"This Is How To STOP Your Partner From CHEATING..." | Esther Perel

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@chrisdaevyns2297 4 года назад

I am in awe! The most hurtful thing about infidelity is the fact that finding out that the object of your affection has roamed doesn't mean that you stop loving them. In that sense of deep vulnerability, confusion and ache, you still love them and even though you may wish otherwise, YOU LOVE THEM STILL. It's devastating. It's infuriating and at times you're torn between giving up entirely and working on it. It's not right.

@appletile2887 3 года назад

You can't force someone to do anything or feel anything. The act the way they do not because of you necessarily, but because of trying to find a solution to one of the questions about themselves.

@kimgordon3695 3 года назад

It is an act of self betrayal .

@joanlynch5271 2 года назад

It devalues you, and that feeling never goes away!

@lisacranmer8005 2 года назад

@@appletile2887 They have insecurity ISSUES and self centered ways..

@SaystheTruth3 Год назад

@@lisacranmer8005 self-centered yes. From what my ex-husband told me, he felt amazing & revived again being in love with his ap.... I do agree that our relationship did became boring & stagnant... Nonetheless still hurts me.

@izymachado2934 3 года назад

Love when she said “you can live without sex but you can’t live without touch”. Touch can change the course of a relationship for sure, very powerful. ❤️

@kristenpecchi217 2 года назад

This goes out a man named John.

@gratitude5740 2 года назад

So, so true. My husband and I didn't have sex for 7 + years being in a loveless relationship. I didn't long for sex but it irked me that he would not even touch me . He would wrap himself in sheets so I wouldn't even accidentally touch him in my sleep. He would rather watch porn than have a personal time with me . I wasn't big on initiating sex but showed romantic side but not as ignored . Touch is so important. I remember the children in Romanian orphanages in 1990's . They were rocking to soothe themselves those who were picked up and played with, didn't rock and were developing much better than the children who were not payed attention.

@normastafford9716 9 месяцев назад

Why she remain married to him …if her needs of Love is not being reciprocated???

@normastafford9716 9 месяцев назад

Question ?? Was it not that men by Nature are promiscuous ???

@Maria-ip2xf 9 месяцев назад

Some of us have such a strong duty of care for the children and our families that what we need is hidden until a bigger crisis come or children grow up.

@annac5562 6 лет назад

I would pay any money, just to spend an hour talking with Esther. Every word of her is so powerful and valuable. I have never gotten so much essential information from anyone else in this world.

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@jelenazoric9300 4 года назад

Same here!!! I wonder how much $$ is an hour of chat with this woman?? Would gladly pay!

@jonyoung6405 4 года назад

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@indigoblue4791 4 года назад

Esther adds so much too life and the people's lives she touches. I watch everything she does and makes available to RU-vid. I appreciate the value Esther adds to my life and the clarity she brings.

@peo_peo 4 года назад

same. if i could have dinner with anyone in the world it'd be esther and dr. christopher ryan. i love both of their podcasts, and i've been watching esther's talks for a long time.

@theexpatdiary7399 3 года назад

Cheating isn’t about the lack of love, it’s the lack of RESPECT. The act of cheating is an action of dismissing whatever your partner may think, or may feel, or what he/she represents in your life. The lack of respect hurts more than the thought of the lack of love.

@ottodetroit 3 года назад

Exactly. Well.put

@lismarcel 3 года назад

Not necessarily. Sometimes it's an act of desperation because you don't know what else to do, the communication is failing, etc. Saying it's lack of respect is is oversimplifying a very complex issue

@Ryo8761 3 года назад

@@lismarcel Here's a thought, how about you get out of the relationship?

@ottodetroit 3 года назад

@@lismarcel it's cowardly first, excuses later. Which is typical.

@Raygilley10 3 года назад

And the desire of being wanted or loved , and to be important at the end of the day!

@lisakolkman1733 4 года назад

I sobbed while I watched this. The bit about what your friends can do. About re-establishing self worth. I had a friend who did this for me. It was beautiful. It saved me.

@MafferDragonhandEyed 3 года назад

Thank you so much for leading me to my best friend. He saved me

@Raygilley10 3 года назад

I learned from an old boss and it makes so much sense “ when’s the best time to tell your partner you love them? Before someone else does!”ut is what a person in a relationship always needs to know is that they are still alive and you desire them!

