I was looking at some old photos from u with bracelets vs newer ones without and u really improved your overall shape of the face. Its incredible how much orthodontics affect facial attractiveness. You look cute.
Fr, braces expanded her maxilla bit definitly looking better, correct tongue posture + hard diet could make her really good looking, she good looking now as well, clear skin, bealthy body fat, face is developed nicely, idk what she talkin about she definitly not ugly
Do not ever think you are a burden!!!! You are such an amazing and wonderful person!!!! I truly think the world of you and you are so very beautiful to me!!!!
Your face is beautiful! Maybe not in the typical instagram, overtly enhanced way that we’re used to these days, but in a unique character driven way, like every part of your face has a story to tell. Your every expression is genuine and all these are just a bonus cuz you're still very conventionally naturally attractiv You look younger to me, like literally one of these extremely youthful 20 something actors that get cast to play 16 yr olds in teen movies and they keep doing that role for the nxt 10yrs of their careers. Anyway, I'm a girl that struggles with a lot of the same stuff as you, and your vids are so helpful. You have no idea how grateful i am to you! Soldier on, girl! I'm rooting for you!!💞
I was never asked out as a joke, but in high school someone left an elaborate "confession" letter in my locker as a joke. Years later I bumped into her sister and found out that she *still* hated me for unknown reasons. I'd never been anything but kind to her the few times I encountered her. Some people are just like that, I guess?
Truth is, you're not ugly. I like your looks and I'd have no problem at all being seen with you. And, just so you know, you do not look old. And,I do mean that. Please try your best to stay positive. Not at times easy but can be done. You take care and I will be praying for you. I hope you feel better very soon.🙏
Yes she has body dysmorphia. What she sees in the mirror is a warped version of reality. This isn't a beautiful girl, just looking for attention. It affects how she interacts with people.
Girl, you’ve had a glow up! You look really good. 🙌🏻 Also, don’t let people get to you because usually people who complain and hurt others is because they are unhappy with themselves! Keep your chin up, you really are an amazing individual. 💪🏻
I actually would rather die than take my mask off at work. It gives me a great sense of safety and comfort, been wearing it for years now everytime I go outside. Thankfully i have no one to talk to. I applaud you for your efforts, glad to see your'e doing better; stay safe 🐞💐
Me too i still wear a mask all day at work an anywhere public cuz i look absolutely terrible im 22 but look like im bloody 40. Whats interesting is people treat me differently when they cant see my face. My coworkers think im secretly handsome because they've literally never seen my face... which is hilarious
You might want to avoid the edibles if you are having paranoid feelings. They can make it worse. Also, i think you need to go see someone about how you are feeling generally, if you can.
I agree. They tend to just make you feel worse in the long run. Any kind of drug (or potentially addictive behavior like gambling) can really only be "enjoyed responsibly" by people with excellent mental health and self worth.
“You guys have probably noticed my teeth have shifted a little bit.” No, no we haven’t. A huge part of the problem is when we mistake our thoughts and feelings for reality. We feel ugly, agree with that feeling, that feeling starts coloring our worldview, and then we assume other people think we’re ugly. But our thoughts are not reality, and we are not our thoughts. We’re not our bodies. And we’re most certainly not what other people think of us or what we think they think of us
Yep, eat, sleep, take a s***, work and repeat. That's how it goes if you lack energy, time or money. Do not worry, it should be quite normal for short periods.
@@charliejordansyoutubechann6857 That is how it sometimes goes if you lack one of those elements. Sometimes life just feels like long grind in some free to play game, based on my personal experience. I don't quite get what is so extremely offensive or insulting about that.
If I start looking older, I’m gonna start mumbling to myself while reading the news papers, that’s the elderly guy I want to be! The guy that mumbles to himself reading news papers, and chokes on my black coffee, cussing my mouth out at the kitchen table trying to get it down! Lolol! The families walking outside with their kids hearing me! XD
I kinda had that experience in school that made me paranoid that everyone was just faking being my friend. Honestly Idk what I did to grow past that, but I just wanna say I empathize with how you feel cuz I've been there. You are most likely better than most people you'll ever meet, so if someone doesn't "get" you that's their problem they can't see the beautiful person you are.
Honestly, I have always thought you were 20 because you look very young. I also think your eyes are so beautiful, nice color. But as you just mentioned probably will not believe it and sadly I can't be there to convince you.
