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Ex Said We Will Never Get Back Together? Do They Really Mean it? 

Clay Andrews
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If your ex said that you will never get back together, it can be normal to think that your chances, your odds, or your hopes of getting back together are essentially zero.
But is it true?
Well, not exactly.
You have to understand that your ex says things from an emotional place. They may have told you that the two of you will never get back together because in that moment they were upset or angry with you.
The emotion of anger, for example, is driving them to say that.
If their emotional state changes, there is a very real chance that they may stop saying that the two of you will never get back together.
That is to say, if they are no longer angry at you, they might change their mind and stop walling you out.
So, if you change your ex's emotional context, the things that they say will often change.
This means that there isn't really any sort of black-and-white finality when it comes to you and your ex getting back together or not.
Why?
Because people's emotions and feelings change all the time. Sometimes on their own. Sometimes because they were approached in just the right way that finally got through to them.
And if you want to develop the skills to help shift your ex's emotional state, head on over to relationshipinnergame.com

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@drew1980ish
@drew1980ish 5 лет назад
Wow!!! Ok this one actually nailed it! My ex recently said after 9 months and her admitting to 4 rebounds which didn't work . She said she said I had no chance . Yet she did appreciate the edible arrangements for mothers day. She did express how she hates her job and feels as if everyone is against her . I told her I wasn't. We spoke on and off today..she's expecting other arrangement for American mothers day which is on Sunday. I know since I've improved within the 9 months my responses have been cool and assertive and confident . She still sees me as I was before and understand I want to show her I'm not . Also since im a natural giver it wasn't no big deal to give her something since I care and love her still . Even though she resents me and still Hates me even though it's been over 9 months. If you could definitely help ?.that be awesome. Since im. Getting assistance with coach Abby from.love advice tv which has been tremendous help as well as yourself
@iamhassan3540
@iamhassan3540 5 лет назад
work on yourself period
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 5 лет назад
Hi HASSANADEELWORLD , In any process, it is always important that we look into our own self. It's like working from the inside out. what we teach inside our course is a holistic approach when it comes to getting our ex back. So we have to work from the inside out. :-) All the best.
@martinrasburn7357
@martinrasburn7357 Год назад
My ex has started a new relationship and told me “There is no possibility of us having a future together” and it’s killed me
@richharris9489
@richharris9489 Год назад
It sucks my ex blocked me every where
@smartkking4984
@smartkking4984 Год назад
Same bro my ex gf told me i have nk chance of getting back but we still having sex weekly.
@pinhas199
@pinhas199 Год назад
Hey crew! I'm really enjoying your videos, they are very helpful. me and my ex broke up on the last day of august (in a "friendly" way even though we cried), however, after two days I called her to talk more about it and then the next day I called desperate and she "said never again "I called again an hour later but with a sympathetic speech and we agreed to go out together from the 16th of September (I'm out of contact until then, it's good)? what do you think i should say when i'm with her?
@akosfellner5061
@akosfellner5061 Год назад
Clay has right. The content and the context are very different at my ex. My ex said we will only long-distance friends, whit few communication, but behaves different ways. When I turned from Relationship Focus to Connection Focus, my ex stated the Riding the Daragon Phase.
@rthaqi3668
@rthaqi3668 3 года назад
she said "there...won't...ever be anything with us" in a "don't hope" sound. earlier she mentioned she doesn't care about anything. what should I do? i want her and only her. we were always so good, no negative things or thoughts about her. I NEED PROFESSIONAL HELP
@akshatnagar353
@akshatnagar353 Год назад
Hi Clay! My ex and I have been together for 5 years. We broke up a couple of times in 2022 and again here in April. I had anger issues and I messed it up. She said she wants to end it. But all this fight happened just a week back. We had decided of a break, where we can be in talking terms but also give her space until she heals. But today she calls me to her place to discuss about her decision of breaking up. I did the mistake of convincing and she said she's not receptive of all this right now. She also said that it's over, and she's done with it now. I hope the content is not as serious as the context, because yeah, she just took 1 week to come to this conclusion. I ideally she should've taken atleast 2-3 weeks time off from the relationship if I'm not wrong but she said she doesn't want any kind of uncertainty so she is breaking up. Also said by her - "how do I know about future, but you shouldn't think that you will get me back ever. It's over." This is so hurtful! I don't know what to do. How do I know if she really means it? She is also not denying the fact that she loves me but because of some past wounds the crack in the relationship has widened. Please help!
@Syphonn
@Syphonn 6 лет назад
hey clay not sure if u respond to comments. basically i broke up with my ex 2 months ago because i wanted to focus on youtube and i felt i wasnt giving her the time she deserves. she would just come over and i wouldnt really pay any attention to her cuz i was grinding youtube. anyways i broke up with her and told her i would come back as fast as i could and she was really hurt but said she will be waiting for me. after that i thought i made the right choice for good and didnt want to get back together so i told her that for a week she would text me trying to hang out and all that and i would turn her down. then after a week i realized i messed up and wanted to her back so i told her and she was super hurt at this point and said she cant be with me right but shes trying to convince herself to be with me. we would hang out and hook up a couple times and she just kept saying she needs space so she can trust me again. stupid me didnt give her that space and i would beg and pleed for her and leave her gifts at her door step trying to show how much she means to me. i realized i pushed her farther away and now she said maybe this break up is for the best right now. so i started the no contact yesterday. we have been broken up for 2 months and i just cut communcation off yesterday. do you think theres still a chance?
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 6 лет назад
Hi Syphone, I'm sorry to hear about the breakup and we hope that you are holding on well. Our chances in getting our ex back together will depend on the actions that we would take and refuse to do. Meaning, it should not rely to any form of outside validations or signs or even from us. Because you are in control of your actions and your choices. In relationships and in the process of getting our ex back, there is totally no right and wrong. But it is how we approach things that will matters most. We only lose our chance if we give up. There is always a chance to work things out if you are committed and willing to put in the work. If you're just going to give up at the first road bump you hit, then all bets are off. :-) All the best.
