women are "entitled" because we need to be 

Damn, hope the mom is doing better bc that marriage sounds lonely af.

Do the husbands hit on you too? I always hear of husbands cheating with the nanny

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@@alexyssaubrie1606 lmao it sounds ridiculously sad...

@@unknownbannana8241 managers just tell you what to do. The boss just tells you what to do. CEOs just tell you what to do. Those are all just leadership positions meant to optimize the growth and function of a Company. A good Home also requires good leadership to run efficiently and optimally.

When a man leaves a woman as a single mom- she gets shamed When a woman leaves a man- she gets shamed

​​​@@chrzig554No lol. Men get labeled as baby daddies for a reason and get clowned on for putting themselves in a position to pay child support.

Pretty much the incel/redpill whiners complain about as if men are the innocent ones while the woman went through irreparable physical changes to give birth to his children 🤦‍♀️

​@@chrzig554 Such FACTS

​@@chrzig554what single moms get: "CHOOSE BETTER!" what single dads get: "SUCH A HERO 🎉"

Most people are not familiar with the cycle of violence. Can't entirely blame them.

@@VeeKayGreenerGrassgirl how. Even Oprah had a whole couple episodes about it.

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The young woman should have asked the man what a woman should do if the husband didn’t abuse her, but abused their children. That’s how it is in some relationships. (Been there, divorced that.). Dad won’t touch the mom, but he has no problems putting his hands on their children. Obviously, the man’s history lets us know that he’s a physical abuser.

Yeah my father tried to claim “he wasn’t abusive because he never broke any bones or cause us to bleed”… apparently he forgot about the bruises and everything else though, as he thinks he “tried his best” 🙄🙄🙄🙄

I’m so happy for you!! ❤

Babes I am so happy for you may you n your family continue to be blessed 💋

That is beautiful and something I would love to experience. Sadly the first guy I was seeing more extensively got angry that I wasn’t being 50/50 with paying the dates so we stopped seeing each other. Thank god I have standards and never did anything sexual with him 😮‍💨

I love this for you! You absolutely deserve a good life. I'm thrilled you found your person, and he sees your value ❤

this is so beautiful i'm crying😭😭😭💓💓💓💓

💯 me too 🙏

yeah its easy to attract the wrong people with autism because we’re conditioms to recognize that if people exhibit a specific type of behavior, that must mean they’re good people. No… My strategy is to return to using my strengths. I don’t need to try to feel people out or whatever other normal people do. I use my strengths in fact-checking, logic, art of debating considerately, and application of concepts. If a man or woman cannot bypass these gates that I have set up. If they start trying to elicit dramatic emotions unreasonably without reason without the ability to make sense; without the ability to articulate how what why when where…they’re not meant for me anyway. I realize that not many people are equipped with the ability to really think or even articulate and it would already be impossible for me to even be friends if they can’t even do that.

@@che4840 I hear you. I can only feel comfortable with someone if I feel seen and understood. It has to feel right first, the first thing I notice is the energy dynamics... It's a full sensory experience, which is why I don't do crowds... Then their actions have to align with their words. Believing "if they love me then they must be good for me" and their words over their actions, is the very naivete that has gotten me stuck in bad situations and relationships, and that's what I now feel the need to protect myself from. I learnt that a really difficult way. And if they can't keep up with my mind, yeah, it's really difficult to make a connection.

Yes, the top thing to look for in a man is if he makes you feel safe. Don't worry about looking to picky, you will find the One eventually, and until then live your best life

@@cherxii4781 hi pickmeisha! She specifically said that for her being picky doesn't mean trying to find a rare, highly attractive man, she is just avoiding dating by being picky because she is scared of getting hurt.

This is a haggling technique. Elle is spot on that men are market driven. Logically he knows that women don't need to suck it up and get beaten up every night, he's beginning the negotiations by starting at the bidding at $0.01. It's icky but they really do think this way, women are sentient objects they need to bargain with and bargain over.

I had to pause for a few hours and come back because I was so mad at his statement. And then you said he attacked 2 women. Come on dude. Come on.

@@wendyhuntsman176 exactly :( they tear us down and try to get us to fight with others. I love that it’s turning around and we have people like her who TALK about it! It inspires me to speak up too 🩷 to do my part I try to compliment women as often as I feel it in me. Sometimes it’s really nice and refreshing for a stranger to say your hair is gorgeous or I am in love with your outfit etc etc. let’s raise each other up!

