The 9 SIGNS You've Found Your SOULMATE | Lewis Howes 

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l find Men and Women who are married are far more interesting, humorous, intelligent and all around fun to talk to. Especially if they have developed their spiritual component of mind, body and soul.

It's the Journey not the Destination. Life is between B and D....C= choices

@Beautiful diva if the foundation is built on love and moral values... it will last. There have been times he hasn’t cared or I put in 99% of the effort... but then situations many years later reverse with age. It’s a lot of work. You need to have a strong foundation of love, trust, and similar values. Otherwise - it’s doomed. There’s been times I wanted to leave and him as well. Only made us stronger.

@Beautiful diva not really marriage beans.. just more if recent values and culture placed more emphasis on a true marriage foundation and didn’t frown upon it

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Nice metaphor!

@Love One another maybe he doesn’t know how to get help. Nudge him in the right direction by getting him the number but let him make the phone call. Find a reputable therapist for him but let him make the appointment.

@Love One another I used to love alcohol then I gave up for health reasons. Now I love call.of duty mobile. It's much better to be addicted to games than alcohol. You can't play games while drinking because you're just do extremely badly. Play games a group activity. When he loses all the time he will want to give up drinking because he will want to win.

@Love One another I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Looks to me like he’s lost himself or forgot who he is. Aside from the pandemic is there anything else that tripped him up and made him want to go numb? I know you love him enough to want what’s best for your family. But maybe ask him what he thinks is best for him ? A vacation, maybe golf/a game or let his answer surprise you. Let him figure that out. If you’re doing all the asking then he’s not having to take any responsibility or initiative for coming up with a solution for his problem. Does he even think it’s a problem? Sending you prayers for strength and rapid recovery for your husband.

Your relationship is beautiful! Your message has inspired me to keep on trying. My guy and I are having a rough patch. He’s the man I’ll love til I die. Thank you!

Yep! Just like the Bible says love your neighbor like you love yourself. Problem is most people don’t properly love themselves or know how to

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Yessssss!!!!! You feel so fulfilled on your own which gives you this magnetic energy that attracts the right people

@VICC acc That makes no sense. We are all interconnected souls....including the people that are meant to come in our lives. You are your own unique person. You have no half.

@VICC acc I agree with that.

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You're so right! Your soul mate will match you. Also, it's like a wedding gift to your soul mate if you make yourself the best you can be and vice versa!

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I just had such a Aha moment. I thought I needed to heal because I wanted to come complete. Ty for this perspective.

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Same advice I've given my son, instead of focusing on searching for someone, or on what you do not have... yet, you'll change your life by changing your focus to a positive instead of a negative. Focus on getting ready for what you decide that you'll have one day, focus there and go ahead and have faith that your heart's desire will be coming. Then your perspective can change & you can take steps towards that happening & who YOU will be when that person comes into your life. Start getting more into all the things that excite & interest you & develop who you are, your skills, hobbies, fun things you like to do, friends. Have a life to share with her. At the very least it will build who you are and give you positive things to do, a positive mind set and energy, and give you a better life than if you sent the time sitting around looking at pictures of women, wondering why you aren't with one. ?Building the future you, who you want to be and enjoying your life will bring meaning into your life and also mean you'll draw a like person to you.

Not really, your soul mate wants to find someone who can help them grow. And vice versa. Otherwise your work is done here, if you’re not learning and growing, you’re teaching and showing. Most relationships fall into the previous.

@@rogerehughes I agree! The ability to learn and grow and to encourage someone to do the same is part of being awesome. When you have finally become "awesome" you have gotten to the point where you were able to learn and grow into awesomeness. However, part of that is the ability to continue that growth and learning and taking others with you to new heights.

@@KathyHussey063 Well spoken!!!

It should be because happiness starts within but shared experiences brings more love. But, sadly people invest more in nights out more than love. Start working on you first. Better dating means happier marriages because we master our confidence.

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Exactly: The Best Match is when each partner brings out the Best in his/her mate...

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I agree with it.i hope. I can find that.

Wow, amazing comment and idea. Thank you.

