A bad day with body dysmorphia 

I've never heard anyone describe so accurately how painful the uncertainty of others perception is, I would do anything to look at myself through someone else's eyes

"Other days you look at yourself and you think, why on earth would anyone talk to me, why would they look at me?" I gotta be honest... This made me cry... Please know that you are worth, coming from someone who sees you from a physical side. I am very, very grateful that there are people like you on this earth who understand... You are PRETTY! Take it or leave it to the nice, generous, passionate, other pretty people on this earth you are worth. I swear...

the bad thing about not knowing if ur attractive or ugly is that you think whenever someone is complimenting you, it's out of pity

I completely understand how you feel. I reached one point where I had a full blown out panic attack and breakdown as I was about to head out to school because I caught a glimpse of my appearance. And to outsiders it might seem irrational but you don’t understand how powerful the mind is that something so small could be so significant. It felt so immediate and scary you know, I’m so glad for masks now I have less anxiety about my face. People don’t understand how painful it is existing when you can’t stand the mere sight of yourself and all these people coming up with counter argument about you being attractive or that you’ll grow out of it is insulting and disgusting af no one needs your pity. But it’s good to vent it’s good to let it out it’s the only way to keep yourself sane -girl from discord

this probably sounds super weird but for me because my lips are really small, i think the most attractive part of other girl’s faces are their lips. and yours are gorgeous and i love the way you talk and your teeth are so nice and straight. that all may sound insanely creepy but i don’t mean it in any other way than i genuinely think you’re beautiful. just know that coming from someone who has also struggled with their face a LOT and do not meet the beauty standard in any way, people don’t really care about anyone but themselves. personality and confidence is all you need to make friends, and i’m sure that you have people that love you and don’t care about how you look.

This made me cry. It just made me want to send a virtual hug or something especially because I don't agree with the way your brain makes you think of yourself sometimes.

"The way I see myself is that I'm the ugliest...when I look at myself I think I'm a monster" damn, I relate to that so much!I also think about that sometimes, I've been bullied and cyberbullied my entire teenage years due to my appearance!People can be so rude, like really rude!You have to be strong, but I know you can do it!

I almost cried with you watching this. I completely agree with what you’re saying.

Ive been struggling with this too. Hearing you say it makes me feel a lot better because we've been through similar situations and you are not ugly at all. Please feel free to reply to me or text me or something seriously. Its been so hard not finding people to relate to but your account has helped me see that my thought aren't reality

But it’s crazy cuz honest to god, you have so many attributes to your face that are gorgeous. Your face is naturally beautiful. You see the acne, you see asymmetry. You’re a human.

It made me so sad to hear that part at the end about how rude people are, I'm so sorry :( remember it has nothing to do with you, and everything to do with them

I know this video is old so idk if you'll read this, but you just described every moment of every day of my life. Everything you said is what I think about 24/7. I've never felt like I can tell anyone these thoughts and I've never even heard anyone say them. Thank you so much for making this video so I know I'm not crazy 💖💖💖

You're very brave to make these videos. I promise that many people out there feel the same way we do. We have days when we feel ashamed to show our faces in public.We feel like people are judging us with every look. That doesn't change the fact that we are worth talking to, worth getting to know, and worth loving.

What you're saying about how you feel like the ugliest person alive takes me back to my early 20's, when I had the exact same thoughts about myself. I became obsessive and many times I didn't want to leave the house because I didn't want people to see me. I literally couldn't recognize myself some days, because I was so hyper-focused on my flaws. I have also felt fear and anxiety regarding other people's perception of me. My sister has suffered from this as well. I'm sorry you're experiencing this, especially in a time when much of what we see on TV and social media are perfect, airbrushed faces that, no matter how unrealistic, nonetheless influence how we see ourselves. You're definitely not alone with your BDD, and I hope with time you are able to grow more comfortable with yourself and be at peace with your appearance, and be able to live a happier life. ❤

In my eyes I personally see a magnificent and brave individual you're one of a kind your struggle is real positivity or therapy won't help but I feel you are worth the time and energy fir the person you are.

to be hating yourself is one of the hardest part in life.

