Be Honest, What's A Sentence That Absolutely Killed You But You Pretended Like It Didn't? 

Right? I thought so too. Cos hell nah.

Exactly please jump ship sis 😭

They’re in the process of divorce! But if you watch her other tik toks she has even worse stories of her husband being racist and abusive.

Lord Bless Everyone!

The guy who said when he was told he couldnt have sex til she healed..he said he knew WA t he meant...was he being "funny" or am I missing something

And they cut off the last one midway through.

Yesssss. I’m halfway through though.

and they actually included the original tiktok in full unlike some of the compilations out there

Yes

ikr

Amen!!!

Thank you. Made this mistake, learned this the hard way.

Dang, the hackers have used that phrase over and over. Must apply to them.

Get it, girl! Self-love, love you. 😘

Great idea!

👍✌️🌻♥️

that hit different 💔

same 💜✊🏻

time?

@@cuists 5:29

That took me out !

ikr. kmsl

Lmao 🤣😂😂😂 so true though no coke but they have Pepsi is heartbreaking 😤😂

This made me tear up 😢

That's heart wrenching...

I legit heard my heart cracking

I wondered that as well for years. Like age 6-8 then I stopped caring so much when my mom cried and I feel better now. (Nearly apathetic, but that's as good as I'm going to get now)

I feel u 😔

why do you want to meet someone else...how do you know the other person will be nice...better stay on your own and enjoy life...God bless

Girl u were right to leave him.

Good for you!! You sacrificed your body and mental health to bear his child. He's a waste of space.

You don't have to have much imagination to realize they were better off being adopted by parents that wanted them then staying with someone that didn't. It's the narrative our culture teaches everyone that makes people frame this as ONLY heartbreaking and life ruining. They were 2. Which means they were in high demand by many people who want children. It was heartbreaking, of course, but it obviously was better for those kids. Those kids weren't 'left alone' they got adopted and were LOVED.

Boys and their daddy, they tend to desperately want his approval. Heart broke for that guy - especially his pained head-nod at the end. Glad he has a momma made of gold though, and hope that he realises it more & more every day!

EXACTLY!!! I honestly struggled to find any sympathy for that dude cuz it was completely obvious who deserved to be there and who didn’t. And the fact that he just rolled over and took that “excuse” for his dad not being there so matter-of-factly tells you that that’s clearly just one in a very long list of flimsy excuses that “father” has given him. Let me be clear, I have no hate for this guy and I wish he didn’t have to endure sh*t like that and he’s doing well, but this mom is WONDERFUL (as all moms are) and should not be seen as a runner-up or a consolation prize/seat-filler, she should have been asked FIRST and if that a-hole can’t handle the fact that she was gonna be there, if it were me, I wouldn’t want anything to do with him after that.

The mom should distance herself from the son. He's a POS!

@@sp33dingbullet all moms are not wonderful

@@sp33dingbullet very well said I was thinking exactly the same.

You shouldn't let her forget that, it's petty but she deserves it.

You're a good person.

This happens to my papa mama 🥺

Ummm. That's your mother . And she raised you. It may not have been the best response but sounds like you weren't responsible and she was just disappointed. Saying you "took her in" and she is sick....wow. don't feel like that's the same at all. You were 17 and she didn't feel you made good choices or listened to her.

Your mother's response was awfully selfish. But you still honored her and took care of her. Not only that turning the other cheek, it's honoring your mother and father. If that's not Evolution, I don't know what is. Good on ya!

you deserve so much better. I am so, so sorry you had to go through that. Have you opened up to your dad about how vile your "mother" has been? I use quotes because no true mother says that shit.

You deserve better, I’m sorry

Lord have mercy how cruel...i love you. You do not deserve that... I'm sorry

I'm sorry that happened to you and hope you're no longer in contact with that "friend"

I'm glad your mom apologized you did not deserve any of those nasty comments

My parents always told me to act a certain way, or kids would bully me for this and that. Acting like myself scares me til today, and I became a huge people pleaser. Spoiler alert, I was still bullied.

