I spoke with the new supply. I said to her you are the new supply. She says to me.I don’t supply anything. I said to myself that’s just the way he likes them. Dumb 😩😒
The ex narc in my life was already aging and desperate. The "devalue" stage started almost immediately. If the "new supply" lasts 6 months, I'd be amazed! Prayers to the stupid little thing! 🤣
They definitely become more like themselves as they get older, let's hope the new person comes to their senses sooner rather than later! Thank you for sharing your comment with us here, welcome!
I completely empathise with what you're going through and sad to hear how rough things are for you right now ❤ This process, it can be such a painful experience, maybe one of the hardest things to go through. I'm proud of you Sir! Please keep going. You are stronger than whatever you face and this WILL get easier ❤ Sending love X
I was totally in that place too and I promise you it will get better. I started to feel like me again around 6 months after no contact. Please stay the course, you will smile again, you will laugh again. The tears will stop, they did for me and I feel like a way better version of myself today. Stay strong x
I've been discarded by the narcissist for 4 mths I caught him with the new supply then the next day he was living with her im not doing very good thank you for your videos they are good❤
@@robyncampbell9624 I can imagine the emotional toll this is taking on you, I'm so sorry you've been subjected to such cruel and disrespectful treatment. Respectfully, if you can frame this discard as a positive (which it absolutely is, although it's difficult) this can help you to move on with your life. They will soon, begin to devalue this new person and ultimately, it'll end. The narc cycle must go on! Thank you for sharing your comment with us, wishing you peace and healing 💜💫
Luckily my recently estremged narc partner of 15 years/ husb of 10 years abandoned us for a copy cat that stole my identity and trained her to be like me. His personal pick me. Luckily she's secretly even more vile then hi. and is also a narc who will teach him what it's like to be in the shoes of a devalued door mat. Now he's hoovering, so I can go back to sleep and let him finish trying to rob me.
Wow! Thank you for sharing your story with us here - what a plot twist in the horror movie that is the narcissist's relationship history! I literally just wrote in another comment, it'd be great if all narcs would just go and date each other and leave us good people be! I guess he's getting to taste the bitterness of his own medicine, huh? Whatever a man soweth, so shall he reap - I love that for him. Welcome to the channel, please stay safe, wishing you healing, health and happiness.
I just found your channel ❤ Ive started a Playlist on my Channel as well because ive been married to a Covert Coward for 12 years,it took his brutal discard last May before I realized exactly what he is,I mistaken it for alcoholism alone, NOPE! He slithered off to live with the secretary from his work immediately (I realized after the fact, that he and her had been sleeping together before he discarded me) . I don't feel sorry for her at all, she flat out said that she doesn't care that hes married 🤷♀️😈 He may have just met his demise with another Narc. Hes dragging out this divorce although hes lived with her more than 8 months. Anyways,thanks for Sharing this,Im on my healing journey ❤
A warm welcome @ladyvirgo, thank you for sharing so openly - my heart goes out to you for what we've endured, WOW! I'm so glad you're safe and out of that. You make a great point too, I'd like to take the opportunity to draw the distinction that innocent 'new supply' is who I refer to here - people who insert themselves into someone else's marriage, and so callously, gets ZERO sympathy from me! I wish you healing and happiness sis, routing for you!
@charmainespeaksnpd he has the vows that he stepped on so in my view,he's more to blame however her part and her arrogance about it was mind boggling. I'm sure they both have some negative karma coming.
Hey sis, I empathise with the discomfort. Unfortunately, the stalking is a hallmark behaviour of these types of people, it's a common saying in the community, "once you depart from them, you have a stalker for life". Now, maybe not literally for life, but they love to linger around and watch their ex's. Be safe, stay no contact if possible, block them and try your best to abstain from visiting places you think they could show up at. If you feel you're your in danger, record any activity that you can and seek assistance from the authorities X Take care
This is typical. It’s a way of manipulating you so you think, “oh wow he’s crazy enough to track me down. He must be I love!” It’s bullcrap - they’re just trying to satisfy their own egos. Be careful!!!
Hey, thanks for your comment and great question. They'll continue with the behavioural cycle - love bomb the mess out of the new person, then devalue them (if they're not doing so already) and mentally discard them, even if they don't physically discard them. They'll mentally 'check out' of the situation but still reap the financial benefits - and no doubt, they'll have new supply on the side to quench their thirst as usual. I hope you're well, a warm welcome to the community :)
He wore that mask 41 years! When I saw him without it I told him that I see him for what he is. I hear him and his new person arguing often on the phone, then he becomes a RUNNER. Packed up like a HOBO and gone I guess this is to make. His new supply miss him so she will act like he wants them to! This mess is like watching a never ending movie.
