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Why Your Ex Must Come To YOU 

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Coach Lee explains why your ex must come to you after a breakup if you want them back both short and long term.
Though it's tempting to try to help them along or to reach out, the numbers over the last two decades have been clear - let your ex come to you to get them back. It's not just something that sounds good, it actually works.
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@ak.88
@ak.88 3 года назад
If someone really loves you and wanna be with you, they will come to you. Don't ruin your lives for anyone.
@davidc5247
@davidc5247 3 года назад
Very true what you are saying, if they do they will
@johnrondylcano3642
@johnrondylcano3642 3 года назад
if me and my ex girlfriend are still communicating even we broke up 2 weeks ago, can i still use no contact or is it time to move on?
@gamegirl8945
@gamegirl8945 3 года назад
@@johnrondylcano3642 still use no contact but let them come to you and respond when they reach out just casually just don’t initiate first Did they break up with you or was it mutual?
@johnrondylcano3642
@johnrondylcano3642 3 года назад
@@gamegirl8945 she dumped me. is the no contact still effective or not? I've ignored her messages 2 days then we accidentally met at the house of one of our mutual friends, then she hugged me and said she miss me but she doesn't want to get back together. I'm confused.
@gamegirl8945
@gamegirl8945 3 года назад
@@johnrondylcano3642 ah ok you shouldn’t be completely ignoring her messages because that doesn’t give a good outlook. By all means you don’t need to respond straightaway but I wouldn’t advise completely ignoring. No contact should work provided you don’t initiate and let her come to you and chase you as it sounds like she is missing you but is unsure what she wants at the moment I would give her space and let her come to you
@lp3761
@lp3761 3 года назад
The strongest negotiating position is being able to walk away and mean it
@lenaschaef6714
@lenaschaef6714 3 года назад
@@jemrevlee7206 blocked and reported
@lp3761
@lp3761 3 года назад
@@lenaschaef6714 what did his comment say? It's removed.
@shripadsawant1756
@shripadsawant1756 3 года назад
@@lp3761 mods remove the scambot comments
@robertowalters2009
@robertowalters2009 3 года назад
Well. You are right. But if possible you need or want to get your ex back I will be happy to recommend you to someone that have helped me before.
@lenaschaef6714
@lenaschaef6714 3 года назад
@@robertowalters2009 if you post a phone number now you'll get reported
@elvisofosuhene9844
@elvisofosuhene9844 Год назад
If they broke up with you,never ever contact them. The moment you do, they will never respect you and you will appear weak in their eyes. When they do contact, act cool but not too friendly,keep it simple. During the NC Stage, u will realise they’re not that extraordinary or special. Always watch Coach Lee when u fell like breaking the NC rule👍🏿
@Sihara.Liyanapathirana
@Sihara.Liyanapathirana Год назад
Yessss
@Memory8779
@Memory8779 Год назад
In no contact ..You realize There not that special...and you probably made that illusion in your head ..
@bigdaddy2123
@bigdaddy2123 Год назад
Amen
@36Nep
@36Nep 2 месяца назад
Its only your love for them that made them look special and extraordinary.
@alenrivas8054
@alenrivas8054 Месяц назад
​@@36NepThis is 100% true. Basically the reason why eventhough there are many fishes in the ocean, your eyes are attracted to this person only. Because you love him/her. And that's the exact same reason why they are special. But once your feelings fade, you would see them as an ordinary stranger.
@MIMIDSH
@MIMIDSH Год назад
Despite my broken heart, I'm extremely proud of myself for NOT reaching out. I won't. I know he's expecting me to, and he's going to be surprised every day that I don't.
@user-iq7hv7ud8u
@user-iq7hv7ud8u 11 месяцев назад
Period ❤
@user-hv7rk8vk4v
@user-hv7rk8vk4v 4 месяца назад
My. Ex. Is. In. A. Relationship. With another woman I don't. Know what. Is. Going to. Happen. But. I. Will. Stay. Nc. An. Trust. In. God.
@MIMIDSH
@MIMIDSH 4 месяца назад
@@user-hv7rk8vk4vI noticed I posted my comment a year ago. We finally got together again last fall, and have been seeing each other since. I needed those 6 months of no contact to overcome my anxious attachment and feel better about myself. He had gotten involved with a toxic woman but it didn't last. Things are better this time around. I love him in a different way now because I'm a different person. Wishing you the best. Manifest love.
@Borderlandsurvivor
@Borderlandsurvivor 2 года назад
My anxiety goes through the roof just thinking about my ex. I miss her and love her with all my heart and truly believe in a future with her. Your videos ease my anxiety instantly thank you coach.
@anhthuls98
@anhthuls98 2 года назад
How are you now
@Borderlandsurvivor
@Borderlandsurvivor 2 года назад
@@anhthuls98 better but not with her.
@anhthuls98
@anhthuls98 2 года назад
@@Borderlandsurvivor hope you move on soon
@Borderlandsurvivor
@Borderlandsurvivor 2 года назад
@@anhthuls98 thank you, it’s been a difficult road after 4 1/2 years of being together losing her was life shattering but I’m slowly picking up the pieces.
@Borderlandsurvivor
@Borderlandsurvivor 2 года назад
@@anhthuls98 thank you, I still have hope but I’m doing what I can
@melissajane8676
@melissajane8676 3 года назад
I don't want him back, I'm healing and finally loving my life without him.
@edaluv
@edaluv 3 года назад
This is week 5 for me.. I refuse to call. I will never call him again,( without him making contact first ) but that being said I’d love to get back together with him. I love him but I just can’t reach out. Not after the way he broke it off which I know in my heart he regrets. I’m hoping that the no contact works but either way I am moving forward in my life. I think of him every day and I keep positive and send him love often , I manifest as well. I hope you all get back the ones you love also 🥰🥰🥰
@xMikeyHardyx
@xMikeyHardyx 3 года назад
Have you really moved forward in your life if you want this guy so bad?
@BLACKRAIN390
@BLACKRAIN390 3 года назад
YOU GETTING OLD,,,MEN LIKE YOUNGER LADIES ,,,KEEP WAITING IF YOU WANT TO 😪😪😪
@edaluv
@edaluv 3 года назад
@@xMikeyHardyx so bad? Maybe? Have I moved on? No! MOVING ON?? Yes.. .if I am being honest .. I love him, but I’m living my life. It’s possible to live your life and still Love someone right? I can’t dwell in darkness and sadness. Absolutely not. I live my life as if he will be back at some point but if not, I’m taking to other male friends , , being with my family and loved ones. Definitely moving forward and living my life with the hopes he’ll be back but after enough time. I know it will be a complete wrap. When I think of that, I am sad but it’s ok.