I wonder what's a good way of supporting the dysmorphic individual in your opinion. From my friend group I'm prob the closest to being dysmorphic and I get a lot of misunderstandings and often get a feeling like im a burden too. But it gets away if sb holds me for some time
The further adventures of a beautiful girl who thinks she isn't beautiful, but she seriously is beautiful. Part 120 (or whatever number we are up to in this saga, I have lost count. LOL).
Hey, this video was on my feed for some reason so I watched it and just wanted to wish you well in your battle with BDD. To be fair you do get a lot of compliments in the comment section of your videos and I don't think they are fake or pity compliments. Victorian house maids are hot!
Humans in general are the most peculiar looking animals on the planet. Sometimes at certain moments anyone among us can even look like cartoonish caricatures of what various zenotypes of the family of humans facial types look like. There is a very famous young actress who is often touted as being an exceptional/exemplary beautiful example of womanhood that I saw a still photo screen capture of the other day. I was really able to take it in , in detail, because it was a still, but not posed, or taken to best advantage because it wasn't planned, and also not altered or enhanced either. When caught that way, I noticed how asymetrical her face was, with one eye noticeably higher than the other on her face and the upper lid much fleshier, and just altogether different than the other eye in it's shape too. when I restarted the movie, what then took over or dominated was her beguiling and charming smile, and an inner light and playful manner that I (and most other people I'm sure) noticed most, and those aspects became what I principaly saw/focused on. I personally have a somewhat prominent brow ridge and rather fleshy nose, somehow I (I'd be willing to bet the general population would find me far less attractive than you!) trancended these countenance (facial) limitations or set backs, and have been in and out of relationships, managed to make friends, hold jobs, get invited to do things and interact with folks more attractive than myself (and less) and generally been able to find joy in life in spite of not being the most handsome guy in the room most of the time. Your way good. You have my word. Chin up you are not unattractive.
Your teeth are perfect. I had to wear braces on my upper teeth. I have 1 front bottom tooth thats shifted a little over the years. I dont care what anyone thinks about my teeth. Either someone likes me or they dont.
We all feel ugly sometimes. I do myself too. I also have felt like a burden. One day I just let them all go and now I’m alone. Oh well. On looks, I’ve found the best solution is to throw myself into my work, my hobbies, and remind myself looks fade eventually for everyone and I eventually forget about it. I could also be in an accident tomorrow and become horribly disfigured. Then what? (Btw you have an attractive face).
Gahhh, you are so pretty. It's like watching someone in prison with a key to open the door but they just won't yet complain about being in prison. Frustrating to watch and you keep telling them to open the door but they won't. YOU ARE ACTUALLY BEAUTIFUL. PLEASE OPEN THE DOOR OF THE PRISON CELL. You don't have to be imprisoned by this. Just for a day can you not listen to the devil in your head, the liar. Just like cults, ppl believe their leader, the voice in your head is the same, it's a liar. It's lying. This voice is just projecting your insecurities upon your face, distorting the reality. The moment you start to train your mind to quiet down this voice is the moment you gradually start to see what everyone else sees. A beautiful face. Please just do this, just stop believing the lies in your mind, turn it down so you can even for one moment see reality.
The more I watch the more I see alot of similarities. Im old 51 but just recently realized something maybe different about me. I wish I had figured it all out at your age. I actually had a family but she left me after 5yrs together. We did have a son together so it really tore me up especially how she just up and left never explained why still today I dont know for sure she replaced me with another man within a month but after the loss of both My parents stuff started getting real. I had the worst lonliness I had ever felt in my life which I feel may even be leading to depression now. I always had friends in school but I would not be your friend until I got to know you. I always figured I was just shy. I am an introvert but dont like to spend all my time alone. In this loneliness I have been trying to figure why is it i always feel like people are judging me. Well like you mentioned attachment styles. I believe I maybe avoident attachment and perhaps you are too. I believe it has levels because alot of the behaviors videos describe I dont have or have not had in yrs. I don't really talk to any old childhood friends anymore. They bad thing is I cant seem to connect with anyone anymore. Like nobody understands me. My parents did not abuse me but mom did leave dad when I was 7. Dad never showed emotion none so neither did I for yrs. He never told me he loved me. I finally told him when I was 40 then he did after that. Im still trying to figure it all out. Im afraid I may have some mental issues I was not aware of. Always wonder if my sons mom had explained my lack of emotion if that was the issue could we have stayed together or perhaps it was all a dream to imagine being together forever. Keep your head up! Get off social media! Learn to love yourself be nice to you. Take care of you. Take walks too if your down they can help. 🙏
11:09 never thought anyone could say that in the perfect words story of my life tbh ur a smart person and ur really really pretty your drop dead gorgeous pls check ur comments
I know my comment wont help any but you are very pretty and attractive in my eyes and you seem like a very nice woman..i hope you find a way through your struggles..im sure you will ❤
I'm curious to know how working has impacted your thought patterns. Has the constant busyness of work had a positive, negative, or no effect on your mind?
