I can't believe it took this long for me to realize, its not that you have terrible luck finding the right person, its that you have good sense for seeing if they are the right person.
Don't leave us hangin', Swoozie! Video on Green Flags! It's easy for people to point out what's wrong; it's hard to acknowledge what's right. Learning to take times to acknowledge what's going right is a valuable skill too.
I once dated a girl that was so hot all kinds of people would mention how attractive she was. She was also so kind loving and fun *most* of the time. But she was absolutely INSANE. I love abroad, and this girl stole my passport, than had her friend bribe me into getting it back 😮
I don’t have one, so I’m just gonna ask a question don’t passports have your name in picture on them? What was the point of that because she wouldn’t be able to use it
Never chase someone that doesn't give you the same attention you give them. Just pick someone that puts effort to be with you. Time is special, so make the most of it. *Be happy. That's all that matters.* ⏳
Day 1 of dating school lesson: Don't treat someone like a priority when they're treating you like an option. Meeting somebody on tinder is the worst because literally everybody is treating everybody like options.
Thank you this, Swoozie! I have to add three more- If they compare you to a past partner, don't ignore that ish, if they tell you all my exs are crazy, run, if they're rude to service workers and/or their parents, run.
Swoosh, let me briefly tell you something, from my worst days in middle school to right now halfway thru college after a fresh breakup, you have always been there for me, making me laugh and smile when I had no one else to turn to. Thank you and be safe
Oof, I'm torn between 2 people atm and don't know what to do. My ex and I had a miscommunication and we talked it out and cleared up the misunderstanding, but before we cleared things up, I did go on a dating app and found someone who I immediately hit it off with on the first date and had a wonderful second date with too. The new person is very inconsistent at communicating because their job is very demanding. We have the same communication style and we are compatible in a lot of ways when we do finally talk/meet up. Yes, my ex is an ex for a reason but mainly because he never got his life together, he always treated me well and was a good boyfriend. Even as exes, we've remained really close. He's looking for a job and wants to get out of his parents house, but it feels almost a little too late. Especially since we dated for 3 years and known each other for 4. I'm torn, do I go with the person I'm more compatible with and has a really good established career already, but may not be there when I need him, or do I go with the person I already know and wait even longer for them to get their life in order, but will always be there when I call? And side note: they are both 28 and live with their parents due to their folks having health issues.
Imma say based off the merits presented here and coming from a purely objective standpoint, take the guy with good compatibility and job. The fact that your ex is 28 and isn't in stable employment is kinda sus to me
I say go with the guy you're compatible with because yes you are right he is a little too late. Plus even if you decide to go back to his ex, what if he repeats the same mistake and you will just get hurt again. Also he is still unstable with life at the moment. He doesn't live on his own, he barely gets a job. He still needs time to collect himself together. You can still be friends if you want but he needs time on his own to be himself :) The new guy sounds great and has everything you want so take that chance girl!!! ❤❤
I’d say the guy you’re compatible with, if the only issue is that person having a demanding job I’d say that can be worked through especially since they’re great at communicating when you meet up. Like you said, that ex is an ex for a reason. Try it with the new guy, nothing wrong with moving on and going for it. ☮️
I'd say this also holds true for any relationship, esp new friends if they're always late or flaking or not giving really being there when you're together
@@andrewryan2928 I think you are missing the point. If you are the one initiating every time then the other person doesn’t value or care enough about you
So many facts. Like you wanna ignore the red flags sometimes cause you're already invested. Just went through some of this myself and had to remove myself from the relationship.
Recently got back into the dating scene after YEARS in a toxic relationship (we both contributed, it was bad for us both) advice videos like this help me keep up on building a healthy relationship and what to look for
I use to watch you all the time when I was younger; kind of fell off cuz life. But like… this revival of Swoozie is literally everything I needed and hoped for. I love you. 😭😝 Thank you so much for existing. 💚✨
Good to hear from ya, Swoozie! A couple of questions: where’d you get that cool jacket? Who did the music for this video? It’s catchy! 👍 Your “I’m over here, shaving MY legs, just in case” at 2:00 has me dead! 🤣🤣
Good way to wake up to a Swoozie video. I needed to hear this Ive been trying with this girl i like and I think im going to celebrate the green flags. Swoozie, how are you still single?? Thanks for keeping it a buck with us. Dating out there sounds hard!
I really could have sworn Swoozie voiced Toad in the new Super Mario Brothers movie. It was Keegan-Michael Key 😂 Adande would have been great for that role though, Toad even seemed to have the same mannerisms.
I am severely disappointed, Swoozie, a man we all thought we could trust and believe in, thinks that pineapple belongs on pizza. I hope he sees the error of his ways and does better in the future.
I’ve got a common phrase I tell my friends when they ask for advice and they always go why aren’t you with anyone. That phrase is the Coach Don’t Play. However, after all these dating stories and A+ tier content I’m dying wondering why our man Swoozie hasn’t secured a baddie yet. Now if he’s not trying to lock one down I get it but Id imagine after teaching us so much he’d at least have one solid girl after all these stories. No hate and I’m sure you’re playing the game you want to play man. Wish you the best and have and always love the content.
3:33 I've made this connection myself and so glad it's here. After going on some self-improvement journey like changing your eating habits, go to therapy and all: that shit is HARD. So I've learned to treat people as constants.
Yo swooze this video helped me so much man a similar thing just happened to me and I’ve been feeling regret about ending things with her. This vid came at such a perfect time I feel a whole lot better about my decision now.
Hi Swoozie. Your videos are so good and funny. I love watching your videos every day. Keep being your amazing self and I hope you have an amazing day!!
SWooZie you deserve better! I’m sorry you keep getting your heart broken doll! ❤ Keeping you in my thoughts! 😘 ps love the videos! You rock with that Prince style my dude! 💜💛✌🏻