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Spot on with your steps to be free of any doubts

Of course it works, because if you follow this advice you'll take time to get to know yourself and figure out what you want. And you'll also take the time to get to know someone. That alone will cause you to sort out people who aren't good for you in the first place. And yes, narcissistic abuse can arise without showing itself from the start - I've been through that myself. But the more you know about yourself and about what you want, the better, because you'll notice narcissistic behaviour easier that way and you might be able to get away before it's getting worse. In my case, I dated one narcissist, and that was a life lesson. Since then, I met a few people who also showed similar behaviour, but the difference was that I didn't rush into the relationship or even into sleeping with them, so I was able to pull the safety line before things could get downhill again. Taking time is the best thing one can do in dating.

Yes plenty of information about narsissits On utube and the red flags so you don't go in too deep or avoid this type of person

@@Manullus so right there

Keep your standards and boundaries. Holding fast to your boundaries will cause the wrong men to fall away. Narcissists do not like boundaries. They will aways test and push the boundary. Once you see that a man does not care about your boundary, a healthy woman would lose interest. I am not attracted to a man who does not care about about the fact that he is making me feel uncomfortable by pushing or ignoring a boundary. This is one way to avoid a narc. Also, if he cannot hold accountability, if he deflects responsibility, cannot apologize, this is another sign.

@@Manullus went through a narcissistic 9 years marriage too and i know not every red flag u have to run from some can be fixed but i went through 1.5 years of therapy and its been 4 years and still see a few red flags and i get so scared i run...it was a painful divorce..dont even know if i ran from a good man.

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Yes! This was so insightful! It helped me see why so many men have wanted to keep me when I was younger... and why I got bored so often and so easily in those younger days 😔

Always trying to learn and remember so I can apply!

@@lewishowes Yes! And was there a specific video where you talked about the red thread of fate?

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Agreed Lewis is awesome! He has that child-like curiosity. It's so intriguing and fun to watch and listen to. Thanks Lewis!

👏🏼 Wish this information had been available when I was younger. Love the analogy of giving the code to the phone. So refreshing! Thank you!

For me, lust is shallow and empty. When you find true love, when clothes are off, you make love which is on a level that makes lust seem like a childish act. If a man cannot devote himself to the woman he loves, then he must grow up as a person and leave that relationship, and only until he is mature enough to be faithful, then never date for love.

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The sex is just the icing on the cake but without the cake you got nothing

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A big problem is the hoes with no moral compass dragging good men out of their marriages and destroying their homes

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He hasn’t found himself yet ♥️💕

Oh that is terrible. I can't imagine the suffering you must have felt.

Wow I am so sorry 😣 that is just awful I pray for your strength and healing ❤️‍🩹

So sorry your daughter had this horrific act happen to her 😭and for your pain and sorrow ❤️Sending you Love and may Peace enter your soul

So sorry for your loss💔Hope you will find peace🌈

@@florentinalaura7994 I have found peace.Thank you

Well said @kimberley Randolph

He was going to leave anyway TRUTH SPEAKS

Hopefully you'll meet the girl of your dreams. Life is so short. Then, it's a reality that never ends. 😎✌🏽

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this isn't going to happen, hookup culture is nowadays thing. it needs to change, but it won't.

@@WoodmanTiller if it’s a nowadays thing... it too shall past... it’s a self-control thing.

Devon said it succinctly, men throw good women away because of the fleshly desires. The death of a man begins with an appetite. Sex is great!.. but God didn't create it to be spread around to every dick and tom you meet.

Wow I just had an epiphany

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I feel this so deeply. Do you still feel the same about this person a year later? Have they come around?

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Prayer absolutely does work..Praying you both will realize how much you have to lose & value each other!

The fact that "humanize her" needs to be taught shows just how far our culture has fallen. Thanks to TV media sexualized movies dancing programming. Salacious and base movies like American Pie really planted evil in the minds of young men. Women are more than body parts...duh!!!!!!!

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It has to be repeated over and over again until everyone gets it. You can't expect decades of toxic masculinity that thought generations of men how they supposedly should be to disappear over night. From a man's point of view: this shit sits deeeeep in our culture and only recently we've started to question that bs. It will get better and it will change our society for the better, I'm sure - but like any change this will take time.

@@Manullus it has to be repeated over and over again: good people do good and treat others with basic humanity and bad people don't. But bad people will try to blame their behavior on everything and everyone except themselves so they don't have to take responsibility.

Because it is repeated ad nauseam. I would also ad: "How about treating men than more than an ATM with a pulse?"