I am sorry dude. Its not your fault. Its the bullies and your dad's fault for not supporting you.

I’m sorry for you, I’ve had similar but know too that my father sometimes spoke first and thought later. Your dad didn’t mean to victim blame I’ll bet, he likely felt inept and powerless to help and frustrated by his inability to fix your world. My father still does this, I respectfully tell him that his words are thoughtless and hurtful and not what I need at that time. He reflects and back-pedals once I point it out. Try that if you can. And love yourself, you are imperfectly perfect, or perfectly imperfect. Always belong wherever you want to, or are comfortable to, and on your own terms. 🌟

When he says his nursing-home caretakers are abusing him, you'll know exactly what to say.

*hug*

The lady at the desk added insult to injury.

Impossible… people can’t remember that far back… it’s literally not possible… keep in mind I’m not saying it isn’t sad, my heart hurts for this person to an extent… but somebody had to have said that to him, told him, and to be honest that’s worse because they had to relive the memory

I believe that she and her brother were abandoned at 2 by their mom, but i don't believe she remembers any dialogues from that day lol

Um, how do you figure she doesn't remember the day HER MOM LEFT HER AND HER BROTHER?! That was probably the worst day of her life; it'd be weird if she DIDN'T remember that. My uncle died 20 years ago, and I remember the day he died like it was yesterday.

@@macxavier168 children start to retain memories from 3-4 years old. Earlier toddlers normally don’t remember what their lives were like. Can you think of what you were like as a baby, from your perspective, without your parents telling you?

My step-father abused me. Our family went through some really bad times as a result. My sister told me I had ruined our family.

@@ellicooper2323 people for some reason have this weird reaction or instinct? To protect the abuser or the perpetrator and I don't really get it. If it's to preserve the peace, it's too late as they've already done their damage.

@@en2p187 Sometimes fear, of reprisals or of breaking up a family, often because they feel it’s only what they deserve or because they were at fault. It wasn’t until my daughter was threatened that I sought help. Then one night I sat up from a sound sleep and finally admitted, ‘it Wasn’t my fault, I was a Victim’. My daughter is fine, btw.

I was looking for someone to mention this

Lol same

Same 😂

Damn. That made me cry lol so sorry that hpnd. But he's gonna be okay and so are you. ❤️❤️❤️

I know that feeling. I We’ve adopted a 5 year old boy and his sibling in ‘08. He graduated this year and when I was FINALLY teaching him how to drive he told me he told me that he is becoming independent and is planning on moving out.

Your son still needs you! I’m glad you gave him winds to fly but a safe place to land always remains with you, you’ll be there, I know it.

@@mandykal yassss!!!!

His words actually show how young he still is. When you're old enough, you realize how much you still need your mama. I'll always want mine.

Time heals all.. if this is one week later, then you obviously need more time.. come talk me in 25 years and then we'll do a reevaluation and see if it really still stings.

What a toxic, horrible thing for your mum to say. I am so sorry! Please take care of yourself. :( My twin sister died a little over a year ago from complications of depression. Growing up in an unstable home with a lot of cruel things said and done to us. My sister had C-PTSD as a result. I am also struggling with depression and such anger, and bitterness. You deserve a caring, concerned mum. I am so sorry you don't have that.

@@kpaxian6044 my god I am soooo sorry for your lost And thank you so much for heartfelt message I appreciate that Please take it easy I hope you find happiness You seem sweet I know you don't deserve that To happen to you

She doesn’t deserve you ❤

Same I’m a little confused

I'm pretty sure he's just a prick who thinks he's being funny by saying that hearing he had to wait for a month or two to have sex again broke his heart...

Sometimes they allow accounts with sarcasm oh, and apparently it must be done for something sort of comic relief or something I found with these Tik tok's or at least that's what I think, I could be wrong

Case in point: The Guy who said His restaurant server said, "We don't have Coke, only P e p s i... " no doubt, vomitous, but inappropriate for this theme... But then again, I'm a nobody, just bored on a Saturday afternoon, watching RU-vid vids.