Hi I feel like we share similar predicaments although the conclusions we've each come to are a little different. Growing up and now even as an adult I feel as if I've been treated as somehow inferior. I'm just wondering, was there a process you followed that led you to your conclusion? For myself I kind of used a process of elimination by tackling all the identifiable flaws I could find about myself as well as also observing how others with similar or worse flaws are treated and eventually just figured that there is something immutable, intrinsic and woven into every fiber of me that makes others more likely to feel disdain or contempt at any given moment. But I'm always second guessing my assessment of things and wondering if there's some piece of information I'm missing.
Just because you don't get compliments, it doesn't mean that you are not pretty. Compliments might be a burden. Or to be inappropriate. There is an etiquette. And different people react to compliments differently. Here are some rules that I know of: 1, You must know, that person likes you. Do not compliment strangers 2, If you are not close, do not compliment her body. You must first find out that she likes her body to be complimented, before you do so 3, Usually it is safe to compliment what she can influence: make-up, hairstyle, outfit. But only if that is something extra. Regular clothes and make-up are just to fit in. Reversely, if you want to be complimented: 1, Be friendly/helpful/polite 2, Be extra in some way 3, Reward compliments What am I trying to say is, you might give a "vibe", that you do not want to be complimented, not that nobody finds you attractive (which is unlikely)
I think you just have a confidence issue because you are not unattractive and far from ugly. Try smiling more and act like you own the place and the results will amaze you! Good luck girl.
Ur really pretty and I’m not even just saying that I hope u see this and if u want some advice? Honestly wear some jewelry and not in a rude way but stop saying ur ugly sm I have rlly bad self esteem and when I used to say how ugly I was ppl agreed w me so don’t say it and I’m sure people will not say things like that again but try to remember all the people that love u and think that ur bueatiful inside and out💗💗
I have no idea why the algorithm pushed your channel to me. I think you have features you do not like about yourself but we all do. You do have weak features but you also have some excellent features. You go into your weak features a lot. But you never point out your good features. So let me help you. 1. You are young (huge advantage for a women) 2. You are Humble ( Huge advantage). 3. Amazing jaw and chin line . 4. Lip ratio and shape amazing. 5. above average eyes . 6. above average nose. 7.Great natural eyebrows. 8. You are not overweight. (average women is overweight these days) 9. Your overall face symmetry is above average. Overall with little to no make up you above average for sure. With make up and some of your top tier features emphasized you would look amazing "done up". I almost feel like your channel is fake because its so clear to see. I can not imagine that you do not see it... Just my 2 cents. Wish you the best.
First job experience is weird. You deal with situations that are new (and not always good), but, you will get more experience. Is not good to be in the situations you're describing or any type of toxic workplace, but, I advise you to keep working, learn the best and the most you can and focus on your job. Do not open youself with them beyond the necessary (hello/please/thanks) - not to behave like an outcast, but, don't get too close, just show that you're here for work and you can have a little chit-chat, but, again, it's a workplace, not a place to find friends. Onec you consider you have more experience (and/or) you find a better job offer, sign the contract elsewere and move on. One thing to consider: you don't have to stay in your first job - you're free to choose - don't let other enter in your mind telling you any BS for convince you to stay = if you don't like that enviroment, move on, seriously - you might be better appreciated and grow elsewere. Unfortunately, workplaces are like that = full of people trying their "best" to diminish others (us) while they're in good eyes from others.
