Everything I regret about my 20s 

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"A school education makes you a living, self education makes you a fortune" I take that advice

For a man, I feel like that late 20's into 30 is where we start to mature and really work on ourselves. For me, I was at my rock bottom from 25-29 as I worked a minimum wage job, had a gf that didn't have as much drive as me and we only saw each other as roommates, and had parents who were constantly worrying how I would live life. I studied my ass off during those years because I knew I was the only one who could change the course and outcome of my life. Now, I am a software engineer, making money my parents dreamed of and it's just the beginning. If anyone is out there, especially as a man, who is feeling alone and struggling, know that I've/we've been there and possibly still there, and it's okay. What's not okay is to push off that feeling of "I gotta make a move". Start today, right now. No excuses. We got this💪

Summary: 1. Start investing sooner both in your relationships and your skills 2. Stop telling so many lies 3. Skip college or at a minimum simply learn how to learn on your own 4. Cultivate your inner circle with intention and care 5. Put on that sunscreen I still highly recommend watching the video in its entirety as it contains valuable information and insights that cannot be fully captured in this summary You got this man..

I just turned 28. I needed to hear all of this. Thank you

I related to this so much. My 20’s sucked, in my early 30’s now and doing a lot of learning

4 days after my 30th birthday I had to move into my pickup truck, similar to you wondering how the hell did it all happen. There’s power in hitting rock bottom, there’s no where to go but up. Thanks for your story

Something you may have not considered is when you were in your 20's, the access to educational resources (such as Google, RU-vid, and just the WW web in general) was vastly constrained compared to what we take for granted today in 2022. Today we have access to all the knowledge mankind has ever acquired literally in the palm of our hand that anyone can call up 24x7x365. Today's youth cannot conceive of how much time and effort and money it took in the 70's and 80's to obtain knowledge on any topic, and when you actually did find something it was more often than not out-of-date. But, even with all that learning power there for the taking, totally free of charge, it still takes a positive and proactive attitude and hundreds of hours of work and dedication and actual participation to obtain a payoff for the future.

I just turned 21 and honestly this video was exactly what I needed. Ever since I started college I've felt incredibly lost. It's like trying to get to a destination with no map and with everyone pointing you in a direction you're slowly beginning to realize is the hardest, longest route to where you want to be. My ahdh brain has been a scramble mess, but I've been slowly learning the game these past two years and getting more confident at it. The part about investing in relationships and cultivating your inner circle really struck a cord with me. Problem is when you realize all these important things extremely early on, you're thinking on a whole different wavelength than a large majority your peers and it can get pretty darn lonely. I don't think it's something talked about very often, but eh, honestly what do I know? I'm still figuring it out as I go. Keep the great vids coming!

As an 18 year old, would like to thank you for making this video so that others can learn from your experience

I’m 40 and not finished with improving my life, I’m just getting started, not stopping to learn, grow, explore life from a perspective of wonder 😊

I'm 30 and still live at home. I lied a lot to my self, but I am fixing myself. I made a few of the mistake you made and I'm now learning to copy-write too. I read 50 pages a day on writing and write 1k+ words a day. Been doing this for a week, and I enjoy it. The last few months so many part of my ego died, and I've come to realize and overcome so much trauma and defense mechanism and self-delusions. I have no network and for the first time since a decade I feel really lonely. Like I feel it physically. But maybe I'll make something of myself, although it's rough to believe with my track record.

Subscribed just off this video alone. I’m 23 and I act like 43 is what people tell me. I care about my education in my hands, I work at a good job and department and learning so many skills alone in my 20’s while my “friends” are out partying and drinking and going to the club every weekend. I’m building the foundation of my life young so I can enjoy it later. Im investing 20% of my check and I have a 791 FICO score. Stay disciplined everyone !

I'm in my mid twenties. I can relate so much man. The thing about lying blew me away. I have lied so much over last 3 years. Also the relationship investment thing is so true. I need to work on this. You are a true gem to share this. Thank you Anthony!

I'm nearly in my 20's and your second regret feels absolutely like me. I'm planning on facing and exposing my insecurities directly from now so I can change and get help

Genuine 👍💯. Just turned 28! You're so real. I have known what you're talking about since 23rd ish. I have been working very hard coz I have seen what you're talking about in my peers. I had to change lanes and it felt lonely for years and seeing this, I can relate. Thank you G!

Thank you! I’m 25 and I’ve been feeling really down lately but this really did help! One thing for me is I’ve always been rushed in life, told that I don’t have time I need to figure it out in my 20s so I can live the rest of my life financially free but hearing your story is inspiring.

As somone who is entering their 20s I appreciate this video! I especially liked how you touched on investing in your learning and picking up skills outside of the college setting!

This was so helpful bro. Thanks for sharing

I'm 17 but I find myself doing quite a few of these mistakes, I'm so grateful I stumbled on this video. Thank You!

