High Expectations vs High Standards 

ARE YOUR EXPECTATIONS TOO HIGH OR NOT HIGH ENOUGH?! Comment below a few of your Standards & Dealbreakers, I wanna know 😃♥️

6 foot, 6 pack, 6 figures...Lucifer. That hit 🤦🏾‍♀️

I remember a guy told me that me not dating a smoker was setting my standards too high😂😂😂😂😂 I had to look at him sideways

"Is not an abusive, cheating, drunk, drug head, or a criminal" 🤣🤣😭

I don’t know about y’all, but I feel like it’s easier to find women with emotional intelligence, basic life skills (being neat, cooking), attractive, and a stable job than it is to find men of the same caliber. More often than not, men date up while women date down.

“666...these girls want Lucifer” 😂😂😂

I just want a man who’s faithful to God, doesn’t smoke anything, is hard working, same morals as me and has a big heart, but even that is hard to find and I admit that I’d like a tall man 😂

You're helping so many women on their self-love journey and understanding themselves and learning about themselves. Thank you so much, we are so grateful

I'm 19 year old and never had a boyfriend, I've been told my standards are too high and that's why I haven't experienced "love" or I get laughed at because it's impossible that I hadn't had one . But in my opinion when I was younger I wasn't interested in dating/Having a boyfriend , but Currently I am. idk I have told that I need to experience life etc and test all options lol

My top priority - him being a provider because I want to be a house wife and be able to spend time with my kids, maybe even homeschool.

For my ladies reading this remember that you can have standards and if you feel like a man is not respecting that or can’t hold up to your standards. Do not lower them 🔥 you are a boss, you are meant to be valued❤️ keep loving on yourself and love will come to you ✨

Oh my goodness I hear to lower my standards all the time!! One of my deal breakers is that I don't want a smoker----it's triggering for me and the idea of kissing a man that smells like an ashtray is just not the move . I've been told so much to just "get with the program bc just about every one smokes". I work in healthcare , so I have to be mindful of the habits I do, and I desire a man whom can respect that and honor that. If they can't, they're not for me

I agree, but I don't think you are ever asking for too much when you want someone to match you. When things are mutually reciprocated I think that can be healthy. That's why I think you should spend time working on being the best version of yourself in all aspects of life. That way you can attract someone you are attracted to on all levels.

I recently told a friend what i look in for a man : loyalty, support, family orientated, kind, supportive, in touch of his emotions and financially secured. She said i am asking for too much:| but in my opinion no relationship can survive without any of these. Ladies, am i really asking for too much??

“ We are looking for someone to compensate for what we lack “. 🔥🔥🔥. I’m so glad I learned to heal and work on me instead of trying to change a man.

That's an interesting point you make about women thinking their accolades will attract a man. I've always thought you attract people who are where you are at.

Love is Realistic and not Deceptive Marry Patterns and not Potentials 🗣- Digital Bimpe

Amen! Sometimes we forget as women that men are human and they aren’t perfect. We are all perfectly imperfect. We are ourselves aren’t perfect and get too pompous. Women need to stop sacrificing good men just because they don’t check all the boxes, yet play with little boys. Like you said “ men also want a good woman” we have to work on ourselves just the same way we judge a guy. Always on point. Luv u Breeny 💛

Your standards can be as high as you want them to be, as long as you reciprocate what you require

Finally something really for me, thank you Breeny ❤️

Girl you are reading my mind... I was just wondering if My standards are too high...

You’ve made me remember a beautiful quote: “people should fall in love with their eyes closed”

PREACH!!!... Excellent Video! You hit the nail on the head... I don't care if a woman owns an expensive car, own her own house, a business, Etc. Because as a man I already have that. I want a woman that is beautiful to me, a woman that cooperates, a good companion, have good values, homemaker, family oriented, want children, has empathy, she's optimistic, understanding, & emotionally mature.

