What Your Ex Is Thinking During No Contact?

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What is your ex thinking during no contact? Coach Lee explains the male and female mind during no contact.
If you are using the no contact rule and want to know what your ex is thinking while you are not reaching out, texting, or calling them, Coach Lee explains it in this video.
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If you are in no contact, it's natural to wonder what your ex is thinking and feeling during that time.
As Coach Lee explains in this video, at first, your ex is feeling relief. After all, they finally got the breakup over with. It wasn't something they just woke up and decided to do, but was more something that they had been inching toward for weeks or even months.
This relief is because your ex completed something difficult. It doesn't mean that they aren't hurting and mourning for the relationship, but they are feeling some relief most likely.
That first phase lasts from one week to several weeks. After that, they often turn to curiosity because you haven't been chasing or contacting them. Coach Lee explains other thoughts and stages your ex likely goes through during no contact in this video so be sure to watch all the way to the end.
During no contact, a lot goes through your ex's mind and heart.
What usually happens, and the goal, is for your ex to experience the consequences of the breakup by feeling your absence, missing you, fearing that you could move on since you are showing them that you can stay away from them, and, finally, feeling enough loss or fear of loss that they reach out to you.
That's the idea version of what goes on in the mind of your ex during no contact and what they are thinking.
If your relationship was good and you didn't cause too much damage by begging, pleading, and pestering them after they broke up with you, your ex is likely thinking something like what is described above during no contact.
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@shellywatson8653 5 лет назад

Never chase someone that you love and have been good to. Move on and if they do not return then they were not worth the time you gave them

@thorsjoberg5415 5 лет назад

Yes, you right, i am going true a breakup right now and it is terrible feeling, the ex is really express her anger via social media, subtle but every one know what she´s trying to tell

@symbologee 5 лет назад

What really sucks is all of the wasted time invested and the money. I have other options (actually, one wants me now)...but, I did love her. Ugh...I hate this feeling.

@mde2673 5 лет назад

symbologee it was never time or money wasted when you loved someone. You did not see this coming. Don’t cry over materialistic things. You did all the things you did with that person because you loved them. Don’t get upset about things like that. Life is a gamble.

@braniofan7894 5 лет назад

Thanks that's what i needed to hear

@BlackLabelSlushie 5 лет назад

Marie I totally agree with you. Give or receive a gift with no strings attached, nor scorekeeping.

@karynaplotka7668 4 года назад

those who have been dumped unexpectedly understand that it’s a feeling of grieving, losing someone who is still alive...such a painful feeling

@estebancartegena9904 4 года назад

been grieving over my wife for 8 months smh

@karynaplotka7668 4 года назад

Esteban Cartegena I’m sorry to hear that :( it’s unfair

@estebancartegena9904 4 года назад

@@karynaplotka7668 I been praying praying and praying not a sign a word and nothin has changed so discouraging yet I keep on praying

@onurbole7921 4 года назад

When my ex dumped me she told me years ago when her friends broke up with their boyfriends she'd imagine losing me and feel paralyzed, the same feeling she had as a kid when she thought of what would happen if her brothers died. Now, she said, she imagines her brothers dead and doesn't feel as bad because she accepted death as the reality of life. The message she was trying to convey was that I could move on without her. That's kind of sick, it's not like one of us died loving the other and the other needs to accept it. I always imagined if this happened to one of us the other would die single always cherishing the memories, or at best find someone who knows and respects the fact that we found them because our deceased partner wanted us to be happy. Now she is alive and possibly in bed with someone else, a few months ago she used to imagine us in our 80s and make jokes about it.

@elisepieren4197 4 года назад

Karyna Pink ikr it’s unbearable

@zaimariano1604 4 года назад

2 weeks of no contact already. Giving myself time to feel the pain first. After, I'll work on improving myself. But seriously, hurts like hell.

@rtzbis6136 4 года назад

Fuk yea! Hell it does. I kpt txting, now I wish I didn’t.

@lucasmartinssaraiva1162 4 года назад

Yeah, dude

@shaniecegullison 4 года назад

Im Going through this

@vinayjeswani3011 4 года назад

Same feeling

@user-fx8ir6os8h 3 года назад

Guys,I am going through this also.Let's keep ourselves entertained!

@KINGCJ23_ 4 года назад

To the people who’s going through a break up let’s all have faith and trust this method

@SergeOby02 4 года назад

Trust me, I was the one who broke up with her and since I noticed that she dident not care about me for months I went back to her and now she does not want me anymore. It went exactly how it has been explained in this video.

@KINGCJ23_ 4 года назад

Serge Ore it’s alright bro Shit happens , take it as a lesson

@jessjess3369 4 года назад

God speed bro,God speed.

@Fail-Safe-1 4 года назад

Thank you.

@patriciasalmon7167 3 года назад

Thank you

@kelliesampson845 5 лет назад

You have saved me from killing myself man. Thank you

@bmoftw5670 5 лет назад

Stay strong, I hope you’re doing better

@anonymous-fn2ky 5 лет назад

stay strong...y kill urself over a human being...ive been thru wat ur feeling but wat stopd me from finking like dat is dat my life is worth dyng for god not to give it fr a mere human being....remember wen u get negative thoughts its the devils they r in 1000 n attract negative vibration check hans wilhem on youtube he will help u understand better abt ur life.lots of love xx

@ljose007 5 лет назад

Keep holding on and remember that no one (and I mean one) is worth all that trouble. Get a new hobby or do something you wanted to do for a long time. Time heals all wounds

@danielabaci9164 5 лет назад

Are u ok?

@belleme97 5 лет назад

Stay strong my friend praying for you ❤️ I Hope things are great for you soon

@jackakhan 4 года назад

Just get a dog. They're the only thing u can trust to return your love forever.

@Princesssjes 4 года назад

jackakhan thank god for dogs/cats! Seriously.

@triplea5860 4 года назад

I say screw the dog, cat only, much less maintenance... 👉

@prettypearls26 4 года назад

Facts.

@prettypearls26 4 года назад

Triple A ..... cats don’t give a shit about you though

@triplea5860 4 года назад

@@prettypearls26, No no you got it wrong.. Cats do care for you and show it pretty intelligently. Dogs however do not in sense, because although it may appear they do, is only because they are literally stupid... Also, it is fact, that cats are cleaner, and much much less maintenance to handle...

@RM-ju9ny 3 года назад

"The tables slowly starts to turn." "Work on yourself and no contact."

@thando8149 4 года назад

If your partner leaves u...just know it's gods protection🙏

@lindsaytubbs3523 4 года назад

Thando lami or is it a punishment?

@johnathandesouza5449 4 года назад

Come on that's some BS I don't need to hear RN

@silviosarunic6709 4 года назад

There is no god, now you can start to deal with realities of life!!

@jasonstone8222 4 года назад

I left mine for my protection. She was and is a histrionic/psychopathic/ narxussistic/cheating/lying/murdering/satanist. Pure evil. Left my home, family I loved/ dog. Wish i never met her. Believe she poisoned both me and my mother. Murdered someone before i met her.

