Will My Husband’s Indifference be the Death of Our Marriage?

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Will My Husband’s Indifference be the Death of Our Marriage?
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@brookemoore8369 3 года назад

I went through a spell like this with my husband. I became incredibly resentful of him and our relationship because I kept giving too much of myself away to him and the relationship, and I wasn’t getting what I emotionally wanted and needed in return. Truly, it was self imposed resentment because I kept ignoring that little voice inside my head that kept telling me I wasn’t staying true to myself. I got over the resentment by making a choice to stop doing what my heart was telling me not to do and making myself and my needs a priority. My husband changed when he noticed I was taking my life back and honoring myself and not putting up with BS anymore. In short, he became afraid he’d lose me because I was become a better and truer version of myself. Never give away too much of yourself to people, especially the wrong people… that’s when the heart becomes bitter and cold.

@tonymarin909 3 года назад

Sucks to be in a relashionship that you feel you might lose your wife

@brookemoore8369 3 года назад

Tony Marin Well…. He was pretty insecure for a while and during every fight he’d tell me he was going to divorce me, and for a long time he told me he wasn’t even sure if he wanted to marry me… he was basically pushing me away so he didn’t get hurt in the long run if it ended. It actually did push me away… but I became stronger, and he became softer. Sometimes you gotta go through some really rough season when two broken people come together.

@doggroomer3286 3 года назад

@@brookemoore8369 is he a narcissist??

@brookemoore8369 3 года назад

dog Groomer No, he just has really bad trauma stemming from his mom abandoning him when he was growing up that he never healed from, so anytime he’d get close to a woman, he’d push them away so he wouldn’t get hurt again. This bad behavior came out in a lot of ways when we first got together and the first parts of our marriage. I even left for a stint because he wouldn’t change. After I left, he started to realize how much of a problem his behaviors were, and he slowly began fixing himself. I also had to do work by realizing my worth and not putting up with BS anymore. Now, he’s a wonderful husband that does everything he can to make sure I’m happy emotionally, financially, etc, and I’m a woman that knows my worth and stand up for myself and what I believe in. People can either decide to change or not change… but there’s always a consequence if they choose the latter.

@brookemoore8369 3 года назад

Norman Viking I completely agree. If one or both people get into a relationship without doing the work to heal themselves first, then chaos usually ensues. For me, I wasn’t quite aware of how “agreeable” I was to people I loved, so I always let people push me around because I didn’t know my worth. There’s always a lesson to be learned…

@brookemoore8369 3 года назад

“Setting yourself on fire, just so they can see the smoke.” God how true…..

@caitlinhunsuck9099 3 года назад

Kelly's, "just read it!" Was so priceless.

@kellibuzzard9431 День назад

"Please stop.Just read it." 😂

@mahls93 Год назад

My husband was 22 when our first was born. I don’t think he’d ever held a baby before. We didn’t go back for another for nearly 5 years we were in shock. Then we had two more. We used to stand there looking at all three of them - completely different personalities, challenges, quirks and such completely different appearances that we wondered where the middle one came from with his blonde curly hair and the face of an angel - and I would turn to my husband and say “ok - this has been fun, but when are the adults coming to pick them up?” He would smirk cos he knew very well that it was only a tiny bit of a joke. I hope the new dad realises that it gets better. Our eldest is 22 now and we laugh so hard at the thought of him being a father. He joins in. My kids probably wondered at times if an adult was going to come and pick them up to. We have all survived.

@LtGrandpoobah 3 года назад

Breaking the cycle of generational violence/resentment/bitterness/anger is the hardest thing ON EARTH to do. To everyone that's still in the process, I'm proud of you and I'm praying for you. God will see you through. To everyone who has grown children (and passed the finish line of breaking the cycle) pray for those of us who are still in the process.

@zeal4god402 3 года назад

AMEEEEEEEN

@crazyrecklessnut 3 года назад

Out of all the people on the internet and the radio....John is my favorite! 🤣 Super awkward and so relatable! 🤣🤣

@FeRadovanski 3 года назад

My husband didn’t fall in love with daughter until she was 3 months. When your baby starts interacting you will start to love her, don’t worry about it.

