Stuff Enneagram 5s Say

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@YoyoAidoru 2 года назад

“Ew. People.” I felt that in my bones 🦴

@lynnettegort4582 2 года назад

Loved it! I’m a 5 and I appreciate that not all the 5 characters were low energy/flat affect. Breaks the stereotype a bit especially for 5 women!

@AbbeyHowe 2 года назад

LOVE THIS YES

@AbbeyHowe 2 года назад

some of the 5s I know are THE most animated people I know

@HighFiveFriend 2 года назад

I very much noticed and appreciated this too!

@KendrixTermina 2 года назад

ah yes, the good old "stayed up all night binge-watching youtube videos about random topic" phenomenon...last time it was city planning. 90% of these absolutely apply

@cammifrost 2 года назад

Love this! Absolute 5 here. "I can't do something. I did something last weekend," "I haven't researched this enough to have an opinion," and "that logic is flawed" are all things that come out of my mouth on a weekly basis.

@rosario8150 Год назад

“a lot of people don’t take the time to read the instructions, but they would know so much more if they did” TOO DAMN ACCURATE

@coconutcat1280 2 года назад

“That’s completely subjective” “I told you so” and “That doesn’t make any sense” are so accurate. 😂 The 5s I know are pretty energetic

@DomtheWise314 2 года назад

🤣🤣🤣 I'm a type 5, and I've literally told my family those exact sheep facts

@AbbeyHowe 2 года назад

REALLY?? I'm low key really into the sheep shearing videos lol

@abigailhithersay4096 2 года назад

"I've known that since 5th grade" "I can't do two events in one weekend" Hahahahahaha

@Avionne_Parris 2 года назад

"Mornings are a 'no-talk-to-me' zone"... Gosh, that's such a mood. Imma a need that on a t-shirt that I'll wear to sleep everyday. Every. Day. That last one with getting sidetracked with research when asked about a movie, I can totally relate. As a 4w5 writer, I'm either stuck in imagination station (type 4) or analysis paralysis (type 5); I'm surprised I get any writing done at all. I really want to do an experiment where I wake up as a different enneagram type each day and write down my findings. It'll help me with character research. Now, if only I can just "do the thing". Another great one, Abs :-D

@AbbeyHowe 2 года назад

Thanks Avionne!!

@darthlaurel 2 года назад

It felt borderline autistic, but then, I am....borderline autistic. I did something this week already. Why do I have to do another thing? I'd even avoid going to my mailbox if I saw my neighbor across the street going to hers.

@AbbeyHowe 2 года назад

I'm just picturing you monitoring the mailbox situation with a pair of binoculars 😂

@darthlaurel 2 года назад

@@AbbeyHowe I even avoid letting the mailman see me waiting for him to finish so I can go out and avoid saying hi. Sometimes I feel so dysfunctional. XD

@KendrixTermina 2 года назад

@@darthlaurel this is why i always wash my clothes at night. what if i ran into my neighbors on the way to the public washing machine? Its not that bad, just, annoying enough that id rather not.

@darthlaurel 2 года назад

@@KendrixTermina Maybe that's part of the reason why I'm such a night person. Everyone is in bed! I can do things and not have to interact with people! It is a little bit of bliss.

@micromyuze 2 года назад

damn...I'm the same way. I think some people like to make jokes as if being an extreme introvert is cool but it's actually quite inconvenient and I would much prefer the alternative if it meant I got more completed in life.

@jasonbrown4739 2 года назад

I'm surprised my wife let you film her! Spot on!

@Skye_N 9 месяцев назад

Spot on with the filming part. I literally have to be forced to take pictures and will disappear or hide behind people or walls just to not be in one. That I'm short helps very much.

@StephanieJeanne 2 года назад

Haha, as a 4 with the 5 wing, I related to so much of this! No more than one event a weekend and don't talk to me for a while in the morning (at least until cup two of java) among others. 😂 🙌

@AbbeyHowe 2 года назад

hahah love these

@wisteria1739 2 года назад

"I'll research that" My one friend is still waiting for my opinion on this one vast topic and I told her I knew so little to moderate on that thing and needed time for research. I do that alot. Great video!👍🏻👍🏻

@AbbeyHowe 2 года назад

Thanks Wisteria! 💕 (love your profile pic!)

@wisteria1739 2 года назад

@@AbbeyHowe Thank you😄

@susanwright1931 2 года назад

“Ok, I will go to a party with you but I might die”…. 🤣🤣🤣 yep! All of it!