@miguelaguirreramirez3168 4 года назад

That’s a fact !!

@ryanbetter7661 5 лет назад

Be in abundance. Not scarcity. You are the prize. You dodged a bullet.

@alexanderwalle3568 5 лет назад

I, as well, was doing nothing which according to this video piqued her curiosity; problem was, I was really doing nothing, that she was right about.

@joans6047 5 лет назад

Ryan Better, thank you. You're so right. This thought has been a constant companion in my head. Bullet dodged! Hope you are happy and well.

@nghiho7928 5 лет назад

The male is always the pawn in a romantic comedy. Come together, break up, go chase her, get her, roll credits. That’s what happens in all of them. Visit *MyExLove. info* If you want to get back your ex back

@iiieazyiii5738 5 лет назад

Ryan Better yuhhhhhhhhh, underrated comment 🙌🏻🙌🏻 I live in abundance not scarcity yuhhh

@wabbentertainment6602 5 лет назад

Facts

@kalmeerperd4676 5 лет назад

You look like you're going to burst into hysterical laughter at any second.

@mem7718 5 лет назад

Hahah

@echarles6204 5 лет назад

Only saw it after you said it 😂😂🤣

@Boooothannnnkk 5 лет назад

🤭😂😂😂😂😂

@leannecooper7468 5 лет назад

I’ve read this before I even properly watched the vid...... vid ruined lol can’t watch it now lol

@piscesx4009 5 лет назад

Lol this cheered me up

@themoonbleu627 4 года назад

I just want to say this works 100% and my case was tough ... makes sure you all come back and share your stories because when I was binge watching these videos during radio silence ( which is most effective I think ) everyday I was feeling anxious and these videos were they only thing that’s have me mental release until time kicked in . Reading nearly every comment gave me relief in knowing others were experiencing this too and then after a little over 30 days my ex contacted me ... then I couldn’t get too excited or angry or sad I had to keep calm sometimes the ex’s comeback prideful too or hurt too but show them you are not willing to play but also so more kindness than anger and wala we are back loving and appreciating each other...

@shaniecegullison 4 года назад

I am The Same way.i understand

@10ksubsfornovideochallenge58 4 года назад

I think you’re case is easier than mine.

@fiammagroen1226 3 года назад

@@shaniecegullison can u update ?

@misski3623 3 года назад

Can i ask a question? Did he sleep around with other people when you guys broke up? I will have a hard time accepting that if my husband or bf comes back. By the way, my husband left me because he wants to pursue his sexual desire he saw on porn. He has sexual addiction. I wonder if no contact would work because i think he needs more than no contact. He needs a beating lol jk!

@luisquinones1726 3 года назад

What was your situation for the break up?

@frankwhite7607 4 года назад

When you stop thinking about them they start thinking about you

@Layerlol 4 месяца назад

That's definitely the truth. When I was finally able to forget about her, She just randomly decides to hit me up again

@user-gc8dh2tm7p 28 дней назад

@Layerlol how many moths she reach out

@joankisekka313 4 года назад

Here's the truth, ladies. Being pretty doesn't keep a man. Being honest doesn't keep a man. Being loyal doesn't keep a man. Treating a man good doesn't keep a man. Being there for a man doesn't keep a man. Caring about a man doesn't keep a man. Making an effort doesn't keep a man. Paying attention to a man doesn't keep a man. Spending time with a man doesn't keep a man. You could have the best intentions, you could have the most sincere feelings, and you could be a good woman and you still wouldn't be able to keep a man because the only way to keep a man is if that man wants to be kept by you. You can't force a man to be with you. You can't beg a man to stay with you. You can't love a man into loving you. With a man, you could tell he wants to be kept when the relationship gets hard and he does everything to fight for you because a man only fights for a girl he wants to belong to so if he isn't fighting for you when things get hard, then that means he doesn't want to be kept by you anymore. The moral of this? Don't hold on to a man who doesn't want to be kept by you. No, you're not giving up on him. It's him who gave up on you, and it's you who shouldn't waste any more of your time than you already have. Know when it's time to let go, know when it's time to walk away, and know when it's time for him to be unkept.

@valentin19998 4 года назад

this mostly is the case for women because they are hypergamy

@paulgeorge9228 4 года назад

@@valentin19998 😂🤣😂 word brotha

@janemalamsha3071 4 года назад

Joanna kisekka very true and fact ...

@nehag4021 4 года назад

Oh babey...this comment is a motivation message for LIFE

@beetlejuice8147 4 года назад

and what about when a man gives everything to a woman but she still dump him? No u dont talk about that cause u are a fcking feminist who thinks that only girls have feelings.

@nothysaint27 4 года назад

In other words a “break up” means “wake up”

@kelleybright3113 4 года назад

Level up game on overload

@ladypink8520 4 года назад

Exactly!!

@lukejezza3088 4 года назад

wow

@_Diaryofwealth 3 года назад

True!

@paolanamuncura8879 3 года назад

Coach lee can be humorous!! Are you a libra coach lee?

@annann-dp8ud 2 года назад

Three month ago I cried looking at this video trying to get my ex back. Now I am very grateful that the relationship ends and I am never happier. I hope everyone who is struggling will recover soon. The no contact rule helps us to become more focused on ourselves and not necessarily the path to get back or ex.

@the777john 4 года назад

This is how I feel about it all. When you're with someone and you're doing nice things for them and you're freely and openly giving of your time, your energy, and your creativity and they can't appreciate those things, and want space or a break they've just shown you their value system. So don't feel bad about being good to them that's who you are. Here's the twist, if they do happen to come back around the first taste was free, the rest is going to cost them. Remember they showed you their value system so don't do all the work anymore, it has to be mutual. They're going to have to earn it now or you'll end up right back in the same scenario. Your time, your energy, your effort, your love, your attention, your money are all valuable. Don't waste spending these commodities on people who refuse to value them.

@thatsmysherman Год назад

This is why I've recently ended a friendship. I cared too much and got nothing in return.

@jamesgraves9858 Год назад

This is true. If she comes back she'll be dealing with a polite skeptic rather than what I'd been before.

@MargaLilaandPets 5 лет назад

Based on my experience, what Coach Lee says is correct. THEY ALWAYS COME BACK. The thing is when they do I no longer give a F*&K and have found someone new!!!!

@olliegohard9997 5 лет назад

Lila Villa for real I know exactly what u mean I trying to keep the door open for the last one but it soon close

@fi4850 5 лет назад

RIGHT...LIKE FOH!

@jordyramirez287 4 года назад

Lila Villa what if she left for someone else?

@MargaLilaandPets 4 года назад

@@jordyramirez287 there's a 50-50 chance. If she has a shit relationship with the new guy and had a better one with you.

@MargaLilaandPets 4 года назад

@_ BUDDHA _ There's really no guarantee. The best thing is to do your thing and enjoy your life and forget her. They sort of come back when you are at that stage.

@Dilligaf777 4 года назад

People will remember how you made them feel not what you did. Dont chase, they will remember it.

@samopap3000 4 года назад

Dilligaf Amen.