honestly i will tell you this for sure. I have searched here on youtube "im ugly" just because i want to see people who suffers like me knowing that i have body dysmorphia. honestly the fact that you just share how you feel and u said "connect with people" you have truly connected with me. the way you expressed everything is exactly how i feel. Im even encouraged after looking at all of your videos to talk about my experience too. I take lots of photos and selfies and im very critical about it and took me long to find my angles and such and realized every exact thing i dont like about my face. but regardless i will post a video and wont care if it got negative response s

this is really heartbreaking and I totally relate. ontop of that.. I have very severe acne with icepick scarring everywhere on my face.. Like I legit look like the worst "before" picture at a clinic you can find lol. I used to take showers with the lights off so I wouldn't accidentally get a glimpse of myself.. canceled a lot of plans with friends at the last minute after staring at the mirror for 2 hours. And even before the acne, I had BDD.. so you can imagine not wanting to exist. Anyway, I just wanted to log in to let you know I share your pain, if it's of any help. Life, right? I'm glad there are people out there who understand and you are very brave to be so transparent about your thoughts. my heart goes out to you, really.

All my life I always blamed my appearance for why I couldn't achieve my goals. Even the littlest thing such as going out with friends or school was hard. If I may ask, what's your relationship with your parents like? I would like to hear some specific stories of interactions you had with people where you were discriminated for your looks. I feel your videos just reiterate the same beliefs but I'd really like to hear some detailed examples of a situation where you tried putting yourself out there (or not) and was rejected or treated differently. One example from my life is at work, there's this female manager who says hi to all the employees at my department except me, although I have better attendance and work performance. This same manager wrote me up for being late but didnt write up my co worker for doing it more than me. I've also been turned down for jobs I was an expert at, even when i showed how much i knew about a subject during an interview, I'd be turned down for a job. Girls also constantly reject me.

Your inner image is based on your own self perception, your outside image is based upon the perception of others. I made that quote up myself.

She’s looking at flaws most people don’t notice. I’d take a look at this girl and see an attractive young woman. Its all a matter of perspective. You see yourself in the mirror close up every day of your life. Don’t obsess over these flaws no one else is going to notice. Absolutely no one is perfect, some people are just better at hiding their flaws, and others are better at ignoring them. You literally have to choose to move past this barrier or it will eat your mind away.

Hon I'm like 10x worse and I'm strong. But this sounds more than just an observation of not liking how you look. It's more mentally unsettling for you, just have fun in life and when you're happy and confident, the only thing that matters is how nice and helpful you are to people. Also, as you grow older you will accept yourself more.

Hits different when your emotions now have words and they are coming out of the mouth of someone else .. you are not alone

THE WAY YOU SEE YOURSELF IS A PERSPECTIVE. I think you are so pretty. Many people do too. The thing you need is a therapist to train yourself into more positive thought patterns. The most “acceptably beautiful” person can have the biggest insecurities. WHEN PEOPLE LOOK AT YOU, THEY DO NOT THINK YOU ARE UGLY. NOTHING ABOUT YOUR APPEARANCE IS SHOCKING OR OFF-PUTTING. You just have a serious case of body dysmorphia & insecurity.

You might just be the most huggable person on this platform… sending love your way❤️🥺

You’re not ugly at all. You have a really kind and sweet soul. When I was in my early 20s(I’m 27) I suffered from insane social anxiety and used to cry everyday because of it. I thought I was ugly and undeserving of love. I have gotten over it and I can tell you will get over it eventually. I wish I lived close to you so we could talk in person and make you realize that you’re not alone. You’re a sweet soul and should appreciate yourself from head to toe since this is the only body we’ll ever have.

Theres always surgery, and i mean that with best intentions

Just to be real, you really are pretty!! I am a real person who speaks my mind. And you are beautiful!! So many women look fake and glue eyelashes on, wear so much caked on makeup and lipstick and shut... i don't think fake is pretty at all!! But I feel the same way. I hate that my face looks like a man, and that's my struggle. I try to dress up and order all this shit off Amazon to try and look like "other girls" and I just look so ugly still. My husband tells me I'm beautiful but I think that's because his screws are more loose than mine are... haha.. but really. I feel your pain. It crushes my soul to hear your point of view because I can relate to it so much, it just breaks me down all the time. I can't watch TV shows with super model women on it... even stupid shows like Lego Masters just triggered me with all these beautiful girls with perfect hair and teeth.... I hate myself for being this way. It's hard on my marriage too... my husband tries so hard to remind me he likes the way I look, but I don't understand how he possibly could... I have crooked teeth, a butt chin, shadowing above my lip, permanent lines in my forehead, flat chest, thin lips, and a huge greasy beak nose. I've been told I have these ugly features and got bullied really badly by 2 different guys many years ago. I have tried counseling and self help stuff, prayer, and at the end of the day I am just not pretty and that's the way it is. But I am trying to learn that life isn't all about looks. I like things about myself that are not superficial like my DIY skillset, my ability to communicate with different people, my determination.... I try. My advice to you, from one young woman with BDD to another..... Remind yourself DAILY that even on bad days when your face feels like it burns and melts the mirror..... YOU are MORE than just a face!!! My husband's ex is WAY prettier than me.... it still gets to me sometimes.....but she is a ditsy slut who cheated on him and has only beauty as her only asset. Atleast I have a core to who I am, she is just a pretty face and my husband chose me because he sees the value I offer to his life. I am a good partner, I want to be the most loyal woman he has ever known, and I want to work as hard as he does to provide for our kids. Life isn't all about looks!!! Be you, because being beautiful on the inside shows more than external beauty. I know it feels so isolating, but you certainly aren't alone ❤ I have 3 kids and literally they are my only friends. I don't like going to swimming pools or out in any public place that I call a "beauty contest ". I suffer from this so terribly some days that I just cry and hide from the world. But please don't give up on loving yourself. Because I'm not. And I see value in you! I'm your friend if you ever need one! ❤