I thought it could’ve been a nod to the standards men face as if he’s expected to be predatory or something… but I’m more just annoyed if it was a sex joke he made himself.

next time if someone says that to you, tell them sadly you'll remain ugly even after losing weight

Got told by my husband 6m PP 'have you seen yourself in the mirror, I'm not attracted to what I see' - because I put on weight after my baby. Yes, words that can hit deep and probably destroy your self image forever.

My aunt told me that when I was 10 and I thought that was like an inspirational thing. It felt weird and didn't rlly motivate me. I proceeded to tell someone else the same thing at school hoping it'll motivate them instead. Now I realise she was just being shxtty

have you tried being less fat tho?

@icy crass, don't listen to those a**holes! I know, with things like that it sometimes cuts deep, but don't let that get in your head. You are beautiful just the way you are, and even though I don't know you, I am happy you are in this world! Keep being the great person you are! 🙂

my goodness

I hope you never for even one second felt that this family member was right. That was a stunningly insensitive, cruel, unsupportive comment - and at a time when you needed family support. Being with an abusive partner is immeasurably worse than being alone. Best wishes to you. 🙏

Oh no, sorry to hear you might have cancer. My mom had cancer as well and my dad was a bastard about it. I’m sure my mom would’ve wished to be alone then have to deal with him as well. I hope it’s not cancer, and if it is, I hope you have a swift recovery. Making decisions for your mental health is better than “not being alone.” If you stayed with him, you probably would’ve been going through Hell right now mentally. And knowing the toll cancer took on my mom, I would say you wouldn’t want to deal with both cancer and an abusive partner.

I hope you distanced yourself from them. Cancer has to be so hard as it is but to be hurt by an abuser on top of it during it is enough to get a lot of people to give up fighting whatever the disease is. You didnt need that kind of negativity and certainly not from family on top of it all.

yeah, it would have been great to be very ill AND abused

Ikr. I love soutern accents and I'm from the south xD

I love southern accents but I’m from seattle

I love southern accents and I'm from Chicago 😍😍😍

She seems like such a genuinely nice person

I love Southern accents too.....❤

I'm really sorry for you. I wish you the best.

In a way, that's a blessing. You could be going through life running yourself ragged wondering. At least you know.

Im sorry to say people need to stop searching for parents that gave them up. They did what they did for a reason, and it was intentional. Not fault on a child, but instead the parents flaws.

@@Lady_Angela1 You're a piece of work. How about let's not tell other people what they should and should not do with their lives and money this year okay?

People who call God’s gift to earth a “mistake” are sadly mistaken. They are confused, broken people who are not happy with themselves and the decisions they made in their past. You never were and never could ever be a mistake, you are MEANT to be here snd have a great purpose in life. Sometimes God uses broken people to bring something of light into the world. Sadly your biological mom was that broken person, but just remember that you are that light. Someday she will see the truth but as of now she is still battling her own demons. She’s in the dark and therefore can’t see the light around her or in the gift she bore. But YOU are a precious being to be cherished. Surround yourself with others who see who you truly are and treat you as such. Life’s too short to focus on anything outside of the greatness that is you. ☺️🙌🏾❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾✨💫🕯

I’m sorry, I hope you’re in a better place

A woman I knew who accused the father of her child of molesting the child, faced zero consequences, kept custody of the child, and moved her across the country. The woman is dead and her daughter will likely never know. Glad it worked out better for you.

@@msi8311 that is terrible! I would never even think of wishing that on anyone. I will never understand why and how someone could physically do that and go to sleep at night. It's just pure evil.

@@lavellans I am in a better place now. My children are all adults now. I can definitely say life hasn't been great to me. The older I get, the easier it is to stand the storms. I wouldn't made it this far if it wasn't for the love of my savior Jesus Christ. He taught me to have Faith... And unconditional love..