@@wendyhuntsman176 yes maam that’s exactly it! You never know how much that comment will make. I’ve heard so many stories of how one comment changed someone’s whole perspective

That guy has loose screws in his head, idek how he has the platform that he does & actual fans!? like im so scared about the next generation of men bcos this is the type of shit young boys these days are growing up watching...Parents really need to watch what kind of stuff their child is consuming

Men literally choose girlies with hair from salon, expensive nails, etc and expect us to maintain same level of beauty with no money....

@@Amely2014 They want to look like they are the hugh value men who can afford to take care of his woman, but for free. As Estelle said, let the pickmes and dusties date each other, they have plenty of pickemes and pickmes channels that will make them feel good.

That part

​@@GodaerentalosEveryone is a value digger. No one is entering relationships for the sake of charity. We do because we are gaining something. Companionship, Love, we like the way they make us feel, money etc. So, in a way, we're all gold diggers.

I think it’s a false dichotomy but yeah super judgemental and envious term. I think “gold digger” is an accusation that someone married purely for money and at the expense of other desirable characteristics in a partner - not just marrying someone who happens to be rich. If that’s the case then people are just envious. I think men who date young girls are frowned upon also and to same extent. Personally to each their own if people are materialistic then maybe that’s as good as it gets for them.

they should really switch this analogy around poison 98% of the grapes ask them to find the right one!

That’s a good one!

Yeah, but that analogy is gender neutral, it applies for men and women equally.

true, but we gotta look at the material reality, and in the material reality of things, statistics have proven again and again that relationships that go sour tend to go the worse for women both in terms of violence and finances, which even makes a good parcel of them still can't leave physically abusive relationships because they are afraid their children won't have enough to eat. No one (at least, I'm not) is saying that men don't suffer from patriarchy, they do, and badly; what I'm saying is that women's suffering has factually a higher change of death/poverty by the hands of a man. Men are not necessarily the villains, but there is a structure setting things (and minds) in place that we have to look at and point out so we can shift things for the better. That's why those analogies are more often than not associated with the feminine being the recipient of violence and the masculine as the perpetrator of violence. The structure makes sure that we are not equal, just as it makes sure that people who are not white are not materially equal to white people. Also, for example, saying that climate change is important doesn't mean saying that the war in Congo is not important; saying that some women's issues are important does not mean some men's issues are not important: one thing doesn't nullify the other. Men's issues under patriarchy are important in their own way. But this channel is a channel for speaking and reflecting about (a section of) women's issues. We are all free to disagree here, of course, and disagreement is often the birthplace of newer and better ideas, but it doesn't seem you're coming from a place of adding to the conversation. The same discourse that says "oh but men suffer too" (which is not a lie) is the discourse that blames women for being raped or killed because somehow their very existence is unsafe and they "should have known better" . But if they protect themselves, if they are suspicious of their male companions on dates or parties or whatever, then they are man-haters and "men suffer too, you know? You should be kinder". It makes me wonder if this discourse is really meant to push men's issues with patriarchy to a sollution, or if it's used only to try to invalidate women's issues when those are pushed to the forefront of a conversation. I think the answer is obvious. I was not excluding men, but rather placing the focus on (a section of) women, because this is the place to do so.

@@ari88elle I see everything you’re saying. But a big part of why women are more at risk is purely because of the fact that men are physically superior, not because men are worse or more violent. Data shows that women initiate physical violence in relationships more often than men, men just do more damage because they’re naturally stronger. Domestic abuse rates are pretty much dead even between men and women in terms of both victims and perpetrators.

THIS is so true !!!! I’ve had so many near misses during my teens and early 20s with men who tried to proposition me or groom me. No one would believe me based on the type of “respectable” men they were supposed to be

They should choose better friends, it’s their fault they didn’t know their bro was a predator

Yup just trust a bunch of anecdotes to prove that the average man is a predator

Not all M, but all W. We all get used.

Sorry to differ but there are men who predate other men. It's actually more common than men predating on women. I know more men who suffered violence from other men than women who suffered violence from men.

Omg 😳 this

​@@MB-xv7erit depends of the culture they are from

@@kafigaro My dad made my mom quite her education, didn't let her have a Job and made her completely depend on him. But he actively supports me in my education, he tells me that he wants me to become an independent woman who isn't dependent on any man. Also he says me to be with a very successful men.

​@@sapphire_blue3657 A balance life is a content life. Good luck sister and remember you are the prize.🥂🍾

@@sapphire_blue3657same. That’s so weird

good on you!