you can feel worse then me i have body dysmorphia as an male and getting rejected over 45,000 job because might be due to appearance is soul destroying you are pretty lady i believe you will defeat this disorder say you are worthy of your own love and others, good luck lady

I have experienced this although i would he considered by most to be decently above average in looks so body dysmorphia can apply to anyone

God the people commenting just don't get it

So I’ve been watching your videos and do you realize even the prettiest women the models don’t Look like that with out makeup .. people put on makeup to enhance there looks .. you are not ugly at all your cute and have such a sweet personality.. you need realize this feeling your having is in your head it’s not what we see .. I wish you knew how cute you are maybe you would stress less … even the most beautiful women in the world hates something about herself… you have beautiful eyes beautiful lips a pretty smile … I pray you will one day see the truth about you

I hope you are doing better. U have a similar affliction to a good friend of mine. He's a handsome man yet sometimes won't come to the bar with me or whatever because he thinks he's grotesque. Ur a pretty woman, an artist, and seem very kind. I hope therapy helps u. My friend has been in therapy and he's slowly doing better.

You gotta lfind someone who is at the same level of looks as you,if you expect to find a more attractive than you don't be surprised if your feelings get crushed,learn to love your equal and you will find hapiness with someone.

Don't say like that, I think your face is beautiful.

i've cried with you.

Sorry i feel like i’m coming off as so creepy going through your videos and commenting on each one but like i just had to say that your inner qualities that you see in yourself (kind, empathetic, varied music taste, etc.) it really comes through on the outside too. Like when watching your videos i feel so awful that the world is so unfair to be the way it is BECAUSE I SEE YOU. You seem like such a sweet person. It’s unfair. I’ve always felt like the person i am on the outside, my face, it doesn’t reflect who i am on the inside. Hearing you talk about this made me realize that maybe it does come through, but bc the world is the way it is, my face will just always take precedence over that. Maybe part of this struggle is learning to prioritize my good qualities and grow on them. I don’t know if this is the way, but i’ve always been a hopeless romantic. I want to be loved and cared for and i want to care for someone in turn too. But maybe that’s not written for me, maybe that’s OK for now. I never wanted kids anyways, so what if i have 50 cats when i’m older. Maybe i’ll be happy and accepting of myself then.

I've never seen someone so blatant about an insecurity so misunderstood. I truly appreciate you for this, TRULY. I don't necessarily relate to the topic, but to the essence I do. I've never been able to say my issue about myself without people denying it just to try to cheer me up, but all it does is make me feel even more alienated. It's my reality, even if it's not true to you, it's definitely true to me, why would you deny my facts? stuff like that. I get it, I get what you're saying. As someone who struggles with something so similar, I just want to say I love you, and I'm glad you can post something like this.

I wear a face mask everytime I step outside, so i know exactly where you're coming from but to be completely honest I can't imagine why anyone would think less of you because I don't think there's anything wrong with your appearance

Seeing you cry crushes me. You are stronger and have more backbone then most men and women I know. Please keep going. Your ability to talk openly about your insecurities is going to help thousands.