Dear woman, wishing you the best.

😭💔

There is nothing wrong with your skin! People's opinions are not facts, you were made in the image God. That's a FACT!! Perfectly and wonderfully crafted. The God of all creation created the very skin you're in, so you're beautiful 😚. Take practical steps to heal your self worth and identity.

I am happy for you Michelle. Live life and take care of your kids the best you can. You are amazing and the best mother to your children. You are worth the world❤

That’s such a strange story. I wonder what his thought process was? Four kids with a woman and then to completely sabotage the marriage. Just bizarre. Did he come out? Or did he get remarried and have more kids? Sorry for your mistreatment

@@janedoll3237 He came out about 5 years ago. Then we went our separate ways.

@Michelle Bishop Come out as in what I think it means? Or am I missing something? Because if it’s what I think it means, then that’s just a weird way to go about it…

You and your children were better off without him. I’m sure it was difficult but I hope you all found peace and happiness.

My Brother for the longest time still had rose tinted lenses over my mostly absent drug addict father. Happy and proud of him for being the first to cut him off once we all became adults.

The straight ones maybe. I am on good terms with my father now, but I'll be damned if I ever forget the way he treated me because I didn't turn out the way he wanted.

I think that at some point an adult usually realizes their parents ain't shit. It just takes a heart break.

@@agorapanologia I don't think it's a sexuality thing at all. Just because someone is straight doesn't mean their parents are proud of them. No offense but LGBTQ+ people aren't the only ones who can have parental issues. Also your parents can love you and still be bad parents and you just have to realize that at some point.

@@yeemawheaver1387 I never said that straight people couldn't have parental issues. I said that I believe it's more likely that straight cis men would still idolise their fathers, despite being abused, than it would be for a queer man. There is still an avenue for emulation in the shared sexuality and gender expression between a straight son and his father. When the son is LGBTQ, however, that connection is lost. The ability to emulate is weakened because of the diversion in sexual identity. So the abuse takes center stage in their relationship. I'm not saying that there are no queer men who idolise an abusive father, nor I am saying that all straight men do. I just think it would be less likely. But then I also presuppose that the father must be straight and cis too, so there's that.

Aww. Hugs. I experienced something similar! But in high school. For the record, I am neurodivergent and did not grow up knowing this. I was called quirky and eccentric but had no idea what I was doing that was so different to everyone else. I also grew up in a poorer family, and experienced abuse as a child. One day, one of the popular boys in our class was talking about the party he was holding and invited essentially our entire grade 10 Chem class from what I could tell (or this occurred during AP Chem) but he turned to me and said, "not you, though. You are not invited. You're weird." (Something like that. Not verbatim. Paraphrasing.) Now, being on the spectrum I always was very blunt, more so as a teen, but I shrugged at him like 'oh well.' Obviously not upset. He pressed, thinking highly of himself and asked, "don't you get it? I *don't* want you at my party." I responded, completely relieved, "That works out for me because I wasn't planning on going even if you had invited me, so it works out for both of us." The kid looked furious and some of the kids in the class started laighing. I understand now that hewas so spoiled and cocky he could not imagine me being happy because he had given me a reason to stay home but I thought he was spoiled and stuck up anyway and was hoping I wouldn't be expected to turn up. So my relief was genuine and apparently the other kids could tell it was... The rest of the day and even a little afterwards some kids were giving me grins and the atmosphere had shifted. I learned later that he had been nasty to a segment of the school that was not considered "cool." And people saw me as a little cooler, in a way, because I couldn't care less. Later that year, next term, one of the girls who had been nasty to my sister had me in her class. At first, from a distance, she must have mistaken me for my sister (we were twins.) Before home room started she was goading me, mistakenly believing I was my sister who she had bullied. At one point she goes, "Hey, I'm talking to you..." because I flat out continued to read while she was trying to get my attention. I finally put my book down and said, "Excuse me, do I know you?" She clued in and looked confused while her friends seemed thrown and said, "aren't you L?" I told her I was L's sister and I was surprised she was in some of the same AP classes with me because she didn't seem too "on the ball." She started sputtering and her friends just looked at me like they couldn't believe I had just said that. She was a really cruel kid and had been so cruel to my sister that looking back, I am happy it went down that way. I basically just said what a lot of people thought about the bullies but because I was honestly answering them I did not see how I was doing anything wrong or why they should get upset with me for answering them when they had been trying to get my attention in the first place. After that, I was neither popular nor unpopular. Kids mostly left me alone and I spent my breaks reading and talking to my favourite teachers in history club, chess club etc and making a few friends with those who had been bullied by the same kids. It worked out fairly well and because I just did not respond in a way that the bullies were expecting, I started to get a reputation as being difficult to rile up. Or so I have been told since. After that, no one really bothered me because they knew I didn't care what they had to say and that I found them irrelevant to my life. I think my inherent disinterest in associating with them for a variety of reasons hit a nerve (of their own) because they thought I would suck up to them because they were popular. Perhaps it was the first time that some of them met someone who was completely indifferent to them, but after that I was basically invisible to the bullies in that school. 🫂