@nicolaking670
@nicolaking670 2 года назад
Its been 2 years since breakup and we are still amazing together. We are inseparable. But he wants me to date someone who can love me and bring up my kids as he can't feel it. I don't want to give up but don't know what else to do since its got kids involved. (Not his kids)
@davidcloud8789
@davidcloud8789 2 года назад
What if my ex has feelings for me and says she misses me BUT says we will never get back together because her family and friends hate me and she doesn’t want to fight and prove them things.. we broke up 2 months ago... I’m really broken
@anitaway236
@anitaway236 6 лет назад
+clay Andrews ok I need advice I did anc and started up talking with my ex we were together 10 years and he has a rebound. When we started talking it was about business type stuff with our home but he also expressed interest in seeing my visiting family and we had small moments of connecting we’ve seen each other a few times. But he wants me to move out of our house so he can move in. I thought I was making progress but he hasn’t expressed any interest in getting back with me at all he says he just wants to move on with his life and for me to move out. Being that he has this attitude should I give up? I’ve watched all your videos and I’m thinking about signing up for ex solution program but at this moment I feel hopeless, I feel like he has absolutely no interest in getting back even if we are starting to connect, what should I do?
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 6 лет назад
Hi Anita, We understand that getting back together is not easy. We hope that you are holding on well. Remember to be consistent in your actions and be patient. We cannot rush the idea of getting back together. Both of you need to let the dynamics grow organically. If you feel that there's zero progress after 3 to 6 months, that is where you can decide whether to let him go and focus on your personal priorities. Doing the course is not about getting our ex back. it is about having a relationship that we truly deserve... whether it will be with our ex or with someone else. All the best.
@RebelCity_
@RebelCity_ 5 лет назад
My ex and I were in a relationship for only 6 months, but we had a great relationship and had a lot of fun - as in enjoyed each other's company and laughed a lot. Her mum was fighting cancer and died in October and two days before the funeral, my ex-girlfriend ended the relationship with me. She said she had to focus on her family, her Dad (who is now alone) and her two children. A month later we spoke and she said she ended the relationship because I wasn't physically with her the night her mum passed away - even though I asked her if I should be there via text and phone. She didn't say no, but she didn't say yes. She actually just avoided the question three times. I was advised by friends and family not to invade her family home when her mum was taking her last breath as I wasn't invited and would be selfish to do so. Please help, I seriously feel lost.
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 5 лет назад
Wow! I'm so sorry for your ex's mom passing. I think there's really just been a misunderstanding between the two of you. Have you told her that you didn't feel that it was right for you to be there as her mother was passing? Have you told her that you very much wanted to be there but that you wanted to respect her mother's privacy? I think if you can clarify that, then it may start to wipe away the hurt feelings.
@khawlaben893
@khawlaben893 5 лет назад
The same happened to me his dad passed away and he ended the relationship i tried SO hard he blocked me i'm on no contact now
@10imbahashimgulzar75
@10imbahashimgulzar75 4 года назад
Bro same happened with my ex her father died but i attended the funeral but after 2 months she ended the relationship same stuff a family to take care of and her studies. I begged but nothing worked I'm in no contact since been a month
@kaylaharris7814
@kaylaharris7814 Год назад
My ex broke uo with my because he wants to focus on his goals. He also said there is no chance, but the whole time he was crying. He even texted my sister saying how he knows ill become an amazing person and asked her to look after me.
@dimicaimano5734
@dimicaimano5734 5 лет назад
My ex girlfriend and I split up. she left me in September , we got back together ( dating ) in December but we ended it 3 weeks ago. she started to become distant. things were going amazing . planned trips and so on . I finally met her up today .we let out all emotions. she told me she had been intimate during our breakup twice. she doesn't want a relationship with anyone . but also told me that she will stick to her decision on not going back there but will be there with me .. she loves me dearly but needs to be alone and free. no attachment ,no bf …. I IMAGINE ITS TIME FOR ME TO HEAL AND MOVE AHEAD, it is over for real now we were 4 years together ,, and this time I really feel it is over . especially that she already has a guy or 2 to see once in awhile to have fun with ..
@betareybill9400
@betareybill9400 4 года назад
You poor bastard...I feel you...time to move on...you're better than her...she wasn't better than you...no go and show the world what you're made of and be the bad ass you know you are.
@harshrao1997
@harshrao1997 2 года назад
Clay my Ex's reactance is 100%, Idid approach her after two months of breakuo but i was not needy, but wanted to know why is this sudden change. Want to get her back but getting no way, as i am blocked everywhere. What to do?
@rossclabburn3295
@rossclabburn3295 5 лет назад
my ex told me he moving on and meeting new people and told me to do the same he didn't want to break up with me but he felt like he had too because he had to move 200 miles away for a new job because he was financially broken in 80 grand debt and was desperate so had too move away because he was at breakdown point but he bottled most of the debt up and didn't tell me he kept mentioning the fights we had throughout the relationship and me being too needy and jealous sometimes and he got fed-up of that too and said he given me enough chances to change but i wont change the problem is im quite and autistic and he is loud so he ended the relationship when he got too London he feels we are not a good match he said he will miss me but my question is when a guy who loved you very much and tells you its over and wants me to meet new people and find someone else and he said is doing the same do they really mean what they say he said he was hurting too but just not showing it i mean only weeks ago he was telling me i mean the world to him and he wouldn't want to be anywhere where im not he even brought about we should get married few months back everything was going ok had a few fights but that was mostly because i got insecure and it didn't help his stresses he has been on anti antidepressants tablets due to his depression i know people can say things and push people away because they are depressed and unhappy but i feel a little lost and mostly hurt so when he told me its over and told his friends its over does he really mean it he wants to be friends still but i dont and he said he would be upset if i was to completely cut all ties he wanted to fizzle things out now and be in touch again in a few weeks should i respond to him or forget him does he really mean that's it is over but every comment he told his friends family about me was all good positive things that im sweet kind caring etc nothing bad was ever said about me he just gets sick of the fights we have had and this debt problem really made him scared he says he loves me very much but its over and does not want to get back together but he would hate to loose me from his life do they really mean it this was a week after we split maybe i haven't given enough space id be grateful for a response and thank you for your time
@RosesareAllie
@RosesareAllie 4 года назад
My soon to be ex husband told me this today on the phone after an argument we had when I confronted him about lying to me about things he said last time I had talked to him. He wasn’t emotional or anything. It’s funny tho because he’s been dragging his butt on our divorce and admitted to me once how he is only with his rebound gf(who he left me for) to fill the void that our breakup caused. But him and rebound girl keep getting back together. I want to have hope that things will change and he wakes up and realizes what all he’s done but idk anymore..😔
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 4 года назад
Hi Allie, I'm sorry to hear about what happened but there could be reasons why the person keeps coming back to the rebound. it could be from the fear of experiencing the same dynamics of the relationship after getting back together or he may still be weighing the recent interactions in order to make the best decision. Give your ex the reason why he has to go back and choose you over the rebound (meaning make him more confident that things will be better as compared before). All the best.