I felt that way about myself for many years and now I just don't care. I think it's because I've met some people who were genuine with me and told me I was ugly but in a kind of comforting way because they really wanted to be around me all the time. I've realised that beauty is not what decides whether you're love/friendship worthy. I hope you can find people who will make you feel like concerns about beauty aren't necessary. And by the way, you are beautiful, but I understand you see yourself differently. I guarantee you that when you look at yourself in 20 years time, you'll see how beautiful you were. I am older and see how beautiful I was. Youth is beautiful on its own 💖

Sometimes I'm just like thinking to myself, am I blind? My mom always just looks at random people at the street or in TV and is just like: she/he is SOOO UGLY And I'm just like standing there being like what the f... I just don't see it. And even if I would like what the f?! How u just like point out random person from a crowd to rate their face?! Honestly I don't even look at the people I walk by and I definitely don't stop at anyone face long enough to even decide if their are or are not attractive... Like why the hell would I do that? Like is this how random people see me? I mean do they look at me and judge me for no reason?! Do they care?!

We truly are all the same & we truly all feel the same way to a degree. You know how you’re so absorbed in your own self? That you don’t even notice other people? Everyone else is the same way. No one CARES about how you look because they are all so concerned with their own appearance too.

Those glasses look good on you. After seeing another of your videos when you were wearing glasses with big round lenses I was thinking that smaller, more rectangular lenses would fit your face better and lo! there you are with exactly that! You still look best with no glasses, but it's quite practical to be able to see clearly, and glasses don't carry the risks of irritation and infection that contacts do.

Im empathetic and have an alternative style and I cry so hard about me looking like a guy that my heart hurts so bad I have to hold it cause it is so heavy and don't want to wake up another day or get up. I even like girly things when I look manly to me. I would totally be your friend so don't feel like you're alone. I feel disturbed like i look like a trans woman. It hurts.

I think they need to fukn instantly give you a raise since your too good lookin to be doing whatever you previously were and need to instantly be promoted to regional manager or sum shit.

I see a human being and she is definitely not ugly to me. Nobody is perfect everyone has flaws even the people you probably consider very attractive, they have their flaws they are not perfect. They may act like they are perfect but I know they are not.

I feel bad for her. I could feel her emotions. When she starts crying I just feel sad.

please happiness is not that shallow

I wish I could give you a hug.

I personally consider myself a beautiful girl and i love my face and my body but i realized that 60%of beauty is confidence .i think you have confidence problems and your problem is not about how you look .also we are living sometimes in a jungle so stop caring about ppl and accept yourself even if you're ugly because life is beautiful

Dont cry 😔, you look beautiful I know the problem i suffer from OCD and ADHD I Love You❤️ please dont cry

Im 18 and i think ur Beautiful no cap...... God cares for you, I care for you ion nice my face might not be the best either but ik God didnt make a mistake in you.... I wish i had braces like u have..... U might have been told that so many times but im so serious im attracted to u .... I would talk to u all day because u shouldn't feel that way.. 😢😢😢😢 im sorry how these cruel people of the world may seem but ur not wat they say u are..... I wish i walked right through that door and gave u a big hug bc and kissed u on the cheek bc ur attractive in my eyes

I wish I could give you a big hug. And I'd need one too. I've felt that way my entire life. I guess I'm not unattractive.. Maybe above average I'm not sure what you'd consider me as a guy. But having borderline personality disorder and body dysmorphia has given me almost an Imposter syndrome where a glance in the mirror can trigger panic. I lived in fantasy for years and I'd just shut down and detach myself and imagine myself with all these amazing features and people liking me. This felt great but glances in the mirror after doing this for so long became soul crushing. My body dysmorphia has caused me to break up with girls and hate people, and the paranoia from my bpd constantly makes me thing everyone is truly lying, I am ugly and it's all this big thing so I don't feel bad. I wish I could give you a hug. I don't know what else I could say because I know how bad it is, just want you to know you're not alone, for whatever that's worth.

You are beautiful but the experiences are very relatable..... 😖🙁😕😶😑

You only you tell yourself who how and what you are even how you see yourself

Im so sorry by how you feel, i rly mean it bc i have felt like this before. I rly wish i could be your friend and talk to you, to be there for you

you are brave

If we can't accept ourselves when we are young and healthy how will we feel when we age and experience the medical problems that come with advancing years? Nick Vujicic "Life without limits"

Have you seen the video by Oh! Stephco “I don’t have pretty privilege and it sucks.” It’s a good video. You should connect with her. Anyway, In her comments and yours, people are saying that y’all are attractive, but neither of you believe it so it definitely is a trust issue. Like we all can’t be Margot Robbie, but honey you are not hideous or ugly by any stretch of the imagination. I hope you believe that someday, I really do. I just want to smack those people that told you were ugly. People can be vicious and it’s usually because they themselves are unhappy with themselves.