@ungphuc 3 года назад

@@BHauck-os9sy Probably Cuz men don’t get laid and attention during those time So it’s subconsciously like a negative experience associate with the baby?

@jeanlaubenthal698 Год назад

The husband can take care of the wife… supporting the wife while she heals, gains her strength back and gets the baby off to a good start.

@carolinechow1702 2 месяца назад

My husband didn't pick up our newborn son until two weeks postpartum when I suggested it might be a good thing to hold his son. He's an amazing dad today.

@crazeekids9744 3 года назад

Had a husband like that. He was always changing jobs, changing cars, moving us from place to place, buying the latest and greatest. He was never satisfied. He eventually decided he needed a new wife and new kids. They need to go to counseling before the whole thing implodes.

@jeradkiester698 3 года назад

The problem could've been you.

@crazeekids9744 3 года назад

@@jeradkiester698 he continued the same behavior with the new one, so nope.......

@jeradkiester698 3 года назад

@@crazeekids9744yikes. And you chose to breed with that man?

@crazeekids9744 3 года назад

@@jeradkiester698 we married very young; 19 years old. I took my vows seriously, so I stuck it out until he left 13 years later.

@starlingswallow 3 года назад

Same here.... man.

@tacooflove6175 3 года назад

Didn’t really see my son as more then a pet consistently until 6 months when I could get him to smile 😊 and giggle then it was like he was saying thank you momma all with a smile.

@GUITARTIME2024 3 года назад

Not uncommon.

@FlyFishingTexan 3 года назад

Had first baby at 35 and the first two months felt a lot like this. But when my baby was about 2 months and started responding back to me in small ways, EVERYTHING changed. The feelings will come with the new responsibility, just a little more time!

@daniellem8790 Год назад

Every time I hear a woman say “my wonderful husband” it usually means he’s not so wonderful. It’s a mental “game” women play to make things sound better than they really are because admitting there’s an issue feels shameful or something. If a man is wonderful, you don’t have to re-affirm or prove that vocally to strangers.

@marycarricaburu3683 3 года назад

My mother kept telling me I wasn't a good mother and I didn't love my daughter. I kept worrying what was wrong with me. I had to have therapy to realize Mom was abusive. Anyway, when Sue was almost 5 months old, I thought her life was in danger. I would have happily killed anyone between me and my baby as I was trying to get to her, that was when I realized I DID love her.

@user-so1wr2oh1t 3 года назад

I'll admit as a woman I had zero connection after the birth of my first baby and feel terrible admitting it. I was kinda traumatized by being pregnant, the labor experience and a screaming baby that came with no instructions. It all changes in time and pretty sure this caller will love his baby in time too

@kara2162 3 года назад

Same. As a mom there is even more stigma attached to this than a dad.

@user-so1wr2oh1t 3 года назад

@@kara2162 Having the 2nd baby was a much different story because I knew what to expect. Instant love that time.

@kunya16 Год назад

A lack of attachment can also mean postpartum depression. It could be mild and fly under the radar or heavier, anything in between. Always good to get it checked out if you're lacking an attachment.

@amyhood6562 Год назад

Same here. I never felt an instant connection with my babies. I felt responsible for their wellbeing but deep love came with time. I also had miserable pregnancies that required hospitalization and emergency C-sections so maybe the oxytocin just didn’t kick in.

@bonniepiehler693 3 года назад

Thank you Dr John for making therapy less scary.

@kounterklokwize 3 года назад

The dad is the most honest! I have 4 kids and my first, I didn’t feel all good…. I wish I could speak with him. You answered that right on John in your answer!!! But I wouldn’t trade being a father for anything else.