@saimashapi3819 3 года назад

Amen & Hallelujah..this is true in time.

@juliet3227 3 года назад

Exactly

@omokheowaabdulhameed4181 3 года назад

I just got my relationship fixed and my ||ex|husband is •back• to me and we are living happily like never before I got help|from apowerfu|l spiritualist and his spe|ls works effectively just as you want

@omokheowaabdulhameed4181 3 года назад

+2( 3 4) 8 1 2 0 7 6 8 2 9 5

@uncletony6210 4 года назад

"No matter what you've done, you deserve respect. Even if you've made mistakes, you're lovable. Doesn't matter your looks, skills, age, size, or anything - you're worthwhile. No one can ever take that away from you." ~ Kai the Hitchhiker

@lifeisbeautiful3019 3 года назад

🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

@John-cq3hk 3 месяца назад

My GF of 2.5 years., Ghosted on me 4 weeks ago. She finally answers my call and would not talk with me or tell me anything. I asked her for a conversation so I can understand the relationship and find closure and peace. She refused and went back to ignoring. Me. Maybe I am wrong for asking her for closure? I was generous with my Time and forgiveness...it's hurt me more to refuse me closure.

@uncletony6210 3 месяца назад

@@John-cq3hk You can have closure without her. "So often times it happens, that we live our lives in chains, and we never even know we have the key..." ~The Eagles (Already Gone)

@John-cq3hk 3 месяца назад

@@uncletony6210 ah yes indeed I was being dependent. I guess..i want the truth and to know if she switched on me and to understand the situation better

@uncletony6210 3 месяца назад

@@John-cq3hkSo, you are probably in a place right now where you're so hung up on her that you're not even attracted to other women. That said, the best thing you can do is to start dating other women. Also, if you have any hope of ever getting her back, the worst thing you can do is continue to call or text her. Every time you do, you are pushing her away even farther. Leave her alone, and after some time, she will more than likely start to wonder why you are not making contact, and in fact, she might reach back out to you. And who knows, maybe by that time, you will have found someone better and completely moved on. How sweet would that be?

@RM-ju9ny 3 года назад

They need to experience the loss.

@momocyrine 3 года назад

I blew it up even after year. He was in the curiosity safe so he wanted to test waters and i fell for it.. i made him go back to relief phase..

@jrivera8678 4 года назад

God give me strength during no contact. You're right and this is so hard.

@jrivera8678 4 года назад

@Amna Yousuf sorry to hear that. I've done more research about relationships and you can find another love. There is no just the one. I think I started no contact to late and it's over for good. This is my greatest relationship loss.

@Curiousnessify 4 года назад

use your right hand when its so hard

@philippenguyen5409 3 года назад

Its tough bro ive been super depressed wondering why god cant take my life already 😞

@joshwallis442 3 года назад

Do It For Dooterz Bro you should never feel like that man it might not feel like it now but you will get better my g I’m going through rough shit as well if you need somebody to talk to who is going through something similar just text me back and give me a dm but u should never feel like that bro

@wegesaapolinary3643 3 года назад

Thank you

@chriscaldwell4482 5 лет назад

Someone don't want you, never chase, fake it till you make it (if you have to). and move on.

@lian7217 4 года назад

amy lover wow

@sakurabrent1242 3 года назад

Hahaha. I love that "fake it till you make it and move on."

@env_d_ak 4 года назад

Brilliant analysis. Hope someone with a broken heart sees your video to get the courage to face the depression and anxiety

@shaniecegullison 4 года назад

I like your heart ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️😭😭😭😭😭😭💔💔💔😓😓😓💔💪💪💪💪💪

@shaniecegullison 4 года назад

Where were you 6 months ago lol

@sarahpedeal 3 года назад

I just saw it.. and indeed, it gave me some strength.. It hurts like hell..

@shaniecegullison 3 года назад

@@agnesvarria8994 ok awesome thank you sounds good

@tahitianBP 4 года назад

I really want to thank Coach Lee for his videos. When my bf broke up with me it feels like everything was falling apart and watching these videos help me think it might not be the end for us. Even if the point isn't to make you hold on to him but to focus on yourself, just thinking about getting back with that person calm you down. And "conceiving" a plan to get him back actually help YOU get out of bed. Then days are going and you're feeling better day by day :) I truly believe my time of "grieving" would have been longer if I didn't come across Coach Lee's videos. So thank you SO SO much. Oh and FYI my ex came back after exactly 1 month of NC so... ;)

@naiko6700 2 года назад

Oh wow, did you get back with them?

@pj8624 2 года назад

Wow....awesome story!!!! so happy for you!!! :)

@houghtonmatt 2 года назад

This gives me hope, thankyou

@ags835 Год назад

Great news! I love reading success stories of other people, makes me happy for all of you! Good luck!

@tisha7252 5 лет назад

“Refuse to be the BACK UP PLAN and BACK OUT!” Period! Hallelujah & Amen!

@zahidibrahim2260 5 лет назад

Man you look so damn serious that i started getting concerned if i didn't follow what you say you're gonna come and find me.

@RealCoachLee 5 лет назад

Maybe that will motivate you! LOL

@ketrarichmond 5 лет назад

😂😂😂😂

@luzdeluna8031 4 года назад

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I swear I was thinking similar it's so funny xxx

@queenstars2116 4 года назад

Hahaha😂😂

@samuelchirita7095 4 года назад

🤣😂🤣😂😂😂😂👌👌👌

@larryclay8875 2 года назад

You have no idea how many times I have to watch this video (probably over 1 million times!). I mean, the way you explained to the situation, especially from an EX's perspective, make so much sense and it makes me feel so good about it. I'm into No Contact for almost 5 months now and I'm working on improving myself. It has to be one of the most challenges I've ever faced, and it taught me a lot about respect, control, how to handle the situation in a properly way, and so forth. So, Coach Lee, I humbly thank you for your hard work and share your experiences with us. If my ex-fiancé contacts me back, I will update and let you guys know! To all Dumpees out there, if I could, I'd invite you all and have a drink together and enjoy telling jokes about life, just to lift up spirits! Stay strong.

@ozzie-no-sweat 2 года назад

rooting for you brother

@larryclay8875 2 года назад

@Blabzillaweasel Hi, Blabzillaweasel. Nope, she has not contacted me and it's already passed 10 months so far. I've already removed her off of my friendlist on Facebook. I'm done with her. Not worth it. I am surrounding by amazing friends and family and that's all I need.

@Duckkakao 2 месяца назад

@@larryclay8875any update ? Please

@stevemcqueen8259 4 года назад

Guys No contact really works My Ex walked out me a month ago no real reason just cut me off I was devastated I called texted just to find out why ? What did I do wrong. ☹️ I watched Coach Lee Videos on No contact and tried it out. She would text me crap to mess with my head. A Month has gone by and I started to get myself right I missed her and one day she texted me 3am saying she loves me I didn’t reply then later that morning she texted do I wanna see her? So she came round and she was all sad and crying that she missed me. Now a month ago I would have been happy!! But when I seen her I wasn’t that bothered weather she came back or didn’t. Just know that u will heal u will grow stronger even if u can’t see it or feel it. Now if she said she doesn’t wanna be with me I would be fine with it I know the problem wasn’t me. Thank u Coach Lee.

