Sorry about the constant background buzzing, the cicadas are the only royalty free music I could get my hands on. Regardless, hope you guys could relate to some of these struggles.
Throughout my school experience I was called weird and blamed for farts all the time because nobody believed the pretty girls could do it. I was left out at the school disco, the boys treated me like a piece of dirt. I remember this guy was best friends with all of my pretty friends. Me n my (female) friends were walking in a group and this guy called ben called us over but as soon as I started walking over to say hello he went and said "No not you you're ugly", and thats basically the definition of how many guys have treated me in the past.
Many people see someone staring and mistakenly feel self-conscious. You have to realize that people often stare at that which they appreciate, value and love.
yes. i totally would stare at crooked, or catch myself looking at her, because she has this interesting energy about her. shes very expressive. an honest aura. i admired many "strange" people at school from afar. the seemingly "perfect" people seldom caught my attention. some people, unfortunately too few in this blind world, do not limit their sight to vision. (also she is in my opinion beautiful on the outside as well as inside. wish she could see.)
One thing that you should appreciate is that different people find different things attractive. Just as people like different music, enjoy different movies or pieces of art, people find different features attractive. There may be plenty of people who don't find you attractive but equally there are plenty of people who do. What you have to do is appreciate the people who appreciate you rather than focusing on the people who don't. Not everyone will find you attractive but plenty will as you can see from the RU-vid comments. Focus on the people who do and don't worry yourself with the ones who don't.
Nick Vujicic, Mattie Stepanek, Hellen Keller, Jacqueline Saburido, Malala Yousafzai, their words and stories and many others have inspired me, if we focus in Spirit we discover strength and purpose, we don’t have to change our face, our thoughts yes, the way we view ourselves if we see and feel negatively, there will eventually be someone who will love us, always, stress causes a myriad of problems, we must work everyday to raise above it, with internal work and time we can achieve that, you have met many wrong people, there’s nothing wrong with you but your negative thoughts about you and giving a lot of importance to the opinion of others.
You're not ugly at all. I'm not saying that to make you feel better, in fact I find it slightly irritating that you're claiming the struggles of people who are actually ugly when you have attractive features i.e. small chin, small nose, full lips, big round eyes. I honestly think your BDD is impacting your perception of your own face and you automatically attribute others' behaviour to your looks
the Gospel is that all have sinned and fall short of the glory of GOD and thus we all deserve eternity in hell, an eternity of judgment. BUT, in GOD's great love and mercy, He sent His only begotten SON into the world to die for the world's sins and to be risen for its justification, that whomever from the world would believe in Him would be saved and have life everlasting. Amen.
I agree with everything she's saying 100% and it's important now that we're living in an inclusive woke society. We need to recognize how ugly people are discriminated against
Hi I think you are a beautiful young woman don't let other people's lies become your truth. I am 56vyears old and I was told I was ugly all through my early years I let other people Rob me of my youth, I look at photographs of me when I was younger and feel sad that I didn't see my own beauty, I wasted all those years believing mean people, I was just an easy target. Don't let others steal that from you. Why do we believe those who tell us we are ugly and dismiss those who tell us we are beautiful. When I saw your post it made me think of myself at your age. If I could go back in time knowing what I know now, I would hold my head up high and enjoy the blessing of youth which is more of a blessing than beauty. Beautiful woman become invisible as they age and its harder for them because I are used to being seen. Enjoy this beautiful journey, I once dated a beautiful looking man and he was kindest, sweetest guy I have ever dated. I got to see the downside of beauty he told me beauty and ugliness are the same,because noone sees beyond them. Imagine being rich and someone just living you for your money. When I have an ugly day I remind myself that Marilyn Monroe probably the most beautiful woman who ever lived died alone and said often that she never found love x
As you’ve observed yourself, you’re not deformed or defective, so you are not ugly in an objective sense. Your face is unconventional. And human beings are programmed to prefer average, conventional faces; so when they first see your different face, the reflex reaction is “ugly.” But anyone who takes the time to get to know you and be your friend will rapidly find you increasingly attractive-and anyone not willing to do that is not worth your time. Also, listening carefully to your rant it sounds like you’re leaning towards acceptance of yourself and independence from the herd opinion; and that is a good thing. I think you’re cute and would make a very interesting date, and I’m not saying that to cheer you up (I’m ugly myself, and I know that drill only too well).
of course this guy is the guy she responds to in a sea of comments saying the opposite. gotta keep that low self-esteem that you identify with alive, crooked lady. lol.
where are you from haha? I've looked 3 videos of yours and I just want to give you a hugh and talk all day , you seem a pretty nice and interesting person.