@@kpaxian6044 You sound like my son. We didn't find out he was autistic until he was 15. He said at the time, "I never bothered to learn any of my classmates' names because they aren't important to me." I always wondered how he didn't get lonely.

I thought he was upset because his wife’s body was so harmed….no offence

I'm just going to copy and paste a reply I just did to a comment like this: "I think it's pretty obvious. And people on the replies are being really mean to the guy. He is HURT that the doctor: 1) was looking how to phrase what he said and 2) said it with a smirk. That dude was HURT that the doctor thought that he would care more about not having sex for a few weeks than his wife's well being and health. He is HURT that, just by being a man, he has to live with the stereotype that all men are monsters and don't care about women, and that he would disregard his wife's safety just to please himself. And Yes, I know there are men like that, I KNOW, but there is something called generalizing, and everyone should stop doing it, because you can hurt people with things you say to them, just because YOU think they fit certain stereotype"

@@madaitercero8401 So I had to think a couple of times after I watched that clip to come to the same conclusion you just laid out. And that was me trying to think what he would mean if he spoke with the best of intentions. But it took a bit, because he didn't word the message in the best way - it makes sense that people in the comments are confused. I agree that it's heartbreaking that the doctor was such an asshole and simply reinforced toxic behaviour and negative stereotypes cast against men, but if you want your message to come across, you have to say it properly. He didn't say what it was that hurt him, just that he knew what the doctor was saying and he was hurt by it.

I’m sorry but I can’t understand what he was hurting for? I feel like their was a stereotype thing involved?

He said the doctor smirked at him. I think he was upset at that.

I feel the same way. It's a way of making fun of the question. But they need to grow up. If you have nothing to contribute, just stay out of the chat.

The people that make the joke ones might not know that most of them are pretty serious. Also remember, its the channel that decides to put some joke ones in with the more serious ones

These are posts from oriels personal pages, how would t he y know the severity of the other content being posted. 🙄🙄🙄 Blake the RU-vid channel that put silly ones in with serious ones.

I like/dislike it. It lightens the mood in a bit.

like the guy that can't have sex with the post delivery wife...like ...whaaat?

Sorry that happened to you. You weren’t being a selfish brat. My parents never had the chance to attend any of my school activities so I know how you feel. You wanting your parents love isnt being selfish. Have a hug you lovely human, I hope these little words can help alleviate some of the pain

That’s happened to me similes like my mom would promise me to come to an school event and come really really late and my dad couldn’t come cause he lived in a difirente country (my parents where not devorsed)

@@lunagalexy1426 thank you for your kind words... I hope that you are okay too wherever you are right now... Thank you for reading a story and kind to a stranger like me💞

@@gamingandme5016 I hope that you are okay....

