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Stephan Labossiere Speaks On Heartbreak To Help Hurting Men And Women Experience Healing

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This week on the podcast Hafeez is joined by the international sensation and all around love, relationships, and dating expert Stephan Labossiere (Stephan Speaks) to discuss his new book “Finding love after heartbreak” as well as to do a live coaching session with Hafeez on his past broken heart and how to heal. This may be one of the most vulnerable and transparent conversations of the year. If you like this episode with Stephan Labossiere and want to see more of The Roommates be sure to subscribe to our podcast via any podcast streaming catalog to access our full catalog.
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@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

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@Kristina_lyric16 5 лет назад

The Roommates Podcast Really brave of you Hafeez 💯👊🏽. I’m really enjoying the clarity in getting things emotionally clarified.💕😊👩🏽 ...Also Stephan is really cool at explaining these solid ideas. His books are a Good read. I’m a fan! 💯😊 Hafeez You are really mature ... which is good to know. Maturity comes from difficulties also💭

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

@@Kristina_lyric16 Thanks a ton.

@dylanbryan726 5 лет назад

To bad i missed it i bet it would of been good. I have my ex on my mind sometimes evrn though im fully over her i dunno how to get her out of my head

@kimoramicheal8353 4 года назад

@@TheRoommatesPodcast Wbat is Stephan's background? I am getting Haitian vibes from him. Am I right? Loll 🤭

@arandaholley1719 5 лет назад

If you moved and met chris because of this girl, she propelled you further to your destiny. The spritual element is all in this. Praise God for rejection.

@rajaneen 5 лет назад

Aranda Holley That’s a great way to look at it. Wow!

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Good point.

@thankfulqueen4280 5 лет назад

@@TheRoommatesPodcast hey...just a suggestion...I think this will help you in many ways but I suggest you guys read and discuss these books... it correlates with much of what Stephan talks about, in my opinion, but if you want, check out these 2 books "Understanding the Power And Purpose of Men" also "Understanding the Power And Purpose of Women" both written by Dr. Myles Munroe. Great, transformative book and it, just like the advice Stephan gives in my opinion of course,.... I think your audience would be truly blessed by you all reading, sharing and discussing both books. Much love, peace, respect and prosperity to you all. God bless.

@boaxiong9162 5 лет назад

Best advice I took away from this: Even when you are the best, you won't be right for the wrong person. Some things just are not meant to be. That does not mean that you are not enough. It does not say anything about your worth. #FreeGift

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Great point.

@greatnilemedjaywarrior3155 4 года назад

Very Deep I've never thought bout it Like that 😂

@emsogood23835 4 года назад

This is really deep and made sense. 👍

@chacha710 5 лет назад

"My parents were unnaturally kind and the world wasn't like that and I think that's why I'm angry a lot." Wow! That part! #freegift

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Thanks.

@taylorhayes980 5 лет назад

The biggest part that stuck out to me is that rejection isn’t always bad. Rejection could be God redirecting your life #freegift

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Very true.

@almazlarsen215 5 лет назад

Rejection is Gods protection!

@jadordiorre2 5 лет назад

As a female I must say observing your vulnerability made you appear extremely attractive. Hearing about the lengths you would go to for a female is beautiful and defitnetly something to hold on to. I pray you guard your heart until you meet the one who cares :) x

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Thanks so much.

@submissiveproviderstboth9485 5 лет назад

Not just a woman she has to be an IG woman 😂

@youtubeguy4539 4 года назад

Ms Angel not true

@Aritul 4 года назад

I agree.

@marilyngomez8164 3 года назад

@@submissiveproviderstboth9485 what is "IG"? Clarify please 😊

@NoelShaefon 5 лет назад

What stood out to me most is how we beat ourselves up over things that we pretty much made ourselves believe . #freegift

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Yeah we have to learn how to not beat ourselves up.

@keneshawilliamson1574 5 лет назад

Amen!!!

@katarzynaklos6527 4 года назад

Noe'l Shaefon TV it’s crazy. We must train ourselves to understand the difference between holding ourselves accountable, taking lessons, moving forward and beating ourselves up, staying in that emotional prison. There’s a difference between 2. I always say to myself, when I do something messed up, “God already forgave you and you not gonna forgive yourself? Who do you think you are?” Then burst into tears bevasue I know that’s him talking to me through me.

@MegaJroc1 3 года назад

Things we can't even control

@Quoteablemoments 5 лет назад

Stephan Labossiere is such a good listener

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

He is really great.