@sullimd 3 года назад

I think that's a very common feeling for guys that's not discussed. I was kinda disgusted with myself for not feeling the immediate infatuation when my daughter was born. Everyone else seemed to - I felt like it was a huge chore. But as time went on, 3mo later, 6mo later, etc. that all changes, and now she's an awesome 12 year old who I adore with all of my heart. It gets better caller, you'll see!

@kounterklokwize 3 года назад

@@sullimd same with me! We did everything we could to get be to bond with my first born. Cold showers with my son pressed on my chest, etc. nothing but time and being committed. The honesty is so valuable and many men need to hear it

@Holdeenio 10 месяцев назад

Loved the letter at the start. Norfolk, UK is only about an hour drive from me in Essex, UK. Much love for your message from this side of the Atlantic John! 🇬🇧

@julialeal2302 3 года назад

Resentment is unmet expectation.

@benascg-ll7sq 3 месяца назад

Great point! Next question : whom does the expectation belong to?

@MightyMako 2 месяца назад

@@benascg-ll7sq Definitely a “me” problem.

@izzywox8246 24 дня назад

Usually an unspoken or poorly defined expectation

@JoeTheDIY 3 года назад

It's true. When my son was born I thought "what if I don't like him? What if he doesn't like me?" Now he's 25, and people marvel at how close we have been all his life. You'll know when the sweaty nightmares come when you dream about something bad happening to him. It will happen.

@MP24685 2 года назад

Wow, I actually got teary at the end of the first story. Choosing to focus on leaving the family trauma behind and not repeat the same patterns in my relationship, which is something I'm feeling indifferent and resentful at the moment... Entirely scared to let my husband in again...

@tethergobrrr Год назад

“If everyone told everyone that nobody would have kids!” No, some still would, but the honesty would make life a lot better for those who would be a lot happier without kids.

@maam-yj8ph Год назад

Exactly. I am not on board with lying and manipulating people into having children. Better to have people "on the fence" give parents of their God children/nieces and nephews a much needed respite for a weekend or two and see if this is something you are willing to commit to doing. No one is or should be forced to be a pet parent; how much more so a human being. Also bear in mind that just because they are your kids does not mean they will not inherit your worst qualities or be the strongest willed, most defiant bastards or the sickliest invalids, or the whiniest cowards. "For better or for worse/in sickness and in health" can get very real with kids.

@tethergobrrr Год назад

@@maam-yj8ph All angles infuriate me! The pressure to have kids on people who aren’t equipped or disposed isn’t pro children, it’s neglectful of their needs. And the negation of the difficulties involved creates a culture where struggling parents are under-supported & guilt-tripped. My own family (too complex to describe in the RU-vid comments!) needs a financially secure unencumbered adult (me) much more than another stressed out struggling parent.. I can be the calm in the storm for both young and very old.

@pigpjs 2 года назад

My dad didn't love me until I was 4 months old and we have a great relationship. My best friend's mom took 2 months before she felt that bubbly love. It's a lot more common than people think.

@samuelyork5265 3 года назад

“Come at it from a place of curiosity. Next time he leaves his pants hanging over the chair, don’t blow up at him, just ask him ‘would it be easier to move the closet in here’ or next time he comes home smelling like Arby’s ask ‘do you not like my home cooking?’” That sounds massively passive aggressive and not like a very constructive strategy at all.

@justcallmeJ0 7 месяцев назад

solution

@kayleighskanvases 2 года назад

I can relate so much to Andi! Thank you for calling in. I pray things heal!

@kara2162 3 года назад

High five to the second caller. As a mom I had the same experience with my oldest daughter. I didn't really bond with her until she was a few months old. I think this is pretty common. We NEED to talk about this! I always tell my pregnant friends about my experience. I got the instant bond with my second.

@ashleycopley2906 3 месяца назад

I think I felt a stronger bond more quickly with every child. I think it’s because I knew what every baby actually meant from experience if that makes sense.

@jenniferdoghousetrucking3876 3 года назад

Tough calls as usual, but you still found a way to make me smile. Thank you!

