What Is Extraverted Sensing (Se)? | Cognitive Functions | CS Joseph 

@Thomas Armstrong Pretty sure 4th slot Se because the inferior is a higher function than nemesis.

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Si demon means never caring about anything that happened. Given a long enough time span, it becomes utterly meaningless. :-)

I think Si is about personal experience about what has happened to the individual while Se is about other people's experience or external surrounding + giving sensory output to change their external surrounding based onwhat their desire is(Ni).Imo,Se user learn best from other people's experience+consequences of their actions in the moment and they are often visual learner so watch other people's teaching about a particular subject that you like or you want to know (Ni+Se) so that you can retain it longer.Si user often can study on their own because they usually remember a lot about what they have done during the day + if they have someone teaching them something they will think that's their duty to remember it.

I second that absoulutely. -INTP

"Ignorant" is a word used by stupid people to bitch.

“You have no right to an opinion. You have the right to an informed opinion. No one has the right to be ignorant. " - one guy on internet

Wow I just read your comment and it was fascinating to me because I'm positive my grandma who raised me was an ESFJ, and I never thought about it too much but now I realize that she too had tons of photographs in our house but no artwork. I'm INTJ so I mostly look forward to the future but sometimes lives in the moment, and most people take so many more photos in life than I do which I sometimes feel bad about, but it just seems like a chore.

Hi! I'm a Hungarian guy (38, ENFJ) living in Finland, far away from my mom, who is a lovely ESFJ (68) . When we talk we mostly have long, passionate conversations about life, religion, emotions, people, and we understand each other. But I never ever was able to agree with her on what cloth I should wear. I always felt ridiculous that we have these kind of conversations at all, but regularly. However, I'm thinking now to surprise her me showing up at her in proper clothing and hair style she loved when I was 14. And I focus on my Se child mind, and just be around her. I think that would make her very very happy. And why would I do that? Because through her happiness, I could feel myself a better man.... 😂

​@@bollista4577 I´m ESFJ with (i think) ENFJ mom, and i had the same experience, i HATED how she used to dress me as a child, always proudly stating her values like buying from certain stores and not having gender bias + preferring comfort over feminine traits, while all i wanted was to dress as feminine as possible and from the same stores as everyone else By the time i went to Middle school. i chose one with a uniform just so i could dress normally like the girl i am and stop being called a tom boy Today we live in Austria and i took our move as an excuse to buy her new clothes that matches her standards but will also not stand out too much and make her look weird

I’m an INTJ and my sister is an ISTJ. My sister can’t stand watching his videos. One time I had one of his videos projected to the tv on speed 1.75x and he was holding the camera in his hand walking around. She looked at me dead serious and says “I can’t watch this anymore”. I said “What’s wrong? Is it boring?”. She looked at me like I was nuts and said “Seriously? I feel like I’m gonna vomit. The video is going at the speed of crack and the camera is wobbling all over the place. I feel like I’m on a roller coaster simulator gone wrong. How can you watch this??”. I said “Oh wow, I didn’t notice.” I put the speed back to normal but she was like “No.” 😂😂

@@dustbitten Yeah, same for me. Can't watch the videos where he holds his camera in his hand.

I love those birds... i love their peaceful aura in his videos, so contemplative for me

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Sounds like Ne-Si with you knowing what other want

@@ashuranero5721 I totally understand Tommy about reading in a room what other people want but instead of knowing what they think I know what they feel. I've read that it is because of our Ni which gives us insights into other people but not as broad as Ne users. -ENFJ

@@ashuranero5721 Probably depends on what "want" means. What to do with your future or what experience to get, there are Ni and Si types of "want". Also, ENTJ and ENFJ have Ne critic with gives them at least SOME awareness of intentions.

Its because our extroverted sensing is the weakest of our top 4 functions... if you gave me 10 million dollars and 50 years to build a home or a work kn car you would have wasted 10 million dollars and 50 years.

@@johngallagher72 I'm and INFJ whos builds homes for a living.

An "Infp" male here. And i Agree. I have an "Estp" friend, and he always shares something to me. 😅

Omg, this comment makes me feel so important :))) thanks :*

i think your perspective will change after a few betrayals

Were not paranoid ..who said that ...was it Lucy ... Jim . .Shelly ? ... those nosy feckers are always watching. .

