These steps happen naturally and trust me, if you are really for that man, you won't do any efforts to achieve these because fate will make these things happen. 💜
You're great Elliott! LOVE your hair like this 😍 Glad I found you and I'm learning so much from you even though I've listened to so many other "love coaches". You break it down in such a real life and easy to understand way. I'm just starting to date again after quite a while so you're helping me to remember to pull back FIRST... after about a week or so. That's been my last issue that I seem to always forget.
You are literally my favourite dating coach ever. I’ve learned so much from watching your videos and it got to the point where I'm starting to tell my friends to follow you. Thank you so much. Love ya.
omg your hair looks gorgeous elliot! finally a haircut;) perhaps with money from me buying your value guide hehe. i did however lack more exemples as to what to say :)
@scott sanger Nope. Very very very very complicated. Sure, sex and beer and sports yeah but relationships nope long the song hot and then cold. Complicated. Don't know what they want, can't commit.
The stage 5 exist in the US, not in France for sure and I think for UK too. There isn't this explicit need to say yeah we're a couple. Once you act like a couple (dating + kisses + threading), you're a couple.
How do you create these stages with a long distance relationship? Things need to move a bit faster as you are together more when you visit and together not at all when apart.?? thanks!
Elliot I'm sorry it's hard to hear what you're saying with this new look. 👏🏾 You look AMAZING! I've been watching your videos for several months and never had a problem with your hair but this new look suits you well. But you did make a lot of great points. I'm trying to figure something out and would love your advice. How do I do that?
I just wanted to take a moment to appreciate your videos and appreciate you they have helped a lot seriously thanks! You're like my favorite person right now😊
This was shockingly helpful. I've been a stage ahead of the guy I'm dating. I think I need to back off and calm the eff down (we're at the semi-serious stage, but I've been trying like an mf to thread and couple...dating for 7 months). Thanks.
As a gay guy I can honestly relate to these points. I guess I have some feminine instincts (not physical behaviour) myself, cause sometimes I rush too much into relationships. Thanks for this video.
Elliot Scott- Hi, I have been following your channel for over a year now and I only have one question. How do you know when you have gone from the "Threading stage to the Couple (exclusive) stage? Does this transition always have to be verbalized and confirmed by either/or both parties and/or are there specific signs and symptoms that make these two stages distinctly different? Im also wondering, if you have an existing video on this topic already. If, not is it possible for you to make one addressing it soon?! Thanks and much love to you! 😘 xoxo
Hi Elliot! Thanks for this video! I have a question, before you become a couple at step 5, do you still date and see other people to keep your options open at steps 1 - 4?
Thanks Elliot for your videos. Can you make a video about guys who commit too quickly? I have met guys who would propose marriage within 1 month or try to be exclusive after one or two dates. In your opinion, is love at first sight real or fantasy? I have read stories about people knowing "the one" when they first lay eyes on them. From my experience, not all of those guys who attached to me quickly are liars but are they abnormal?
Hey Elliot Scott 👋🏻 man, dude, please make a video on how to actually draw a man in. I know you have vids on value, red flags and such. But, when it come to real attraction, that's kinda unclear. Talk about how to be flirty, eye contact, body language, verbal language. In a man's POV, what is it that actually draws a man in and piques his interest. What is sexy vs slutty...stuff like that. 😅
Connie P. Yes! You're absolutely right. I guess I just get a little confused bc I feel that I'm a confident person, I have worked on me, definitely lol. I'm smart and funny and I think I'm pretty and I get a long well with all sorts of people. Yet, can't seem to catch a guys' mutual interest. There's something missing and I just can't seem to figure out why I have such ... poor outcomes with the gentleman. Lol
Wait. 'dat haircut, though! Sexy! Thanks for all of these videos. I watch them while I work and get my dating education. Thinking of a one-on-one phone session soon. Every man I meet comes on VERY strong, fades and ghosts and I could use some serious feedback.
wow if you read my last comment, this is exactly the order our connection developed from..we did all of this in a month.. naturally & then it stopped at semi serious & threading.. where he did the no call no show
Jblasian8 same happened to me 2 weeks ago-after 2 months.. coming to terms with that at the moment.. the worst is when they won't let you know they're not interested anymore.
