Annoying Things Enneagram 3s Do in Love 

We're great. We're freaking awesome. Even if we have annoying things, we're the best. 1 thing: I gotta say there's one reason why my relationships with friends don't really last very much because I put them aside because I put work first. My family knows that abd lets me finish my work, I'm like "I CAN'T I GOTTA FINISH THIS" and they are like "okay, call us when you're ready and come over". I started putting unfinished projects aside but I feel terrible and never stop thinking about it, so i think i won't do it again. 2 thing: true, if you're gonna say something bad about us or about what we do, DO IT CALMLY and encouraging us to see our potential, because yeah, we might not say it in that moment because there might be other people and we gotta look cool, but once we're alone, we start to overthink about it and tell you directly. We dont forget our failures. 3 thing: idk if it's because I'm sp3, but I hate showing off that much. But yeah, we wanna look cool and we're experts to deceive. Our life would be falling down, but we have a slime on until we get home. Why would you be interested in our problems anyway? Are you gonna solve them? No, swallow feelings and move on. The more you swallow, the more expert you become at it. 4 thing: that's why we have a great bladder control lmao. People have to remind me to take breaks or to eat when I'm focused on a project because hey, i gotta finish it and then I'll eat. 5 thing: that's why i hate pictures and videos. I'm obsessed with looking good and I NEVER FIND MY GOOD ANGLE WHAT THE HELL 6 thing: what i do when I start a relationship is making myself look bad and bam, i automatically look better over time and my partner says "hey, you aren't that bad as you told me". Like that i succeed and I just have to keep the "bad" appearance or make it better automatically 😌 But yeah, we try to make our relationship look good because it's OUR relationship, we gotta be the BEST partners in the room!

Ahhhhhhh when the 7th one was coming up I literally said to myself, "I guess she's not going to bring up unrealistic expectations" and then you totally did. This is honestly really good. I actually have stories for basically all of these having been on the other side. To this end, I'd like to say that some of these are not so bad. Like the need to win thing is sort of whatever, like the Three I know would go 'Ha(!), I win' over the smallest of things but when doing so she'd like excitedly vibrate her arm with a huge smile. It was like a kid opening Xmas presents; her voice told one story and her mannerisms would tell a completely different one. It was precious. Really a great video.

My enneagram 3 SIL got pregnant right after me. Her family said it was because of me. I didn't believe them. I soon realized they were right. 😂

I'm married to a 3, so I'm upvoting this. Also, mad props for the Last Crusade poster. Exquisite taste!

Hi! I love your videos! Also, I'm pretty sure that my girlfriend is a type 3w4 and I'm a type 9w1. Do you think you could do some more skits with a type 9 and type 3. Also, I'm not sure if she is actually a type 3 I'm not sure. I think she also might be type 8.

LOL, well now I'm convinced I'm a 3.

As a 3… yes 🥲👍🏻

Can you do one for Type 5s too? I'm a 5.

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Okay I’m ready to be called out