@RAY_FILET 5 лет назад

Chase a dog, it runs from you...run from a dog, it chases you. Human life has great value but I'll be damned if we don't act like dogs...minus the love and loyalty.

@lauracarmody4459 5 лет назад

AMEN! 🖐🏻🙌🏽

@heathermoran9526 5 лет назад

Right?

@heathermoran9526 5 лет назад

Ryan1380 we are all retarded running on emotions

@RAY_FILET 5 лет назад

@@lauracarmody4459 🙌

@idmtztemp9211 5 лет назад

Dogs treat their humans far better then we deserve..they are also more loyal ..

@shininglightjoi6627 5 лет назад

Patience!...wait for the table to turns!😂😂😂😂

@GodAboveAll777 4 года назад

She better not hold her breath! 😉

@calvinthomasmuzik 4 года назад

Yes mam

@themoonbleu627 4 года назад

Antony S 😂😭

@victora.g.2708 Год назад

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂

@ariellauschi3933 Год назад

I don’t want them to miss me ,that’s not why I’m really watching…all I want to learn is to love myself in their absence…I want to go back to the times when I didn’t know of their existence..and am at the right place 😔😔😔

@samrz Год назад

Just wanted to come back here and say that Coach Lee absolutely knows what he’s talking about. I thought I was never going to hear from my ex ever again. I followed the no contact rule anyway because I felt my ex didn’t deserve to hear from me or know how much I was hurting. To my surprise, my ex contacted me about 6 months post-breakup asking me to talk and to go for coffee. These videos truly brought me comfort during the hardest breakup I have ever had to go through. I also learned a lot about myself and grew as a person during NC. Thank you Coach Lee 🤗❤

@RealCoachLee Год назад

Sam, I'm so happy for you! Would you please email my assistant Amber with your story? We won't use your name or image, but your story could encourage others. Amber's email is myexbackcoach@gmail.com and I would appreciate it! Glad for you!

@samrz Год назад

@@RealCoachLee yes of course! Thanks again! 😊

@beniemawu7359 Год назад

@@samrz any update?

@samrz Год назад

@@beniemawu7359 only update is that my ex and I got back together a little while after going for coffee. We’ve been dating for about 4 months now and are even better than before 😊

@gralbr 9 месяцев назад

Did you reconcile?

@lordninoswifey 4 года назад

I remember watching this, several times, obsessing over getting my ex back...over a year later, I've found someone much better. I'm so thankful to the ex for tossing me aside. It's the best gift he ever gave me in 8 years.

@geminiwoe 3 года назад

I fucking love this

@alejandraramos629 5 лет назад

Lol he’s been calling me on *67. Ladies move on if they wanted us they would’ve kept us. No contact works but honestly do it for yourself. Work on ur own self-love ♥️

@armandopena2511 4 года назад

Alejandra Ramos definitely have to do it for my self my ex girlfriend broke up with me love her still to death probably even more but you’re are right if she love me she would not had left

@megatron6382 4 года назад

@@armandopena2511, She leaves you because She lost her feeling for you.. She is your woman, you can get her back and She will spend her whole life with you.. I can help you, if your guts want her back then take her back otherwise forget her..

@amiralove342 4 года назад

Alejandra Ramos 😂😂 Did U Answer?

@chynadoll77cyn59 4 года назад

Yessss

@kimberlygould5659 3 года назад

This👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

@joeyloucks912 3 года назад

A week of no contact has been so hard. I hope this continues to heal me and make her think about how special our relationship was 💔

@davidaustin8424 3 года назад

How did it work out?

@joeyloucks912 3 года назад

@@davidaustin8424 Its been 4 months. I've found myself in a rebound myself. I've been talking to somebody new but she still crosses my mind every few days. We have not spoken since this. I have grown definitely though.

@opedromagico 3 года назад

This is helping me a lot.. I was having urges to send her messages all day, but I didn't.. We had the first month with very little contact, maybe 3 messages traded.. 1 month no contact.. and then I reached back, we traded 6 messages, the last one I sent was more casual just like you said! I decided to play cool, send emojis, smile... She was doing that so I thought I'd do the same, portray a persona that is completely ok with what happened. Some nights I remember she saying she was sad at first but now she can "look at our past and smile".. that hurts a lot to listen..godammed it! Wel.. I'll stop texting/answering, it makes sense. Thanks for the support, Lee

@jdog167 3 года назад

Did you guys get back together?

@Ethiodawg 5 лет назад

If a man doesn’t see how wonderful of a woman you are and doesn’t make you feel amazing, just move on. The right guy will make you feel like you’re one in a million.

@markmoore7161 4 года назад

You are delusional - nuff said.

@louie111887 4 года назад

Goes both ways. You can show and tell how wonderful a woman is but what if she doesn't believe you and shoots you down? And she's cold to you but wants you to be tender and kind to her. And I still love her. Damn. I'm fucked up.

@ridgid859 4 года назад

@@louie111887 going through this too bro I hear ya

@markmoore7161 4 года назад

@@louie111887 yes you are - now cut that shit out and become a real man before you really get your feeling hurt you cat nip.

@kaauusshhaall 4 года назад

I did. She left.

@anewloveofficial9137 5 лет назад

Nothing is more painful than being dumped by someone you really love but it's better to feel that way than be the one who hurt somebody because they are likely to have more regrets in the future.

@bobsmith962 5 лет назад

How do you know they will regret it?

@Lexiannasam 5 лет назад

Bob Smith trust me you do. Been there before.

@nataliedudus5551 5 лет назад

Amen!

@theshield1613 5 лет назад

especially if you are loyal she will regret it, why because once she leaves you she will be going out with cheaters and she will realize the value you have

@imar8202 5 лет назад

Amen to that!

@mylenelovelyn4315 4 года назад

At first, I was about to cry. But after I absorbed all of the words he said, I feel relieved and enlightened. Thank you!

@carlgelsabas459 Год назад

🙏💪

@pamelawright3253 4 года назад

So needed to hear this today. Thank you, thank you, thank you. My goal is to stay strong and not be stupid again.

@renatelewis538 5 лет назад

No I pretend that he died!

@everydayaccount6089 5 лет назад

Lol so funny. Love it

@lifeisagift9306 5 лет назад

Savage lol

@audreyrenee 5 лет назад

You know what?!!! I should try this!

@loloqueenbee6052 5 лет назад

LOVE THIS!!!! I WILL DO THIS. 👍🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

@renatelewis538 5 лет назад

@Worthy107 be23 They Don't taking responsibility anyways, making it all your fault. So the other way is better because I can move on.

@B1GK1NG 5 лет назад

Learn from my mistakes. My ex broke up with me and I did the begging and pleading routine that didn’t work at all. I kept in contact with her because I was afraid of losing her forever. I will send text messages and try calling. Most of the time she either ignore or replied with vague messages. I finally had to accept the fact that I had to move on. Because right now I was in a position of weakness. So I am doing the no contact method. I started taking up new hobbies and going to the gym to better health. I am even considering dating again. Time is too short and valuable. If someone doesn’t appreciate the time you given them then they are not worth keeping around. Remember you are more valuable and certainly the top prize. I learn this extremely important lesson from Coach Lee.