@njasanie23
@njasanie23 4 года назад
@clay andrews i cheated on my girl and she broke up with me and she said we are never getting back together we can only remain friends but shes not talking to me at the moment
@TheJamesovhull
@TheJamesovhull 4 года назад
It’s been 2 months split from my girlfriend of 11 years now, we have 2 children together. iv made some changes since we split, quit my weed addiction, seeked doctors help and on anti depressants, i has a lot of problems when I left, she said she has been unhappy for a long time. My mood swings and that fact I never changed when promised and quit my addiction drove her over the edge, iv pushed hard to get her back. Acted very weak and begged and pleaded, I left her alone for a few days then sent her a heartfelt letter and flowers one morning, she agreed I could come round early in Xmas morning to see the kids, she made it clear it was nothing else, I pushed a little and she said it’s not going to work because I’m getting the wrong impression. I sorta did have hope it could be a start, just be there and be happy for the kids and maybe she could see a little change in me. I reached breaking point with it all Friday night and Saturday morning, messed things up big time. Worried a lot of people in the process, I managed to get her on the phone last night and we spoke for 40 mins, she told me we will never get back together and to move on, I told her this is the kick up the back side I needed, she told be we couldn’t make each other happy anymore because of the way I was, said I needed to be happy everyday and be more of a man! We ended the call on good terms. Spoke twice today for the kids briefly and was all positive. My plan is to now just focus on been happy everyday and every interaction I have with her to be fun and happy and be more of a man and stop letting things bother me. kids can be a great bridge for that. I’m not going to push anymore once I bat across to the other side of the tennis court I’m gonna wait till she bats back. Is there any other advice you can give? And do you think we ever stand a chance again even though she has said we will never get back together and to move on and the fact she’s been unhappy for a while? We have close family connections she gets on really well with my family and I do hers? What should I do? Was not a physical abusive relationship but emotionally. Any help?
@lestatvamp8865
@lestatvamp8865 4 года назад
TheJamesovhull Move on she prolly sees you as toxic since there was emotional abuse
@magslayerkeith1521
@magslayerkeith1521 4 года назад
Need help here i was with my ex 2 years everyhing was ok never cheated on or lied to and the routine tooked places in our life and we broke up she was the one who left me but she loved me lots... and now she saying she used to love me in the begining and now its closed to 2 months of a little contact very little id say once or two times a week and she started askin me to be friend and then i had a tinder made up.. i guess she seen it or got told by somebody else ended up by being blocked on social media but she still follows on insta and talks to my mother... what to doo ? XD
@jamesjeffries4230
@jamesjeffries4230 Год назад
Me my ex been together for 4 years & we have daughter together & she said we will never getting back together 😢it crushed me what should I do
@terencefletcher8928
@terencefletcher8928 2 года назад
Me and Ex haven’t spoken for 7 weeks, and last week I found out she’s invited herself on a holiday that me, my son and daughter have planned. Let me just explain, my son and have booked a place and my daughter and ex have booked in another,. But my Ex knew my daughter was meeting up with us, what’s happening?
@Royette-Labandillo
@Royette-Labandillo Год назад
Me and my ex always 4year this oct 23 2022. We broke up this last septemper 20 and my ex told me theres no 2nd change and 1wk later he posted in her facebook "in relationships" with a name of a guy... Is this cheating for something else?
@vionasephalia6634
@vionasephalia6634 4 года назад
So i tried to be honest with my ex bf that i hacked his account because i thought i want to send some random guys (not my ex) vulgar pictures to one of his female friends. But I never really wanted to do it for serious. I wanted to unsend it but don’t know what happened the message was deleted and I was so panic then decide to block her because I thought the message wouldn’t be sent. But i was wrong. He was so angry and says that there’s no more chance to be together since he doesn’t see any changes in my behavior... i was so jealous with his friend😭😭😭 but I already explained it to his friend and she says it was fine. No I don’t know what to do
@jamariuswoodforl632
@jamariuswoodforl632 5 лет назад
We haven't been together for months we have a child together she said we wouldn't be together again she she is talking to another guy should I stop trying sometimes it feels hopeless
@mohammedawad7611
@mohammedawad7611 6 лет назад
Hey clay, we’ve been broken for 5 months now and she entered in a relationship one week after the breakup .We stared texting each other back on May for one month and half we had fun everything was going as I planned we talked about our emotions it was all good but suddenly things changed I acted needy and I pushed her away, somehow she knew that I want her back and I apologized for my actions more than once and she started ignoring me since that day and if she replies it will be in a cold manner. .. I tried to fix it but she’s not interested in talking to me and told me that it’s impossible for us to be back together...so is it over?! PS: she’s still in a relationship but we used to text each other like everyday
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 6 лет назад
Hi Mohammed, there are 5 stages that our ex is going through when it comes to getting back together. she may be in the Wall of Reactance at this point. I would recommend for you to check this video out. --- ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-06s_5J65w7c.html All the best. :-)
@underclassh3r058
@underclassh3r058 3 года назад
Can blocking on social media, so you don't have to see memories and their profile pic of their new bf and you give them space, shift their emotions? or will they just view it as emotional and petty?
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 3 года назад
I would recommend unfollowing than blocking.
@dnhfishing7264
@dnhfishing7264 2 года назад
So what do I do if she’s already talking to someone?
@lisgraa82
@lisgraa82 5 лет назад
Sooo my ex is super confusing, he says he still loves me, and wishes we could get back together, but he's afraid to. We had a lot of fights because of that. I just had enough of his back and forth. He wants to be friends, but I just can't do that right now. So he breaks down and accuses me of hating him. That hurts a lot. He's also seeing other people on dating apps (so I am I, that's how I know - he told me to move on, so I did). I don't understand what the problem is with him. I've told him that I love him, and I want to be with him. That I can't be friends because of that. I need to move on, if he doesn't want me. But he keeps telling me he does want me, but doesn't want a relationship. So now I've blocked him. I can't do it anymore. My heart is broken and I need to heal. I am going to see him new years eve at a friends party. And I am fearing how it will turn out. But I do not want to ditch my friend because of him.
@Beers-and-Babes
@Beers-and-Babes 5 лет назад
MEOWDK I’m no expert but from the looks of it he’s afraid of commitment
@lisgraa82
@lisgraa82 5 лет назад
@@Beers-and-Babes Yeah, well, I've found someone else now, who isn't. Sadly it ended with me actually hating him, because he started lying about me and to me, and turning our friends against me. So yeah. A complete asshole he was. I am over him, and is moving on. I do NOT want him back.