@fayegon1 4 года назад

Changed my attitude. Women should not be shamed into leaving a cheater. They have choices that only they will live. Be a friend.

@Catina28 6 лет назад

I love this woman... It's like she took all thoughts, added research, her unique perspective and shared it with the world.

@emokiriemiabednegoabed2844 4 года назад

@glennabohun4407 4 года назад

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@thehill8353 4 года назад

She's a man hating radical feminist who just uses a radical feminist like this as a weapon against men and hetero-sexual people

@joycehobbs3058 4 года назад

Emokiriemi Abedneg

@mr.chriscuellar203 4 года назад

Catina28 I like her as well

@Saboramii 3 года назад

Tears gently streaming down my face as she talks about the fears of trusting again.

@mariadam9157 3 года назад

oh me too

@rosariodimaio927 3 года назад

Ho poor dear come come things it will be better, ciao 😉

@ndandridge5816 3 года назад

I understand, and my relationship hit all 4 apocalypse smh

@hellor5890 2 года назад

Me too girl!

@lisacranmer8005 2 года назад

Be strong...It has not been easy..

@pradnyad.3931 5 лет назад

Infidelity shatters the great ambition of love ! Perfectly said !

@93denisechavez 6 лет назад

"The brain is the most powerful sexual organ" SO TRUE! Monogamy and fidelity start in the mind. If we entertain romantic and sexual thoughts about someone else than our spouse, these thoughts will influence our desires and make them stronger; thus, making it harder to resist temptations.

@frederickhoward5598 4 года назад

It becomes adultery and infedelity

@frederickhoward5598 4 года назад

Denise Chavez and the skin being the largest, which is why touch is very important

@BEAUTYnIQ 3 года назад

Iv said that for decades .. the largest sexual organ .. is the brain .

@Raygilley10 3 года назад

It’s says that in the Bible also

@HangNguyen-xg3on 4 года назад

" It takes effort for something to mean nothing"...very profound.

@ashleytanner06 3 года назад

Yes very

@Cali_Girl1 3 года назад

My Husband and I have been married 31 years, and I can personally attest to the truth of what Esther has said.

@sishasfaith 4 года назад

So I'm late watching this lol, but I was cheated on years ago and it was the most heartbreaking thing I ever went through... BUT!! I feel so grateful to be out of that relationship and I'm doing amazing and I'm grateful for the lessons, I've healed, and I've moved on to creating an amazing life... so there is hope for anyone going through heartbreak xo

@angieridpath4667 4 года назад

SARAH X FAITH I feel it literally breaks a person. Not only heartbreaking but it leaves you spiritless

@sishasfaith 4 года назад

Angelia Moore yes it does! But it teaches you a lot and you learn what you’re willing to tolerate and not xx for me it made me raise my standards xoxo

@MafferDragonhandEyed 3 года назад

Thank you I really needed this

@FishesAndLoaves997 3 года назад

@@sishasfaith I’ve had a long time to process his infidelities and I’ve learned to slowly let go of him. I decided to move on because I deserve love, loyalty & respect.

@camisnyder3460 2 года назад

Thanks Sarah!!! Your story gives me strength!!

@tedwhiting6192 Год назад

I have been cheated on in almost every relationship I’ve ever been in. I’ve cheated once and never will again. I felt so terrible afterwards that it ate me alive from the inside.

@V.Hansen. 10 месяцев назад

That’s the thing I never understand. How people can be so lacking in conscience so as to be able to enjoy it in any way. It’s gross.

@barcelona12ist 6 лет назад

I love how attentive and carefully Lewis is listening to Esther Perel..it's like he's sucking in and internalising all that wisdom she shares right there..forever a student and never stopping to be one..

@JoanneIonita 6 лет назад

Acknowledging the remorse and the guilt is essential. 100% agreed! After having proof and walking away from an abusive and addicted husband while he was still denying it happened with ZERO empathy was enough for me to realize it was the best decision I could have made.

@amasion2882 4 года назад

Joanne Bhaloo : I’ve had to make similar choices in relationships. I certainly grieved my losses but I never believed I did the wrong thing by walking away from dysfunction and abuse.

@Vindexter 4 года назад

That is strong - Courageous that you acted and valued yourself.