AMEN AMEN AMEN!!!!💘💘💘💘

Wow, you sure found a rare gem. I’m not assertive enough to demand for these things too.

PREEAACCHH GIRL

Good on you! I'm happy for you to have found a man like that 🥰

Thank you for sharing attorney bestie🫶🏽🫶🏽

@@therealmanifestelle of course 🥹💖 thank you for reminding me of my worth constantly🫡

I wish you would have been my attorney

Yeah but it's still very sexist and demeaning because the father premium should apply to the mother as well she's the one actually giving life to those babies not him he's not going to have to check into the E.R for 24 hours and push a baby out of his body or risk his health. So why should he be the only one to get it if all he did was plant a seed inside her? How do they know it's really going to his family and not just him? Some guys are scam artists too so they would take advantage of that system and not work a very good job they would just grab a job as a check out boy at the supermarket to insult her intelligence. What if you got a husband that chooses to stay home too because he's disabled and the wife can still work side gigs? Why should women be shamed for trying to take care of there family just because they can't build a house? Shouldn't she get that premium too so that she can pay the father for his contributions at home as well? If homemaking was really a job or role then it would go both ways basing a policy off the patriarchy system is no longer accurate because women can work jobs too now so it's actually discrimination to only offer that to a woman if she decides to be a good little girl and stay home. It's not a real paycheck in fact it's an insult to her womanhood when you treat women like cattle that can just be fed, paid a little bit and housed just so the husband can run off for 8 hours a day and be free from domestic labor in the home. The idea of some weird guy buying all my tampons and beauty supplies is creepy and unatural. There's absolutely nothing lady like or feminine about it because men don't care about beauty supplies for women and they think women can just live off one tiny paycheck and feed an entire family. Even when women allow this to happen men still treat them like dirt. It's a lose lose situation for her so they should probably take that premium away from men too sense it's no longer 1922 women don't have to be homemakers anymore in order to survive. In fact men should probably be required to make three times the amount of rent and have a really good credit score to get that premium too because it encourage men to be lazy and work mediocre jobs that women are hassled to do for free. I've worked some of there jobs too men need to stop manipulating the system because they wouldn't be alive to make that system if it wasn't for there mother giving him life.

Pleaze! The courts enable bad men. They do not support women at all. Plz open your eyes so you can help stand up for us. Why do you think child support is owed directly to mothers rather than it being federally funded and owed back to the govt???? Because they know these men aren't paying and they do not care if women and children are owed. They don't care when women and children suffer. If men owed the govt directly you'd better believe they'd hunt him down and get their $ outta him. But when he just owes a woman? They let it slide for yeeaaars.

I calculated a conservative $130,000 and that’s with no kids

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Even as a single person with no children there’s costs. Pool services, pest control services, lawn/maintenance care. These are the normal services acquired for the average earner. Throw kids in the mix, childcare alone is a second mortgage. Then the groceries bill? Yikes. These add up quickly per month. Unless you do everything yourself to “save” money.

Those same rich people will marry women who literally do nothing except be pretty or have some hobbies. I mean when I say do nothing I don't mean literally, but you know, basically. This shows just how important women are, simply to be around. Our aura and essence alone.

@@schuylergeery-zink1923how did you calculate those costs? lol

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so do women, do u think its soda in our body?@@zlayer3170

What do you mean, some men have nothing?

I don’t know where they found the audacity, but they need to put it back pronto!!!

The ones with nothing have the MOST audacity from my experience. Overcompensation and insecurity are the most dangerous things a man could have.

I wish I had a grandpa like yours. 😢It would have been so much helpful when 7 years ago i would pay for a guy only to be disrespected and insulted weeks later.

Damn honey I miss him too 😂,hope he lived a long time and that you had a great relationship with him🖤🖤

They didn't get this in the Victorian era either for rich folks anyhow a poor couple would mean she was slightly more poor as they had different rules and pay. But a well off/rich Victorian woman only had the lifestyle provided to her by her masters which were her father first then her husband second if she got married she was transferred to the husband if she divorced him that was it he had the kids 100% & she had whatever church would take her in their system was designed to ensure she'd be a good slave and make it work. That era also had for rich folk accountability measures that if the male failed to do he'd be publicly scorned for life in most cases and while married he'd incur the additional social standard of any law broken by the wife or children he'd have to pay up for or go to jail for not them.