My big sis in my head is back! Please don’t ever stop making these vids. Changed my thinking completely during the first lockdown and I’m so ready for this lockdown 2.0 content 💕

Manage your expectations and you'll manage your dissapointments.

i think emotional intelligence is a must have for me. I just cannot be with someone who discounts my feelings and make me feel not heard. I know how to emotionally validate others and show empathy and I need that in my partner too. And honestly being emotionally intelligent doesn't cost a dime. It is really not too much too ask. I think I'm ready to be alone forever if I don't find someone like that

One of the best youtubers out there! Your way of speaking and delivery your content is amazing! Loved this video.

Probably one of my favorite videos, yet!! Extremely helpful, I think (once I'm ready to date) I will definitely go into it with a fresh, new perspective!!!

OMG!!! Maybe that's why I'm still single, unrealistic expectations. It's so hard to believe that we are mates. You are so wise

My virtual sister is giving the best advices. You really being the older sister ive never had.🥺🥰

Breeny, I absolutely love your videos, they're so real and genuine. your advice is amazing, not superficial or shallow level tips they're real life things we can actually take on board to help us become better people for ourselves and the people around us 💜

This is so good. You explained it extremely well and easy to understand. ❤

Breeny, your growth! Girl!! Your recent content...such an improvement from your previous ones. Not that they had issues, they were great. You are definitely moving from one Glory to another!!😍😍 Yes, previous videos were glorious and these ones even more!! You are really exuding queen, quiet comfortable energy!👸

I like how you broke down the difference between standards and expectations. I also like how you went over both sides of the spectrum (not having enough standards VS having unrealistic expectations) and deal breakers. Thank you for sharing.

Loving the Sunday uploads ❤️

Love this message breeny never drop ur standard for no one

I really enjoy your videos . Honestly you’re the best . Please keep it up . You’re amazing

Yasss I’m right on time, and loving this video so far. Keep up the good work Breeny, I absolutely love your videos and they’ve really helped me a lot throughout life and decision making in becoming a better person.

Woman you're life giving! So grateful for you! Blessings of the highest divine order 🙏🤍🌹☀️💎🕊️🌈

Thank you for clarifying this because it was well needed.✨

Love the explanation of deal breakers and expectations ❤

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🙏🏽 am glad you showed this to us who listen... you don't hear this type of advise quite often so thank sis xxx🥰

Incredible video, well explained! Thanksss Breeny, always bringing value

Wow I'm so happy to hear this today 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽😍😍😍

What a video, not a single lie told!!

OMG!!! I LOVE you!! 💖That was incredibly insightful. I've been with both average and gorgeous guys. I needed to hear this. But your perspective is so well thought out and practical. Thank you! Love love your videos!!

I love your differentiation! Really well put 👑 💎

A WORD!! 🗣️ Thank you as always, Breeny ❤️

Consistently posting now woaw I’m loving it

Just what I needed to hear Breeny. Wow I really do forget sometimes how differently men think from women. Thank you for these gems Queen 👏🏾👏🏾💛

Wowwww! So happy I came across this video! Amazing advice, thank you :)

I just love you Breeny! You’re vibe is amazing! Your my lil sis I never knew I wanted! ❤️

Breeny could you do a video about how to stop being defensive? This is really effecting my marriage and would like to change it but its like an automatic response that comes out before I can even think about what I am saying

Why do I laugh along when u laugh 😂 Breeny u were born for this for real.

Speak to us, Breeny! Preach! Men and women do not bring the same things to a relationship but what they do bring are equally important.

Breeny you shaped my life and i want to thank you so much for that xox

Love you to the moon and back👌😍 this was so helpful. God bless you

you always come through breeny !

Amazing video as always,much love and light to you!🙏🏽💞

Wait I’m 6’7 with a 6 pack earning 6 figures under 30 & mature... We do exist. Rare but we do exist now... 666??? I’m not Lucifer tho 😂. I do have high expectations though no 🧢 . I go to the gym, have style, straight teeth, masculine but also a kind person.... Shit maybe I need to lower my expectations too cuz I’m still single tho 🤷🏾‍♂️. Or maybe I don’t care about social status idk. But I’m glad it’s women like you helping women become the best versions of themselves. I watched this video to learn how women think btw

Oh my God is gooood I tell you every time you post na wa o💓🥺

Who tf said black women aren’t beautiful?? Smh she is absolutely flawless ✨😍

As a guy I would say you're spot on about the part about women valuing themselves in the same way that men do.