@lisacranmer8005 2 года назад

I agree...I have same type experience and the x family and my own kids went against me..

@meiyokechan5697 2 года назад

Its wise to walk old rather then to suffer mentality n emotionally and the pain till old age! Its their lost!

@leeboriack8054 4 года назад

Expecting my partner to fulfill all my needs is unfair as it is unrealistic. To me this paradigm sets up both partners for failure. Define your relationship's balance and yet again as circumstances change the balance.

@kris061000 5 лет назад

1:02:55 min "You judge people by their actions!"-great one.So true!Thank you Esther!

@ChocolateJewels 4 года назад

God, I love love love her! She has tremendous insight and wisdom. She made me look at my marriage of 21 yrs with new eyes. She’ll never know, but I will forever be grateful to her for this.

@rosemintz-urquhart1952 Год назад

Being alone is worse than not being satisfied sexually. But it should ideally be with someone you are attracted to and who you feel cares for you.

@rosemintz-urquhart1952 Год назад

That is if you are trying to keep a relationship going so one is not alone. Alone is so unhealthy and stressful.

@scottiemomma2314 3 года назад

My mind was just blown about every 5 minutes for the last hour of my life. She is incredibly insightful! Such great information for couples.

@juliecampbell8966 6 лет назад

Just wow...again Esther blows me away with her insight. Love her to bits

@thehill8353 4 года назад

You can tell he is gay just by his hands

@enochbrown8178 4 года назад

I love this lady. There's a lot of wisdom in this tiny lady. What a gift to all of us.

@cargorilla 2 года назад

“Incredidible gift to humanity” - stated so perfectly, she definitely has changed my life. I found her at just the right time.

@whodat6195 4 года назад

The friend can only take so much as well. My friend was always angry, hurt or sad. After years of listening to her, I couldn’t take it anymore. It was very painful for me to watch and listen to her over year since I’m an empathetic person. So, I did have to tell her for my well-being, that I don’t want to hear about the relationship with her husband anymore. We have so much more to share with each other such as kids, grandchildren, fashion, healthy living, spiritually and so forth. I know she’s angry because she’s avoiding me but I’m ok with that. Either we will survive this or we won’t. I don’t feel bad about what I said. I didn’t tell her to leave him or make any ultimatum about what she should do. I only said I don’t want to hear about it anymore for my peace of mind and well being.

@tarryant9825 4 года назад

Thank you for sharing, I have been in a similar situation with a friend and wasn't sure how to express that I really didn't want to to know anymore. It was hard but necessary for me.

@vettriley675 2 года назад

I hope your friend comes around, she’s hurt, but she has to know it wasn’t easy to tell her that.

@Alphacentauri819 4 месяца назад

You had every right to your boundary. That shows that you wouldn’t self abandon to be her emotional dumping ground. It’s one thing for a person to need someone to hear them about a tough time, or a few tough times…but when they outsource to you, to hold a container of the same sewage, again and again, that is an absolute abuse of the friendship. They are on a treadmill of the problem and not being solution oriented. The self sabotage and dragging you into it, is not ok. That is a lovely act for yourself and actually makes you a good friend to have, whether or not that friend you shared about will appreciate it. Friends are best when they will honestly (and kindly) call us out. If someone can’t take feedback, honor your boundaries, see how their behavior is disrespectful…maybe evaluating the friendship is a good idea

@kay_onutube9600 3 года назад

She is the first person on Social Media that actually addresses the core of things.

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@foreverzeta6578 4 года назад

This is one of the best colaberatios ive seen as an interviwer and intervie. He asked real simple questions . and she gave great useful answers. Enjoyed this very much!

@100roberto1 4 года назад

A great sharing of an mindset without any stereotype thinking! The world need more of such humans!!

@harleym9671 3 года назад

This has summarized it for me with a lot more context within the given hour, having listened to a lot more of her work. Thank you Esther for helping us make sense of something that is so hard to talk about. You continue to bring us better understanding that also allows us to manage our experiences. Thank you so much for this gift to humanity. May God continue to bless you with more wisdom and everything else your heart desires.

@Iam_ramankaur 2 года назад

I love how Esther touches our hearts with her words. She speaks with such calmness and clarity in her mind about everything. And thank you lewis for asking such great questions and helping us understand deeper about relationships.