@ronaldm2384
@ronaldm2384 4 года назад
Hi clay, my ex gf broke up with me about a month ago and said a lot of hurtful things. As a result, I left the apartment we shared. Few days after break up, she reached out to me repeatedly for 10 days but I ignored her and wanted to give her space, also because I was hurt. Now, I tried talking to her and she says no chance of ever getting back together no matter what. I pleaded so much, but nothing has worked. And she wants to move all my stuff out of the apartment ASAP. I don’t know what to do....
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 4 года назад
Both of you are not emotionally aligned for now. What you want may not be what she wants for now and vice versa. It might take some time for the negative emotions to settle down. Allow some time to heal from the pain of the breakup.
@vitaletisa7837
@vitaletisa7837 5 лет назад
my ex called me today to tell me we arnt getting back toghter this is final , i wont change my mind . all this happen after we had really good 3 weeks we talk and met even invited me to her place ( she told me i invited my self "ok" i did it ones and she could tell me no ) now she called me to tell me to know that we arnt getting back and not get hope and we will never get together, she can meet other guys i can meet other girls and that we meet its not good for each of us. i saw you all your videos and its like i am in stage 3-4 , she is nice to me talking and now she tells me we will never get back. i know i need to keep focus on our emulation state but i start to get cold feet she truly wont get back to me . she know i love her that why she called me to tell me this . i am not hard to get and i am not play games. i even told her if meeting up make you feel uncomfortable we can cancel she said no . but we cant talk about meeting up ( if we see each other then ok but not to talk in advanced) clay help me please
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 5 лет назад
Try to go back why your ex made that decision of not getting back together. Understanding the dynamics of the old relationship and the experiences that you both went through may affect her decision. There are relationships that can be worked on and relationships that we just have to let go. Remember to be realistic and sensitive with the emotional needs of your ex as well and not just the things that we want. If there's zero progress in 3 to 6 months, maybe getting back together is not the best option for now and we may have to focus on our self and personal priorities. All the best.
@vitaletisa7837
@vitaletisa7837 5 лет назад
@@ClayAndrews thank you clay i really appreciate it :) i know you cant answer every text that every one send you . so truly thank you but just to let you know i doing what you said and my ex is truly fighting her emotions , yesterday i saw her and she says alots of things as you said in your 5 stages to get back. i am now on the riding the dragon she says no no no , and act like yes yes yes , 49 51 /51 49 / 50 50 i will keep as you say focus on my self and our emotional connection ( btw we have really strong one ) best regards
@nicolebrooks6512
@nicolebrooks6512 2 года назад
She got into a rebound marriage but still continues to talk to me.
@jordykeith
@jordykeith 6 лет назад
What do you mean by high emotional connection when communicating? My ex doesn't want to hear or talk to me. Thanks
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 6 лет назад
HI Jordan Keith , these are topics in the conversation that may trigger either both negative or positive reactions. It may be topics about the relationship, the past etc that they might not that be comfortable yet to talk about. :-) All the best.
@drjsantos15able
@drjsantos15able 6 лет назад
It's been a month and a half since the break up. She is talking to someone else that I have suspicion that caused the break up. She says she feels like I didn't give her the attention and affection she needed. How can I show her I changed without her living with me to see those changes about giving her more attention and affection? But idk she seems not interested in talking to me, not sure what to do next.
@zachward4658
@zachward4658 5 лет назад
Same here man
@hecticsheff1
@hecticsheff1 5 лет назад
7 years I never got a second chance, she keeps saying this to me but deepnfoen i dont believe she acctually means it I think she just enjoying her freedom atm
@eliotruben3442
@eliotruben3442 4 года назад
Hectic Sheff update ?
@drew1980ish
@drew1980ish 4 года назад
I've done a lot of reflection and we were speaking for half a year and called her out for thinking she was using me and denied her friendship. I tried relationship hero and love advice tv ammonia try one more time .... if nothing don't work ... I'll work with youb for sure
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 4 года назад
Hi Andrew, Remember that getting back together is a process. It is not about having quick fixes. Whatever services that you will use, you have to learn to detach yourself from the outcome. Instead, focus on building a connection and life skills (Advanced Relational Skills if you will use our course). You have to be realistic as well in evaluating the quality of the relationship that you are trying to get back with and if it aligns with your personal values. All the best.
@melissascheerer4604
@melissascheerer4604 5 лет назад
Been broken up for 7 months was ldr . No contact at all from either side and he now has a new gf. I’m assuming it’s hopeless, right?
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 5 лет назад
We can only lose hope/chance if we decided to let go and move on. Hope will always be there, but success will depend on the actions that we will take and refuse to do.
@feljm728
@feljm728 4 года назад
My ex say he doesn't love me anymore and don't see a future with me
@gracep1588
@gracep1588 4 года назад
Hey Clay, so my ex boyfriend and I broke up 2 years ago. Our relationship was very toxic at the time and I’ve been wanting to start over and build a new relationship with him. I confessed to him that I still have feelings for him and all he wanted to do was to just hook up with me and he was just physically attracted to me. He said that he doesn’t wanna be in a relationship with me again because all he could ever remember was the bad times in our relationship. We’re both different now and I just wanna start over with him again. Please help :/
@gracelikerain5039
@gracelikerain5039 4 года назад
He wasnt emotional though
@riankatesvinluan8860
@riankatesvinluan8860 4 года назад
Hello, can you advice me? I just broke up with my Ex bf 3 weeks ago, we are in long distance relationship. He broke up with me because he said that I am too needy and wants to chat him always, but what can I do, communication is only our tool for our relationship. He said we can be friends but I think not really, he said I need to focus on my studies and forget him. He still helps me financially in my studies. He said that maybe in the future we can be together if our fate meet again. Can I still get him back???
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 4 года назад
Hi Rian, Thanks for sharing and I', sorry to hear about the breakup. We understand that communication is important especially in a rebound relationship. But you have to be mindful of how you approach communication. Your ex expressed his concern why the breakup happened and that should be considered as a wake-up call. Check on how you approach things and reflect. The chance of getting back together is possible but we have to make a change in our dynamics and with our attitude towards the relationship as well. All the best.
