I'm one of those people who's mom only kept so she could get child support. My older sister father never paid child support. My dad was such a good dad. When he got something for me he also got it for my sister. I remember so many arguments between my mom and stepmother because she didn't want my dad to provide for my older sister. People don't realize kids pay attention to everything. I'm grown and both of my parents are gone. I loved both but I also knew which one loved ME and which one loved the money they got for me.