@edaluv
@edaluv 3 года назад
@@BLACKRAIN390 I’m not getting old. I am old lol.. it’s ok.. I’m still really good looking 🤷🏾‍♀️
@edaluv
@edaluv 3 года назад
@@abdulazeezbabalola944 nope, not doing it
@minajan4316
@minajan4316 3 года назад
My best advice is to move on and wait on no one.. Live your life and meet new people and work on yourself. Just cuz you love someone don't mean y'all belong together. Love is not enough. Trust is important too amongst other things. If its meant to be let it be if not move on. And 99. 9 exes always return when you move on with someone else. True story but too little too late. Stay safe. ❤
@honza7130
@honza7130 3 года назад
Actually false they dont return
@tercsi1
@tercsi1 3 года назад
@@honza7130 I agree...they don't especially if you stay away THAT long. I think it depends on the situation honestly. It's been about 26 days since me fiance dumped me. I begged and pleaded even fought with him for 21 of those says ....all texts...he refuses to talk on the phone. But he answered each text immediately. I'm going to give him at least one month then I will contact him if he doesn't contact me....I will keep trying , but if he starts dating or even talking to other women...I'm done!
@HH-wv9fm
@HH-wv9fm 3 года назад
Yes I know we both love each other but it's not enough :( I can't forgive him for ghosting me while pregnant.
@a.fleming
@a.fleming 3 года назад
Yep. I never feel the same when they try to come back. Once you do something dirty to me, I'm done
@minajan4316
@minajan4316 2 года назад
@@najimuhawau5976 good for you.
@freepressright
@freepressright 3 года назад
The best condensed advice, from the files of Coach Lee and countless other life coaches who preach Law of Attraction/Assumption is to detach from the ex and work on YOU. Build self love. Build self respect. When you find love for and within yourself, nothing can replace that. You will exude confidence and magnetism that eventually your ex will feel. I believe that an ex can feel when you stop sending them energy. I've seen it a million times. When you've detached emotionally, they will know it, and it will rattle most of them awake. Your world within (your mind) is your world outside. Instead of focusing on changing them, focus on changing YOU. Most often, THAT is what will change them. Best of luck and good vibes for everyone going through a rough time. There is light on the other side.
@FreedominLove711
@FreedominLove711 2 года назад
Thanks for that
@NIDARSHAN_
@NIDARSHAN_ 2 года назад
Thanks sir🙏
@yazanalmarzouqi2468
@yazanalmarzouqi2468 2 года назад
It's called break state, and it works, worked for me many times in the past and it must work for me in this current situation
@caseym4276
@caseym4276 Год назад
Reminds me of the blonde dude with long hair that talks about energy
@ireneashanut8873
@ireneashanut8873 Год назад
He hurt me so bad. Week 12 radio silence- no contact. He reached out at week 6. I was indifferent, i did not have the desire to respond at all. I was enjoying my healing, it has been unbelievably amazing and so fulfilling. I do not even desire him chasing me -honestly. I seem so long done with him! I AM A HAPPY SINGLE WOMAN ... Thanks Lee and other coaches! I look forward to a great person in the future
@Ivy89261
@Ivy89261 5 месяцев назад
I feel the same. I would not have believed it a few weeks ago but i feel so free now. I dont have to ask someone how to spend my time. I focus on hobbys and learn new things. Sometimes i miss him but i startet to think why should i care if he doesn't?
@godfather4377
@godfather4377 3 года назад
Be careful what you wish for wanting them back. They might come back, and it might be a disaster and something you regret very much. Remember what you feel right now, isn't what you'll feel tomorrow, the next week, month, year, etc.. No matter how much pain, sorrow, and how much you feel you can't live without them (trust me I felt all that too).
@godfather4377
@godfather4377 3 года назад
@@victorialouise3980 True love comes within. And if that person doesn’t accept you, then you are better off. It’s not personal. Sometimes it’s better to move on.
@tercsi1
@tercsi1 3 года назад
Tom K so true
@godfather4377
@godfather4377 3 года назад
It will get better. She came back and left again. I hope it’s for good this time. I wanted her back and it quickly reminded me it was worse than I thought when she came back. We often go through the pedestal phase after the anger and sadness phase wears off. Then you just realize life was better after they left and we often build them up more than what they were.
@khalidruthie1173
@khalidruthie1173 2 года назад
±2349056214114⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up...
@GlitterBabySnakPakk
@GlitterBabySnakPakk 2 года назад
This happened to me. I finally allowed him to leave and when he saw that i wasn’t fighting for him anymore, he begged for me to move in with him “for the kids sake”. So I did and now a week later after moving my entire life into his house, he sent me a text Thursday morning saying he made a mistake and got a moving truck and moved my stuff back out by Saturday. Should’ve just stood my ground when I told him I was fine staying at my place but I let him talk me into it just to turn around and uproot my life. Now our daughters world is crashing down around her when previously, we were in an ok place with allowing her dad to leave like he’d wanted. Once she thought we would all move in and be a family again, she was so happy 😔
@MaRiAm936
@MaRiAm936 3 года назад
Why do they come back? -to strake their ego -they are bored -to make sure you still there and you didn't move on -the person with whom they moved on had left them
@SecondChanceHiker
@SecondChanceHiker 3 года назад
It’s been 5 months, and she is with someone new. so yeah she isn’t coming back. It’s painful for the first 2-3 months but it gets better. Excited to find a better partner!
@karan6516
@karan6516 3 года назад
My ex started dating someone else too for 3 months but I kept my no contact and she did come back after 6 months and she apologized for everything she put me through She left him and wanted to come back to me but you don't have to rush that time and just take your time untill she realises it
@martindavies1616
@martindavies1616 3 года назад
Personally I am little to no better after 12 months .
@SecondChanceHiker
@SecondChanceHiker 3 года назад
@@martindavies1616 have you tried therapy? I got on an anti depressant and got therapy and it has really helped. Don’t fight the emotions. Embrace them. Try to have more positive days compared to negative. It takes time.