@3roachkidsdhe Год назад

People told me parenting would come naturally but it didn’t with my first kid. I had postpartum anxiety. I felt delusional. I was loving towards her but not as much as I could have been. Her crying made me anxious which only made her cry more. She didn’t sleep well. I was constantly on edge like I would lose it any second. I had to go on medication and see a therapist in order to be a good mom. I had two more kids and it was much easier after the first. I think I was just freaked about being a mom and isn’t trust myself. I feel bad for my daughter who is now 12 because I feel I could have been a better mom to her in her early years.

@cherokeet-shirtco.7423 3 года назад

Beautiful guitar! That was awesome! Love the show!

@EmpressMermaid 3 года назад

I want to tell this dad that sometimes true love bonds take time to develop. We have been led to believe they are instant and total and magical, when they really don't work that way. I can tell he loves his kid, he's just beating himself up because it's not warm-fuzzy magical love.

@Jane5720 3 года назад

I'm glad the guy called in about how he feels about the newborn, I don't think that's uncommon

@kele.w Год назад

Not everyone is meant to be a parent and I really wish people would be more honest about what the experience is actually like. I have never been interested in being a parent, I find the idea of pregnancy repulsive, I don't *hate* children but I don't particularly enjoy their company... nothing about the idea seems good to me. I was told my entire life that my feelings would change and that I'd eventually feel that interest and that even if I wasn't totally sure, it was different when they're yours and I would love my kids anyway. I cannot imagine a more selfish gamble, so I stuck with my instinct and chose not to be a parent. I married someone who shares my feelings and we have a fantastic marriage. Some people have always known that they want to be parents, some people are nervous about it and end up loving it, and some people have kids because they think they're supposed to and then regret the decision for the rest of their life, even though it's not socially acceptable to admit that. I agree with John that you have an obligation of care if you choose to have a child, but promising people that they'll definitely eventually love parenting feels disingenuous.

@patriciamay6396 9 месяцев назад

You have to love someone more than yourself to be a good parent. People who are unable to do that should not be parents

@izzywox8246 4 месяца назад

I agree

@sssrcr85 3 года назад

The ending is why I like Dr. John. He's the only cool "Ramsey personality."

@happymommy22 2 года назад

Wish you and your husband the best.. it's a new season in life for you two, but when you get through this on the other side, you two will be stronger and love each other more. 💜

@emmarose6590 3 года назад

I love the guy that called in about the baby. ❤️ so honest. I’m sure a lot of people experience that. Except I do hate the “lose your wife” mentality.

@whitneyw.7919 3 года назад

That's the reality of what happens for most men. Women often put needs of baby before needs of husband. Men basically become ATM's and workhorses for a fair number of women after babies.

@janeddooee 3 года назад

I feel like it’s closer to “lose your life.” Not only was I giving my husband less attention after kids, I gave myself less attention. And my husband did as well. Having kids change your life more than anything else and both parents need to be ready for how it changes them as individuals and a couple.

@emmarose6590 3 года назад

@@whitneyw.7919 bahaha. Gross you sound needy. So the men is sad the women is taking care of the baby, who’s taking care of the woman? It goes both ways. Men need to grow a pair

@emmarose6590 3 года назад

@@janeddooee duh. Of course kids changes your life, I just hate how all the focus is solely on the man.

@Angela-ne9cy 3 года назад

Having kids sounds like an absolute nightmare! Every time I hear these calls it pushes me further and further away from ever becoming a parent. yikes!

@th3_crappi3_kill3r 3 года назад

its a nightmare if you are irresponsible and ill prepared, like anything else.

@melanieb2132 3 года назад

Also, my husband didnt have a connection with the babies until they could interact with them. Women tend to have a different reaction, not always though.

@skincareceo 3 года назад

I'm 42 and without, no regrets.

@melanieb2132 3 года назад

@@skincareceo not to be a downer, but id like to talk to you in another 40 years.

@Jane5720 3 года назад

Then you shouldn't

@carve164 3 года назад

Love the ending of the show!! Man I could relate to some what he and the callers talked about.