Thank you for this video. I had a wasteful past especially in my late twenties but I see the world differently now. I am now on a mission to help younger people make good decisions for their lives. Thanks again

Wow man, I'm 18 and the idea of wasting my 20s as always scared me. So far I've never found a video which explained the whole picture and not just one part of life. Thank for making this now I know what to change and what to keep doing.

Bro you’re the most transparent guy on YT rn for being this honest especially the #2, I could totally relate, I’Preciate this. I just sub

Dude!!!! You’re a good story teller 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 great job.

I’ve actually never related to a creator this much. Thanks for this; subscribed and following you and your journey

I love that you just give a genuine advice here that is not just about making money, but also taking care of yourself. I wish I’ve learned some of these things in my early 20s, but itself great that there is information like this out there now and next generation can use it 😊

I just discovered your channel this morning. Watched 3 videos and just subscribed! I like your content. Keep it up!

great video man! took this to heart

I ALWAYS love and appreciate such content

Man you don't understand how much this post resonates with me. In my early 30s now and have so many regrets with going to college and wasting away my 20s. Been working on building up some dreams of mine and wished I did this sooner. Thank you!

Kudos to you for being refreshingly brutally honest about your past ! And good advice given!

Thanks for the life coaching lessons!

Wow to be honest I’m impressed with this guy’s content, I’ve watched and listened to quite a few influencers, content creators and etc yet most of them seem to sugar coat things however it’s nice having someone around who’s going to tell you the honest truth even though it’s hard and a bit tough to swallow and do the actions

As I turn 40 there is so much value in this video I can't even begin to describe. Keep up the great content!

Great video Anthony! Thanks for sharing so authentically from your own experience

thanks a lot for your valuable advices, I will give it a try and hopefully, get success.

This is one of the most eye opening videos i've ever watched in this platform and i'm lucky to watch it at 19

I loved my 20's. I spent it all on partying, girls, friends, movies, etc. I was so carefree and loved every moment of it. Career and money be damned. Now, in my late 30's, I landed a job with great pay (~300k). And building a side business as well. No regrets whatsoever.

Great video. Thank you for sharing. I share your sentiments. 💯

This really helped me today man. I really appreciate your content.

I am 23 and want to thank you for this video... if young people really really really listen and take it in we can save ourselves alot of time and grief

You can't regret the person you were. I see my past as my old self. That old self birthed the new me.

Thank you, i needed this.

thanks for sharing man. much love

Some great insights given here and I definitely do have my fair share of regrets in my 20s as I am 29 now. I know I can still go and accomplish my goals. See you at the top brother! ;)

I just turned 21 today, this video is a good reminder. Thank you

Appreciate the words of advice, much love

Thank you for this video. It really helps

I'm 25. This is the type of content I've been consuming for a year now... and it's a life changing game, This is a great video. Thanks 🎉 I love SS😂

I’m 29 and just figured out all this stuff this past like 8 months. I never had a plan or clear goals. I got married in my early 20s and have just been riding my husbands coattail while I figured stuff out. Last summer I grew tired of being stuck and making the same mistakes and jumping from job to job that I decided to go to college. Although I think college is a scam, it’s helped me tremendously with my self esteem, making clear goals, and being completely honest with myself. I’m sad that it took so long to get myself going, but so excited I’m finally going in what seems to be the right direction.

You are extremely well spoken, really enjoyed listening to your advice and experiences.

Thank you man!

"Courage is a muscle use it or lose it"

I'm gonna be 25 this year. Last year was my toughest year yet, but now my mind is now the strongest it has ever been. That's why i'm up at 2 am improving my knowledge.

I love your videos. I get to learn a lot about life. You're doing an amazing job in sharing your knowledge and experience on RU-vid. Keep up the good work 😃

Great content! I am learning a lot from your experiences

"Not wearing more sunscreen" has earned you a like good sir lolll great content keep it up!

With wisdom comes the growing acceptance of who you are and what doesn’t work for you. One year of pure focus can trump five years of “fooling around” as they say. Which is really just learning lessons. Invest always.

Thank you so much for this video.

Thank you a lot for the opportunity to know so many important things which can change trajectory of life , espesially when you are at your 20s

I like that the sunscreen advice isn't a metaphor for something, but that he really wants us to look out for our skin :D! Great man!

made my plan at 16. 21now and can say it working out better than expected. All faults were worse than expected but through problems come solutions which comes chance which comes cost. You will be your best self when prepared

Good stuff man! Keep it up

Thanks Anthony bro for the video I’m starting my 20s this validated some thoughts and other points made me think hard

Your point on college is very true. University has this toxic effect of making people believe they will automatically be set for a great career. Reality is most degrees are a total waste of time except medical, engineering etc etc… I’m an example of this where half a decade of my life was wasted in one with another half a decade wasted afterwards. Easy to say now with hindsight I guess.