Women have to be so mindful about this. It's like she's supposed to be punished in every way for not putting up with his bs.. About a divorced woman fighting for good child support from her wealthy ex: 'If she wants more money, she can work at Walmart' by my viciously pickme _lawyer_ former friend. Be careful fellow ladies. Society's bar is in hell.

Also cheating is taking resources from the family. Resources are not limited to finances. It's time, energy, emotional, physically and intellectual resources that are stolen by a cheating partner.

You forgot that part where the father after divorce, remarries and the wife abuses the kids and the father just enables the abuse.

70% ppl divorce......so it's more than normal for children.......the abnormal is for them to have two parents that love EA other.

That’s so sweet ✨🌸 and what a beautiful and interesting analogy.

I wish my dad did that for me 😩

Honest, I think both women and men here are both flowers and gardeners, as they both need to work on themselves to be better people and to have a healthy relationship

@@anastefan yup, I agree with you. I don't like to put ppl into boxes based on gender, that's what started patriarchy and all shitty social upbringing of both men and women. Just be you and work on yourself.

Your mother is a wise one🌻

Right? It’s so whack. It’s like, why? How do my standards affect you? Why can’t they just mind their own damn business? Sorry that I actually value my labour, eugh. You’re so right.

​​@@asentientgooseexactly! It's not like I'm dating you so why should you care about MY standards 🙄

Fr tf

Thank you bestie 🫶🏽 preach

It's not woke culture blinding people it's males who don't want to support or take ownership of the consequences of their actions that don't want women to have support. Being woke means your aware to the injustices of the system your living in in this case both patriarchy & capitalism as each have their own things with some overlap. Conservatives like to pretend it means anything white men don't like which is not what it means. In the OG meaning of the word woke you doing things to improve the life of those around you & yourself in the system is optional as back when the term was made it wasn't possible for blacks to improve their standing or situations much at all they could wiggle rather then step hence being aware was the most & best thing they could do for their personal survival.

Huh? What does this have to do with woke? What does that even mean

⁠​⁠​⁠@@therealmanifestelleHi, I have a question? May you explain please how can I get and where can I get a retirement account like the one that you mentioned in the minute 21:14

@@Raddiebaddie She probably means that "Karen" was originally used to describe racist boomer white women, but was co opted as a misogynistic term to insult any kind of assertive women, white, black, asian, latina, any race. And the "woke" culture endorses this misogyny because they think its okay to mistreat a woman if she happens to be white.

Or maybe "mom-diggers", since they want a replacement mom to take care of them, their children, and their household, but also sleep with. 😖

Any relationship should make your life better. You deserve a partner that cares about your wellness and happiness!

What

It really does start in the home. My mom was like this too. If you're a spoiled girlie you're "using him" "a gold digger" "manipulating him" And That's Terrible, but of course if he does it to you "just let it go and forgive him

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Same with my parents & grandparents! My grandpas especially told me if I don't find a man who doesn't spoil me & treat his money as my money & my money as mine, he ain't worth it. Grandma always told me to have a secret, separate bank account from my future husband's to protect myself, but I'd extend that to a few secret investments that pay good dividends too, just in case. Such a good dusty repellent.

I wouldn't call it being a golddiger. Yes money matters if you want to be feminine and want a masculine provider but it's definitely not the only/most important thing! I could NEVER be with someone who treats me like crap doesn't matter how rich they are. Because If you want to depend and submit the provider has to be trustworthy of course.

​@@chrzig554there are multiple things to consider when looking to have a traditional family set up. Source of income and qualities that make a good husband and father are important too.

Thissss 😳

They’re mad because women are no longer accepting their mediocrity

🥹 I'm rooting for you

@@therealmanifestelle Thank you sooo much

so well said, will adopt that mindset shift for myself too :)

Word!!!

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Both sides in relationships have to give and receive

AMEN AMEN AMEN QUEEN!!!!

@@anastefanwhen it comes to courtship, men give and women receive. Who's the one that usually proposes, and who's the one who usually responds? For literally all marriage and domestic tasks women provide and men receive. It's about balance

No self control. This kind of image also comes from the Hollywood media. This kind of lifestyle for men has been normalized since long.

Exactly

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So you want everything with no drawbacks? Life is hard for everyone.

People want to suddenly ignore that marriage is a CONTRACT with TERMS

Exactly. Even if children aren’t involved. He still wasted your youth, time, heart and energy, and ability to find another man - he threw all that away to cheat. He deserved to pay - not only with your absence but also compensate financially for all the other losses which can’t be compensated for. It’s the same in injury, you’ll have medical expenses paid for but also get compensation on top of that.