@AbbeyHowe 2 года назад

💀

@alissandracoffey4692 2 года назад

As a Type 6 with a heavy 5 wing, the "Do you want to watch informational RU-vid videos?" Along with "Ugh, I need alone time..." struck several notes with me. Here's another Type 5 thing: studying Welsh and Flute. The only reason is that it's all for the sheer fun of learning 😂

@majaballew353 2 года назад

"There are rules in place for a reason!" :)

@AbbeyHowe 2 года назад

this is a good one

@cmpicha2934 2 года назад

As a 1w9, my automatic 1 response to this was, "But... but that's OUR thing..." and then my 9 wing swoops in and says, "But we can share it!" :) I do see some behavioral similarities between types though, which is why we ultimately look at inner motivation.

@ecviets 2 года назад

@@cmpicha2934 The difference is that the 1 says it because it's the "right" thing to do; whereas, the 5 says it because it's the "logical" thing to do. :) It's shared... sort of. lol

@cmpicha2934 2 года назад

@@ecviets that totally makes sense. I found a video last night that covered all the mistypes for a type 1, which I think said something similar about the 1 and 5. And I tested pretty high on the type 5 as well, so it's just helpful to know the similarities and differences anyway :)

@ecviets 2 года назад

@@cmpicha2934 My tritype is 531, so I too understand relating to both the 5-side and 1-side of it. :)

@darkcreatureinadarkroom1617 Год назад

As a 4 with a heavy 5 wing, something that I say often that feels very 5ish is: "that question is WAY too broad, it has like a million answers and I don't have all the time (or interest) in the world to explain them all to you. Be more specific."

@amelian9677 2 года назад

4w5 here. The sheep thing had me ☠️😂

@AbbeyHowe 2 года назад

I binge watch those videos though lol

@ecviets 2 года назад

@@AbbeyHowe What have you just done to me? lol #sheepshearing

@mollieirvine1026 2 года назад

I'm so glad you included things about the JWST. My special interest is astronomy, and obviously when the images were being released my poor friends and family were in for a hell of a lot of infodumping. These were spot on, even the manner in which you said them!🙃

@AbbeyHowe 2 года назад

it's been an exciting couple of weeks for scientists and general space enthusiasts!!

@KindHarmony 2 года назад

Fun!! Info dump astronomy topics on me anyday! 🌠🛰😅 Love the topic.

@ChristinaMitchellwriter 2 года назад

I have never felt so seen 🤣🤣🤣 I sent this to my all my friends so they could laugh with me. "I can't do two events in one weekend. Are you crazy?" No one can ever get me out of my house.

@wendychang2398 2 года назад

Lol ya leave me alone literally. I’m really fine in my own space. I cracked up watching my type. Thank you 😘

@AbbeyHowe 2 года назад

We ♥️ 5s over here!!!!

@mwatson4970 2 года назад

Yes! I read the ingredients and nutrition on everything AND always feel but don't say "don't rush me". My time is precious and I'll use all my energy focusing on you when I get there... whenever that is.

@AbbeyHowe 2 года назад

love this

@Nikki-fx6yy 2 месяца назад

"that logic is fraud" is my most used line in every argument.

@mattwharton394 Год назад

"Play relaxing spa music" 🤣

@bluemarblecardsnmore4441 11 месяцев назад

OMG!!! We lived in freakin’ New ZEALAND for a year-what did this 5 do? I studied every aspect of wool, took pictures, and made a photo book about the sheep industry. Learned to spin wool-so the sheep shearing conversation sounded JUST LIKE ME!!

@Rainbokie Год назад

Socializing is too damn easy for me but I only socialize when I’m obligated to be some place. Otherwise I’m completely isolated by choice. -Type 5

@reksonline 2 года назад

I feel seen…..

@CareFreeCommuting 2 года назад

0:49 so many of my 4 friends hit this 5w when doing the barista thing, love it.

@HighFiveFriend 2 года назад

I’m very uncomfortable that you have been following me. 🙌

@AbbeyHowe 2 года назад

sorryyyyy

@HighFiveFriend 2 года назад

@@AbbeyHowe :)

@rmarli17 2 года назад

Fellow fives, can you list the topics you have an in-depth knowledge of and not just dabbled in? For me it would be: comics, comic collecting, fitness, criminology, psychology, telecommunications, building computers, and theology specifically Christianity and Buddhism.