@SecondChanceHiker
@SecondChanceHiker 3 года назад
@@karan6516 that’s great! Idk I was really unhappy in the relationship so wanting her back doesn’t seem that great although I love her!
@mariobx7186
@mariobx7186 3 года назад
The worst pain ever but yea in time it gets better at first it might feel like forever the pain ain't goin away any time soon but u well be ok as time goes just remain strong
@jaredvaughan1665
@jaredvaughan1665 3 года назад
Just like the prodigical son. The father waited for his son to hit rock bottom and come back to him.
@omokheowaabdulhameed4181
@omokheowaabdulhameed4181 3 года назад
I just got my relationship fixed and my ||ex|husband is •back• to me and we are living happily like never before I got help|from apowerfu|l spiritualist and his spe|ls works effectively just as you want
@omokheowaabdulhameed4181
@omokheowaabdulhameed4181 3 года назад
Whatzpp him on
@omokheowaabdulhameed4181
@omokheowaabdulhameed4181 3 года назад
+2'3'4:8'1:2'0'7'6'8-29 5
@JoJo-nv8jy
@JoJo-nv8jy 3 месяца назад
So true.
@HonestTraveller
@HonestTraveller 3 года назад
When they find someone else I think that’s when you realise they won’t come back. It’s over, move on. Clearly didn’t love you if they don’t come back.
@HonestTraveller
@HonestTraveller 3 года назад
@@SexAndCandyHair92 I guess thats just a way of people dealing with it. Most of the time rebounds become long term partners. People just look at rebounds as a hope they will return, Most of the times they dont.
@honza7130
@honza7130 3 года назад
Only like low % are rebounds just give up
@joycebaily5543
@joycebaily5543 3 года назад
@@selflove1379 Do not let anyone come in between you and your relationship goal. Get them back to you and make their love strong like the ocean
@joycebaily5543
@joycebaily5543 3 года назад
@@HonestTraveller I can connect you to someone who helped me attract my ex partner back to me after separation
@joycebaily5543
@joycebaily5543 3 года назад
+2348119132200
@justsub_me3968
@justsub_me3968 3 года назад
She came back to my life After 5 month in No contact rule! Thank you for Your Help!!!
@khalidruthie1173
@khalidruthie1173 2 года назад
±2349056214114⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up...
@estradaoscar316
@estradaoscar316 2 года назад
It’s been a week for me and I’m dying
@darioussmith3450
@darioussmith3450 Год назад
How are you all doing now?
@ags835
@ags835 Год назад
Congrats, good luck!
@friskies89
@friskies89 Год назад
Wow 5 mos is a long time! I've lost hope and it's been 25 days. I hope you're happy and your relationship is successful!
@andreaphillips7499
@andreaphillips7499 3 года назад
I got my ex back thanks coach lee I love you coach
@Meemaw241
@Meemaw241 3 года назад
Can u tell me ur story?
@Meemaw241
@Meemaw241 3 года назад
@Anna Dav dude there’s so many bots gtfo
@michaelh9251
@michaelh9251 3 года назад
How long did it take
@ags835
@ags835 Год назад
Great, good luck!
@Andrii87
@Andrii87 3 года назад
I know, this video only hooks me up more in the idea of my ex coming back, instead of moving on, but I still watch it. Those ideas are addictive.
@blAnc1k
@blAnc1k 3 года назад
funny to have these videos pop up in notifications, I remember the first days, when videos like these were like a breath of air that you so deeply craved and now after some time passed you just laugh it off and empathize with others who are just starting their healing journey. stay strong
@jessepushor9967
@jessepushor9967 3 года назад
almost 8 months no contact she's been in a rebound doubt I will hear from her again thanks coach lee for the videos as always
@elakpucko3
@elakpucko3 3 года назад
Ignore all the whatsapp spammers, bro. And it's not the worst thing that can happen, you'll be okay, king 👑 I believe in you.
@elakpucko3
@elakpucko3 3 года назад
@@selflove1379 shuuuuuut the f up, bro
@honza7130
@honza7130 3 года назад
You might hear from her but just from courtesy just move on
@sobreezy2456
@sobreezy2456 Год назад
Did she reach out?
@KenRFoxNashvilleSEO
@KenRFoxNashvilleSEO 3 года назад
Very well said! You're incredible with framing the situation and highlighting the cause and effect of following the wrong (but very natural) impulses created by pain, anxiety, and fear.
@RedRanger_
@RedRanger_ 3 года назад
This video dropped at the perfect time. Weather is starting to get nice. People might be tempted to reach out. Coach Lee said “nah! Don’t! And here’s why” I fucks with Coach Lee. He’s helped me and he doesn’t even know my face or me in general. Thank you
@housestark4174
@housestark4174 3 года назад
I was doing an interview when I received a notification of this video hahaha I was like at the end of it so instead of telling the hiring manager (Thank for the interview, ...etc), I told him (Thank you for the video) meant yours @coachlee 🤣🤣🤣 I corrected myself right away( thank you for the video interview)
@andrasmajtenyi94
@andrasmajtenyi94 3 года назад
Coach you’re amazing! Please make a video about why do you think a relationship can be better for the second time around and what makes a rekindled relationship is unique🥺
@kubydu8486
@kubydu8486 3 года назад
Coach Lee! First off, beautiful shirt! Second, thank you for this video. I have been having doubts and this video came at the perfect time. Thank you!!
@eliswerekio
@eliswerekio 3 года назад
Why do I still cry and come back to your videos even after almost two months...
@jasperamelia861
@jasperamelia861 3 года назад
i know a powerful man who can restore your broken relationship and marriage within 48hours without delay.
@jasperamelia861
@jasperamelia861 3 года назад
Text him via WhatsApp
@BB-mz8lr
@BB-mz8lr 3 года назад
You are not alone, almost two months for me too, i just sendt her a message that i appologized for how i reacted to the break up and said that i respect her descision. She broke up with me and i begged her so much. I messed up badly. I just miss her so much. «What is grief, if not love persevering»
@dtjdtj2890
@dtjdtj2890 2 года назад
It’s life it means u loved him so much it will slowly decline trust me
@zeyadahmedsamer3443
@zeyadahmedsamer3443 2 года назад
I am very sorry for you...stay strong...i can feel you I am also in NC for two month also..we are all with you
@nicolechemla4627
@nicolechemla4627 Год назад
Yesss.. this video has made a whole lot of difference to me. Dear Coach, you have helped me push aside almost all of the doubts which have been tormenting me for the past 85 days. Indeed, this video was helpful in terms of disrupting the ongoing and too often heavy silence, breaking apart the mistory around his disappearance and shuttering the fear of the unknown. Also, your bonus, Coachlee, was indeed worth waiting for as it has brought to my life a sense of freedom by simply letting go of so many speculations, self questioning and too many moments of embiguity, sometimes not really believing in myself or in the reality around me. Thank you Coach for your professional guidance and support.