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you're welcome ^^

Stop eating and drinking dairy. Problem solved.

And/or stop consuming sugar. That was the zit culprit for me.

@@verybluevans What about natural sugar like with apples for example

​@@RoccoArgubright You can't avoid consuming sugar completely, I still banana's and other fruits, and there are small amounts of sugar in a lot of things I eat. You can, however, cut out a lot of it from your diet, by eating whole grain bread instead of white bread for example. Start checking the nutritional info of everything you eat and drink. Drinking enough water and cutting down on fatty foods and dairy also helps!

Shelby Nicholson I recommend studying up on my sources: Plato, Linda Berens, John Beebe, Jung, Robert Moore, Douglas Gillette as that may help, also watch my playlist on cognitive synchronicity as well as emulation and cognitive axis.

Taylor forgive me, what specific answer are you looking for?

@@CSJoseph I'm a little bit of EVERYTHING... aren't we all? In your perspective?

not true -intp male

Yeah i think chase misunderstands Si and Se, conflating a lot of the aspects of Se into his conception of Si

@@SensemakingMartin After going through Chase's materials I would say Se users are MORE LIKELY to share their experiences. For example- An ESTP goes for wine tasting and he is MORE LIKELY to bring someone along than say an ISTJ. Whereas someone with Si in their top 3 functions won't really mind having an experience alone. NOTE- I say more likely because nurture plays a role.

ROFL XD I so agree! (isfp)

Yep, it's targeting Ni impulsivity as well via the Se.

Only thing I heard about me specifically is that I got bad memory well shit I do but I learn through mistakes cause for sure if it’s a big mistake I won’t ever do that again but if it’s a small mistakes it takes me varies attempts to get it right.

@@livannal.t.9068 Hey, thank you for your reply and concern! Not to worry, I am quite optimistic and wrote that in a moment of weakness. I still feel that way sometimes but I try to find the good in it. I just felt that Se makes me good at sports but isn't really beneficial to anyone else besides me. Same with my Fi. Hence I felt useless to the people I care about. But I find that I don't give myself enough credit. And MBTI taught me ways to use my functions to help others, so I'm glad I can work on it. I'm not doing great but I'm not doing bad either. Life is good😂 Thank you once again! I hope you are doing well too

Hey sibling from cognitive parents Lol (I’m INFP). I relate to what you said here from when i was younger. You sound really young btw! How old are you? I have two advices: a diplomatic one and a nuclear one. The diplomatic is to understand that ISTJ have PoLR Fe (they’re not aware of how you feel when they’re arguing, they just lay the facts straight) so to be diplomatic about it is to make them aware of your feelings in the exact moment they say something hurtful. Don’t keep it in and cry about it later alone. The nuclear advice is to tell them that their behavior makes them undesirable. They have inferior Ne which means they’re extremely sensitive to being desired by others and your Ni child have that power over them because you know what’s desirable and what’s not. Now that’s nuclear because it can push them to their INFJ superego in a demon state . So use it as a last resort if they don’t change their behavior 😉.

​@@SmiLey-cu1mz Heyy, Fi sibling. I'm 22. What about you? Thank you so much for your advice! The nuclear approach is really interesting! But I'm afraid it won't work. She is very accomplished and highly desired amongst her peer group / colleagues. To her, I have bad fashion taste, no refined culinary preferences, and am lame with uncool friends (she says these to my face at least twice a week). She doesn't value my opinion and makes me seem like a loser but I'm not. I'm athletic, have good grades and close friends. She has simply made it a point to invalidate me. Yet she comes to me for physical affection (cuddles/kisses) because it makes her feel good - a cool thing about Se :) About the diplomatic one, I keep it in because I've expressed myself in the past but it hurt more. Her facts are skewed sometimes. Her arguments become personal attacks. One time, I told her that she's been checking her heartbeat wrong (she counts two wrist pulses as one cardiac cycle for systolic and diastolic). Actually, you can feel only systolic pressure at your wrist. So one pulse=one cardiac cycle. I said it kindly like, you know, how an Fi would. We looked it up and I was right. I wasn't trying to put her down. It was more like discovery because I wasn't so sure myself either. But she got angry and sour. As an ISFP, it's very difficult to reveal my feelings. It only becomes harder to do so again when the reaction is negative. I find it easier to play off her insults as self-deprecating jokes and let it slide. Besides, I think that trying to handle her criticism may be good training for my inferior Te. My sister isn't so bad. She helps me a lot with technical stuff and choosing good products. ISTJs do their research well. We definitely love each other. I just don't want to do confrontations yet. My self-esteem is like a pendulum now (alternating high and low). I'm not brave enough to handle the aftermath. I know your advice is healthy so I will keep it in mind for the future. I have some ways to go for personal growth before that. I really appreciate you taking the time to compose a helpful response for me!! I will follow some of your advice as I'm surrounded by ISTJ friends! (just not my sister). I'll be returning to campus hostel in a few weeks so I can run away from this for now, hahaha :)