@kylewood9078 2 года назад

As a 5 I think this was my favorite video of yours this far

@AbbeyHowe 2 года назад

AMAZING! (and noted!)

@chemtrooper1 2 года назад

How dare you! I do not sound EXACTLY like this when I interact with my friends and family; who, in fact, tell me your video is spot on representation of me😅. Now let me drink my perfectly heated pour over coffee alone…in peace.

@CoachAhava-0000 Год назад

I'm an early riser and start the day with my mind churning and burning. This video nails the spirit of being inside the experience. Thank you. 😊

@PegR38 2 года назад

I'm a 7 and my is a 5 (and INTP) He and I do watch a lot of documentaries, most of which he's found. I'm lucky that he loves my exuberant energy. And he LOVES peanut butter and jelly sandwiches.

@desdinova6527 2 года назад

I love your videos so much! I saw myself in like 90% of these quotes, but the food ordering rehearsal was the one that really hit home! These days I usually just write it down so I don’t feel like I have to practice it so much. I do that when I have to talk on the phone to schedule an appointment or something as well…wouldn’t want them to think I’m dumb if I say the wrong thing.

@mwatson4970 2 года назад

Also, have done the "let me look that up" (have 3 monitors I work on if that makes sense). And the "ew... ppl"-thing, turned around and went home to listen to lofi music. Great look at 5, Abbey, esp the hidden destinations arguement; they just didn't look!

@AbbeyHowe 2 года назад

oooh a sequel where I have like 4 different monitors haha

@kathleennile7611 2 года назад

It sounded so much like me.

@AbbeyHowe 2 года назад

😊

@miakoritnik172 2 года назад

100% relatable. Great job as always Abbey❤️

@AbbeyHowe 2 года назад

Thank you, Mia!!

@fcsc7583 2 года назад

I write software to "relax".... I'm so five 😂😂😂😂😂😂

@AbbeyHowe 2 года назад

hahaha

@fcsc7583 2 года назад

Would it be possible captioning your videos? I have a lot of friends to whom I would like to show your work but RU-vid's automatic translation is so bad that they can't understand (I'm from Brazil:) )

@badpoetry33 Год назад

Once I was going through a period so stressful I was practically numb, and the only thing that calmed me was language study. Nothing helped me like that-shows were too emotional, books too much info, people, no way, but conjugating verbs and learning new vocab - yesssss. my xanadu.

@hydetheghost 5 месяцев назад

i never felt so understood in my life!! dude this sounds so me 😭😭💀💀

@mymindfulmoment 2 года назад

I don't know if I feel seen or called out 😆🤣🤣😆😆🤣🤣

@Aurorageriatric 2 года назад

This is brilliant! Especially practicing placing an order 😂 all of this was so good!

@katherinegood7509 2 года назад

I laughed so hard at this one. I thought I was the only one!

@jonesbridge6880 Год назад

I feel called out by everything, but especially the sheep shearing videos and info sharing about them 😂

@renab.7390 Год назад

Ack, I feel called out! Approximately 80% of what you said/did was on point for me personally. I'm a 5w4 or 4w5 (the tests I did place me as either type 5 or type 4, almost 50-50 in the most precise/longest test I could find, so it seems I'm stuck in between those 2 types).

@blainefiasco8225 Год назад

"That's a waste of time, I'm not doing that" I slegiy something I find myself saying for the past few months. I've learned that I have no tolerance for people wasting my time.

@MutableSoul 2 года назад

Hahaha That's me!! Yep! I have a blend between 4 and 5 types ...but yeah, 5 it's my vibe. I took two enneagram test with different questions and get the same results. The 3 types with more percentages were 5, 4 & 6. I need to buy some books and do more research but 5 and 4 resonates so much with me. Great video!! 😊✌🏻

@sarahwoolley736 2 года назад

Omg I love this so much!!! "wait a min I'll just look that up" 😂 100% on the money. I appreciate you getting to know 5s so well!!! ❤️

@georgecataloni4720 5 месяцев назад

I would eat the same peanut butter and jelly sandwich for lunch, too, but it's really hard to put it back together after it comes out the other end.

@TieranniPieranni Год назад

I was just telling my husband about how I was obsessed with Anne of Green Gables as a kid yesterday. 😮

@annacooksey7276 2 года назад

This is perfect. My 9 year old son watched with me. He kept saying it was exactly me!