@@dana_0612 I’m half okay half not 😂

Christ will always love you, don't ever forget.

Amen to that, Jesus defines us!!

You define your value. No one else. Give yourself the credit you deserve!

Amen. Think of Esther/Hadassah. And remember to care for and love yourself, too!

Yes girl!!!

Not even the one about pepsi. (seriously though I gasped and wanted to hug them too💔)

I feel so bad for the woman who had lost her babies; her husband was so selfish and insensitive…

You are so very right.💯💗

Yess

I agree

🤗🤗🌻

He was a jerk!

Don't feel had about yourself, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you or your breasts. He is just a ridiculous person who said that to hurt you and is just sour the breasts are smaller . Trusttttt me, men with good intentions would NEVER say something like that to their gfs, EVER.

Sounds like you value his opinion a lot. Maybe you should figure out why his opinion matters so much and yours matters so little.

frick others opinion dude, it was your choicee be happy with itt

I wanted to reach through the screen and smack him upside the head. Fancy rejecting the only parent who has supported you in favour for the one who can hardly be bothered about you.

That’s something my dad would do too, tbh :/

The mother is the only one worth taking seriously. Both the father and the son were "off" for different reasons: the father, for treating his son the way he did, and the son, for missing the bright awesomeness of the one parent who faithfully supported him all that time. Mom for the win.

@@probswontcurreply8182 I understand the point you're coming from But look at it this way his dad was never involved in his life but this time he seemed like he wanted to be a part of his sons life so the son who has been wanting this attention from the dad his whole life gave in

He needs to grow up, and care about the parent who cares about him. That would be his mother. She's the one I felt sorry for.

That sounds like something I would do! Or have done. 😭 …Im learning now to speak for the things I want. 😢

Doesn't matter the time, tell him you loved him . Learn to speak. It shouldn't bother you anymore since you weren't together. Say something and come back to tell how it went. Your story touched me Idkw

@@mercyogbee7077 Telling someone you loved them when clearly they love someone else will only hurt you and put the other person in an awkward position. Its better telling them when you do not know who they are in love with

Oh my god this is terrible. I'm so sorry. How are you doing?

Thats horrible. Only a monster wouldnt show kindness to a 8 year old.

Hope and pray that all is well... I hope you share a nice relation with your sibling in future , she is blood related anyway... let go of the mother...she does not deserve your love anyway... God bless all

You should try to reach out to her. From what you are saying, she might be brainwashed

Thankyou all for your lovely comments! I will always hope for a reunion with my sister but I don't think I can undo 25 years of influence from them. I am doing much better now, I have had therapy for my childhood and I found my biological father when I was 19, sadly he passed away but I'm grateful to have had the time with him that I did and his wife became my mum! She is the best mum ever and makes up for the stuff I went through tenfold. So all is not lost💛 God Bless you for your comments and for checking on me, RU-vid is my favourite online community by far 🥰❤

She was jealous of your bond with your beloved Grandma and selfishly tried to destroy it. Pure selfish maternal narcissism, not good.

I did understand later (after having children) that my mother had always been jealous of the closeness between me and my Grandma. I never forgave her for telling me that.

❤️ I'm so sorry for that. I can't fathom a mother or any parent doing that. I lost my mother when I was 3 and then was adopted by my parents at 5 and I'm 39. I'm still so close with them and a mother of 4. I couldn't imagine my life sperated from either of them. Hugs to you 💗

10years ago I thought my mom was center of my world , now I cant stop being anxious and stressed when I see her to point I feel like vomiting from thoughts alone , I hate her but dont want to hate her so I snd up hating myself for hating her .. it so stressful and disturbing feeling .

I haveghe same problem

Be done with her man. She doesn't deserve your love

Reach out to her and tell her how you feel. If she still doesn't want to keep in touch then that's all on her. At least you did your half, so don't feel guilty and bad about it. Yes, you're sad that it's not the same but ur guilt free. Don't hold any anger or pain and let it go. It is her loss. And you move on. Lol

I'm so sorry, love.