@thomascortez6392 6 лет назад

When she said, “If you love someone set them free, if they love you they’ll come back.” I had to pause the video and hear it a second time that was deep!

@darkhaider14 6 лет назад

jacob cortez You realize this is an extremly old quote right ?

@GoldeneLYRA 6 лет назад

😂😂😂😂😂

@kaybee6050 6 лет назад

"If you love someone set them free. If they come back it means nobody else wanted them. Set them free again."

@CHAG1963 5 лет назад

Omg what year were you born?!?! 😂

@winstonsolipsist1741 4 года назад

When they come back, think of what STD's they are bringing with them.

@greeeneyes91 6 лет назад

She's just great. It seems like she just knows life's ways

@BreenyLee 5 лет назад

What she said about contempt was so important...

@alexs6250 2 года назад

yes. Once your partner is eye-rolling at you, it's far gone

@lisacranmer8005 2 года назад

@@alexs6250 what if they did it from very beginning?

@elenadamian2946 6 лет назад

Esther is amazing! Just ordered her new book yesterday and can't wait to read it.Thank you Lewis for all these great conversations.

@parme1241 6 лет назад

fellow Armenian ?

@izitzelcalderoncontreras4260 4 года назад

Lots of aspects to learn and apply, being more comprehensive, tolerant and loving

@t.t.6214 6 лет назад

Thank you Esther for confirming that my thoughts about intimacy are not crazy.

@mosesherdez1531 3 года назад

She is an angel. God bless you Esther. Thank you for being there, gorgeous human being.

@valch3513 6 лет назад

Thank you for inviting Esther again! It’s such a pleasure to see & hear her quiet and intelligent wisdom! Also, love the format: so informal and respectful altogether!

@TamarChante 6 лет назад

Another amazing conversation with Esther! Thank you! Her insightful & revelatory perspectives are endlessly fascinating.

@mlw2001 6 лет назад

Esther and Lewis! You are both BRILLIANT! Thoroughly enjoyed this and have shared with friends! Also downloading Esther's podcast at this moment! Thank you for sharing your wisdom!

@sandrafiorellamunoz9193 3 года назад

I just love and admire this woman! So much wisdom to share with us!!!

@comfortndukauba9277 6 лет назад

Honest truthful advise and wisdom lacking in the society even in the religious communities. I am learning a lot from this you Esther. Thank God for RU-vid.

@CathyMorgan-ir7rb 3 месяца назад

Thank you Lewis ... Ester is a beautiful soul ... Understanding is not saying it's ok , it's holding a place for the pain and healing ... I have a new outlook on relationship ... I love this lady ... She is one of a kind ... 😢❤

@lewishowes 3 месяца назад

🧡

@ziarennofficial4075 4 года назад

Thank you for this gift. Continue shining your light, you are helping a lot of people going thru this kind of challenge in their lives.

@Fifi.G76 4 года назад

Omg! this lady is amazing! 16:50 @ "Now you are going to take care of him, you are gonna be his nurse...? That is what we do though as humans, we make so many excuses for people who hurt us

@WittyOldHag 3 года назад

I love Lewis' face looking at her like a kid looking at his favourite teacher, like "I'm learning, I'm paying all my attention, please keep talking and illuminating me" XD

@void8881 3 года назад

Really? I can see him having inner dialog and already thinking about questions. Not actively listening. 🤷‍♀️

@Lovelyfairyheart 2 года назад

Every word that comes out of mouth is gold. She is the real deal.

@lewishowes 2 года назад

👍

@saromaliga5937 3 года назад

Yes, if you don’t get bored you will stay forever. I have seen couples still in so in love after 25 years

@Veronica-tk9rl 3 года назад

I've also seen couples who have been seemingly happy for 25 years and it comes out in family gossip that the husband had paid prostitutes. it's not always what it seems unfortunately. Sometimes it is, but sometimes it's not. People hide their dirty laundry.

@saromaliga5937 3 года назад

Agree!

@bekind3050 11 месяцев назад

@@Veronica-tk9rlsometimes they stay because it's more convenient than divorce 😢

@kimgordon3695 4 года назад

The definition of greatness... 🎬 is the being able to be Humble

@kimgordon3695 4 года назад

Affection, Warmth, Vibrancy = LOVE

@alexisbecker5674 6 лет назад

She is a REVOLUTIONARY !! I love this woman.