@danielmartin3392 2 года назад

All of this is so relatable! I wasn't sure about my type until now.

@AbbeyHowe 2 года назад

yay! this makes me happy. check out my other videos about type 5s here ➡️ ru-vid.com/group/PLzfQqRU3ejjd0r9gO7I2yIVBwe80ETNl1

@jessicajoerndt428 6 месяцев назад

I’m a four, but I also relate heavily to the logic and knowledge desire of the five! I’m technically a four with a three wing but maybe I’ve got a little bit of a five wing in there, because I’m super research oriented, objective, especially when it comes to planning and making decisions. My impulsive emotions can sometimes play a factor but as I’ve gotten older, I’m super interested in thinking things through heavily and I do need my alone time to recharge. Cool, how we all have a little bit of each personality type even if it’s not our dominating type!I’m also good friends with a type five and she is exactly like this

@m-_._- 2 года назад

I really appreciate whoever filmed this and their choice of pan

@AbbeyHowe 2 года назад

that would be my man DANIEL BUTTON, an amazing videographer and person

@curlzOdoom 2 года назад

God damn I am a 7 but I also scored very high in 5 and 9. I relate to a lot of these. I don't know how to explain the chaos within me, but really close friends, creating things, and nature seem to be the cure lol.

@unchaineddefender 2 года назад

I have a friend who is a five, and I’m a nine, when asked to make a decision, we simply…cannot. Well, the difference is she’s content in pretty much every situation, so _logically_ someone who isn’t content in most situations should choose, but _I_ am too scared of making the _wrong_ decision to make a choice. XD it’s a cycle… It’s kinda funny, I was really wary of her when I first met her, because she often used the phrase, “Oh, I’m good with anything.” A phrase I know all to well. But she seriously means it! She says that she’ll make herself clear if she doesn’t want to do something, but the only thing I’ve seen her uncomfortable with is interacting with strangers, or people around her interacting with strangers. XD

@talideon 9 месяцев назад

I mean, hugs are great, but only from people close to you. Also, human contact is a good thing, even when you're uncomfortable. It's like fibre.

@kimbathurston2705 2 года назад

This is so incredibly accurate 😂

@jasmin1773 Год назад

Im a 4w5 and just thought that: Please not too much body contact!

@susanyi7816 2 года назад

This is so great and humorous! I say several of these things in my own way. And yes, if I've done something last weekend, it's highly likely I will not do anything for the following weekends. I can eat the same thing for lunch or dinner for days in a row.

@doriemisur9016 2 года назад

Love your vids

@AbbeyHowe 2 года назад

omg this is the best comment to receive 😊 I'm so glad the videos are helpful for you!!

@lizzyem3712 2 года назад

Me to a T, even the bits I don’t want to admit too(5w4)….. AND you had the Anne of Green Gables Reference, 😂🥰a childhood love of those books & THE fictional character I most related to growing up! Thank you from the UK 🇬🇧

@maccagoat1241 9 месяцев назад

It's only been a minute but I already felt exposed 😭 by the way I love your video

@VtecGuy88 9 месяцев назад

This is what we think not what we say. LOL I avoid talking to people unless I absolutely have to.

@eliftezer4848 2 года назад

I told you this, dont rush me. /these are very true for me.

@krishnapandya9 2 года назад

I love when you said nabula.... That's freakin interesting

@Neo-Midgar 9 месяцев назад

New Stars......I've literally been that person 😂

@darrenwalker2435 2 года назад

I have a book about that. Can I get that on a shirt? Of course, one can but that one line made me laugh.

@ChantelStays Год назад

Ive said all of this. ... Just mostly in my head.

@TheYangnyin 2 года назад

Guilty

@AbbeyHowe 2 года назад

hehe

@coldchillin8382 Месяц назад

As an ISTP 5w6 I assure you I rarely read the instructions

@julianizdebski5035 8 месяцев назад

although I don't know Anna Green Gables, I laughed in 5

@justinwhite2725 2 года назад

Thanks. I keep getting 'pushed' to be a 5, but I resonate more with 9 and this very much accentuates the differences. I have some of the traits you've shown here, but not as a whole.