Same

I'm sorry to hear it darling, as she said we no need to care about others needs cause when we do care some people imagine that we should serve them... but don't feel embarrassed yourself cause your future is in your hands not others, people around us dont care about us.. most of time they stay with us if we have money and other riches. You are born to this world for a better purpose. Sorry if I wasted ur time and if my opinion hurt anyone I'm sorry but this what I think...

I hope you're doing okay, keep your confidence up, and please never question yourself. I can relate with your situation a lot. Although, my mother has changed a lot, she supports us now, but sadly it sits subconsciously inside my and my sister brain's now, goes to show how strongly her words hurt us in our childhood. She was quite abusive

Your skin is beautiful. Period. 🥰😘

@ Tinker Bell I’m so sorry to hear this, but know that you’re beautiful and don’t let those words diminish who you are❤️

Let those be her insecurities. Not yours.

Agreed. Some people just sulk in it instead. Wohh the the woe is me attitude. I was bullied and emotionally and physically tortured for two years in elementary. Never said I word to anyone. Never acted out in class. Just recently told my mom and I’m 27. Being bullied changed me into the person I am today. I would never ever let anyone walk all over me or disrespectful. I will always advocate for myself.

That only works if it is something that you Can change about yourself.

Ok, so whatever I'm writing is just a rant and don't take it seriously because you're’ the only one who can say how you're feeling. But I feel like you're experience is something that didn't *break* you because it was something you could change. Did you need to ? I don't know, probably not. Are you proud of yourself ? I sure hope you are. It' amazing. Although, as I said I think that's a little different. I mean could you compare this to someone whose parents told them they were a mistake. Or in my case for example: My parents abudsed me ( physically and psychologically ) all my life then called me a liar when i developed an anxiety disorder and a ( still undiagnosed ) depression. The abuse isn't over yet and i'm stuck at home in a pretty messed up country. And when i say messed up i mean it. Lots of case of rape no one talks about, frequent electricity, gas and water cuts, corrupt politician that led the society to be poor, messed up school system that is always on strike because the teachers work more than most and get payed peanuts, so they have to do multiple jobs at the same time, also there is the rampant religious fanatism and criminalisation of lgbtqia+ ( some get killed by their families and the police doesn't do sh*t. Fucking murder is somehow circumstantially legal! It fu**ing scares me). Not saying you were not hurt or depressed after that but i feel like it's a different maybe less potent kind of hurt. Am i making sense ? Anyway, have a nice week. I hope your having a good time. We're all living while having to deal with some whacky level of dread right now

Glad for you, man!! It takes work to reach that point and you did it!!

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

I'm sorry that you had to go through that.. May Allah heal you.

I'm so sorry. "Heal me, O Lord, and I will be healed; save me and I will be saved, for You are the one I praise." ~ Jeremiah 17:14

That's not right. I'll say a little prayer for you and the child

I'm so sorry you experienced that

Stay weird, it makes the world better! I like weird. 😉

*hugs* that's not something a kid needs to hear from their parents. Especially at 13. Teens are going through a very emotional and hormonal age. They need parental support as a way to stabilize in a world around them that is filled with a bunch of other emotional and hormonal people. You should be told, 'Hey, its great to be weird!' I also had a friend who said, 'Normal is only a setting on the washing machine.'

Love to you Carolyn!

Wow, nasty!

She must be jealous of you!! Dont bother with them.. You are a darling❤💜

@@PriyankaGupta-ew1li Thank you..!!

@@barbeeska And they are just as nasty today as they've always been... Maybe even a little worse these days... But that's ok... I learned the hard way, now I keep my distance From all of them, including their son/brother my soon to be Ex Husband... Happy for me..!!!!

What do they say in that scene?

@@30revolacul03 it’s an argument between a couple that is in the middle of a divorce. They had been civil throughout the whole movie until this scene where they yell insults at each other and eventually the husband says he wishes she would get an illness and get hit by a bus and die

@@EllieCantWhistle oh god... Thank you for the explanation.