@jannlewandowski5540
@jannlewandowski5540 Год назад
Nicole Chem, I recommend Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit for you which will help you. It's a POWERFUL Kit that has strategies for every situation including yours myexbackcoach.com/ebk
@chipl336
@chipl336 11 месяцев назад
15 days in NC, still have a lot of inner work to do so I’m glad he’s taking his time to come back, I’ll be ready 🙏🏻
@kamyanaava531
@kamyanaava531 Год назад
2 months of crying ,begging asking my self why ,how , he even went in a rebound and posting how happy he was oooh😭😭 i was so devastated ,then i bumped into coach and got trained on how to do NC and with in 1 week💪 boooom the tables turned, he is calling ,texting,wanting us to meet even pretending like nothing ever happened but thank you coach 💕am stronger now and can't let him hurt me again the choice is mine now🤸‍♂️
@eliswerekio
@eliswerekio 3 года назад
I'm really gonna say it again and again.. Thank you, you're here for everyone when they need the help the most. You're an awesome guy !
@phonixnyoung4416
@phonixnyoung4416 3 года назад
I got help my ex came back...
@phonixnyoung4416
@phonixnyoung4416 3 года назад
Through the help of a powerful spell MAN
@heiscapable8559
@heiscapable8559 2 года назад
±2349056214114⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up...
@mariapap8962
@mariapap8962 3 года назад
Love your advice. Makes sense, no sneaky games, real. ❤️
@khalidruthie1173
@khalidruthie1173 2 года назад
±2349056214114⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up...
@Ruthie3777
@Ruthie3777 3 года назад
You’re awesome Coach Lee!☺️ You’ve helped me a lot! Currently in no contact week 1 after he ended our relationship!
@giftf4999
@giftf4999 2 года назад
±2349056214114⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up...
@ps9902
@ps9902 11 месяцев назад
I trust coach Lee and no contact fully and believe the universe will help me get everything I want!❤️
@Nemesis03x
@Nemesis03x 3 года назад
These videos have been nothing but timely. Much appreciated!!
@lenaschaef6714
@lenaschaef6714 3 года назад
@@wilsonthompson9358 blocked and reported
@lenaschaef6714
@lenaschaef6714 3 года назад
@@selflove1379 blocked and reported 😂
@lmf458
@lmf458 3 года назад
@@selflove1379 blocked & reported
@dream11paradise60
@dream11paradise60 3 года назад
Whenever I break up I see this YT video popping and comforting me Thanks
@habeebvlogs3168
@habeebvlogs3168 2 года назад
±2349056214114⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up...
@mariahabibti4702
@mariahabibti4702 3 года назад
I love you coach Lee, you are so cool and professional... you talk to me as a child. Like the good 1st grade teacher ...
@826mymy
@826mymy 3 года назад
Thank you coach Lee- 🙏 You have no idea how many of us are hurting in excruciating pain- but you pinch that crazy thought in our heads and you nip it right there ! Clear thinking - Logic - don’t beg.
@omokheowaabdulhameed4181
@omokheowaabdulhameed4181 3 года назад
I just got my relationship fixed and my ||ex|husband is •back• to me and we are living happily like never before I got help|from apowerfu|l spiritualist and his spe|ls works effectively just as you want
@omokheowaabdulhameed4181
@omokheowaabdulhameed4181 3 года назад
Tex† him on What'sapp
@omokheowaabdulhameed4181
@omokheowaabdulhameed4181 3 года назад
+2'3'4:8'1:2'0'7'6'8-29 5
@joycebaily5543
@joycebaily5543 3 года назад
Do not let anyone come in between you and your relationship goal. Get them back to you and make their love strong like the ocean
@joycebaily5543
@joycebaily5543 3 года назад
+ 2348119132200
@grantoldblueeagle
@grantoldblueeagle 3 года назад
I’m so impressed. You have got to be the wisest person I know. Thank you for giving me the strength to get through my break up .
@omokheowaabdulhameed4181
@omokheowaabdulhameed4181 3 года назад
I just got my relationship fixed and my ||ex|husband is •back• to me and we are living happily like never before I got help|from apowerfu|l spiritualist and his spe|ls works effectively just as you want
@omokheowaabdulhameed4181
@omokheowaabdulhameed4181 3 года назад
Tex† him on What'sapp
@omokheowaabdulhameed4181
@omokheowaabdulhameed4181 3 года назад
+(2 3 4)8-1-2-0-7-6-8-2*9_5
@davidc5247
@davidc5247 3 года назад
Coach Lee, you are right there the one who ended the relationship than their journey back to you is only something they can do on his or her own as they need to work everything out for themselves if they want to get back with you and it's a decision that they can only make and on one else because you can't push them towards you as you could be pushing them away even more if they want to get back with you then you just have to be patient and let the power-off time work everything out
@desi5484
@desi5484 9 месяцев назад
You’ve helped my anxiety through this process so much. Thank you.
@mohaj385
@mohaj385 3 года назад
Coach lee advice is a gem. I implemented all the knowledge he taught me. Now i see things like from a crystal ball what my Ex will do. I relaxed to a point that i could read through her mind. She now wants me badly.
@SoundsSilver
@SoundsSilver Год назад
@mohaj385 Did she ever come back?
@Jbvinay21
@Jbvinay21 7 месяцев назад
Update?
@jonathangalvan7232
@jonathangalvan7232 Год назад
Yes good things come to those that wait, but not for those that wait too late!
@migzm14
@migzm14 3 месяца назад
Good! At least I’m proud to say I have my dignity in tact for not crawling and begging her back again! 😊
@SuperMan-ho9de
@SuperMan-ho9de Год назад
I have never seen coach like you. Who share knowledge with the point ...not just increasing duration of video.... Keep giving videos like this ..... you dont need to sell breakup kit Just spread right knowledge you will get huge money from youtube
@eliswerekio
@eliswerekio 3 года назад
And as I said before, I'll make sure to leave a tip when I start making my own money. Student life isn't easy. :) Thank you again !