@ineedhoez Год назад

This call made me cry... Oh boy! Good one!

@brandondodd7973 9 месяцев назад

Being in the military or law enforcement doesn't make you a good man. If he doesn't treat his wife well imagine how the public gets treated.

@ValerieSunshine 2 года назад

Love, love this ending of the show!💯💯👍✌

@kindranadine9513 3 года назад

This was my favorite, from Kelly to “Every Rose Has It’s Thorn”

@floridanativelh568 3 года назад

Great show. Love that dad❤️

@giovannicortez4448 3 года назад

Thank you James

@mathieuwalton2332 3 года назад

Hello! Just want to say that I love the show! I was just curious where that quote from Esther Perel about the monogamous relationships was from so I could read more into that from the first call! Thank you so much for the amazing work that you and your team do!

@whitneyw.7919 3 года назад

Google it

@oc2538 11 дней назад

25:17 Some moms don't feel it either and when it isn't addressed it can be overwhelming depressing because you feel something is off with you.

@lindakincaid4530 Год назад

wow, what a good explanation for resentment.

@scullyfox4271 3 года назад

I didn't really bond with my first child till she grew up moved out lol. Now as adults we have a great relationship. Honestly there was a very strange personality conflict between us. I literally felt repelled like the wrong end of a magnet when she was near me. It wasn't her fault or my fault, it just was. Why this happened I have no idea. I pray she doesn't experience the same sensation with her firstborn.

@lcat9b549 Год назад

Heck I didn't have those feelings and I gave birth to it! It took time bf I fell in love with my kid. I had the same inner dialogue, like "why am I not so in love with this newborn right away?" It's a big farce that Hollywood plays into our minds. I know it happens for some moms but for me it took time.

@melstarr1864 8 месяцев назад

Could have been some post partum depression.

@SB_McCollum Год назад

Resentment is the death of relationships. That’s an great insight. I always wondered how my my relationship with my father died, he was always angry at how I resembled my mother (divorced) and didn’t become the trophy child he needed. Sorry, Pops, but now I get it. Too bad for you. Too.

@mistyfrick8355 Год назад

My daughter is 7 and I still feel that way. I carried her. I breastfed her. I wish I never had these feelings. I’ve been dealing with them for 7 years and I feel like I will until the day I die.

@oliviacunningham7633 2 года назад

There is a song about Salt Lake City from the musical “Book of Mormon”

@connie0613 3 года назад

Salt Lake City song in Book of Mormon!! Very endearing song

@shehnazahmad5213 10 месяцев назад

Im watching 2 years later. In Johannesburg, SOUTH AFRICA

@brandonfredenburg8343 3 года назад

Regarding the observation (as I received it) that we set ourselves up for disappointment by believing “when X happens, I’ll feel positively Y” - only to find that it doesn’t always turn out how we think it will - Deloney’s comment “There is no external plug for an internal hole” tells a hard truth. Reminds me of U2’s song, “I still haven’t found what I’m looking for.” Good stuff, John. (By the way, I still have some books you lent me in your previous career. 😉) Catch ya next time.

@crushtheskull 3 года назад

Best ending ever! Lol love it!

@crushtheskull 3 года назад

Oh... this is a generated reply lol I was excited, good show anyway.

@lamppole7896 3 года назад

To the father that doesn’t feel bonded with his newborn son…that beautiful child will grow up and want to be just like his Dad. He will need protection from this crazy world…what a beautiful responsibility you’ve been handed.

@vickimerritt2832 Год назад

Get to the root of resentment. Resentment is what grows from neglect,

@cg741graf5 3 года назад

Great conversation!

@tymom9313 3 года назад

I knew he was a police officer!

@HardbackHaven 3 года назад

I feel like listening to you is changing my life. Thank you ❤️

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@curtismorgan9789 9 месяцев назад

At what point does it go from being hurt that you’re not being heard or respected to resentment? I’m at a point where I’m not sure where I fall in my relationship

@ktavolassi 2 года назад

Hi from Ireland!