Stories of weakness from the past. Foolishly giving someone power over us.. who did not care about us. Why do we give our power away so frivolously when we're young? Ignorance. There will be times when we're invited to the party.. there are times when we won't be invited to the party. But to give someone too much power and let it affect me.. no thank you. She should have been auditioning for you.. not you for her. We should beat to the rhythm of our own drum.

Sorry about your son. 😕

So very sorry. It's hell losing a child. God bless you and keep you in the hollow of his hands. ❤

A hug for you...

You can definitely be whatever you choose to be,don't let anyone tell you what you can and can't do,besides she only said that to win,don't let it get to you

Similar situation. I was about 16 when I left home. I felt bad for leaving my brother, but how was I going to take care of a 4 year old? I did what I could do for him when I could.

If he's telling you that you saved him more times than you know, it's a damn good thing. Because you helped him without thinking about it. Times other people missed. What should be saddening you when he says that are the fact that OTHER people never bothered to help.

You saw it when it mattered, & that's what counts☀️

Sorry.. Hope your doing better

@@jakem1273 thank you I am doing okay lately thank you for your concern

Hi. Sometimes you have to love you even if the important people in your life don't. Sometimes parents have favorites. So what they cannot give you, you have to give yourself. You will be alright. And God loves you always.

No you didn’t deserve that at all

Sacrifice yourself for a ahole?? Success is the best revenge darling. .. I dont let my crack head parents forget it. 😉

God almighty!! Bless you and the strength you have in your heart! You are loved!!

I was too distracted by the contradiction of his visor glasses and backward facing peaked cap to hear his words first time, had to re-watch. Brave guy!

You are going to loose most of them. And thats okay, its part of life. People are around for reasons and seasons.

Shame on her. I wish you couldve changed teachers.

Sm here😓

I saved my money for braces and had them when I was 21, it's okay you will get them fixed. I had them the whole time in college until my graduation. Worth every penny, and helped give me confidence.

Someone wrote "J would date M if she didnt have f*&ked up teeth" on a pencil case of a guy in most of my classes. I had to see that shit almost every day. I thought the verbal stuff was bad - but having it in black and white like that broke my 13 yr old heart. Kids r 💩

I can relate. Having crooked teeth can really mess with someone’s confidence.

I'm with you. 36 and still trying to get braces or something. Seems like when I'm close to affording them, something happens and the money gets spent elsewhere

God almighty!! I’m so sorry. Well, I’m glad you’re here!!

@@cestmoi5702 thank you! that means a lot, thank you for your kindness!

@lang 1007 You’re absolutely welcome!!! ❤️❤️❤️

That horrible for a twin to say. They must be a internally miserable person.

@@Lady_Angela1 yes, you're right about that. she's the type of person that will get jealous, instead of happy, for her family/friends' success

A guy who thinks like that isn’t worthy of you in the 1st place. You lose nothing when a guy like that overlooks you. The trash has taken itself out.

@@emtee3098 This comment is fire!

Oh my goodness! Who you are as a person/your character should be a huge part of attraction. Physical beauty will fade away. Run from those folks who say that crap to you. You have dignity. You are made in God's image. That is beyond superficial to only be attracted to white girls. Beautiful inside beats anything else. Peace to you and know you are so valued and loved. If they don't see that, run! My ex told me mean things trying to bring me down, but Jesus told me the truth about who I am and my worth.

Ooh honey, that guy is racist and not worth the bat of your eyelash. Yes it is going to hurt your feelings but that relationship or even friendship would have been so fake, toxic and unhealthy it isn't worth the chance they didn't want to give you. You'll find a good one.

Sweetie, he told you how ignorant & useless he is by telling HIS truth. Don’t put the weight of his limitations on your shoulders!!! 🙅🏾‍♀️🙅🏾‍♀️🙅🏾‍♀️