Im so sorry ❤ I know it hurts and I know that me saying this wont do much; but you ARE special and somebody is going to see you for how special you are and will treat you accordingly ❤

@@idontreallyknowagoodname4191 thank you for your comment and taking the time to say that. It really meant a lot to me. ❤️❤️💕

He's projecting the garbage he feels inside about himself on to you. You are a beautiful child of the creator, unique, special, a child in his genetic line but not his possession to treat like that. He does not see who you really are. I let statements like that convince me that I had to settle for less in relationships with men and wasted my own time. Time I suffered. You can NEVER retrieve lost time. I encourage you to give yourself a gift for me. For us. For all the women who didn't have a way to pick up the hard earned advice of other ally women who were on their side (& good, supportive men). Don't believe ANY man who tells you you're not good enough. I wish you the best.

@@lostangel3852 I really appreciate the comments you all have left me. This is the most positive and meaningful support that I have ever had. It means so much to me that you took the time to respond and give me support. It is so genuine and that is something so rare. Thank you ❤️❤️

@@lostangel3852 thank you so much. I can’t tell you how much that means to me. ❤️❤️

Traditional man? Who says traditional man brings to his woman whatever she demands?

"Whatever she demands?" All the person is saying that since HE is the only one with the finances in this relationship, HE should be the one to fund this traditional lifestyle. This isn't just for her either;it's for him, the household, and most importantly, their children

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Ironically several Karens aren't pure at all

@@atheon596You’re on the wrong channel to support a misogynistic slur.

@@tattoocouture3761 Not at all misogynistic. Karens are women, typically white women, who would call the cops on a POC for walking down the street or would harass at a low income worker over a really small inconvenience.

​@@tattoocouture3761Cope

I knew a woman who earned nothing but husband gave her all his money and paycheck and she gave him allowance and he did everything he wants. She had all the power even that she didn’t work. Had all his money and he obeyed her in everything. It depends on personality. Another woman worked high paying career but her his took all her money and she had nothing, she was obidient one even that she worked.

Better if you work on your dream job, but still have husband who provide for you and your kids I see woman who have husband like that Because he love her, and only want the best for her And you only want to marry a man who love you anyway

Thank you for sharing 🫶🏽

My parents didn't marry, they broke up before I was born. One of my mom's friends told her not to act all low maintenance when it came to her baby, he told my mom to demand good stuff for me. He, as a guy, knew how important that became when having children outside of a marriage. It's not like that was needed with my dad. He has always given me all I need. But talking to other children with parents that aren't married, my dad is an exception.

Interesting anecdote! Funny how society likes to co opt therapy speak like "controlling" or "toxic" gfs to describe women who aren't doormats. Really sinister way to guilt trip women into accepting less, because you don't want to be an "abuser".

U lost me on the 50 part. Can u explain

I get that there are draw backs to 50/50 but there are draw backs to being a SAHW too no matter how many safe gaurds you put in place. No matter how nice being "spoiled" sounds, I just don't want to not have a job in my relationships. I get that men take advantage of women's labor in a 50/50 sometimes, but it seems like you can change that by valuing men who actually do domestic labor the same way you can curb the negative side effects of stay at home situation by asking for alimony or getting a prenup. And if he doesn't do 50/50 over time? Leave him. If anything having 50/50 makes that much easier than having to battle for needed resources in courts. Not that you shouldn't demand your rightful share in a 50/50 either

This

so true. People think there are only the two extremes of the spectrum (homesteading housewife or man-hating boss-babe) and this channel is the perfect guide to happy moderation

Women are scared to be independent even the strong ones due to they were all raised to be dependent & their agency's taken away via "protection" then they grew up & were told "just kidding! Go make your independent life! We lied to you!" so their rearing doesn't prepare them for independence meanwhile males start at infancy when they come back from the hospital. While girls do nearly everything first she's "protected" from her nature & boys are conditioned to self sooth early & take charge of this or that & what he does isn't immediately if ever punished allowing the baby the knowledge he can be himself anywhere while she is doubted out of her own will constantly. It's very fascinating to read up on how parents treat their kids by sex now I will recognize alot of strategies made for males like let him cry forever & just yell at him for being a girl is abusive we need to teach people healthy interaction for baby states so the child can grow up with better knowledge as their brains will need select care to understand that the x they did was wrong not the baby itself was wrong so they can be both independent and assured at the sametime there are people who raise healthy independent kids with strong minds & fluidity of when to use boundaries or not.