@@pastexpiry2013B : Matt has said something else that's also common sense on that point: a woman who does that wasn't raised right and or has (wrongly) internalized that from the culture, or something else equally backwards. Guys shouldnt put up with that and date only women who are independent, self responsible adults who of course pay their share. But there's kind of that tradition culturally that the guy pays at least on the first date, but the woman can offer and AT LEAST pay the tip or her side. I had a relationship once where we struggled with what to do with that as it's nice to be treated to stuff. So we took turns planning dates and taking each other out and paying for it - unless it was clearly more pricey than normal and we'd both pay our share. One really stupid problem in society / culture though still, is the really old fashioned outdated idea / fantasy that if a woman is smart (much less) attractive enough, she can / should find a guy rich enough that if they marry, she doesn't even have to work if she doesn't want to and/or that would be a better lifestyle for the couple. And if the guy's interested and responsible enough, he'll earn enough to provide that and a high standard of living whether they have kids or not but definitely if they have kids so she can stay home and raise the kids. And to be honest, the "who's gonna ing to care for the kids" question is a real one in terms of staying home, and finances, etc. But that might be a weird / messed up disfunctionall kind of "ideal" women are supposed to have in looking for a mate that still persists. And really attractive women are almost always expected to have lots of choices in guys if all things are being equal, you equally like a bunch of interested guys, choose the guy you like who ALSO has the most money? That's an old perception / misperception to have as a dating goal too but that also still exists. There are a whole bunch of weird things like that but, basically, unless the guy clearly genuinely wants to (with no expectations or pressure to repay in kind in other ways) and really can definitely afford it, then the first few dates MIGHT be okay, but the tip should at the very least still be offered by the woman, and if there are any dates beyond the second and third, money needs to be discussed early on by the couple, like two grown, mature, responsible adults - who pays, what's fair, doable, what are the expectations, why etc. My personal opinion is that the most important thing materially is that whatever it is he has he wants to share it with his s.o. - is he generous or wants to be generous with his resources. But the woman shouldnt expect it or let him pay for everything - again pay your own share. And it's critically important for both parties to have their own livelihood and not be dependent on anyone else much less someone they're dating. I also think this applies to marriage (a good divorce is where both people end up materially not missing anything or worse off because they can both individually afford what they need and want). But in marriages with kids, the whole "who pays" thing can take on a very different, joint finances practical aspect, that has to be discussed and figured out by individual couples when theyre dating - if they're serious about each other as a souse or life partner or if they could be, what do they want and why, concerning who works, to have kids, to both work, stay home then go back to work, etc.

Anyone knows who the first one was?

Right. Thought the same a few times here and "knew" but apparently thought wrong because that blew up like a tornado 🌪️ lol

@VICC acc wow, that’s very beautifully said! 🙏❤️

@VICC acc you don't have a clue your friends are not your soulmate your family is your family. Other people can hurt you or take advantage of you. Just like this guy in this video he doesn't know he is actually clueless. He just believes he thinks he knows some secrets about women to sell a book.

Yeah - you might be attracted temporarily or on just a sexual level but then you don't have to act on it just because you are. If we sense someone's wrong for us long term, we should move on as soon as we're aware of that.

@VICC acc How is everyone our soul mate?

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Literally just dealt with this.. My ex had all the signs of a narcissist so I finally called him out on his lack of empathy and the way he had been invalidating my feelings.. I wasn't a bit surprised when he lashed out at me and broke things off. Do not be a doormat, don't compromise your boundaries, and NEVER let anyone tell you that you're too sensitive.

Oh wowwww..your right about it all and my x was a narc borderline personality and compulsive Lier and abuser...he broke my back and almost my neck....

@@lisacranmer8005 Because this has happened to me and it happened and I was with someone and that person was really psychopathic and controlling spying, pressurizing it was just that and taking privacy in your hands forever Person really narcissistic. today i am happy alone..

@@destineehiatt2016 We can get everything in our life but finding a true partner is probably very difficult in this life and it is difficult in this world to find a partner who does not control us, who does not spy on us, who controls our thoughts well. Show us the one who gives us love, with whom we feel safe, who gives us all our respect, and there are very few people in this world who behave so well who don't do such bad things. Together because in today's world man has become the enemy of man and this is the biggest problem in love, in friendship, in marriage, in marriage, no matter what the relationship is, but if your partner forces you. tries to control you tries to spy on you so I don't know the message says that partner is not from God but that partner in your life is from the devil

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