my one eye is smaller then the other and higher on my face, my one end of lip is lower then the other, so when I smile, I smile more on one end! My one ear is bigger and more separated from my head and in every fucking picture if the camera is facing direct in my face you can fucking see it... So if i need to take a picture im gonna do it on my side profile...Also im a guy and im 175 cm high( 7.5 feet)... AND I CANT DO IT ANYMORE!!!! Im 27 now and i hate myself to the guts.... I just want to die! All of my friends are getting marry, kids.. And im the funny guy in group... I have bad posture because of my skoliosis, rabbit front teeth... small fist compared to the other guys I know, no beard( well i have a beard but when it grows its better shaved off)! The only thing im good at is being funny and that just brings laughs, not girls!! I had girlfriends before like in 8th grade, highschool! But last girlfriend i had was when i was 22! She had a child, I accepted like my own! Spend all my salary on them so we can live a normal life because she didnt work anywhere for a year and a half! And after 2 years of relationship she cheated on me.... we broke up... after 5 months she came back to me and beg for another chance... Second chance in and after 5 months she cheated on me with another dude, not the same from before.... 5 months in relationship with that guy she brakes up with that new guy and comes to me so we can finally be together because im the only man she ever wanted.... GUESS WHAT HAPPEND AFTER ANOTHER 6 MONTHS!?! same story but with another dude! And at that point I was calculating: So im not some whiney guy, im normal like in the middle- not alpha, not beta! I treated her nice.. dinners, walks, trips! I accepted her child like my own! IN FINAL IF I WAS A WOMAN I WOULD WANT A GUY LIKE ME! So im calculating all of this and the only logical thing to me is that im ugly AF! Now im not even funny anymore, non stop frustrated, low confidence i even got dumber in comunicating!!! Now i can hardly make any conversation with anyone! So when my mother, grandfather and grand mother die im gonna surly kill myself because i cant live the rest of my life alone! My mother is very sick and i dont think she' s gonna live longer than my grandparents! SRY FOR BAD ENG im from europe... so dont judge!
Girl i dont know who made you feel like you are ugly but i genuinelly think you look really pretty. I think youve just met nasty people in your life who are brainwashed so much they only find a small box attractive but it doesnt mean you ate ugly at all i would honestly love to be as pretty as you girl! You dont even need makeup etc .!
the Gospel is that all have sinned and fall short of the glory of GOD and thus we all deserve eternity in hell, an eternity of judgment. BUT, in GOD's great love and mercy, He sent His only begotten SON into the world to die for the world's sins and to be risen for its justification, that whomever from the world would believe in Him would be saved and have life everlasting. Amen.
just try being confident, and avoid being so obsessive about your looks , i look like you but brown and oval face , i used to be too obsessive about it too but it didn't helped a bit and made situation just worse , now i seriously don't care about the way i look and focus on my hobbies life has being much better after i shifted my focus from look to my hobbies
Lookism is the undiscovered Racism. There is all kinds of discrimination. BUT YOU LOOK GREAT. REALLY I am selective. I like people who are not perfect .. can I have your number? email lol. really if you lived near me I'd be your friend. You are just a shy, introspective gal who should find a wonderful man (or woman). I don't like women with makeup. No way below average.. my goodness, you just need someone to be close with. I see nothing wrong with that forehead.
well if you ever wanna talk to someone i have instagram @lazy.dazy.0 and we can talk and dont worry im not a weirdo or something lol but if you ever wanna talk about anything we can😇💞
Having seen your other vids, I think you're being super harsh. (And maybe other people have been harsh towards you). But you don't have any big facial scars or deformations. No burn scars like I've seen some unfortunate people have. You can walk down the street without people staring at your scars or deformities.
@@CrookedLady If I'm being completely honest with you, you do look adorable without the glasses. Especially when you smile. Big brown eyes, the way your eyebrows lift up. The vid with your hair up is your best. Like I said, I think you're just super harsh on yourself. Maybe that's just your personality. Like you're a super detail focused person. Just analyzing and picking yourself apart.
@@SFlare1 well it’s not been me. Mostly peers and people above me. I’m below average to most people where I live, I’ve been told that my entire life. No shame in admitting it.
@@CrookedLady I understand not wanting to lie to yourself. If you're below average, it's only slightly. All it might really take for you is finding someone who's into you. You're young so I'm sure you will. It'll be a tremendous boost to see that someone does find you beautiful and desirable. You seem like a very contemplative, deep thinking person. Just try not to close yourself off to the possibility of someone you like being attracted to you too. That becomes a self fulfilling prophecy.
@@SFlare1 I’m below average and I’m just sharing my experiences. I’m going to continue to talk about lookism because it does affect me and so many other people. You clearly do not understand what it’s like. That’s okay, not everyone does. But someone needs to spread the truth about our experiences.
Noooooôœ please listen to da man trying to spit some KNOWLEDGE on dis here thang ah mabooby. I think your an above average person going off of your looks but that self confidence needs a lil work.
I ask you to Go to Jesus. You need to renew your mind. Renew your mind about yourself because you seem to have a strong hold a mind that hates yourself that has been built over the years by lies. I’m not perfect but I say you should strongly consider what I’m saying. It’s important. God bless you.