This spoke to my Libra ♎️ stellium 💜

I think you shouldn't mold yourself to a role, that doesn't sound like a happy life, just work on yourself and be your best version.

They have a lot of time on their hands. ❤

😂😂broke people should never laugh

@@HolisticManifesting 👏 They need a job 😅

@@HolisticManifesting They only have all that time cause they don't have jobs 😭

@@Lyraxoxo111 👏

For me it was the other way around. My parents didn't marry, so technically not divorced. My mom and grandma were the kind to try to be low maintenance. My dad always provided for me and even when I wasn't living with him he would always find ways to spend quality time with me. Him and my grandpa were always telling me to find someone worthy, that would respect me, protect me, provide for me. And if I didn't find such a partner, I could get all the nice stuff for myself.

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Could you please elaborate?

ie threatening you that he's going to get mad if you do or dont do what he says or agree etc using his size and physical strength or verbal aggression and persistence/harassment as a subliminal force. Thats what they do in those fresh and fit talks, (is a good example to me) get these girls to submit and bark at them to the point where they shut down basic thinking because they are in flight mode. at the point a man is projecting a possible threat, the women just want to leave to escape they can give two shits about making a point to a man whos emotions are spiking and whose voice is raised.@@areyouokay4306​

This is on point. They definitely will bully you and purposely try to intimidate you with their physical in subtle and direct ways. It's disturbing.

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​@@anddudewaslikeDoes it also tell women to follow the bad leadings of their husband? Does it teach husbands to break their vows and manipulate their wives? I'm pretty sure there should be nuances not blind leading the blind.

@@anddudewaslike I asked a question. Why are you acting like what I'm saying is a wild scenerio? LOL, I asked something reasonable. There should be a nuance or does the quran say that women should follow their husbands blindly even if what their husband is doing is bad? What exactly am I invalidating and embellishing? Or are you agreeing that the woman must follow the man no matter how bad his actions are? You seem to be the one acting dodgy. So far as the man is doing right he has nothing to worry about, lol.

​@@anddudewaslike well then it's a good thing that Muslims don't just follow this one single alleged verse of the Quran that you didn't bother to cite. Every religion has followers who are bad men. And Islam stipulating that a man should be kind to his wife AND the wife should be patient and steadfast in her loyalty is not the "gotcha" you think it is. When a woman is being neglected of basic needs and/or abused, there are lawful halal options for her to leave the marriage. However, religion is not the only determining factor, and some Muslim women remain in abusive marriages for the same reasons that women all over the world endure abuse in a marriage.

​@TT-ee1vv I'm a Muslim woman and there are most definitely stipulations to this , he can't guide you to what's morally wrong no one has the right to tell you to do what is morally incorrect not even your parents. ❤

AMEN AMEN AMEN!!!!!!!

I’m 31 and nobody in my life BUT I’m happy with my career and lifestyle. I would live to have someone like your partner, sis😊 so happy for you! All the happiness and success in your life 🌸

Can you tell me which one? I would prefer to not watch multiple ones

Preach ❤❤

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@@binarybob0010date men then

You kinda sound like incel, but female vesion, not gonna lie

Literally, I feel drained after the presence of a man, but energized by the presence of a woman. Men are black holes of energy.

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I woke up late too. It's normal that when something hurts we just decide we need to be less sensitive. And it just leaves us open to get wounded deeper. By our nature we want to keep our hearts open because we know that that's TRUE strength. Go live your spoiled, entitled, soft girl life, I'm so proud of you bestie 🫶🫶

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Oh interesting! If you feel like sharing (if not, no worries!) - I’m curious about the spiritual implications of this. So interesting that it’s taught within a faith tradition!

My grandpa cheated on my grandma for the final 5 years of his life (before that he was a great grandpa). He started getting mad at my grandma for asking for even small amounts of money, while he put his family in debt to give money to that awful other woman. I really don't understand men.

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Right!? I keep wondering where this wisdom comes from. Doesn't matter. I just wish I found content like this 20 years ago ❤

@@CBusCP Trust me, coming from another spoiled girlie (and kept wife) it's easy to obtain god tier level of knowlege and wisdom when you have time to focus on yourself, regulating your nervous system, maintaining inner peace and reading, learning, journaling, having the time to think and reflect

Alexa, Define "DEMON!?"