@dragonickaiuchiha
@dragonickaiuchiha 5 лет назад
My ex Broke up with me last nov 2018, left me for a friend of theres that was a sociapth and 1onthat day i as pleading and begging,, and again about a month later, then after a month of not talkng we takled gain agreed to be friends, then there friend broke up with my ex and there very down and seemd more distant from me and a bit shut off, i tried to comfort them saying i would always care about them and stuf, which my ex said they feel nor want us to get back together and to respect there choice sorry. not sure after everything if i will ever get the chance and they said they get the impression that all i ever wanted. but i did say that it would be ggod ideiaat thispintin time and see how things go in the futre that they needed time to sort there own problems out and emtions first to heal. but inseead of being supportive feel i made things worse. And it was also a long distance relationshp. please replay.
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 5 лет назад
It sounds like the primary issue that is keeping you from making progress is that you are in Damage Control Mode. This is going to keep making things worse, so it is absolutely imperative that you get out of Damage Control Mode first and foremost by getting your emotions under control.
@tloyou
@tloyou 5 лет назад
Does writing a letter to agree with the break up would be a good thing to make her feel of the lost ?
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 5 лет назад
If your intent in writing the letter is to make her feel the loss, then you may have to revisit the goal in sending the letter. Your goal sounds like manipulating her emotionally and that is what we are trying to avoid.
@laquiff8056
@laquiff8056 4 года назад
My other half who broke up she keeps telling me she loves me etc, it's been 2 months since the break, we were together for 3 years. I told her I couldn't be her friend, because I want more. She ignored my texts and became standoffish.. I told her this morning I could be friends, she replied straight away. I want to break away for my own sanity ... help
@laquiff8056
@laquiff8056 Год назад
Scammers grrr
@susi0208
@susi0208 5 лет назад
WHAT CAN I DO IF I WAS IN A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP?? HE BROKE UP WITH ME FOR BEING INSECURE AND JEALOUSY.. HE DELETED ME FROM FACEBOOK AND DELETED OUR PICTURES AND TOLD ME HE WONT MARRY ME AND HAVE A FUTURE TOGETHER.. IM BROKE PLEASE HELP
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 5 лет назад
Hi Susy, I'm sorry to hear about the breakup and we understand how emotional it could be for you. Since you are already aware of the reasons why the breakup happened, that is something that you have to focus on working during your Active No contact period. You have to work on your insecurity and jealousy as that type of characteristic can be unhealthy for a relationship. This is where honing in the Advanced Relational Skills that we teach would come in. All the best.
@laniathereal
@laniathereal 5 лет назад
What if he says he likes talking to me but doesn’t want to lead me on?
@betareybill9400
@betareybill9400 4 года назад
He's not interested...don't get attached...and don't make up some wild story in your head about a light at the end of the tunnel for the two of you...you'll regret it.
@bismahtutorials
@bismahtutorials 5 лет назад
Wheressss the linkkk
@purplesmileyface13
@purplesmileyface13 4 года назад
Do I still have a chance? My ex and I broke up 4 months ago. Our relationship was great and I know we loved each other. He had me blocked for a bit but now he watches my stories all the time. I texted him twice on separate occasions and he replied. Do I still have a chance? He did tell me he was happy, but when I told him to block me so that I can’t text him he said he didn’t want to. Why else would he say that and still watch my stories? Im still deeply in love with him. I’m working on myself and living my life regardless of my feelings for him. Should I move on completely or be patient?
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 4 года назад
Hi Abby, our chance of getting back together will always be there. It will depend on the actions that we take and refuse to do. We would only lose that once once we decided to give up and move forward in life.
@sexyladyakb
@sexyladyakb 4 года назад
He said this today yet last week he was saying he missed me and wanted to hold me , kiss me
@kilosavageproduction8447
@kilosavageproduction8447 4 года назад
🌟 MORNING STAR⭐️ i was going through that same problem with my ex girlfriend 😪💯
@tiffanitis
@tiffanitis 5 лет назад
He told me when we got to be friends again that he hated himself for not pursuing our relationship but doesn’t want to get in one again but told me he still kinda has feelings, what does that mean?
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 5 лет назад
Sound like your ex is emotionally confused on where to place you in his life at this point. Try to focus on building positive connection. The label will just follow in the end.
@tiffanitis
@tiffanitis 5 лет назад
Clay Andrews thank you
@ryancollier8652
@ryancollier8652 5 лет назад
my ex started dating and was in a relationship thats ended now and all of a sudden wants to know me again we have slept together twice in last week but she still only wants to be friends n not shifting on that is there a chance or should i just back off or what
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 5 лет назад
Hi Ryan, You have to set healthy boundaries if you wanted to rebuild a new dynamics with your ex. There is nothing wrong being friends but you have to know the difference between being friends and doing things like you are both are in a relationship. Chance will always be there, but it depends on the actions that you will take and refuse to do. All the best.
@MrSnow-dx1pr
@MrSnow-dx1pr Год назад
It's her mistake, not mine .
@aishasiddiqui2029
@aishasiddiqui2029 4 года назад
My ex and i broke up 3 months ago...i tried to sort things out many times after breakup but we didn't meet...after 1 month i stopped asking him to meet me..bcoz i was mad at him...due to relstionship issues..he always used to complain about the things that i can't do...after 2 month...i realized my mistakes and now i want him to take me back...i pleaded him but he said that he doesn't love me anymore,its too late now...and he wants to be alone,he doesn't want to come in a relationship... Before that he used to talk to me nicely but after i begged and pleaded him,he started to ignore me...but right now i text him sometimes and he replies to me but very formally... I want him back...what should i do?
@betareybill9400
@betareybill9400 4 года назад
Let him go...you fucked up...its over sorry...once I guy thinks you've been with another man he no longer considers you special to him anymore...especially if you were together a long time...he wont be able to get past it...let him go....try again and be better next time around.
@ArcaneHazeOfficial
@ArcaneHazeOfficial 5 лет назад
My ex broke up with me because she said she needed time to figure things out, and suddenly found a new guy 2 weeks later. 5 months later, I still love her, but I’m doubting it’s worth my dignity to wait around for her. Any advice?
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 5 лет назад
Hi Spider-Bat 2099, We understand how surprising it could be for you. But you cannot control your ex if she is open to seeing someone else given that she is technically single. Have you tried reaching out to her or just continue waiting for her to reach out to you?
@ArcaneHazeOfficial
@ArcaneHazeOfficial 5 лет назад
Clay Andrews I reached out to her recently and we were hitting it off really well, but our interactions felt too much like I was just a friend and nothing more. She’s still with the other guy, so I’m not expecting her to change her mind, but I’m willing to wait for her new relationship to end if it means there’s a chance she might come back to me then.