@trafficcontrol2420 4 года назад

He's an intuitive listener. It's almost unbelievable.

@marilyngomez8164 3 года назад

Yes, he is! He's practiced the "art of listening" not just hearing words but taking them in to analyze & make sense. I wish more guys were this perceptive.

@albertodeulofeu5277 3 года назад

He’s 40 and he’s intelligent. I was a horrible listener. Suffered for it. Now at 33, it’s night and day. Takes men a while. I wish women had a bit more patience sometimes.

@Mrsquepza 5 лет назад

“Rejection is God’s protection”

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Indeed.

@marilyngomez8164 3 года назад

If "Rejection is God's Protection" why do we hurt so much when it does happen?

@Mrsquepza 3 года назад

Marilyn Gómez to learn that you deserve better than you expected.

@flowstateentertainment8395 3 года назад

@@marilyngomez8164 because he's preparing us. Pain is the ultimate teacher.

@patrickk9539 5 лет назад

Ghosting has a lot to do with someone’s comfort level and how they deal with their emotions, A lot of people anticipate that talking about how they feel is going to be a confrontation. That mental expectation makes people want to avoid things that make them uncomfortable. ghosting actually reveals more about the personality of the ghostier than the ghostee. They’re dealing with depression or trauma.depressed people will just withdraw from everybody in their lives, without giving you head ups- I’m proud of your boldness- Sholom

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Thanks for your words.

@christinambuyi8169 5 лет назад

Wow👏🏾

@katarzynaklos6527 4 года назад

Patrick Brian ding dong.

@NYCAppl3 4 года назад

@@christinambuyi8169!

@TVStudiohc 3 года назад

Personally, silence (not this trendy word of “ghosting”) is a powerful statement. It doesn’t always mean that the silent person is depressed or always dealing with trauma although that may also be true. Sometimes, it may be because the other party is not getting the message and going off in their own world and not listening; and sometimes, it is because the other party is not ready and cannot seem to accept the message. So it leaves the person unable to say anymore because talking isn’t solving the problem. It’s not anyone’s responsibility to heal other people’s issues but be responsible for our own forgiveness. I see us all blaming others for an expectation that was never supposed to be met by another. That is dangerous and arrogant on our part. I hope we all gain peace ourselves internally, never based on any external means.... 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

@jasminedelighted7744 5 лет назад

I was skeptical because I'm leery of internet relationship gurus but this guy knows his stuff. I love how he broke this down on a spiritual level of him not properly hearing from God

@user-qg1kn5pb8t 5 лет назад

"Forgiveness is not an act of saying what that person did is okay or acceptable, it's simply saying I'm not holding onto this any longer" - Stephan. That hit me hard. I REALLY needed to hear this.Thank you! #freegift

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Glad that it was able to speak to you.

@koroglurustem1722 4 года назад

It's actually saying it voluntarily and from the gut. Because many times things we utter by mouth doesn't get below the neck and that doesn't do the job. So it has to come from the gut, or heart or soul or body whatever you want to call it. For it to work, we also need to have distinction, like discussed in the conversation, distinctions that to be forgiven we have forgive, also forgive ourselves, also know that we can do our part of the work, but cannot change heart of others and so on. I think, those distinctions, which is knowledge combined with act of forgiveness by utterance and feeling in a body will resolve the problem and bring up healing.

@Bajansilva 5 лет назад

Had me stomping my feet. This I needed to hear. “Do what God wants you to do and the opportunities will come”. #freegift

@TVKennedy3 5 лет назад

There's scripture friend ... your gift will make room for you!!

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Great point.

@farihakhan2630 5 лет назад

Aw Hafeez, I'm not even finished watching but I respect the honesty and vulnerability in this video. This ghosting culture is so trash, I hate how it makes people question themselves and think they are less than what they truly are because someone is too coward to communicate. You could do better boo! (Gonna go back to listening now).

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Thank you.

@elverawagba2896 5 лет назад

This ghosting stuff is so stressful

@corey01 5 лет назад

"God made it clear that if you want his forgiveness you have to forgive other people" WOW I'm not even really religious and I felt that in my gut Thanks for opening up Hafeez. I ran a marathon last year for the first time and that was 10 times easier that being emotionally vulnerable #freegift

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Preicate it.

@phoenix9999 5 лет назад

I had a friend who was killed by a hate crime. He taught me years ago to accept the apology you will never get. That advice has helped me move on from some terrible situations where I held on to the pain because I felt I deserved an apology. Forgiving the offender is ultimately forgiving yourself.

