In asian, you will be long dead if you say that to older people. That is so damn rude. Well asian traditions is always to respect older people, we are not supposed to even call older people their name but like miss, mr, or madam. So, i am not one to speak about white people tradition, just comparation 😂
Kelly has her own way of showing affection and there's nothing wrong with that. The mother isn't wrong for saying she's buying both of them the same gift but she is wrong for saying Lexi is more talented, pretty, and keeps relationships so there's some bias.
That's fine if she wants to be like that spend that money on something fun for the two of you and if the worst comes to pass you can let her know she had that option at one time but she got upset when you were looking out for her so now she can figure it out on her own I wish I had had parents like that
Nta... You are well within your rights to do what you've done. Protect your little sister and to hell with those who think they know better than you. They did not live your horrible life you did and so did your little sister. They need to mind their own business stay in their own lane. You hold your head high and move forward with your little sister and keep doing what you're doing❤❤❤❤
The flashbacks i got from this. My mum would very often give the "ugh go make yourself useful and do..." If you dont think its rude you should consider the implication that statement makes that the person isnt useful unless they are working or doing something for others.
I don't feel you were wrong. It's your preference on who you would like to date. Especially if you put it on your profile that you like fit women. I don't know what she was thinking. She set herself up for that eye opener. I loved how you were still respectful to her and explained to her once again your preferences just in case she couldn't read.🤎🥂😊
I'm liking this because of the video. Lol. That food looks amazing. I'm so hungry now. Anyway, your food, you should pay. You should always have that as default but If a gentleman would want to pay then he pays but it's not an obligation... especially nowadays... I guess.
Well i wonder why all other people here criticize the parent so hard, yes i agree the parent only says about lexy so beautiful and all, and nope for Kelly are scream for indiscriminate, but what their parent did about the gift, that's uterly not wrong! And about the family attitude? Please, it's required to work hard to get something, no free food just bcs you are young, that's just spoiled the child. I will educated the young to work more in the relationship with the whole family if you want better treatment from them, that's give and take, and i will just give my children the same treatment, but not for the rest of the world, bcs they are not entitled to do that to my child, just bcs she is my child. But well, without the child knowing, i will repremind the aunt and other too not to do that and explain why they shouldn't do that.😂 But still, the other family don't have responbility to give same treatment to my child, bcs, it's just human nature, it's hard to build relationship. And if you don't want to build the relationship, then, you also must accept the difference in treatment.😅
Well, relationship with aunts and uncle is kid's own things, and you cant just tell them "love me too" because you cant expect that kind of affection without showing affection first, i had this same situation with my aunt and uncle and all what i did was actually improve the relationship instead of complaining, and yes buying both ipads is not considered favouritism
The dad has already picked his favorite. I see a n/c coming up very soon. Hey, Dad go over all this again. You've already made it clear that you love Lexi way more than Kelly. Your lose her very soon. But, honestly it seems like y'all all would do so much better if everyone went n/c with Kelly. I think itwould be much healthier for her. Because each of you have already showed who the favorite is. The only thing i can say is i doubt it all as one sided as you think. Because it never is. I really wish you would put a lot of space between you and Kelly because the way your treating Kelly is very, very wrong.
Not your problem anymore. Enjoy retirement. As you said they are all adults, youngest is 21. They can all get jobs and take care of themsepves, plus they already said they don't consider you their parents so you are free of all obligatorions. Go and Live your best life
Texts are great because it's easy to prove they committed a crime and they even conspired against you if they knew. Admitting to crimes over texts isn't smart but it's super common.
NTA If she wants it her way, she can have it. These are the (grand)mothers boundaries and this child, and she is still a child at 19 years old and this attitude, can see what the adult world can be like.
Well my sisters and parents said that all the time whenever we have banquet or small gatherings, so I learnt how to set up plates and restock foods, and none of our family members got offended. But it's different when you have in laws now who are nurturing coddling 😅😅
The type of birth control making you have no periods is putting your body in a state of menopause instead of a constant pregnancy. A friend of mine takes that type for her severe endometriosis. It really messes with your body and she won't recommend it if you don't have issues.
Situations like this make me wonder how many of us have generations of normalized condescension and contempt and trauma. Objectively speaking anything in a tone can be negative. In general this is a rude and disrespectful way to speak to an elder. You would expect to get spoken to like this by a parent or elder. I speak multiple languages, all languages have a hierarchy of how you speak to whom. To my girlfriend's mother, "thank you for offering i need help with..." I also understand that we speak more in slang, common vernacular or generalized terms that we use and hear so much that we say it without a second thought. How often do we speak and not analyze what is coming out of our mouths, where we heard it, and in what context is it used and the origin of it. Language is fascinating bc even now, how many phrases do we no longer say bc you just can't say that anymore but were not said with malice or with a tone. The south has the famous "bless your heart" I had a similar experience in Spanish, as the phrase is, out of the goodness of your heart can you... I heard this growing up all the time, well at 10 I asked an uncle if out of the goodness of his heart can he pass the salt. The entire table of adults stopped and stared at me. Turns out you don't speak to your elders that way and it is a condescending phrase said in an ironic way, even though there was no tone or ill intention behind it, I learned similar lessons many times in different languages lol.
Bs. This is a simple contract case. If the roommate isn't on the lease, it's not one of his assets for her to have even a hope of a claim on, even if she paid for it cash. If this was real, his lawyer would have just put in a dismissal on standing.
