WHY (YOU) KEEP PICKING THE WRONG ONE 

"discern the spirit behind the complement" shataaa - not enough people do this

“Just because a guy is better than your ex, doesn’t mean he’s the best.” 👏🏾

Being impressed with the bare minimum is kinda embarrassingggggggG......guilty

The red flags at the beginning, is the reason why you leave at the end

Video suggestion: Advice to my younger self. Things you’ve learned, advice, etc. ✨💛 I’d love to hear your thoughts.

Ohhhhh yes, “just because he’s better than your ex, doesn’t mean he’s the best”🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

Honestly you’ll be a great mom

"Because I already know who I am I don't need you to tell me who I am." wow!

"6 months doesn't mean he's the one." Ehh... a lot of guys know if you're the one by like the first date. 6 months means he's wasting your time

Can you please make a video about being "too nice?" I'm always getting told that I'm too nice and people are always taking advantage of it. Like this if you would also like to see a video like this :)

When a guy really likes you, he’s very discreet Watch their actions, not their words - so easy to talk rubbish, but flattery don’t pay no bills

When you said "leave the tall guys for the tall girls," I realized why a lot of people call you their fairy godmother! Honestly, you give voice to a lot of my thoughts! And it is so heartwarming and says a lot of good things that your mother wants you to give her dating advice! You are so blessed with wisdom xoxo

I know I’m not your target audience. However, I just want to let you know if you read this. You have helped me so much. I’m going through such a hard breakup and you have motivated me and helped my spirit. Thank you.

"Your partner might be under your nose" if this isn't facts! For the longest time, I've entertained all kinds of dudes and it wasn't until this year I realized the kingdom man I've always needed has been one of my close friends for the last three years...

THIS HAIRSTYLE IS BOMB ON YOU QUEEN

Leave the tall guys for the tall girls....,. Preach 👏🏽

I would also add that connected to knowing yourself would be knowing your intention. I see a lot of people trying to fit a square peg into a round whole; as in, they expect a situationship to turn into a relationship and that rarely works. Men are great "compartmentalizers" and rarely do they transfer a woman from one category into another unless he had the intention of doing that do begin with. I remember you saying years ago, "things come easier when you are intentional." So if you intend to be a girlfriend, move that way. If you intend to be a wife, move that way. You have to move for what you want.

You have to have a healthy self esteem before going into dating. A lot of people don't work on themselves before going into dating and this makes them insecure and always meeting the wrong person. I love this content.. So much love from a Nigerian RU-vidr 🇳🇬

If a guy compliments me too much and we're not dating/in a relationship, it's too much for me. I had a guy friend who responded with beautiful after almost every reply to me. It was cute at first but then he started doing it all the time and it got annoying.

"You are impressed with the bare minimum"... A WORD!!!

YASS "Wasted time is worst than wasted money" I felt that in my soul. Always know your Worth!! And Never Settle!!

Taking a shower while I listen to her. 😊 we need a podcast.

"Be open to who comes your way but be SELECTIVE". Yes Breeny!💚

“The way my self esteem is set up...” hahaha idk why but i loved that

Just because he’s better than the last doesn’t mean he’s the best- lowkey it doesn’t even mean he’s GOOD. You’re spitting facts my love.🤞🏾

"You can change the man's clothes but you can't change the man's character." That explains everything. THANK YOU Breeny!!

This was uploaded at a weirdly perfect time..I can only assume it’s the work of God.. you look beautiful by the way

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE. Make a video on dating apps!!!! This video came at the perfect time for me and as someone who has become very reliant on dating apps to meet people, hearing your advice on them could be very grounding for me ❤️

Who else liked before watching 😃

The problem is attraction does not work via logic, but chemistry/biology which is beyond our control.

Something I learnt that someone’s intentions with you are so important anyone can be nice at the start and can pursue you but what is their intention? People end up showing that so watch and listen!

