Watch as Judge Destroys Excuses in an Epic Take Down! 

he's more than just a red flag. he's a tour of the factory that _makes_ the red flags. what a mess. the fact that he cried when a cop told him to cut it out doesn't make him more sympathetic to me.

Completely typical though

A LOT of these military men are narcissists.

Agree with the first part, she should have given him the full four years. We will be hearing about him soon after he gets out.

@@sharbymjyeah, she's got a soft spot for veterans.

You spelled "women" wrong.

Another nut sent up the river!

@@AllisonAlliAl Your comment is so awkwardly worded that some people will think you are somehow supporting them and blaming all those evil women for his testeria. Let's take the extra second to clarify that you meant he is a danger to ALL women. Otherwise the next nutcase reading this thinks you are one of his bros.

@cherylyates9845 yes I guess to clarify I meant you spelled "women" wrong - it's not "his ex"

​@@AllisonAlliAl Okay. But the word 'women' was not in the comment you replied to so, logically it could not have been misspelled. You need a refund on your bot.

Agreed!

I have no way of knowing, other than suspicion, but I think that he was probably Reserve, and may have had a deployment or two.

@@Arthur5260yes he was deployed. PTSD is real but it does give someone an excuse to make other peoples lives a misery. It’s not an excuse to be a vile, violent law breaking person.

@@hoptoit5910 Unfortunately, I absolutely know PTSD is real. So many seem to jump on it as an excuse for bad behavior. It takes away from those that are suffering from it. We are losing too many every day for it to be denigrated into a 'get out of jail free card.' Peace to those that truly have to deal w/ it everyday. (and their loved ones)

If I had been judge boyd, I would have said "you have the discipline that comes with taking orders and following them for 28 years, yet you cannot follow a simple court order to stay away from someone, repeatedly?" That would have spoke volumes to a guy like that.

Great point!

His criminal record *alone* should have excluded him from any state/government job and any other job that requires integrity.

Fraud

His 90% rating may not be all for ptsd. He may have others, and together with those, add up to the 90. He did state he was stationed in Bagram with the Air Force. Although in a war zone, it's one of the safer places in Afghanistan due to its size and security measures in place.

@@erica8165 yes, I picked up on that too! I would've loved to have been at Bagram. That's where people would go when they got short leave.

He gives his victims PTSD.

Sounds like even his family wants nothing to do with him. He has no self control.

@@jenniferbraun7269 EXACTLY!!!!!

@@Arthur5260- I second your EXACTLY!! 😊

Not necessarily an “excuse” but at 90% (if true) he can have severe delusions of grandeur and hallucinations. (I.e. voice recorders could be controlling or he doesn’t realize he is having a psychotic episode). Not all but some experience these symptoms. If not regulated with medications, he can have secondary psychosis as a result of severe PTSD. However, with a felony, he should have and continue to be hospitalized and this case should be sent to mental health court to determine if he is ever safe to return to the public.

Well, that's a legit point.

I guess you would be one to think it's OK for the man to work 2 jobs and have to come home and cook, clean, take care of the kids. So the old ball and chain can continue to lay around like a slob, eating bon-bons and plump up to 300-350-400 lbs???

@merlynshandley6337 none of that was remotely part of this case. But sure, come up with some wild excuse as to why this guy isn't dangerous. You probably reacted to him leaving chocolates at her door when she had a PPO against him like "awww that's romantic!"

Pretty ridiculous. He's the tough guy vet. that's been through the S., only to be defeated by lack of cooking and cleaning! I'm surprised there wasn't a claim of the bed not being made up to specifications each day.

@@RuminatingWizard Is it, if she is working a full-time job and has to come home to you, who spent the day stroking his neckbeard and other bits, while you were ruminating?

Yep,it's everyone else's fault

you can tell he doesn't pay attention in therapy because all he heard was "ptsd." he's genuinely confused when just throwing it out there like a ninja star didn't get rid of the court case.

He sure didn't see that coming. I love Judge Boyd ❤

100% he wasn’t expecting prison time. I think he might have s*** himself at that moment.

@@bobbiec2829and yes, Judge Boyd is a one in a million. She’s amazing ❤

Things he expected her to do cause his mama did that. Misonogy.

Your a wus !! Take the trash out cut the grass, your wife does the house work . Period!,

Well that depends. If she worked outside the home I agree. If he worked outside the home and she stayed home it’s her job to maintain the home and prepare meals. Women who expect their hardworking husbands to come home from work to cook and clean are lazy women who don’t appreciate their man.

@@CDKVwhen you were a kid, you had to do chores even though you were in school eight hours a day and had to take school home with you. why should a grown man who _doesn't_ have homework be any different? it's not 1950 anymore. you can get your own slippers and pour your own martini, mr. cleaver.