@Yo_soy_Annna 3 года назад

That ending 😂 they are silly

@mahls93 Год назад

Expectations are resentments under construction.

@nancyorkeithm1518 3 года назад

Why is the Audio on Dr. D’s show 1000% better than Dave’s. Not knocking it but it’s obvious.

@jez5855 3 года назад

The end was hilarious. Hahahaha

@nationsnumber1chump 3 года назад

Dr. John vs Dr. Phil EPIC rap battles of history!

@FrankS111 3 года назад

Imagine working a job where people say they want to physically harm you and many politicians say that is OK and actually endorse it. No wonder he has anxiety over the past year

@Lianne459 3 года назад

Its the police harming people in some places and cases (not all by any means). Those officers rarely get punished. That is not right. The good officers do themselves no favors by protecting the bad ones. No one endorses physical harm. Thats a blatant lie

@FrankS111 3 года назад

@@Lianne459 I agree that excessive brutality should be identified but that is not what’s going on here. when you endorse a group that marches down the street chanting “pigs in a blanket fry em like bacon” you are endorsing violence.

@smoothshifter7348 3 года назад

The officers initiate the harm endorsed by politicians and are the ones imposing their will for victimless crimes in the name of collecting revenue for the state. You got it all backwards.

@rithvikmuthyalapati9754 3 года назад

@@smoothshifter7348 You are probably an ACAB extremist

@raspberrykissable 3 года назад

@@Lianne459 sadly it goes both ways. Both groups have partaken in wrong doing.

@rebeccan4763 2 года назад

You're welcome everyone!!! 🤣🤣

@tentrickspony8925 Год назад

First caller wants to go back home but she has a hard time turning her back on her sick husband.

@whitneyw.7919 3 года назад

Dr. johns show is definitely the best of all the ramsey personalities.

@dpauljensen Год назад

Salt Lake City by the Beach Boys!

@ThisGuyRightHere353 9 месяцев назад

Ah I thought they were actually getting him a gift. haha Hey a Jaguar is a pretty solid guitar man.

@spiraledbeing13 3 года назад

That outro tho!

@distorbia20 10 месяцев назад

The second caller please be kind to yourself. Is all normal. You will feel the connection soon. Now you are in the deep end and doesn’t feel great but that baby loves you and you love your baby. Is there. Don’t be harsh on yourself

@carlywhybrow6027 Год назад

Thanks John. From the UK and it's pronounced 'Norfuk' not Nor-folk.... which is how its spelt! 😬🤦🏻‍♀️ I'll have a word with King Charles.... lol

@thatsawrap8 Год назад

From Norfolk *Norfok is how we say it 🤣🤣🤣

@janetcross2797 3 года назад

You will love this baby give it time you are good father relax give you and wife time for your self one a week it will come

@TheEblenRealestateTeam 8 месяцев назад

I am not having kidz

@commonsenseprevails1433 Год назад

Concerning the Dad caller...it's really sad that JD had to keep saying "you're not going to leave." It's so heartbreaking that men have such poor reputations of sticking around when things become difficult, that JD had to repeatedly encourage him not to leave his family. That is soul crushing.😔

@Sranney2 7 месяцев назад

I think she either needs to accept that this is who he is, this instability that he brings to their life, or she needs to put her foot down and say I’m not moving anymore. My point being, she has to decide the fate of her own life. She seems to feel victim to what he does. Sometimes that how it is in marriage , you have to sacrifice because the other person just has personality traits that aren’t going to change. So your choice is to get on board with his quirks or to say, I’m not doing it! And hope that they stay with your boundaries and can live with what you need. She may provide him stability by putting her foot down. I’ve been in her shoes and I wish I had known that I was allowed to choose and make my own life, WHILE not leaving my marriage.

@homakr707 2 года назад

I wish I could speak with this caller. I was right there with her with everything she was saying and then when she said her husband was LE I lost it a little. My husband is also LE and I too am choosing resentment!