@KIDDFUNZONE 5 лет назад

Hafeez I want to thank you for allowing yourself for being so vulnerable, it takes a lot of courage to share your story. I'm currently listening to the podcast via spotify on my morning walk. I can't wait to get a copy of the book and continue my healing journey. My favorite part was how you were talking about girl A and thought of girl E. It made me think of how these life experiences are very interconnected and similar. *What is not meant to be is not meant to be *Rejection is redirection to your path #FreeGift

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Thank you.

@phoenix9999 5 лет назад

@@TheRoommatesPodcast Thank you for responding to your listeners. It shows you value them even when they are rude.

@soy.ingrid 5 лет назад

I really liked how he explained how to pray about someone we like.. my prayer has to change to “God is it him or not” rather than asking Him to remove my feelings. #freegift

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

This is a good point.

@wshelby83 5 лет назад

Ingrid Ramirez I need to do that!!

@misrakoi 5 лет назад

I literally said the exact same prayer during a really difficult breakup... lol... But yes, that prayer change!!!! I felt that! Can't wait for them to unpack that more :)

@GraitBritton 5 лет назад

Lol

@kay2633 5 лет назад

Hafeez seems like a really a genuine person, and with that level of maturity and reflection he’ll definitely find the right match for him. Good thing he moved to Houston, look at what he was able to achieve !

@therealsouthernbelles 4 года назад

exactly

@MacyZC55 5 лет назад

When Stephan mentioned that sometimes rejection is what's going to lead you to where you're truly meant to be is what stood up the most to me. I've been having a hard time believing those words, because sometimes it feels as if you're getting rejected over and over and over again, no matter how much you pour into a project, relationship or anything else. It gets quite frustrating over time, but no matter how hard it feels, giving up should never be an option. It feels as if you're wasting your energy when you keep going, but faith is what should fuel us. I won't deny how hard it is for me to maintain that mentality, but I'll never know how that could lead me to beautiful things if I just drop everything. I hope you guys have an amazing day! And never give up. Please, never give up! ^^ #FreeGift

@ASIATHEMOMMY 5 лет назад

What Stephan said at 41:50 stood out to me the most because I struggle with forgiveness. And I can forgive the people who have hurt me in the past, but it took me a LONG time to start forgiving myself which was a completely different story. #FreeGift I really appreciate how open and honest Hafeez was during this session. It takes a lot to do that.

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Thanks so much. Forgiveness is something that is real powerful.

@ASIATHEMOMMY 5 лет назад

@theroomatespodcast Np, stop being so hard on yourself lol your fine

@marv8360 5 лет назад

This gonna be good. I feel like some Stephan's best stuff come from The Roommates Podcast. If not for The Roommates I would've never learned about him. Can't wait to dive into this one.

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Glad that you enjoyed it.

@vishavee9194 5 лет назад

What stood out to me most is when Hafeez said he feels like when he makes a mistakes it deters Gods plan for him....I feel the same. #freegift

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Thanks for sharing this.

@alasoualhi9542 5 лет назад

"you can be the most amazing, perfect, wonderful man/woman and your still not for her and shes still not for you" #freegiftsir

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Very powerful statement.

@markdavis1254 5 лет назад

The whole episode is what I needed to hear. I was in a 4yr relationship that was beyond toxic. We really lost who we were and transformed into people we hated. Eventually we got to a point where we broke it off. Long story short I did like any man did and tried to get back into the game. Sliding in DMs and everything.... but God wasnt having it. So I did something I had never done and I took the time to heal. I took a solid year and a half to not date, entertain or do anything. Really focus on what I like, dont like and my relationship with God. It was the best thing I had done. I started to feed myself differently by listening to a lot of TD Jake's, Devon Franklin, Myles Munroe, the Roommates and Stephan Labossiere. You change the way you think, you can change your life. Now I'm more happier than I ever have been. I wouldnt trade that time I had to really heal and get MYSELF back for anything. Huge fan of The Roommates and Stephan... guys have seriously helped me out in ways you would never know. God Bless #freegift

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Glad that we can help you.

@ellefont3813 5 лет назад

Mark Davis check out RC Blake. You listen to a lot of the same people I do. I thought you might like to add him onto your watch list.

@singer4812 5 лет назад

did you ever get back with the girl or stay in contact?

@markdavis1254 5 лет назад

@@singer4812 no we never got back together. Both of our lives did a complete 180 when we broke up. For the better. We may speak once every 3 months or so but more so just to check in.