Especially since (as I'm sure Judge Boyd knows), his background as a LEO makes him statistically MORE likely to commit domestic violence, not less as he's trying to imply. LEOs are trained in coercive control techniques as the most effective & efficient mode of problem solving, then given wide discretion to use those techniques as an integral part of their job. The culture of law enforcement also constantly reinforces an "us vs. them" mindset which further implants the view that power/dominance/control are properly in the domain of the, "good guys," i.e. the police. Mix all that together with an increased risk of substance abuse, toxic masculinity + a code of silence, and it shouldn't come as a surprise that the more narcissistic LEOs may end up allowing those techniques & the associated mindset to spill into their private lives.

It sounded more like a job interview than anything

Have you ever been to prison???

@@goreyfantod5213 Excellent comment!

Sadly it appeared to work though, since Judge Boyd said the reason she shaved a year off of his sentence was because of his "service". I just don't understand the mentality that having any kind of military history automatically confers positive moral value on someone

Damn, really? This dude is scary 😳

Where did you find his arrest video?

Id be checking my ENTIRE house for hidden cameras and mics....and then checking again!

@@raerae6422 and a third time as well.

Which is clear in his testimony. Every single detail he reframes to make himself look better and everyone else look bad

i think we all need to knock it off with diagnosing jerks with narcissism. for one, we're not his therapists (thank god); for two, plenty of experts disagree on whether or not it _should_ be considered a disorder in and of itself; and for three, it excuses his behavior. of course he does these things, he's got Crazy Asshole Disease! he can't help it! he's broken! you see what i'm saying? he doesn't have a sense of grandiosity. he just feels comfortable in victimhood and uses it to exact power and control over women.

She always has the loveliest flowers.

The look on his face when he heard three years!

​@@Lorjarcait was priceless.

yes, I really think he did.

he sure did. it's clearly worked for him in the past.

That isn't a bad idea.

Hell naw 💯

right? if you seek power and control over your partner, you do not respect them. and you fundamentally cannot love a person you don't respect.

sure, but does that explain his long pattern of stalking women? i'm not clear on how trauma from seeing action translates to terrorizing his exes. he's clearly seeking control and power. i can also tell he doesn't pay attention in therapy because he doesn't even use the term correctly or with any context. it's like he checked out after the therapist said "ptsd has left its fingerprints all over this" and is confused that throwing that term out didn't dissolve the charges against him.

oh, he knows. he understands. it's about terrorizing her. he likes to exact power and control over women specifically. imagine a 15-year-old doing this. camping out across the street, calling his ex at work until she gets fired, slashing her tires repeatedly, stashing recording devices at her place to spy on her. you wouldn't be like, "bradley, we need to have a talk about how to deal with rejection :(" about it lol

It's a rough disorder to have, not a reason for bad behavior. Not everyone with ptsd uses it as an excuse. It's a confusing and terrifying condition to have before you know what's wrong with your head. I got it from trying to help a dude who was in a bad condition. Panic attacks out of nowhere and extremely emotional responses to what would seem to a reasonable person (and even myself) to be minor issues. Emotions that just happen to you before you even know what's happening or where they're coming from. Like, "why does this verbal tick my boss does make me furious? It's no big deal, but my gut feeling is rage." Or yay, night Terrors. Sorry, just please don't start thinking ptsd is made up, or something that somebody would choose to have.

False. This is just one guy trying to use PTSD as an excuse. Millions of others don't.

When she says she’s “internalized everything that’s been said” only seconds after it’s been said… that’s one of her tells

I think I have seen her sip when she is about to hear (what she knows will be) lame excuses from the defendant. I think it is like when most of us try to hide a snicker...imo, I think she takes a sip.

I think I have seen her sip when she is about to hear (what she knows will be) lame excuses from the defendant. I think it is like when most of us try to hide a snicker...imo, I think she takes a sip.

True and a nasty piece of work. He just threw his ex wife under the bus…..yet he tries to get back with a woman who hates his guts… He is a sociopath focused on control and power over his ex wife. He is so dangerous…..

*Airman

Tbh they need to ask no questions after the fire Judge Boyd lit under his a$$….

As someone with PTSD and who works with clients who have it, it is only legitimate if you cannot distinguish right from wrong or are having a psychotic episode (in psychosis) which is not very common at all. A veteran having a severe episode may believe they are in a war zone and see and hear things and hurt someone as a result. Very different. This man took deliberate steps and actions to stalk. Not the same at all!

Sure did look that way!

No shit. It’s the excuse of the day

It makes it hard for those of us that have been diagnosed for 30+ years be dismissed.

If that's not a hyperbolic perspective, then perhaps you might benefit from learning about Americans from a wider selection of sources than court videos. There's a heavy selection bias to the samples presented.

@@CatFish107 Last resort, say you have PTSD, anxiety and/or depression. Works every time.

They do…. but coping with those things is a task of an adult. therapy, medication, and self awareness. he has no self awareness. none. and he is a monster.

I wondered why the attorney kept going back to that. So what, he cried.