@jasonarnold3121 4 года назад

I don't think though most people would be honest. You always meet the representatives when you'r dating someone, their not going to come out and just say "oh yeah....I ghosted someone" or "I cheated on my last relationship". I find it hard to enter mix theories with real world experiences. People aren't going to be honest often we find out by default about the person and what they believe through their actions. Actions speak louder than world.

@thafmsnasty 2 года назад

💯! Thank you Esther. I acknowledge all the things you’ve said. I’m hoping my wife will watch this and have a better understanding of what’s happening with us. I don’t want to leave her, but I am willing to do so for my own happiness, but I truly want us both happy. I will listen and apply the knowledge. Thank You🙏

@Fuentes2722 4 года назад

Thanks for breaking down this complicated subject with masterful insight, knowledge, and wisdom. So helpful to have clarification when getting to know these somewhat taboo and often scary conversations about love, commitment, relationship and vulnerability. Your self confidence makes this research and study you have done way more available and accessible. These concepts clarified need to be a part of early education in learning to know and understand ourselves, which is where many problems can arise, if we have not been brought up in an environment that is open and allowing honesty to flourish. Bravo, and Thank you!

@dilanwijeratne2247 3 года назад

I love this lady very much ...She talks very openly ..and she is sharing her thoughts with the world ..

@annickkabeya3362 6 лет назад

I wish she had a podcast. Brilliant woman

@WhatTheSeaWhispered 6 лет назад

Annick Kabeya she does! It's on audible 😊 I think it's called Where Should We Begin

@weamhanna3016 6 лет назад

also on podcast

@train3597 6 лет назад

Yes, that is correct! Its called "where should we begin"

@snowqtee 4 года назад

I appreciate this video so so much and you have no idea..I’ve been married for 23 years and had a wonderful marriage and both sides of our families are all so very close and a year and a half ago my husband cheated on me with one of his employees and it devastating to say the least..I’ve kept everything a secret except for his family,because he left to live with his cousin and eventually his whole family found out..Long story short we are slowly starting over ..I couldn’t stop crying watching this video,but it was amazing to watch..xoxo

@tortillaguy03 3 года назад

Tyson a rasiut

@camisnyder3460 2 года назад

Stay strong Sophia, my prayers are for you!! I pray your marriage will heal and you and your husband will connect in a way that will be better than ever!! God bless you.

@jamaarbarkley4247 2 года назад

I love her analysis on men, women and relationships.

@caranbramlette 5 лет назад

Always leave her talks enlightened. Thank you Esther! And thank you Lewis for having her on again. You are doing great things Lewis. :)

@csstudio3648 4 года назад

Wonderful interview. So much wisdom and insight, learned so much. Great energy between you. Thanks!

@albertoluevano7174 6 лет назад

Wow good stuff! To me this resembles practicality and Intuition with yourself.

@gracedoherty8781 6 лет назад

Again I love this woman . I have seen her Ted talks and how she covers this topic is amazing

@gracedoherty8781 6 лет назад

Yes I have subscribed. I am just watching the older videos.

@dianarodriguez6026 3 года назад

THANK YOU for bringing such quality guests with unique insights ❤

@cgman7325 3 года назад

She is simply brilliant. I am so addicted listening to her.

@sandykl Год назад

Always great talk with her. I’ve watched so many of her talks and interviews and the BEST part is that she is authentic and in the moment. Others repeat a script at every interview l, every conference.. nothing new or real in the moment. Esther is so raw. And Lewis, you always ask such profound questions that we all have that we don’t ask! Thank you for asking them. And lastly, the last question and answers brought me to tears. 🙏🏼💙

@lewishowes Год назад

You're welcome, thank you for being here 🧡

@moldyer7551 5 лет назад

I could just listen to her talk for hours on end i swear shes so great

@kimgordon3695 4 года назад

Esther Perel changed my Life 🎉

@elvansavkli3806 6 лет назад

She is amazing. Like how truthful she is and she has great observations .

@elvansavkli3806 6 лет назад

When I listen her interviews or read her book , I enjoy them because they are not relationship issues only between men and women .She has great knowledge of different cultures . I like her observations about people all around the world.

@swatirenapurkar2675 6 лет назад

Esther u definately changed my life...