Just commenting to say you are beautiful girl ❤️ pls try keep your head up, I know how you feel having low self esteem as well, you should try little things like getting your brows done or eyelashes & lip gloss it’s suttle but maybe will make you feel a bit prettier take care

I am ugly and live a very happy life, I excercise and stay very fit, and eat very healthy, read The Bible and Buddha teachings, Seth Speaks, direct your attention to this and your life will transform, being ugly is never bad, if our heart is kind and our mind is quiet, focus in the inside, if I focus in changing my face I really see no point, what negative people think I don’t care, are our faces “ugly” ? yes, this is the face God gave us, and we thank Him, we must value health more than looks, and spirit more than superficial things, we build confidence in God, we focus in this, and pass these superficial things, growth takes time and motivation, otherwise life can become hell in earth, I choose happiness any day and all day.

You're so beautiful, I can feel your heart. I've been looking for a girl like you my whole life. Cuddles, kisses, Netflix and chill, family and friends, children, BBQs, picnics etc, etc. You deserve it all. You're sad about your looks but I'm sad I can't find someone like you.

I wish I knew some way to help

I see what you are!

So many ppl support u . you dont have a fb? Love what you do. Im sure this helps a lot of people.. I think the people that can be considered the most attractive cacan still see themself the worst.

Body dysmorphia isn't easy to live with. So here are some no-bull-sh*t realities you should know about your looks: 1. The fact that you are NOT shaped like a basketball, already puts you in the above average category. So you start off with a base score of no less than 6 out of 10. 2. From there, with or without spectacles, your face is symmetrical. Add one for that and you're at a solid 7. With a score of 7, you've passed from average into the CUTE category, and that's without even trying to look good. 3. The moment you wear something that compliments your skin tone, you'll push that to an 8, and again ... that's without even putting effort into it. 4. Zits and acne are the bane of every teenager's life. You'll get past it, we all do :) So yea, you score an 8 without effort. THAT IS WAY PAST CUTE AND INTO THE BEAUTIFUL CATEGORY. Above a score of 8, personality starts counting more than looks. The only negative comment I can make here though, and it's not much of a negative either, is your self-image. Which is the body dysmorphia you are dealing with. You counter that though, with quite a bit of courage. Posting a video like this, and laying bare your insecurities to the world for comment, takes courage. All things considered, you have everything you need to rid yourself of these negative thoughts. You've got this! Take a few deep breaths, and tell the image you see in the mirror, to piss-off. The fact is: You know it's lying to you. Again, no BS, from this side of the camera, you're looking damn fine! The moment you've got this condition under control, you can push for a 9 on that score board, and that is HOT-ACTRESS or even SUPER-MODEL territory. I'd say good-luck, but you don't really need it, go forth and conquer. Your best years are before you. :)

❤❤❤ super cute 🥺🥰🥰

i really relate to u and u described how I feel so nicely

I’m going to be very honest because I think you need to hear this.. when I first came across your channel, I believe the title of video was something to the effect of“What’s it’s like being ugly”. At first I thought you were just being an asshole because in my mind, I’m watching a video with a beautiful girl claiming to be ugly, which you are clearly not! As I went on watching other videos on your channel, I quickly realized that you weren’t being sarcastic and that you honestly felt that you were this outwardly “hideous” human being (you are not). I thought to myself “wow, this young woman has no idea how beautiful she is”, and you are beautiful! Admittedly, I don’t understand body dysmorphia, so I won’t pretend to know how this disorder affects you in your everyday life but, I do know that the way you view yourself when you look at your reflection in the mirror, is not the truth! You say in these moments of self hatred, that you question why anyone male or female would even want to be in your presence because, you believe that you’re so “ugly”, that something has to be wrong with them. Could it be that despite how you feel about yourself, that others don’t see you as unworthy or unattractive?! When people see you vs the way you see yourself, people aren’t picking every inch of you apart the way that you do every time you view yourself in a mirror! All of the “flaws” YOU see, I can almost guarantee you that no one else’s is paying that level of detail when speaking with you. I really wish I could make you see what we as your viewers see, because you wouldn’t have to question what others are thinking because you’d already know. Confidence is an attractive quality, so if you’re walking through this life hiding, hoping that know sees you..they won’t! ❤

You are not ugly. I’ve seen your smile. You are cute.😊 Jesus loves you.❤

Girl you are attractive. 🌹

My beautiful girl Please dont cry

Bless your heart; you're breaking mine. You are beautiful. You have wonderful features and I am so sad you see only a very distorted version of the real you. I am praying for you.