@suziesmith9076 4 дня назад

It’s worrying that these unstable men are the ones that are given license to enforce the law 😢

@dbtlady4686 3 года назад

Dr. “D” I believe you are not only a Texas treasure (my home state too) but you are becoming an “American Treasure”. Thank you 🙂

@brookesmith1550 3 года назад

😂😂😂😂

@c3m727 3 года назад

Thanks for watching, I have something real big I would love to introduce you to T.E.X.T +. 1.7.1.4.8.0.5.6.7.4.9💬

@nightmaresallie 3 года назад

James FTW!!!

@lozziewashere 3 года назад

Husband of the first caller sounds like he has ADHD and is “following the dopamine”. Idk if saying that he’s “lying” is particularly helpful if he’s trying to help is wife and subsequently derailing.

@awhyee Год назад

A little bit and a little manic

@ladyd900 3 года назад

Way too many Ads.

@juliemoore6957 Год назад

Impulsive decisions and actions are very common with ADHD.

@vickimerritt2832 Год назад

it is not always the wifes fault Police life and what goes with it is extremely hard on family.

@paulenabroxson2023 3 месяца назад

I love kelly. More than just my presence

@jasmineella567 3 года назад

The wife sounded so tired and exhausted of trying, but she was told to do more. And, then you put a guiltrtip on her by mentioning her girls.

@jeradkiester698 3 года назад

Just because you feel like a victim, doesn't mean you are.

@jasmineella567 3 года назад

@@jeradkiester698 Thank you for your response. I'll be short. Was there any message of victory for this exhausted wife and mother? Was Dr. Daloney's counsel correct in concluding with - "I hope you are not teaching resentment to your girls?" Was any part of his counsel inspired with Truth?

@funicon3689 3 месяца назад

the girls are more important. why dont ppl understand this

@ForAncientKingAndElvishLord Год назад

I wanna say something super weird and out of context. I think either he doesn't like his wife and is projecting it to the baby or he didn't want a baby but he did it out of obligation. I don't want a baby rn and if I had one rn I sure as hell wouldn't be feeling awesome.

@AC-ly6tg 3 года назад

Dr john should have asked more questions to the dad. That’s such a dangerous situation. He doesn’t like a 30 day old baby. Did he want the baby? Doesn’t seem like it... did the wife pressure him? I’m concerned for the baby

@sushislayer762 3 года назад

I know and see what you are saying, but Dr. Daloney’s red flags did not go up. I felt Dr. Daloney made sure the baby wasn’t in any danger. He took this man at his word (especially since he is seeking help/ advice) and not intervene. This wouldn’t make people not want to ask questions and or get actual help in the issues they face if everyone will overreact and not allow people to to find their truth and or place. You can tell this man is just in a heavy fog and maybe Dr. Deloney may not have wanted to put him on the spot and will actually follow up (not when he has millions of people listening in.) Either way, have a blessed day!

@funicon3689 3 месяца назад

i love how he always tells ppl to quit their jobs

@nectarzetlian9251 10 месяцев назад

His first love is law enforcement and second love is wife.

@MikheilGhvinianidze 3 года назад

To every woman who ever wishes to be Wife/Girlfriend/Mother/sister listen to 16:46

@patrickpepper2490 28 дней назад

I’ve never heard a guy complain about stability. I think women just like Disney movies.

@janetcross2797 3 года назад

Move on he cant give you what he dosen't. Have tell the truth next time going around what's the problems

@Mihogan 2 года назад

Am I the only one who thought the husband sounded fine and the wife is being unreasonable?

@simplygina7703 2 года назад

Yep I agree... she doesn’t sound like she even know what she wants.

@funicon3689 3 месяца назад

common

@mks6148 Год назад

If I was the wife I’d be very concerned about leaving the month old baby around that man. He sounds way too annoyed and inconvenienced. He sounds highly narcissistic and egocentric. Hope he’s not another Chris Watts.