make any sense to you? you want to end up like the UK where you need a government ID to look up things on the internet? no.

ultimately parents need to be responsible as they are the ones who give their kids access to the internet

Do you also blame your car dealership when you get a speeding ticket? Don't blame the tool, Blame the person behind it! Like most things, It can be used for good or bad. Sounds more like a parenting issue, Boys hitting puberty around that age are of course wanting to see what it's all about, Nothing new there I bet your dad, Your grandad and all those before them did basically the same at that age any way they could, Be it playboy magazines in their time to websites in these times!

Furry walls.

@@silvussol8966 stroke em

.... he says defensively

Both hand in hand

I pity the new kids with parents that are barely there for them. Maybe boomer parents ignored us most of the time but the behaviour they modelled was highly social in real life... not a stupid screen

I think it's a 50-50.

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One hear mine? 😼

I'm sorry!

@@johnirby8847 thanks John, don't be :)

Its not pathetic, it's just loneliness. I have tended to do the same by following some channels by women because I'm lacking female interaction and friendship in my life. It isn't associated with sexual arousal, I don't 'simp' or degrade myself, its just nice to hear a female voice or perspective every now and then.

Weird. I'm a straight guy, been single for years but I don't watch any female RU-vidrs. At all. And have almost no contact at all with women outside my family and I don't crave it or ever try to seek it. But I'm also addicted to watching RU-vid, I think you're right about the loneliness thing. Especially commenting, I feel less isolated even though interactions here are shallow at best.

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It's not a fear of relationships, it's too easy for a woman to falsely accuse a man of rape if she isn't sexually satisfied, it's not worth it dude, masturbation is the best, it's a normal part of life anyway everyone does it despite what they tell you

You make a good point about fear and how repulsive it is. I think fear of women is the energy powering "incels." They are afraid of women, afraid to approach them, ask them out, do or say the wrong thing and it gets worse as time goes on. They become terrified of women but they repress that and use anger to cover up their insecurities. So now they're coming off as very angry and hard to approach or be around, which makes it nearly impossible for them to get a date. It's a vicious circle. Anger is a secondary emotion. It is used to cover over primary fear or sadness.

@@electrolettuce5624 That's crazy, bro. If you were even remotely right and women are commonly falsely accusing men of those things then most men would have been accused of this crime many times. And we know that is not true. I've never even met one man who has been accused of that! So your theory is just wacko. I've also never met a woman who has accused a man of that. If it were so common that men are running around terrified of false charges, I would know at least a few, lol. No, you aren't thinking right. I think you're an incel and you should see a therapist to help you. Someone in my family was this way and he thought crazy things about women. He went to therapy and fixed all the mental health issues and false beliefs he had. Two years later he got married! He could never even get dates before and now he's happily married. Best of luck to you. We all want to love and be loved and women aren't going around making random false accusations. That would be extremely traumatic thing to do for a woman and so it doesn't happen hardly at all. You're not thinking logically if you think women would go to the police and make up elaborate lies about some guy they dated...and do it over and over. It would be ridiculous. Did your mom do that? Any sisters? Do they do do that? Of course not.

@@mygirldarby and the men who are like that usually stay out of prison cuz they aren't falsely accused, you want to risk prison time? Knock yourself out, I'm staying safe and out of prison