@theshield1613
@theshield1613 5 лет назад
I've been loyal to my wife never cheated on her not even once that's how much I love her more than 3 weeks ago my wife left me we both promise each other we won't leave each other it's really sad she doesn't see it how rich my love is for her I know she will met and go out with cheaters or worse maybe she will regret it leaving me leaving a true love, loyal, honest guy right now I'm going to open a business and I'm also studying politics oh well her loss
@pura-puramekanik5452
@pura-puramekanik5452 2 года назад
move on smp
@benevolencewins252
@benevolencewins252 2 года назад
I’m blocked so there’s that mad she’s def the type to have me blocked for ever
@gerriirodriguera6928
@gerriirodriguera6928 5 лет назад
Hallo Coach, my ex broke up with me because he think we're not compatible,our relationship is not good enough for him and it's over.. but still want to be there for me if i need help.. but now just texted me with anger.. he said that i'm texting and flirting already with someone just like before were broke up.. we've broke up for the second time around and he said it's over now..the main reason is because his still hurt and never forget what i've done on our break up before that i'm started dating and texting with someone, then me and my ex started to have kontakt again and going back together .. so i never tell to him about the past and that i was dating someone and texting then he just saw my phone and read the conversation but we're not together only on the stage to be back but after that no contact with anger .. after a weeks he message me up and said he missed me and everything so we meet up and talk to try again until now.. but we have argument last week then after a days he just broke up again with me because the past issues that he said it's still on his mind,never forget that i was dating when we're apart and not saying it, i've leid and he will never forgive me.. don't want to see and talk to me forever.. but we're still have communication right now.. but always saying it's over we're never get back together.. i don't want to lost him..i want to get him back.. please Coach help me what should i do? @: gr.rodriguera@gmail.com
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 5 лет назад
Hi Gerrii, I'm sorry to hear about what happened in your relationship. We hope that you are holding on well. It seems like there's so much that we can talk about than just having a short comments over here. Try to send us an email at hello@modernlove.life and our team will pick things up from there. :-)
@jordanwongkeanonn7138
@jordanwongkeanonn7138 5 лет назад
my ex said: we will never be together. 1.)she said i lied to her about: borrowing money from her friend but i didnt take any of them because its not the right way in the end but i told her friend not to tell her. 2.) Borrowing her dads money yeah i did its because she left not much during working days. i havent settled the payment yet. 3.) her mother doesnt like me because she thought i always bullshits on my career. btw, in the morning i works as a bank officer and at night i works as a bodyguard. can i have some advice how to make my ex comeback?
@whitneymiller5139
@whitneymiller5139 Год назад
Please update!! I’m in the same situation my ex thinks I lied to him about finances!!!! His family hates me for that
@kelanicanton5770
@kelanicanton5770 3 года назад
Clay I have a question my baby's father said this but what should I do.. I just had our first child and like I have feelings for him and everything.
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 3 года назад
Hi Kelani, there could be several reasons why an individual would say that. At times it is being triggered by the tension in the situation. At times, it helps to be in a place of acceptance and understanding.
@kelanicanton5770
@kelanicanton5770 3 года назад
@@ClayAndrews sir I will say this between me and him we argue alot and I know it's very stressful for him but it's more stressful for me because I'm a new mom and we're both young. He's 20 I'm 21. His sister keeps inserting herself in our buisness only causing things to get worst between me and him. She lies on me to him so that he always have something to be mad at me for and it's stressful because I really wanna be with him and work things out for the sake of the child. I don't ever want my child to be dealing with two parents whom can't get along. I've decided since yesterday to go under no contact. He has even said to me over text that me and him could never be together and when he said that it hurts. I don't know what to do clay please help😔😢
@heydio5
@heydio5 7 месяцев назад
How does this relate to single dads?
@andrewbunch6206
@andrewbunch6206 5 лет назад
Hey Clay Andrews I talked to you on your RU-vid Channel before me and my fiance were together for 11 years and been separated for 6 months now she was my Bestfriend Soulmate and the love of my life we had future plans too get married and have kids I had high hopes about all this happening we been threw alot of stuff together too including alot of good reason why I am depressed heartbroken and sad is because not only am I dealing with our breakup I also lost my mom too cancer 6 years ago she was only 57 and my favorite aunt died last year too and now going threw this she said that she wants too still be good friends with me sometimes we talk and text on the phone everyday and sometimes only twice a week and she goes hot and cold on me out the blue too can you please give me some advice and support on getting her back again thanks I really need your help I will be the happiest man on Earth when I get her back again thanks Clay she's all I got left too I need and want her in my life again as my fiance not just my friend I love her too much for that
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 5 лет назад
Hi Andrew, I'm sorry to hear about your loss and we understand how tough it must be for you. We are truly concerned when you say that you are depressed, Andrew. And to be honest we take those seriously. We understand that you wanted to get your ex back but you also have to take care of your own self. For now, we recommend for you to initially seek a trained professional to assess whether the depression that you are going through needs further attention or is just a phase of sadness because of the loss in your family. It is always best that we work in our mental and emotional well being before taking any steps in getting our ex back. All the best.
@andrewbunch6206
@andrewbunch6206 5 лет назад
Clay Andrews Yeah me and my ex fiance just hung out This past Sunday for her Birthday I bought her some gifts and really nice sweet birthday card and we went few places had a good time together but she still wants us too be good friends but I love her alot more than friends after being together for 11 years I even did 6 months of counseling too improve myself and it helped me out alot she said she takes everything that I said into consideration but needs more time for her right now but we been broken up for 6 months now I thought we would of been back together for now I honestly love her enough too just keep waiting for her thanks Clay Andrews for the last reply could you reply too this one too thanks for all your help and support it's well appreciated alot I really need her back again as my fiance not just a friend
@briancrosby5023
@briancrosby5023 3 года назад
Okay I just want to know why my ex would tell me that she's never ever ever going to get back with me even though I've never hinted toward getting back with her he just got aggravated and said that
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 3 года назад
It sounds like your ex is at the Riding the Dragon phase. At times their decision will be based on their own way of being and emotions in a particular moment. It's kinda confusing to be honest. We talk more about that in-depth inside the Ex Solution Program.
@KylumScourfield
@KylumScourfield 5 лет назад
Me and my ex split up about a week ago and she instantly started seeing someone else. I want her to think of me which would make her go off her rebound and come back to me, would me sending a nice text asking if she is ok and how I am managing with being alone help with my problem sending it after a month period of no contact?