Anthony thanking you so much for sharing, My son is 16yrs old and I have been planting Personal Development from the age of 14yrs. Today his mindset is incrementally changing, this video is a Gem so down to earth experience which I know he will resonate with. Thank you again its Brilliant! 🤜💥🤛 Ned 😊👍

Hey buddy thanks for this advise! i am literally 23 now and i literally saw me there you talking! I could tell it comes from your experience and i love that you sharing it :)

Thank you for sharing.

My 20s I spent in addiction, depression, bad decisions. Life gets better after 30.

Man my first job I got when I was 23. I know that was crazy but my work ethic got the attention of an engineer who needed help. (I was going to school at the time for engineering). The job is amazing. I'm an engineer now for the US government. Best job anyone can ask for. The dream everyone in my town wants and here I am.. now that I'm here I realize this isn't what I want. I'm 28 now. I am about to start my own business and hopefully I can pour all my energy into it and see it flourish. But everything this man says is true. Only reason I'm at where I'm at is because all the engineers I work for taught me things. My circle was strong. They're all millionaires because they have the side hustles. Sometimes I think about being 28 and getting older but I'm on my way. Just have to do what you have to do.

Very insightful. Thanks for sharing.

Great advice bro

I'm 29 and really spent my 20s working and trying to make sure I didn't go against my family's wishes. Just work sleep repeat. I'm trying to break out of that. I really hope younger people are more bold about what they want actually going for it, never letting anyone talk them out of their goals.

I think most people waste their 20s and some 30s. I know when I was young I thought if a person worked hard they got good raises and promotions. I was naive about that. I was helping my parents financially and never thought they would be held against me. I thought people would think it was the right thing to do not take advantage of me acting like I don't need the money.

Hey thanks for this extremely valuable information, it really made me feel better about my circumstances and just more motivated for life, agin thanks you do much man

Thank you Anthony ! 100%

I'm 50 and I'm still full of regrets of the life I've been living. Now, I'm just trying not to have any regrets of the afterlife I'm gonna be living in.

Another thing I learned also. Is the longer it takes for you to do something. The harder it becomes to do it.

Amazing video and advice!

Thanks bro we need you

Good stuff !

Never regret anything, just see every "failure" as a lesson learned = )

Thank you, I'll apply everything RIGHT NOW

Hitting the gym consistently but don't over train. 1hr a day/4 times a week, jogging 1-2 times a week.

1. Make a healthy family for yourself (spouse and children). Make this your top priority. Don't put it off to your 30s. 2. Establish self-care practices to sustain you through the ups and downs of life (physical, mental, spiritual practices). 3. Develop discipline (set short-& long-term goals, learn to persevere). Apply discipline to your finances & all life matters. 4. Make a lifelong habit to help/give/be a good example. Think of all the ways you can contribute positively & then just do it! 5. ENJOY your life, appreciate the simple things & the big things. Experiment, live & learn. Laugh a lot! ~ ENJOY LIFE!

Hey thanks so much for this video

Thanks Bro ❤

They can’t be a waste if your here now, becuase if you had been comfortable. You wouldn’t have worked to change the uncomfort

Skipping University is a good idea if you’re only planning to go due to your parents or you just feel you have to follow the system. But, if you are craving for that education in a skill set you already pursue and love, it’s worth it 1000% It’s about the intention

Your story is one i needed ot hear. I am 23 and somehow was feeling like my life was over for one reason or another. Hearing how you turned yourself around in your late 20s really reoriented my perspective on how much I needed to have achieved by this point. I am better off building every day than worrying about whether I am too late or not.

Well explained!

Very good advice. However never bum lick to get in with successful people. They see it straight away and will either dismis you or use you!

This is good 😊 I’d like to talk sometime about your systems

I really appreciate I’m in my early 20s and I use to listen seb and you giving me so much energy then follow young ppls.

thanks i learned a lot from your words

Hi Anthony, I love your videos, notifications on :) I'm a Crypto Technical Analyst and I would love to learn more about copywriting, and content writing. Do you have any advice? Thank you for the work you do.

Thanks for sharing these. I felt like I “lost” a lot of my twenties due to a prescription medicine (taken as prescribed) which was slowly poisoning my brain (and body). 10 year injury in total (so far). And it’s so easy to look back and feel regret, anger, longing. But there’s still the time ahead. There’s still so much to be grateful for, and I feel very lucky in many ways. Not everyone makes it past their twenties. Not everyone has freedom. I think reflecting on past times and recognising our regrets also helps set the compass going forward too. So to anyone reading this who’s maybe felt regret…perspective and gratitude can be real game changers in finding peace, and finding the right path forward for you.

I came across of your videos when I'm now learning the path to achieve the financial freedom you have now. These video's are motivating and inspirational. I'm now 20 and hope to achieve a lot in the next few years to come. Love from Japan.

"Learn how to learn". What a beautiful idea and simplistic concept to achieve wealth and success. Thanks!

I'm exactly in the same spot as you were.. I'm currently enduring all the regrets you're mentioning.