@nuance10 5 лет назад

I totally hear you on the kindness thing. Keep being strong because the world secretly wants to be able to have that kind of level of purity. It is one of your greatest strengths, Brother.

@Msalike 5 лет назад

The best part of this episode is knowing you have to forgive in order to free yourself! #freegift

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Forgiveness is key.

@berniemat5829 5 лет назад

I hear a lot of codependency. A lot of searching for pleasing others or being “the best” at what we do or be seen as the best in our entourage. So this binds us to be forever searching for approval and when approval doesn’t come, we don’t know how to handle it. Let go of wanting to please others and go on with your life !!

@kadjad.1052 5 лет назад

Amazing message, I love that Hafeez writes letters!!! The things that really stuck out to me was rejection is redirection and that we heal by releasing not suppressing, thank you for this great video # freegift

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Thank you so much for your kind words.

@baritunde 5 лет назад

#freegift What a nice, sensitive person the interviewer seems to be. The woman you pick will be so lucky & loved. You will be able to give her real love. Be blessed, friend.

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Thank you.

@wshelby83 5 лет назад

Baritunde I totally agree with you!! The girl is going to be so blessed and loved.

@shwetanavani480 3 года назад

He tries to hide his pain and embarrassment with laughter. I can hear it in his voice. 💔 Here's the most important lesson. Don't make decisions based on how you feel. Emotions are volatile and unreliable. Better to watch people's actions and speak your truth.

@virtuouswomanthelordfirst538 5 лет назад

What stood out the most to me is seeing the pain and emotions in your face 😔. But when you spoke about meeting Chris, that was because he was aligned with your purpose, so you won and just shows although a lot of things don't make sense at first, it is best to stay in obedience.

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

True.

@orearabilekgotle8690 3 года назад

I think I've mastered "guarding your heart" . I too met a great guy but he did not want me as much as I thought he did. Disappointed yes, but hurt? No. He'll find what he's looking for, what's mine will find me. 🤷🏽‍♀️

@Godslady01 5 лет назад

Hafeez you are a king!!! Which is rare in this day and age. Don't ever let anyone or anything cause you to feel less than!! Trust in God. Whats for you is for you. You certainly don't have to bend over backwards for anyone business or romantically. Stay favored and trust when its for you. You aint gotta do the most. Just be you❤❤💯

@rachelnakibuka 5 лет назад

AWWWWWH HAFEEZ! Just wanna give you a hug 😢 Praying for your healing , thanks for blessing us with your past experiences 👏🏾

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Thank you.

@rachelnakibuka 5 лет назад

Ulysse H Thank you 😊

@henriettaobi2410 5 лет назад

You have a very kind heart to be able to go to that length to talk to that girl. I hope you can truly let go of the hurt and be able to forgive yourself.

@degraciangubane480 5 лет назад

I love that Hafeez was able to be vulnerable.As women sometimes we think that men don't hurt or even take the time to heal. Definetly changed my mindset.Stephan's emphasis on forgiving people who hurt you and also yourself is life changing.Its so much easier to hang on to hurt than to actually move past it.There are always lessons be learnt and we are so hard on ourselves.Also his point on as much as we have been hurt at some point in our lives we have also hurt someone.So looking at hurt caused by others from that perspective enables us to move forward from a place of compassion.Its amazing how heartbreak changes you even with that change there is a choice..Its easier to choose to be bitter than to actually work towards being better and choosing better. #freegift

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Thank you for tuning in.

@daionmcknight6482 5 лет назад

As a man i resonate and understand the pain of not feeling good enough to other ppl an bustin your ass too become good enough. Then putting the work in to forgive yourself for the people you hurt just b/c you have been hurt by others. This is definitely not a easy journey #freegift

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Thanks for this.

@LA-tg7lt 5 лет назад

Thank you for allowing us to heal through watching you do the same. That’s so much COURAGE. I salute you for sharing.

@marcpro_ 3 года назад

This really resonates with me and my journey. Literally, it’s like I just ripped off a scab that’s been lingering for a while and my wounds are open again. I’m definitely going to apply some of these points to heal for good- starting with writing out my emotions. Preciate what you guys do 🙏🏾.

@steveoosterhof6077 3 года назад

Dear Lord...a deep teaching of information I didn't have in 2010 and suffered from not healing until to date 2020... // free gift

@maryamm25 5 лет назад

"Rejection is a redirection to your destiny!" What a profound statement and way to look at our disappointments. This is what stood out to me the most. #freegift

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Short but powerful statement.