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 5 лет назад
Hi Kylum, You cannot control your ex to think about you. That is the emotions and actions that she has to experience by herself. the reason why our ex would decide to get back to us is that they made the best choice on being with us and not with the rebound. Because we are the best choice than the other guys that they are seeing after the breakup.
@KylumScourfield
@KylumScourfield 5 лет назад
@@ClayAndrews thank you so much for replying and I can see that now, I will focus on myself and she act differently when she is around her bf. Nice to me but then she is with him not very nice
@charleselkins8223
@charleselkins8223 6 лет назад
hi clay my wife left me for some one else and will not talk me . do I have a chance of getting her back or not.
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 6 лет назад
Hi Charles, I'm sorry to hear about that and we hope that you are holding on well. Chance and how will always be there... but remember that all of these will depend on the actions that you will take and refuse to do. In relationships and in the process of getting our ex back, there is totally no right and wrong. But it is how we approach things that will matters most.
@winxclubrock56
@winxclubrock56 5 лет назад
Ex boyfriend broke up with me because he said he wasn't good enough to continue.
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 5 лет назад
I'm sorry to hear about that. It seems like your ex is going through some tough time as a person knowing his self-worth. Hope he can work that one out as well.
@jamestvvlog2297
@jamestvvlog2297 4 года назад
What if I said I already move on for my alibi for she didn't laugh at me but i still hoping with us
@jamestvvlog2297
@jamestvvlog2297 4 года назад
Is there any chance ?
@a.zaydeeellie0246
@a.zaydeeellie0246 5 лет назад
Hi clay he broke up with me and now we r in long distance situation. But he still keep in touch with me and denying he still with that girl he always flirt. Is there still a chance he will come back to me? I let him chat me first. Until now he chat normally like 2 times a week
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 5 лет назад
Yeah, there is a chance.
@noubietube3062
@noubietube3062 3 года назад
Update?
@scorpiodoid2317
@scorpiodoid2317 5 лет назад
My ex warning me & asked me to go away...she wants me to give up..i don really know why she said like this but it is because i make no contact with her...i decided to really go away from her life & never accept her as my frndx eventhough she wamts !e to be her frndz...
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 5 лет назад
Hey Scorpio Doid. It seems like there's too much emotional tension between you and your ex. It is best to respect her wishes for space at this time to settle these negative emotions. At the same time, it will allow both of you to heal from the pain that was caused by the breakup. All the best.
@scorpiodoid2317
@scorpiodoid2317 5 лет назад
Clay Andrews yeahhh tqvm for your advise coach.., i really give up on her.. plus now she have another bf so i just let her go... even though im still hoping on her.. we’ve been for 8years from college till work...now she left me for a new guy she know...
@chefeur
@chefeur 5 лет назад
If ex Behaved like an asshole no thanks!
@redacted__
@redacted__ 3 года назад
My ex told me “as of right now, I don’t ever want to get back together”. Does it sound like she’s trying to keep the door open for the future?
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 3 года назад
Hi Tyler, yes it can be. But of course, we have to understand that whatever result that you will achieve in the future will depend on the actions that you will take. :-)
@habibiemaryam5894
@habibiemaryam5894 4 года назад
We brokeup for 1 year..and i followed the no contact rules..but then, suddenly i found he is waiting for someone else..should i continue no contact ?..but i still love him
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 4 года назад
Hi Abby, Maybe the best question to ask here is that are you emotionally and mentally ready to contact him? will you be prepared for any form of outcome in case you reach out to him?
@habibiemaryam5894
@habibiemaryam5894 4 года назад
@@ClayAndrews im not ready if the answer is " i never take you back "....but i still want him
@itsyourboyjay1496
@itsyourboyjay1496 2 года назад
I need help
@firoskhan4198
@firoskhan4198 5 лет назад
She left me 6 months ago. And she said she don't want me again and she fall in love with another guy.... What can I do ? I want her. I need her in my life. Please help me please .. what can I do ? Does anyone can help me ?
@theseattlegreen1871
@theseattlegreen1871 4 года назад
Your not the only one bro.... I dont have any answers I'm sorry. Going through hard times myself. Fucking sucks dude.
@wearethechampionsst.helens8562
Getting back togeather is easy now keeping them is hard
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 5 лет назад
Only if there haven't been meaningful changes in the way you interact.
@eliotruben3442
@eliotruben3442 4 года назад
louie McCarthy Scarsbrook Biggest fan other way round
@dominiccampana7385
@dominiccampana7385 3 года назад
CLAY! I need your help!!!!! Me and my ex have been broken up for 4 months now. After the breakup, we stayed in contact almost every day, but she took some time away from me to work on herself. I didn’t work on myself during that time. I sorrowed and weeped every day. It’s gotten better now, but I still feel empty. We still talk regularly and hangout about once a week. She’s already seeing a new guy, who I’m sure is just a rebound, but recently her and I have become so so distant. It makes me sick! I expressed this to her last night, and she says she wants to get back the connection we once had, but as “friends.” I know she’s been saying she wants just “friends” for a while, but this one really hurt. I agreed to it and even said I wasn’t expecting a relationship with her. I’m trying to take this time to work on myself, but I’m worried bc I haven’t seen much change in me, meaning she won’t either. I want her to want me back! What do I do??? Please please please help. I’m seeing her this upcoming Saturday. We’re taking a walk in the park by her house. What do I need to do, and how can I help make her feelings for me change?
@wooshvideos4278
@wooshvideos4278 2 года назад
update ?
@davemaurer7341
@davemaurer7341 9 месяцев назад
Friend zoned ya and monkey branched... weakAF.... I do it too...but it's pathetic
@jacobusgaroeb159
@jacobusgaroeb159 4 года назад
My wife said to me I don't see us anymore
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 4 года назад
I'm sorry about that, Jacobus. I hope that you are holding on well especially that it must be a tough moment for you.
@lisasharp3939
@lisasharp3939 3 года назад
My ex boyfriend said he just needs to move on. I've been trying to talk to him and he just keeps ignoring me, I don't know what to say to him anymore. I really want him back but just don't know what to say anymore. Lisa
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 3 года назад
Hi Lisa, I would recommend to give your ex the needed time and space for now so he can sort his thoughts and emotions. If you are pushing for the talk to happen, he may continue to put his wall of reactance up. Take this as an opportunity to apply the Active No Contact that we advise inside our Ex Solution Program course. :-)
@lisasharp3939
@lisasharp3939 3 года назад
@@ClayAndrews Hi Clay, how do you do active no contact? How long should I do it for? Lisa
@itsyourboyjay1496
@itsyourboyjay1496 2 года назад
Free help to be honest anyway I can talk for free? To anyone
@jaseidon
@jaseidon 5 лет назад
I think its final with me she said she doesn't want me in her life I feel like I dont have a chance
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 5 лет назад
Sorry to hear that your ex told that to you. That's not the first time I've heard someone's ex say that to them. It's coming from an emotional place, so remember that your ex's emotional context is never the same. Their moods and feelings can come and go. So just because she said that, doesn't mean that she will always feel that way. Best wishes.