Latinas you can date for three months and you think you’re the threading stage but she is in the courtship still ;) they always have other dudes they talking to!! Cultural
Okay...what if he does this: 1) threading (meeting his friends and being introduced to them) 2) tells me he wants to go explore the city with me (hasn’t done it yet bc of his job where he travels almost ever week) 3) barely texting me, but will respond less than 30 min when I text how his week is going, but won’t really ask much about me unless in person. 4) when we do hang out, it’s amazing but I get nervous, and I sense him nervous as well. Basically-he pursued me and I fell for him and now I’m trying to pursue him. I don’t text him first anymore but scared he will think I’ve moved on. I can tell he’s shy and not a “player” type. But I feel stuck. He’s so romantic in person but I wish he could just text me and ask me on more dates. 😕
Svetlana Paidulova An almost exact situation I’m going through also.. Communicate to him on what you want, you will see if he either cares to try and make it work or not. Be patient and give the relationship time to unfold naturally.
Omg sameee I spoke to him and said that I’d fallen for him but he’s determined to not date after his last relationship, he got super heart broken when I said that I didn’t want to talk to him anymore after a formal a week later that we are supposed to go to and then the next time we met he said that he does not want to have sex anymore so we can be platonic friends coz now apparently he thinks that our sex was romantic and special and we had romantic chemistry but even then he doesn’t like me that way?!?!?! I’m so effing confused
Omg sameee I spoke to him and said that I’d fallen for him but he’s determined to not date after his last relationship, he got super heart broken when I said that I didn’t want to talk to him anymore after a formal a week later that we are supposed to go to and then the next time we met he said that he does not want to have sex anymore so we can be platonic friends coz now apparently he thinks that our sex was romantic and special and we had romantic chemistry but even then he doesn’t like me that way?!?!?! I’m so effing confused
Omg sameee I spoke to him and said that I’d fallen for him but he’s determined to not date after his last relationship, he got super heart broken when I said that I didn’t want to talk to him anymore after a formal a week later that we are supposed to go to and then the next time we met he said that he does not want to have sex anymore so we can be platonic friends coz now apparently he thinks that our sex was romantic and special and we had romantic chemistry but even then he doesn’t like me that way?!?!?! I’m so effing confused
What if you jumped right into a relationship 5 .. we met 5 months but stopped talking after a week. He DM me and asked me on a date then asked me to be his girlfriend. After 2 months he told me he loved me. I’ve never been in this type of situation. I’ve been to his ball games met his brother but not his kids yet.. he said he wants to marry me.
Do a video on guy friends who flirt with you nonstop. I'm 15 and my guy friend and i act just like a coupe but he claims he doesn't like me even though he calls me at 1am and even tells me loves me? He sings to me. He takes trains to see me, he bought me a concert ticket to my fav band to surprise me, he invites me to his dads farm during the summer even though his other friends are begging to go. I need help plzzz :( Anyone answer and help, d you think he likes me?
Elliot I need your help please !!😫 What does it mean when a guy asks you NOOO personal questions .. It’s been a month he sleeps over ( I haven’t given up my cookie, cause I’m my eyes he hasn’t earned it) so we just cuddle kiss a little bit. He doesn’t force anything at all We arch tv .. but we have no conversation to me .. we play fight I get tough with him but that’s about it .. I ask him personally questions and he has opened up a little bit more . But when I talk he barley seems interested . I don’t text him throughout the day I do need my space.. I don’t know what to do In the past I always cut guys off instantly , my standards are a little high but I’m trying to work on that and in this situation Idk if I should cut him off or what
Kendra N - RUN! You answered your own question when you said he "BARELY SHOWS INTEREST" in what you're saying. He's taking up your time and keeping you from meeting other men.
That's actually a good question. My ex of almost 5 years couldn't grasp my road to veggies. I had to tell him over and over again that we could buy whatever and I would just eat the sides. It was my lifestyle choice, not his. I reminded him over and over again.
I’ve never experienced any of this with a man. It’s all new to me. Also if within the first meeting of a guy he refers to you as just a friend. Does that mean that their not attracted to the woman?