@bklynslipnjimmy 4 года назад

Hang in there, focus on #1 YOU!! One day at a time and DON'T contact her.

@carldrogo9492 4 года назад

Simp.

@GUITARTIME2024 4 года назад

Rey, stay strong, no more contact. Even if she called u tomorrow to fix it, she ended it once and you can't take her back. Her respect is gone and that's just life. Learn from that frantic bullshit you engaged in after she dumped you. It doesn't work and it makes you look low value and Beta. You have been given a gift, friend, for when the right one comes along.

@420hansol 4 года назад

you mind sharing what hobbies you are looking into..? I am in a similar situation right now.. it sucks

@B1GK1NG 4 года назад

GuitarGuy amen to that. Never looking back. It’s her lost.

@UrMoth3rI5GAY 3 года назад

me and my ex started talking back these few days after 3 years! 3 FKIN YEARS! turns out she said she’ll thinks about me sometimes and misses us, and said she regret breaking up. I was begging her to come back after the breakup, i even got down on my knees and flew back from Australia just to see her cuz she was admitted to the hospital. Nothing works even if i show her how much i love her. No contact really works! Hang in there guys! Don’t give up! Learn to love yourself first and find what you love to do in life!!!

@ariem4389 4 года назад

I love watching your videos. It feels good to hear someone talks about it and feel like a friend trying his best to make you feel better no matter how painful things are to you. Its been 2 years and i am coping with such good talks and advice. Thanks for sharing this.

@Pepezilla 4 года назад

this is so calming, i was so sad and my heart was pounding so hard, but this video calmed to the normal state of mind, thanks a lot ♥

@chavishin 4 года назад

Get Tacoed same here.. my heart was pounding so much.. after watching this video i think i feel better now

@pamm8333 4 года назад

I started listening to coach lee for his advice to get an ex back. now i actually listen to coach lee when im having any kind of relationship issues because he gives good advice which i find calming

@jasminetea7514 4 года назад

Same here. I was so tense before watching this video

@kristytrent9875 3 года назад

Wow!! Just discovered this guy!!! He’s SOOOO spot on!!

@jrfinley9322 3 года назад

Very hard to watch but definitely a great video trying not to cry lol

@hawkkim1974 5 лет назад

Very nice. Nobody chooses backup plan. Don't let anyone treat you like an option!

@Be1smaht 4 года назад

Awesome

@chynadoll77cyn59 4 года назад

That’s right

@skittlznt2611 4 года назад

This hit home so hard. I found myself emoting and nodding in agreement as you were speaking. Everything you said spoke directly to my situation. Thanks for this!

@brandonlyon1820 4 года назад

Guys this is a real testimonial, his advice Works 👍🏼stick through

@raul9456 3 года назад

Can you tell us your story?

@strawberryraspberry2163 3 года назад

Have u experienced it

@paulmarshall2366 5 лет назад

I really hope she goes through the same thing she put me through

@nurarich4945 5 лет назад

I just want someone better and richer who loves me than him and taller too he was short

@Nelsonwmj 5 лет назад

Amen to that.

@Holtofficial 5 лет назад

My girl cheated on me a couple days ago. I dont even want to contact her. But i wish she had remorse for what shes done. This is killing me.

@karljonsson5577 5 лет назад

She will probably start to feel as bad as u around the time u start to feel better. Then she reaches out.

@Holtofficial 5 лет назад

@@karljonsson5577 I was thinking that too, girls tend to do that when their rebounds don't work out. The real test of strength is not taking them back.

@sagiijtn 5 лет назад

“Did not see a future with you” yes he also said it to me 😢💔 feel so bad to heard that words 😢😭💔

@getinspired532 4 года назад

You're not alone. It's happening everyday to different people. "We are not compatible... ...There's just so many negatives that outways the positives about you... ...This relationship is boring" - I was told these words out of nowhere by the woman I thought she was the one for me.

@getinspired532 4 года назад

@charliemvrphy 4 года назад

My fiancé told me the same thing a month ago. I’m shattered and trying to pick up the pieces while trying to stay strong.

@nairbgolden2008 4 года назад

I literally got told I would act like their deadbeat father, despite knowing that I want to love my children even more than my parents had loved me

@erikakerber3258 4 года назад

Jeze TN so sad so cold they maybe look future in other perspective !!!!????

@bosslady991 Год назад

Sometimes the best way to get someone’s attention is to stop giving them yours..🙌

@jaimedeltoro1761 Год назад

Facts 💯

@onceuponatime9156 4 года назад

If there was 1 MILLION like button, I would have pressed that. What an analysis man.

@smileysandycheeze 5 лет назад

6 weeks of No Contact and my ex set up a meeting yesterday to talk. He asked to start over because he missed me and realized he made a mistake. No contact work guys! Stay strong, focused and positive.

@DiDi-jl5jn 2 года назад

Did you go back? Was he better? Are you still together?

@houghtonmatt 2 года назад

This gives me hope. Thankyou. Currently on 14 days

@edeloleary2093 2 года назад

If they text you do you ignore them?

@houghtonmatt 2 года назад

@@edeloleary2093 No never ignore them, them reaching out is what you want, just match their level of emotion and effort and only continue it they do. Don’t be the one to bring up the relationship talk either 👍

@edeloleary2093 2 года назад

@@houghtonmatt okay I'll do that :)

@deepwaters7242 5 лет назад

My long term man is my ex. We split and got back together several times. We did no contact. We learned our value, we learned what we are willing to do/invest, we learned how to fight properly, we learned how to deal with those irritations and ebbs and flows. We are doing great, and proud of ourselves.

@victoriarodriguez2612 5 лет назад

So happy for you both!

@ceecee2066 5 лет назад

Adrienne Olson i hope this happens for me and my ex... this is out second breakup due to lost of trust and arguements and anger from my part..

@BrittanyJay 5 лет назад

My ex and I broke up 3 times in the past 2 years. It’s irritating , but idk if I ever wanna be back wit him . He didn’t value me enough

@gummiyummi123 5 лет назад

How long was your no contact?

@dominatrixs. 5 лет назад

Does the no contact work if I broke up with him? I broke up with him because we were fighting over everything all the time, and he got mad at me for the dumbest reasons most of the time, I was getting tired, I never stopped loving him, but I was mentally sick, and I had to think of my self care first so we could be happy in the future. I even told him, don't think I'm leaving because i stopped loving your or because there's someone else, it's not like that, I just need to recover from too much toxicity, and maybe in the future when we're okay again, we can get back, but he doesn't wanna see me, he's really mad, he even said we have mo future 😪

@jamesmorrow9093 4 года назад

Coach Lee I would like to thank you very much my girlfriend and I recently went through a 2 month separation we recently got back together and things couldn't be better I even told her that I watched your videos thank you once again for helping me to this difficult time God bless

@sammylove7544 3 года назад

everything he says is so completely true. his videos helped me out so much more than what i had originally thought and helped me keep faith that no contact would work and it did after exactly 2 months, and admitted all the things coach lee was saying so trust his guidance! very helpful thank you

@blu_angel7 5 лет назад

My father taught me this when I was sixteen and had my first broken heart. he basically just said never chase a man. once my heart is broken, I run in the other direction. and when a friend says guess who I saw the other night? I tell them not to say another word. best thing to do is to be kind to yourself and guard your heart. learn to accept the situation no matter how much it hurts. and most important, date all their friends. kidding.

