Love 100% exists, it's companionship that is scarcely seen in a positive light. Think about it, you have love for your family, you have love for your kid (if you have one), you have love for yourself I hope. Companionship is just a challenge a lot of the time. Past that, I'm here on this video just like you so I don't know the solution for finding real companionship.
'why are we waiting for them to set us free' thank you for your beautiful work Susan!🥰 Everything you said in this video hit everything that I have allowed to happen in my life...
For a long time I’ve avoided surfing because my ex was part of that “scene”. Once I decided to give it a try anyways he is SCRAMBLING because I am getting a lot of attention from other men now which includes some of his “friendships”. I never thought I would get over him and this is comming from someone who considered him a twin flame lol 🤣
Just catching this. Absolutely love your perspective on "Mirroring". I think it would make a great video to talk about how Mirroring is not necessarily a reflection of you when dealing with a bad behavior person, but they being attacked to your light of pure love and they are incapable of having that.
If what you say about being in a continual state of rejection is true, then I've been in that state pretty much ever since I started being attracted to boys in the first place. I experienced a lot of rejection as a child too, so it makes sense that there's a part of me that's drawn to that, as dysfunctional as it is. I'm still trying to figure out how to heal and get myself out of that loop.
@@juanadrianrobaina5763 Yes it is better to hear the truth because if they just ignore you then you spend weeks if not months or even years wondering why? And then you end up tempted to message them a bunch of times which makes you look crazy when they are the ones who are crazy for acting like they are into to you then just ignoring you and then when they do reply tell you to get the hint and us the fact that you messaged them a bunch of times against you trying to make you the bad person. it really messes a person's mental state up bad and cause trauma.
I'm trying to get over someone i never met but only talked to everyday for 6 weeks. He was then diagnosed with a brain tumor and after the surgery he no longer wanted to have anything at all to do with me. So, I'm left wondering if it's because of his condition and he feels as though he's not enough for me now, or did the tumor affect his actual way of feeling and thinking. Whatever it is, I'm left with feelings of unrequited love that won't go away. I know most people will say it's impossible to love someone you never met but i truly loved him.
@@NWWood17 i actually do understand what you're talking about. Trying to understand another person's thought process is not possible. Especially when you don't know anything about what's going on in their life. I'm doing everything I can do to help myself realize that it just wasn't meant to be and that there's someone else out there that will be a better match. But at my age i sincerely doubt that there will ever be someone else and that's okay too. I've had a great life and several great loves.
I have a suggestion for a video. How to deal with a partner with mental illness. For example, my bf suffers from mental illness mainly due to his work that drains him from all energy and joy in life. We have not been together more than 2 years and for the most part, he has not been his best self at all. I feel that this is taking a big toll on our relationship. I dont know how long I will be able to cope with this. I do not want to break up due to this either, but his mental state has a big negative effect on me and us. What to do?
What if other people see the same thing i see. For a little context, she is married, ive been in love with her since our teenage years, im 38 btw. Ive seen so many signs that she legitimately loves me too. I know she chose him so im having to control my emotions. She doesnt know im still on the leash of my emotions. Other people have told me they see that she is in love with me but im just sitting and watching another man have everything i want..the worst part is im now good friends with him so i definitely have to back up..its just hard to shake this feeling.
I wrote to you expressing how i was pleased that you were doing a segment on this, but it didn't post. Iwas wondering why men surf for other women online, then dump you when they have someone who took the bait, once they get caught. What's up with that?
Each man has his own reason. But generally speaking, they were never committed to begin with, and we’re always in the process of continually looking for someone “easier” to manage.
Do I want a change- you betcha- been in friend zone - long time- this was destined- at this age set aside my Emotions and Feelings. I have to except what it is. Loner- F.W.B. NON COMMITTED.
