Going through that exact thing, it’s never been so peaceful being ignored. My brother knows I’m moving out in 3 weeks & also knows that I’ve got his number. He’s completely ready to blow a gasket, I’m actually enjoying the hell out of it. It’s been a really tough 2 years but my eyes and ears are wide open.
Thank you Charmain...you explain beautifully..Ive just escaped a narcisist..he came back 2 months later after dumping me over xmas...I woke up..and blocked him..thank you ❤
Thank you for your comment, that's very kind I appreciate the feedback and welcome to the channel :) So glad you're out of the mess and have gone no contact - the best way to deal with these soul suckers! Please stay safe, and hopefully, out of the narcissists orbit. I hope you're doing well.
I am SO SICK of their sense of entitlement. I put up with it growing up but I will not let my parents treat my kids like their personal ego inflators. 🤢
Hello Charmaine your video popped up on my timeline very good video informational I was raised my a malignant narcissist father growing up he was there but wasn't there no emotional connection at all many years later I married one that was just like my father after 31/2 years I discarded the so called spouse and I gone no contact he is gonna have to sign the divorce decree I filed for divorce a few months ago there is no going back to that demonic creature very evil and wicked I refuse to deal with him ever again.
You made it out! I'm SO so glad that you did. Often times, our childhood experiences can influence our relationships later in life, from personal experience 💜 Thank you for tuning in and finding value in the content, welcome to the channel. I appreciate you sharing so openly. I'm routing for your peace, health and future happiness 🙏 please stay safe X
I kicked the malignant narcissistic spouse out of my place he Hoovered twice a few months apart I didn't respond at all and he has called me texts messages and now sends mail to my address me I'm silent I value my peace he can't come back to me ever he said certain things and after he made it know I made it clear he won't hear from me no more
No contact is the best way to go. Thats where our power lies, thats where our healing is, thats how we win back our sense of self worth and agency. Good for you, please stay safe 🙏 I hope you're doing ok X
my ex narc friend would use some of these tactics to have things go her way. I told her how I struggled with a different friend in a situation, where she promised we would work together much more active if I just go all the way over to visit her for some weeks. But she was doing anything but do what we have planned. She was lazy and having no interest to take the project serious. My ex narc friend would use that past to compare me to that person and make herself look like the one who have been done wrong to while making me appear like the bad one. I don't think she even remembered the story right when she used that to manipulate me. Problem is, I was already working hard and updating nearly every day but I also got bills to pay and depressions to deal with and she wasn't even helping like she was supposed to but still expected me to rush it and get things done because she was going to gain something from it either way... This is where I started to notice somethings really off about her and where her mask was slipping but god forbid when I voice an serious issue I started having with her in the discard phase where I decided I wanted to move on and not bother trying to talk this out with her Again, then she would tell everyone how I'm guilt tripping her.... So yeah, a lot of things you mentioned here, I also have experienced it
Thank you for sharing your experience so openly and honestly, you deserve true friendship, unfortunately we can unknowlingly fall victim to these types and it can take a while to learn their toxic pattern of behaviour. Once you know, it's extremely difficult to unsee it! Stay safe, I wish you peace, health, real love and prosperity ❤
Thanks, really good video 👌 This made me realize for the First time in three years that when he played victim in front of others also when I was there and yelled at him, it was probably an attempt to make me feel sorry for him and take him back 😂🤨 We were together for almost two years but because he had a wife that was just pure security for him he couldn’t hoover me back cause maybe I would tell the wife 😮 so he did the things you described but in different order. First threatened me the day after I broke up, kind of a real threat but also an empty 😏 then smear campaign to the wife and an other supply he met after me and probably his colleagues 😒 and then the silent treatment. No responding to my harsh text and blocking 😂 and pretending to be cold 🥶 then after 1,5 year after the breakup he played the victim in a situation 😏 But it’s hard to tell if the main attempt was to get me back or just make me suffer 😬 Is it normal that they hoover in diffferent order and do you believe his attempt was to get me back by playing the victim 🤡 more than he was the victim in that situation? Thanks 😊🙏
Its very true, there is no particular order for which these people use their manipulative tactics, but hard to say what the motive could have been as I'm not personally connected to the person, you will know more than I. Thank you for tuning in to the content, I hope you found some value in it 🙏 I
Thank you for responding 🙏 I believe there was like 50/50 or 60/40 of make me suffer/get me back and it’s ironical and absurd how narcissists have such big ego and delusional and can have dubble and paradoxal agendas 🤔 I was angry and had a reason of put him down in front of others and exposing him 🫣 I think that woke a lot of shame 😩👍 A normal person would have known that they could never get me back after treated me the way he did specially after the relation ended, name calling, body shaming, threatening my life and triangulation and tried to make me jealous both with the wife and the back then “new supply” and also try to isolate me and make me anxious of seeing him through strategical working and driving the bus close to where I live and training at the same gym for now over three years 🤕 so almost stalking 👎 Luckily I have only seen him two times in three years and exposed him both times 🙏
By leaving, going no contact, healing and happily going on with our lives. That is our sweetest victory. Thank you for tuning in and welcome to our community :)