@ThesilentR34 3 года назад

Stephan has already made an impact in my life and I bought this book! Becuz of his content, I left a bad situation because the girl was not for me. I have not healed from my past and I put the women ahead of God. Now I’m working on my healing and purpose now and it feels great ! Need to read this book ! Starting today!

@simplysunshine30215 5 лет назад

I liked when Stephen talked about forgiveness. Speaking the truth and like he said releasing the latch. You have to forgive in order to let go to heal. Thank you for sharing hafeez 🙌💃

@Radience100 5 лет назад

One of the best parts of this video was seeing the healing transformation when Hafeez finally released his feelings instead of suppressing them. I’m so glad that I too learned that persistence is not always key. Who God has for you is who he has for you. And who he does not have for you, he will keep away from you. This is not to hurt us, but to love us! Also, as many have already commented, “ rejection is re-direction” to Gods True calling and purpose for your life. #freegift

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Very true.

@kerryanderson3060 3 года назад

Thankyou Hafeez, that lady just doesn’t know how much she is missing. You are delightful, and God just hasn’t introduced you, to that special person yet.

@perdybirdie 5 лет назад

#freegift "rejection is redirection to your destiny" great piece. I really love the part where he mentioned that the right person at the wrong time is still the wrong person.

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Thanks for sharing.

@Kiara-yr1cv 5 лет назад

Awwwwwwww I am so proud of you Hafeez. For the way you exposed your inside and I'm sure you hid it from so many people. I pray this takes you on the path to Healing from your past hurts..🙏🙏🙏🙏

@raechanel3667 4 года назад

It was very courageous of him to share his stories. Maybe that girl was the right girl but the wrong time

@everythingvictorious5962 5 лет назад

Being extremely kind and expecting others to be like that was something that I use to struggle with. Eventually you learn that everyone doesn’t think like you and doesn’t have the heart that you have. Let them be who they are and continue to be who you are. Don’t beat yourself up if you make a mistake and hurt someone else, apologize and prove it through your actions moving forward.

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Thank you.

@OhhNaturel 5 лет назад

My takeaway is that rejection isn't always about you not being good enough or of no value. Don't take it personal #freegift

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Can't take it personal.

@karenedwards2139 5 лет назад

Forgiving yourself and others is important but healing along with forgiving is key. This podcast was awesome. Thank you for this.

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Glad that it was able to help.

@sweetx0vmp 5 лет назад

I love that he pointed out that repetitive prayer keeps us in the mindset of focusing on that person and keeping those (painful) feelings alive.. prayer is powerful but we need to practice with asking a direct question and allowing space for an answer. Thank you for sharing your experience! Would love to win a copy of this book, I’ve been waiting on this to publish! 🖤 #freegift

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Thanks for sharing.

@bambu_818 5 лет назад

Great podcast. Hafeez, be your own best friend when you've made a mistake. Be an honest, straightforward, wise and forgiving friend to yourself.

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Indeed.

@jhay360 5 лет назад

Amazing Episode! Thank you Hafeez your transparency and openness! This really will be a blessing to so many because we're all going through or have gone through similar situations and will be a catalyst in helping so many to heal! 🙏🏾🔥🔥

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Appreicate you as always Rhashad.

@renastange8959 5 лет назад

Thank you for your vulnerability and willingness to share Hafeez!!! And Stephan, you are just so amazing at what you do. God bless you guys 👍🏾#freegift

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Glad that it was able to help.

@Joi-os6lq 4 года назад

So true. I think I have been completely damaged. Every time I feel like I have healed and I encounter conflict, a breakup, rejection or have to walk away from someone that I had hopes for, I get triggered and become discouraged. So, right now, I am on a journey of healing and receiving love from myself. I also feel like I have issues relating to negative harsh people as a whole. I try not to take what they say personally, some days I do good, and other days, I have zero tolerance. I am in counseling for PTSD, Social Anxiety and Depression due to abuse, bullying, a horrible divorce and job harassment. I believe that I am a beautiful person inside and out with a lot of skills and talent, who is kind and attractive, but the majority of men that I have want quick sex, which is a turn off to me, so I end up having to implement the process of elimination, to protect my wellbeing. Merci Becoup Stephan Labossiere. :-)

@gwenbae7434 4 года назад

Joy the gym will help you release that anxiety ❤️ love yourself 🎈🌹

@juanamangrum2409 5 лет назад

Trying to heal from 13 years of emotional/mental abuse. Thanks for the stories and advice. Best part is story about girl B #FREEGIFT

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

I hope the book gives you the healing you need.