As I was watching this video this guy I used to date contacted me and it’s because I was thinking about him and if I made a mistake but hearing you talk about my value and the value a man should have let me know I made the right decision not to see him any more. Thank you so much🙏🏾💖

Sis is really preaching 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 “I already know those things, tell me something I don’t know” 😂

When you feel really drawn to someone on the first date, when you feel so much chemistry with the person and you feel like you have known them for years even if it has been like 2 hours Be really really careful. (Or run) You feel that connection with someone because they have the potential to hurt you - they remind you of someone from your childhood who hurt you. That is why you feel so safe around them, because you already know them. You don't fall in love with someone that easily, you fall in love with someone when you get to know them. Over time. The feeling of being crazy in love actually tells you that there is danger, you brain is trying to warn you but we always say "omg he is my soulmate, I feel so much chemistry blabla" Be aware ladies.

"A man that has a shitty character, ain't no fixing that" - preach sister!! 🙌👏💞

I did just that I was easily impressed by some words speaking words here not even money or anything and he turned out to be my worst mistake so far learned the hard way but I learned my lesson and that for sure NEVER again, I'll work on my self so I won't need a man to validate my existence or make me feel BEAUTIFUL

I'm a male and I can very relate to this. You never disappoint to make good and healing content, keep it up! ✨

Yes, make a video on dating apps cause at this point it’s all I got lol

Definitely agree. Most important, is remember we only settle with one person ,so run away from anything that is wrong, its not your one. Men cherish what they can't afford to lose. just try spilling water on a controller ... bruh. the passion is in them, for whats important to them. red flags are Gods whisper to run for your sanity.

I love you so much Breeny, you're really an older sister to me, you only want the best for me. No misleading or influencing bad decisions, I pray God blesses you for me. Your daughters are going to be the luckiest women. 🇿🇦

These short girls drive me crazy with their height requirements. Im 6ft and would date a shorter guy. Girls 5 ft 3in looking for 6ft and up. Stop being selfish 😂😂

Dating scene is gonna be as bad as the economy 😂😂😂

High standards and low/reasonable expectations is the result of fantastic boundaries ❤️

Breeny coming through with them cheekbones 👌

Loved this so much. Your such a high value woman. In the future can you please tell us what makes you a high value woman.

Her videos are always so uncomfortably true.. like a slap in the face really. It’s so much easier to just sugar coat everything and pretend that none of this is true 😂

You and Joyce Meyer are my favorite advice givers. Thank you and God Bless you, that's all 🥰

I really have a problem. I’ve been using dating apps as a way of meeting potential men. And these “prospects” failed. I’d love to see a video on dating apps. But yes, hold onto your standards and be patient, there is nothing like wasted time!!

One of the most inspirational youtubers I have ever come across watching these videos has been life changing ❤❤❤❤

Girl this is for me!!! im can be so needy sometimes ... and been vulnerable and easy prey... building my esteem .. God bless you

Best video you've ever done! A level of realness that is so needed and so appreciated! I hope your boo realizes what an absolute gem you are!

Love the Dating/Life Advice/Self Reflecting Talk. Im sure MANY or All definitely can relate. Rather a current or past tense circumstance✨

couldn't agree more... can't get more candid that this... great take on relationships... and "letting guard down" was the most relatable position... TY, @breenylee

Breeny is so wise! I thank God for using you

Girl yes, come through breeny

Thank you this hit home so hard. Do a video on dating apps and what should be tolerated.

Wow what a relief thanks that you showed your e-mails a while ago I suffered from you not responding to my message I took it personally, now I know you just have it too many

I could listen to her all day 🤎

You're amazing breeny you tell me the things my mom would have never told me bc of her unawareness ofc ... i love you so much i can call you my savior

Am getting wiser each time because of Breeny . Thank you so much💕

The information is so true. My ex husband was narcissistic and emotionally abusive. I described him as “my night and shining armor’ But the real person will come out soon!!!!! 😊

this is so important! when you know who you are, people cannot manipulate you

Spot-on for every sentence in every video.

I am 17 and I am so happy I saw this ❤️ ty Brenny

Since I've been watching Breeny Lee's videos my self esteem has been leveled up 😭😭 thank you Breeny Lee 💖

You are sooo gorgeous... And I appreciate your wisdom and candid advice. The world needs this right now

She speaks so much sense

The accent so smooth eloquent melodic..the message soo on point .luv u sis 💓

Oh my god, you are right on the money!! I’m currently going through an awful breakup and your videos are helping me so much. Thank you for making these videos!! You are so wise and strong!! Queen!