Look at the brighter picture girl. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL! If you don’t accept it no one would!

Ik this doesn’t help but your honesty pretty cute tbh. I say this every video. I don’t think you know what ugly is.

When you look at someone, whose face is destroyed by acid or face burnt very badly, what you think about them? When I look at you, you are as normal as a human being could be. I cannot tell you enough (and yo do not believe me), that you are cute!😍

You are not attractive like a model or actress who is like 8/10 9/10 10/10, but you are not below average either, your face is kinda sweet and unique that dosn't mean that you are ugly or unattractive. I know you think that people are saying how beautiful you are in the comments just to lift your spirit up but you really are beautiful in unique way so your not ugly at all. Talking as a guy i honestly dont see any ugly on or in you. And you seem like a good, kind, interesting person that i would personaly hang out with as you said that you like all kinds of music and alternative style and that makes you even more beautiful. (sry for bad eng)

Im just curious what is your religious belief? Do u believe in god?

If you don’t like your face at least love your brain, i think by improving things that we can improve and focusing on us rather than people at the end of the day we should be satisfied.

Start a death metal band! Show us all what hell you feel!

Your beautiful girl and you are attractive and gorgeous,just wear makeup and watch makeup turtoials, on youtube to learn because you are the best! And buy aesthetic outfits and wear cute outfits Be happy and do not worry

honestly...you're not 'ugly', I would like to see you in another camera angle, we all have our good angles, your voice is so sweet and calm there is real beauty not the beauty 'standards' that holywood tell us, I'll be your friend no questions to me you look interesting imho, people like you have deep respect for others and are wiser than a lot of people.

You’re beautiful to me

Y'all are all MENTAL..... Holy cow all of you on here.

Girl, you are not ugly. On the contrary, you have some really good facial features. Your skin is awesome, you have full lips that look very feminine, and even your forehead that you don't like at all, a high hairline is considered to be beautiful. But I do agree with you. You're not attractive at the moment. The reason is that your selfhate is pouring out of each single pore. Attractiveness has only little to do with your physical appearance (that's "beauty"), it's all about your attitude. I would love to talk to you personally, because I'm body dysmorphic myself, but there is a way out!!!

Hey mustache lady 🙃 the only person that can help u is urself. You have to like urself before anyone else can. I know it sounds cheesy and way harder to implement than say. Try getting good at something it can be anything and it will make u feel better. Also try bringing out that humorous side of yours like u did with that mustache gag I thought I was hilarious and kinda cute 😉. All I got to say

Aw u would be my beat friend

Its just some acne. It will go away. But you're cute. Not at all unattractive

Just Breathe...you are fine..yet still to grow into who you will be

Ik attractivness when i see it

Maybe they are trying to think of who you remind them of?

Younger Angelina of course

Omg me😞🙏

You could play Angelina Jolie

What's up. I will Date you for chips 🤣😂

I see nothing awful about you. I think other women just make quite a big effort to appear as ideal as possible; like wear contacts, best hairstyle, make-up, clothes. I'm sure that there are men who would feel very attracted if they met you in person! (I'm being very honest here!) I wish you the very best! You are young, your life can change drastically!

Hi lady. You are mentioning on your videos that you are ugly. I do not understand what you mean. The truth is, beauty does not exist. This was invented to make women feel confident about themselves. Most women wear makeup to hide imperfections. Men too has them. Even movie stars has flaws and they know it. Having flaws are normal because the human body is not perfect. Actors get there face powdered before getting shot on camera. Women put on makeup before going to a ball. All of this is to hide impurities. Most of the time, people saying those remarks are jealous of you. They veil there insecurities with a mask and decredit others to make themselves feel big. Young woman you have fallen into this belief, thinking beauty is important. Growing older, you will see the truth, that beauty is overrated nonsense, nothing more but a fairytale. It is a lie.

your facial bone structure is actually traditionally hot, you just need time for your face to settle into itself over those bones and ur body will pop it just needs time, trust this girl is gonna be smoke, like i said bro sophie simmons, just awkward puberty, some people take ages, like ryan reynolds looked blekh until he was like 28 - thats when puberty finally looked like it left him alone, 28!!! probly worse for girls fk knows

Honey not knowing make it KNOWN..you are a beauty waiting to explode. Be as positive as possible. Keep your chin up.