@mandivilla3713
@mandivilla3713 2 года назад
My husband is leaving me after 25 years of marriage. I found you at the right moment, you’re a blessing to me. Thank you 🙏🏻
@Braveh3artGirl
@Braveh3artGirl Год назад
I'm sorry to hear that and I hope you find love again
@jannlewandowski5540
@jannlewandowski5540 Год назад
Mandi Villa, I am sorry to hear that. Stay strong, and start going out with your friends. Enjoy yourself! Best wishes to you. ⚘️⚘️
@lorrainelara7540
@lorrainelara7540 Год назад
Don’t give up take it to God in prayer theirs nothing to hard for God
@CREDMANSR
@CREDMANSR 6 месяцев назад
Sorry to hear that.
@parisbeautytherapy3414
@parisbeautytherapy3414 2 года назад
This makes perfect sense and it is music to my ears
@sylviadaniels833
@sylviadaniels833 3 года назад
I made a few mistakes after the breakup but luckily I found your video's to get back on track. Today he called and came by said I look nice and was curious as to where I was going I didn't reply. He then called and said I look happy and he was happy for me and called a 2nd time and said he was proud of me.
@RealCoachLee
@RealCoachLee 3 года назад
Sylvia, Keep letting him come to you. Don’t be cold, but doing relieve that tension.
@habeebvlogs3168
@habeebvlogs3168 2 года назад
±2349056214114⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up...
@misslucky93
@misslucky93 3 года назад
Got dumped by my x after confrontation of unconfirmed 3rdparty. NC since Feb 16,2021. I felt devastated. Very painful. After watching this videos. I guard myself up and still no contact on him since then. I felt so good about myself. I regain my confidence and focusing on myself. Learning about my weaknesses.
@prisyaddison6187
@prisyaddison6187 3 года назад
Thanks to you coach.i git my ex back.your videos gave me strength during my no contact period. I'm so surprised as to how this worked tremendously. I'm so glad i met you.i am now the most happiest woman on earth.thanks😊
@omokheowaabdulhameed4181
@omokheowaabdulhameed4181 3 года назад
I just got my relationship fixed and my ||ex|husband is •back• to me and we are living happily like never before I got help|from apowerfu|l spiritualist and his spe|ls works effectively just as you want
@omokheowaabdulhameed4181
@omokheowaabdulhameed4181 3 года назад
Tex† him on What'sapp
@omokheowaabdulhameed4181
@omokheowaabdulhameed4181 3 года назад
+2'3'4:8'1:2'0'7'6'8-29 5
@bradybuchanan9691
@bradybuchanan9691 3 года назад
To everyone here, do what is best for you. The love of my life since 3rd grade (I'm a soph. in college) decided it was best we separate because shell be going in the military after college, and is afraid I wont be happy following her around and not having a set career for myself. We ended our breakup with "I love you", and a kiss. We haven't talked in about a week and I'm going insane, but Coach Lee has persuaded me to STAY AWAY, it'll give me a sense of respect. Stay strong yall!
@khalidruthie1173
@khalidruthie1173 2 года назад
±2349056214114⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up...
@nikolemacon5254
@nikolemacon5254 Год назад
I am going through it now. I'm hurting. I swear
@jarrodoberg2078
@jarrodoberg2078 Год назад
Can we get an update??
@PedroLMariano4
@PedroLMariano4 Год назад
I'm from Brazil and I've been watching many videos from many coaches all around the world! You are certainly the best! Thank you very much for sharing such valuable knowledge! I've been recomending your videos a lot!
@ericallan5225
@ericallan5225 3 года назад
As always great advice coach!!!
@Xxxxxrrr6464
@Xxxxxrrr6464 Год назад
Ex not talking to u burns so good, pain is weakness leaving the body, get your gains people, grow stronger 💪
@axurrity2
@axurrity2 3 года назад
Its been 3 weeks of no contact and the breakup now, over time i've been feeling lighter and better, i still miss her but im staying strong with no contact, im hoping with easter break coming up soon she decides to reach out in that period, she left the doors open but in a harsh way, im doing my best to move on to put myself in the best position possible. Thanks Lee for all the videos, motivation and help, watching them daily has really helped.
@dadaalabi2948
@dadaalabi2948 3 года назад
+ 2348119132200
@sobreezy2456
@sobreezy2456 Год назад
Did she reach out?
@oscarincazares7219
@oscarincazares7219 3 года назад
Me and my ex are finally together and are moving together in a few days thank you coach lee
@gamegirl8945
@gamegirl8945 3 года назад
Hey man, congrats! How long did it take?
@oscarincazares7219
@oscarincazares7219 3 года назад
@@gamegirl8945 6 months,but i suffered alot
@gamegirl8945
@gamegirl8945 3 года назад
@@oscarincazares7219 ah ok I’m sorry I know how tough it is as I’m two months post breakup and it’s a struggle, where you in no contact the whole 6 months?!
@oscarincazares7219
@oscarincazares7219 3 года назад
@@gamegirl8945 i tried doing no contact but every time i did it she would always b contacting me with just excuses.
@gamegirl8945
@gamegirl8945 3 года назад
@@oscarincazares7219 I get what you mean, did you ever in imitate contact at any time? Or was it always her? My ex contacts me each week since the breakup but albeit I have broke no contact a few times but no doing indefinite no contact. I have met yup a few times with him as well which have went well but he hasn’t said about getting back together yet, did you meet up with during the 6 months?
@GlobeTrotterBen
@GlobeTrotterBen 3 года назад
I was dating a girl long distance. We had been talking for about 4 months before becoming a couple, but unfortunately our relationship ran into issues shortly afterwards when she kept mentioning some emotional problems in her life before breaking up a couple of weeks later. I did make the mistake of messaging her a week afterwards (to which I was ignored). It was a shame as we did seem to have plenty in common but I have realised that the best chance of reconciling is to adopt the no-contact rule, to which I have kept up for 2 weeks now. My intent is to let her reach out for all of the reasons in this video. Thanks for the advice. I know the odds are against me a little since it’s shorter term, but we can still hope.
@heiscapable8559
@heiscapable8559 2 года назад
±2349056214114⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up...