I love this. So good hun!!!

7:24 AMEN BREENY! I LOVE this video! And here is why..... So many of your videos are like mini classes on life. Nuggets of topics to think, ponder and possibly add to our lives. This video is a perfect example of one that many women need to take mental AND actual notes on, and then apply it to their lives. Sans your opinion on most women wanting to be married, I agree with 99.9% of how you think on any given topic. But on this one, we are identical in every way. Especially as we age, the physical and superficial mean very little. When I was in my 20's (because I have a fetish for tall men) I dated almost primarily tall guys. I was *VERY* superficial for myself and any guy I dated. But now.....not at all. Compatibility means more to me than if the guy is tall, handsome, great job and expensive clothes. I think most women come to this realization as they age, but for your younger viewers, why not teach and train your minds to thinks this way now.

Needed this. Thank you, as always!! ♥️

🥇🥇You’re THE BEST Breeny !! And you make laugh or smile so much with the faces you make 😂

Breeny this was so insightful! 💕 I can’t lie I’ve been thinking my “creds” are gonna get me somewhere 😅

Started off with what I thought would be a video about getting a man to a video about me bettering myself😊

I love this! Thank you so much breeny🥺🥺❤️

This is an amazing way to put it! I've been feeling like I can't be with the one yet because I'm just starting grad school, have a 7 year old car, can barely afford anything new lol and struggling this year especially, but this year I've been working on healing and producing fruit of the Spirit...growing with God and becoming a godly woman for my future husband and family. So I don't have all my physical, materialistic shit together, but it's good to hear that's a guy's perspective to worry about 😂😂

During the time I was growing up, I never thought finding a guy who could meet the bare standards was difficult or unrealistic, because all the grown-up men around me could do that all the time. They can keep integrity and be kind and empathetic most of the time. So I didn't even have the standards for men, because I thought finding a good man was a very natural thing. I went to different societies without the protection of understanding those rules, so I held the best expectations and no standards for others. I have already learned my lessons. But, from another side, that means I never met some creepy guy that would ruin my life and my trust during my childhood and teenage. So I am very lucky, and I am so so so so lucky and grateful that so many female influencers are posting those contents out there to let the young girls learn, which makes me feel the goddess energy is truly protecting us girls all the time. I wish you the best Breeny. Thank you for caring for others, thank you for sending us those marvelous videos, and for your help.

Please can you do a video on having high expectations vs standards with freindships?

I love this video. Some people are just delusional they won't get you.

Gosh I love you 🤣🤍👏 thank you for being the older sister i never had

If there was a way u could inject this in me....watched it three times now....Thank you Bree❤

Thank you for this reminder I love your videos 😻😻😻

That's the kind of videos I look for realistic and intelligent ❤

I really needed to hear this 😌

OMG 666...I wrote that down ... Holy smokes that is hysterical! ❤️ Thank you I needed this... I’m going to look and see if you have a video about men with kids

this vid came right on time!!

All of your content>>>>>!!!!!

i love it how ur doing this in your car

Your eye shadow color looks really lovely on you

Loving the consistency breeny! Omg such a gift thanks queen🥰

BREENYLEE!!! You almost brought years to my eyes with what you said from 5:25 to 5:44. Why can't women see this??? These things can almost GUAR-RAN-TEE that a woman will be quickly married.

Thats really helpful for me thank you breenylee 🥰😘❤

You are appreciated sis💙

Needed to hear this thank u love

Thank you Breeny ❤️ I just love you 🥰

Thank you aunt Breeny ❤️❤️

SO good! thank you Breeny🙏🏽💕

It's the consistency for me😊😊😊💕💕💕💕💕love from Uganda 🇺🇬 Africa

Thank you for this video, you give men like me hope. Xoxo!

You’re looking gorgeous Breeny 😍

Great Video 🤍 love it!

Love this!

Another great video!

Hair is ON POINT!!

Breeny i love ur hair curls😊.... You are beautiful 🔥