@sherapontaoe3214 3 года назад

She is beyond amazing.

@LifeGetsMossySomethymes 5 лет назад

Every struggling first marriage that really hears this, will be reminded of what Love is, and build it up instead of tear it down. Wisdom!

@irenec6214 4 года назад

Esther, you are so right. I agree with everything you said.

@m_mallz7781 4 года назад

This is so enlightening! It has opened my mind to my relationship

@GeenaAntunovic 4 года назад

Wow... Thank you Lewis and Esther for sharing your knowledge and light with us.

@YuyiLeal 6 лет назад

Such a smart lady! Brilliant really!... Thank you so much for bringing her back to your channel, Lewis!!! :) ...Btw, great questions and comments on your part! :)

@hannahjeweleagle65 6 лет назад

Thank you so much, this is absolute gold for me

@anastasiyapilipas9631 6 лет назад

Amazing interview! Till now the best video online with this genius.

@rosemundyee6863 2 года назад

Esther, she is amazing, she hits it all on the nail. Enjoy listening to her.

@QuantumVariant 6 лет назад

Great show Lewis. I was just listening to Esther on Tony Robbins podcast last night. So much great information that we all can do to help have a more love filled and honest life. Thanks again

@mabeltejeda3959 4 года назад

I feel very enlightened after watching and listening. Thank you 😊

@SingingPupRecords 4 года назад

This is so huge. My husband destroyed our entire life that included 5 combined children, caring for 3 parents as they aged and died (2 were his), our home, our dog, 3 cats, extended family, friends, 14 years of profound love-making and shared dreams because of the very poor way I handled things during a difficult time for us where growth was trying to happen. He ran into the arms of another woman blaming me the whole way even as I begged for the healing of our love and our life. God bless Esther for challenging the "capital punishment" handling of this subject and calling for BOTH members of a couple to examine what is really happening when there is a breach of trust.

@cathyandresiak1975 3 года назад

Yeah, one wrong move and he runs to someone else, he will do the same thing to the next one, obviously there is much he does not understand about relationships. Hope healing was in the cards for you.

@maryann7257 3 года назад

Judge people by their action is absolutely true

@verlynwilliams296 3 года назад

This is soooooo good!!! I could listen to this wise woman for days.

@valerielosco4378 2 года назад

Listening to Ester Perel has been a life changer for me.

@FoodShowFan 4 года назад

Lewis, kudos to you for bringing such non-discussed topics and concepts to your channel. You're opening so many eyes to the possibility of other realities, that they never thought of before ❤️

@angelinameza5309 3 года назад

Amazing way to explain this subject , love it ❤️ 👌

@nedthumberland 5 лет назад

Thank you for interviewing this great mind. Her candor is very healing and inspiring, and so is her insight and wisdom.

@nedthumberland 5 лет назад

I have. Thank you for allowing the interviewees to share their wisdom without unnecessary interruption. Very often, being a great listener makes a great interviewer.

@k.kuzziah6384 4 года назад

What an incredible woman.

@charlotteelizabethdalzells506 4 года назад

I love this 💕 amazing work. Thank you both 🥰

@kt5ts 6 лет назад

If I am speaking at a conference, I would hate to be the speaker right after her. It would be hard to outshine her!

@kindgurly1 6 лет назад

She is so eloquent. Amazing woman.

@MoneyWithKazeem 4 года назад

I love her podcast. I hear my stories in the couples

@dineyzane6547 6 лет назад

THANK YOU Lewis for bringing her back to your studio. Esther makes us think outside the box, she has challenge me to "rethink infidelity" for sure. Navigating through a very painful time in life and trying to figure out what to do with it all... Just started listening to the new book, amazing and powerful, just like her first book. Thank you for all you do!

@middleearth8809 5 лет назад

Very wise woman. Enjoyed listening to her.

@paradiseheaven 6 лет назад

Soooo goood. So much wisdom

@ianpabayos 6 лет назад

I have to say such a great advice in general. Actually words are understatement. But everything she said was like how my life right now is experiencing. Thank you for this Ester! Much respect and more power to you!!!!

@saartjes7217 3 года назад

Wonderful explanation! Thank you both for this wothfull inlightmemt, This is all true about all the different senses that we have to give to one relationship. This crisis of identity unpowered us...so thank you to you both