@pagie2001
@pagie2001 2 года назад
I was 9 days into NC and she texted saying she'll post me some items I left at her place and asked if I was OK. I politely thanked her and returned to NC. Good luck guys. Whether she comes back or not I'm going to level up so her or someone else will get the best me. I'm hoping this pain will cease soon and levelling up is my motivation
@davidmowbray7885
@davidmowbray7885 2 года назад
Keep me updated please am in same sort of position but a don’t know what to do I still need to get me last items or just wait for her to contact me because am in 2nd day of nc and she hasent messaged me about it also have the last of her stuff which we spoke the other day on the phone about just don’t know to message or not then start the Nc after I get my stuff
@diegogalvan1810
@diegogalvan1810 2 года назад
Any updates for the two of you? A week into NC and me dropping off her things she asked what things I needed (again) and where to drop them off, i told her and she just ignored me
@RandomNamejagddjxuossn
@RandomNamejagddjxuossn 3 года назад
My man coach Lee coming through whenever I felt down and needed help. Thanks coach!
@joycebaily5543
@joycebaily5543 3 года назад
Do not let anyone come in between you and your relationship goal. Get them back to you and make their love strong like the ocean
@joycebaily5543
@joycebaily5543 3 года назад
I can connect you to someone who helped me attract my ex partner back to me after separation .
@joycebaily5543
@joycebaily5543 3 года назад
What.xap.
@joycebaily5543
@joycebaily5543 3 года назад
+2348119132200
@SIMSIMSAMANTHA
@SIMSIMSAMANTHA 3 года назад
Coach Lee I love your shirt and your great advice ❤️
@albertodeulofeu5277
@albertodeulofeu5277 3 года назад
He’s right. I did everything wrong and lost The love of my life. 6 years down the drain. We think sometimes that our person is different.... they’re not. People are all the same. It always ends up in games.
@tercsi1
@tercsi1 3 года назад
@Anonymous I did all the wrong things as well
@billyself9333
@billyself9333 2 года назад
Well said Alberto. 7 years for me my friend. Same situation.
@funnygigglelollie257
@funnygigglelollie257 2 года назад
I hate games. Love should be simple and sincere. Why do we always have to be doing these subtle games when we just want to truly be ourselves with our loved ones? There are enough ‘games’ at work already.
@hollydrucker6327
@hollydrucker6327 3 года назад
i have learned so much from you. I humbly thank you!
@omokheowaabdulhameed4181
@omokheowaabdulhameed4181 3 года назад
I just got my relationship fixed and my ||ex|husband is •back• to me and we are living happily like never before I got help|from apowerfu|l spiritualist and his spe|ls works effectively just as you want
@omokheowaabdulhameed4181
@omokheowaabdulhameed4181 3 года назад
Whatzpp him on+2'3'4:8'1:2'0'7'6'8-29 5
@TheCromcrom
@TheCromcrom 2 года назад
Dont be nice. Be strong.
@outsidernews5630
@outsidernews5630 3 года назад
❤️ your shirt and your advice!
@awaazegujjaraijaztass6359
@awaazegujjaraijaztass6359 3 года назад
I love you coach leeee ,you helped me to get back ,whatever you said in your videos same happened with me
@paolanamuncura8879
@paolanamuncura8879 3 года назад
Thank you coach lee, watching your videos is relieving.its even better than talking to a best friend
@The_Darrell
@The_Darrell 3 года назад
Agreed... most of my friends give terrible advice lol
@The_Darrell
@The_Darrell 3 года назад
Hi Karen... no you didn't, because you're a bot, you therefore don't have a soul, and you are incapable of feeling love. Take that!
@paolanamuncura8879
@paolanamuncura8879 3 года назад
@@The_Darrell good one
@The_Darrell
@The_Darrell 3 года назад
@@paolanamuncura8879 lol thank you, thank you 😊
@davidcoppotelli3957
@davidcoppotelli3957 2 года назад
YEP
@jett3302
@jett3302 3 года назад
I'm not convinced my ex will want to come back, but coach's videos are giving me the strength I need to make it through these horrible early days of the break up. I am a week into no contact. My 5 year relationship ended and she took everything from my furniture to my dog. She seems to be doing everything she can to hurt me right now and I am not falling into her trap of begging her to stop. He's keeping me strong. I know that whether she realizes she wants me back or not, that I'm going to be okay. The pain is unbearable right now, but I'm staying strong. Thank you coach Lee.
@reneesimmons1890
@reneesimmons1890 3 года назад
Jett 330 how are you holding up?
@jett3302
@jett3302 3 года назад
@@reneesimmons1890 it's up and down... I'm keeping myself busy with a regular exercise routine and a new puppy. Sadly the puppy is having some health issues. Some days I feel so strong and like I'm turning the corner. Others I feel deep depression and fall into a rabbit hole wondering how she could do all this to me. It was like breaking up wasn't enough... it almost feels like she has convinced herself I did something horrible to her and I need to pay for it. I still haven't heard from her or seen my dog but I'm staying strong in no contact.
@giftf4999
@giftf4999 2 года назад
±2349056214114⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up...
@martinmc6685
@martinmc6685 Год назад
Hey how did things turn out for you? Hope you're in a better place now
@patrickjohnson8741
@patrickjohnson8741 2 года назад
Very interesting and if she comes back I will surely follow your advice.
@prasannagupchup7887
@prasannagupchup7887 Год назад
We get only one life. Live it fully and happily. Please don't depend it on some one even if you love her. If she has moved on so you should. May be difficult but accept the reality. Respect her decision by just forgetting her. Take care of yourself. There are millions of things in life to do. Someone dumping you is not the end of the world. Be successful, in career and becoming rich. Success is the best revenge. You certainly will meet who will appreciate you and genuinely love you.
@user-yl9ck9ob5t
@user-yl9ck9ob5t 2 года назад
Screw that just move on. They left, find someone that’s not a quitter and don’t play these games
@ineanna
@ineanna 3 года назад
Wearing red 🙌🏻 nice choice💐
@17msmyra
@17msmyra Год назад
Excellent advice😌👌
@kj9969
@kj9969 3 года назад
Love the red on you! Coach Lee! Thx for great advice 😘❌⭕️
@habeebvlogs3168
@habeebvlogs3168 2 года назад
±2349056214114⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up...