@Zvwry 4 года назад

Chasing fireflys love this❤️

@benjamingarcia5910 2 года назад

Yes! My mom says the same thing. Never chase anyone, especially the one that broke your heart.

@m1ll1on4r3 Год назад

Sorry to say that to you. But you parents advice is not a good advice on my eyes. It’s easy to them to talk like that. Often times they themselves had experience divorce (like my have) and they try to “save” your heart by talking BS like that. I think it’s WORTH to fight for the love. Break ups and divorces sucks and often times they happening because of the ego of at least on of the partners. How many relationships and marriages could have been saved if only at least the dumper would talk and explain his feelings BEFORE they start thinking about a break up weeks or months ago !

@diamondsgal76 4 года назад

This is the best relationship coaching video I’ve watched. He is so no-nonsense, eloquent and straight-to-the-point that what he advises us to do makes sense without any mental resistance.

@veejeeloo4280 4 года назад

Serra Bird I agree . Too good !

@zdavidzz 4 года назад

What brought you here

@PhamQuang 4 года назад

Veej Orevillo I.

@patriciasalmon7167 3 года назад

Oh yes coach Lee is right on point

@AustinFranklin-iq8tn Год назад

Is there any chance me and my ex-girlfriend could get back together? Last month she asked for time apart as her feelings had slowly faded over the course of the last three months. After giving it some thought, I told her the fair thing to do would be to break up. She insisted that she actually didn’t want the break up, but that she felt nothing for me (she said she truly loved me, but didn’t have feelings). She gave it some thought and agree that the best thing to do was to break up. I contacted her 5 days after our breakup for answers but the quickly gave up. Two weeks after no contact she reached out to me and I waited 6 hours to reply to her. She responded immediatly and kept the conversation going until I had to stop her. I said I had to do something and offered to get lunch the next day. She agreed. A week after this she sent me a random text, to which I replied with a short message. She didn’t reply. It’s been a week and we haven’t contacted each other in any way.

@adsj1017 3 года назад

Thank you, Coach Lee. Your videos have been very helpful and inspiring. No contact does work. Yes, the table does get flipped and the dumped becomes empowered. The key at that point, is to not blow it, whether or not you want your ex back. Staying empowered and dignified is healing and beautiful.

@KokoKrunchs 3 года назад

Im in so much pain right now because of getting cheated and dumped. Thanks to this video, I am a little better now, at least I can eat properly now...

@carolloraine223 5 лет назад

One exception... narcissists. I'm No Contact forever.

@alexanderwalle3568 5 лет назад

Curiosity must have been when she once called me to see if I ever got lonely; my answer was "No." There was no one with me at the time, talk about rejection I never meant to convey; I was, at the time, being honest, nor was there a brain with me because I'm a guy, nor did I think how hurt she might have been but a lot of these calls were about her, that she had had a panic attack; so she must have desired me back, problem was, she left which created the distance in the first place; I didn't throw her out nor did she have complaints and I gave her a hundred million reasons to pounce on (I have recently learned women file for divorce more so than men--that would have been nice to know, it is now impossible to unlearn, although I probably wouldn't have listened anyway, I've always been in another world when it comes to reality).

@33ladyRAM 5 лет назад

Yes!...never go back to a narcissist!

@nenuhhS11 5 лет назад

Do they come back though ? Or they never reached out?

@beebeebe463 5 лет назад

Carol Loraine b

@adaraholland2581 5 лет назад

nenuhhS11 Yes, they do! My ex was a textbook narcissist, and he came back multiple times (or at least tried). Even after he had gotten into another relationship. The problem with narcissists is that its all a game to them & they are not capable & have no intention of giving you the relationship you want.

@jerrelldyoung 5 лет назад

I was once told 'going back to your ex is like reading a book you've already read'. Guess who told me that. My ex. And I enjoyed cracking her over the head with her own statement when she wanted me back

@eviebernal2913 5 лет назад

Jerrell Young time changes people - for the worse or the better... but it’s a new book every decade - in everyone’s life... I’ve changed a lot. I’m no where near the way I use to be

@kizzikimani6879 5 лет назад

Jerrell Young but at times its fun😂😂

@RedroomStudios 5 лет назад

@@eviebernal2913 loved your comment as well as the original comment!

@bobsmith962 5 лет назад

Damn

@emptyblu5409 5 лет назад

@kate sand love revenge? The fuck are you on about. Girl clearly deserved it and the guys is a champ and dodged a bullet. People better think of the consequences before talking out of their asses and trying to seem all wise and shit.

@JohnTaylor-yz5pl 2 года назад

I've learnt a lot watching these videos, builds up inner strength and keeps the focus on myself. I'm growing faster then ever before!!! Trust in your FAITH regardless of the outcome.

@stephaniemand 3 года назад

This is what I need to listen to every morning from now on. Thank you so much for spelling this so clearly. I needed every word of this. You are a saint for making this video!!

@MrJworrell10 5 лет назад

Invest in yourself to the point someone else wants to invest in you and then keep going. A broken heart is one of the most painful experiences someone can go through. You can and you will get through it. it's something that can truly change your life you can let it break you or You and you only can choose to turn your pain into strength improve your life for yourself. We don't need another person to make us happy or feel whole you have the power to get up from the dirt brush yourself off and find happiness within yourself. Be a better you for you!

@bernadinejohnson9837 5 лет назад

😍

@markmoore7161 4 года назад

This is so true - lost it all - paid $60.000 child support - $80.000 student loan - Ray Ray/Tyrone had nothing but my money/wife let them have it - I'm a professional make six figures - and only have to show up - men take care of yourselves - life/money/emotions - the secret is time - the Bible says a dog will return to its vomit - net worth $500.000 ten years debt free.

@ankanchakraborty1648 4 года назад

@@markmoore7161 just one thing(even if its almost 7 months), thank you!

@markmoore7161 4 года назад

@@ankanchakraborty1648 even if its been 7 months - just saw one of the people whom put obstacles in my path this morning - he was horrible looking - really broke my heart - in the Bible there is a verse that when the devil showed up it said is this the thing that was causing all this trouble - bottom line he and the distractions detractors are defeated.

@ankanchakraborty1648 4 года назад

I guess just stay true to yourself. In the end that's all that counts. Be happy. That's all that matters

@Clairetriple2 5 лет назад

It’s so painful being dumped, it’s the worst feeling ever! But this video helped 👍🏻

@GUITARTIME2024 4 года назад

I'm sure cancer is worse. Just a guess.