@susanyi7816 2 года назад

9's get mistyped often as 5's, and not the other way around. I'd recommend looking at your integration and disintegration arrows. If you reckon you're likely a 9, look at type 3 as your integration point and type 6 as your disintegration. And the 9's I know tend to seek harmony and aren't prone to anger (or even much aware of that emotion) whereas a 5 is more naturally aware of their inner anger and frustration and can be provocative when pushed or at lower levels. My two cents on the matter and definitely not comprehensive on differentiating between 9's and 5's. I just wanted to share as a 5. Ain't no way I'm a 9.

@jessicaaat Год назад

Loved this video! As a Type 5 female, I felt very represented, lol.

@SterlingSimmons22 Год назад

Wow, this resonates so much

@renatalisha5157 Год назад

"been on a real sheep shearing kick lately" LOL

@AndreaS-kj4rb 2 года назад

After watching a funny Trixie Mattel's easy bake oven video, my 5 says: "I don't get entertained easily" in a flat voice

@CreativeOrange 2 года назад

I say all of these things

@Coolman13355 2 года назад

This 5 loves hugs and other touch. Though don't talk to me.

@SeaweedBeastboy Год назад

I remember watching a series of dwarf planets, sounds of each planets, astrophysicist explaining possibility of planet 9 in one day instead of doing my jobs just bc I’m curious about it and “Ew, people”? Everyday lol.

@victoriarichard3144 2 года назад

I love this, as a type 5 I related heavilyyy

@kellikakes81 2 года назад

I'm enneagram 9 but the very last minute or so, completely reminded me of myself! I used to get 5 on tests but when read descriptions, I'm like nah... lol.

@kurorein4721 2 месяца назад

I felt that.

@badpoetry33 Год назад

shit. I was so captivated by what she was saying about the new star cluster that I was annoyed it cut. lol. I feel so called out by this video. Once an editor asked me to write an article on a subject that merited several years of investigation. Here I am, 5 years later and still haven’t written it because I am still pondering this complex topic. A few others: “I KNOW.” (which I’ve been saying since I was about 5, he he). and the answer to every question: “Well, that depends…” (and have you got 45 minutes?)

@Mb-di8jd Год назад

Play relaxing spa music - on spot😂❤❤

@heathercerridwen7194 Год назад

Absolutely!!! Very validating 😊

@debmarrett212 2 года назад

Hubster, son, and sister are 5s. This is soooooo them!

@KaMi-gz1il 2 года назад

the hug thing is so strong in me. Even once a friend dared to ask if I was abused in my childhood because he was used to be too touchy and hug and I never let him do it. It was sad, imagine someone actually lived that, if the answer was yes, that would have been very awkward and hurtful for a victim of abuse. What a jerk.

@asspencil Год назад

I'm a 4 type with a 5 wing, and all of those were extremely relatable, which is already making me question if maybe I'm a type 5 with a wing 4 instead.. but.. I'm pretty much very emotional, and stuff. So yeah. Who knows.

@angelareyes1920 Год назад

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 this is like being in front of a mirror!!!

@lesleylisu5795 2 года назад

As a five, I made announcements to classmate that no one can find me during thanksgiving break so don’t try, you won’t.😂

@artsyanne1192 2 года назад

I’m a 4w5 and I could actually relate to a lot of this. Ew, people 😂

@nicknserenapawloski 10 месяцев назад

I'm a 4 with a 5 wing and this is so me.

@13thravenpurple94 2 года назад

Great work 🥳🥳🥳 Thank you 💜💜💜

@ashleyaberle5126 Год назад

It seems 5’s are always described as not liking people but I enjoy spending time with people, I just am going to need some quiet time built in as well and I’d rather not be in a big group. My friends that are 5’s are the same.

@henrikralf1582 2 года назад

It's literally me :D

@seanhart4251 Год назад

Sx 5 here... YEAH.

@warthogA10 7 месяцев назад

I dont know what this "5" thing is, but I've always been this way toward people/society as far as just wanting to be left alone, get uncomfortable with cuddling, hugging etc.. Ive always been interested in learning factual information and history, but never felt any desire to tell people about any of it, and have always preferred documentaries over slop from the entertainment industry (no interest in any of it) Also always liked reading, I dont watch tv. And never really need instructions unless it's something extremely difficult or has actual safety information and things related to proper maintenance. I don't like society and its very difficult for me to be out among it because I can't stand being surrounded by aholes and idiots, ignorant and inconsiderate people. And unless I actually find you to have interesting things to talk about I wont talk with or even listen to/hear anything you say, I literally block it out with my own thoughts as you're speaking.