@mythicalgamer4076
@mythicalgamer4076 3 года назад
A 6 year relationship . She needed space . She reached out .We were NC for 67 days . We have been taking one day at a time, been on several dates over the past 9 weeks. What’s the best time to attempt a reconciliation conversation? Bring up issues and discuss being exclusive? Coach Lee in this video and other videos has said don’t rush things and those that get back together too soon usually fail. Thank you coach Lee... I’ve been watching your videos 5 months now. You have helped me and now she and I are talking again.
@khalidruthie1173
@khalidruthie1173 2 года назад
±2349056214114⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up...
@frankwhite9170
@frankwhite9170 2 года назад
You let her bring the relationship talk up. Simple.
@leroytorres1979
@leroytorres1979 3 года назад
I still want her but I felt holding on was just holding me back from moving forward. I contacted her said I think its time to say bye thanks for everything you made me a better person. As much as I know you won't say it back I love you. You will always be my home and until I find another home ty for everything. What do you know she contacted me. You to thanks. Tried to keep me holding on all I replied was I find no reason to keep this up thank you again bye. Idk if she was finding a way to say you'll stay you always do or I miss you and we will begin new. Personally, my mental health is what's more important. Here's to hoping thanks C.LEE
@shripadsawant1756
@shripadsawant1756 3 года назад
thats my boy😂 btw im pranav sawant name changed cuz of clg stuff
@leroytorres1979
@leroytorres1979 3 года назад
@@shripadsawant1756 even if she was playing the waiting game to see if I'd hit her up. Nah it wasn't gon happen. You just know inside when to let go. I love her it hurts. I'm just not in love anymore. She became unattractive if you will.
@stevetodd9581
@stevetodd9581 5 месяцев назад
This video has helped refocus my mind. My wife and I have been separated for just over 2 months, she returned recently from being away in her home country for 7 weeks and I was so ready to move on. I did roughly 4-5 weeks of no contact (apart from necessary house related things) and she started approaching me and seeing how I am towards the end. And has been more of the same since. She has said she has feelings still (she instigated the breakup) and she is conflicted about it. I have been seeing this as an opportunity and verging on doing the old things where I always approached her, but this has reset my focus to NOT chase her.
@sxxx73
@sxxx73 3 года назад
Amazing Words..Thanks a lot..
@danielcristian8821
@danielcristian8821 Год назад
If I saw your channel before one year I am sure 💯 % I will never lose my girlfriend, I wasn’t patience at all and therefore I think I lost her forever,i run after her one year I apologize three times and I apologize for her mother’s but no result. just be patience at the beginning of the break up ,and do no contact if she really want you in her life I swear by god she will come back ,just be strong ,disappear from all social media ,and do no contact don’t fucking call her or send her she will come to you .
@Makor1966
@Makor1966 3 года назад
Always think you look great in blue, but Wow, the red shirt really compliments you.
@omokheowaabdulhameed4181
@omokheowaabdulhameed4181 3 года назад
I just got my relationship fixed and my ||ex|husband is •back• to me and we are living happily like never before I got help|from apowerfu|l spiritualist and his spe|ls works effectively just as you want
@omokheowaabdulhameed4181
@omokheowaabdulhameed4181 3 года назад
Tex† him on What'sapp
@omokheowaabdulhameed4181
@omokheowaabdulhameed4181 3 года назад
+=2=3=4=-8=1-2-0-7-6-8-2-9-5
@sharrizaermajasmani5331
@sharrizaermajasmani5331 2 года назад
It is always the power of negotiating, price is of friendship is most valuable.
@bustinclouds2007
@bustinclouds2007 2 года назад
It was soooo hard but it work ....Week and a half ....14 years we have been together....Talking tonight . And get to see my Doggie......Thanks for being a light in the Dark for me....Tim
@parinitaduttaroy4418
@parinitaduttaroy4418 3 года назад
No contact rule is a win-win....you either get your ex back or your lost self confidence back.
@parinitaduttaroy4418
@parinitaduttaroy4418 3 года назад
@@jaspersophia218 if he doesn't come back on his own....he is not worth keeping..so thanks
@khalidruthie1173
@khalidruthie1173 2 года назад
±2349056214114⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up...
@lynnh.6111
@lynnh.6111 3 года назад
As always, Coach Lee is the best!
@jajahMantes
@jajahMantes 2 года назад
It's been months but I'm starting to fall in love w you coach lee
@nobig2875
@nobig2875 3 года назад
It's been a year and a few months since we spoke. She started dating someone 3 months after she broke up with me after a 8 year relationship. It's been a long sad recovery period but that's life.
@martindavies1616
@martindavies1616 3 года назад
Hi . I'm in a similar predicament to you, I don't know what the answer is , I suppose there is no answer. But good luck.
@bumbleberryanimations5629
@bumbleberryanimations5629 3 года назад
Sounds like a rebound 🤔
@jaimemint405
@jaimemint405 3 года назад
Yes, my Man is back, thanks a lot Lee, hearing your Inspirations at sleep with my earphones...got dumped 6 months ago, back and for...thanks from old europe! ;-)
@jaimemint405
@jaimemint405 3 года назад
@@jonathanliberian4159 good for you, i dont need any pressure, i take my time, if it happens it happens, if not i focus on myself and try to develop,life is life.
@jaimemint405
@jaimemint405 3 года назад
@@MaRiAm936 never mentioned that, its your opinion, i love his free content, thats it.
@bg104
@bg104 3 года назад
@@jaimemint405 “Mari am” was referring to your reply to “Jonathan Liberian”. Mari am was letting you know that “Jonathan Liberian” is a scam bot, not Coach Lee. C. Lee’s videos are great. Beware of the many scam bots in the comment section though.
@jaimemint405
@jaimemint405 3 года назад
@@bg104 Allright, understood, but may mind is my mind, would never let somebody let change my way for money...trust and thanks for the advice.peace!!
@jaimemint405
@jaimemint405 3 года назад
@@jessicarubiens1620 everything fine, i am good, finding peace in my inner self..thats what its about..if she come back, she come back if not, thats the way, i reflect and try to learn on my inner "demons"..to develop my self esteem, etc...;-)
@AROGUE-yo2yi
@AROGUE-yo2yi Год назад
Outstanding !
@inspiredx3866
@inspiredx3866 3 года назад
Good point on #5, makes sense. It was my idea about a relationship 2 yrs ago, only cause i didnt want to let it slip away or get put in the friendzone.
@giftf4999
@giftf4999 2 года назад
±2349056214114⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up...