@stamminahgusto3808 4 года назад

Sorry dear

@harrrygrover494 4 года назад

Updatee ??

@roses4me451 4 года назад

One thing you must learn is this: "REJECTION is PROTECTION!" Never put a question mark where GOD puts a period!! Focus on you and love yourself.

@milagrosrodriguez4136 2 года назад

I know how it feels 💔😢

@patriciasalmon7167 3 года назад

Thank you coach Lee. This no contact rule is really helping me to heal from been dumped by someone I have been with for six years. Our situation could never allow me to go back into that so-called relationship. I think less about him as the days progressed. Thank you so much for advice. Keep up the good work. God bless

@x16 3 года назад

Stay positive!!! I was absolutely devastated after my ex broke up with me. She left me out of no where. Turned cold and I couldn’t believe it. I DID NOT chase or beg her. I never thought she would reach out to me since she was so cold. Well, 42 days later of STRICT NO CONTACT she called me telling me she missed me and apologized to me. We’re meeting up for drinks and to catch up. I honestly took the time of no contact to work on myself and to rebuild myself on all aspects of life, spiritually, financially, physically, mentally and most of all emotionally. I do miss her and love her but I don’t need her. I’m at peace knowing that I will be okay, regardless if we get back together or not. Remain strong to everyone who’s going through a tough breakup, & eventually if they do realize your worth. They will reach out! Thank you coach Lee!!! Best of luck to everyone!

@aleresendiz73 5 лет назад

This honestly made me feel 100x better thanks

@vughdeziestem4358 4 года назад

how does it feel now..??

@Entyse 5 лет назад

love is not complicated, it's just that people are.

@fraiser3330 5 лет назад

EntyseOnline no such thing as love

@ShameTheSluts 5 лет назад

SJPL Sjpl there is love but we as humans are not made to be with only one person. Thats why people cheat and dont find someone attractive after time. We are not made for that But love is there

@ShameTheSluts 5 лет назад

SJPL Sjpl you can love someone with your whole heart and body, but you still find others attractive

@jenkong7925 5 лет назад

True

@Scattered144K 5 лет назад

Ppl arent complicated just cowards

@runer007 3 года назад

So far I recommend this video for people with a broken heart. He is actually soothing us, calming us, giving us a better day. I like his media production style, this is high class work and communication. Thanks brother.

@PhactorPhiction 3 года назад

Thank you. It’s been 3 weeks since I last spoke to my ex and I wanted to send a text today. It’s taking everything not to do it. These videos are very very helpful. I realize that moving on is the best move.

@cassandras6658 4 года назад

"Refuse to be the back-up plan and back out" 👍

@letstalk164 4 года назад

I used the no contact method after a recent split of a multi year relationship and my ex did come back trying to rekindle things. But he returned with the same issues and didn’t want to fix them so I continued on.

@tjcampbell9454 3 года назад

how long did it take to hear back

@adon738 3 года назад

Maybe because u tell him about your feeling instead telling him what u been doing..people wont fix things if u keep talking about relationship,let them think about what have u become instead expressing your emotion about them..be the new version about yourself..be more attractive..do things what u want to do..

@minidocstv3339 4 года назад

“You should be casual tell um you’re having a great week” 😆 i love this so much you’re bringing so much comfort to me 💖

@merovingianfrench8526 3 года назад

I've had breakups before and the first time I care , I am drawn here. I believe this speak volumes about your message Coach Lee. It makes me think of what you had to go through to be so knowledgeable. Thank you for sharing . I wish I'd came here sooner but I believe I came here just in time to have a chance to get my ex back. You are a life saver, you've improved the quality of so many peoples lives. I hope I can soon attest to this too. If I don't I sure as heck learned enough to improve my quality of life.

@spiritualityjuice 4 года назад

Hey coach...can I just thank you. I got her back!! After 4 months!!! But honestly by the time she came back. I’d already moved on. It’s sooo weird. The minute you are over her, there she is.

@bklynslipnjimmy 5 лет назад

I ain't no back up plan! No games, no bs. Stay the f away from me. You history😎

@shaniecegullison 4 года назад

Yesssss preach it baby

@DailyInspirations1978 3 года назад

Coach Lee. I really like your presentation. No annoying flashes, no disturbing music. Just you and your plain back ground. I feel like I am talking to you in Zoom or Skype. Thank you for the piece of advices. New subscriber here.

@MZJJ1987 4 года назад

I thought I would never feel a pain worst than my brother getting killed 8 years ago. But I tell you the truth I fell in love with my ex of 3 years cuz I felt like I was getting my brother back in some way. Broke up with me unexpectedly is now seeing someone else. That is a full on bootleg version of me. He stripped away our life that built from me. And is probably giving it to her. I go through every emotion on earth. And still love him very much. But I have to lovvvvveeeeee myself more, continue to transform my mind body and spirit. That I lost at the end of our relationship. God is good and makes no mistakes. Thank you for the video.

@jerrylisby5376 4 года назад

Reading the book of Psalms will comfort you. Don't beat yourself up. Love yourself. Get rest. Treat yourself. Work on yourself. I don't know about no contact. But don't contact often. Do not beg or plead. Let them know you love them. But don't over do it. Admit to everything that is truthfully your fault. Tell them you are changing those things. Never argue. Be patient. Be kind.

@juliet3227 3 года назад

Such kind words

@cecilesuperfree1042 3 года назад

thats the best advice.

@elimatt7860 4 года назад

"Your ex is complex" -CoachLee

@runer007 3 года назад

Having a slight heart-break. I few minutes in I feel soothed and relieved. Nice that you coach us Lee.

@kelvinwozniak1004 2 года назад

Very helpful. Gf broke of 5 years broke up with me 3 days ago. First 2 days were very painful but now I’m healing. Thank you for this vid❤️

@jasmineg5130 5 лет назад

I been suicidal lately and just got dumped and I was contemplating suicide today but I saw this video and it saved me thank you .

@wwbenee 5 лет назад

Don't be so crazy! Although it feels like the end of the world, it's not. It's a difficult time but it will ultimately make you stronger and wiser. Be strong, you'll get through it and look back laughing one day.

@roses4me451 4 года назад

NO MAN, and NOTHING is worth you taking your life over. We've all been hurt. Someone who will adore you is just waiting to meet your acquaintance. The Universe delivers EVERYTHING to you at the right time. Work on you, school, career, etc. Be patient. Seek professional help from a LICENSED mental health counselor to discuss your issues. You're going to be just fine. Karma will take care of them.

@Star-vg7ix 5 лет назад

Highly agree...no contact . Respect yourself...you deserve this.

@natewesterlund4936 3 года назад

Been going through it this past week! These videos have been insanely helpful when it comes to cutting urges to text her! Thankyou so much!

@zirak21mistry 3 года назад

This guy is literally telling my story!! That is exactly how my girlfriend left me a week ago due to long distance. At the moment I am in the healing process and it is the toughest thing I've experienced emotionally. I never thought I would come across such a relatable video. Thanking you sir!!