@aaronevans5211
@aaronevans5211 5 лет назад
jaseidon update ?
@nosugarkoolaid1990
@nosugarkoolaid1990 4 года назад
Updates?
@maryrose1701
@maryrose1701 5 лет назад
ok so what if they say we are done its been 4 months now
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 5 лет назад
Did they say it from an emotional place or in an emotional context?
@maryrose1701
@maryrose1701 5 лет назад
@@ClayAndrews I dont know he has his heels in the ground after 26 years he said he has no felling for me and its done its been 5 months. But he has told people we are talking i am the only one that calls . He does ansewer . I text but he doesnt ansewer or text back . As far as i know he doesnt have anyone . We have a house for sale i told him let try ta get back and i dont want ta sell the house he didnt get back ta me . My agent told him maybe we will get back and he didnt say ta Him we are done
@nicolebrowne3632
@nicolebrowne3632 6 лет назад
what if they say "I plan on us being back together before the end of this year"? Do I take that seriously ?
@azazel3944
@azazel3944 6 лет назад
nicole browne no ofcourse
@realworld2737
@realworld2737 6 лет назад
And he is still in touch with u? Coz my bf blocked me after saying that he is busy with work.....
@nicolebrowne3632
@nicolebrowne3632 6 лет назад
guncha parveen - no i haven’t heard from him but i do know his busy with his job on the road nobody here from him . If your ex blocked you - they will unblock you eventually trust me mine did that and a month later he unblocked me
@nicolebrowne3632
@nicolebrowne3632 6 лет назад
Its been 9 months for me , he did reach out after 5 months and we was in a lot of contact but me being impatient probably ruined it. I am not waiting around for something that maybe not going to happen. The only thing you can do is work on you! I am not going to contact him, he knows where I am if I am still available.
@sshuteandrew
@sshuteandrew 6 лет назад
Nicole Brown - I so get it. 😞 I’m heartbroken and heart sick all over again. My ex finally initiated contact for the first time in six months last month. I was beyond thrilled. Up to that point I was always the one to initiate the texting. We were seeing each other about twice a month but only hanging out and hooking up. We weren’t going out on dates and we weren’t talking on the phone. Then we got together Friday night and I was drinking some wine and I pushed him to open up. I asked him if he had hope for us and he acted like I physically shocked him. He moved away from me and when I told him I didn’t want to be just casual he told me we were done and I should move on with other guys. He put my pocketbook at the door and he actually told me to leave. He told me he was sorry if he led me on - he never meant to and he was trying to be my friend. He told me that he’s more messed up and unhappy than I know- that he can’t handle a relationship. I’m still so devastated. I have this feeling in my stomach that won’t go away. He also told me not to contact him ever again and if I did he would ignore me. I did send a few texts and like his word, he ignored me. I’m probably blocked. It’s never been this bad. All my patience and hard work did not pay off. I’m devastated and depressed just like November. 😢
@deeluton86
@deeluton86 2 года назад
She says she will never take me back and to focus on the kids. But i think it’s because i keep pushing the issue of her taking me back. I get so emotional that i text too much and then she blocks. But recently at my sons graduation she was kind of close up on me and later that day she invited me to come and take her groceries up the stairs for her but i froze because it’s so many mixed signals i don’t know what to think. We’ve been broken up 7 months after being together for 10 years.
@ADayInTheLifeOfJames
@ADayInTheLifeOfJames 9 месяцев назад
Update?
@metukhatvvlog8173
@metukhatvvlog8173 4 года назад
He said ,he has someone new,and we are stranger now.😔
@anglecke6543
@anglecke6543 3 года назад
I’m sorry
@yb6.
@yb6. 5 лет назад
Yea wat happens if she losses trust in u will she comeback
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 5 лет назад
If you give her a good reason to trust you again.
@yb6.
@yb6. 5 лет назад
Clay Andrews i did but she don’t believe me 😪 I want her so bad Iike I need some prayers Cause I know god can move mountains 🙁
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 5 лет назад
Did you TELL her that she can trust you again or did you SHOW her that she can trust you? There is a big difference. PS: I'll keep you in my prayers...
@yb6.
@yb6. 5 лет назад
Clay Andrews shit a lil bit of both actually 😬 Nd thanks I need them 🙁
@nosugarkoolaid1990
@nosugarkoolaid1990 4 года назад
Update?
@carrieannenapoleoni6099
@carrieannenapoleoni6099 5 лет назад
18 yrs, 5 children.....he moved out, moved in w his boss after only 2 mo(whom he had been cheating on me w) abandoned me w the house, moving, packing, storage.....filed for seperation and divorce after only 5 mo! Got any answers for me!? Said he would never come back, even if things dnt work out w her. Would rather live in a box! #REBOUND
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 5 лет назад
I'm sorry to hear about what happened, Carrieanne. We understand this might be hard for you emotionally. We are curious to know about your exact question. We understand that you have a lot of things in mind but if you are seeking answers to why your ex have done such actions, that is something that we cannot just assume. But sometimes, you have to reflect on the dynamics of your relationship that made him decide to do such actions.
@carrieannenapoleoni6099
@carrieannenapoleoni6099 5 лет назад
@@ClayAndrews You're special ;) ty. Sometimes Shit just happens.
@carrieannenapoleoni6099
@carrieannenapoleoni6099 5 лет назад
Although it seems as though you're "advice" is geared more towards boyfriends & Girlfriends not so much marriages. And, that's ok. Ty for taking the time to respond. Appreciated :) God bless
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 5 лет назад
Hi Carrieanne, Actually, you can still apply the things that we talk about in improving the quality of your marriage. As what we teach are life skills that are applicable to all types of situations. :-) If you take the basic information and look at it in a perspective of marriage, you can still nod that it can also be applied in your particular situation.
@jackassfat
@jackassfat 4 года назад
Rule #1: When a woman says NO. it is a NO ! Rule#2: When a woman says YES, it maybe NO !
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