@DiDi-jl5jn
@DiDi-jl5jn 2 года назад
I know this big head is going to comeback, I know it because he wasn't even clear he wanted to break up, he kept blaming himself for things I didn't blame him for, I'm just putting this out there because I'm putting my strength in our love and I know he knows what we had was genuine. I just hope he doesn't do anything silly and it isn't too long, it's been 1 week of NC and we've bumped once, idk but I'm hopeful and i will comeback to give an update
@l.k.1111
@l.k.1111 3 года назад
This is good. I needed this too. 🙏
@alosando88
@alosando88 2 года назад
Coach, great advice. Any videos on how to maintain a relationship after they come back into your life again? Thanks.
@maryjohann9491
@maryjohann9491 2 года назад
Thank you for the wonderful advice..I will do this..
@AzianaTeh
@AzianaTeh 3 года назад
This is true. They need to come to us. Or else it won’t work out. I am in no contact for 272 days now and still going strong. Eventho i want to get back, but I will set condition, boundaries and shared values to protect myself from hurting again. It is not gonna be easy 2nd time like the 1st for me. The other best option is going single. I have no problem with being single and I am not deserving anyone else cuz I deserve love for myself 1st. Oh and it is not a good idea to do rebound or hurt another person if I am not moving on. I move forward with life, but I am staying, patiently waiting. Even if it gonna be forever.
@Godofvalley
@Godofvalley 3 года назад
I wouldn’t wait forever but I understand if you feel open to getting back together with that person in a lesser span
@AzianaTeh
@AzianaTeh 3 года назад
@@Godofvalley it is easier that way for me, emotionally. I was in severe depression after the break up and I think I need to focus on myself. Forever seems to make sense to me as I feel no strength and interest to begin the relationship with anyone else. I guess I am an idiot loyal, but I put my self love above all. It take me 10 years to move on from the guy that I broke up with, forever kinda make sense for me 😂😂
@alfredtineo3023
@alfredtineo3023 3 года назад
It happens. One time no contact for me was for 3 years lol. But she came back, at that point it was no go for me
@rwankyo3
@rwankyo3 2 года назад
@@AzianaTeh any update
@damientheomentrites6463
@damientheomentrites6463 Год назад
I’ll be honest when I read some of the comments im greatful I learned that she wasn’t the person I thought she was and I didn’t invest more into her . 8 years thrown away and im greatful it wasn’t longer . If someone leaves you they are basically saying you aren’t good enough. March forward heal and do not look back
@jannlewandowski5540
@jannlewandowski5540 Год назад
Damien, you ARE GOOD ENOUGH. TOO GOOD FOR HER! You'll be fine. TIME is what u need. Good luck to you. ⚘️
@damientheomentrites6463
@damientheomentrites6463 Год назад
@@jannlewandowski5540 appreciate you
@damientheomentrites6463
@damientheomentrites6463 Год назад
@@jannlewandowski5540 thank you 🙏🏻
@worldtube1817
@worldtube1817 3 года назад
Finally a nice guy 👍🏼
@sanoberbaloch5626
@sanoberbaloch5626 Год назад
Thank you for the best advises
@TheCc064
@TheCc064 3 года назад
Any plan on making videos about “ghosting and being ghosted?” This is a topic I’d like to hear your advice on.
@RealCoachLee
@RealCoachLee 3 года назад
I have an article on that at myexbackcoach.com/what-to-do-when-you-are-ghosted/
@LoneCapricorn
@LoneCapricorn 3 года назад
Why is love so complicated? I'm truly tired of the games.
@tercsi1
@tercsi1 3 года назад
LoneCapricorn I'm with you on that. To be honest listening to all this just makes me frustrated and I will never get into a serious relationship again. My ex husband dumped me now ex fiance. I am just a too intelligent strong woman for them. They all want someone they can walk all over and disrespect
@PhactorPhiction
@PhactorPhiction 3 года назад
Another gem
@emmacarla1752
@emmacarla1752 3 года назад
Thank you Lee ❤❤❤
@Waytooblonde
@Waytooblonde 3 года назад
Thank you needed this! Please do more videos on what to do after you start contact with your ex again and how to not fall into old habits. Also hot and cold behavior. He was dying to see me and suddenly he’s disappeared.
@brielleharmony7568
@brielleharmony7568 3 года назад
Same he begged for me back then broke up with me 5 days later .
@tercsi1
@tercsi1 3 года назад
@@brielleharmony7568 😯
@brielleharmony7568
@brielleharmony7568 3 года назад
@@tercsi1 yes i know 😭 basically he begged for me to take him back talking about he changed blah blah blah .I took him back then I spent 5 days at his house Thursday to Monday . Thursday and Friday was a good day then on Saturday I got drunk and expressed all the hurt he put me through . He also told me he loves me on Saturday then on Monday broke up with me because he said I’ve got too much hate in my heart for him and it he saw my true feelings for him when I got drunk -_- because he hurt me which he said he understands because it’s his fault . On Tuesday I rung him and said I don’t hate him and can we make it work he said no I said so you’re done 100% he said yes he even used the saying “it’s not you it’s me “ bullshit . I havnt heard from him since it’s been a week I’m hurting because he could have just left me alone tbh ,instead of coming into my life again I miss him but I’m not going to contact him as clearly he’s using my hurt as an excuse to leave and if he cared he would have contacted me after the day I rung him because he knows I was heartbroken,Because I was crying to him on the phone to him about not wanting it to end (which I’m embarrassed about ). Never will I take a man back again exes are exes for a reason I should have followed my gut . I’m 26 young yes ,but too old to be dealing with games and lies and someone that can’t be real and stay to deal with the hurt they caused, clearly I’m not worth it to him it’s a hard pill to swallow but Ile be ok I guess .
@tercsi1
@tercsi1 3 года назад
@@brielleharmony7568 how long were you no contact and how long after no contact, did he reach out to you?
@brielleharmony7568
@brielleharmony7568 3 года назад
@@tercsi1 I did no contact for two months he reached out the first month saying “i hope you’re ok and tried to FaceTime me twice I ignored it then the second month he called me 16 times and texted me apologising for Everything he’s done to me but I ignored it then the next day he carried on texting and calling till i answered . I wished I ignored him then I wouldn’t be heartbroken all over again . Don’t take them back if they’ve realised they’ve messed up they will just do the same thing over again.😔
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