@zirak21mistry 3 года назад

@@leahbrown8268 Too late for that dear.

@pvishvaa 4 года назад

I’m so glad I’m in the no-contact period because my ex is cold af and made it super clear that they’ll never regret what they did to me and even got mad that I was trying to make them feel guilty for expressing how they hurt me !! What an absolute piece of trash !!!

@ashtensmith27 4 года назад

Vishvaa Pandya sounds like mine

@charlenemoody4496 4 года назад

REHE'S NARCISSTIC...YOU'RE BETTER OFF...WE ARE BETTER OF WITHOUT THEM.

@divyaatchu1749 3 года назад

Samee

@singhabhishek27 Год назад

Are they contacted or anything??

@rashidshahofficial7406 Год назад

Did they contact again?

@Rafael-lr4gn 5 лет назад

Never. Never. Never ger back to your ex

@Rafael-lr4gn 5 лет назад

@J J because you need to accept the break up and get over it. If someone leave you thats because she is with other man in mind. No matter what you try. Even if she comes back to you. That man in her mind is still there. In her thoughts. Theres a lot of fish in the ocean.

@fjmt1441 5 лет назад

@J J check Jocko's Willink video on breaking up and you might just find your answer.

@MahaLaxmisinger 5 лет назад

I agree with you Rafael. Once a trust is lost it is lost.

@tonylama2012 5 лет назад

I pray to God to get back with my ex and he told me no but granted my pryer. It was the worst 4 years of my life. I'm single again and stress free but scarred for life.

@Mb-ng4de 5 лет назад

I agree with u Rafael 100%

@jayzeljavier4652 4 года назад

Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! Out of all the coaches I have listened to, I heard and listened to you the most! You captured my attention coach Lee. Oh my god, I don’t want to be a back up plan. And I had an “aha” moment, that yes, I do matter! I have been crying the last 2 days because of him. Im so tired of crying. You made me get out of my funk. Now I can leave my car, go inside my home and know that everything will be ok. ❤️

@YoursTrudie Год назад

One of the many points you teach us, that I found important is that feeling of being devalued. Worthless, empty, nothing…but yes, our family and friends value us! Initially, it wasn’t foremost on my devastated mind but came later after the shock and disappointment and I realized how important your words are. For me, it’s been 6 months of silence. After 4 emotional months, I sent an email asking for an explanation, no reply. No response is his response. I’ve accepted it and have been moving on. Everyday that passes seems brighter thanks to you Coach Lee. 🙏🏻

@TheAV2X 4 года назад

Lee i just want to thank you man, my girlfriend of two years left me a month ago and i was horribly depressed. I didnt eat for weeks at a time and I contemplating ending my own life. Once i found your channel you gave me hope. Iv recently started no contact and in 4 days she messaged me asking how i was doing.. again, thank you man.

@davidaustin8424 3 года назад

How did it work out?

@writegirl2937 5 лет назад

I would never circle back to an ex. Why give someone another chance if they didn’t deserve you in the first place? This is foolish talk.

@DarknessIsThePath 5 лет назад

Depends, everyone that has been dumped is not innocent so, or sometimes both have equal wrongs but one of you have less limits

@hanimay6843 5 лет назад

Sometimes people need to grow a bit more and figure things out in order to make the relationship work. It is a bit creepy to actively chase your ex around though. The situation should be allowed to breathe and evolve and then maybe it will just organically happen.

@alexandrahempsall7610 5 лет назад

My boyfriend and i are beautiful together, he loves me but he is leaving me and moving his ex into our home. For the last 3 years he has held guilt about being a drunk asshole and making the mother of his child back so they can be a family. But its not gona work

@user-vm7ky6dr1w 5 лет назад

Golden Never let an old flame burn you twice! I tell myself this all the time

@masonbaumbach2378 5 лет назад

That’s just your ego talking if u were to good for him u would’ve never fucked wit him. Stop a being a stuck up BIATCHHH! 😭

@SuperMbosch 3 года назад

My ex came back after a little over a month. No contact works. Stay strong. Thank you Coach Lee I will be sending you appreciation

@eve3363 Год назад

I just found your channel. You are the best relationship coach I've encountered on RU-vid thus far: caring, considerate, intelligent.

@milbyvision12 5 лет назад

This gave me a tremendous amount of confidence, I’m doing no contact, and I feel a lot better about now. The way you explained it made me excited to do my own thing, and in a way hopefully make my Ex feel the pain I felt. I’m about two weeks into the break up it was mutual but I only agreed because I knew she didn’t want the relationship anymore, so technically I was dumped and I didn’t realize that until now. I’m actually move on quite fast amazingly, I do get moments of nostalgic sadness, but also happiness think about the fun times we had. You hit some important points that I will definitely use: “act casual and make them think your doing great” I think that’s is simple but so important. Thanks Coach.

@liqdelshaun 5 лет назад

Milby Vision going through the exact same thing

@liqdelshaun 5 лет назад

Zebron me or...?

@milbyvision12 5 лет назад

@@TheAsh265 Update: I fell off the no contact wagon June 15th after going a solid two weeks. i reached out to exclaim that "I didn't want to be friends", because previously at the break up i told her we could be friends after we had our time apart, and that i would giver her a second chance... so after seeing some videos and reading about friendship after the break up, i decided i needed to swiftly and efficiently tell her, i did not want to be friends, and i also told her that " Im worth more than that" which i am, and she knows that. After sending that text it literally put my mentality back at square one, day 1 of no contact, and it was horrible, i needed to reach out to tell her that, but it messed me up and it made me want to text her back and say i didn't mean that... because i fucking care about her, and lover her, but right now i need to love myself and not give any fucks about her to put it harshly. If you take anything away from this, its that reaching out for any reason even if you think its justifiable, will set you back, i don't regret reaching out and telling her "No friendship" but shit its like falling down after being half way up the hill. If you want to talk more and even be accountability partners, assuming your doing no contact as well, PM on YT and we can talk more. My break up is more complex than what I've said here, and leads me to believe that i have a lower chance of getting her back, but i wont know until i actually shut up and don't say anything to her, she needs to understand my pain.

@GUITARTIME2024 4 года назад

Stay strong and move on

@XVNRX 4 года назад

Milby Vision anything Happen sense ?

@gxglee5616 5 лет назад

I so needed this 😞, I'm depressed and I feel heart broken... Thank you for the video

@TFGcine 5 лет назад

I was this way 2 years ago. Trust me with due time you'll feel better.

@jum0n3y 4 года назад

Hang in there focus on u

@sandravecchi5226 Год назад

Thanks so much Coach Lee! You have guided me through a very difficult and painful experience and everything you advised me to do has worked. You were my guiding Angel and my comfort through the journey. Your delivery is sensitive, confident and reassuring. I’m sure you are helping many people through very difficult times and for this I wish you every success! Sandra

@RealCoachLee Год назад

Thank you for the kind words and the tip/"Super Thanks"!

@m1ll1on4r3 Год назад

Please more info for us heartbroken. How long were you together before the break up? How long was the break up? How old are you guys? Married ? What was the reason for the break up? Hope it’s ok to ask.