U just described ISTP not INTP

Usually when a device of mine would break, I’d open it up and find what was causing the issue/what was broken, but due to not having money or necessary tools to fix it I was never able to (i mainly did this as a child with my MP3s since they were usually the only devices I had at the time lol) Also yeah, I too let the day happen and I don’t really plan anything 😂😂 tbh it annoys me when I tell myself "today I’m going to do this as soon as I’m home!" and then it’s like "oh surprise! We actually had plans to go to this store or this social gathering!" (Pre-covid ofc) and it was kinda annoying XD. Like, the one time I actually plan something you have plans for something else lol. I don’t mind other people's plans that involve me, but pls at least just tell me with time 😭😤 And yessssss, it took me forever to memorise my apartment address one time and I needed it for something school related and I was just like "... idk where I live...😬😬" my teacher got mad at me lmao

they want you to be loyal enough that you would respond.

@@CSJoseph ok :) thankyou

Dr. Linda Berens and Dr. John Beebe

C.S. Joseph I woke up this morning a little emotional and overcome with gratitude for you and your video series. There are so many people talking and making videos but so few who actually know what they are talking about. Thank you for sharing what you know ❤️

C.S. Joseph Also, I’ve looked at these two authors. On Amazon, they have few if any reviews and aren’t generally rated well when they do. It’s really hard for me to actually think about buying one because, I guess, there isn’t agreement that these books are good-Se? And that makes me mistrust you, lol. Which one should I start with?

It’s not that you’re stupid, it’s that you haven’t had experiences like that before or thought about what you would do in that situation 😂 then the panic takes over and thoughts cease to exist lol I’ve been there! Fellow xNFP here I’m pretty sure

the answer to your questions is yes, all the way around. And regarding the environment, what you are describing is art, from your ISFP subconscious.

@@CSJoseph does Se also make people "impulsive" decision makers, or at least interpreted as such? For example I can make purchases for my future very quickly "Is it going to help me get to where I want (Ni), did other people have success with it or was I referred to people that I trust (Te) and do they have documentation or any proof of their past success (Se) and if it checks all of those boxes within a realistic price I can purchase something within minutes and it's been perceived as "rash, quick, impulsive decisions".

ESTPs care about how others feel. ENTJs do not. Trump does not. Trump only cares about how he feels.

Then at least they know they are being stupid and have to realize it themselves. There's no room for argument because you can't solve it.

I'll create a 100 point system of crisscross questions where every question answered correctly gives you a point and every questioned answered wrong subtracts a point. If you manage to get to 100, you will be wise enough to agree that cognitive functions are real.

To be fair, I use Ne for the most part when I'm actually making it, but I have to at least use Se a little bit to know what I'm working with what I've got

What sucks though is that when I get stressed, I can barely use Se. I have to feel extremely comfortable to be able to use it

Yup, having Ne hero sucks for sensing - our long-term memory is subpar and our short term memory is abysmal

literally 😵‍💫

dont give up

I'm thinking of the boss asking for the TP reports in Office Space 🤣

Se is all about having shared experiences, I explain this in today's lecture. Yes Si users are all about receiving sensation and experiences.

That's awesome, looking forward to it!

literally try everything simultaneously.

@@CSJoseph Well, that's a horrifying answer for me, an esfp, I don't have that much energy to try everything I want to