Oh wow - how scary is it to see what lurks underneath that mask! They are master manipulators and so sadistic in their treatment of people. I feel for the current victim. Yes! Quite possibly, he's used this 'runnner' tactic and it's worked for him, I guess this is an abuse tactic of choice to beat his supply into submission :( Thank you for sharing this comment, and welcome to the channel. I hope you're safe and well.
In 18 months after getting kicked out my ex-wife narc invited herself to my hotel room when I went to visit my son. Keep in mind she was married to the new supply. I told her no and to keep it about my son only. She was tired of him in less than two years and if I didn't cheat with her I am sure she found someone that would.
@@charmainespeaks Yes, the cycle continued with her calling me up complaining about how the new supply was treating her bad. I told her I don't care and keep it about my son. Then if I didn't show any concern she would just cuss me out and call my new wife a Bitch. She tried that many times over the years to see if I would fall for that trap. I found out she has several domestic violence charges against her for hitting her husband. She use to hit on me so I knew it was only a matter of time before it went to hell for him. Eventually he divorced her. When they were having their affair I warned him and told him see what she is doing to me and you will be next. But, I supposed he was on his ego trip thinking he is taking another man wife. LOL, she walked him right into her honey pot trap. Over the years when I called to speak to my son he would sometimes answer the phone. I would troll him asking if he has learned to duck and dodge flying plates? Or has she started spending the entire night away from the home? Or, has she stopped wearing her wedding ring? He would not say a word but I knew he felt stupid. I told him about how his wife invited herself back to my hotel room when he was deployed with the military. I told him whenever he wanted me to take a polygraph test about turning down his wife's invitation to sleep together just let me know. I suppose I can be very petty when it is called for and he deserved all of it. I am sure she found a a divorce lawyer with low morals to bleed him for as much as she could get. He deserves that as well. Yes, I got away with my sanity and life got a hundred times better away from her.
i won't be praying for him, he was as bad as her with his sneaky backstabbing, i knew from the start something was up so much i put diary entries every day after a week of her moving in, she accused me of rape but that very diary and facebook msges saved me, but i still kept trying to help as i thought she had BPD, 6 yrs on, the discard of all discards, was ok in the morning and never came back, bang on the same day as my sons and late fathers birthday, anyways won't go on but they are all deluded, never ever go back, she's tried but was only trying to feed her ego and she did this hoover on the date of my late mothers death anniversay, they don't and will never care, just hurt them by blocking them and yes she had this guy waiting for supply, and i'll tell you this, he was 3 at least grades down, unbelievable, its as if they go with lesser individuals to make us question our/my worth, but i'm strong and she knows i know shes a Narc because i've told her, good riddence and good luck everyone
Wow, this is frightening sir, I'm so sorry to hear all of this. Thank goodness you was able to clear your name and that you've found the strength to get out of the mess. They don't care about anything but supply, you're so right! But, what ever a man soweth, so shall he reap - people who play dirty can never win in the end and so the new chap will soon taste the bitterness of his own medicine. No contact, as you know, is our victory - thank you for sharing so openly here and welcome to the channel. I wish you nothing but healing, health and happiness X
@@charmainespeaks thank you for your kind reply, and thank you for the work you do on this horrible subject, there are many out there who chose to end their life with the pain they suffer from these demons
I really don’t care about the new supply. He’s treating them better right now but he is staying with her instead of his 84 year old mother. Really, he’s such a bad person and she’ll find out soon enough-she’s divorced and running a game too so they deserve each other; my son told me they fight but not sure about what and that things aren’t as good as I think and is almost over - 😢really 😂
The cycle MUST go on, right! I'm glad you see that pantomime for what it really is, nothing more than performance - always! I think all narcissists should just date each other and stay away from good people with good intentions! Just leave us alone! Thank you for sharing your comment with us here, and welcome to the channel :) I hope you're doing well.
SO so exhausting just thinking about that herem merry-go-round! But hey, the show must go on for him, right! Thank you so much for dropping by and sharing your comment. Be safe and well, and welcome to the channel 💜
I have dealt with an abusive employer and waiting to get in my own housing they put their supply against me an than what gets me is how is that person ok with seeing someone like me treated like this and you want to be the narcissist really I awoke so that is what the new evil supply deserves
Thank you for sharing your experience in the comments here, I'm so sorry to hear about what you've been through. How horrid! Sometimes, the supply they get their hands on next can be just as toxic as they are. Morally bankrupt and low vibrational people - stay clear and try to rest in the comfort that - you're NOT them 💜 imagine!
A baby ain't going to change them, the cycle, unfortunately, must go on. All it means is, another person has been duped by the love bomb, and all we can do is hope they realise what they have 'bagged' and find their own strength to deal with the situation accordingly. I wish you healing, health and happiness, welcome to the community - please stay safe.