It sounds to me like your ability to trust is completely shattered. It's understandable, but it's also preventing you from making meaningful connections with people. It's really hard to believe that another could love you, or even feel comfortable reciprocating it, when you can't love yourself. Even if you accepted that love would you even be capable of giving it back to the fullest? I think you need to start loving yourself first, TCL... Your inner demon is tearing you down and keeping you locked In a vicious cycle of paranoia and distrust... This thought process will make relationships impossible, and will suck any joy out of them anyway. Once you love you for YOU (and you should, you're gorgeous) you will be able to have a healthy social life. If you could see yourself the way my eyes do, you'd see a beauty that's unique, genuine and pure. Not fake like some Instagram model with nothing to offer beyond superficial looks. No. You'd see a real woman. One who's physical beauty comprises only one piece of what makes her stunning. You'd see her bontiful heart and soul... The way it shines through her like a sunbeam. You'd see the way her green eyes sparkle in certain lights and the way her radiant smile illuminates the frame. You'd see one of the most beautiful women you'd ever seen...
Word of advice, don't constantly complain about your looks at work. It's fine here on the internet, on your channel, with family etc. Doing it with your coworkers/strangers everyday is the fastest way to get everyone sick and tired of you. They're not your friends, no matter how "Nice" they are. There's always one person at the job everyone complains about when they're not in the room. Keep it to yourself or this will be you. No hate, just telling it like it is.
You will never be able to improve your way out of body dysmorphia, it will only make you feel worse since you can forever chase becoming "better". The only way out is to work on acceptance and understanding that you dont have to be the most beautiful girl in the world in order to be a valuable and lovable human being.
Wow! The reason that I clicked on the the video is to see why this pretty girl titled this video like this. You have a lot of natural qualities. Your teeth look pretty white. You have lovely hair and eyes. Your face shape and nose are good. Stay away from those people.
I don't know why you always feel so sad , I can tell you , really look beautiful even brighter than the fireflies and vibrant as full moon. I am not joking , I m dead serious.
It seems many of your "problems" are based on what other people have said to you and/or what you think other people think about you. You're giving other people more credit than you're giving yourself.
Didn’t you just do a couple videos about how you get compliments and can’t accept them? And how you attract creeps? And now, you say you’re NEVER complimented? Yeah, nah, I’m calling it. You’re probably all giggly and bubbly until you hit that “record” button, because this channel is why you only need a part time job.
@kjr8660 Vids get pretty good numbers. Her most recent post on her community page: “We did it RU-vid !! We reached 10k. The road to a billion continues 😼” Sure seems happy about her sub count!
I never got a notification 😨but anyways I have to say for some reason I felt oddly unattractive yesterday, I kept trying on my new lipstick, brushing my hair I think our minds are sometimes hyper focused on things that don't appear to be noticed by anyone but in the back of my mind I have a sneaky suspicion that it's because of my recent weight gain from my thyroid, anyways I hope everyone out there knows it's fact your heart is the most beautiful thing about you, your minds make you attractive and nothing else, without being a good person there is nothing 🦋🤎
I listen to your whole video. I responded before I wanna comment on things that people are telling you one thing you are correct these people are saying things that aren’t true. This Victorian maid, you don’t look like that as far as people saying you look old I think people would agree with me. Good people that care about you would say you don’t look a day older than 17 you look like a teenager. but you talk intelligent like somebody in their20’s. I would pick new friends.I noticed the braces that you had on previously you’re overbite Isn’t that bad anymore.Dark circles that could be a lack of sleep and you do not look old and you have a cute smile when you really trust people and what they say about you they’re not gonna be saying all the bad stuff. I’m a lot like you weak and easy and kindhearted people do take advantage of that. You have to find good people. That’ll be honest with you and not take advantage of you. That really care about you. You’ll know in your gut when you find those people.People that put you down, and laugh behind your back. Do it because they Don’t think much of them self, it makes them feel good. Put you down that’s a narcissist. God bless you. I’ll keep you in my prayers.😊
I used to smoke weed everyday when I was the same age 3 years ago and had the same delusions as you have. Some days were fine and some others like this video. Please stop taking that stuff regularly it ruins your head for real. I still smoke weed but only once every two weeks or at most once a week when there are holidays. In the beginning I completely stopped for 6+ months and it really helped with self esteem.
You do look tired but you're cute as damn button so it's hard for me to wrap my head around your "ugly" self image. I DO understand anxiety and depression among other mental health issues and I've watched enough of your content to know you genuinely feel this way. Some people are just assholes so try not to let that feed into your outlook on yourself. I get it though, once enough people show their true colors it's really hard to trust anyone even if they could be sincere.