@sandrinegryson2882 5 лет назад

I discovered your videos few weeks ago and i'm a huge fan ! it's amazing seeing nice men like you who share so much love, respect and kindness all over the World. Your channel deserved 1M suscribers at least ! Keep shinning by your beautiful soul. Lot of love from France 🇨🇵 #FreeGift

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Thanks so much.

@leekendrick1060 5 лет назад

#freegift..what stands out for me is that you guys are allowing God first place therefore you are honest and open!!!.. only way to go in our humanness and flaws.

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Thank you.

@na-il3282 5 лет назад

This is great man he really opened up something I’m learning as well

@authortheaaron 5 лет назад

I appreciate you using your platform to speak on a topic so vulnerable yet relatable Hafeez. Working on forgiveness has been my struggle for the past 9 months, which led me to realize my whole teenage years were building up my internal issues. I hope you know just how much your story means to me and anyone else who is able to listen to you all! #freegift

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Thanks so much.

@eugeniyah8078 5 лет назад

What really blessed me about this message is that when you include The Most High in your plans, you will never go wrong because even if “the worst thing” happens to you, He’ll always use that to help you rather than hinder your road to success 💕 #Freegift

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Thanks.

@justme1294 5 лет назад

What stood out to me the most was the fact Hafeez and Stephan both were vulnerable with each other, which you don’t see much in this world. Hafeez I really want to encourage you, you are a great man of God and I see the spirit of God in you. Hafeez just let God clear your past and enjoy the process of growth, I believe God will bless the roommates podcast and provide a multitude of favor and growth in due time , just keeping placing good seed on fertile ground. This episode has been a huge blessing to us and keep letting God use the roommates podcast to spread love and healing 😊 #freegift

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

So glad it was able to help.

@Kingcolb 5 лет назад

What stood out to me the most was how we really allow others to have such a negative impact on the way we view ourselves. I’ve been listening to you guys for a while now. And I can honestly say Stephan is the most informative, down to earth person that’s been on the show. And don’t worry about those people who don’t see the potential that your podcast have, the time will come when it’s right. I’ve also learned that I have to forgive others for the hurt that they have caused me in order to forgive myself. These are honest words and I wish both of you brother the best of Luck! #freegift

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Thanks so much .

@randybeltran9576 5 лет назад

43:12 "I'm trying to get better". I feel that to my very core and I am on the same level with you in regards to having hurt someone that had a sensitive issue which made it extra difficult for them to forgive you. They never did forgive but I'm telling you bro you have to learn to forgive yourself. You will thank yourself for letting go of what happened and allow yourself to be at peace. A very important message for everyone that's out there suffering. Thanks for opening up man it's a very difficult thing for some of us to do.

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Thank you.

@nikenikao6747 5 лет назад

This was a great segment. Collaborating together I think they brought many common concerns to light. The aspect of forgiveness hit home for me lol. I don't necessarily struggle with forgiving someone its more forgiveness within myself. I live in my personal truth and not afraid to give my honest opinion/ or my raw truth. Not gonna lie this came right on time lol dealing with the aftermath of an breakup and its exhausting I'm reading Stephan and Pastor R.C Blake's books as I write this but.....him stating the fact in order for me to fully let go I have to not only forgive those who hurt me but forgive myself as well. Living in limbo not a great feeling just as Hafeez mentioned I personally like suffer from just the thought that I have inflicted hurt/ pain upon someone else. But their breakdown points were wonderful. * I have to let go. Can't change the past holding on plants me to my past * Forgive. To give and be forgiven with myself * State of hurt/ pain. In order to avoid another failed situation, relationship, etc I personally need to re-center and just heal allowing that time for God to work on me. Rebuilding internally deep not just surface. Yessssssah!! Overall I love this segment it was enlightening and real. And I would love a copy of new book 😁 #Freegift

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Thank you for your breakdown. Send us an email or DM or IG so we can get you the book.

@superfanatico 5 лет назад

Hey man, just wanted to say thank you for opening up and sharing your story about a hurtful relationship. Funny, my situation is pretty similar and it definitely gives you insight and perspective. Thanks for all you do. Keep up the work you do. It's helping more people than you know. Have a great week. #freegift

@duannehaughton4893 2 года назад

This show is better than most conversation segments I have seen on national television. Great stuff from both men.