Man God bless you....the way you think is deep I'm officially a fan. Also, you can tell you're spiritually grounded added bonus, you got a new subscriber I really enjoy your content.

Loved this video, real as always Breeny ❤️🙏🏽 I'd love to see a video where you talk about the honesty needed in relationships regarding other females that your man may be talking to on social media (in a platonic way). Basically a video talking about honesty and transparency between couples regarding social media (instagram) and other females 😌

Beautiful as always but the message referenced a spirit of fear I cannot hang with. Options are infinite. It's all mental

This is the one 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Breeny been dropping jewels all 2020

Such a perfect timing! Thank you for always speaking the truth! I love it ✨ 👑

Breeny Lee coming with the facts in the first 10 seconds ❤️👏👏

Hey Breeny can you do a video of the insights of Karma? I would love to hear you explain and talk about it. All love ❤️ and positivity✨

Girl all your videos keep speaking to my soul! Like my subconscious voice laying it bluntly on me 😍

I am so ready for this Breeny! Your videos are so so spot on

we need that video on dating apps ,love u girl

Breeny please do the video on dating apps! I’ve been trying it for a little less than a month now and I already feel exhausted from it. Xoxo❤️

Sis is preaching once again👏

Yes we want a video on dating apps ❤

You’re videos are inspirational! I’m taking a hiatus from dating to really deal with my core issues and why I keep choosing the “wrong” men and your videos is truly God sent. God is using you to speak to many 💕

Yes Please do a video for us women who our trying out online dating and what to look for etc. thanks love ❤️

Needed this video so much oh wow, the timing is crazy! Thank you for always providing us the BEST advice and talking the realest. You are honestly an inspiration and watching your videos have helped me like you wouldn’t imagine!! You are amazing girl keep doing what you’re doing 🤍

I rarely comment but now I must thank you, Breeny, from the bottom of my heart. I discovered your channel in February when I was going through a harsh breakup and you really opened my eyes SO MANY TIMES. Right after I broke up and now too different guys with 0 serious intentions were hitting on me. But I took my time to learn myself, my values, my standards and even though I'm still struggling in facing the reality of things like my fear of abandonement mixed up with fear of committement (I'm really a mess of a 22 years girl) now I feel much MUCH better. I'm alone but I'm not lonely with God and my precious friends. Thank you again Breeny, a hug from Italy.

Where was I when this video was dropped,oh my G I have been dating narcissists for God knows when,they will give me too too much attention and then boom they ghost me.i neeeeeed to cultivate self-love and confidence oh my God.Thank you much Breeny God bless you

Can’t wait until Breeny starts her women’s ministry ❤️❤️❤️❤️ I can see it now!!

The lighting on this video is so much better! Face looking good!

Always giving the best advice ❤️ I now feel I definitely made the right decision with my ex, I had a list in things I’d walk out over and I also mentally noted the flags. Love you!

Lmaooooo at the ending , “can’t no got2be, no Dior enough etc.” 😂😂😂😂

This is the truth! Thanks for pointing this out. I needed to hear this 🔥

Breeny coming in with the facts!! You love to see it 🙌🏿🙌🏿

OMG so true... A lot of us don't ask enough questions or TOUGH QUESTIONS when dating. And we fall for lip-service and not actions. BUT ACTIONS SPEAK PRIORITIES, and CONSISTENCY PROVES COMMITMENT. Women should meet their own needs and be self-aware before getting into a relationship!

Ooooo that opening line hit me - so true

sis i really did not want this video to finish! could listen to you all day

GIRLLLLL!!!! You hit some major points! Thank you!

WOW , THIS TALK!!!!!!! I'm speachless you read my mind

Lmao like 3000 emails. It’s horrible. Thanks for sharing !

Can you do a video about the how to communicate with power? I love how you command respect. Also I'm binging your videos and I feel like a new woman, thank you for your help!