@nikenikao6747 5 лет назад

I had to set an reminder lol. They have the best pod talks I'm going on break from work for this 😁

@g-max2810 5 лет назад

Nike Nikao Girr stop it 😄

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Yes you have to go on break lol

@evasunshine809 5 лет назад

wow... the wrong person at the right time , is still the wrong person. Hafeez and Stephan this was a great episode.. Forgiveness of self is key TOO

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Glad it helped.

@roxannescott2136 5 лет назад

This happens to so many christians, thinking if we make a mistake our paths/destiny is off. A lot of men & women will be healed from you sharing this experience. God bless you both. I have the book as well & it has been a blessing. Much love to you guys.🙏💖😊

@kayajackson50 5 лет назад

Hafeez, you are an amazing man and more than enough. Thanks for this episode. I learned some valuable lessons.

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Appreciate it.

@TyReaLiTy 5 лет назад

The most important take away for me was simply the fact of "Learning to forgive to set myself free!" Thank you Hafeez for sharing your experiences. #freegift

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Thanks so much.

@TyReaLiTy 5 лет назад

@@TheRoommatesPodcast Great meeting you both at the I❤Me self love summit yesterday!🤗

@lucyg7887 5 лет назад

The thing that stood out the most to me was when Stephan said that Hafeez was praying everyday about the girl he thought was the one but he wasn’t asking God a question he was making a request. I know what that’s like! I was making a request to God myself about someone and realized I wasn’t asking the question so I let it go and stopped praying about it everyday and started to ask more direct questions. I still feel like God is answering me but it seems impossible what He is telling me. Obedience and waiting is what I feel like God is saying, this is so hard!!! #freegift

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Thanks so much for sharing.

@natashaj4078 5 лет назад

This was powerful.. thank you for sharing so openly and transparently. As a woman, I don't think I often get to see the other side of the hurt equation, often because there's no room given for it, or if it's displayed, it's quickly pushed away or men are scolded for displaying their feelings. One of the biggest take aways?? That if it doesn't fit, don't idealize to make it fit, and make sure that when praying about that relationship that you're actually asking God a question - First it opens you to receive an answer instead of an endorsement, and ensures that your not praying with an idol in your heart, and secondly, leave room and time to hear an answer vs. FOCUSING on the issue. #FreeGift

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Thanks for sharing.

@pristineparr7509 5 лет назад

OMG, what a good guy. Thank you so much for being open and vulnerable about this. Stephan your wisdom is PURE GOLD. Much blessings to you. Hope your platform expands to help millions in the black community. We definitely need it.

@wonder_9315 3 года назад

Liking someone is being there when it’s easy. Loving someone is being there when it couldn’t be harder.

@MILESPOTENTIAL 5 лет назад

STAY TRUE, HUMBLE AND FOCUSED GENTLEMEN...FOOD FOR SOUL IS WHAT WE NEED TO HEAL..

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Gotta keep pouring into the people.

@noudwigeantoine7848 4 года назад

I like the part where he said it makes him feel like he’s not good enough because that’s exactly how I’m feeling going through my break up #freebook

@dashatanteria 5 лет назад

"Rejection is just redirection to your destiny."🙏🏾 I most definitely needed to hear this. Not just in the aspect of relationships but for all experiences in life. Thank you Roommates for having Stephan featured on the show again!🎉 #FreeGift

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Stephan is so great.

@msliltrinity 5 лет назад

This indirectly hit home. Thank for sharing and for emphasizing it’s okay for both men and women to feel this way.

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Appreciate it!

@michelleberry3810 5 лет назад

I just want to thank Hafiz for being vulnerable and sharing his story, it took a lot of courage. I can relate to a lot of it, especially self forgiveness. It’s easy for me to forgive others, it’s myself that I hold accountable and I’m not so gentle with. For me as a woman it also reminds me that both men and women have the same issue, it all boils down to worthiness. A lot of great information. I have read several of Stephan Labossiere’s books and even taken an online class but I’m especially excited to get my hands on this next one!!

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

It is such a great book.

@conniechoward 5 лет назад

When she gave you her number in French that was a big sign she wasn't into you but I love his honesty and you see his heart

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Lol

@user-yj8tp6ud1n 2 года назад

I love you very much Hafeez, your vulnerability, and the way you say it combined with humor, I hope you find what you are looking for ❤❤❤❤💯

@brookel10 5 лет назад

"Everyone needs to understand they are good enough." This was such a powerful and healing episode. Thanks for being transparent about your struggles, Hafeez. I can just see how much you guys are growing & maturing since the first episode of the podcast. Keep speaking your truth! Proud of yall.

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Thanks Brookeamillion :)

@Of_theleaf 5 лет назад

Wow, this was truly incredible!... what stood out to me the most was the need to forgive. That reality that when we don’t we are actually chaining ourselves to the past! #freegift Thanks so much for this incredible content! Blessings!

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Glad it was able to help.

@sheysounds9398 5 лет назад

I give Hafeez kudos for being so transparent. Listening to his stories helped me see that men are equally crazy for love as women. There is a prevailing misconception that men don't give a fuck. And the fact that he did tells me that we (men and women) are more alike than we imagine. #freegift

@alexl7278 5 лет назад

Thank you for making space for such an open and vulnerable conversation. For me, I saw myself in getting fixated onto something or someone and subsequently feeling unworthy of their or mine love. Because if this person who I value and care for so much does not seem to have the same feelings, that must mean I am not worthy of them. It would make me suffer and that in turn would make me long for this approval and love even more. I realize that a person should not substitute me, but rather complement me and journey with me to improvement and mutual kindness. In order to be with someone who can do that, I first and foremost have to be in line with my beliefs, respect myself and improve for myself. #freegift

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

I am glad that it was able to help

@missenamina 5 лет назад

You really spoke your truth Hafeez! So proud of you. I hope I can get a #freegift

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Thanks

@cusny01 3 года назад

Oh I want to give you a hug. You are enough don’t take anything personally. The funny thing is people watching you would want to be you. That saying people are praying for what you have. Stay blessed and recognize them. 🙏🏼❤️

@aleniacaplinger6021 5 лет назад

I can completely understand where you're coming from Hafeez, when you said you don't give yourself leeway, because of past mistakes you've made. I too, do that. And I'm very hard on myself. I need to start the process of forgiveness, and writing my feelings down on paper. I thank you for sharing your story, and being so open and vulnerable. #FrerGift

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Thanks for sharing.

@na-il3282 5 лет назад

Keep this podcast 💯 and it will continue to grow and change lives

@tamiaedrington5762 3 года назад

Ok but his story of moving to Houston proves that when a man truly wants you, he will do ABSOLUTELY anything to show you that.

@mabelwater91 3 года назад

Hi 💢..... Sending you alot of love 💞 and positive energy. Dr Steve can actually help you attract someone you really love the most and want in your life. He once helped me and can help you too. Believe me I'm not bragging or trying to make unnecessary comment here, this was what really happened to me. he helped me attract (Jeremy) the guy I love and wanted in my life the most. Seek his help thanks...💞💞☺️☺️💞💞

@mabelwater91 3 года назад

Send him a text message on Whatsapp 💓

@mabelwater91 3 года назад

+2 3 4 7 0 3 0 8 9 4 8 9 2.

@xmswayzemx 2 года назад

Yikes! This truth hurts EVERY TIME I hear it. It'll be okay, though; it's what I needed to hear.

@BreannaCrews 5 лет назад

As someone who’s heading down the path of divorce, listening to this and Being honest with myself allowed me to see so many things that I hadn’t been able to see before. Thank you so much!

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Glad it helps.

@omoladeyusuf1557 5 лет назад

Forgiveness is the most important part of healing; forgive yourself first then forgiving others that hurt you can be easier. Always let out the emotions instead of suppressing. #Freegift.

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Thank you so much.

@carolelliott2099 Год назад

Thank you both for the gift of this excellent session. It was so helpful to watch Stephan take Hafeez through his suppressed emotions and begin to release them. I learned a lot about men's pain and vulnerability from this and how real it is. God Bless You as you continue on your unique individual paths to fulfill God's purpose for your lives. 😇❤🙏

@Niquee27 5 лет назад

Definitely loved your vulnerability, but I also think that you should try and cutdown on telling yourself that you're not good enough. Because going back to the podcast with Angela, if you constantly put out negative energy, that's what you're going to attract. Always remember that. Hope I win a book but if not I'm buying it anyways 🙌🏼 #freegift

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

Thanks so much for sharing.

@Kintaku 5 лет назад

Yo! I identify so much with Hafeez on this one. This is a great episode. The "what's done is done" mentality is so easy to say, but so difficult to live.

@sayterra7247 5 лет назад

What stood out to me is how we bring ourselves down after rejection. We have to understand what God has for you, it is for you. And be happy with acceptance at the end of the day. #freegift

@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад

We have to learn how not to beat ourselves up.

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